I agree. I watched Kai more and love her content. I only looked at Trinity's content recently. Its hard to say who is right or wrong in these situations. I wish neither of them bad and I hope they can move forward. They both have their own traumas and healing to work at.
To be honest I watch Kai and not Trinity, but I think both of them have some faults. Low-key though Kai does always run to the Internet to put somebody on blast. Like if it’s not your boyfriend-it’s your friends, if it’s not your friends- it’s your family… she seems to always be the victim somehow. and as someone who was “always the victim” I had to step back and realize that I was a problem at some point. But they’re both young and they’re probably just trying to figure out who they are and learning like everyone else in life. I don’t think either of them are evil people and I wish them the best
in her situation it could be she is truly the victim and she just tends to gravitate towards bad people. she needs to reevaluate that. but you shouldn’t be blaming her for being hurt/victimized by people and telling her truth. she’s speaking up about it to take her power back and y’all dismissing her. :/
@@yoyobowie1524 I agree. Accountability for who you and who you attract is one thing. But actually being the victim of multiple people bc of who you are is another.
The specific situations are weird on Trinity’s part but Kai does seem to always have an issue with someone, whether it be her college friends, family, boyfriends, or roommates
Like listen whilst I do think Trinity did something wrong, whenever a falling out happens it's NEVER just one person, both people played some part. Taking not only this into account, but also the fact that Kai always be falling out with people, Kai has sometype of issues(I mean we all do but she does victimize herself...A LOT). I'm not saying all the people that hurt her are innocent but Kai clearly has some issues of her own and did have some hand to play on her friendships/relationships not working out, that's what I take from all of this.
@@rorisangpitswane3595 or it can be that she truly is the victim and she tends to gravitate towards bad people. which is something she needs to take a step back about and reevaluate
I like Trinity, but all sis did was deflect. She never mentions her mom's involvement addressing Kai directly, but Trinity saying Kai omitted information is clearly justifying that Kai's video wasn't in vain & was in fact the truth. What we not gone do is come for Kai's TH-cam content. Which is solid, relatable & has a market. Youre calling the girl awkward KNOWING she has anxiety & things she shared w the world that could affect that. Kai didn't upload to attack your physical condition nor your "spirituality" the public is doing that on their own. (What's done in the dark will be brought to light.) Her ex-roommate has nothing to do with Kai & Trinity's situation, stop deflecting. If you felt like what she did was shady towards her ex-roommate, you wouldn't have moved in, but you did & you considered that girl your 'friend.' tbh this video is a response to all the public backlash she's getting, lol not Kai.
I haven’t watched much either of them, but I would assume that the roommate situation is relevant because it seems like a similar situation with her wanting to break the agreement. If that’s something she knew ahead of time then she moved in presumably off having her own experience and not letting what happened to others or situations before her effect her opinion. I wouldn’t say Trinity saying she omitted information justifies that Kai was being truthful or lying but simply painting herself as the victim without stating her own wrong doings in the situation. If your gonna tell what anyone does wrong you’d also have to tell your wrongs for it to be 100% truthful, it’s like (ex:) saying something rude and someone responding rude back but telling your friends how rude the person was to you but not stating you said something rude first. BUT I do agree that it seems as if there both doing the same thing of saying what the other did and not entirely saying the details. And many people feel Kai brings her issues to the internet all the time and is always the victim so if that’s a pattern then this would fit into that to a certain extent and I don’t believe I’ve seen Trinity drama before at all so many would take her side anyways but for her friends of years to agree and take sides I’d just assume she herself was omitting details on her end
@@LivingwithKi You seem very up-to-date considering you 'haven't watched much either of them.' You also agree with the other half of yt viewers, so why comment on an opposing opinion diff from yours knowing that persons opinion will most likely not change? Why go out of your way with THAT MUCH of an opinion if you didn't agree or watch much of either. We're confused ma'am.
As someone with ADHD I think it’s important for Kai to be alone for a while and really heal all of her traumas and figure out what type of relationships she wants to build because it’s easy to let people walk all over you when you have rejection sensitivity and anxiety
well someone raised by narcissistic parents are more likely to gravitate towards relationships that mimic that. its a hard cycle to break so im glad she recognized it and is moving accordingly.
Then why are you listening to someone who pushed Trinity to be roommates with her, to pay for most of the rent, and then to break the lease with her after a few months over a disagreement about the thrift store? You don’t think that’s weird and psycho behavior?
especially when they go so hard to "treat" a person as a friend. You don't know for real. We see friendships fallout after YEARS what makes you think you can fully trust let alone move in with a mutual friend or TH-camr you haven't known outside of social media and occupying some of the same spaces.
before I watched the video I scrolled through the comments and I really had to eyeroll at everyone that thought having horrible roommates was a red flag. If you are old enough to live with multiple strangers most do it because it's cheaper than living alone. A lot of people find horrible roommates and sometimes it's just a reflection of what you'll find in strangers or sometimes even friends.
This story seems off, but now that I’m watching the entire thing, I do understand that Kai moved out of her house, moved three different times, and dropped out of college in very little time. So it’s definitely concerning what’s going on in her mental state rn. But then again, why would trinity wait to say this about Kai now? That seemed suspicious. Like why would u say “all she posts about is negativity you can watch through her videos” if this is how u felt about her why move in with her? Why befriend her? Idk it just seems weird on both ends
I’m not sure what you’re trying to say about Kai. She moved out of her house because her her parents were emotionally abusive & she wanted to move to Atlanta. Kai moved 2 times because she had horrible roommates, the other time was because her rent was raised & it wasn’t worth it. & she dropped out of college back in 2019 so I’m not sure if I’d say that happened in “very little time.” (Not being rude btw)
@@BratayleyMusically-fk1kg also not to mention that she was recently diagnosed with ADHD, and most people know how frustrating it can be in terms of living daily life. All of the “points” the person was trying to make sounded more like jabs. Saying comments that have no structure, especially when the story behind the situations are already properly explained.
