I was so emotionally invested in Remi and Alisha’s travel vlogs. It’s the end of an era. Also, Remi pls visit Korea with Cal. I loved you guy’s Japan trip last time. You did so much.
As someone who lost their dad last year, the relationship between you and your dad is so heart warming❤ I love watching you grow closer with them as you get older and can appreciate the time I get to spend now with my mom😢
Your dad is so sweet to share his life with you and us! My parents were also in the army so it was so interesting to hear how similar some of the things are on base! What a great trip!❤
Cal is the best. Also, I can totally see you going back and forth to Korea each year. I envision seeing little baby Cruz/Parsons running around the street markets tasting all that yummy food! 🥹
Remi this trips vlogs have been so good! Thank you for sharing something so personal, also your dad referring to us as “our friends” is the sweetest thing! Thank you Cruz family for sharing your history ❤
Remi! You have gotten me through some anxiety attacks, my depression, covid, postpartum, pregnancy! Literally every stage that’s been hard in my life you have gotten me through with just your videos! You have such a positive light and the most genuine energy!!!! Love you!!!!!
Favorite person, favorite creator, favorite channel, favorite content❤ Going to miss these exquisite Asia vlogs while looking forward to future content cause anything Remi posts is just chef’s kiss 🤌🏻🫶🏼🩵💯😌 love you Remi ❤️
Just watching your parents especially your dad wanting to share with us their childhood makes me sob with happiness because of how much happy memories are being relived. ❤😭
Dear Remi, THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart 🙏 for introducing me to Korea and above all for making me want to visit this marvellous country. An unforgettable memory for Alisha, you and your parents, that's for sure !!! 💝
Seeing you make these memories with your dad is everything! After losing my mom, my relationship with my dad changed a lot. I pray we can get back to this place one day and create new happy memories ❤
I worked a personal trainer at a gym and the head of marketing for Wilde was promoting their chips and I showed him your channel and said "Do you know MissRemiAshten? If you don't sponsor her yet, you should cause she's a huge fan!" so glad they listened😂🤗
Bro remi every time think you can’t get more relatable, you go ahead and casually drop some true, fire comments like, “I love hamtaro” while rationalizing some situation to have a positive spin. We love a relatable grateful queen. The lore continues hahahahaha
This was such a special series to watch, Remi! I went to Korea for the first time in March and last month this year from Guam and it’s so fun, I can’t imagine returning home with your family and Alisha! Xoxo
This entire trip just reminded me of how much I love my parents and how lucky I am to have a relationship with them like how you do with your parents, Remi!
remiiii i've watched you for years and seeing you go on this whole trip felt like part of me was healing with you 🥹 korea is my FAV place to travel to too and I'm going this fall again as well! this whole vlog series just made me more excited to go! i hope you're able to visit again this year, and you even inspired me to vlog my trip bc this looks like such a fun one to watch back on 🤍
Seeing Papa Cruz wave at the camera when you were on the bean bag chair, so precious! Seeing this as your last day in Korea is so bittersweet 🥹🩷🩷 again so happy you got to experience this trip 💕
Hi Remi!!! I am so glad that you got to go on this trip with some of your favorite people ever!! I know this meant so much to you! Thanks for vloging this trip, it’s like we’re there with you ❤❤❤❤ love girly❤
Ugh, I loved watching these Korea adventures✨ Rem your such a beautiful soul..so thoughtful for thinking of so many people on ur trip and getting them goodies! So sweet♥️
I have loved watching your Korea vlogs! It almost made me cry when you talked about giving your parents these special experiences. I am happy that you guys had such a good time and made it home safely!
I loved this series!!! I have a torn relationship with my dad so seeing you have such a loving and fun relationship with your dad brought me so much joy ❤
Ugh what a bittersweet ending 😭😭 You’ve inspired me so much that I’m also taking my parents back to Korea in October and my parents haven’t been back in 25 years 😭 Hoping i have the same healing trip as you did 💕
Can I be adopted by the Cruz family just for like a day?!?! I'm obsessed with the emotions and love and support you all show each other and give each other. Its truly beautiful and you have no idea how much you heal people by showing them healthy family moments. We love you Rem and family.❤ Side note: I also LOST it when you said the plane was a whale shark in the sky😂
Remi, I loved watching the Asia vlogs! Thank you so much for posting such in-depth and heartwarming content. You are truly the best TH-camr out there. So many times throughout the vlogs I also teared up when you did. I'm glad you kept those parts in because it truly shows what a lovely and caring person you are.
