SINGLE Mom CAN'T Accept That Men DON'T Want Her! (DELUSION)
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She fails to grasp the difference between "not having a problem getting men to bed me" and "having a problem getting men to commit to me"
Very true, she used milf as an example 😂😂
Honestly ... on all of these shows they need LARGE SIGNS with standard sentences:
- *you are talking in EMOTION / FEELING* (which is wrong, but the text needs to be short to make it readable)
- *you confuse "SLEEPING WITH" with "RELATIONSHIP"*
- *PROVE IT ... instead of just CLAIMING IT!*
@@Muck006 Um, is English your primary language....if so, could you put your comment into more comprehensible text. You seem to be talking in EMOTION/FEELING, thus the rant.
@@believeit1234his comment was fine, I don't know what your problem is...🤷♂️
Dating A single mom is not my idea relationship
She’s confusing men wanting to take her for a ride and seeing her as a wife or even longterm partner…
And a OF 304. It,s like a rent a bike. All men made a ride.
Like a doorknob, everyone gets a turn 😂
Like a car, you drive it a lot you add a lot of miles 😂
If that were the case why are there so many stepdads
@@shaynabobayna1723 Men aren't totally unwilling to date single moms, obviously, but by and large the preference is towards childless women.
I also wonder how many men who become stepfathers had previous children. Every man i know who became a stepfather already had his own child from previous relationships.
My dad became a stepfather after me, my best friend's stepfather has a son, and one of my cousins has a stepfather with 2 previous children. So that's 3 for 3 on the stepfathers i know, and i feel like at that point the guy will let it slide a little more because he's also asking the woman to become a stepmom.
The best match for single parents is another single parent.
And I say this as a divorced dad.
Also, these women are confusing a man dating you for sex vs dating you to eventually get married.
Exactly!
Agreed, both parties are experienced with "the bad" and can go about it with understanding, unlike being with someone who hasn't, but are presumed to be understanding of the plight.
Totally agree
Finding a man and finding a husband are two totally different things
Very based take.
@@bootdownthedoorreality
"I have no problem getting men I want" - Single Women who can't keep a man
Didn’t Mia Khalifa post a TikTok saying that same thing but she can’t get keep a man lol
Well I've keep mine for two years still going 🤩🤩🤩
just because they will sleep and hang out with you, they R not MARRYING you!!! They do not want to spend their paychecks on YOU and your Kids!! It comes down to MONEY!!! besides, if these men would and could be truthful, 95% of you women look sound and acts like Slutes!!!!
They are using men's standards of mating success.. which is fking.. their standards are long term mate with loyalty and resources aka marriage to a successful man who provides.. doesnt cheat... IA hot
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She's conflating men having a fetish verse a man wanting a relationship. With 80% of women filed for divorce. I wouldn't consider a single mom.
I have 3 milfs, they came to me.
I have 2 rules, no relation, and don,t get pregnant. And i am no chad. 2 of them are best friends.
They know my silence,
No one even mentioned that if you date a single parent, you start out and will remain a lower priority throughout your relationship.
That’s always the case when you have children, they are your biggest priority
You fall second to your kids in marital relationships (not that it’s right)
Well, if “priority” is what you’re after, you’ll either never be married or you’ll have many divorces in your future… that’s some craaaaazy phrasing
@flyfish697 Being a priority in your relationship is a problem? Tell your wife that she's not as important as something else and see what she says. If you're in a long term relationship and have a kid, you're somewhere in that dynamic. If you're in a relationship with a single parent, you are not. As a single dad, no woman I date is not going to be the same priority as my kids
You'd have to be hell of an insecure and needy person to expect to be a priority in general.
A single mom on onlyfans, yikes.
eww
2 red flags
Who is traditional. But doesn't or hasn't done traditional things. Its like
Hey Paul. Are you gay?
Paul: no man, in a heterosexual. I mean I have sucked a few grizzies in the past. But that was before I had kids and a family. Yakno?
yup
Rip kids
A single mom is the worst backup plan there is. Would rather be by myself.
Sexual attention doesn’t men relationship attention.
yup
Gentleman, never date a single mother. I learned that the hard way
Early 90's Sonic the Hedgehog: "It's NO good!"
Sorry, was the first thing that popped into my mind upon reading this. . . . My mind was ruined decades ago. 😆
@ButcherGod another 90s reference works here lol, "ya gotta learn about fiiiiire safety!"
