I constantly am left wondering WHY that isn't the automatic reply! When they start in with the, "bUt fAmiLy HeLpS FaMilY" I'm usually SCREAMING at my phone with, "And WHEN exactly does your pet, mooching freeloader HELP me?"😏
A friend of mine had mooching relatives who did this to her _constantly_ after she got her first home. They would try to use her for free babysitting, or as a hotel, or a party venue. They never brought anything to the parties other than their entitlement and appetites. They always left a mess. When she had the opportunity to move 2,000 miles away across the country, she took it. Her family was furious, but couldn’t do anything about it.
The entitlement of some people especially single mothers in my experience they allow themselves to get pregnant by a deadbeat and complain about how he doesn't help or financially support their children and expect everyone else to be the free babysitter/uber and atm and don't make their kids especially boys who look and act like their deadbeat father's don't discipline and make them believe or teach the manners and whine how nobody helps them there are consequences for breeding irresponsibly
People are far too forgiving when it comes to "family" the second she dotched the kids and they were found on the curb, that's an immediate call to police and CAS for neglect.
My sisters both were horrible mothers. CPS was called on both of them. My oldest sister’s live in sexually abused her 3 girls horribly and no matter how many times I screamed that it was him she ignored me. My oldest niece had called me so I knew it was him. Instead she blamed their dad. The jerk never spent a day in jail! She finally broke up with him YEARS later. The FBI has confirmed video proof of the abuse. They are no in their 30’s and are still dealing with the aftermath. I would talk to CPS 1000x’s to save them!
Why when other family members use the old 'family helps family' garbage, doesn't the person ever say, 'Then YOU help them!'. 'You should give them your money/time/whatever...', 'Then you give them YOUR money/time/whatever.. After all, as you tell me all the time, 'family helps family.'. It would soon stop the constant harassment. I would have called CPS and or the police.
You don't need a ring doorbell for that. Another trick is demanding payment. Then people really think if they need you. She didn't just used him as a baby sitter but also for feeding her children so she can use the time and money to go partying. 8:22 Don't drive there yourself. You should call the police/CPS for that.
I literally had to move 200 miles away from family to stop being forced to be a free babysitter because of "family". When they still wouldn't leave me alone got a order of protection against all of them. Its been quiet for 4 years. Youngest sister had to finally start raising her own kids. And she screwed them all up. Sigh
My friend moved 2,000 miles away, across the country from California to the east coast. Mostly to get away from her awful family trying to force her to be a free babysitter.
Interesting how OP is inspired by a statement "You have to say no, or they'll keep taking advantage." But she doesn't say no, she just gives her cousin the silent treatment. Telling her mother is good but it's not enough.
@@PARISGx1 No - and I just had to say "no" to answer you. A simple thumbs down will only fly by the other person's mind, and +particularly here YT won't even show it. Words need to be said, loud and clear, with video proof if necessary.
the Layla type is very selfish and toxic...they have no boundaries...no conscience...and are users....they are all about themselves and have no consideration....it is not that Layla is working? She is most likely on dates, failing her children...they deserve better....they can not cope but appreciate the welfare...sending her children to school hungry...
And when did schools start to talk about kids who are not yours ? If you’re neither the parent nor the guardian schools are not allowed to give any info .
So you thought the best thing to do was put yourself back in the exact situation where you were taking advantage of and that was going to solve the problem instead of simply calling CPS? Wow.
Why wouldnt you 'believe she would abandon her kids like that'? That is literally what she has been doing with them all along, abandoning them on your doorstep, with your tacit consent.
@@MercilessJoey It's actually not that bad. But I find it pretty preposterous OP reached her 40s, and has to run to Reddit to learn how to say no! She doesn't even have the guts to tell that to the cousin, just hides in her house like a scared little mouse. Pathetic.
I’m a single mom trying to handle my own household and stopped being everyone’s helping monkey and set boundaries. If you can’t take care of your own child keep your legs closed.