this entire series made me miss both of my parents so much. i wish i could do this with them. I'm so glad you got to do this with your parents and make these memories
The way I started crying when remis dad started talking about the military base 😢❤❤ remi I love you and your family so much thank you for sharing this with us 😊 and Alisha too of course I lost my dad ten years ago ans watching these vlogs have been so healing to my heart thank you ❤
Remi I love all of your vlogs. I loved all of the traveling vlogs and I’m so happy that you and Alisha got to enjoy Korea and Tokyo with your parents ❤❤❤
i love you and your family so much i also get emotional for no reason watching you guys, it s so beautiful to have a family like this, you guys are blessed
what a great trip 🥰 it was so great to go with your parents & make so many memories with the people you love, while you have time here in this world. If your parents does consider moving to Korea when they get older it will be so beautiful! I just got so emotional out of nowhere watching the last days in Korea with you Remi, I am also a silent cryer🥹 thanks to Cal for bringing you homemade flowers & good ol’ American junk food😆 I’m so glad you enjoyed your trip & that you guys returned safely🥰 ILYSM Remi ! Have a beautiful Wednesday. I’ll see you soon love🤍
I've been living through you Remi!!! So happy you were able to travel to your parents' homeland and experience it together and with your best friend Alisha. Also you surprised your parents with first class tickets too - what a dream!!! 🥹 ❤ Thanks for taking us along with you. Love you so much!!! You have such a big heart.
My dad immigrated to California from Mexico when he was 16. I wish I could take him back to where he is from but he is scared to fly. I loved watching you get so emotional during this trip with your family! I love my dad and you're dad seems like he is the best too! Thank you, Remi! For vlogging and letting us watch a glimpse of your life :)
Ive sooo enjoyed these vlogs. What a beautiful trip. That post you made about your parents and how this is their first time doing life too was so sweet & i keep thinking about it so much. Really changed my perspective. 🩷🫶🏻
You are so lucky to GET to do all this for your parents. I am crying during these vlogs because I wish I had the opportunity to do it but it’s too late for me. You are such a wonderful daughter and these were some of the best vlogs you’ve done ❤
just got done listening to this weeks episode of pretty basic and now a remi vlog!?! going to miss the asia vlogs so much but am so grateful for all the content youve given us during your trip🥹 appreciate you so much!
Omg I love how much you and Alisha love your parents ❤ I am so proud of you both for also not killing each other by the end of it because me and my bestie could not have spent all that time together 😂😂😂 so happy you got to experience so much with your parents ❤
Honestly, I don’t like travel blogs, and will rarely watch them. But yours for this trip, was amazing and I’m so bummed (surprising for me) but it’s over. I enjoyed them so much. It’s a beautiful experience to see you and touch with your roots and for you to give so much to your family. Thank you for taking us along. Glad you are back safe.
I hope you have enjoyed your vacation in Korea so far!! I hope you have safe travels back home! you are so amazing, Remi!! always look forward to watching your vlogs🩷🩷 you are such an inspiration to me!
Remi!! I love you so much omg, these have been the best vlogs to watch. Seeing you with your parents and Alisha is the sweetest thing, your parents are literal angels. You have such a great way of vlogging that makes it feel like we are right there with you. Your happiness is so contagious, thank you for all of the amazing content
Thankyou so much for inviting us into your travels with your parents and Alisha, I’m so happy you got to have this bonding time with them and make so many new and beautiful memories ❤ I’ve cried several times while watching these last few vlogs on your channel and Alisha’s I’m so happy for both of you definitely an incredible trip!
