as a bisexual man who's been out for a decade, DL men are some of the worst people i've ever encountered and won't do it again. being discrete is one thing, it's completely different when you're cheating on someone who loves you or ruining your own family.
ABSOLUTELY AND THESE ARE FACTS TOLD BY YOU WHO HAS A CERTAIN LIFESTYLE! I love the fact that you Love LOVE AND SEEM TO TRULY BE SEEKING LOVE AND ARE TRULY BISEXUAL VS DL! #Honesty!
An older white lady came to My university class. I was working on My bachelor's in Health Education. She married her highschool sweetheart. She had never been with anyone other than her husband. She suddenly got sick and was told that she was HIV+. Her husband was sleeping with other men unprotected. That story still resonates with Me years later. There is nothing wrong with being gay, bisexual, asexual, heterosexual or any other sexual that does no harm to anyone without their consent. But lying and hiding a part of your life and placing someone you love at risk is a low vibrational move. This goes for straight people who cheat in their straight relationships as well.
This here is the reason I have been celibate for ever. My life, health & wellbeing come first, as I can only trust myself & not willing to allow anyone in my space. Especially in this era of apps & wanton cheating, hell to the NO 🤺⛔️📛🚫🚷❌
And nowadays in effort to help those “stigmatized” who hiv+, they advocate: they don’t even have to tell you it’s not there business as long as your taking your meds. The LGBT has gotten everything they want, if they don’t check themselves, the other sides of the extreme will answer them eventually. LGBT community as movement is becoming more and more problematic that’s why some of us stay DL we want nothing to do with an excessive political agenda. Plus most you fairies think your the “correct” gay while also talking about how it’s a spectrum n sexuality is fluid.
I jus had this situation with my ex bf last year. With proof of his account on the app and sources that messed with him telling me they had relations, him n his mom still sat up there n said it was all a lie…I never spoke to them again. To this day other ppl n talkin abt him being DL…..bc it’s true!!! N the gay guys that messed wt him r telling.
@user-jh7yg8hq9w Out of the blue my friend's husband became obsessed with backdoor intimacy. She said sometimes she would be awaken at 2pm only to find her husband trying to enter through the backdoor. My friend did not even see the red flags. Turned out he was cheating on her with men.
@@PrinceEmber323 stfu. do you literally see your fucking youtube page. shes a beautiful women and so is his bestfriend. get your white ass off my comment
For women that don’t understand DL men. A word of advice. They HAVE to have a gf or wife for it to be exciting. You are the supply to the DL experience. The sneaking around, taboo and excitement of it all is what it’s about. Without the women then they are just gay. And they can’t come to terms with that reality. Bi sexual is different than being DL. #message
DL meaning down Low? What's grinder? People need to take serious care on the internet, slippery slope. You can't unring a bell. I don't believe any of it is safe, to be honest. Do people know how many are brutally Murdered after finding friends or dates on line. I'd peel rubber the the other direction quick fast and in a hurry. He had sex from on line strange oh h*LL no. ✌️👉😲
I love that her best friend really said, “you’re not going without me.” I know some wouldn’t like it but I’m so glad she has the support. Some people are brilliant in every area but their love life. 💙
Man to me the best friend acts like she wants her and she is also way to envoled with what's going on just another woman letting her friend ruin her relationship so much so to the point that when her friend said she is thinking about going back to the guy she is trying to ruin it again that's to much
I don’t have time to cheat on my wife. My wife has been rock, my confidant, my strength, my weakness, among many other important attributes in my life.
They are 21 and 23 yrs old?? I thought they were in their mid 30s🤦🏽♀️ A person will show you who they really are by their actions. This guy is gay, and dealing with his sexuality...she's forcing him to be the man she wants. You can't give people ultimatums on their character.
I feel that Richard needs to figure out who he really is and who/what he wants in a relationship (male or female) & Airiana needs to learn to love and accept herself so that she will stop accepting less and start demanding more from her partners. They're so young, so plenty of time to get themselves together to attract the kind of love they both deserve.
This is a prime example of a low self esteem woman who will do and put up with anything to have a man. She needs to start loving herself and work on her self esteem. The man is gay and is using her as a cover up and his been telling her everything she needs to know by his action. She seems like a good person and wish her well.
I love how he’s able to speak to both parties without judgement and with clear explanation of mental and emotional pathways leading to the decisions being made. He makes everyone feel comfortable and comforted while also telling them what they need to hear. The mother energy in him is so heavy, Karamo is such a beautiful soul out here.
Same.. had he said in the beginning that he was bicurious or whatever then I would’ve made the decision for myself not to see him. Withholding information like that is just selfish.
He has an addiction that 1 woman alone cant fix. But She is a QUEEN. Shes giving me Jill Scott vibes. So beautiful!!! 😍😍😍 She will be okay and im glad she has a loyal and great friend.
So what’s the issue here??? The real issue cuz I’m confused. He’s on Grindr but supposed to be in a heterosexual relationship. We just gonna act like he wasn’t seeking men and then getting cold feet when it’s time to meet? Or does she already know his sexuality ? Is this just about cheating or is she fine with her man looking for men. 🤔😕😐
Did I just hear a 21yo say sex is the foundation of a relationship (dating) and if you take it off the table your house crumbles (and literally the whole audience shook their head in disagreement)? What does a person that age even know about any foundations of relationships?! I mean, he's only just getting started... He really has a long journey to go in understanding these things, I must say.
