Also not as fit as she'd like. Seen some of the "selective body positivity" crowd say they don't want fat men with zero pushback from their fellow large girls, and it was a HUGE eye opener for me.
@@jebediahrage8273 Why are you so surprised? Body positivity has only ever been for women. Think of how many times you hear the saying "small dick energy" or even just getting called neckbeards, men being made fun of if they're bald, and even height shaming for men like "You're not a real man if you're not 6' tall, you're a boy", do any of those things sound like body positivity to you?
It's not necessarily that she has to set her standards to a man who is also overweight, but rather that she has to set her standards to the "whatever is left" category. Basically, most men, even overweight men, don't want an overweight woman, therefore an overweight woman must necessarily set her standards not for most men, but rather for whatever is left after most men are eliminated. The same is true for overweight men, or any man/woman with an unattractive physical feature. You get what you can, not what you want.
She's just saying this on camera to look good. She would be jealous af if an overweight girl marries a rich hot looking guy. She's going to smirk and cry.
If a woman won't date you as a 5' 11" man, it's not your height that is the problem, you have a raft of other issues you've not identified or considered.
She says “if I am overweight does not mean that I am unmarriable?” The answer I wanted to hear was “no, there would be plenty of men who would be prepared to marry you, but they are likely to be plain or overweight themselves and almost certainly, you would reject them based on their appearance”.
The problem is what exactly is overweight. Obviously i'm not talking about some three hundred pound behemoth , but I like a women with t and a, so I like them a little thick. Some dudes are quick to call a woman who has a little thickness, overweight, and that's where I have a problem.
@@anthonylarkin7640 It's a matter of taste. Some dudes like skinny girls, some dudes like morbidly obese ones. I myself like some curves. But there is a generally recognized "fat chick" look that is definitely not on most guys' list.
too much of black guy blablabla.. should have just said.. is it fair when you judge guys based on their height? done edit: brian kinda did that at 4:40 but as always too much ranting and little of him being assertive that asian chick there had just zoned out by the end of it
Thyroid issues have existed forever. 300 pound women with thyroid issues have existed since around the same time McDonalds restaurants and doughnut shops started sprouting up on every street corner.
I'd say modern lifestyle and unhealthy habits have increased the cases but I'm not sure. But yea, acting victim on weight issue is not the way to act, most of overweight population just need to eat less and move more
@@oreowithurea5018 the amount of cases is irrelevant. People with thyroid issues 70 years ago weren’t obese. People with thyroid issues today in impoverished countries aren’t obese. Having a thyroid issue can hamper your metabolism to the tune of about 200 calories a day. All that means is your body requires 200 less calories a day to function. Damn I’m 38 years old. My metabolism has probably reduced by over a thousand calories a day from when I was in my early 20’s but I’m not obese. I just eat what I need.
@@SonnyK248I do realise your point, and understand it. Though eating only 200 calories a day is not feesable anyways. I do realise weight gain is mostly calories in and out but still our bodies are complex biological system and not a bomb calorimeter. I Think if you have abundance of food and suffering from thyroid issues, it's easier to get obese or overweight. This shouldn't be overlooked.
@@oreowithurea5018 I said eating 200 "less calories" which is very feesable. No one with thyroid issues has a BML of 200 🤦♂It's probably going to be in the 1600-2000 range when you're young and drop as you get older just like everyone else on the planet's will drop as they get older, thyroid or not. Like I said before I cant eat what I ate ten years ago. Most people notice throughout their life that what they could eat before isn't possible today without gaining weight so they scale it down or do more exercise. But other people don't do this. They continue to eat the same if not more. And all weight gain is calories in calories out. Fat cells are the food you ate. Every human being has a number and if they stay below that number it's impossible to gain weight and that number isn't as low as you think it is. If you go over that number your body stores the food it didn't need as fat and that is literally the only way you can get fat. And if you have an abundance of food period you're going to gain weight. Obesity is an addiction plain and simple. And addicts lie and make excuses whether it's heroin or pizza.
Vegetable/seed oils are a big part of the problem. Abundance is also part of the problem. For most of human existence, getting ENOUGH food was the problem.
Holy shit. Q busted out with the question of "what if your man cheated with a fat woman?" That's the awesomest moment in the whatever podcast I've ever seen.
I saw something similar. At a June Parade, there was a clear female saying that Ladyboys are women. So, the interviewer started about her transitioning. She couldn't hide feeling insulted by the assumption that she was a Ladyboy. You got to hit these Heauxs where it hurts. Their hypocrisy and gaslighting have gone way too far.
Except for the rare cases of thyroid problems or side-effects of medication, obesity is lack of self-respect, willpower and ability to control one's desires.
I saw a documentary on TV where this researcher, while in India, noticed that all the chickens there are fat. He was curious, so he brought some tissue back to study. He found that the tissue had some strange antibodies. He got some chickens and fed the tissue to them. Those chickens got fat. So he did a further study. He got a large number of normal sized people and obese people. In the the normal sized people he did not find the antibodies. In the obese people many of them had the antibodies. He surmised that a significant amount of obesity may be viral. Is obesity caused by a virus? Ad-5 and Ad-37 have been shown to cause obesity in animals. Ad-36 has been studied the most and is the only human adenovirus to date that has been linked with human obesity. Ad-36 causes obesity in chickens, mice, rats, and monkeys and was present in 30% of obese humans and 11% of nonobese humans.