It’s funny cos she’s the same one that made videos with Kai and once again those were about problems. Their content is similar so idk what Trinity is getting at
You dont really ever know someone until you live with them. She seen her as a friend. They had many good memories together but ppl always show their true colors when you're no longer friends with them.
It’s a lot!!! 😮💨 I don’t really feel/relate to Trinity that much I’m not a subscriber so I can’t comment on her but Kai needs to learn how to be alone, that means living alone, being her own friend and learning how to build boundaries with people she makes friends/relationships or acquaintances. Don’t just go live with someone even if you’ve know them forever. Also you don’t have to be friends with everyone you meet 🙄
I really like your response. Im not a viewer of Trinity but I have come across her videos and didn't like her vibe from the past videos I've seen. I totally agree with you in response to Kai because I feel like she's at the age of finding herself but needs to explore that part on her own due to her medical history so can have more clarity on the ppl she encounters. I like Kai and how she navigates her stories and accountability. We aren't perfect but she seems to be trying.
These comments are kinda weird. Y’all are picking sides when you don’t need to and don’t know them. What I have notice is that Kai always having drama with everybody and brings it to TH-cam for content purposes. Yeah if that’s how she makes her coin🤷🏽♀️ I also don’t like how y’all are quick to say “Trinity is at fault idc” or “Kai is right idc” without stating why which leaves me to assume that you’re only saying that because you are a fan of Kai and same goes for the trinity fans. This stuff is petty.
It’s sucks, I really like both of them. But also I feel like their both not telling us fully the truth and it’s honestly not our business so…. I’m surprised Kai said anything but she is known to be blunt and speak her truth so it ain’t that surprising. Idk idk. I’m confused and at the end of the day we’re all human. We’re all not fully bad or good. Ima great friend but I can also be shitty sometimes too so yeeeeah, 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
im subscribed to kai, only know about trinity from kai and trinity definitely made some points. Kai deleted one of my comments saying it's a little odd that she was expecting things like "vulnerability" from her friend/roommate. It just felt like a part of the story was missing, and not just whatever Kai did wrong but details that seemed important to know about her/trinity's dynamic. I'm team if you gone tell a story, tell the full story and something about the story felt off. This isn't kai's first time putting someone in her life on blast and making them seem like a psychopath. She throws the word narcissist around way too much like it's not an actual mental illness and I was very thrown off about how comfortable she was talking about trinity being suicidal as much as she did. Truth is, trinity probably did do and was everything kai said in the video but kai allowed much of the behavior to go on because she can't communicate her boundaries. Nothing justifies never telling your roommates/friends that you're moving out (unless theyre a danger to you) except poor communication skills and not giving af. Kai may be a people pleaser to avoid conflict in her relationships but people pleasers are also master manipulators. constantly and consciously doing things for people that you dont want to do and not telling them is not caring and innocent, it can be a form of manipulation. Anyways, I really only like her life advice and videos about mental health, those other videos are very unnecessary.
@@essentialvideos7661 If she lied about that how can you consider anything else that comes out of her mouth to be the truth? Do you hear yourself? This is how narcissism works. I hope she get’s the help she needs but she treated kai wrong, and used her mental state as an excuse. To then turn around and mock kai working for uber eats as if she (trinity) doesn’t have a video on her channel about using only fans. It may not seem like a big deal because we weren’t there, but kai checked all points Trinity made in this video. Anyone who has experienced narcissistic abuse can clearly see she is deflecting and its really sad.
I watched Kai more than Trinity but after both videos and all of Kai’s videos calling everyone she has conflict with a narcissist I can’t make Kai the sole victim or even a complete one. She has made a lot of abrupt changes that directly affect people in the last year. She claims ppl hurt her but clearly hasn’t established clear boundaries with people. I honestly saw a pattern of calling others narcissists before this whole situation but now I genuinely have concern for Kai mental health and how she proceeds with things in the future. I don’t think Trinity is blameless but she damn sure aint no villain that she is portrayed to be
Kai clearly has problems. You broke a lease with one roommate bc she was a “crazy narcissist”, fled to Trinity, asked to roommate in with Trinity, and then ask Trinity to pay more for rent/utilities, call her a liar over some miscommunication about her mom, flee to Chicago with a moving truck and block everyone. And then file a police report on Trinity for “emotional abuse”. I’m so lost how her followers are unable to read between the lines.
Kai disabled comments on part 1 (her role in the story was questionable) but left comments turned on for part 2, about trinity. I found that unfair and opening up the energy for her followers to attack trinity which is not ok.
Honestly you’re kinda right I’m disappointed in myself for just taking Kai’s words as the truth. I feel like she handled a lot of things wrong. But that doesn’t mean she wasn’t hurt.