I would agree . I respect that the woman has to put their children first, but there is usually a baby daddy you have to deal with , and yada yada
Generally a terrible idea.
There is no joy in life, and "we/us" is very distorted... basically lacks the base to construct a good relationship. It can work in rare cases, but generally it will be a very bad decision.
That pool of men who want to settle down with kids want said kids to be THEIRS, not someone else's baggage.
I'm hitting 59 in a week, and the dating pool is extremely limited. Assuming I was looking (and I'm not), I'd date a woman with adult children (like mine) and want no more. When I was divorced in 2004, it would have been a deal-breaker on multiple levels.
In my age range, the pool is limited to three types of women:
1. Young women with daddy issues. I don't want to be Daddy 2.0.
2. Women so crazy they've never been married. They can usually be identified by the massive number of tattoos they have. They're usually really great in the sack, but too crazy to be in a LTR with.
3. Divorcees who've had one or more bad marriages. They have so much baggage that they basically need therapy, and I don't want to be their therapist.
Been there. Even if the children are grown up there is still plenty of family drama to deal with. And if the candidate has a couple of divorces, added to it a considerable body count with lots of baggage and damage unresolved, then forget it. The more the red flags the more you should avoid it from the get go. I don't care about the pluses when the minuses are overwhelming. There is a reason why these women are single in perpetuity. Might as well be detached and go full monk mode.
@shmoopiebear well, in this, I take my cues from this guy:
"There comes a time in a man's life when he realizes that he can't fall in love again, and he knows that it's time to stop."
- _Montgomery "Scotty" Scott, Star Trek_ 🖖
@@SYLTales: He was talking about starships.
Or alcohol.
@@MKDumas1981 trust me, at my age and dating pool, it still applies. 🙂
@@SYLTales Word. Maybe that's why the actor hated William Shatner in real life. Shatner was gigachad. Haha.
OBTW, one of my X's was an aspiring therapist and life coach. Let that one sink in for a second.
People searching “milf” on adult sites doesn’t mean men want to date and marry women with kids 😂 some young men have fantasies of older women. And a lot of women confuse male attention with intention. Just because men will entertain you and sleep with you does not mean a man wants to settle down with you and marry you!
MILF is an age range, not a reproductive status.
304s cannot distinguish between sexual interest and relationship interest.
'Oh, lots of guys search for milfs on pornsites, so that means lots of guys want me'... the delusion is real!
Bang on! 😂
@@gumdeo: ...or just don't care. Attention is attention to these mid chicks.
She lost every argument as soon as she said she works for CoRn company.
When I was single, I wouldnt even date single Moms.
Number one, the reality is, its very easy to manage your body and not get pregnant; pills, IUDs, diaphragms, Alluvial Fans, Monica Lewinskys etc.... It showed me irresponsibility.
Second, the drama it introduces; split holidays, co-parenting schedules with ex\baby daddy, was just something I didnt want to deal with.
Met my wife at 28 and got married at 31 (later than most), but here we are 22yrs later and have a GREAT family, with our own kids. Would not rewind and change my life for anything....
"It takes two to have sex, step up and man up". Yes, but only the woman can take an after morning pill, have an abortion etc. There is NO recourse for a man AFTER the fact. Only women can babytrap, it's that simple. So men, wrap it, don't let it out of your sight beforehand, wash it out and bin it tied up if you don't want to ruin your next 18 years. The women? "I know he didn't want a kid but I REALLY wanted one, so I thought he'd come around". Fuck off.
Soo what do females do when there husband and dad to the children get killed in war?
Guess your one of these guys that just had a easy life never being to war but let other menn handle the hard life, just so you now can sit on youtube and be a smart as.
I don’t think she can comprehend reality of anything. Period.
I've known men who have dated single moms and it did not work out real well for them. Before I was married, I stayed away from single moms.
Being a single mother in the first place signals bad decision making skills. As they either didn't choose a person who will commit to them or stay with them, or their bad decisions have led to the man they chose running away/disappearing/getting in trouble. Not counting being a widow obviously.
@@AEnder-xj8vwYou know that dads can die, right? So single mom with dead husbanda because they went to war is bad at making decisions mean while menn now sitting at youtube playing smart as.