While it's true there is correlation between thyroid problem/medication/maybe viruses and obesity, it;s not like they cause obesity, per se. They might cause metabolism problem, which then linked to overweight, but NO NO NO, you still won;t be fat out of thin air. Ok, might be more difficult for them to be trim, but other people have various degree of difficulty as well. On the other hand, it's different story for emaciated people who have condition that prevent them from gaining weight, in this case, indeed, it can be impossible no matter how much they eat.
@@tezwah5651 Really? Do you even know why people use that term? It all started with “gay marriage”. Then women started using the term because they felt like they were equal to and in some cases better than men. Which by the way they are not. The term is actually emasculating and demeaning but most men are unwilling to speak out against it because they are weak and are afraid of how they will be perceived by others. If you don't believe what I'm saying please tell me why ever since this term became popular the world has gone completely to hell.
@@tezwah5651 Please show me one man who is in a “partnership” with a woman who is not miserable. The only men that go for that nonsense are men with “limited options” and are afraid she might leave him. Next you will be telling me we are “Co-leaders”. What I really find odd is the women that call their husbands their partner yet have no problem calling their supervisor at work “their boss”.
@@SelfmadeBlack This is actually an episode of the original CSI series. A “large lovers” convention is being held in Vegas. A man is found suffocated in a hotel bed. Through analysis of evidence in the sheets and later interviews with the one responsible it is shown that she was drunk and passed out on top of him during “calisthenics”. Too drunk for him to wake her up and he slowly suffocated, similar to having a jack collapse and drop a car on you.
After having a roommate with a 'thyroid problem', I no longer believe in 'thyroid problems'. I'm 6' and 200lbs and she ate more than me and exercised less.
Most thyroid problems are a result of neglecting health. So still even with a medical condition, that's still unattractive bc it's a symptom of neglecting health.
Even if a woman is obese because of a thyroid issue or other medical problem, men would be wise to to avoid her for marriage and kids. Her health problems combined with obesity would put her at greater risk of infertility or miscarriage.
All these folks with "thyroid" problems should just enter survival TV shows. They'd last forever and beat every opponent since they just put on weight for no reason.😂
After spending time in Japan where obesity is rare and almost seen as disrespectful, I realize that obesity in the US is pretty much a form of disrespect and telling men that they don't deserve you at your best. And the moment an obese woman gets in shape, she thinks she's too good for a man and starts trying to go pro by getting into show business, modeling, or social media.
@@feijesuskucaliz633 One of the little known truths inside Weight Watchers is that when a genuinely obese woman loses a great deal of weight and achieves some kind of normal weight, she frequently leaves the husband who had accepted her when she was fat.
@kansashoneybadger7899 , but they soon find that they cannot get a better-looking man who is more successful, kinder to them, and still monogamous than the man who accepted them while they were fat.
@@kayceetaylor2151 Sometimes men do something equivalent. They can abandon their first wife, when he move up in the world. Happens all the time. Neither is good.
@@kansashoneybadger7899why you making it a competition? This is the issue, women hear some negativity about themselves and instantly jump to “but men…”
As a 53 yo man, these chats fascinate me...... Back in the day, go to a club, see a girl you like, chat, drink, ask barman for a pen, exchange numbers, phone on a Sunday night....simplicity.....
Why ya'll shaming the dude for being born in a different time?! The fact is... u, and i, fucking DREAM of that simplicty again. That's thr entire reason these convos exist. Also, it's not like women werent women in 1980, u still had to be tjat guy. If he's going to a bar and getting numbers jus like that, that means he was *that guy*
@@MOBSCoronadepending on the guy or “MOSY guys” you MOST likely won’t be acknowledged in the first place so that doesn’t matter. Just like MOST short guys or brokeys. I mean we’ve seen it happen so it’s not impossible. But rest assured your chances will be lower
That's rooted in fetish, not genuine love. It will be toxic and not last. My old friend she is big as hell. Always had skinny dudes, ironically she was still the whore lmfao. Bc she knew his attraction to her being fat was toxic. So she kept searching. She eventually lost the weight🙏🏼
Attraction is not a choice. If you date someone you are not attracted to you have a giant chance of falling out of love, because you talked yourself into a situation you never wanted.
Well, that' what they told us in the early 2000's when the gay marriage thing was really getting pushed. Nowadays you're an -ist and a -phobe if you have certain various preferences.
Attraction is HARD WIRED into Men, we're seeking healthy mates to have a family with. We're almost always repulsed by women who are very thin or very large. It's primal and totally sub conscious, it's embedded into our amygdala which responds differently than Women's amygdala....
@@thunberbolttwo3953 women like the ones on the podcast are the reason why "repeal the 19th" has been slowly gaining traction over the years, maybe fix the root issue and the movment will just fall apart
Women love to add so many "what if" scenarios to questions because they want to be fair to everyone when they themselves have a laundry list of requirements for men to meet.