Tbh, i recently stopped watching Kai because I find her content depressing... always the victim to something or someone or some situation. Trinity also frequently platforms of her troubles, traumas and hardships (which i find depressing as well) so i stopped watching her too. All that to say, both of em love being a victim. Im sure they both guilty. IMO they both use yt as personal therapy instead of to entertain an audience & that shtick gets old real quick when you realize that your own healing isn't the worlds responsibility. It's your own. Everyone has a story, i appreciate hearing theirs but harping on how tough life is 24/7? you gotta love being a victim. boffum guilty
what is her body doing ? she sitting still she literally sits like that in all her videos.. and lastly we do not know either of them so u cant tell whats going on through body language thats invalid
@@saynomoh its her constantly looking to the side while deflecting. Its her shrugging her shoulders and slightly rolling her eyes .. I mean correct me if im wrong but thats not a side affect of bells palsy is it? It wasn’t just her body language but her choice of words. She did not bring up a single point that kai didn’t address herself besides the pillows and the ornaments (which kai later explained that she had a pet cat which.. would def make sense) makes me wonder if trinity used those two instances to justify being petty towards kai in private. Its her coming for her working for uber eats, her mental health status, and further invalidating kai’s experience by saying that everything wasn’t a big deal and was blown out of proportion. Its in the things she didnt address.. like moving someone into kai’s room while that month was already payed for by kai!! Its her not addressing her mother banging on that girls damn door .. for whatever reason. Being petty, the neck movements. Ya’ll be blind to subtle shit like that even within your own family dynamics so im not surprised you didn’t catch it with trinity. Kai took her video down and I wish she didn’t because it was very clear how careful with her words she was to not bash trinity while all trinity did was deflect and gaslight. That shit is disgusting and so subtle you’d actually have to experience people like that to know. You’ll get it one day love.
I feel like these spiritual girls have the most issues ever Even tho they swear they have everything together and they’re healing they really don’t know what they are doing at all both need some therapy fs both have issues within their selves which seems to bleed into their friendships and relationships
lmfao nah bc trinity literally said “any energy all bring is coming right back” aka she’s deflecting. y’all please practice discernment and remind urself this situation is impacting two people you do not know!!! decide what’s truth based off all the info available from both parties and try to be aware of your own biases. trinity is critical of kai abt is her videos focused on other people. this example to argue ‘kai always shits on other people’ is so ridiculous bc those same videos were not only describing kai’s life experience but,,,,, we exist in a world with other people, so why would we focus sharing our stories solely abt us??? unless we are mega self-centered, that’s not how real life works…
i came into this video fully believing Kai Foster, but Trinity made some excellent points. Even tho Kai had receipts I think they both have issues but Kai was probably projecting and being a hyper realist, who tends to come off as 'better than you', more intelligent and can't let things roll off their shoulders.... With this mindset, I think Kai may be taking some things said, offensively or over analyzing it and then doing petty shit, thinking Trinity was low key trying to come for her. With this attitude, then rubbing Trinity the wrong way and actually bringing out negativity. All energies always get reflected, no matter how 'good' a person is. I was able to come to this conclusion because based off Kai's videos, i find myself unsubscribing and resubscribing often, and when I am subscribed, I don't watch her videos like that, just because of her negative disposition. She was a very bleek and depressing view of the world and that is a personality trait. It really sucks bc it's probably based off previous bad experiences or trauma. And it might be how she copes with the world. Again, it sucks but it happens. Almost wish this was never brought to the internet cause it seems so petty these two girls could've just talked it out. But hopefully they both do some internal reflection and choose to be more positive moving forward, learning whatever lesson this has forced them to learn.
I swore I wasn’t going to watch this but here I am. I don’t think Kai was taking to the ornaments off the tree. I think it’s incredibly disrespectful to weaponize someone’s mental health. I wish y’all both the best because this is a hoootttt mess.
Fr it’s so weird but will never know the truth cause we weren’t their but they both need to heal something cause they attracted each other for a reason
I don't know either of these people personally I don't want to fan the flames. However, it's easy to see the personality clash. The Thrift store instance is an example of that if Kai is ADHD and nerodivergent she might have taken the suggestion literally and being the only one with a car it is one more expense to pay for if you show up to a place that you didn't necessarily benefit from. If Trinity isn't a literal person it might be easy to dismiss feelings that you think are non issues. However, Kai wouldn't be the only person with a car to get upset about feeling used for a car especially if you're not going to a mutually agreed place. 🚩 Plus when things hit the fan one of them had very few people to rely on while the other had nearby friends and their mother who could get involved. Assuming that by the end neither of them saw it for each other, I can see why they leaned into what made sense to them. which was to move out rather than remain in a toxic space where you're speaking to your roommate and dealing with their mother and friends. While the other may want other people around to feel comfortable. They both lean into what feels comfortable to them which can come across as passive aggressive or too abrasive to the wrong person. I also can't completely blame Trinity for not giving more details because she's not a celebrity and the internet isn't a court case. And Kai had every right to go to the leasing manager if she knew she was going to dip and wasn't having positive conversations with Trinity about removal of the lease. you can feel however you want about it but people leave early for plenty of reasons including to move in with family or a partner 🤷🏾♀️ I don't know why it was so difficult to sign the breaking of the lease though...If you believe your roommate is toxic then let her go pay for the peace of mind especially if you have friends coming over and you're not on speaking terms. Either way they might have been better off as acquaintances. See me and come live with me are two different things
i find it weird how she's bashing kai about her content and how she handled the situation with her old roommate, but where is this coming from if they were friends over their content, obviously she liked her content but now she's bashing it. and all of a sudden she handled the roommate weird, but she still moved in with kai? this whole vid was heavy deflecting.