@@AEnder-xj8vw also, men (and women) can change once a child enters the world. Two years into my ex relationship, everything was good. When the baby came, he turned abusive. I tried for another 4 years because of my traditional values. But it got too much and I had to leave. My now fiance has had no problems with my two children - it's all about respect.
And before anyone questions why I had two children with an abusive man, he was abusive in all ways. You can read between the lines.
Wife?!?!?! Forget dating.. Who's wifing them?. Of course men will "sleep" with them.. But who's partnering them..?
"I have no problem getting the men that I want."
Silence and looks from every single person.
Shes single. That says it all right there. Dudes hit it and quit it. Get real 😂😂
there are 3 sides to dating moms. 1) you know they "put out". 2) you know the choice she will make if you get her pregnant either on purpose or accident. 3) you may be a provider for her children, but almost never have "authority" over her children because you are not their "dad/father". men avoiding marriage with single mom's is biological, investing your resources into another man's children. and most mom's that want a man, are not mainly looking for love, they are looking for help.
Right and the amount of single mothers who left their baby daddy/ husbands , who legitimately had an abusive man , are few and far between. If she didn’t stick with the first guy then if you knock her up you should already know her track record.
Never Again. She want to be the number one priority and you will never be the number one priority.
@@allenmciver1888shitty way to look at that. I'm a man that tells women all the time "you'll need to be ok with my kids taking first place, all the time." So I just give them the same
That is a shitty way to look at it, bc a genuine woman that wants a man to love her kids, will have no problem with them being first or vise versa a man who has kids would always put they're kids first, y'all are thinking of it with toxicity and drama in-between in a healthy relationship, that wouldn't happen
@@catalinamartinez5634 the problem is, so many people are damaged or "traumatized" from past relationships and rarely actually "heal" from them, especially women who are always gassed up and always blaming men for everything and absolving themselves of any responsibility... the chance to move forward is nil. the only chance for a real relationship with women is before they are so damaged is to date them before 25. and even that is low.
One assumes she knows what 'MILF' stands for, does she not? The word "marry" doesn't feature.
As a single dad that has my son all the time I call bull crap on the women that say “I like dating dads.” Now I have had women reject me the moment they found out I had a kid whether they have had kids or not.
You're an outlier. There are quite a few women who like single dads, especially if the kid or kids are older a.k.a.more independent
@@marcuswalker6764big facts after my son was born the mother left and a year later I had my daughter with another lady. She left too obviously but the kids are here and I'm happy and still get ladies
Not going to lie, I have(independent kids) but I wouldn't date a Dad,especially with young kids.
@@marcuswalker6764 id say it depends on a few factors though, age, location and situation, in this day and age there are more women who will see a guy with a kid as a hinderence to their lives and will be asking the question to themselves of where's the mom? And what can he do for me if he has to prioritise his kid over me And will answer it themselves more oftenly negatively the women on the pannel proved this when they answered no to dating a single dad a women in her 20s and early 30s are less likely to want to date someone with a kid same as any guy, mid to late 30s and on wards they are more likely to give it a chance but will then they complain about the exact same things that guys complain about when dating single moms, e.g not a priority, always canceling because of their kids lack of intamicy due to the kids always being there yes once older the kids arent so much of a factor but this tends to be for those in their mid 40s onwards if you're 35 with a 3 or 4 year old you are not going to have an easy time dating majority of the time,
I've heard of and seen more relationships of single parents fail then have worked out and while they have a variety of different issues theres always one common issue through out them all and thats a lack of time to spent alone together e.g attention on them and having the time to actually get to know each other in person,
Yeah you will find both men and women who this isnt an issue for but i would argue that when you're younger those are the execptions to the rule these exceptions become the rule as you get older due to the fact most people by the time they are 40 have had kids so to disqualify people who also have kids makes no sense
But i will agree that its easier for men to date as single parents than it is for women but that doesn't mean its easy for them to maintain a relationship its not all about the getting into a relationship can they keep it and maintian it majority of the time no they can't
@@marcuswalker6764 Women like single dads who are successful and doing well.
I don't think you can use the fact that MILF is a big topic that searched on porn mainly because that's more of a fetish and not something they are looking to marry so you might get a lot of guys asking you out or wanting to date you but it's probably mainly for sexual reasons and not for proposal purposes
It basically means curvy
Single moms are for a good time not a long time.
Milf chasers are hit and quit types.
A single father does not bring the same levels of complexities that single mother's do. Never the same.