'what if' scenarios are a female's best diversion tactic when they cant answer the question you asked, they go to muddying the water so that you feel as confused as they do It also ensures they dont get ridiculed further for their lack of knowledge on a subject....feels, they have those....rational, logical thinking? not so much This is also a prime example of why men, everywhere, keep societies running....we have to, there is no viable alternative Women want it because men have it, men have it because women cant do it
What if a dude is born short? Oh yeah, you dont care. Watching women give each other so much leeway while holding men to such strict standards makes every word that leaves their mouths worthless
I wanted to ask that to a girl from recent podcast, who said all men are 10 and she would date any guy regardless of their looks if she didn;t have boyfriend (but of course, she has boyfriend so she won;t do that)
so overweight, 95% controllable is unfair, but every woman disqualifies men based on height, something that's pretty much entirely out of a mans control😂
...or doesnt make 100k...too broke ....or doesnt have a big 'johnson' For a gender that is constantly looking at themselves in mirrors, and on their phones etc....how can they not see any of their own flaws, but find so many in men?
There's no such thing as unfair in this case because nobody has a right to date you. There's no such thing as equal opportunity when it comes to attraction.
Men look for HEALTH, for a woman who can bear his children, and fat is not healthy. Saying "what if it's because of a medical condition?" in a sense is even worse for precisely that same reason.
There are 8.1 billion people on Earth. It's not farfetched to suggest there is someone for everyone on this planet. What we like to ignore is that for one, there are multiple people for a lot of people on this planet, and secondly, sometimes you just gotta share. And thirdly, sometimes the person or people for you are simply not in your vicinity.
You're missing the point like her. The logic is flawed. That's what need's to be addressed. It's not just this either, they're hypocrites in tons of other areas as well. Whole existence is walking contradiction.
There isn't enough people on the planet for EVERYONE to find someone. There are more women than men, which inevitably means if all the men somehow 'found someone' the leftover woman would be alone or sharing men with others. That was his point. Most women have said they wouldn't want to 'share' a man unless he was 1% and even then a lot of women have issues with it. This doesn't even take into account most people don't even leave their own countries.
Is this discussion even worth having? People have preferences. Period. How in the world can you say its wrong for a guy to find a fat girl (yes, FAT, there, I said it) physically unattractive? To each his own.
At first, I started with small weights so I wouldn't hurt or dislocate my wrist joints. After a while, it became a routine and my wrists got strengthen that I was able to carry the bottles by the neck up and down the stairs effortlessly. I know I was crazy to do this, but that's me. Besides, I was determined and it paid off. Hope this helps other people too. 🙂
I have had two family members who suffered kidney failure as a complication of Type 2 diabetes. Because of that I got myself educated on the disease and, the very closely related topic of obesity. Extra weight is a primary cause of insulin resistance which is the essence of diabetes. Diabetes is a miserable disease which I would not wish on anybody. Obesity is objective and it can be shown by high blood pressure, high blood sugar, extra degradation and aging of joints. Diabetes contributes to heart disease and stroke, and lately, has been shown to contribute to memory loss and elderly dementia. Just as I would not recommend that man marry a smoker. I would not recommend that a man marry a heavy woman. A heavy mother is more likely to raise heavy children and is less fertile. No need to sign on for that, even if the woman manages to retain some feminine appeal.
It’s not the fact that most of these modern women are goofy that’s the issue; it’s that they’re goofy and want to be taken seriously that’s the real issue.
It’s the same response each time… “What if they have a thyroid/health issue that stops them losing weight” Extrapolating something that is so rare to ALL women, is ridiculous. It’s impossible for all people to have such a rare condition. Just a way of giving an excuse to the problem at hand. Be accountable, you’re fat, deal with it and accept your pool of men has reduced drastically from what it could’ve been.
Short, ''Broken'' men aren't husbands’ material for them and it's okay for them to brag about not wanting these men and even shame their friends for dating those men. But when we state our preferences, we are accused of body shaming them, we are misogynistic, shallow, etc. etc.
When I used to eat ice cream, my two favorite flavors were "butter pecan" or "cookies and cream." No amount of pressure from anyone would persuade me NOT to choose either of these two. In other words, if you like/dislike a certain thing while selecting a mate, ignore shaming tactics from women at all cost.
You should hear the girls. He needs to be 6 feet, he needs to make this, he needs to work out and be muscular. And when we finally achieve that, you expect you can be lazy? An overweight woman tells the same story as an non muscular man, and that is lack of discipline.
I don't have six abs or skinny or well built, but I am not overweight either and I do take care of my health. I go up and down the stairs every few days carrying 2 water bottles at a time. I mean the 3-5 gallon ones. They are heavy when filled with water. Yet, I am not against women being a little bit oversize as long as they are keeping their health. Oversize and overweight can be fixed and that's on you, not anyone else or the society. For example, I had a friend who was more oversized than me and after a few years, he was skinny to point I didn't recognized him. My friend can change his body size so other oversize people (both genders) can as well. Just have to stop being lazy, eat right, and move your behind. If there's a will, then there's a way.
This is what I always say about obesity and fat positivity. Outside of genetic and medical reasons No one has the right to be fat in a world where large amounts of children are starving to death.
I am 5ft 6Inch, never had any issues with getting a relationship, hearing the insane expectations on this podcast is insane. Ive been with my partner now for 13 years and we are capable of having fun and being in love and being there for each other without these insane expectations.
Been told I’m too skinny or “my dad wouldn’t like it(the fact that you’re half black)” for too long to not have any qualifications of my own. Just weigh less than me. I’m 6’ 145lbs what’s so hard about that ?
