This knuckle head makes it hard for good men like me but I still don't understand why beautiful women like her navigate to these deadbeat users and abusers but want even give a good decent man a conversation
Absolutely correct, I truly played myself I was dating a Nigerian, he got me good…. I should’ve took him to court, but he will be dealt with by the universe.
See....he figured she was a sucker...cause the first time he would've asked me for 💰, I'm letting him kno I'm broke and matter of fact, I need to borrow sum money, too 😂
I have a friend who is always dry begging. I just pretend I don't hear it and I start complaining how stuff is expensive and I have to be careful about my finances, I can't wait for my next pay cheque, I can't afford to go out, etc. With these people, you have to strike 1st with your own broke ass story.
I was a guy who lived off women, dated older women and a lot of them pay to play. However, I started life off in on a decent track, got sidetracked into a culture that I had left as a teen/young man, so I had a base to get back to. Point is, I earn over 100k net per year now and most bm can get it together too. I'm able to help a woman, help us to live a comfortable lifestyle and this is a challenge believe me, if you're a bm like me looking for a bw. A lot of y'all are lost in media, worldly imo and we don't connect spiritually.
@@claudiah2563 I had a Cousin like that, we grew up together I just had to cut her completely off...always begging. She's the same person be talking about people are jealous of her and what she has. She was living with a man but you want to come try to borrow money from me.The last straw was when I was in a Rollover Crash I was in ICU for a month and then my grandmother passed away two days after my crash, soon as I got out of The Hospital, guess who start hanging around asking did I have insurance when I had my wreck.. I'm glad her ass is out of my life it's been 7 years of Pure Non Begging Bliss 👏🏾
Had a few DRY BEGGAR chics, self proclaimed Divas but dry begged jus like jm said.. ** Fake wanna b Sophisticated chics b scheming,scamming,plotting, & Pocket Watching.😂
This dude was so trifling that the judge didn’t waste his energy cussing him out. The judge just let him talk himself into the hole and just let the dirt fall on him. It was magical! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's saw a good looking dude but still decided to be involved with it after everyone try to warn her.... She let her lust block her logic and reason that's why she got played
@Scott Rogue, Stop being ridiculous. You shouldn't extend grace to people, just because you expect something in return. Then you're not really extending anything at all. She's a full grown woman. She's not a victim.
She seen that he was vulnerable from Grief & tried to play wifey to him to be in a relationship. He seen that she was desperate for a relationship & used her & hid behind “well you say you wanna be there for me in my time of need right?” Pretty much guilt tripping her. They both wrong if you ask me
@kofi E no that’s called a bum. Especially when you gotta act like it’s a loan, say you’ll give it back & guilt trip the woman (about your deceased mother) to give it to you. Ain’t NOTHING “playa” about that.
@@mssharelltiahna1169 Right, that was just talk,he had no intention on paying her back. He figured he'd have her so in love with him she would just forget the loan
@@mssharelltiahna1169 Seeing an opportunity to show a man you can be a good woman to him isn’t wrong. She was naïve and lacked wisdom, but not malicious.
Its no law against wanting to be a man's women and wanting to be there for him. That doesn't give him the right to try to milk her because he's grieving or he's a womanizer. Some men are like that they see a women as a ticket to access to money and things.
The best way to beat a user at their “dry begging” game is the second you start talking to them, state all the bills you have to pay and mention how expensive things are now, then at the end ask them how they are doing. They will be hesitant to ask you for anything.
He is one of those men who in their 50's, 60's wanting to settle down but looking for a woman to take care of them after they have all these multiple health issues, broke and alone. They die alone because of how they use, mistreat people in their prime years.
He reminds me of a boy I used to date when I was younger... as soon as they start asking for money run ladies. I know he probably putting it down cause that’s what they do but it’s not worth it 😂😂😂
She didn't care about the Warner signs because this brother is good looking... She let her sexual lust blind her.... The reason why black women are struggled because they let good looking dudes bamboozled them and when black women feel stupid they want to take me to court to try and sue
I hate to say it but I'm just going to keep it 100.. He probably put his Mama through Hell..... I'm sure he hit her up for money all the time too... I doubt he sent her on that Cruise, His Character speaks VOLUMES... I'm sure he's worried his mother some awful, Rest In Peace Moms
It's amazing how men / women will accept, food, clothes, money, cars, trips, housing, etc..But when they want to escape the relationship it goes into to the court system..🙄🤔🥺
Even thought she knew he was a womanizer she still tried to be with him, so there shouldn't been any surprises. I'm happy she got some sense, but money will make anyone have sense when they start to go broke when they give too much. "If it don't make money, it don't make sense"
She said once his cousins told her about him she broke it off. It was years later that his mom passed that she offered her condolences because she empathized with him. He saw it as an opportunity.