Remi I don't know if you will see this. But thank you for taking us on this trip with you, Alisha and your parents. I cried so many times thru out all the vlogs. Watching you with you parents seeing yout bond as best friends and meet your family. Truly thank you. Your parents are so cute and amazing. Hearing the stories and memories was so heart warming. I hope your parents know how much how we truly adore them. If you guys ever do an episode on PB would be a gift but not necessary if you wanna keep that to yourself. Glad you all made it back safe. Love you all so much❤❤❤❤
these japan and korea vlogss have been the most entertaining and addicting😍 i could just watch you shop,eat and freakout over sunnyangles all day🥰😽💗💗 can`t wait for the wedding contenttt❤❤
Your summer trip to Japan and Korea was so fun to watch! Thank you for sharing your adventures with us! I hope you and Cal get to visit to Korea together one day ❤😊
fav creator, fav channel, going to miss the asia vlogs so much, glad u had the best time in asia!!!! looking forward to la vlogs too!!! your editing and content is chef kiss, ilysm so proud of u🩷🩷🩷
If you’re comfortable sharing, I would love if when you did a recap you could go over costs and how much everything cost!! It’s very interesting to me how much travel costs
Honestly im so sad that the family trip is over but so happy all of y’all had a beautiful time I also teared up the whole Korean trip vlogs your parents are the cutest love that Alisha is the other daughter that joined and imma actually missed these family Asia vlogs its was so fun to watch and made me even more want to go to South Korea one day ❤
I love that Papa Cruz calls us his friends 🥹
YES 🥹😭
I was so emotionally invested in Remi and Alisha’s travel vlogs. It’s the end of an era. Also, Remi pls visit Korea with Cal. I loved you guy’s Japan trip last time. You did so much.
thank you so so much!! 🩵🥹🫶
OMFGGG 10+ years of me following and this is the first time you replied. You just made my day/night as I’m Asian 😄😄
@@RemLife
As someone who lost their dad last year, the relationship between you and your dad is so heart warming❤ I love watching you grow closer with them as you get older and can appreciate the time I get to spend now with my mom😢
Your dad is so sweet to share his life with you and us! My parents were also in the army so it was so interesting to hear how similar some of the things are on base! What a great trip!❤
Cal is the best. Also, I can totally see you going back and forth to Korea each year. I envision seeing little baby Cruz/Parsons running around the street markets tasting all that yummy food! 🥹
omg YES 🩵🥹😭
Remi this trips vlogs have been so good! Thank you for sharing something so personal, also your dad referring to us as “our friends” is the sweetest thing! Thank you Cruz family for sharing your history ❤
Remi! You have gotten me through some anxiety attacks, my depression, covid, postpartum, pregnancy! Literally every stage that’s been hard in my life you have gotten me through with just your videos! You have such a positive light and the most genuine energy!!!! Love you!!!!!
Favorite person, favorite creator, favorite channel, favorite content❤ Going to miss these exquisite Asia vlogs while looking forward to future content cause anything Remi posts is just chef’s kiss 🤌🏻🫶🏼🩵💯😌 love you Remi ❤️
omg thank you so much for your support, it truly means everything!! ILY 🥹🫶
Just watching your parents especially your dad wanting to share with us their childhood makes me sob with happiness because of how much happy memories are being relived. ❤😭
You can see how much Alisha has bonded with your dad at the airport. I love your guys friendship and family dynamic🥲
Dear Remi, THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart 🙏 for introducing me to Korea and above all for making me want to visit this marvellous country.
An unforgettable memory for Alisha, you and your parents, that's for sure !!! 💝
thank you so much for watching, ILY 🥹🩵🫶
Seeing you make these memories with your dad is everything! After losing my mom, my relationship with my dad changed a lot. I pray we can get back to this place one day and create new happy memories ❤
i love how you went with your dad and love how he talks about his past. so cute
TYSM 🥹🫶
I wish we could’ve seen their reaction to the first class seats! The family dynamic is so sweet 🥹
I love that you are enjoying this time with your parents and Alisha. Time flies and you will cherish these moments forever.
I worked a personal trainer at a gym and the head of marketing for Wilde was promoting their chips and I showed him your channel and said "Do you know MissRemiAshten? If you don't sponsor her yet, you should cause she's a huge fan!" so glad they listened😂🤗
Um also im LIVING for the vlog of Remi vlogging for us in business class in her cozy ass pjs. I aspire to be you queen. You are a damn icon.
omg ILYSM 🩵🥹
Bro remi every time think you can’t get more relatable, you go ahead and casually drop some true, fire comments like, “I love hamtaro” while rationalizing some situation to have a positive spin. We love a relatable grateful queen. The lore continues hahahahaha
The hamtaro reference sent meeee 😂
omg ILYSM 🩵🥹😭
That’s really all it takes ?? Damn
I had the hamtaro gameboy game back in the day 🥹
I don’t know how you were able to keep in your tears. This is the 4th time I cry
The most wholesome vlogs I’ve ever been emotionally involved in
Don't cry! Because I am going to start crying!
