thank you for this 💟 for those that want to copy and paste in their notes, here are the tips. i tried my best compiling the key parts. 1. reprogram your mind (sit down with your core beliefs, and change your subconscious thoughts that hold you back) 2. the note to self (write about what you’re proud of, and reflect on the last year. write it down and let it go. put photo of self that invokes emotional response. don’t do when highly stressed) 3. set your goals (do the first two steps before getting here, you’ll feel lighter. get a new journal every year to keep track of yourself, your thoughts, and your goals. Helps with confidence boost when looking back on what you’ve accomplished) 4. make an action plan (3-4 action steps per month) 5. make a vision board (put it everywhere, in sight in mind!) 6. create a routine (center yourself for at least 5 minutes. you can meditate and/or journal. take a walk outside. The routine doesn’t have to be super elaborate) 7. reevaluate your environment (reevaluate relationships/people since they can do a lot of projection. if you’re stuck in this environment do not let it affect how you see yourself. Why let someone else determine whether you believe in yourself or not? Again, it’s a projection of theirs, not a reflection of you)
This is a very valuable video. Alexis thank you for inspiring us. Last year I wrote my goals and literally for the first time in 5 years I saw 70% of them come with prayer and consistent action with discipline.
This video is fantastic! I've been following your steps to program my 2024 since december of 2023 when I was in a really tough spot after a terrible year, and I already feel like it has made a huge impact in my life! I was extremely unmotivated and now I feel like I have clear goals with a doable plan. Your step by step plan has allowed me to feel in control and hopefull instead of overwhelmed and I'm doing so much better now. Thank you so much!❤
I’m not big on these videos but GIRL! This is GOLD. It was you saying you kept your goals in front of you in every room and as your screensavers for me! Manifestation is key sis! I love this. You have my like 14:44
I meditated on this same message this morning. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Dedicated to changing my mindset this year to support my goals. I love the letter to self idea. I'm definitely going to try it!
'it's like trying to climb mount everest without ever going into training' SO TRUE! 💜Alexis I am glad you touched on the importance of writing goals out in short form, I think I read about it a while back and it works honestly, if anything the mind responds better to images. Great advice 💜
Ase! This video has been such a rev up for me as I prepare for the Tru Nu Year (spring equinox). Manifesting and aligning with my dream life, career, and goals. This been a lonng journey of working though the ennviroment of lower vibrations as you mentioned in the later half of the video, I felt that!👏🏾👏🏾 I am finally walking into my dream home after years of consistancy to myself and my goals and truly beleaving in myself. Much gratitude for sharing your story, tips, and guide along the road to becoming a Melanated Boss Goddess !!
Alexis, I am so glad I found your channel! Thanks for the wholesome and gentle content. I am so gonna do this whole thing this week for the rest of 2024 and then do it again at the end of the year. I am already excited :D
I just printed out the Year Compass (free online download) after hearing a few very dynamic women talk about it and the impact that it had on their life that they hadn't even realized until they reread it when they prepared to complete their next year's Year Compass. It sounds a lot like what you've created, and i can't wait to receive your blueprint and work through it. I sometimes find that I trospection is not easy for me (or comfortable) so at my big age, I'm hoping to do more of it and start to see some measurable differences in my life, even if it's just to wash the dishes every night and wash my baseboards 3 times a year🤣🤣🤣
This video has come to me in perfect timing. I started journaling at the end of 2022, and going into 2023. I moved country and I stopped. I have STRUGGLED finding that path again and this has inspired me to pick it all back up and really focus on manifesting the life I wish to have. Thank you
Yess I do similar things as well! The Lord tells us to write the vision and make it plain in Habukuk 2:2 so I definitely believe in writing out my goals and vision and having them within sight ♥️
Thanks for covering these steps. It’s confirmation for me! I pray everyone view this video receive their heart desires. Best wishes to an awesome 2023🥰🙏🏾🥰
Hold on sister, don't fool these people, you're successful because you're disciplined, grounded, and your a fighter😂😂😂😂 seriously some people are so beat up mentally, they just give up. I hope 2024 gives these people a year of acceleration because they need it.❤
Did not see this video until now but will be doing this for 2024! would love to see people with updated comments on how their 2023 year went! Thank you so much for this video and your channel- I have been in a dark place and watching this video already makes me feel more hopeful, confident and deserving of my dreams 🥲
Not the typical tips you see usual. Thank you for this, Alexis. My goal for this year is to get back into shape. Or at least, back to the 76-80 kilogram. I've been slacking and feel bad about it. My 2nd goal for this year is reach 10.000 subscribers for my youtube channel. I know that sounds crazy if you think about me having 96 subscribers just now. But I happen to believe that if others can achieve that, there's no reason I shouldn't be able to do that as well. I'm going to take your advice and create my vision board this week. I'm familiar with the law of attraction and have read the book, The Secret. So I'm curious to see where that will go.