I wanted to ask who is raising these sorry men..... but had to remember single mothers are! Including myself, & hopefully my young son will turn out upstanding despite the circumstances I brought him into.
@Ne Ne I'm working hard to keep my kid from being that black male statistic, as I was raised with college-educated parents, still married 40+ years still to this day.
@Chey B I wish I coulda made better decisions 😔 for his sake. I didn't know his dad would be such a coward, but I'm far from that & will make sure my child has access to everything beneficial to his success 🙌🏾 I'm claiming it 😊🤗
This grown boy was using her like it was his mama. This grown girl knowingly step to the mama position. Ladies never give a bf money 💰 for his bills and livelihood.
Women loose all common sense behind a man. I’m happy I’m in my 20s learning my lessons even if it’s the hard way, I refuse to be in my 30s and 40s having a grown man say I pressured him into a relationship or a having casual sex with a man.
Exactly, you got this sis! To me, it's all a measure of self love which promotes self worth. You always have to remember that you are worth the best you can get out of life. You learned younger than me, for some of us it takes a little more time and mishaps along the way.
I'm in my 50's and I've never done any of the things these women do to learn any lessons like this. I was never the gf/bf type of girl in my teens so I wasn't really interested in dating a lot. I'm still not. I had 1 bf. We married when I was 18. He was 23. He died when I was 28. We had been married 10 years. I'm 53 and I've never remarried nor dated anyone else. I don't date by choice and I am a beautiful black woman with a nice figure. That's never been an issue. Just never been interested in it like that. I'm not opposed to it but My life is peaceful without it. I raised my 2 daughters without going out with anyone for 12 years. My husband was an exceptional man and I didn't even realize that he really almost doesn't even exist anymore. 😂😂😂 The way I hear women complaining about whats on the dating scene is horrendous.!! 😅😅 I changed my career to cyber security Management several years ago and focused on that part of my life. I continue to try and demonstrate to my daughters the power of being self sufficient and truly independent. However independence does not mean you don't want relationship but you just learn to weigh out how you want to live.
He sounds like a whole bum talking about she’s harassing him for asking for her money. Wow. I would not be proud of my son acting like that at all. He should change his ways out of respect for his deceased mother and himself. That’s embarrassing and the young lady needs to get herself some esteem. I’ve bn a fool for love too but she couldn’t have even loved him that fast. Sometimes we as women can do a lot just to try to prove to a man that we are the one he should be with, but if we step bk and gather ourselves we realize he may not be the one we should be with in the first place. Take your time ladies and heal whatever causes those feelings of being incomplete. Most times it’s daddy issues. Don’t ever prove yourself to anybody until you’ve first proven yourself to YOU. ❤️🙏🏽 *Somebody done told this joker he’s fine that’s the problem. 😂
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vsYou make an excellent point! I’m with you on that. He sure doesn’t sound like somebody who woulda paid for a trip to Jamaica or anywhere else! 😂
A begging man is such a turn-off. The first time he fixed his lips to ask me can he borrow something would've been his last. He most definitely took advantage of her.
@@maesams6212 well Im sure you either old ASF with a name like Mae and stuck in your ways so I Kno u single and have been since your 20's .. u can keep your change im sure what every man says that comes your way. You are a headache to society and to yourself.
@@TruckerActivity2 Naw not at all. He should have known what comes with the GIVING if he wasn't tryna pay back. shyt noone wants to just give an not receive anything back of substance whether it's loyalty and being thankful by paying back. So he played himself and so did she by entertaining the thought of buying a grown ass man a game system. Lol
The guy's a liar and he twists the truth. I feel terrible for her having to meet him. Hopefully she has met an honest guy because that's what she deserves. She appears to be an extremely nice lady honest. He's probably in jail.
Been there done that as the saying goes! It is a bitter lesson to learn when the time comes that the woman realizes WHAT A FOOL she has been!! Sad all the way around this should just say LATER FOR HIM and move the heck on and never LOOK BACK!!!