Yes because moms do all the work with child rearing. They do all the hands on child rearing tasks
@@mysticluvbug1797 right because you are all so independent but when reality kicks in you realize that so called independence is just your delusions.
@@mysticluvbug1797that statement is the furthest from the truth that it could be
@@user-zv2gx9tf8r I live it 24/7 Bud and have seen it with relatives, friends, neighbors, acquaintances, people I’ve observed in the community, ect. The list could go on and on. Moms do the majority of the hands on child rearing and nothing can change my perspective. I live in the south so there could be a geographical component to this, but I don’t think so…
Because men have less responsibilities in the home life, and isn’t that an issue? If 50/50 custody was more common, more people would seek out single mothers in particular. Other than that, what complexities are there?
She's so delusional and completely convinced herself that she's not lower value. It was pathetic to watch her and the women at the table try and cope instead of telling her the truth.
It's a shame that many people see single moms this way. There are a lot of good women out there with kids working good jobs. I know a bunch of people that had kids young and it didn't work out and they got married later to good men. They are even active in the kids sports and things. Most people get child support for the kids from the dads. Even if not the case if a women is working and contributing then once married you share all financial responsibilities one has like student debt etc. what about all the single fathers out there. Would Brian ferl the same about women not wanting to marry a man because he has a kid. They are paying child support most of the time which is a big chunk of money that is lost in the new marriage. My brother in law is probably the best husband and father i know. He had a kid young and it did not work out with the mother because she was a nut and cheated. He was a better candidate than most men without children for a husband because he is a great guy. He got married and had two more kids with his wife. What about all the singke moms that lost their husbands with young kids and they are not dingle by choice. They don't deserve to find someone and be happy after lising the kids father. I don't think a single mom doing only fans is a great example of what is out there as far as single moms go. There are women that leave abusive relationships to protect themselves and their kids and are single parents. Should they just stay and get the crap kicked out of them so they are not single parents. All the blame can not only be put on the woman. People viewing single dads differently than single moms is a problem in society.
Well one of the reasons why men think this way began in 1991 with court tv, we now have televised on YT courts and men can see for themselves the misery of family court or divorce court and the joy of child support hearings where men get raked over the coals and get to see their kids for one weekend in 4 and a Wednesday thrown in for good measure, if they are not ill and if the mom isn't playing the deny access to the kids because you have a new girlfriend and she's not happy that you moved on.
Basically we don't want to go though any of the above aggro with a single mom.
Simp alert, they prove, they divorced. Emotion damage, red flag. Just for fun when the kids are at dad,s. They can,t be trusted
I have one of three, i have a boyfriend now. So ok fine we are done right. Still every 14 Day,s i will drop by for a few hours. She call,s it a girls night to her simp.
@@rtfischall if she is a single mom they aren't your kids so divorce court and custody battles don't have anything to do with you. They would be her kids before she met you. I'm just saying single moms are looked at badly or differently while single dads are praised for being present and a good father which they should because they are their kids too. This is why when you have kids you make damn sure it's with someone you want to stay with and are married to.
@@charliegordon2266 you have missed the point, we can now see the events which led up to a woman being single mom, how she got there, we didn't have that before, think of it like a warning label on food packages or an advisory notice not to travel somewhere.
If you don't think the trauma and drama of the baggage of courts isn't going to have any impact on a ltr, long term relationship then well we will have to agree to disagree and just have a nice day. Right I'm off to watch the baby red panda eating.
Ok go marry these single moms 🤷🏾♂️
If I date a guy and he tells me he is most attractive to me because I’m a mom or have kids, or he is pushing to meet my kids, I see that as a huge red flag. Saying as a single mom is hard because I refuse to put my kids in a situation that could potentially lead to them being abused or hurt in any way. Bringing strangers around your kids is completely irresponsible and selfish! It’s a proven fact that children are 29x more likely to be abused if there is an outside stranger in the home with them! Stop saying if you’re a single parent. Just stop! You are no longer the most important person in your life! That child is! Grow the f up people!
Some dudes are genuinely into a woman, even if she has kids and don't always have ulterior motives. It's rare... but they are out there.
True but the majority of men that are single and no children ain't looking for a single mom. Period
They’re in for a lot of drama and nonsense
@@Anonymous38572that’s often true
"You let him hit it raw"
Over here according to govt figures,, we have 2.9 million single parents, 90% are single moms, hold on to your beer, its was 1.8 million 2 years ago....
the numbers are telling that not only do men not want the single mom package long term, men have finally woken up to the realization its not worth the aggro till her kids are 18 out of the nest and away from their wallets.
that is just disgusting!