Let's be honest. She(23) doesn't want a man(21) who has sexual desires (same sex at that) to abstain yet she doesn't want to leave him. Draw your own conclusions but he is only sorry because he got caught. She doesn't want to be alone and she'll settle for a piece of man then none at all❣🌹
Does he? How? Like when he got the pink sauce girl to open up and show how disgusting and abusive she was to customers? Or the abuse tha karamo himself delivered to the poor girl from Allured beauty for a justified review?? I'm sorry, karamo bot- this comment ain't it. Smh karamos pr team needs better training. They're stinky
Sending love and prayer for that young man to have a quickened journey to heal from his trauma surrounding identity and receiving love. He's probably never been loved for who he is or told that his existence is acceptable. In two quintessential areas of his life, relationships and work, he seems to want to both escape and hide which is common for people told this from a young age. The closet even for people who aren't LGBTQ+ is where we all hide in the beginning, while we paint the front door to appease others and receive attention- not true love- especially when we are young and fed the message that we cannot be or express who we truly are. It perpetuates so much unnecessary suffering- and we only become aware of our suffering through being alone and gathering tools from professionals like therapists and counseling. Karamo was spot on with this one. And as far as the woman, she will be okay. She likewise has to heal from past trauma probably having to do with her father and boundaries. Like all of us strong women do, taking back our power by not playing the "forgiveness" and "he'll change" record in our minds, she'll develop stronger boundaries and therefore stronger confidence, and won't even attract this kind of man anymore.
Yall pressed af about this pink sauce lady arent yall 🤔 how about just stop watching his videos if you're that "disturbed!" It's annoying to see yall still talking about that when this video has absolutely nothing to do with it! Please go heal and move on!
Bro fr! I didnt really agree with how the episode went but yall need to chill. No one died, you dont have to buy the sauce, the tiktok girl is okay too. 😭
Thank you. I said this a while ago. It's harassment at this point. You would think these people would have the same energy for abusers but nah. They're crucifying this man for one mistake....
It's the fact that people are trying to force an apology... seems immoral to me. Apologies should come from a genuine place, not forced. But since he won't apologize or "take accountability" it's time to bully this man for making a mistake. It's really not that deep.
That was some sound advice he gave him!! I totally agree!! When you are alone, you are able to figure out who you are & what you like!! What you can take!! I’ve been single for 4 yrs by choice & I can be honest with ppl & still receive the same love!! If not more!!! Integrity is everything!! I maybe a lot of things BUT DEFINITELY NOT AN INTENTIONAL LIAR 🤥
True. But even if they were married, she doesnt owe him sex and he cant use that as an excuse to cheat 🤷🏻♀️ pretty much reveals that he cares more about sex than he does about who she is as a person if he's willing to meet up with random men at night the second she turns around 😬
The segg probably slowed up or stopped because her body was trying to warn her of this man real true sexuality people think they really cam hide stuff your partner know can feel and sense it ❤
If you deleted the video than you know what you did was wrong. I think this is something to be learned from. Acknowledge your mistakes and apologize for them 😐.
If y'all haven't gotten it by now, the man is not going to apologize. Since everyone is so close to Alli and is concerned about how she was treated, ask her how she feels about the situation. Is she still even bothered by it or if she was bothered by it from the beginning. Heck he could have apologized to her privately. So the next time she pays Y'all bills or call Y'all ask her about it. Y'all are so worried about other people problems. If you don't like Karmo or don't support him, how about just stay off his channel. It's done and over with and it's getting kind of old for the people like myself that comes to his channel just for entertainment and know that in no way by Karmo apologizing is going to make me sleep better at night.
@@user-Tina8462 Nobody cares about idiots who support a man who uses his platform to wrongfully shame someone who had valid criticism of an overpriced product that could potentially harm people. Though I'm only here to see the funny comments 😂 dudes a dbag though
You’re missing the entire point. This man is virtue signaling and demanding accountability from people who did nothing wrong when HE can’t take accountability for his extreme wrongdoings. It’s about principal and about us wanting someone with power to do this again, to take some damn accountability and learn from it.
When you found out he was on a website that’s of different sex why ask him to change who he really is? Not your tea move on, because when someone shows you who they are and you don’t agree with it get out that relationship and save yourself painful future heartaches….
Ariana you are so beautiful inside and out. I know it’s hard to have good self esteem, I struggle too. But with therapy and finding self love you will find a man who actually deserves you. ❤❤❤
I see that it's been burried under the many positive comments how you gaslit an honest woman with good intentions as a bad person and you still won't even address your mistake you should really do better.
Exactly. They are trying to suppress all of us who want him to take accountability for how awful he was. Deleting the video, pretending like it never happened and now suppressing us who want accountability is making it soooooo much worse!
Ms. Airiana!!! Mama!!! Your energy and your confidence exudes A True Queen. His energy and your energy dont even match. And when it comes to your friend you have a real one. Let him go kick rocks with open toe shoe And you go and live your BEST LIFE 🫴🏿💕💕💕💕
As a gay man, DL men disgust me! The amount of messages I get from men with a wife and children talking about "Its complicated" no its not yall make it complicated... There are signs ladies and fellow young gay men, he will never be with you or love you, its all about the sex, so do not go wrecking homes and ruining families.