My mom got me@ 10 yrs old, borrowing dish liquid from ‘good’ neighbors , she went ‘off! Don’t borrow, don’t loan, don’t co-sign, don’t move w nobody, don’t-let my sons move in , God bless the child that’s got his own, thank you
Welp, she was told by HIS own people, what he was, so, its a lesson learned. Its 2022, and any woman still giving men money, she is desperate and just plain stupid.
I bet she was a body to lay next to, an ATM , a restaurant that delivers, but relationship!?? People just love to use others up and give nothing in return, but she's a fool! I know she has children to care for, that's their money!
Women who continuously loan money on top of money to anybody and never getting paid back anything is a FOOL. Who does that and why? Make it make sense sis.
My sister when he asked u for that first loan, u should've ran like Hell n the other direction and Judge Mathis is a trip...i like to hear him say dry begging and crackhead.😂😂😂
Any woman who give men money don't deserve to get anything back. Stop being so desperate and thristy and you wouldn't find yourself in these predicaments.
Judge Mathis you know darn well a woman cooking food for a man, especially a whole Thanksgiving dinner..she's trying to get next to him! Knock it off...
He sounds like the type to go to church…to PREY…not PRAY. I guarantee he shows up for the food and free giveaways
Lmao facts.
Prey right
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
👏🏿👏🏿
You said it best! Facts!
Don't use your mother's death as a pass/excuse to treat people any kind of way once you're done using them up.
for real... he's pathetic
This knuckle head makes it hard for good men like me but I still don't understand why beautiful women like her navigate to these deadbeat users and abusers but want even give a good decent man a conversation
Facts
Rule #1 - don’t let a man borrow no money period
Periodt!!
Simple!
Absolutely correct, I truly played myself I was dating a Nigerian, he got me good…. I should’ve took him to court, but he will be dealt with by the universe.
Don’t mess up the game
Exactly. It erks me when a man/male ask a female for money or anything. Get you own. Unless he's your husband.
The defendant sounds pathetic. Brothers if you borrow money from a woman just pay her back.
Vice versa. Tired of the double standards
How about just don't borrow money from a woman.
Just woman?
No! Women stop giving money to men. Problem solved!
Seriously.
See....he figured she was a sucker...cause the first time he would've asked me for 💰, I'm letting him kno I'm broke and matter of fact, I need to borrow sum money, too 😂
I have a friend who is always dry begging. I just pretend I don't hear it and I start complaining how stuff is expensive and I have to be careful about my finances, I can't wait for my next pay cheque, I can't afford to go out, etc. With these people, you have to strike 1st with your own broke ass story.
I was a guy who lived off women, dated older women and a lot of them pay to play. However, I started life off in on a decent track, got sidetracked into a culture that I had left as a teen/young man, so I had a base to get back to. Point is, I earn over 100k net per year now and most bm can get it together too. I'm able to help a woman, help us to live a comfortable lifestyle and this is a challenge believe me, if you're a bm like me looking for a bw. A lot of y'all are lost in media, worldly imo and we don't connect spiritually.
@@claudiah2563
I had a Cousin like that, we grew up together I just had to cut her completely off...always begging. She's the same person be talking about people are jealous of her and what she has. She was living with a man but you want to come try to borrow money from me.The last straw was when I was in a Rollover Crash I was in ICU for a month and then my grandmother passed away two days after my crash, soon as I got out of The Hospital, guess who start hanging around asking did I have insurance when I had my wreck.. I'm glad her ass is out of my life it's been 7 years of Pure Non Begging Bliss 👏🏾
Ewww I had a man like that. Asked me for $1500 to flip. Said he’d giv me 1500 plus 3,000. I blocked his crazy bum ass too.
Ahaaaaaaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "flip" haha
Had a few DRY BEGGAR chics, self proclaimed Divas but dry begged jus like jm said..
** Fake wanna b Sophisticated chics b scheming,scamming,plotting, & Pocket Watching.😂
This dude was so trifling that the judge didn’t waste his energy cussing him out. The judge just let him talk himself into the hole and just let the dirt fall on him. It was magical! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
MY BROTHER AND I BUSTED UP A FEW DUDES ABOUT TRYING TO STRONG ARM OUR SISTERS WITH THE WOO WOO GAME!!!! AN ASS KICKING WAS OUR APPROACH TO PAYBACK!!!