@@monicacarolina6480 oh it gets worse, I left it out but if you look at the percentage of single moms out of all family types in the UK its 23%. 1 in 5.
They only believe the truth in their own head. That,s wy 95% is single. No man want a girl with a kid. Only to smash,
@@rtfischall almost 1 in 4...
@@gumdeo Shush you are making it sound worse, yah its bad especially if you expand the prediction graph to 2026.....
😂😂😂😅
Single mother’s are bad business preposition .
A loosing all the way around.
Investing in someone else’s kids .
This single mom question is hard for Brian because he can't imagine having to share the woman's attention with anyone else even a child.
Dating a single parent, regardless of gender, is a pointless dumpster fire. There’s this idea that single parents are more “mature” due to the fact that they’re raising another human but this could not be further from the truth. There is no benefit (to the non-parent) to dating a SP. Alternatively, the SP only benefits from dating someone without kids. They date some who can prioritize them and their kid(s), they get a free babysitter/provider, and they date someone who is open-minded and caring enough to give a chance to someone who brings little or nothing to the table. Respect yourself and stay far away from a SP.
I will never take wife with kid from another dude !👍 Just to be clear !😅
Woman will all add qualifiers to avoid directly answering a question that would require them to vocalize anything that would lower their "value."
These people have no idea what anecdotal evidence is.
This mom is comparing a sexual fetish behind a computer or device to real life.
A single mother teen mom is not a milf. There are big differences between them
@@pimpnick4920 Didn't say the word MILF and or would I
Exactly…a man enjoying the ‘milf’ category online just means he enjoys the dynamic of watching an older woman with a younger man…it doesn’t mean he necessarily wants to date/marry an _actual_ single mother 🤷♀️
"Whatever" you want to tell yourself lady. lol
Guys who want to settle down are more discriminating, not less. We have more rigid standards and preferences for someone we commit to than someone we just sleep with.
I agree
I love how these girls are trying to tell a man what men want lol no dudes first choice is to date a woman with kids... You are his last choice and if he could get ANY other girl without kids he would pick her.
These women like all of them confuse willing to hook up with actual romantic interest.
I dated a single mom...twice. Yep, I learned the hard way. Never again...widows excepted.
As someone who is now married to a man who had a 2-year-old at the time that we met with the mom present, that was hard. Lots of stress involved and the difficulty of trying to work through the 3rd parent dynamic and role. I can completely understand why people would not want to enter a relationship when a child is present. It can be challenging.
I’ll take a single mom on some dates. I’d never DATE a single mom. There’s a difference.
why??
single mothers almost always will "netflix and chill" without ANY date.....
why waste the time and money??
Single man here. I diont have any desire to date a single mom. If it happens it happens but it is not my idea relationship.
Practice only
Most searched because it's a fantasy. But in reality as soon as I complete shaking hands with the sheriff, I close the window and delete my history 🤷
Just watched this dating show dude has 6 kids by 3 different women and said he wouldn’t date a woman w kids.
Now that was wild but it’s just in their nature to not want another man to have a say.
In nature, it's common that the next male removes the kids of the previous male. To focus the mothers attention on his kids. Highly illegal in human society these days though.
Keep coming back to this comment the next time you wonder why you are single
@@dm_1236Shut up simp boy
That's some animals instincts but we as sentient beings should never consider this. That other child is still offspring of the individual you are supposedly in love with. They could not have ever known their father or what a father even is supposed to be. They could grow to consider you their father and love you just like your biological children. I feel bad for children who don't have a positive father figure in their life especially their formative years it's heartbreaking. It's how we get messed up teenagers and adults.
@@grimsgraveyard3598 Humans are animals too, the very reason you're attracted to a certain person is than you've deemed her state of being (which is of course in large part influenced by her genetics) as favorable to breed and make children with. You don't love someone in a sexual sense just because you like them, no, it comes from base human instinct. And because of that, raising someone else's children keeps you from being able to support more children of your own that you'll make with that person. Simple as.
@@grimsgraveyard3598we get messed up adults because of moms and the courts kicking Dad's out of the kids lives, and because of bad, non-existent parenting by single moms
All the women happy to marry a man with kids,
you should really think about it from the kids POV.