There is also a subconscious judgement in ALL humans, both male and female to not prefer overweight people as a partner simply because they are far less likely to produce healthy children. Overweight males and females are far more likely to have health issues and more likely their offspring will have those same health issues.
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All these women claim Lizzo is attractive until you tell them they look like her..
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@@The_Crayon_God ..it is but unfortunately it's not mine.. not sure where I heard it but it certainly is apt..
It's only "unfair" when it doesn't benefit them.😅
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Now that is a Fact!
@@StrongBlackLove when they say equality the mean woman>man.😅
Yes because all women are “the prize” in these situations. We men are lucky they even speak to us…😕
Always
Lights are on but no one is home.
Very very dim lights.
that ain't what it is; she knows where they're GOING with it and trying to figure how to justify their hypocrosies~
Or: there is somebody at home but the lights are out 😂
More like a few stars short of a Galaxy 😂
The fact they can vote!!!!! No wonder western nations are such a mess.
"If I'm overweight I'm unmarriable?" No, you just have to set your standards to a man who is also overweight and maybe not as rich as you'd like.
Also not as fit as she'd like. Seen some of the "selective body positivity" crowd say they don't want fat men with zero pushback from their fellow large girls, and it was a HUGE eye opener for me.
@@jebediahrage8273 It was an eye opener for you? really it wasnt just common sense?
@@jebediahrage8273 Why are you so surprised? Body positivity has only ever been for women. Think of how many times you hear the saying "small dick energy" or even just getting called neckbeards, men being made fun of if they're bald, and even height shaming for men like "You're not a real man if you're not 6' tall, you're a boy", do any of those things sound like body positivity to you?
It's not necessarily that she has to set her standards to a man who is also overweight, but rather that she has to set her standards to the "whatever is left" category.
Basically, most men, even overweight men, don't want an overweight woman, therefore an overweight woman must necessarily set her standards not for most men, but rather for whatever is left after most men are eliminated.
The same is true for overweight men, or any man/woman with an unattractive physical feature. You get what you can, not what you want.
Yeah but she ain't going to want a fat guy who isn't high earning.
She wants men to have compassion for women, but don't care the other way around.
She's just saying this on camera to look good. She would be jealous af if an overweight girl marries a rich hot looking guy. She's going to smirk and cry.
It is unfair to not date an overweight woman, but completely acceptable to not date a 5'11 man.
Life isn't fair idk how that word even exists in the human dictionary
If a woman won't date you as a 5' 11" man, it's not your height that is the problem, you have a raft of other issues you've not identified or considered.
Hahaha
@@cjfrm3658yes you do
@@Colton-wz5sh What you do
Man: ‘You think Lizzo is beautiful?
Woman: Yes.
Man: You look like Lizzo.
xD
Thyroid problem? “Stop eating thyroids!”
- Chris Tucker
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She says “if I am overweight does not mean that I am unmarriable?” The answer I wanted to hear was “no, there would be plenty of men who would be prepared to marry you, but they are likely to be plain or overweight themselves and almost certainly, you would reject them based on their appearance”.
Her real concern is that the higher level men, men with actual choice, choose not to be with overweight women.
Hear*
I would have just said yes. I’m sorry I’m not giving my last name to a whale
The problem is what exactly is overweight. Obviously i'm not talking about some three hundred pound behemoth , but I like a women with t and a, so I like them a little thick. Some dudes are quick to call a woman who has a little thickness, overweight, and that's where I have a problem.
@@anthonylarkin7640 It's a matter of taste. Some dudes like skinny girls, some dudes like morbidly obese ones. I myself like some curves. But there is a generally recognized "fat chick" look that is definitely not on most guys' list.
Preferences are not for men, we get that 😂😂
remember, guys. we're not allowed our own preferences. women said so.
feel the facts! 🤣🤣
too much of black guy blablabla..
should have just said.. is it fair when you judge guys based on their height?
done
edit: brian kinda did that at 4:40 but as always too much ranting and little of him being assertive that asian chick there had just zoned out by the end of it
yea and their hesitations were them trying to figure how not to say it~
@@Deimonos85 you're weird
modern women: men cant have preference with women
Also modern women: i would like a 6"3 man who makes 500k + a year
Now is "6'5, trust fund, finance, blue eyes."
They think it’s wrong to not date an over weight woman, but they want a guy over six foot and athletic. Make it make sense.
fat women need loving, just not from me and most men in general.
and 100+ k salary preferably millionaire
Thyroid issues have existed forever. 300 pound women with thyroid issues have existed since around the same time McDonalds restaurants and doughnut shops started sprouting up on every street corner.
I'd say modern lifestyle and unhealthy habits have increased the cases but I'm not sure. But yea, acting victim on weight issue is not the way to act, most of overweight population just need to eat less and move more
@@oreowithurea5018 the amount of cases is irrelevant. People with thyroid issues 70 years ago weren’t obese. People with thyroid issues today in impoverished countries aren’t obese. Having a thyroid issue can hamper your metabolism to the tune of about 200 calories a day. All that means is your body requires 200 less calories a day to function. Damn I’m 38 years old. My metabolism has probably reduced by over a thousand calories a day from when I was in my early 20’s but I’m not obese. I just eat what I need.
@@SonnyK248I do realise your point, and understand it.