So let me get this straight the relationship started off with them being physical then your religious beliefs kick in all of a sudden now you want to change the dynamic with someone who was happy with the way things were and you’ve broken up with him because you were stuck on your ex and yes cheating and lying isn’t the right move but damn give him some slack
First .. lemme say this if we can’t hold hands or lay down with each other in the same bed if we can’t hold hands if we can’t kiss if we can’t show affection at all in a relationship I don’t wanna be in it .. I really don’t
21 & 23 and y’all going through this 😞. Sis just leave if your not happy, your both young enough to explore what’s out there and find your individual happiness for many years to come
People are bashing Karmo for defending the pink sauce lady. Talking about she could have killed someone. But people need to take accountability for even buying that garbage. Why would you buy something off line from a complete stranger. You don't know what was in it, where or when it was made. I don't even like getting things from a restaurant if the people or the business doesn't look clean. I don't like using my debit card on line or giving non legit business my info. She is not a real chef or business owner but y'all gave her y'all money, no one forced people to buy it. They did it from their own free will. Yes she was wrong but if people use common sense sometimes she wouldn't been able to push the garbage without proper knowledge of how to run a business. Y'all say that karmo should have done his research but so should the people that bought the sauce. As a child y'all should have learned not to put everything in your mouth. It looks like pink throw up. Oh I forgot because it was the latest fad it was ok to buy it!! That's what wrong with this world, social media is taking over people's minds.
@@user-Tina8462 the point still stands. He did a show on it. He didn’t get the reaction he wanted so he took it down. That’s dishonest. If he stands by his work he should put the video back up and release the lab results. He was the one saying the pink sauce wasn’t all that bad so why did he take it down? Stand by your work or release a statement. Don’t gaslight your viewers.
@@zandrulousmakesmusic I am copying and pasted my response because people has been saying the same thing for weeks and nth has changed. If they don't like him or don't support him stay off the channel, it's that simple. I guess me saying she was wrong, saying she had no knowledge of how to run a business and that her product looks like pink throw up is defending her, oh ok, sorry about that. Let me clear it up, she was wrong when she made the sauce and on the show. I think her sauce looks like throw up and i don't understand why people bought it because she is not a legit business owner, she wasn't fda approved and was making the crap in her kitchen. Tick tok blew her up and Karmo is just getting started with his talk show and someone wrongly advised him to put her on without knowing the full background of the story. When he realized that she was so hated it was to late and he took it down. He did side with chef phi to much. But that was is right to. Everyone has a right to their own opinions. You can't get mad because Ally chose to sit there and tolerate the b.s. if she was bothered by it or disagreed she should have left or spoken up. I have not on any of my comments depended any of them. The only reason I commented about it now because it has been almost 3 weeks now and I am sorry I still like Karmo and I watch him and want read and respond to the comments about the Episode that I just watched. Not comments trying to force a man to say something that he obviously not going to or mean.
Love how KARAMO subtly squeezed in that he needs to love himself without lying about sexual orientation, because they glossed over it, the entire episode
They are not looking for the same things. She wants a companion and he is looking to be sexually fulfilled. They're not compatible. Being bisexual aside, they have different needs.
Basically he and the pink sauce lady ganged up on this poor lady who made a ticktock questioning the legitimacy of the sauce because she found glitter in it And instead of the pink sauce lady apologizing and telling everyone what she can do to make it right she told the lady that she "wasn't special" and her and the host basically told the lady it wasn't right what she did (even though she's a customer with a legitimate concern) and shamed her in the show
Karamo literally told a girl who wrote a nice review, that she should take this as a learning moment. Hope karamo can take all this hate and use it as A LeRnInG MoMeNt. God I hate this man
In April 2004, J.L. King introduced millions of Oprah Show viewers to the phrase "Living on the Down Low." During the show, J.L. opened up about the dirty little secret of men who have relationships with women but have sex with other men. Throughout his entire dating life and eight years of marriage, J.L. said he had sex with multiple male partners. Sometimes, these undercover encounters happened in his own home while his wife slept upstairs. When Oprah first met J.L., he denied being gay, but over the past six years, he's changed his story. "I have accepted the fact that I am a black, gay, proud man," he says. "Fear is what kept me on the down low. The fear of losing my family. The fear of losing my children. The fear of hurting my parents. The fear of losing my relationships with cousins and extended family and the church." After meeting some strong, gay men who gave him a "gay crash course," J.L. says his opinion of homosexuality changed. "[They] taught me and showed me that who you sleep with does not define who you are," he says. J.L. also wants to make it clear that the term "down low" is used a lot in the black community, but it applies to all ethnic groups. "It's not just a black thing; I want to be real clear about that," he says. "Down low is not a black thing."
as a bisexual man who's been out for a decade, DL men are some of the worst people i've ever encountered and won't do it again. being discrete is one thing, it's completely different when you're cheating on someone who loves you or ruining your own family.
ABSOLUTELY AND THESE ARE FACTS TOLD BY YOU WHO HAS A CERTAIN LIFESTYLE! I love the fact that you Love LOVE AND SEEM TO TRULY BE SEEKING LOVE AND ARE TRULY BISEXUAL VS DL! #Honesty!