The "evil stepmother" trope is a trope for a reason.
I had a stepmother after my mum died from breast cancer...
and even though she wasn't overtly evil, like the Hansel & Gretel step mother, she was more like the Cinderella step mother.
.She was definately biased to her own kids. Mothers cant help that.
But with women, it all comes out sideways, pass aggressively. They are never straightforward with stuff like this, like men are.
My sister and I were systematically excluded, picked on, shamed, gaslit, punished, and eventually evicted.
First, from our bedrooms (we each got moved to respective attic spaces, to give our bedrooms to her kids, because of... _"reasons"_ that she cooked up somehow.
Within the first year, StepM had convinced my Dad that my sister was trying to "split up the family" (oh the projection!🙆♂️), and to send her to boarding school, 12 hours drive away. She was 13. My sister spent her entire adolescence coming-of-age years alone, in another state - that might aswell have been another universe.
She only came home in school holidays, to work all day, every day on the farm with me.
I was 11, and with my sister now gone, I became the resident "whipping boy" thereafter..and was picked on over the next few years until at 17, I was sick of being threatened to get kicked out of home, and so just left.
My father was the best father before all this, but the step M poisoned him against us...and even now, my father, my sister and I are all estranged.
It does untold damage, I cannot even begin to tell you, here.
We would have been infinitely better off if dad hadn't remarried, just a year after our mother died. We would have at least still had each other.
Even the family farm, and Dad's wealth got frittered away on Grammar School fees for her kids, trips to USA, and Europe, parties...an extravagant wedding...just having dad spend outside of his income. Being a creative, Dad would earn big money at times, but then it could go from feast to famine, depending on getting work.
And so the family farm , the boat the plane... everything got lost to bankruptcy a year or two after I had left home.
And I blame the stepM for all of this. Dad betrayed us, too, and dont get it twisted, I'm plenty mad at him, too...
But the StepM was the X factor, the sneaky, conniving...serpent in his ear...
And the thing is, to most people looking on, they see her as a saintly christian women, befallen to tragedy when her husband died.. (before Dad)...
I have come to understand that female nature becomes toxic when being a step mother. Especially if she has kids of her own.
They feel entitled to _all_ of the resources the father earns, and resents seeing any of it being spent on his kids.
Since i have realised this, so much makes sense. I could yell you so many things that would make your blood boil...and it all fits this notion...that StepM resents all resources spent on his kids.
But do you think she has a clue about this...?? Of course not!
She would never dream of taking personal inventory on this or anything else!
I have lost my father, my sister, my inheritance... everything.
Don't be a step mother. You will become a villain, whether you can ever admit it or not.
Been there, done that……Never again!
Recreational use only.
As a 29 year old man children are a 1000% dealbreaker for me
"there is men" how can an illiterate mother be deemed great. where is the responsibility?
Just because a woman is a mother it doesn't mean she'll be good to you some women are only soft and loving to her kids.
When dating someone with children it's usually a package deal bcuz there's an Ex
Yes, there are so many “unavoidable” complications, let alone those that we don’t see coming. I don’t think women really think through the reality of single motherhood. They are not thinking about how their life will “affect” a potential partner. Why would any men want to deal with another man’s presence, as you mentioned? It is going to be a pain in the ass.
He knew the camera never dies so he went after the other guy
She doesn’t have any to date the guys that want her bc they’re not good. It’s nothing to do with her wanting to date or being ready
if your a single mother and want to have a relationship serious enough that they take care of your child. You need to allow them to have parental authority. My stepdad growing up had full parental authority over us. BUT my mother only allowed that when they wanted to move in and get married.
It's not that SIMP don't exist because they do, it's more about telling SIMPs they are being stupid dating a single mom
A widow is different from a baby mama they were married and had a child, not out having children before they marry.
What I can say is I dated a single mother had a kid with her and lost access to my son due to her not accepting my boundaries no drugs and no cheating, clean and cook cause she didn’t work, then relapses multiple times gets caught cheating and moved in the new guy who also doesn’t work or have a car… after this experience, single moms are beneath me
Your experience has nothing to do with her being a single mom and everything to do with being a shitty human!
Of course there are men that will run through you but not want a long commitment
They can date. But very few are gonna marry them up
They won't want you if theres other options
Women dont rationalize, men wanting to have sex vs men wanting a relationship..