I hate that term family is supposed to help family. Because generally it's only one person in the family that always gets the help and it's always the other person that's doing the helping. That's one of the stupidest lines ever. Also, why doesn't her Mommy help Layla if she's in such a hard place. Another thing that pisses me off when other people who don't want to do a damn thing to help anybody say well why aren't you helping them out their family. It's like when people say well you should financially help them out their family you know. We need to help them out cuz they're family. I would tell anybody and everybody okay. I understand. When you (as family just like me), put a dollar in I'll match every dollar you match. Watch how fast no one has a penny to help. If you can't help out as well as everybody else or the person you're trying to make help out. Keep your mouth shut. What do they say. Put up or shut up.
Why didn't you just say NOOOOOOOO?!.. you can't be mad at her for walking all over you, when you're allowing her to walk all over you..she need to call the police & report her.. layla has no interest in being a mom.. she need to just give those kids to a relative or CPS. What type of school doesn't report suspected child abuse?.. they are MANDATED by law to report it. The kids coming to school hungry means she's not feeding those babies...
I have this weird theory that, in the human species, TWO parents, one male, the other female, are required to procreate a child. Layla did not bear these children without male assistance. Where is (are) the father(s)?
Call the police and reported her for harassment you if she don't want the children give them up and mom can be the free baby sitting turn the children over to CPS and don't feel guilty about it
You're right Mom, she's family, I'll send her to your house next time, thanks
I constantly am left wondering WHY that isn't the automatic reply!
When they start in with the, "bUt fAmiLy HeLpS FaMilY" I'm usually SCREAMING at my phone with, "And WHEN exactly does your pet, mooching freeloader HELP me?"😏
A friend of mine had mooching relatives who did this to her _constantly_ after she got her first home. They would try to use her for free babysitting, or as a hotel, or a party venue. They never brought anything to the parties other than their entitlement and appetites. They always left a mess.
When she had the opportunity to move 2,000 miles away across the country, she took it. Her family was furious, but couldn’t do anything about it.
The entitlement of some people especially single mothers in my experience they allow themselves to get pregnant by a deadbeat and complain about how he doesn't help or financially support their children and expect everyone else to be the free babysitter/uber and atm and don't make their kids especially boys who look and act like their deadbeat father's don't discipline and make them believe or teach the manners and whine how nobody helps them there are consequences for breeding irresponsibly
Too Funny.
She a hot mess with kids.
Call the police and call CPS!
Child abandonment is a felony
Get an attorney. Get evidence. Get family involved
She gathered evidence and did
did you not watch the video? lol
She did.
Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
Oh, and MOM gets the last bag of chips!😊
People are far too forgiving when it comes to "family" the second she dotched the kids and they were found on the curb, that's an immediate call to police and CAS for neglect.
My sisters both were horrible mothers. CPS was called on both of them. My oldest sister’s live in sexually abused her 3 girls horribly and no matter how many times I screamed that it was him she ignored me. My oldest niece had called me so I knew it was him. Instead she blamed their dad. The jerk never spent a day in jail! She finally broke up with him YEARS later. The FBI has confirmed video proof of the abuse. They are no in their 30’s and are still dealing with the aftermath. I would talk to CPS 1000x’s to save them!
Call the POLICE immediately !!!
CPS should be involved way sooner !!!
Time to call CPS.
Read the story before commenting. She did call them.
Why when other family members use the old 'family helps family' garbage, doesn't the person ever say, 'Then YOU help them!'. 'You should give them your money/time/whatever...', 'Then you give them YOUR money/time/whatever.. After all, as you tell me all the time, 'family helps family.'. It would soon stop the constant harassment. I would have called CPS and or the police.
You don't need a ring doorbell for that.
Another trick is demanding payment. Then people really think if they need you. She didn't just used him as a baby sitter but also for feeding her children so she can use the time and money to go partying.
8:22 Don't drive there yourself. You should call the police/CPS for that.
It has to be cash up front, at least twice as much as they think that they will be away. Otherwise, you will work for free.
I literally had to move 200 miles away from family to stop being forced to be a free babysitter because of "family". When they still wouldn't leave me alone got a order of protection against all of them. Its been quiet for 4 years. Youngest sister had to finally start raising her own kids. And she screwed them all up. Sigh
My friend moved 2,000 miles away, across the country from California to the east coast. Mostly to get away from her awful family trying to force her to be a free babysitter.