Dang Alexis, you look so good!! Been following you for about 2 almost 3 yrs now and I just love your content!!! So relatable, aesthetically pleasing, and motivating! There was a period in time where I’d start my day w your vids so I can feel like I have an accountability partner. Wishing you a great year and may God bless you with all your heart’s desires❤🎉
I see so many of these videos but this is the first one where I really feel inspired and motivated!! All of your tips had a really fresh take and I will definitely start incorporating these into my life TODAY!
I so appreciate your driven yet down to Earth approach to life and goal setting. I’m so happy for you; living your best life and helping others live theirs.
I will definitely use the note to self tool ! I think it’s a great way to reflect on yourself and the year not just the negative things but the positive things that you’ve accomplished which will give you motivation for the next year moving forward !!! 😁
Thank you for this. This is something I am currently struggling with regards to reprogramming the way I think about myself. I am taking it one step at a time.
Wen she says She sippin on Celcius she got me lol U are so GORGEOUS BTW QUEEN! Cant wait to come accross beautiful like-minded Women much like yourself in my life 💫🌹
This was fantastic. I love how you added pictures to your journal. I'll be going journal shopping today. Thanks so much! I am now learning reprogramming your mind is critical to living a harmonious life! Chapter 3 in Think and Grow Rich goes in-depth on that topic.
so happy i found your channel, your videos have changed my mindset so much! going to have a huge restructure of my life, goals and what i want out of life tonight and thats all thanks to your videos! sending all the love and good energy your way ✨
I'm going to try 2023 has already been pretty good tbh I started working out again and running and I feel really good about myself I've been more happy and been being more myself and embracing my personality
Thank you for this, I'm excited to try this. I have already started making healthy changes especially with my time and energy and so I do believe this planning would be worth it ✨💜
This was an excellent breakdown! Especially the vision boards because mine were definitely out of sight, and out of mind. I’m gonna try your method. Thank you ❤
I am doing this this year, but I am studying the Word, and going all in with God. I feel as though the reason I watched all of these kinds of videos, and ones about manifesting, used subliminals, scripted, controlled every aspect of my life just trying to succeed- but no matter how HARD I toiled away and was doing the most- was giving more to myself than a thanks to God... Nothing ever worked. I have since repented, and I want to put my trust in God- REAL trust. If it pleases God- he will start crossing off my goals because he wants us to choose life, and to live in his glory. Remember this- if we could do it all on our own- we wouldn't need Jesus. Choose him.