Well said ❤
what is DL?
@@ay-shaamasih9270 down low
@@ay-shaamasih9270 DOWN LOW… sexuality…
An older white lady came to My university class. I was working on My bachelor's in Health Education. She married her highschool sweetheart. She had never been with anyone other than her husband. She suddenly got sick and was told that she was HIV+. Her husband was sleeping with other men unprotected. That story still resonates with Me years later. There is nothing wrong with being gay, bisexual, asexual, heterosexual or any other sexual that does no harm to anyone without their consent. But lying and hiding a part of your life and placing someone you love at risk is a low vibrational move. This goes for straight people who cheat in their straight relationships as well.
Scary stuff
This here is the reason I have been celibate for ever. My life, health & wellbeing come first, as I can only trust myself & not willing to allow anyone in my space. Especially in this era of apps & wanton cheating, hell to the NO 🤺⛔️📛🚫🚷❌
@@Probity100 wehhh sorrow
And nowadays in effort to help those “stigmatized” who hiv+, they advocate: they don’t even have to tell you it’s not there business as long as your taking your meds. The LGBT has gotten everything they want, if they don’t check themselves, the other sides of the extreme will answer them eventually. LGBT community as movement is becoming more and more problematic that’s why some of us stay DL we want nothing to do with an excessive political agenda. Plus most you fairies think your the “correct” gay while also talking about how it’s a spectrum n sexuality is fluid.
VERY LOW VIBRATIONAL!!!!! Excellent word choice.
Finding the Grindr app on her boyfriend's phone is a red flag and the reason to terminate the relationship. It is not something you negotiate.
Facts!!!
I jus had this situation with my ex bf last year. With proof of his account on the app and sources that messed with him telling me they had relations, him n his mom still sat up there n said it was all a lie…I never spoke to them again. To this day other ppl n talkin abt him being DL…..bc it’s true!!! N the gay guys that messed wt him r telling.
Playing devils advocate I downloaded it before thinking it was a regular dating app I’m straight
@@B12335 Nothing wrong with experimenting as long as you have an open relationship with your lovers.
@user-jh7yg8hq9w Out of the blue my friend's husband became obsessed with backdoor intimacy. She said sometimes she would be awaken at 2pm only to find her husband trying to enter through the backdoor. My friend did not even see the red flags. Turned out he was cheating on her with men.
Karamo makes his guests feel heard & safe. I love his energy.
It’s too beautiful too watch
Me too I love him and I love he always ask can he have a hug he's so respectful
I love him! He is always respectful! He comes across as very caring and genuine.
Except for the episode with the pink sauce lady
He has his days smh but for the most part, yea
Girl, you are beautiful. Being loved is the bare minimum; you need to be respected, appreciated, valued, desired and understood.
This comment tho ✨✨✨✨🙌🏽
This is the best comment this is so true. We are missing the rest of the components to good love.
Yes!!!
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉yasssshhh
she is such a beautiful black women. the hair, the body, the face, ugh even the way she talks. gorgeous!!
L comment.
@@PrinceEmber323 stfu. do you literally see your fucking youtube page. shes a beautiful women and so is his bestfriend. get your white ass off my comment
Just like yours
You know who isn't beautiful? Karamo
@@tricem7400 you mad pussy?
Airiana came strutting out looking like Jill Scott in Why Did I Get Married Too? I know that’s right!👏🏾🔥✨
Pink sauce only in comments pls
Shut...UP! 😂🤣😂 But you sho'll right.
She did...I'm like did he say they were 21 and 23? At least on this show they look so much older and tired..
@@TanyaScorpio karamo looks 60 with that egg
And did 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
For women that don’t understand DL men. A word of advice. They HAVE to have a gf or wife for it to be exciting. You are the supply to the DL experience. The sneaking around, taboo and excitement of it all is what it’s about. Without the women then they are just gay. And they can’t come to terms with that reality. Bi sexual is different than being DL. #message
What does DL mean??
@@heze20 down low. They’re gay but it’s basically a secret
@@heze20 awww
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DL meaning down Low? What's grinder? People need to take serious care on the internet, slippery slope. You can't unring a bell. I don't believe any of it is safe, to be honest. Do people know how many are brutally Murdered after finding friends or dates on line. I'd peel rubber the the other direction quick fast and in a hurry. He had sex from on line strange oh h*LL no. ✌️👉😲
I love that her best friend really said, “you’re not going without me.” I know some wouldn’t like it but I’m so glad she has the support. Some people are brilliant in every area but their love life. 💙
Man to me the best friend acts like she wants her and she is also way to envoled with what's going on just another woman letting her friend ruin her relationship so much so to the point that when her friend said she is thinking about going back to the guy she is trying to ruin it again that's to much
Best friend’s husband is living life. He doesn’t have this annoying woman around.
Bisexuality and fluidity is a real thing. He truly needs to find himself, and this relationship isn’t it.
My only thing is that he should have been verbal about his attentions from the start
I don’t have time to cheat on my wife. My wife has been rock, my confidant, my strength, my weakness, among many other important attributes in my life.
