Awesome video of a little talked about and understood topic. Thank you guys. Although we think that we get pulled in physically, i think that the real pull is more emotional than it is physical: E.g.1) A girl who is average looking, but is very attracted to me, is much more attractive TO ME, than a very good looking girl who has no interest IN ME). E.g.2) But if two girls are equally attracted to me, then the better looking girl would likely be more attractive to me. So, it is not that physical attraction is not real, but emotional attraction - in which we feel valued - seems to be much stronger than physical attraction, because at root we are yearning to be told that we are valued and loved (more than we are yearning to merely look upon beauty).
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Awesome video of a little talked about and understood topic. Thank you guys.
Although we think that we get pulled in physically, i think that the real pull is more emotional than it is physical:
E.g.1) A girl who is average looking, but is very attracted to me, is much more attractive TO ME, than a very good looking girl who has no interest IN ME).
E.g.2) But if two girls are equally attracted to me, then the better looking girl would likely be more attractive to me.
So, it is not that physical attraction is not real, but emotional attraction - in which we feel valued - seems to be much stronger than physical attraction, because at root we are yearning to be told that we are valued and loved (more than we are yearning to merely look upon beauty).
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