Usually don’t leave comments on videos. But I’m doing new things this year, so here goes. This year 2023, here are my goals: 1. Getting a six figure role as a Product Designer with Apple (dream company) 2. Establishing multiple streams of high passive income that average $30m per month by year end (impossible is nothing!) 3. Purchasing my luxury waterfront home and having it remodelled into my dream home (at least as close as possible) 4. Purchasing a private jet and a yacht. Having those remodelled as well, into proper luxury. 5. Buying five luxury cars for my family - two for my parents, each, and one for my brother. (I think I might buy my parents a yacht as well, but we’ll see) 6. Also, changing up my body into the body of my dreams! Been stuck for years and years, living with, and living off, my family. But no more. 2023 is the year that everything changes for me. So help me, God. To everyone trying to change their lives in this year 2023 as well, or whatever year it is when you’re reading this, may all our dreams come true. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. 💜
Aww! I love the note to self Idea definitely doing that. ✍🏼And thank you for sharing the link to the goal designer I’m going to use that for my vision board party 🎉
Thank you for making this video❤ Its so helpful and insightful☺️🤗🌱 thanks for sharing your process with us and the planning and advice for following our goals
I'm really struggling to get out of my shell and passed my fears!!!! I don't even care about others judgements it's MY OWN JUDGEMENT AND BELIEFS ABOUT MYSELF that have kept me so stuck. "Just doing it" don't cut it. It's literally paralyzing there has to be a way!! I have a really hard time trying to dig deep, I sont know how I'm "feeling" I don't "feel it in my body" it takes alot to make me physically feel an emotion like anger bc I get very hot and irritated and blow up, scared only noticed if the baby almost falls or I almost fall asleep driving. Sadness every so often especially when I lost my mother in law, she was my partner in crime. Most of the time I just feel blank and stressed.
Ok it’s cute to believe in yourself, write in your diary and do vision boards but HOW does one get rich? How did you get to the money?? TH-cam? Do you sell something?
I thought she said 8 steps. I only see 7…am I missing something? 1. Reprogram your mind 2. The note to self 3. Set your goals 4. Make an action plan 5. Create a vision board 6. Create a routine 7. Re-evaluate your environment 8. ??
Best way to re-program and renew your mind is with the words of the Bible. What it says about you is true, meditate on it and accept nothing else.
Amen
Amen!!’
Amennn
Yes ❤ the word of God has great power!
Thank you ❤ God bless
thank you for this 💟
for those that want to copy and paste in their notes, here are the tips. i tried my best compiling the key parts.
1. reprogram your mind
(sit down with your core beliefs, and change your subconscious thoughts that hold you back)
2. the note to self
(write about what you’re proud of, and reflect on the last year. write it down and let it go. put photo of self that invokes emotional response. don’t do when highly stressed)
3. set your goals
(do the first two steps before getting here, you’ll feel lighter. get a new journal every year to keep track of yourself, your thoughts, and your goals. Helps with confidence boost when looking back on what you’ve accomplished)
4. make an action plan
(3-4 action steps per month)
5. make a vision board
(put it everywhere, in sight in mind!)
6. create a routine
(center yourself for at least 5 minutes. you can meditate and/or journal. take a walk outside. The routine doesn’t have to be super elaborate)
7. reevaluate your environment
(reevaluate relationships/people since they can do a lot of projection. if you’re stuck in this environment do not let it affect how you see yourself. Why let someone else determine whether you believe in yourself or not? Again, it’s a projection of theirs, not a reflection of you)
Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
Thanks a bunch ♥️✨
This is a very valuable video. Alexis thank you for inspiring us. Last year I wrote my goals and literally for the first time in 5 years I saw 70% of them come with prayer and consistent action with discipline.
This video is fantastic! I've been following your steps to program my 2024 since december of 2023 when I was in a really tough spot after a terrible year, and I already feel like it has made a huge impact in my life!
I was extremely unmotivated and now I feel like I have clear goals with a doable plan. Your step by step plan has allowed me to feel in control and hopefull instead of overwhelmed and I'm doing so much better now.
Thank you so much!❤
I'm next! Congrats on your success!
I’m not big on these videos but GIRL! This is GOLD. It was you saying you kept your goals in front of you in every room and as your screensavers for me! Manifestation is key sis! I love this. You have my like 14:44
I meditated on this same message this morning. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Dedicated to changing my mindset this year to support my goals. I love the letter to self idea. I'm definitely going to try it!
I like mentors like this strong women my main tip is staying away from haters or people who are not on your level! Fuck them!!