Idc I love Trinity's content that drama is her drama I'm just gunna continue enjoying what she puts out cause at the end of the day. No ones perfect and no ones life is drama free unless u literally live under a rock and even then u beefing with bugs for space so.. 🤷🏾♀️
man, I aint been on social media like that lately and the comment that has me weak rn is "The chakra girls are fighting omg 🤣" Personally, I've only watched trinity and I only seen one video about kai and I found that lil girl annoying as hell. LOL so, idk. Idk what's going on so I won't speak nun.🤓
yall saying kai is a problem for how many roomates/friends she go through. but how is being honest with yourself about how you feel about your "friends" fucked up? all kai did was tell her part of the story, she was open & honest about the events in her life. just because everyone is now realizing things about trinity doesn't mean kai is evil. while i don't think someone showing up late bc of traffic is a friendship ending experience, i can see how someone who is adjusting to life on new meds can be turned off by this, along with the whole thrift store thing. i also don't think there's anything wrong with kai sharing what happened on youtube. kai's been sharing her life on the internet for a while, so if trinity was uncomfortable with that she probably should've taken that into account before she moved in with her. and i definitely don't think kai put the videos up to "harm trinity's brand" (like trinity said). anywho, im not taking anyones side bc i genuinely have no idea who is right in this situation, im almost certain that no one is. i think they both have struggles in life, they're both so young and life is probably so chaotic right now. but i have watched both of them since before they met each other. and i think i've come to the conclusion that they're just polar opposites and tbh i never thought they would last that long as friends. some people just don't get along great & that's fine. as for recently, i will say i've been leaning more towards kai's content. i just relate to her a little bit more, and recently finding out trinity is severely anti-vax just rubs me the wrong way and i don't feel fully comfortable supporting someone who is anti-vax and who hosts MANY events with no covid regulations. so i dont support trinity as much as kai, not because of the drama but more fundamental reasons. anyways everyone should be aware that we DO NOT have the whole picture for many reasons. so just dont be too persistent in your beliefs about them bc we really don't know who they are irl.
I don’t know what’s going on tbh but I feel like these are two people that think they can never be wrong lol especially kai I had made a joke on her assumptions about me video and she got so offended and it was never that serious like it was Fr a joke and ppl say it all the time where we’re from. (You not really from Chicago joke)
I thought Kai’s story was based off of someone else 😭 I did have a feeling Kai’s video was about Trinity because of one of the videos Trinity made and Kai came and helped with the smoke detector in the background.
Kai posted two videos on her channel (she took them down though) basically about drama with her Trinity. They were roommates for a while, and some shit was happening etc. I didn’t watch the full videos but that’s basically what happened. 😭
If you look at both of their lives you can see who has more going for themself.. the girl ran to the internet about her “friend” after fleeing to another state. In an extremely tacky manner.
NOW GO BACK AND WATCH KAI’s VIDEO SHE JUST REUPLOADED IT. THERES A CLEAR DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE WAY KAI SPOKE VS TRINITY. MAKES IT VERY CLEAR WHOSE THE NARCISSIST.
When you are always the victim you do need to step back and look at the situation buttttt I do feel you could also invite that energy towards you so it’s not out of the realm of possibility
I’m on Kai’s side. You could tell that trin was off with all the masculinity and aggressiveness she emitted in the vid they did together. That’s way before their falling out.
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The chakra girls are fighting omg 🤣
Lmfaoooo it’s definitely something in the shrooms. 😂 they gotta break out the sage after this shit
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Hilarious 😂
Maybe it has something to do with their zodiac 🤨😂
Maybe Kai and trinity are both the problem
I agree. I watched Kai more and love her content. I only looked at Trinity's content recently. Its hard to say who is right or wrong in these situations. I wish neither of them bad and I hope they can move forward. They both have their own traumas and healing to work at.
This is what I thought.
There's 3 sides to every story. Kai's side, Trinity's side, and the truth.
i think so
To be honest I watch Kai and not Trinity, but I think both of them have some faults.
Low-key though Kai does always run to the Internet to put somebody on blast. Like if it’s not your boyfriend-it’s your friends, if it’s not your friends- it’s your family… she seems to always be the victim somehow. and as someone who was “always the victim” I had to step back and realize that I was a problem at some point. But they’re both young and they’re probably just trying to figure out who they are and learning like everyone else in life. I don’t think either of them are evil people and I wish them the best
in her situation it could be she is truly the victim and she just tends to gravitate towards bad people. she needs to reevaluate that. but you shouldn’t be blaming her for being hurt/victimized by people and telling her truth. she’s speaking up about it to take her power back and y’all dismissing her. :/
Well said!
@@yoyobowie1524 I agree. Accountability for who you and who you attract is one thing. But actually being the victim of multiple people bc of who you are is another.
I unfollowed her. She’s at odds with her parents, the sorority she was pledging, all her roommates, all of her exes. It’s definitely HER.
Your comment is so loving man💕
The specific situations are weird on Trinity’s part but Kai does seem to always have an issue with someone, whether it be her college friends, family, boyfriends, or roommates
Like listen whilst I do think Trinity did something wrong, whenever a falling out happens it's NEVER just one person, both people played some part. Taking not only this into account, but also the fact that Kai always be falling out with people, Kai has sometype of issues(I mean we all do but she does victimize herself...A LOT). I'm not saying all the people that hurt her are innocent but Kai clearly has some issues of her own and did have some hand to play on her friendships/relationships not working out, that's what I take from all of this.
right i feel like it cant be everybody u encounter bringing problems in ur life like sis lets do some self-reflection and deep diving
@@rorisangpitswane3595 she never takes accountabilty of the role she played but demonizes everyone
@@rorisangpitswane3595 or it can be that she truly is the victim and she tends to gravitate towards bad people. which is something she needs to take a step back about and reevaluate
I’m so glad I wasn’t the only one feeling like that
I liked trinity but Kai had receipts. Kai had no reason to lie. Trinity just a weird as person and she needs to own that
This lol.
true. not saying kai was 100% the innocent one here, but trinity's part of the story has so many holes. like it's weird
I like Trinity, but all sis did was deflect. She never mentions her mom's involvement addressing Kai directly, but Trinity saying Kai omitted information is clearly justifying that Kai's video wasn't in vain & was in fact the truth. What we not gone do is come for Kai's TH-cam content. Which is solid, relatable & has a market. Youre calling the girl awkward KNOWING she has anxiety & things she shared w the world that could affect that. Kai didn't upload to attack your physical condition nor your "spirituality" the public is doing that on their own. (What's done in the dark will be brought to light.) Her ex-roommate has nothing to do with Kai & Trinity's situation, stop deflecting. If you felt like what she did was shady towards her ex-roommate, you wouldn't have moved in, but you did & you considered that girl your 'friend.'
tbh this video is a response to all the public backlash she's getting, lol not Kai.