@@yannapretty121 I wish I had brothers.
But You Do!!!! They are all around you. ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️
@@janinelew2483 Explain?
@@wileyjohnson5681BUT.. BUT. YOU... YOU. DO... DO.
He said he was grieving...I guess that $600 PlayStation was supposed to help get him through the mourning process 🤔
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
It can. Word up. Playing my ps5 helps me deal with stress.
Exactly 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
Gaming takes you out of reality tbh. 🤷🏽♀️ Soo ... Yea, it'll take his mind off it alot.
This is what happens when you extend grace to people who don’t deserve it. She shouldn’t of reached out at all. None of her concern
She's saw a good looking dude but still decided to be involved with it after everyone try to warn her.... She let her lust block her logic and reason that's why she got played
So true Scott.
He most definitely used her lol
@Scott Rogue, Stop being ridiculous. You shouldn't extend grace to people, just because you expect something in return. Then you're not really extending anything at all. She's a full grown woman. She's not a victim.
She was lonely, he was grieving.
People confuse sex for love.
How many times is he going to repeat himself? 😂
She... She... She had an agenda Yo Honor and I... I ... I was... GREIVING 😏
Exactly!!!
😂😂
No seriously, I even yelled WE GET IT 😂😂😂 kept talking in circles
@@GangstaBoo7 you got meee goingggg in circlesssssss lmao 😅🤣😅🤣😂😂😂😂
*grieving🙂👍🏽
Forced a relationship 😂 sir come on . He sound ridiculous. You dry begged for money
Absolutely.
Meeka...
She forced him to try to like her
Lmaoo its dry begging at its finest
She's too beautiful for him!! Don't know what she saw in him!!!
She seen that he was vulnerable from Grief & tried to play wifey to him to be in a relationship. He seen that she was desperate for a relationship & used her & hid behind “well you say you wanna be there for me in my time of need right?” Pretty much guilt tripping her. They both wrong if you ask me
EXACTLY!🤣
@kofi E no that’s called a bum. Especially when you gotta act like it’s a loan, say you’ll give it back & guilt trip the woman (about your deceased mother) to give it to you. Ain’t NOTHING “playa” about that.
@@mssharelltiahna1169
Right, that was just talk,he had no intention on paying her back. He figured he'd have her so in love with him she would just forget the loan
@@mssharelltiahna1169 Seeing an opportunity to show a man you can be a good woman to him isn’t wrong. She was naïve and lacked wisdom, but not malicious.
Its no law against wanting to be a man's women and wanting to be there for him. That doesn't give him the right to try to milk her because he's grieving or he's a womanizer. Some men are like that they see a women as a ticket to access to money and things.
The best way to beat a user at their “dry begging” game is the second you start talking to them, state all the bills you have to pay and mention how expensive things are now, then at the end ask them how they are doing. They will be hesitant to ask you for anything.
Right and if not there's your answer right there. No good.
Eéchj
Lol great advice, thanks!!
😂 facts
What you doing all that for?! It’s just NO MFER! I ain’t got shit for ya! Y’all too nice wit the cat n mouse bs! 😅
He is one of those men who in their 50's, 60's wanting to settle down but looking for a woman to take care of them after they have all these multiple health issues, broke and alone. They die alone because of how they use, mistreat people in their prime years.
As the saying goes, an old fool was once a young fool.
Right on, got 2 files across the street from me, n a friend's ex in the making
@@chick-fil-agal2264 Be helpful, but be smart. I say this because you can't tell a fool a damn thing because they know everything.
Girl!!!! Who else sees this??? Bums
That's the truth and he'll find a desperate woman who will take him in 🤦🏽♀️
A man begging for money is shameless and pathetic. You're working 12 to 16 hour shifts and trying to guilt trip a woman to get you something to eat?
Yeah he need to go back to the streets
So sorry! He should of been embarrassed. Asking a women to feed him.
He has NO Shame. I bet his mother was mothering him up to her passing😒😑
He’s so manipulative and pathetic, glad she got her money! Don’t go back sis!