Interesting how OP is inspired by a statement "You have to say no, or they'll keep taking advantage." But she doesn't say no, she just gives her cousin the silent treatment. Telling her mother is good but it's not enough.
the silent treatment is saying no!
@@PARISGx1 No - and I just had to say "no" to answer you. A simple thumbs down will only fly by the other person's mind, and +particularly here YT won't even show it. Words need to be said, loud and clear, with video proof if necessary.
the Layla type is very selfish and toxic...they have no boundaries...no conscience...and are users....they are all about themselves and have no consideration....it is not that Layla is working? She is most likely on dates, failing her children...they deserve better....they can not cope but appreciate the welfare...sending her children to school hungry...
And when did schools start to talk about kids who are not yours ? If you’re neither the parent nor the guardian schools are not allowed to give any info .
Where are the father s of these kids? Why isn't CPS involved?
Read the story! She did call.
So you thought the best thing to do was put yourself back in the exact situation where you were taking advantage of and that was going to solve the problem instead of simply calling CPS? Wow.
Why wouldnt you 'believe she would abandon her kids like that'? That is literally what she has been doing with them all along, abandoning them on your doorstep, with your tacit consent.
Layla should have took the kids to her Aunt’s house😂
This dude reads as if it’s a crime genre
Send them to DEAREST Mom !!!
So that "WE FAMILY" shyt actually WORKS with people?? wow..NOT OVER HERE!😵💫
Yup these Facebook and TH-cam reels that show people drop and dash kids got parents getting too brave 😂😂😂
It only took OP almost 40 years to learn how to grow a damn spine? Good job!
thanks for saying this so i dont have to listen to the story tired of Reddit stories of spineless people
@@MercilessJoey It's actually not that bad. But I find it pretty preposterous OP reached her 40s, and has to run to Reddit to learn how to say no! She doesn't even have the guts to tell that to the cousin, just hides in her house like a scared little mouse. Pathetic.
You all suck, then don't read it!
@@Mrs_Sugar_Min womp womp
@ You seem disturbed. Make sure you're getting enough fibre in your diet.
I’m a single mom trying to handle my own household and stopped being everyone’s helping monkey and set boundaries. If you can’t take care of your own child keep your legs closed.
I hate that term family is supposed to help family. Because generally it's only one person in the family that always gets the help and it's always the other person that's doing the helping. That's one of the stupidest lines ever. Also, why doesn't her Mommy help Layla if she's in such a hard place. Another thing that pisses me off when other people who don't want to do a damn thing to help anybody say well why aren't you helping them out their family. It's like when people say well you should financially help them out their family you know. We need to help them out cuz they're family. I would tell anybody and everybody okay. I understand. When you (as family just like me), put a dollar in I'll match every dollar you match. Watch how fast no one has a penny to help. If you can't help out as well as everybody else or the person you're trying to make help out. Keep your mouth shut. What do they say. Put up or shut up.
Why didn't you just say NOOOOOOOO?!.. you can't be mad at her for walking all over you, when you're allowing her to walk all over you..she need to call the police & report her.. layla has no interest in being a mom.. she need to just give those kids to a relative or CPS. What type of school doesn't report suspected child abuse?.. they are MANDATED by law to report it. The kids coming to school hungry means she's not feeding those babies...
The school likely reported it but if it's not in the US, there may be a lot of red tape involved to report such abuse.
Because AI isn't programmed that way.
Call CPS
Read the story. She did call them.
I hate this writing format. It's hard to read and understand.
I have this weird theory that, in the human species, TWO parents, one male, the other female, are required to procreate a child. Layla did not bear these children without male assistance. Where is (are) the father(s)?
I want to know what the hell was Layla doing???
Poor kids 😢
Mom can babysit for Layla
Either take her to Layla's mom or your mom.
Where were the fathers?
Call DCFS on her.
Read the story. She did.
I would call out if u leave I'm calling the cops and cps
Call the law
Read the story. She did.
tissue stink as a person.
Hahaha see a non mother.
Call the police and reported her for harassment you if she don't want the children give them up and mom can be the free baby sitting turn the children over to CPS and don't feel guilty about it
Again, read the story. She did.