Though eating only 200 calories a day is not feesable anyways. I do realise weight gain is mostly calories in and out but still our bodies are complex biological system and not a bomb calorimeter. I Think if you have abundance of food and suffering from thyroid issues, it's easier to get obese or overweight. This shouldn't be overlooked.
@@oreowithurea5018 I said eating 200 "less calories" which is very feesable. No one with thyroid issues has a BML of 200 🤦♂It's probably going to be in the 1600-2000 range when you're young and drop as you get older just like everyone else on the planet's will drop as they get older, thyroid or not. Like I said before I cant eat what I ate ten years ago. Most people notice throughout their life that what they could eat before isn't possible today without gaining weight so they scale it down or do more exercise. But other people don't do this. They continue to eat the same if not more. And all weight gain is calories in calories out. Fat cells are the food you ate. Every human being has a number and if they stay below that number it's impossible to gain weight and that number isn't as low as you think it is. If you go over that number your body stores the food it didn't need as fat and that is literally the only way you can get fat. And if you have an abundance of food period you're going to gain weight. Obesity is an addiction plain and simple. And addicts lie and make excuses whether it's heroin or pizza.
Vegetable/seed oils are a big part of the problem. Abundance is also part of the problem. For most of human existence, getting ENOUGH food was the problem.
Holy shit. Q busted out with the question of "what if your man cheated with a fat woman?" That's the awesomest moment in the whatever podcast I've ever seen.
Eh.
I saw something similar. At a June Parade, there was a clear female saying that Ladyboys are women. So, the interviewer started about her transitioning. She couldn't hide feeling insulted by the assumption that she was a Ladyboy. You got to hit these Heauxs where it hurts. Their hypocrisy and gaslighting have gone way too far.
@@NuclearNuke41Canadian !
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These women can't even defend their own standpoints.
Nope
No woman ever has.
Literally thier combined IQ is 22.
I think it's more unfair women don't like short men-men can't just grow taller but women can loose weight...🤔
Lose*
Lose*
Basically they don't like great men is what their saying
Smooth brain in 4k
WHAT brain??!! 😂
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Men don't say the same thing when women choose taller guys.
We are just done crying about it. Also depends on the country, im 5 feet 6 inches and that would be enough for the majority of women here.
These creatures are hypocrites and talk out of both sides of their mouths.
"A man becomes more attractive the more you get to know him, a woman becomes less attractive the more you get to know her" - A wise dead person
I often see a woman I think is attractive only to get to know her and notice over time that the attraction has waned greatly.
💯 true
You NAILED IT buddy.
Except for the rare cases of thyroid problems or side-effects of medication, obesity is lack of self-respect, willpower and ability to control one's desires.
I saw a documentary on TV where this researcher, while in India, noticed that all the chickens there are fat.
He was curious, so he brought some tissue back to study. He found that the tissue had some strange antibodies.
He got some chickens and fed the tissue to them. Those chickens got fat.
So he did a further study. He got a large number of normal sized people and obese people.
In the the normal sized people he did not find the antibodies. In the obese people many of them had the antibodies.
He surmised that a significant amount of obesity may be viral.
Is obesity caused by a virus?
Ad-5 and Ad-37 have been shown to cause obesity in animals. Ad-36 has been studied the most and is the only human adenovirus to date that has been linked with human obesity. Ad-36 causes obesity in chickens, mice, rats, and monkeys and was present in 30% of obese humans and 11% of nonobese humans.
@@snidecommenter7117 Do you have the name of the documentary? I'd be interested in watching it.
@@67skins75 yes I would like to see it aswell
Looking forward to the next round of experimental gene therapy "vaccines" against "viral obesity".@@snidecommenter7117
While it's true there is correlation between thyroid problem/medication/maybe viruses and obesity, it;s not like they cause obesity, per se. They might cause metabolism problem, which then linked to overweight, but NO NO NO, you still won;t be fat out of thin air. Ok, might be more difficult for them to be trim, but other people have various degree of difficulty as well. On the other hand, it's different story for emaciated people who have condition that prevent them from gaining weight, in this case, indeed, it can be impossible no matter how much they eat.
Stay away from any woman that refers to you as a partner
That's a really dumb piece of advice that won't aid anyone in any way.
@@tezwah5651 It aided me.
@@tezwah5651 Really? Do you even know why people use that term? It all started with “gay marriage”. Then women started using the term because they felt like they were equal to and in some cases better than men. Which by the way they are not. The term is actually emasculating and demeaning but most men are unwilling to speak out against it because they are weak and are afraid of how they will be perceived by others. If you don't believe what I'm saying please tell me why ever since this term became popular the world has gone completely to hell.
Women who refer to men as partners, are generally woke. It's great advice. The devil is always in the details.
@@tezwah5651 Please show me one man who is in a “partnership” with a woman who is not miserable. The only men that go for that nonsense are men with “limited options” and are afraid she might leave him. Next you will be telling me we are “Co-leaders”. What I really find odd is the women that call their husbands their partner yet have no problem calling their supervisor at work “their boss”.
I can’t bench 300 lbs, no way am I taking the chance of having that roll over on me!