You can tell how they talked after court she still likes him alot. They'll be texting each other in the parking lot 🙄 😆
I’m glad she got to see him early and able to get away from him before she was to far in it giving him money
I mean it’s her fault lol
She knew he was a womanizer she put herself in that position to get played
He reminds me of a boy I used to date when I was younger... as soon as they start asking for money run ladies. I know he probably putting it down cause that’s what they do but it’s not worth it 😂😂😂
She didn't care about the Warner signs because this brother is good looking... She let her sexual lust blind her.... The reason why black women are struggled because they let good looking dudes bamboozled them and when black women feel stupid they want to take me to court to try and sue
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 he’s not all that lol... I guarantee she came out of pocket because of that D 😂
LoL 🤣🤣 smh !!!
Not that much putting it down in the world blessings.
I understand he lost his mom and was grieving but wasn’t grieving too hard to not ask for money stop asking for money if you are so upset
I hate to say it but I'm just going to keep it 100.. He probably put his Mama through Hell..... I'm sure he hit her up for money all the time too... I doubt he sent her on that Cruise, His Character speaks VOLUMES... I'm sure he's worried his mother some awful, Rest In Peace Moms
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 🎯
He tried to buy his love but it backfired on her
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vs he probably also lied about paying for his mother trip
@BOSS LADY yes a momma 's boy
Judge is a trip. Got me crying laughing 😂
😁
He be on it 🤣💪🏿
Well you shouldn't have eaten the food. 😂😂😂
He made a fool of himself
Yup🤡🤛🏿😹😹😹
You a ,lie lol
THATS GOOD SHE MADE HIM SIGN PROMISSORY NOTE AND KEPT HIS TEXTS
@@majik31401 gotta have witnesses or receipts
"Just can't think until I get that bill paid" 🤣🤣 that's a good one 🤣
@@MrModusOne 🤣🤣
It’s funny how the men will accept money, a place to stay, cars, & gifts but the woman wanting an actual relationship is where they draw the line 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Bc that’s what parasites do they suck and drain but never replenish
😂😂😂 yeah its called being a playa
@@ryandixon7604 a “playa” don’t need a woman to sponsor his life, that’s a BUM 😂
He was trifling! She was too nice! He took advantage of her! Said she was asking too much of him! But he took everything she gave him! Just shameful!
it was to much money or food. He didn't turn nothing down. He took full advantage
I'm stingy with my money and don't lend money...
Me either
so his cousin warned you and you still dated him lol !!
Mr.Emmett:"She was too overwhelming".😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Judge Mathis:"She was overbearing".😂
It's amazing how men / women will accept, food, clothes, money, cars, trips, housing, etc..But when they want to escape the relationship it goes into to the court system..🙄🤔🥺
Exactly
AND, WHAT LESSONS, HAVE YOU LEARNED, IN YOUR GREAT EXPERIENCES, OF SUCH ??? I NEED YOUR HELP?!!!!
It's hard to be sympathetic for her situation, she knew he was trash and proceeded to get involved with him anyway 🤷🏼♀️
You said it for me.
From minus day one 🤦🏽♂️
Funny because when I say it everyone seems to take issue. Nothing but hypocrites...I've been saying it all along
Ouch!!!!
You attract who you are. So, if he's trash. So is she 🤷
Bro used his moms passing as his defense to his trifling ways. . .sorry excuse for a man right here
You always gonna be doing too much for someone who don’t want you.
Facts....things always have a way or revealing itself, even if we dont acknowledge it.
💯💯💯
That part!
Not really. If you have self esteem you won't.
Even thought she knew he was a womanizer she still tried to be with him, so there shouldn't been any surprises. I'm happy she got some sense, but money will make anyone have sense when they start to go broke when they give too much. "If it don't make money, it don't make sense"
Well Alrighty Then…PREACH!
He is doing a lot of talking and ain't saying anything.
Sad....
Let me tell my story.... Still don't know the story
Exactly.
If he say ",like I said I was grieving about my momma" 1 MO Dang Time!! 🤦🏽♀ smh a damn shame.
I made this mistake before. Cut off a user. That's why I'm single. I hate when people take advantage of your kindness.
JM: Do you have any evidence????
D: 🤔 THE TRUTH!
Me: 😂😂😂😂 Where did they get him from?