What an amazing trip! Thank you SO MUCH for sharing with us!! Welcome home!!
thank you so much for watching, ILY 🥹🫶
This trip has been absolutely amazing. Your parents are our parents too, they are the sweetest. I hope you take more trips with them.
This was such a special series to watch, Remi! I went to Korea for the first time in March and last month this year from Guam and it’s so fun, I can’t imagine returning home with your family and Alisha! Xoxo
thank you so much for watching, ILY!! 🥹🫶🩵
This entire trip just reminded me of how much I love my parents and how lucky I am to have a relationship with them like how you do with your parents, Remi!
omg YES 🥹🫶
Remis parents are too adorable 🥺 I love how supportive they are and wanted to share such sweet memories with us
I’m so glad y’all made it home safe. Thank you for sharing these special memories with us. Your parents deserve the world🥹
remiiii i've watched you for years and seeing you go on this whole trip felt like part of me was healing with you 🥹 korea is my FAV place to travel to too and I'm going this fall again as well! this whole vlog series just made me more excited to go! i hope you're able to visit again this year, and you even inspired me to vlog my trip bc this looks like such a fun one to watch back on 🤍
your dad is so sweet!! so glad you were able to visit the area he spent some time living too!!
thank you so so much 🥹🥹
Seeing Papa Cruz wave at the camera when you were on the bean bag chair, so precious! Seeing this as your last day in Korea is so bittersweet 🥹🩷🩷 again so happy you got to experience this trip 💕
Remi deserves all of the positivity in this world. ILY QUEEN ❤️
thank you so much 🥹 ILY 🫶
I just have to say that your mom is so cute, but she looks SO good! When I saw her arms, I gasped with how toned she is! Mama Cruz is mamaing! :D
Hi Remi!!! I am so glad that you got to go on this trip with some of your favorite people ever!! I know this meant so much to you! Thanks for vloging this trip, it’s like we’re there with you ❤❤❤❤ love girly❤
Remi u killed these vlogs!! I adore u
thank you so much, ILY 🩵🫶
Awww, Remi ur Dad is just too precious!! I would love having him be my Korea Tour Guide. ❤❤
Ugh, I loved watching these Korea adventures✨ Rem your such a beautiful soul..so thoughtful for thinking of so many people on ur trip and getting them goodies! So sweet♥️
Such a lovely end to what looked like a remarkable trip! Loved the content and loved seeing your sweet parents!
I have loved watching your Korea vlogs! It almost made me cry when you talked about giving your parents these special experiences. I am happy that you guys had such a good time and made it home safely!
i’m crying at the part where your dad is showing us his spots from growing up :(( so so special, ty again for sharing this trip with us ❤️
Your dad reminds me so much of my dad! I love that we’ll always be their babies when we are with them 🥹💖
I loved this whole series! Your dad is now one of my favorite people in the world! I adore him!
thank you so much 🥹🥹
I just love how excited you are for your parents, so so sweet.
You had the best time. So did we girl. Thanks for sharing yr adventures with us xxx
thank you so much for watching!! 🥹🫶🩵
Papa Cruz family yearly KOREA trip sounds like a fun time to me I lovveeddddddd these Korea vlogs
we are all feasting with the asia content thank you girls 💖
I loved this series!!! I have a torn relationship with my dad so seeing you have such a loving and fun relationship with your dad brought me so much joy ❤
Me watching the vlog feeling sad that "we're" leaving Korea...so grateful that you share so much with us! you bring so much joy
thank you so much for watching!! 🩵🫶
Ugh what a bittersweet ending 😭😭 You’ve inspired me so much that I’m also taking my parents back to Korea in October and my parents haven’t been back in 25 years 😭 Hoping i have the same healing trip as you did 💕
have the BEST time ever!! 🩵🥹🫶
Can I be adopted by the Cruz family just for like a day?!?! I'm obsessed with the emotions and love and support you all show each other and give each other. Its truly beautiful and you have no idea how much you heal people by showing them healthy family moments. We love you Rem and family.❤ Side note: I also LOST it when you said the plane was a whale shark in the sky😂
I swear your parents are the sweetest 🥺💖
So sad your trip is over but also excited for chill vlogs at home with Cal 🥰
Remi, I loved watching the Asia vlogs! Thank you so much for posting such in-depth and heartwarming content. You are truly the best TH-camr out there. So many times throughout the vlogs I also teared up when you did. I'm glad you kept those parts in because it truly shows what a lovely and caring person you are.