I haven’t watched much either of them, but I would assume that the roommate situation is relevant because it seems like a similar situation with her wanting to break the agreement. If that’s something she knew ahead of time then she moved in presumably off having her own experience and not letting what happened to others or situations before her effect her opinion. I wouldn’t say Trinity saying she omitted information justifies that Kai was being truthful or lying but simply painting herself as the victim without stating her own wrong doings in the situation. If your gonna tell what anyone does wrong you’d also have to tell your wrongs for it to be 100% truthful, it’s like (ex:) saying something rude and someone responding rude back but telling your friends how rude the person was to you but not stating you said something rude first.
BUT I do agree that it seems as if there both doing the same thing of saying what the other did and not entirely saying the details. And many people feel Kai brings her issues to the internet all the time and is always the victim so if that’s a pattern then this would fit into that to a certain extent and I don’t believe I’ve seen Trinity drama before at all so many would take her side anyways but for her friends of years to agree and take sides I’d just assume she herself was omitting details on her end
@@LivingwithKi You seem very up-to-date considering you 'haven't watched much either of them.' You also agree with the other half of yt viewers, so why comment on an opposing opinion diff from yours knowing that persons opinion will most likely not change? Why go out of your way with THAT MUCH of an opinion if you didn't agree or watch much of either. We're confused ma'am.
I honestly wouldn’t trust or be friends with either of them lmao they’re both questionable
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lmao tbh
Very.
@Kay Vibes lmao
As someone with ADHD I think it’s important for Kai to be alone for a while and really heal all of her traumas and figure out what type of relationships she wants to build because it’s easy to let people walk all over you when you have rejection sensitivity and anxiety
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Kai ALWAYS has an issue with someone. Someone's always a narcissist in her life. It's literally draining to listen to after a while
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well someone raised by narcissistic parents are more likely to gravitate towards relationships that mimic that. its a hard cycle to break so im glad she recognized it and is moving accordingly.
@@user-cv6dw4nl2g or be a narcissist themselves
@@michiko5364 yeah and its pretty clear who is who.
@@user-cv6dw4nl2g yes
Kai actually said in her video that trinity pays more rent than her
Then why are you listening to someone who pushed Trinity to be roommates with her, to pay for most of the rent, and then to break the lease with her after a few months over a disagreement about the thrift store? You don’t think that’s weird and psycho behavior?
@@laela6289 I’m pretty sure it was wayyyy more than just the thrift store thing.
@@laela6289 are you the mother or something? Why are you so involved in this 🤣
Thank you, Kai didn’t hide those details, she explained them the same way…
@@BratayleyMusically-fk1kg lmaoo they too invested 💀💀
This is why I hate when TH-camrs become friends 🙄
especially when they go so hard to "treat" a person as a friend. You don't know for real. We see friendships fallout after YEARS what makes you think you can fully trust let alone move in with a mutual friend or TH-camr you haven't known outside of social media and occupying some of the same spaces.
they always fall out chile
Ikr… all the videos be about the need for weeks lol like please get back to the reason I started watching you. PALEEEAASSEE🙄
before I watched the video I scrolled through the comments and I really had to eyeroll at everyone that thought having horrible roommates was a red flag. If you are old enough to live with multiple strangers most do it because it's cheaper than living alone. A lot of people find horrible roommates and sometimes it's just a reflection of what you'll find in strangers or sometimes even friends.
This story seems off, but now that I’m watching the entire thing, I do understand that Kai moved out of her house, moved three different times, and dropped out of college in very little time. So it’s definitely concerning what’s going on in her mental state rn. But then again, why would trinity wait to say this about Kai now? That seemed suspicious. Like why would u say “all she posts about is negativity you can watch through her videos” if this is how u felt about her why move in with her? Why befriend her? Idk it just seems weird on both ends
I’m not sure what you’re trying to say about Kai. She moved out of her house because her her parents were emotionally abusive & she wanted to move to Atlanta. Kai moved 2 times because she had horrible roommates, the other time was because her rent was raised & it wasn’t worth it. & she dropped out of college back in 2019 so I’m not sure if I’d say that happened in “very little time.” (Not being rude btw)
@@BratayleyMusically-fk1kg also not to mention that she was recently diagnosed with ADHD, and most people know how frustrating it can be in terms of living daily life. All of the “points” the person was trying to make sounded more like jabs. Saying comments that have no structure, especially when the story behind the situations are already properly explained.
It’s funny cos she’s the same one that made videos with Kai and once again those were about problems. Their content is similar so idk what Trinity is getting at
@@txxcisi4894 !!!!!
You dont really ever know someone until you live with them. She seen her as a friend. They had many good memories together but ppl always show their true colors when you're no longer friends with them.
I feel like they both got major issues.