Prioritize consistency prioritize consistency ❤️✨😭👏🏼
'it's like trying to climb mount everest without ever going into training' SO TRUE! 💜Alexis I am glad you touched on the importance of writing goals out in short form, I think I read about it a while back and it works honestly, if anything the mind responds better to images. Great advice 💜
Ase! This video has been such a rev up for me as I prepare for the Tru Nu Year (spring equinox). Manifesting and aligning with my dream life, career, and goals. This been a lonng journey of working though the ennviroment of lower vibrations as you mentioned in the later half of the video, I felt that!👏🏾👏🏾 I am finally walking into my dream home after years of consistancy to myself and my goals and truly beleaving in myself. Much gratitude for sharing your story, tips, and guide along the road to becoming a Melanated Boss Goddess !!
Alexis, I am so glad I found your channel! Thanks for the wholesome and gentle content. I am so gonna do this whole thing this week for the rest of 2024 and then do it again at the end of the year. I am already excited :D
I just printed out the Year Compass (free online download) after hearing a few very dynamic women talk about it and the impact that it had on their life that they hadn't even realized until they reread it when they prepared to complete their next year's Year Compass. It sounds a lot like what you've created, and i can't wait to receive your blueprint and work through it. I sometimes find that I trospection is not easy for me (or comfortable) so at my big age, I'm hoping to do more of it and start to see some measurable differences in my life, even if it's just to wash the dishes every night and wash my baseboards 3 times a year🤣🤣🤣
I have watched this video so many times! I keep re-watching the videos in this series. I am obsessed with my goals and vision!
This video has come to me in perfect timing. I started journaling at the end of 2022, and going into 2023. I moved country and I stopped. I have STRUGGLED finding that path again and this has inspired me to pick it all back up and really focus on manifesting the life I wish to have. Thank you
Yess I do similar things as well! The Lord tells us to write the vision and make it plain in Habukuk 2:2 so I definitely believe in writing out my goals and vision and having them within sight ♥️
I saw your title and was like ‘Yes ! that’s what I want!’ New to the channel and already subscribed. Great way of breaking it down.
Thanks for covering these steps. It’s confirmation for me! I pray everyone view this video receive their heart desires. Best wishes to an awesome 2023🥰🙏🏾🥰
Hold on sister, don't fool these people, you're successful because you're disciplined, grounded, and your a fighter😂😂😂😂 seriously some people are so beat up mentally, they just give up. I hope 2024 gives these people a year of acceleration because they need it.❤
Did not see this video until now but will be doing this for 2024! would love to see people with updated comments on how their 2023 year went! Thank you so much for this video and your channel- I have been in a dark place and watching this video already makes me feel more hopeful, confident and deserving of my dreams 🥲
It's March 2023, I have just found Alexis's channel and I've watched this video like 3-4 times.
one thing for sure, your underratedddd everyone needs to watch thisss
Not the typical tips you see usual. Thank you for this, Alexis.
My goal for this year is to get back into shape. Or at least, back to the 76-80 kilogram. I've been slacking and feel bad about it. My 2nd goal for this year is reach 10.000 subscribers for my youtube channel. I know that sounds crazy if you think about me having 96 subscribers just now.
But I happen to believe that if others can achieve that, there's no reason I shouldn't be able to do that as well.
I'm going to take your advice and create my vision board this week. I'm familiar with the law of attraction and have read the book, The Secret. So I'm curious to see where that will go.
Girl, i just LOVED your energy 🥰 You seem so grounded ! Thank you for the tips 💓
Dang Alexis, you look so good!! Been following you for about 2 almost 3 yrs now and I just love your content!!! So relatable, aesthetically pleasing, and motivating! There was a period in time where I’d start my day w your vids so I can feel like I have an accountability partner. Wishing you a great year and may God bless you with all your heart’s desires❤🎉
I see so many of these videos but this is the first one where I really feel inspired and motivated!! All of your tips had a really fresh take and I will definitely start incorporating these into my life TODAY!
I started manifesting and making vision boards in march 2023 and it already helped me reach so many of my goals. thank you for this clear video!
This is the video that I didn't know that I needed! I am excited to manifest the life of my dreams! Thank you Alexis! 🙏🏻💞✨
I can see how you love your notepads, pens and being organized. I am enjoying it just watching you take pleasure in your techniques.