this entire series made me miss both of my parents so much. i wish i could do this with them. I'm so glad you got to do this with your parents and make these memories
thank you so much 🥹🥹
What a beautiful experience with your parents. Your mom and dad are just the cutest💕💕💕💕
thank you so much 🥹🥹
The way I started crying when remis dad started talking about the military base 😢❤❤ remi I love you and your family so much thank you for sharing this with us 😊 and Alisha too of course I lost my dad ten years ago ans watching these vlogs have been so healing to my heart thank you ❤
Remi I love all of your vlogs. I loved all of the traveling vlogs and I’m so happy that you and Alisha got to enjoy Korea and Tokyo with your parents ❤❤❤
TYSM 🥹🫶
ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE AIRPLANE FOOD CONTENT
Pink is SO good on you! 🎀
thank you so much 🫶🥹
I just finished the new episode of pretty basic podcast and now?? new vlog to watch? You are kiiiilling it Remiii💙
thank you so much 🩵🩵
@@RemLife oh my gooood thank you for replying queen😭💙
These trip vlogs have been so fun! Tks for sharing with us.
The end of an era ! These videos were so good!!!
i love you and your family so much i also get emotional for no reason watching you guys, it s so beautiful to have a family like this, you guys are blessed
rem the fit is GIVING we love
TYSM!! 🩵🥹🫶
Omg your dad tagging along with u & Alisha’s shenanigans is so freaking cute!!!!! ❤
what a great trip 🥰 it was so great to go with your parents & make so many memories with the people you love, while you have time here in this world. If your parents does consider moving to Korea when they get older it will be so beautiful! I just got so emotional out of nowhere watching the last days in Korea with you Remi, I am also a silent cryer🥹 thanks to Cal for bringing you homemade flowers & good ol’ American junk food😆 I’m so glad you enjoyed your trip & that you guys returned safely🥰 ILYSM Remi ! Have a beautiful Wednesday. I’ll see you soon love🤍
I'm so sad it's over :(( All the moments with your family are so cute! I'm glad you all enjoyed it. 🫶🫶
I've been living through you Remi!!! So happy you were able to travel to your parents' homeland and experience it together and with your best friend Alisha. Also you surprised your parents with first class tickets too - what a dream!!! 🥹 ❤ Thanks for taking us along with you. Love you so much!!! You have such a big heart.
love love love you!! thank you so much 🥹🫶
Loving the Korea vlogs!! Thank you so much for sharing ❤
thank you so so much for watching!! 🩵🥹
My dad immigrated to California from Mexico when he was 16. I wish I could take him back to where he is from but he is scared to fly. I loved watching you get so emotional during this trip with your family! I love my dad and you're dad seems like he is the best too! Thank you, Remi! For vlogging and letting us watch a glimpse of your life :)
Ive sooo enjoyed these vlogs. What a beautiful trip. That post you made about your parents and how this is their first time doing life too was so sweet & i keep thinking about it so much. Really changed my perspective. 🩷🫶🏻
I loved living vicariously through you and Alisha while watching these vlogs! I hope some day I can go to Korea too! ❤️
what do you mean is not your best? is a great look Remi i loved it, that short skirt the low socks a win and the cute top!
remi you are just the sweetest soul the energy you radiate is so positive and calming 🤍🤍🤍🤍
never stop being yourself have a beautiful day 💝
thank you so so much!! 🥹🩵
Remi, you are so sweet. a true angel on earth. so blessed to be able to live these iconic moments with you and Alisha. you are the best!!! 🙏❤️🎀
You are so lucky to GET to do all this for your parents. I am crying during these vlogs because I wish I had the opportunity to do it but it’s too late for me. You are such a wonderful daughter and these were some of the best vlogs you’ve done ❤
just got done listening to this weeks episode of pretty basic and now a remi vlog!?! going to miss the asia vlogs so much but am so grateful for all the content youve given us during your trip🥹 appreciate you so much!