Women use emotions to see the world around them, while men use logic. Women almost never understand be use they simply can't.
This is probably a generational thing, if I was 20 I wouldn't want to date a mother but as a 40 yo man it doesn't bother me at all
One word springs to mind.... Deluded.... Dating and a relationship are two very different things.
She never had a man actually commit to her and she can’t even imagine having a new guy in her home and around her kid = case closed. She just argumented conclusively against herself.
Guys who like single moms… you should worry about them
if it was true why hasn't she married? the guys who want her she doesn't want
single moms have the best snacks though, their kitchen stays loaded man all those food stamps lol
Know ya worth Kings. NEVER EVER COMMIT TO A SINGLE MOM
Of course it’s easier for a woman to date/marry a man with a kid or kids…..they don’t have to take much of the financial responsibility. On the flip side, the woman is going to want to financially stability for her and the kids…..who aren’t his. Biologically, men are more turned off by taking care of another man’s kids. Then, theirs the obstacle of not being able to discipline them especially when the kids get older and learn that the man isn’t their biological father. The man will ALWAYS come last in any relationship. It’s an all around losing deal.
As a 25 year old man (at the time) i met a girl who i really liked with 2 kids. I gave it a chance, we lasted about a year, and i know for a fact i will never date another woman with children. Unless i had kids of my own. I thought i could, learned its not for me.
I can’t stop looking at the girl in pink. Two big reasons.
Just because milf is looked up on a search doesnt mean men want to date you.
Emotional damage.
Yea because they know moms put out. Lol
The delusion at the end… “I used to be traditional, so that’s what counts.” That’s like saying, “I used to not have a criminal record until I committed arson.”
I tell my daughter and son to not date people with kids. As a 60 yo male, if I was to get divorced, I would not date any with kids.
The amount of delusion 😂
I have a kid & I don't want a woman who has one
I think this idea is based on people who are say, online dating… where you rule out people who don’t fit your criteria so they are not even an option for you. But IRL surely it’s a case by case situation. Like if I met someone who I really connected with, I feel like I would happily date outside of my ideal ‘wish list’ criteria.
The perfect guy always makes me laugh like there is a perfect anyone out there or has ever existed. Also why are they so hung up about someone having a kid(s)? I couldn't care less as long as I don't have to deal with a crazy ex which I've done before its a hassle, and having to beat someones ass in front of their kids isn't right.
Never underestimate a woman's ability to edit their own highlight reel.
Sexual attraction and relationship attraction are 2 different things for men...
The problem with dating moms is that you will always be lowest on her priority. Meaning her kid(s) will always come first.
These women also do not seem to understand the difference between getting pounded and getting married.
The disagreement here is probably more a of an issue with the difference between "there is a lot of" and most/majority. Most men and women want their partners first kid to be theirs.
The video starts with a single mom saying she has no problem getting the men that she wants. Honey, if you had the man that you wanted I’m sure you’d be at home with him taking care of business. Not on a podcast trying to convince the world that you can get any man you want. Jheez 😫
the girl with that warrior helmet behind Brian is literally me, just chill throughout 4-5 hours debate and got paid 😅
who ask ?
No one tries to rationalize more than a woman who knows they're wrong
Brian be lying when he says shit like “give me 3 more minutes” or “we are about to finish” but doesn’t abide by his word. Someone on the panel needs to hold him accountable about that.
My brother shocked up with a women who had 3 kids.
Right after he got out of federal prison 😂
Because single mum are an easy root ! . . . in dating ! Plain and simple !
Long term, forget it - they are a massive burden and head ache !
🎶"You let him hit it raw...
Without any 2nd thought...
Now you're a single mom,
Now you're a single mom..."😮🎶
Love how they keep restricting free speech by not allowing this word or that word. Can’t say that word to many times etc.. Grow the hell up TH-cam and stop restricting peoples freedoms.
It is silly. It not only restricts free speech, in a free speech culture, but it is only done to appease a small percentage of people who get upset by hearing a “word”( or they pretend to).
Difference between get & KEEP 🙄
The type of man these women want would more likely than not, not want a baby mama. The men that would date them and take them seriously would be ghosts to them. Men who don't have options are usually the type of me who take on another family.
Or an exceptional woman can get one
I would also say this is another one of those situations where Brian needs someone Andrew to shut these women when they continue to argue for the exception and not the rule.