❤️❤️
As she should be salute king 🙌👏
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love the statement however the time part take that out
Add? That’s why you married her
I love her friend she is here to protect her friend and fight for her 😂👑👑
No baby girl No!!! Finding Grindr is the ultimate deal breaker, I would be turned all the way off and over him at that moment🤦🏽♀smh
he admits to sleeping with them
Absolute deal breaker
Exactly. That's beyond low self esteem, because WHAT?!
Instant turn off. This mofo is creeping behind your back with MEN…..WTF he could have brought her any disease. Eff that 😒😒
Finding any dating app is a deal breaker, LOL.
They are 21 and 23 yrs old?? I thought they were in their mid 30s🤦🏽♀️
A person will show you who they really are by their actions. This guy is gay, and dealing with his sexuality...she's forcing him to be the man she wants. You can't give people ultimatums on their character.
Same 😂😂😂😂😂 I was surprised when he asked age
Me too!
Who is her God' she said she is a Christian ' sexc is wrong before marriage
Weight makes ppl look older sometimes and their outfits
@@Ask_Me-er7gethis is the most stupid comment I’ve seen in my life 🤦🏾♀️
Young man doesn't know himself yet. Self love is quite the journey.
exactly
Quit trying to define the journey of ppl you don’t know.
Apply this narrative to straight men who also cheat js
They are both reflections of each other. She doesn’t know herself yet either.
I am a gay man , I believe Ariana deserves better .
She seems like a good person and she deserves someone who has similar good heart as her.
so does he!!! she seems very controlling he's dealing with his sexuality he's only 21 he dont know what he wants.
You need to come to JESUS today
Red flags galore!!!
@@deronreed2945Sorry, but “figuring yourself out” isn’t an excuse to cheat on your partner. Lol, yall crazy
@@deronreed2945That isn't an excuse. Especially not in this day and age where homosexuality/bisexuality is much more acceptable.
2:45 that crowd "Hmmmm" KILLED ME.
karamo is so comforting, imagine growing up with 2 parents who show care like he does. id feel amazing everyday
21 and 23?! Why is Gen Z out here looking like they are in their 30’s?
I’m mind blown was not expecting those ages!!
That’s what I’m saying! They look older than me and I’m 42 😮
Time is flying fast these day's!
@@lesley5380 I guess so.
@@FlowerGrl20 😂
In their 40s
If I did buy my own ring, I wouldn’t tell anyone…and this friend shows why. It’s embarrassing
When she walked out I was like ms. Jill Scott!! She’s so pretty!! She deserves a better man then him.
Y'all be telling every cute kinky haired brown skin woman she look like Jill Scott. I got that so much or the lady from Jason Lyric.
I feel that Richard needs to figure out who he really is and who/what he wants in a relationship (male or female) & Airiana needs to learn to love and accept herself so that she will stop accepting less and start demanding more from her partners. They're so young, so plenty of time to get themselves together to attract the kind of love they both deserve.
This is a prime example of a low self esteem woman who will do and put up with anything to have a man. She needs to start loving herself and work on her self esteem. The man is gay and is using her as a cover up and his been telling her everything she needs to know by his action. She seems like a good person and wish her well.
This 👏🏽
I love how he’s able to speak to both parties without judgement and with clear explanation of mental and emotional pathways leading to the decisions being made. He makes everyone feel comfortable and comforted while also telling them what they need to hear. The mother energy in him is so heavy, Karamo is such a beautiful soul out here.
Airiana if you see my comment run don’t get with this man don’t ruin your life he will never change let God find you the right man
Thank you so Much God bless you❤
Did I just miss the part addressing whether he is gay or not ?
Then we both did!! This is stupid!!
Right
He said he had sex when the friend brought up grinder😂😂😂😂
I think the obvious was left mostly unsaid. Bigger issues were addressed.
@@VelvetLovesU bigger issues maybe….but the title should have been something else rather leaving the viewer lacking what they clicked for
I can relate to this storyline. I was strung along by a guy who is attracted to other biological men and trans women. It's super painful.
Very painful!
@@veebee777 I internalised it a lot.
🫶🫶🫶
Same.. had he said in the beginning that he was bicurious or whatever then I would’ve made the decision for myself not to see him. Withholding information like that is just selfish.
@@leakypussy9813 I blamed myself for years. Thought there's something wrong with me and I'm not enough.
I'm sorry you went through that.
Hugs 🫂
She is STUNNING… like… babe?!! You can get anyone you want, a man who will spoil you and treat you like the queen that’s inside of you. Let her out! ❤
21 and 23? I’m in shock. Thought early 40😢. Besides that I love her friend. She a real one❤
He has an addiction that 1 woman alone cant fix. But She is a QUEEN. Shes giving me Jill Scott vibes. So beautiful!!! 😍😍😍 She will be okay and im glad she has a loyal and great friend.
I can see some Jill Scott for sure!
It's the Grinder app and him cheating on there that concerns me the MOST! Ain't no way I'm staying after those details are revealed smfh
And grinder is the ghetto … the ghetto ghetto 😂
So what’s the issue here??? The real issue cuz I’m confused. He’s on Grindr but supposed to be in a heterosexual relationship. We just gonna act like he wasn’t seeking men and then getting cold feet when it’s time to meet? Or does she already know his sexuality ? Is this just about cheating or is she fine with her man looking for men. 🤔😕😐
Men are more like a fetish to a lot of dl men
All of it. 😅
Facts
Ghe issue is her low self esteem. Cause why TF is she still with him?
As someone who has gone through this. Emotionally it’s a lot in more ways then one. It’s an emotional rollercoaster
u in ATL
Did I just hear a 21yo say sex is the foundation of a relationship (dating) and if you take it off the table your house crumbles (and literally the whole audience shook their head in disagreement)? What does a person that age even know about any foundations of relationships?! I mean, he's only just getting started...
He really has a long journey to go in understanding these things, I must say.
Mhm sounds like someone who is addicted to sex and it ties in with his cheating for sure. Sex is important, but it isn’t everything.
Exactly right
Let's be honest. She(23) doesn't want a man(21) who has sexual desires (same sex at that) to abstain yet she doesn't want to leave him. Draw your own conclusions but he is only sorry because he got caught.
She doesn't want to be alone and she'll settle for a piece of man then none at all❣🌹
This should be pinned!!!
Well look at her. People take what they can get
@@5822huron She's pretty and just because u don't like plus size women, a lot do and she doesn't have to settle.
@@5822huronare you his man or something? She's a beautiful black woman. Come correctly or don't come at all.
@@5822huron What you mean look at I am she Looks fine too me
That last bit of advice Karamo said is a word. He speaks to peoples’ souls and really opens them up for healing to begin! Thanks for this episode ❤
Does he? How? Like when he got the pink sauce girl to open up and show how disgusting and abusive she was to customers? Or the abuse tha karamo himself delivered to the poor girl from Allured beauty for a justified review?? I'm sorry, karamo bot- this comment ain't it.
Smh karamos pr team needs better training. They're stinky
@@CrickBritt well I agree with the comment above! Can’t make everyone happy.
@@alexajay6896 sux to suck a d*ck that don't like you back ig?
I love that he hugs his guess and give them good advice.
I am shocked that this man has many options.
Screaming. I said the same thing 😂😊
You are shocked that he has options but you’re not shocked that she does? They are the female and male version of one another.
😂😂😂I'm like who tf he even cheating with ? Is he paying ? I mean he not ugly but cmon😭
6:27 so random but girls are so cute the “YES QUEEN” 😭😭 I love women ☺️☺️🎀
The more that you love and take care of yourself the more keen your senses are to weed out bs.
They don’t look 21 &23 to me 😂😂😂
At all. They look like they’re 35 - 40 😢
Sending love and prayer for that young man to have a quickened journey to heal from his trauma surrounding identity and receiving love. He's probably never been loved for who he is or told that his existence is acceptable. In two quintessential areas of his life, relationships and work, he seems to want to both escape and hide which is common for people told this from a young age. The closet even for people who aren't LGBTQ+ is where we all hide in the beginning, while we paint the front door to appease others and receive attention- not true love- especially when we are young and fed the message that we cannot be or express who we truly are. It perpetuates so much unnecessary suffering- and we only become aware of our suffering through being alone and gathering tools from professionals like therapists and counseling. Karamo was spot on with this one.
And as far as the woman, she will be okay. She likewise has to heal from past trauma probably having to do with her father and boundaries. Like all of us strong women do, taking back our power by not playing the "forgiveness" and "he'll change" record in our minds, she'll develop stronger boundaries and therefore stronger confidence, and won't even attract this kind of man anymore.
Yall pressed af about this pink sauce lady arent yall 🤔 how about just stop watching his videos if you're that "disturbed!" It's annoying to see yall still talking about that when this video has absolutely nothing to do with it! Please go heal and move on!
No she deserves an apology he isn’t taking any accountability
Bro fr! I didnt really agree with how the episode went but yall need to chill. No one died, you dont have to buy the sauce, the tiktok girl is okay too. 😭
Girl that's what I said, they are obsessed lol.
Thank you. I said this a while ago. It's harassment at this point. You would think these people would have the same energy for abusers but nah. They're crucifying this man for one mistake....
It's the fact that people are trying to force an apology... seems immoral to me. Apologies should come from a genuine place, not forced. But since he won't apologize or "take accountability" it's time to bully this man for making a mistake. It's really not that deep.
That was some sound advice he gave him!! I totally agree!! When you are alone, you are able to figure out who you are & what you like!! What you can take!! I’ve been single for 4 yrs by choice & I can be honest with ppl & still receive the same love!! If not more!!! Integrity is everything!! I maybe a lot of things BUT DEFINITELY NOT AN INTENTIONAL LIAR 🤥
Ariana is gorgeous and fabulous! She can do way better! ❤
He's only 21, he's still finding himself, I know everyone is different but what do you expect,!!
Ariana is fabulous I love her hair, I also love how her best friend has her back.
Girl a relationship is built on the foundation of God.
AMEN
Amen
Amen
unless these people are married and or in a committed relationship they owe each other nothing..
True. But even if they were married, she doesnt owe him sex and he cant use that as an excuse to cheat 🤷🏻♀️ pretty much reveals that he cares more about sex than he does about who she is as a person if he's willing to meet up with random men at night the second she turns around 😬
Honesty is always owed .
She's stressing over that? 😳 there really is a man shortage out here!
2:35 she is awkward karamo was fake laughing and all😂😂 im doneeee ..he said you lookkkk great 😅
I just love how level headed Kamaro is
Karamo gave her some excellent advice at the end. Because she is looking for more than his genuine apology.
Good advice ...."you don't have to be less to be loved"
They’re in their EARLY TWENTIES 😮I thought they were at least 30 something 😂😂
The segg probably slowed up or stopped because her body was trying to warn her of this man real true sexuality people think they really cam hide stuff your partner know can feel and sense it ❤
Karamo is picking up those subscribers quickly. I'm here for his success.
His channel is riding off the hate he is accumulated. Pretty ironic that he humiliates someone on TV and gets "fame". Our world loves evil people 😔
Shandell I get what you are saying. It is Karamo or a reflection of the world. It isn't all negative.
If you deleted the video than you know what you did was wrong. I think this is something to be learned from. Acknowledge your mistakes and apologize for them 😐.
If y'all haven't gotten it by now, the man is not going to apologize. Since everyone is so close to Alli and is concerned about how she was treated, ask her how she feels about the situation. Is she still even bothered by it or if she was bothered by it from the beginning. Heck he could have apologized to her privately. So the next time she pays Y'all bills or call Y'all ask her about it. Y'all are so worried about other people problems. If you don't like Karmo or don't support him, how about just stay off his channel. It's done and over with and it's getting kind of old for the people like myself that comes to his channel just for entertainment and know that in no way by Karmo apologizing is going to make me sleep better at night.
@@user-Tina8462 Nobody cares about idiots who support a man who uses his platform to wrongfully shame someone who had valid criticism of an overpriced product that could potentially harm people. Though I'm only here to see the funny comments 😂 dudes a dbag though
You’re missing the entire point. This man is virtue signaling and demanding accountability from people who did nothing wrong when HE can’t take accountability for his extreme wrongdoings. It’s about principal and about us wanting someone with power to do this again, to take some damn accountability and learn from it.
@@user-Tina8462 “so the next time she pays y’all’s bills or calls y’all, ask her about it” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 PERIOD
I don’t think people care fr lmao
When you found out he was on a website that’s of different sex why ask him to change who he really is? Not your tea move on, because when someone shows you who they are and you don’t agree with it get out that relationship and save yourself painful future heartaches….
Ariana you are so beautiful inside and out. I know it’s hard to have good self esteem, I struggle too. But with therapy and finding self love you will find a man who actually deserves you. ❤❤❤
Shittt what app she download to see all that deleted stuff 😂
Hell I want to know too
He gave those young people some beautiful, sound advice.
21 they look in there late 30s 😳
If you found out the man is gay, then why are you trying to make it work? Did she think she could change him from gay to straight?
Karamo is simply the best, that's why i had to subscribe. Thank you Karamo for helping all of us heal!
I see that it's been burried under the many positive comments how you gaslit an honest woman with good intentions as a bad person and you still won't even address your mistake you should really do better.
Exactly. They are trying to suppress all of us who want him to take accountability for how awful he was. Deleting the video, pretending like it never happened and now suppressing us who want accountability is making it soooooo much worse!
Ms. Airiana!!! Mama!!! Your energy and your confidence exudes A True Queen. His energy and your energy dont even match. And when it comes to your friend you have a real one. Let him go kick rocks with open toe shoe And you go and live your BEST LIFE 🫴🏿💕💕💕💕
As a gay man, DL men disgust me! The amount of messages I get from men with a wife and children talking about "Its complicated" no its not yall make it complicated... There are signs ladies and fellow young gay men, he will never be with you or love you, its all about the sex, so do not go wrecking homes and ruining families.
So let me get this straight the relationship started off with them being physical then your religious beliefs kick in all of a sudden now you want to change the dynamic with someone who was happy with the way things were and you’ve broken up with him because you were stuck on your ex and yes cheating and lying isn’t the right move but damn give him some slack
First .. lemme say this if we can’t hold hands or lay down with each other in the same bed if we can’t hold hands if we can’t kiss if we can’t show affection at all in a relationship I don’t wanna be in it .. I really don’t
They look old as hell 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I thought they were all in their early 40s
😂😂😂😂I did too I said dang 23 and 21
This fool hasn't taken responsibility for his actions 😠 getting everybody mad period
21 & 23 and y’all going through this 😞. Sis just leave if your not happy, your both young enough to explore what’s out there and find your individual happiness for many years to come
Airiana looks like Da Brat
I was thinking the same thing & looking for this comment. lol.
These are 2 young people learning what they want and don’t want. Another good lesson
You may as well go on ahead and put that pink sauce video back up and own it.
People are bashing Karmo for defending the pink sauce lady. Talking about she could have killed someone. But people need to take accountability for even buying that garbage. Why would you buy something off line from a complete stranger. You don't know what was in it, where or when it was made. I don't even like getting things from a restaurant if the people or the business doesn't look clean. I don't like using my debit card on line or giving non legit business my info. She is not a real chef or business owner but y'all gave her y'all money, no one forced people to buy it. They did it from their own free will. Yes she was wrong but if people use common sense sometimes she wouldn't been able to push the garbage without proper knowledge of how to run a business. Y'all say that karmo should have done his research but so should the people that bought the sauce. As a child y'all should have learned not to put everything in your mouth. It looks like pink throw up.