Anybody who gives that many fks about being on camera has major issues imo
It’s a lot!!! 😮💨 I don’t really feel/relate to Trinity that much I’m not a subscriber so I can’t comment on her but Kai needs to learn how to be alone, that means living alone, being her own friend and learning how to build boundaries with people she makes friends/relationships or acquaintances. Don’t just go live with someone even if you’ve know them forever. Also you don’t have to be friends with everyone you meet 🙄
I really like your response. Im not a viewer of Trinity but I have come across her videos and didn't like her vibe from the past videos I've seen. I totally agree with you in response to Kai because I feel like she's at the age of finding herself but needs to explore that part on her own due to her medical history so can have more clarity on the ppl she encounters. I like Kai and how she navigates her stories and accountability. We aren't perfect but she seems to be trying.
i think she needs to be alone too
These comments are kinda weird. Y’all are picking sides when you don’t need to and don’t know them. What I have notice is that Kai always having drama with everybody and brings it to TH-cam for content purposes. Yeah if that’s how she makes her coin🤷🏽♀️ I also don’t like how y’all are quick to say “Trinity is at fault idc” or “Kai is right idc” without stating why which leaves me to assume that you’re only saying that because you are a fan of Kai and same goes for the trinity fans. This stuff is petty.
Kai calls everyone a narcy
It’s sucks, I really like both of them. But also I feel like their both not telling us fully the truth and it’s honestly not our business so…. I’m surprised Kai said anything but she is known to be blunt and speak her truth so it ain’t that surprising. Idk idk. I’m confused and at the end of the day we’re all human. We’re all not fully bad or good. Ima great friend but I can also be shitty sometimes too so yeeeeah, 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Yup I think the same way
im subscribed to kai, only know about trinity from kai and trinity definitely made some points. Kai deleted one of my comments saying it's a little odd that she was expecting things like "vulnerability" from her friend/roommate. It just felt like a part of the story was missing, and not just whatever Kai did wrong but details that seemed important to know about her/trinity's dynamic. I'm team if you gone tell a story, tell the full story and something about the story felt off. This isn't kai's first time putting someone in her life on blast and making them seem like a psychopath. She throws the word narcissist around way too much like it's not an actual mental illness and I was very thrown off about how comfortable she was talking about trinity being suicidal as much as she did. Truth is, trinity probably did do and was everything kai said in the video but kai allowed much of the behavior to go on because she can't communicate her boundaries. Nothing justifies never telling your roommates/friends that you're moving out (unless theyre a danger to you) except poor communication skills and not giving af. Kai may be a people pleaser to avoid conflict in her relationships but people pleasers are also master manipulators. constantly and consciously doing things for people that you dont want to do and not telling them is not caring and innocent, it can be a form of manipulation. Anyways, I really only like her life advice and videos about mental health, those other videos are very unnecessary.
I’m sorry but Kai was telling the truth chile😂
What makes u say that and I’m neutral
Right, most of the “Smalll things” she talked about, Kai explained them too…
Maybe she was but I still don’t understand why she’s mad..because they didn’t go to a thrift store and she lied about being on the phone with her mom?
@@essentialvideos7661 If she lied about that how can you consider anything else that comes out of her mouth to be the truth? Do you hear yourself? This is how narcissism works. I hope she get’s the help she needs but she treated kai wrong, and used her mental state as an excuse. To then turn around and mock kai working for uber eats as if she (trinity) doesn’t have a video on her channel about using only fans. It may not seem like a big deal because we weren’t there, but kai checked all points Trinity made in this video. Anyone who has experienced narcissistic abuse can clearly see she is deflecting and its really sad.
I watched Kai more than Trinity but after both videos and all of Kai’s videos calling everyone she has conflict with a narcissist I can’t make Kai the sole victim or even a complete one. She has made a lot of abrupt changes that directly affect people in the last year. She claims ppl hurt her but clearly hasn’t established clear boundaries with people.
I honestly saw a pattern of calling others narcissists before this whole situation but now I genuinely have concern for Kai mental health and how she proceeds with things in the future. I don’t think Trinity is blameless but she damn sure aint no villain that she is portrayed to be
I dont think her calling 3 people out of the hundreds that have been in her life narcissists is a problem or a pattern
Kai clearly has problems. You broke a lease with one roommate bc she was a “crazy narcissist”, fled to Trinity, asked to roommate in with Trinity, and then ask Trinity to pay more for rent/utilities, call her a liar over some miscommunication about her mom, flee to Chicago with a moving truck and block everyone. And then file a police report on Trinity for “emotional abuse”. I’m so lost how her followers are unable to read between the lines.
It’s confusing as hell for sure
The wisest comment I’ve seen about this situation lol.
Kai disabled comments on part 1 (her role in the story was questionable) but left comments turned on for part 2, about trinity. I found that unfair and opening up the energy for her followers to attack trinity which is not ok.
Honestly you’re kinda right I’m disappointed in myself for just taking Kai’s words as the truth. I feel like she handled a lot of things wrong. But that doesn’t mean she wasn’t hurt.
I love Kai, but thats one thing that kinda turns me off from her...she's always quick to diagnose someone.
Tbh, i recently stopped watching Kai because I find her content depressing... always the victim to something or someone or some situation. Trinity also frequently platforms of her troubles, traumas and hardships (which i find depressing as well) so i stopped watching her too. All that to say, both of em love being a victim. Im sure they both guilty. IMO they both use yt as personal therapy instead of to entertain an audience & that shtick gets old real quick when you realize that your own healing isn't the worlds responsibility. It's your own. Everyone has a story, i appreciate hearing theirs but harping on how tough life is 24/7? you gotta love being a victim. boffum guilty
Her body language truly telling on her
She has an rare disease that affect the movements in her face
@@musicwithlove1000 someone already commented that. thanks love. wasn’t taking a jab at her condition. I said what i said.
@@musicwithlove1000 her body language. Not her face
what is her body doing ? she sitting still she literally sits like that in all her videos.. and lastly we do not know either of them so u cant tell whats going on through body language thats invalid
@@saynomoh its her constantly looking to the side while deflecting. Its her shrugging her shoulders and slightly rolling her eyes .. I mean correct me if im wrong but thats not a side affect of bells palsy is it? It wasn’t just her body language but her choice of words. She did not bring up a single point that kai didn’t address herself besides the pillows and the ornaments (which kai later explained that she had a pet cat which.. would def make sense) makes me wonder if trinity used those two instances to justify being petty towards kai in private. Its her coming for her working for uber eats, her mental health status, and further invalidating kai’s experience by saying that everything wasn’t a big deal and was blown out of proportion. Its in the things she didnt address.. like moving someone into kai’s room while that month was already payed for by kai!! Its her not addressing her mother banging on that girls damn door .. for whatever reason. Being petty, the neck movements. Ya’ll be blind to subtle shit like that even within your own family dynamics so im not surprised you didn’t catch it with trinity. Kai took her video down and I wish she didn’t because it was very clear how careful with her words she was to not bash trinity while all trinity did was deflect and gaslight. That shit is disgusting and so subtle you’d actually have to experience people like that to know. You’ll get it one day love.
I learn from both of their content. They're human, young, and on public platforms - it'll be okay, they'll figure themselves out. Hopefully make up
this. idc ab taking sides or anything lmao they’re just humans being humans
kaii needs to work on her mental health cause she will call anyone a narcissist at this point.
Since when we’re they beefing I’m dead afff
I feel like these spiritual girls have the most issues ever Even tho they swear they have everything together and they’re healing they really don’t know what they are doing at all both need some therapy fs both have issues within their selves which seems to bleed into their friendships and relationships
lmfao nah bc trinity literally said “any energy all bring is coming right back” aka she’s deflecting.
y’all please practice discernment and remind urself this situation is impacting two people you do not know!!! decide what’s truth based off all the info available from both parties and try to be aware of your own biases.
trinity is critical of kai abt is her videos focused on other people. this example to argue ‘kai always shits on other people’ is so ridiculous bc those same videos were not only describing kai’s life experience but,,,,, we exist in a world with other people, so why would we focus sharing our stories solely abt us??? unless we are mega self-centered, that’s not how real life works…
i came into this video fully believing Kai Foster, but Trinity made some excellent points. Even tho Kai had receipts I think they both have issues but Kai was probably projecting and being a hyper realist, who tends to come off as 'better than you', more intelligent and can't let things roll off their shoulders....
With this mindset, I think Kai may be taking some things said, offensively or over analyzing it and then doing petty shit, thinking Trinity was low key trying to come for her. With this attitude, then rubbing Trinity the wrong way and actually bringing out negativity. All energies always get reflected, no matter how 'good' a person is.
I was able to come to this conclusion because based off Kai's videos, i find myself unsubscribing and resubscribing often, and when I am subscribed, I don't watch her videos like that, just because of her negative disposition. She was a very bleek and depressing view of the world and that is a personality trait. It really sucks bc it's probably based off previous bad experiences or trauma. And it might be how she copes with the world.
Again, it sucks but it happens. Almost wish this was never brought to the internet cause it seems so petty these two girls could've just talked it out. But hopefully they both do some internal reflection and choose to be more positive moving forward, learning whatever lesson this has forced them to learn.
I swore I wasn’t going to watch this but here I am. I don’t think Kai was taking to the ornaments off the tree. I think it’s incredibly disrespectful to weaponize someone’s mental health. I wish y’all both the best because this is a hoootttt mess.
This is petty drama 🎭
Fr it’s so weird but will never know the truth cause we weren’t their but they both need to heal something cause they attracted each other for a reason
Lmao baby, these are babies. They still living & learning just like us 🤍
I don't know either of these people personally I don't want to fan the flames. However, it's easy to see the personality clash.
The Thrift store instance is an example of that if Kai is ADHD and nerodivergent she might have taken the suggestion literally and being the only one with a car it is one more expense to pay for if you show up to a place that you didn't necessarily benefit from. If Trinity isn't a literal person it might be easy to dismiss feelings that you think are non issues. However, Kai wouldn't be the only person with a car to get upset about feeling used for a car especially if you're not going to a mutually agreed place. 🚩
Plus when things hit the fan one of them had very few people to rely on while the other had nearby friends and their mother who could get involved.
Assuming that by the end neither of them saw it for each other, I can see why they leaned into what made sense to them. which was to move out rather than remain in a toxic space where you're speaking to your roommate and dealing with their mother and friends. While the other may want other people around to feel comfortable. They both lean into what feels comfortable to them which can come across as passive aggressive or too abrasive to the wrong person. I also can't completely blame Trinity for not giving more details because she's not a celebrity and the internet isn't a court case. And Kai had every right to go to the leasing manager if she knew she was going to dip and wasn't having positive conversations with Trinity about removal of the lease. you can feel however you want about it but people leave early for plenty of reasons including to move in with family or a partner 🤷🏾♀️
I don't know why it was so difficult to sign the breaking of the lease though...If you believe your roommate is toxic then let her go pay for the peace of mind especially if you have friends coming over and you're not on speaking terms. Either way they might have been better off as acquaintances. See me and come live with me are two different things
They are both crazy asf😭😭😭
You can clearly tell that the people dashing trinity are Kai fans and have never watched trinity.
What do y’all gain from calling somebody who gained nothing from the situation weird and a liar?
I like both still. Not on insta so I don't think I could've seen this. Glad I heard the other side.
i find it weird how she's bashing kai about her content and how she handled the situation with her old roommate, but where is this coming from if they were friends over their content, obviously she liked her content but now she's bashing it. and all of a sudden she handled the roommate weird, but she still moved in with kai? this whole vid was heavy deflecting.