We can make our dream a reality. I click this video so fast 😂 it speaks truth💛
yes, you will make your dream come true, just believe yourself 👍
I so appreciate your driven yet down to Earth approach to life and goal setting. I’m so happy for you; living your best life and helping others live theirs.
I love your content, thank you for making it.
I am using this video + steps for 2024 🙏🏻
I will definitely use the note to self tool ! I think it’s a great way to reflect on yourself and the year not just the negative things but the positive things that you’ve accomplished which will give you motivation for the next year moving forward !!! 😁
Watching your videos makes me happy for what my personal future will look like
LOVE LOBE LOBE your cool calm collected delivery of such wonderful info! Thank you so much! Happy 2023!
Not even 2 minutes in and I'm SMASHING the "like" button.
Ohhh! I am applying this now as I am watching! Thanks, Sis! ❤
2023 is the YEAR!
Wow just opened my app and you’re the number one video. Been going into my designing season lately! Go girl🎉
Literally , she never pop up before ❤
Thank you for this. This is something I am currently struggling with regards to reprogramming the way I think about myself. I am taking it one step at a time.
Wen she says She sippin on Celcius she got me lol U are so GORGEOUS BTW QUEEN! Cant wait to come accross beautiful like-minded Women much like yourself in my life 💫🌹
This was fantastic. I love how you added pictures to your journal. I'll be going journal shopping today. Thanks so much!
I am now learning reprogramming your mind is critical to living a harmonious life! Chapter 3 in Think and Grow Rich goes in-depth on that topic.
so happy i found your channel, your videos have changed my mindset so much! going to have a huge restructure of my life, goals and what i want out of life tonight and thats all thanks to your videos! sending all the love and good energy your way ✨
Just seen this video mid year but going to have a go! Its been a rocky start so great time to reset. Ill check back in for new year! ❤
Thumbs up before even watching just bc I am proud of you for making such huge changes ❤
I'm going to try 2023 has already been pretty good tbh I started working out again and running and I feel really good about myself I've been more happy and been being more myself and embracing my personality
your videos are literally unmatched.
Thank you for this, I'm excited to try this. I have already started making healthy changes especially with my time and energy and so I do believe this planning would be worth it ✨💜
This was an excellent breakdown! Especially the vision boards because mine were definitely out of sight, and out of mind. I’m gonna try your method. Thank you ❤
I need to get rid of the negative mentality of my mother
This right here!
Thank you for this video! I agree, it all starts in the mind :) I am working on my mindset as well through journaling and self-reflection :)
I am doing this this year, but I am studying the Word, and going all in with God. I feel as though the reason I watched all of these kinds of videos, and ones about manifesting, used subliminals, scripted, controlled every aspect of my life just trying to succeed- but no matter how HARD I toiled away and was doing the most- was giving more to myself than a thanks to God... Nothing ever worked. I have since repented, and I want to put my trust in God- REAL trust. If it pleases God- he will start crossing off my goals because he wants us to choose life, and to live in his glory. Remember this- if we could do it all on our own- we wouldn't need Jesus. Choose him.
Usually don’t leave comments on videos. But I’m doing new things this year, so here goes. This year 2023, here are my goals:
1. Getting a six figure role as a Product Designer with Apple (dream company)
2. Establishing multiple streams of high passive income that average $30m per month by year end (impossible is nothing!)
3. Purchasing my luxury waterfront home and having it remodelled into my dream home (at least as close as possible)
4. Purchasing a private jet and a yacht. Having those remodelled as well, into proper luxury.
5. Buying five luxury cars for my family - two for my parents, each, and one for my brother. (I think I might buy my parents a yacht as well, but we’ll see)
6. Also, changing up my body into the body of my dreams!
Been stuck for years and years, living with, and living off, my family. But no more. 2023 is the year that everything changes for me. So help me, God.
To everyone trying to change their lives in this year 2023 as well, or whatever year it is when you’re reading this, may all our dreams come true. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. 💜
This is giving me positive vibes!!