I promise y’all Uncle JM put me on dry-begging! I can spot it a mile away now…I stop it before it even happens! Thank you Uncle JM! 🙌🏾😘
Lmao he’s talking in circles… gave me a headache 😂😂😂
I hope she gained some self esteem from
This experience, so she won’t settle for another dusty ass ninja again
He’s RIDICULOUS, but so is she. Because her friends, which is his cousins WARNED her about him. But yet she had to see for herself 😏
She said once his cousins told her about him she broke it off. It was years later that his mom passed that she offered her condolences because she empathized with him. He saw it as an opportunity.
I wanted to ask who is raising these sorry men..... but had to remember single mothers are! Including myself, & hopefully my young son will turn out upstanding despite the circumstances I brought him into.
The problem is the fathers willingly bring absent in the children’s lives we need to get married first before we have any man’s children
he sure can … try and try hard for positive grown men to be in his life… no grown boys
@Ne Ne I'm working hard to keep my kid from being that black male statistic, as I was raised with college-educated parents, still married 40+ years still to this day.
@Chey B I wish I coulda made better decisions 😔 for his sake. I didn't know his dad would be such a coward, but I'm far from that & will make sure my child has access to everything beneficial to his success 🙌🏾 I'm claiming it 😊🤗
@@cheyb2257 it’s not always the man. Stop
Some people never change.When he opened his mouth it all came out..
This grown boy was using her like it was his mama. This grown girl knowingly step to the mama position. Ladies never give a bf money 💰 for his bills and livelihood.
I agree
The plaintiffs face expressions 🤣 and he keeps smiling when she explains that he used her !
I hope she's looking goofy from shame
N pay them back with extra
Giving men money shouldn't even feel right its just as bad as a man asking a woman for money!
I disagree, in a relationship both people look out for each other.
no lies told
@@AceDramaBeats
Key word "Relationship"
"Commitment"
These dating streets are communism😭
Women loose all common sense behind a man. I’m happy I’m in my 20s learning my lessons even if it’s the hard way, I refuse to be in my 30s and 40s having a grown man say I pressured him into a relationship or a having casual sex with a man.
That's right! Keep up the good work!
-Jesus loves all and wants to save all! Romans 10:9-10✌️
Exactly, you got this sis! To me, it's all a measure of self love which promotes self worth. You always have to remember that you are worth the best you can get out of life. You learned younger than me, for some of us it takes a little more time and mishaps along the way.
Not all women, baby! I’m cold as ice! 😂
20-year-olds become old fools. Run in the opposite direction at any sign of foolishness. There are plenty good men out there. Amen
I'm in my 50's and I've never done any of the things these women do to learn any lessons like this. I was never the gf/bf type of girl in my teens so I wasn't really interested in dating a lot. I'm still not. I had 1 bf. We married when I was 18. He was 23. He died when I was 28. We had been married 10 years. I'm 53 and I've never remarried nor dated anyone else. I don't date by choice and I am a beautiful black woman with a nice figure. That's never been an issue. Just never been interested in it like that. I'm not opposed to it but My life is peaceful without it. I raised my 2 daughters without going out with anyone for 12 years. My husband was an exceptional man and I didn't even realize that he really almost doesn't even exist anymore. 😂😂😂 The way I hear women complaining about whats on the dating scene is horrendous.!! 😅😅 I changed my career to cyber security Management several years ago and focused on that part of my life. I continue to try and demonstrate to my daughters the power of being self sufficient and truly independent. However independence does not mean you don't want relationship but you just learn to weigh out how you want to live.
He sounds like a whole bum talking about she’s harassing him for asking for her money. Wow. I would not be proud of my son acting like that at all. He should change his ways out of respect for his deceased mother and himself. That’s embarrassing and the young lady needs to get herself some esteem. I’ve bn a fool for love too but she couldn’t have even loved him that fast. Sometimes we as women can do a lot just to try to prove to a man that we are the one he should be with, but if we step bk and gather ourselves we realize he may not be the one we should be with in the first place. Take your time ladies and heal whatever causes those feelings of being incomplete. Most times it’s daddy issues. Don’t ever prove yourself to anybody until you’ve first proven yourself to YOU. ❤️🙏🏽
*Somebody done told this joker he’s fine that’s the problem. 😂
Low-key I think that was part of the sympathy game, his mother may have went on a cruise to Jamaica but I doubt he paid for it
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vsYou make an excellent point! I’m with you on that. He sure doesn’t sound like somebody who woulda paid for a trip to Jamaica or anywhere else! 😂
Oh no, they take care of moms. