Why Do I Hate Myself? How To Stop Hating Yourself (The Truth About Self Hatred)

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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @cannibalcatgirl
    @cannibalcatgirl ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The hard part is when you know your organic self is so annoying and intolerable by others you have to spend all energy suppressing it. When I’m depressed I’m quiet enough to not bother people. The second I start to feel happy or energized people find me off putting. I have to stay stoned or sad to be tolerated. I like my authentic self. But it would be at the cost of being totally isolated

    • @shallowwatersoriginal
      @shallowwatersoriginal ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is so me...>_< ❤

    • @samuelepelisseri
      @samuelepelisseri ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Think about what made you so “annoying and intolerable”. Chances are that’s not even the real you but another level of conditioning affected by something that happened to you in the past

    • @blue_sky_bright_sun7599
      @blue_sky_bright_sun7599 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      that or… boldly express it and through that you’ll find your tribe. where you truly can be as you are and they’re there for it exactly because of that. because of you as you.
      if i’m a bird and i try to fit in with the fish, how is that gonna go?

    • @destroyraiden
      @destroyraiden 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or get new people they don't like you. You need to go inside and deconstruct that it's not you that's too high energy or too annoying it's the people your around deconstruct their programming they gave you and then either boundary them or leave them.

  • @ElGordo2497
    @ElGordo2497 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You really described perfectly how I feel everyday. Like I'm a piece of shit trying to be acceptable to the world.

  • @jludgero
    @jludgero 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You are, hands down, THE BEST at what you do! Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for everything you have done for us! Big hug Julien!

  • @Texas80
    @Texas80 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This fear of liking a girl goes way back to elementary school for me. Being teased for liking a girl at 6 years old and still carrying it with me. So glad to be working on this.

    • @mobaby1979
      @mobaby1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing with it?

    • @Acalmujannahmalaysia
      @Acalmujannahmalaysia ปีที่แล้ว

      Same as me...

    • @Kandyrose0108
      @Kandyrose0108 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had been teased at 8 like this for liking a guy which was just a friend. I'm a woman

  • @stevedoyle782
    @stevedoyle782 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    RSD instructors never age I swear its the kale or something

    • @davejones5640
      @davejones5640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's the jizz. He's so gay.

  • @chris24009
    @chris24009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for giving all this stuff out, we want a lot more from you and never to stop.

    • @chris24009
      @chris24009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have no words to thank you Mr. Julien

  • @aarongonzalez4376
    @aarongonzalez4376 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video showed up in my subscription box at the perfect timing. I was at a networking event last night it was amazing but i felt like a piece of shit because i felt like i said something and took things too far and because of that, i hated myself but the next day the person i said the joke to liked my picture on instagram and it proved to me i was wrong, i was in my head, i was experiencing the affects of social conditioning. this video came at the perfect time, it couldn't have come at a more perfect time. thanks julien :)

  • @SiimLand
    @SiimLand 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Saw this live in Helsinki. Shit was even more epic than that. "I have this question about text game..." Those who know, know.

    • @peeteri95
      @peeteri95 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha

    • @Sealwithwificonnection
      @Sealwithwificonnection 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Siim Land I second this. don't leave us hanging bro

    • @darko.ristanovic
      @darko.ristanovic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I wasnt there but I guess they went to some deep topics and then suddenly one dude asked about Text Game and they started laughing like maniacs.

    • @SiimLand
      @SiimLand 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's that RSD occult magic.

  • @vanessanellyn
    @vanessanellyn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video! I feel like I'm one step better at understanding myself.

  • @namitahandoo95
    @namitahandoo95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't dislike yourself because if you love others not the people out of your family but within family or may be out of your family so try to love yourself for him/her.

  • @thenotorious5178
    @thenotorious5178 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In a ruthless business, Julien is the most ruthless

  • @Fabian-qt7pr
    @Fabian-qt7pr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    after the subconscious release i truly believe in Julien and his experience. by far the Best product out there. thanks for your Content julien!

  • @derfettemoechtegern
    @derfettemoechtegern 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow julien it's so interesting in wich direction your teachings are going. I've been following rsd for years now and its funny how your development is parallel to the book "primal scream" i have read and that i am currently doing. While in the beginning i viewed this whole pickup thing just as a guidline how to get laid it still didn't change anything internally as you also described in your last videos. And watching this video i had to smile because it's the same thing that arthur janov describes. And the funny thing is that if you can relive and process past childhood trauma and become your true self you suddenly don't have anything that holds you back for example depression, anxiety etc. I am still at the beginning of my journey but it is already so powerful because all the things for example like being happy as a default or living in the moment are a byproduct of the healing process without training for it. The aim is to connect to your inner child and live happy. So i wish you best luck and thank you for your work and i hope you reach many people :)
    greetings from germany

  • @RaXaZ73
    @RaXaZ73 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why someone bulling! There is absolut no reason for. We are basically all cut from the same cloth, but like RSD is teaching: to master Consistency is the difference. When u first try to seek out to understand, than to be understood. People distinguish not anymore between fun and work. The work is in the long run fun! Litteraly you are instant authentic as just as you stop holding parts of yourself back and say Hello to little people in the big big world!

  • @AhilianFreestyle
    @AhilianFreestyle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much Julien your program is amazing and changing my life every day. Much respect bro youre literally changing the world hahahaha

  • @muzwot9603
    @muzwot9603 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This vid's message, re never suppressing or filtering your opinions is contradictory to in others where the importance of always being socially conscious and congruent is underlined.

  • @armandomlb498
    @armandomlb498 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey julien I love you and the content you are putting out. It's making more sense with every new video. I'm definitely gettin TM!

  • @vladeye
    @vladeye ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Portuguese subtitles OMG 😲

  • @KamalJyotwal10
    @KamalJyotwal10 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Why people disliking , these are the people who are too afraid to question their subconscious

  • @themensworkshopp
    @themensworkshopp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just typed into youtube, julienhimself self hatred... i catxh myself often self attacking.. this was helpful.

  • @usaisbeastly
    @usaisbeastly 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You really woke me up, thanks Julien that was genius.

  • @destroyerinazuma96
    @destroyerinazuma96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Does he talk about "letting go" at the very end? The video seems familiar.

  • @peterborinski
    @peterborinski 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is so funny, seeing scenes like 5:00 and thinking about how the media portraiyed you in the scandal. Like how can the most mysoginistic man in the world stand in front of a blue mandala and doing a guided meditation :D
    Awesome content, love your evo- and revolution ;) Your free tour speech last year in amsterdam changed my life! Thank you for that :)

    • @peterborinski
      @peterborinski 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha yeah. But all mainstream media sucks, fox is equally bad :D

    • @fornamnefternamn8024
      @fornamnefternamn8024 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      peterborinski u

  • @peeteri95
    @peeteri95 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for the Freetour Julien and Max, I wish that Finnish goverment would hire you to teach these things in our school system to get rid of our centuries worth of pain haha. Keep on rocking!

  • @amyamiss9667
    @amyamiss9667 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hvahahah, I LOVE the guided release demo. The "old" Julien to this is such a transition it's just hilariously amazing. Way to go man, spread the awareness. Knowledge is power.

  • @AlexSaheli
    @AlexSaheli 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    what's the outro track?

  • @andrijaa1567
    @andrijaa1567 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    whats the name of the intro song ? anybody ?

  • @markishbasedgod5251
    @markishbasedgod5251 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    it's almost like the answers to my problems come out right on time lol, recently been feeling like I have to be more in tune with social norms because I don't feel okay to be myself around people, like I'm not good enough or like I'm not what people are looking for, or that I can't provide a better experience/interaction than other people can.
    But it baffles me because i'm good at most things I just don't know why social circles and coming out on top is such an issue to me. Online i'm king but in real life I know i'm probably not but I feel like a nervous twitchy edgy wreck. I mean I still feel like I'm somewhat on top of things, I just feel like i'm missing that swagger or style that I can look back at myself and be like "Damn, that's a bad ass dude right there."

  • @walteregana9489
    @walteregana9489 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My guy julien

  • @craig256
    @craig256 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo this was sick. Anyone know any good, longer versions of the type of guided meditation in this video (no ones for helping you sleep or relax etc) ?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Craig Yep! In Transformation Mastery: julienhimself.com/self-help/

  • @Ondrik7622
    @Ondrik7622 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thats a fucking good point! I remember when I was a child you always tryed to avoid contact with girls because you feared your friends could say or better "childish" repeat .... loves.... and you turn red maybe start to cry trying to denie it haha

  • @kareemmohammed5270
    @kareemmohammed5270 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    amazing healing words

  • @israelg99
    @israelg99 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha! it was all serious and then Julien turned to the whiteboard at 2:39 drawing some random incomprehensible shit I was like is this a joke? anyway, nice job, the content is golden as always :)

  • @justinallingham1674
    @justinallingham1674 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    How and where can I go to a live event? Are there any of these in Australia?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not in Australia, but here's the schedule: transformationmasterylive.com/ ;)

  • @mahlatseish
    @mahlatseish 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Julien please explain how can we apply this to hustle, game and health so we can get better results?

    • @ThePhysicsConnection
      @ThePhysicsConnection 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think some of the videos with Owen go deeper into that

  • @davidcort2214
    @davidcort2214 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    :) this got me gleaming :) thank you for your greatwork

  • @johnroy6504
    @johnroy6504 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome vid!!

  • @pratapdutta9855
    @pratapdutta9855 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    man seriously luv u. u chnged me . thank youu

  • @whatupmitch
    @whatupmitch 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    fucking game changer. Julien is the reason I got into rsd, I first saw his manifesto and I was like "this kid is destined for greatness" and that VK invisible game thing, kinda boring

  • @1973Washu
    @1973Washu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Try living someone who will make passive aggressive jabs about how worthless you are and how they are so much better than you several times a day, your self-esteem will be eroded away to noting and self-hate will become your new normal.

  • @Harryx74
    @Harryx74 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So depending on a wing is situational confidence

  • @aneitawoolery3840
    @aneitawoolery3840 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love your voice

  • @peterbrennan393
    @peterbrennan393 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice info

  • @karenmial3997
    @karenmial3997 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @JulienHimself I'm gonna buy Transformation Mastery, but I have some questions first (I'm a guy btw).
    1. For the 1 on 1 private skype coaching, how long will you coach me? 6 months? A year? I'm mainly buying this program for the personal coaching
    2. Will you coach me to achieve the permanent results I intend to have with girls? To effortlessly attract and keep girls anywhere I go?

    • @arbividz
      @arbividz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karen Mial transformation mastery is not a pickup program. You should look into ten game or pimp for that

  • @zlickDude
    @zlickDude 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    holy shit you were in finland?! fffuck missed it!

  • @JoShsFITNESSnFUN
    @JoShsFITNESSnFUN 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I really don’t know which rsd program to buy lmao. Really want to study one.

  • @multimillionaire2744
    @multimillionaire2744 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude I fucking love you man

  • @semp223
    @semp223 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truly dive into your subconscious and let go of all that resistance. Recommend ingesting psychedelics.

  • @styler05myler
    @styler05myler 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Julien,
    have you ever tried DMT or read up on that topic?
    Would like to know your thoughts

  • @brewmasterwayne
    @brewmasterwayne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So to sum this up, basically we are supposed to go around with no inhibitions acting drunk all the time. If I’m in a movie theater and want to just start yelling and throwing my popcorn at other people it is fine, because I am just wanting to express my feelings and emotions.
    Walking up to random people and hitting on them IS inappropriate. I know I wouldn’t like it if some random person just came up and started talking to me, so I wouldn’t subject anyone else to that.

    • @Gabriel27360
      @Gabriel27360 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wayne Trapp be aware of the situations

  • @suffocatingfool
    @suffocatingfool 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I watched this and I still hate myself. Now what

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ---> julienhimself.com/transformation-mastery/ ;)

    • @fornamnefternamn8024
      @fornamnefternamn8024 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Frederic Beigbeder lol

    • @bhatkat
      @bhatkat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Get prepared to hang in there for the long haul. Been there, used to be chronically suicidal, I read a few different sources, did some therapy, got on board with stoicism through the cognitive behavioral approach and when I got the depression under control (mostly with meds) I did the smartest thing ever, I kept going find new projects like shutting down the COMPARISON GAME. Was doing it so much I was hardly aware I was doing it. Now life is better than I thought it ever could be regardless of a low budget.

  • @o0Desimere0o
    @o0Desimere0o 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love the guitar jingle lol

  • @RobbieNewell
    @RobbieNewell 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just want to stop saying it ocd wise

  • @JolinHard
    @JolinHard ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🔥

  • @canbozkurt8811
    @canbozkurt8811 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Julien, i am so excited about Transformation Mastery, really i am but i want to ask you something (i know that you are reading all comments) that i am the student guy from Turkey 1 dollar coast like 4 liras in here so it is so expensive to buy your product can you do something like making price to their money? (like instead of 200 dollar 300 liras) about people who lives abroad and if they've cheap ass money to compare to dollar. Even though if you can't i am still enjoying and being thankful for your free content. Peace

    • @allsam18
      @allsam18 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      can bozkurt download free from torrent and send money to julien , or buy with 3 friends together ?

    • @canbozkurt8811
      @canbozkurt8811 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      no dude i believe you dont get it. It is like instead of 300 dollar make a price like 400 liras or something or zloty whatever you use in your country.

    • @TheUltimateHacker007
      @TheUltimateHacker007 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +can bozkurt Stop begging

    • @canbozkurt8811
      @canbozkurt8811 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ovrayt dude

  • @fatboi9463
    @fatboi9463 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every Day I cry cuz its something wrong with me I play to much,I laugh to much I really want to die please I need help

  • @Marshil0
    @Marshil0 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice

  • @hugoantunesartwithblender
    @hugoantunesartwithblender 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Come to Portugal julien. I bet you never been here

  • @1tuffprincess22
    @1tuffprincess22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Feed Both Wolves

  • @harmbomm2590
    @harmbomm2590 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This explains the self loathing psychology of the liberal/left wing

  • @muskot666
    @muskot666 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fucking love this man

  • @onelove4714
    @onelove4714 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh lord,he talking to me

  • @mystertman8573
    @mystertman8573 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you think finnish people are worst in their shells than other people around the world? Because I'm finnish and I think that.

  • @driptcg
    @driptcg 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    dude ive been a fan for a while, but seriously wtf is up with that title? why not something more positive like "how to start loving urself"?

    • @addictedtonothing23
      @addictedtonothing23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Math Pirate
      because he wants to speak to your subconscious mind. the fact that you critisizing him for the title is the resistance of your subconscious. Embrace it fully and get used to take action no matter if your deepest fear gets alert

  • @SlayerFoxX
    @SlayerFoxX 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    cool

  • @anithamukeshimana4287
    @anithamukeshimana4287 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is this guy?

  • @Vestu
    @Vestu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HE WAS IN FINLAND?!?!?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep! You can see my full schedule here: transformationmasterylive.com/

    • @Vestu
      @Vestu 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome! Thanks. Transformation mastery is superb! I didn't know I was still able to cry. I thought I was "dead inside" or something. Well now I'm starting to see what was always in the background. I admit I was skeptical, but that's some ground-breaking stuff.

  • @hullupunainen
    @hullupunainen 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    He refuses to say more than he feels

  • @jitubhaskar9822
    @jitubhaskar9822 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you tube is more concern for me than my psrents

  • @AlexSaheli
    @AlexSaheli 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    pa pa papapaaa tum tum pa pa parapa tum tum :D

  • @AdamJee923
    @AdamJee923 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The truth :)

  • @Skullflowerz
    @Skullflowerz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Julien is a Fashionista. very well dressed I love the Ghastly Monotone colours.

  • @allsam18
    @allsam18 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @michaelpsellos2560
    @michaelpsellos2560 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Social conditioning on steroids ahahhahahahahah

  • @shivamsuri2963
    @shivamsuri2963 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fu*k Owen! Julien's the real Tyler Durden!
    Ps. No hard feelings Owen, I still love you.

  • @steveurk3
    @steveurk3 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good advice but wtf is Julien wearing 😂😂