THIS IS FACTS. im always coming back to youtube, all these normal jobs isnt for me, idk why i keep trying and forcing it.... whewh, god help us.
This is actually a really good video, so different from the repetitive videos I see.
This is so fantastic ,helpful and thorough .💕🙏🏽 thank you . I will be rewatching
omg i love your videos they motivate me so much 🧡.I definitely am excited for this new year. cant wait for the printouts!!
Omg you are an angel !! You are so helpful! I’ve been on the search on how to journal better and break it down 🧡 thank you so much !!
Love this! Especially the monthly goals and yearly note to self! Thank You :)
Thank you soooooooo much for the print outs. I'm trying to change my life financially just all around . I want to level up.
I wasn't expecting much honestly, but this was actually a good video!
Have fun creating your life! Thanks for the video
These tips are in line with everything I’m working on, thank you❤
Aww! I love the note to self Idea definitely doing that. ✍🏼And thank you for sharing the link to the goal designer I’m going to use that for my vision board party 🎉
Really great tips! :) Will try them , go girl!
Thank you for making this video❤
Its so helpful and insightful☺️🤗🌱 thanks for sharing your process with us and the planning and advice for following our goals
This was all for me, thank you so much. this is exciting, good luck to you on your journey.
Thanks for your tips ❤ yes, always believe yourself 👍
I'm really struggling to get out of my shell and passed my fears!!!! I don't even care about others judgements it's MY OWN JUDGEMENT AND BELIEFS ABOUT MYSELF that have kept me so stuck. "Just doing it" don't cut it. It's literally paralyzing there has to be a way!! I have a really hard time trying to dig deep, I sont know how I'm "feeling" I don't "feel it in my body" it takes alot to make me physically feel an emotion like anger bc I get very hot and irritated and blow up, scared only noticed if the baby almost falls or I almost fall asleep driving. Sadness every so often especially when I lost my mother in law, she was my partner in crime. Most of the time I just feel blank and stressed.
I love your energy, I really needed this!
Would love to see that finances video!! Abundance is flowing freely into my life!
Your voice 😍 and your advice has been amazing to me
Ok it’s cute to believe in yourself, write in your diary and do vision boards but HOW does one get rich? How did you get to the money?? TH-cam? Do you sell something?
You are looking dazzling and beautiful
Thank you!!! this was great, I did this and I immediately felt a shift
SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!
LOVE YOU SIS SUCH AN INSPIRATION
What a fantastic channel :) from one creator to another! GREAT WORK! love it
Thank you! A motivating and mindful video for goals, dreams, mindset, and routine. Thank you.
Yes I needed this video!! See u in 12 months!
Thank you for sharing, I heard each sentence, great delivery. 👏
Before your feet hit the ground in the morning & before your eyes close at night GIVE GOD GLORY without HIS GRACE we have nothing 🙏
Saving the video so I can come back!
Wow I needed this girl! Thank you so much for sharing- new subbie here ❤
I manifested your video. Thanks for the insights ❤I love it!
Yes come to Cape Town Alexis. Make sure you come after September though coz, we have our summer when you have winter.
im obsessed with this video
I thought she said 8 steps. I only see 7…am I missing something?
1. Reprogram your mind
2. The note to self
3. Set your goals
4. Make an action plan
5. Create a vision board
6. Create a routine
7. Re-evaluate your environment
8. ??
I really really needed this. New subscribe from one video. Thank you! 🥰
thank you so much! can't wait to start on the tips and see how things blossom
I honestly love the essence of this video
Best video on this topic! Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏
I’m glad I watched this video!! Thank you for the motivation.
I love the ‘note to self’ I’ll try it❤
Very informative video, I plan to incorporate the idea with picture and letter to self.
Very nive and well structured video we can see that you really want to help with this video thanks for sharing 💖
Thank you. You are a great inspiration to me. I hope you will make it to Jamaica soon!!!!
I love your vlogs 🤍🤍
Happy new year 🎉🎉🎉🎉 i clicked so fast!
I'm glad I watched this, thank you!
Such good advice and tools here thanks!!