I had a forklift operator license but i’d still pass lol
Bruhhhh 😂😂
While you’re sleep too lmfao … I can’t breathe …
@@SelfmadeBlack This is actually an episode of the original CSI series. A “large lovers” convention is being held in Vegas. A man is found suffocated in a hotel bed. Through analysis of evidence in the sheets and later interviews with the one responsible it is shown that she was drunk and passed out on top of him during “calisthenics”. Too drunk for him to wake her up and he slowly suffocated, similar to having a jack collapse and drop a car on you.
There is a weight limit for this ride.
After having a roommate with a 'thyroid problem', I no longer believe in 'thyroid problems'. I'm 6' and 200lbs and she ate more than me and exercised less.
And of course results were inevitable. If you eat like a 200lb man and exercise less what do you think will happen?
You’re overweight too
Most thyroid problems are a result of neglecting health. So still even with a medical condition, that's still unattractive bc it's a symptom of neglecting health.
Even if a woman is obese because of a thyroid issue or other medical problem, men would be wise to to avoid her for marriage and kids. Her health problems combined with obesity would put her at greater risk of infertility or miscarriage.
All these folks with "thyroid" problems should just enter survival TV shows. They'd last forever and beat every opponent since they just put on weight for no reason.😂
After spending time in Japan where obesity is rare and almost seen as disrespectful, I realize that obesity in the US is pretty much a form of disrespect and telling men that they don't deserve you at your best.
And the moment an obese woman gets in shape, she thinks she's too good for a man and starts trying to go pro by getting into show business, modeling, or social media.
I saw that the only fat that are respected in japan are the sumo wrestlers
@@feijesuskucaliz633 One of the little known truths inside Weight Watchers is that when a genuinely obese woman loses a great deal of weight and achieves some kind of normal weight, she frequently leaves the husband who had accepted her when she was fat.
@kansashoneybadger7899 , but they soon find that they cannot get a better-looking man who is more successful, kinder to them, and still monogamous than the man who accepted them while they were fat.
@@kayceetaylor2151 Sometimes men do something equivalent. They can abandon their first wife, when he move up in the world. Happens all the time. Neither is good.
@@kansashoneybadger7899why you making it a competition? This is the issue, women hear some negativity about themselves and instantly jump to “but men…”
As a 53 yo man, these chats fascinate me......
Back in the day, go to a club, see a girl you like, chat, drink, ask barman for a pen, exchange numbers, phone on a Sunday night....simplicity.....
Social media and dating apps combined with feminism fucked it all up
Gone are the days of simplicity sir
That’s dinosaur talk
@@rustyshackleford9006you sound like an idiot
Why ya'll shaming the dude for being born in a different time?! The fact is... u, and i, fucking DREAM of that simplicty again. That's thr entire reason these convos exist. Also, it's not like women werent women in 1980, u still had to be tjat guy. If he's going to a bar and getting numbers jus like that, that means he was *that guy*
It blows me away that these women never see these arguments that expose their hypocrisy coming
She hesitated for soooo long, she knew the right answer
Ask if she its thinks unfair for women to not date broke men, watch the mental gymnastics
"how dare you"
@@pegeta🤣🤣🤣
I argued that with a group of women that said it’s not fair that men can sleep around & women can’t 😂
I don't like myself out of shape, why would I accept it from anyone I choose to date ?
What if the connection is there with someone who is not in peak shape?
There are chubby chasers out there. It's a fetish thing
@@MOBSCoronadepending on the guy or “MOSY guys” you MOST likely won’t be acknowledged in the first place so that doesn’t matter. Just like MOST short guys or brokeys. I mean we’ve seen it happen so it’s not impossible. But rest assured your chances will be lower
That's rooted in fetish, not genuine love. It will be toxic and not last. My old friend she is big as hell. Always had skinny dudes, ironically she was still the whore lmfao. Bc she knew his attraction to her being fat was toxic. So she kept searching. She eventually lost the weight🙏🏼
@@MOBSCoronaplease dont convince yourself that ur “personality” will be valued more than the way you carry yourself
Just because a couple is collectively attractive, doesn't mean they'll have a cute baby.
Rihanna
if your overweight get healthy regardless of gender.
You’re*
@@Colton-wz5sh thanks i just woke up at that time😂
The gaslighting and guilt shaming is wild...
Life is unfair, ladies.
"I think it's unfair that women prefer men with status, money and an expensive sports car"
See how silly that sounded?
Love the consistent double standards women are blinded by bc they couldn’t possibly ever do something bad
You don’t see men begging women to date fat men bc it’s weird asf
Woman sleep with who they want, but
Men do marry woman who they choose
Attraction is not a choice. If you date someone you are not attracted to you have a giant chance of falling out of love, because you talked yourself into a situation you never wanted.
Well, that' what they told us in the early 2000's when the gay marriage thing was really getting pushed. Nowadays you're an -ist and a -phobe if you have certain various preferences.
Why would you date a woman your not attracted to in the first place ?
being in love implies you are attracted to them period.
@@pegeta Then why do people divorce?
it is a choice
If you don’t sign for selective service, you need male permission to vote
Attraction is HARD WIRED into Men, we're seeking healthy mates to have a family with.
We're almost always repulsed by women who are very thin or very large. It's primal and totally sub conscious, it's embedded into our amygdala which responds differently than Women's amygdala....
Facts bro
I'm not short. I'm tactical size!
Women and the 19th Amendment: A 20th century error in judgement
No.