Oh I forgot because it was the latest fad it was ok to buy it!! That's what wrong with this world, social media is taking over people's minds.
@@user-Tina8462 the point still stands. He did a show on it. He didn’t get the reaction he wanted so he took it down. That’s dishonest. If he stands by his work he should put the video back up and release the lab results. He was the one saying the pink sauce wasn’t all that bad so why did he take it down?
Stand by your work or release a statement. Don’t gaslight your viewers.
@@user-Tina8462 WHY ARE YOU COPY AND PASTING THE SAME REPLY TRYING TO DEFEND HER?
@@zandrulousmakesmusic I am copying and pasted my response because people has been saying the same thing for weeks and nth has changed. If they don't like him or don't support him stay off the channel, it's that simple.
I guess me saying she was wrong, saying she had no knowledge of how to run a business and that her product looks like pink throw up is defending her, oh ok, sorry about that. Let me clear it up, she was wrong when she made the sauce and on the show. I think her sauce looks like throw up and i don't understand why people bought it because she is not a legit business owner, she wasn't fda approved and was making the crap in her kitchen. Tick tok blew her up and Karmo is just getting started with his talk show and someone wrongly advised him to put her on without knowing the full background of the story. When he realized that she was so hated it was to late and he took it down. He did side with chef phi to much. But that was is right to. Everyone has a right to their own opinions. You can't get mad because Ally chose to sit there and tolerate the b.s. if she was bothered by it or disagreed she should have left or spoken up. I have not on any of my comments depended any of them. The only reason I commented about it now because it has been almost 3 weeks now and I am sorry I still like Karmo and I watch him and want read and respond to the comments about the Episode that I just watched. Not comments trying to force a man to say something that he obviously not going to or mean.
@@user-Tina8462 it isn't about the support. No one should do something like that to someone and get away with it.
Love how KARAMO subtly
squeezed in that he needs to love himself without lying about sexual orientation, because they glossed over it, the entire episode
Cheating with someone is one thing but cheating with a man is like a thousend
1. Grinder??? 😮
2. He not even a catch
3. Three chances and the first was the grinder app??
4. Why you want him ?!
So what’s the app they downloaded to see the deleted stuff 😅 asking for a friend
They are not looking for the same things. She wants a companion and he is looking to be sexually fulfilled. They're not compatible. Being bisexual aside, they have different needs.
PINK SAUCE!!!! THE DRAG CONTINUES!!!
Yaaaaaasss!!
Run. Disease… you’re going to share him with other men???? Wake up!!!
Karamo hit the NAIL!!!!!💙
He's not lying to get love, Karamo. He was lying to hide the fact that he was cheating!!!!!!!
BRAAAAAT you and LisaRaye, y'all have another Sister🤣🤣🤣
I had to go to the comments to see if anybody else was getting the The Bratt Vibes
Definitely
I see it
Forgive Ariana, don’t forget and lose yourself in him.
What happened with link sauce I missed that episode
Basically he and the pink sauce lady ganged up on this poor lady who made a ticktock questioning the legitimacy of the sauce because she found glitter in it
And instead of the pink sauce lady apologizing and telling everyone what she can do to make it right she told the lady that she "wasn't special" and her and the host basically told the lady it wasn't right what she did (even though she's a customer with a legitimate concern) and shamed her in the show
Karamo literally told a girl who wrote a nice review, that she should take this as a learning moment. Hope karamo can take all this hate and use it as A LeRnInG MoMeNt. God I hate this man
Yeah he took the video down and decided to pretend it never happened.
In April 2004, J.L. King introduced millions of Oprah Show viewers to the phrase "Living on the Down Low." During the show, J.L. opened up about the dirty little secret of men who have relationships with women but have sex with other men.
Throughout his entire dating life and eight years of marriage, J.L. said he had sex with multiple male partners. Sometimes, these undercover encounters happened in his own home while his wife slept upstairs.
When Oprah first met J.L., he denied being gay, but over the past six years, he's changed his story. "I have accepted the fact that I am a black, gay, proud man," he says. "Fear is what kept me on the down low. The fear of losing my family. The fear of losing my children. The fear of hurting my parents. The fear of losing my relationships with cousins and extended family and the church."
After meeting some strong, gay men who gave him a "gay crash course," J.L. says his opinion of homosexuality changed. "[They] taught me and showed me that who you sleep with does not define who you are," he says.
J.L. also wants to make it clear that the term "down low" is used a lot in the black community, but it applies to all ethnic groups. "It's not just a black thing; I want to be real clear about that," he says. "Down low is not a black thing."
Love this show Karamo. 💕💕💕
I’m shocked these people are in their 20s ..... I thought they were in their 30s
Early 20s aswell 🙆🏽♀️
Her “friend” is doing wayyy too much. Checking his phone?! Girl what?! If you gotta check you already know anyway.
Did you type this comment before the end ?
She is beautiful omg!!!
I wish I had a friend like that 🕵♀️
Shes so beautiful and seems like such a kind spirit.
Out of everything, the first thing he brought up was putting a down payment on a ring TF.
Man we all need a friend like this lady.
I was shocked when she walked out with natural hair. It is beautiful and rare! Stood out, captivating.
She is already tired even before starting to talk about her besties situation lol
Grindr...oh hell no