Both of them got a lot of healing to do
y’all calling trinity weird cause she actually has an personality? i don’t know what’s “weird” about her
It takes two to tango.
Why are y’all saying trinity is weird? What’s weird here?
Her whole demeanor and attitude
@@Hawtestyf I think both are at fault. I like kai but she seems hard to deal with. She sounds fed up
trinity energy & tone is so underwhelming.
Idc I love Trinity's content that drama is her drama I'm just gunna continue enjoying what she puts out cause at the end of the day. No ones perfect and no ones life is drama free unless u literally live under a rock and even then u beefing with bugs for space so.. 🤷🏾♀️
Hopefully they can clear it up whether it's online or not, but it's just a mess.
man, I aint been on social media like that lately and the comment that has me weak rn is "The chakra girls are fighting omg 🤣"
Personally, I've only watched trinity and I only seen one video about kai and I found that lil girl annoying as hell. LOL so, idk.
Idk what's going on so I won't speak nun.🤓
Y’all really think this girl is weird? Are y’all okay
yall saying kai is a problem for how many roomates/friends she go through. but how is being honest with yourself about how you feel about your "friends" fucked up? all kai did was tell her part of the story, she was open & honest about the events in her life. just because everyone is now realizing things about trinity doesn't mean kai is evil. while i don't think someone showing up late bc of traffic is a friendship ending experience, i can see how someone who is adjusting to life on new meds can be turned off by this, along with the whole thrift store thing. i also don't think there's anything wrong with kai sharing what happened on youtube. kai's been sharing her life on the internet for a while, so if trinity was uncomfortable with that she probably should've taken that into account before she moved in with her. and i definitely don't think kai put the videos up to "harm trinity's brand" (like trinity said). anywho, im not taking anyones side bc i genuinely have no idea who is right in this situation, im almost certain that no one is. i think they both have struggles in life, they're both so young and life is probably so chaotic right now. but i have watched both of them since before they met each other. and i think i've come to the conclusion that they're just polar opposites and tbh i never thought they would last that long as friends. some people just don't get along great & that's fine. as for recently, i will say i've been leaning more towards kai's content. i just relate to her a little bit more, and recently finding out trinity is severely anti-vax just rubs me the wrong way and i don't feel fully comfortable supporting someone who is anti-vax and who hosts MANY events with no covid regulations. so i dont support trinity as much as kai, not because of the drama but more fundamental reasons. anyways everyone should be aware that we DO NOT have the whole picture for many reasons. so just dont be too persistent in your beliefs about them bc we really don't know who they are irl.
10:00 sooooo we supposed to apply this to your vid too? Why even make this if you want us to disregard lmao
I’m glad you uploaded it bc I was
Hope everyone In these comments are having a productive day !!
Idk what to say y’all😭 how did I not see this between them before
Trinity is pretty :)
Trinity Tripping we all Kai tellin the truth she needs to go sit down somewhere
I feel like the other day I just watched kia move in t=with trinity and they were all bestie vibessss and now Im seeing this. I am so confussedddd
Idk... after watching both of their retellings... trinity is giving weirdo vibes... 😬
Trinity you’re protected from the shenanigans 🙏💓
I don’t know what’s going on tbh but I feel like these are two people that think they can never be wrong lol especially kai I had made a joke on her assumptions about me video and she got so offended and it was never that serious like it was Fr a joke and ppl say it all the time where we’re from. (You not really from Chicago joke)
Which video did kai make of her … what’s the title of it ?!
it was called “why i left atlanta pt. 2” but she has now deleted it
It’s back up go watch it
🖤🖤🖤
im definitely with kai on this
so she helped her move out n now bashing her for doing it?????
I thought Kai’s story was based off of someone else 😭 I did have a feeling Kai’s video was about Trinity because of one of the videos Trinity made and Kai came and helped with the smoke detector in the background.
She mentioned trinity’s name
I think the first video was about another friend & the second video was about trinity
What video is everyone referring to because I’m lost 😂
Kai posted two videos on her channel (she took them down though) basically about drama with her Trinity. They were roommates for a while, and some shit was happening etc. I didn’t watch the full videos but that’s basically what happened. 😭
@@mizzphitzbeta why did she delete it for?
She’s honestly so weird bro
which one
@@killuman637 trinity
She seemed a bit jealous to me!!
If you look at both of their lives you can see who has more going for themself.. the girl ran to the internet about her “friend” after fleeing to another state. In an extremely tacky manner.
Independent contractors drivers make decent money 🙄
that comment alone let me know who the narcissist was 🤮
Yall sound alike
Yes!!!
Was this a TH-cam video
no, this was on trinity’s instagram story
NOW GO BACK AND WATCH KAI’s VIDEO SHE JUST REUPLOADED IT. THERES A CLEAR DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE WAY KAI SPOKE VS TRINITY. MAKES IT VERY CLEAR WHOSE THE NARCISSIST.
Ify Kai trinity gives me bad vibes
I trust trinity ..
Not the spiritual drama, case selection at it’s finest.
When you are always the victim you do need to step back and look at the situation buttttt I do feel you could also invite that energy towards you so it’s not out of the realm of possibility
Both of them are the problem lol
Don't worriey about Bs🙉
Don’t ever play with Trinity! She been real af since day 1! Kai needs to grow up. Period.
I’m on Kai’s side. You could tell that trin was off with all the masculinity and aggressiveness she emitted in the vid they did together. That’s way before their falling out.
that’s implying masculinity is inherently a bad thing to exhibit
@@blkurbane if you’re a woman, it is.
@@lexxypeters4892 hella heteronormative but okay.
@@totallytubulartay good
Not trying to be funny, but Trin has friends and is on good terms with her family… Kai is never on good terms with anyone 🥴