Omg I love how much you and Alisha love your parents ❤ I am so proud of you both for also not killing each other by the end of it because me and my bestie could not have spent all that time together 😂😂😂 so happy you got to experience so much with your parents ❤
Literally one of my favorites💗 and the first class food test was amazing!
Honestly, I don’t like travel blogs, and will rarely watch them. But yours for this trip, was amazing and I’m so bummed (surprising for me) but it’s over. I enjoyed them so much. It’s a beautiful experience to see you and touch with your roots and for you to give so much to your family. Thank you for taking us along. Glad you are back safe.
I hope you have enjoyed your vacation in Korea so far!! I hope you have safe travels back home! you are so amazing, Remi!! always look forward to watching your vlogs🩷🩷 you are such an inspiration to me!
Love you Remi!! Your vlogs have been helping my anxiety lately, I’m so grateful to have you🥹🥹🩷🫶🏻
I LOVE a Remi upload 😍🫶🏼
TYSM, ily 🥹🫶
Remi!! I love you so much omg, these have been the best vlogs to watch. Seeing you with your parents and Alisha is the sweetest thing, your parents are literal angels. You have such a great way of vlogging that makes it feel like we are right there with you. Your happiness is so contagious, thank you for all of the amazing content
Thankyou so much for inviting us into your travels with your parents and Alisha, I’m so happy you got to have this bonding time with them and make so many new and beautiful memories ❤ I’ve cried several times while watching these last few vlogs on your channel and Alisha’s I’m so happy for both of you definitely an incredible trip!
Remi I don't know if you will see this. But thank you for taking us on this trip with you, Alisha and your parents. I cried so many times thru out all the vlogs. Watching you with you parents seeing yout bond as best friends and meet your family. Truly thank you. Your parents are so cute and amazing. Hearing the stories and memories was so heart warming. I hope your parents know how much how we truly adore them. If you guys ever do an episode on PB would be a gift but not necessary if you wanna keep that to yourself. Glad you all made it back safe. Love you all so much❤❤❤❤
I'm so sad it's the last Korea vlog! Remi thank you so much for all the content baby content!!
thank you so so much for watching!! 🥹🩵
@@RemLife OMG THE QUEEN REPLIED! 😭
Nooo i am gonna miss this travel vlog 😭 i hope remi & alisha will be back to korea these vlogs are so fun to watch 🥹
these japan and korea vlogss have been the most entertaining and addicting😍 i could just watch you shop,eat and freakout over sunnyangles all day🥰😽💗💗 can`t wait for the wedding contenttt❤❤
Your summer trip to Japan and Korea was so fun to watch! Thank you for sharing your adventures with us! I hope you and Cal get to visit to Korea together one day ❤😊
We must definitely see a Remi❤Cal trip to Korea❣️
YES 🥹😭
Hi Remi!! I love the vlogs and have been loving the korea/tokyo vlogs. Yours and Alisha friendship is so wholesome. Hope to meet you guys one day 🥲☺️
going to miss korea but so excited to have cal and the girls back in the vlogs!!
Yay a remi vlog to start off my Wednesday right
I love that shes getting to see her parents live out their dreams too its making me emo!!!
fav creator, fav channel, going to miss the asia vlogs so much, glad u had the best time in asia!!!! looking forward to la vlogs too!!! your editing and content is chef kiss, ilysm so proud of u🩷🩷🩷
If you’re comfortable sharing, I would love if when you did a recap you could go over costs and how much everything cost!! It’s very interesting to me how much travel costs
“our friends” your dad is the best!
Honestly im so sad that the family trip is over but so happy all of y’all had a beautiful time I also teared up the whole Korean trip vlogs your parents are the cutest love that Alisha is the other daughter that joined and imma actually missed these family Asia vlogs its was so fun to watch and made me even more want to go to South Korea one day ❤
YALL ATE UP THESE VLOGS THANK YOU I AM FULL
As a foodie Remi…. I love that you give us detailed info and footage of your favourite food! 😂❤
The most wholesome tour 🥰
thank you so much 🥹🥹
i cant believe the trip vlogs just ended :((( I'm gonna miss it so much!! it's been a blast watching everything
thank you so much for watching!! 🩵🩵
We must protect ani at all costs ❤