@@thunberbolttwo3953 Yes.
@@thunberbolttwo3953 women like the ones on the podcast are the reason why "repeal the 19th" has been slowly gaining traction over the years, maybe fix the root issue and the movment will just fall apart
literally yes lol. I believe things were better back in the days about 100 years ago.
It's unfair for women to reject short men
You short bro
Women love to add so many "what if" scenarios to questions because they want to be fair to everyone when they themselves have a laundry list of requirements for men to meet.
Ironic how they want to be fair with everyone but not everyone.
'what if' scenarios are a female's best diversion tactic when they cant answer the question you asked, they go to muddying the water so that you feel as confused as they do
It also ensures they dont get ridiculed further for their lack of knowledge on a subject....feels, they have those....rational, logical thinking? not so much
This is also a prime example of why men, everywhere, keep societies running....we have to, there is no viable alternative
Women want it because men have it, men have it because women cant do it
These feminist cannot think, only spout emotions, talking points and evasion when it comes to hard question.
What do you bring to the table?
She: “Love handle”
He: “Keep it”
...and why does a table need a handle?
@@openyoureyes909jones6 in case you need to move out...
What if a dude is born short? Oh yeah, you dont care. Watching women give each other so much leeway while holding men to such strict standards makes every word that leaves their mouths worthless
These women have contradicted themselves several times in this conversation.
...and that was just in this short video
Imagine living with that all day, every day
What if he is only 5’6” tall
What if he a janitor
I wanted to ask that to a girl from recent podcast, who said all men are 10 and she would date any guy regardless of their looks if she didn;t have boyfriend (but of course, she has boyfriend so she won;t do that)
2:10 "I'm not high value because I'm overweight?"
Yes, that's a part of it!
Lmaooooo at the girl who said, “Well I don’t want an ugly baby,” but is built like a fridge.
Telling the truth is not bullying.
But the way you do it, Can be.
Worst thing is men usually stick to their preferences where as women will over ride all their preferences soon as they know the guy is loaded
so overweight, 95% controllable is unfair, but every woman disqualifies men based on height, something that's pretty much entirely out of a mans control😂
11:15 he breaks it down for them
Same women get offended that men don't like fat women but at the same time won't date a guy that is short..hypocrisy in action
Those same women also won't date a man who is fat.
...or doesnt make 100k...too broke
....or doesnt have a big 'johnson'
For a gender that is constantly looking at themselves in mirrors, and on their phones etc....how can they not see any of their own flaws, but find so many in men?
I have been with my last one for 15 years out of highschool. I'm 5'7, and I was quite surprised to find that I was too short for girls even 4'11.
And that makes zero sense
There's no such thing as unfair in this case because nobody has a right to date you. There's no such thing as equal opportunity when it comes to attraction.
Men look for HEALTH, for a woman who can bear his children, and fat is not healthy. Saying "what if it's because of a medical condition?" in a sense is even worse for precisely that same reason.
Dont give a fuck if it was caused by faeries, men like what they like and that aint changing
If she cannot take care of herself she cannot take of our children or their Man
They will promise to not let themselves go.... then they let themselves go... then complain saying your wrong.. 😆 🤣
There are 8.1 billion people on Earth. It's not farfetched to suggest there is someone for everyone on this planet. What we like to ignore is that for one, there are multiple people for a lot of people on this planet, and secondly, sometimes you just gotta share. And thirdly, sometimes the person or people for you are simply not in your vicinity.
No. Settling is the key.
You said a whole lot of nothing bro.
You're missing the point like her.
The logic is flawed.
That's what need's to be addressed.
It's not just this either, they're hypocrites in tons of other areas as well.
Whole existence is walking contradiction.
There isn't enough people on the planet for EVERYONE to find someone.
There are more women than men, which inevitably means if all the men somehow 'found someone' the leftover woman would be alone or sharing men with others. That was his point.
Most women have said they wouldn't want to 'share' a man unless he was 1% and even then a lot of women have issues with it.
This doesn't even take into account most people don't even leave their own countries.
"sometimes you just gotta share" hell no we don't, what kinda beta/cuck attitude is that?
Is this discussion even worth having? People have preferences. Period.
How in the world can you say its wrong for a guy to find a fat girl (yes, FAT, there, I said it) physically unattractive?
To each his own.
"I don't want an ugly baby" welp... hate to tell ya this, but...
At first, I started with small weights so I wouldn't hurt or dislocate my wrist joints. After a while, it became a routine and my wrists got strengthen that I was able to carry the bottles by the neck up and down the stairs effortlessly. I know I was crazy to do this, but that's me. Besides, I was determined and it paid off. Hope this helps other people too. 🙂
A person’s body isn’t just how hot they look, it shows how they take care and present themselves onto others.
I guess the question ought to be: Would she date a guy that was 5'6" and weighed 220#? Most attractive women are not attracted to that.
I have had two family members who suffered kidney failure as a complication of Type 2 diabetes. Because of that I got
myself educated on the disease and, the very closely related topic of obesity. Extra weight is a primary cause of
insulin resistance which is the essence of diabetes. Diabetes is a miserable disease which I would not wish on
anybody. Obesity is objective and it can be shown by high blood pressure, high blood sugar, extra degradation and aging of joints. Diabetes contributes to heart disease and stroke, and lately, has been shown to contribute to memory loss and
elderly dementia.
Just as I would not recommend that man marry a smoker. I would not recommend that a man marry a heavy woman.
A heavy mother is more likely to raise heavy children and is less fertile. No need to sign on for that, even
if the woman manages to retain some feminine appeal.
It’s not the fact that most of these modern women are goofy that’s the issue; it’s that they’re goofy and want to be taken seriously that’s the real issue.
Life is not fair... The world is cruel. Welcome to real life.
95% of initial attraction to someone is visual
Its likr nobody’s home
Women saying dating is unfair is nothing but hypocritical. Which gender goes above and beyond to nitpick who they date?
Not men
3:20 bro pressed up down up down left right left right B A select start.
Maddison smiling made this clip
Who is that?
@@Just_Call_Me_Tim lady with the spiked army helmet
As imtoodanny stated in his comment on the clip, she's always the best looking girl on the screen..and always smart enough to not sink her own ship..
Men see the "Golden Ratio",without even knowing what it is. 36-24-36 can be seen from 100 yards away to a heterosexual male
I have a thyroid issue. Hypothyroidism, so it's difficult to lose weight. Not impossible. Watch what you eat and work a little.
How can you be obese and be high value if the people you’re appealing to doesn’t want you!. 😵💫
1:10 thyroid is not an excuse
Brain & Q thank you guys for representing for the men in this generation 💯
Get your words out Brian!
It’s the same response each time…
“What if they have a thyroid/health issue that stops them losing weight”
Extrapolating something that is so rare to ALL women, is ridiculous. It’s impossible for all people to have such a rare condition. Just a way of giving an excuse to the problem at hand. Be accountable, you’re fat, deal with it and accept your pool of men has reduced drastically from what it could’ve been.
"What if she had theroid problems." What da hell is a theroid problem???! 😅🤣😂
excuses are like asses, everyone has one and they all stink..
I think you mean "opinions". Whoever you heard say that said it wrong.
@@smashtoadactually it's "butthole"
Short, ''Broken'' men aren't husbands’ material for them and it's okay for them to brag about not wanting these men and even shame their friends for dating those men. But when we state our preferences, we are accused of body shaming them, we are misogynistic, shallow, etc. etc.
When I used to eat ice cream, my two favorite flavors were "butter pecan" or "cookies and cream."
No amount of pressure from anyone would persuade me NOT to choose either of these two.
In other words, if you like/dislike a certain thing while selecting a mate, ignore shaming tactics from women at all cost.
Butter pecan without the pecan nuts in the ice cream>>>
That would be a perfect way to describe our tactics to a fat woman. ;)
Why did you stop eating ice cream???
Peanut butter ripple or mint chocolate chip
@@nickhalden9220 mint chocolate chip is ass
I prefer a healthy woman because medical bill are expensive as shit! I dont need that in my life!
If there's no initial physical attraction, then that's the end of the story.
You should hear the girls. He needs to be 6 feet, he needs to make this, he needs to work out and be muscular. And when we finally achieve that, you expect you can be lazy? An overweight woman tells the same story as an non muscular man, and that is lack of discipline.
I don't have six abs or skinny or well built, but I am not overweight either and I do take care of my health. I go up and down the stairs every few days carrying 2 water bottles at a time. I mean the 3-5 gallon ones. They are heavy when filled with water. Yet, I am not against women being a little bit oversize as long as they are keeping their health. Oversize and overweight can be fixed and that's on you, not anyone else or the society. For example, I had a friend who was more oversized than me and after a few years, he was skinny to point I didn't recognized him. My friend can change his body size so other oversize people (both genders) can as well. Just have to stop being lazy, eat right, and move your behind. If there's a will, then there's a way.
What’s up with girl in the back with that hat on? Is she in timeout?😅😅
brian's assistant.
Observe her in this video and other videos while she stares at herself on the big screen she makes all kinds of face grimaces🤣
shes avoiding whatever pathogen these 304s carry with them
She's the show mascot.
This is what I always say about obesity and fat positivity. Outside of genetic and medical reasons No one has the right to be fat in a world where large amounts of children are starving to death.
I am 5ft 6Inch, never had any issues with getting a relationship, hearing the insane expectations on this podcast is insane.
Ive been with my partner now for 13 years and we are capable of having fun and being in love and being there for each other without these insane expectations.
It’s unfair that food is priced inequitably so that some people are starving to death while others eat themselves to death.
probably to save the fatties
So would you like for food prices to be determined by how over/underweight a person is?
@@ysfex3sew that’s actually a really interesting proposal.
Been told I’m too skinny or “my dad wouldn’t like it(the fact that you’re half black)” for too long to not have any qualifications of my own. Just weigh less than me. I’m 6’ 145lbs what’s so hard about that ?
Hypocrisy at it’s finest
Her problem is, shes not very bright. Shes not really sure what point she's arguing.
Use that logic when asking a bank to loan you money.
Majority of women feel like you should be happy they settled for you.
There is also a subconscious judgement in ALL humans, both male and female to not prefer overweight people as a partner simply because they are far less likely to produce healthy children.
Overweight males and females are far more likely to have health issues and more likely their offspring will have those same health issues.
The closer they look to Rei Kuromiya, the better.
Here’s a topic, why do women fear accountability so much?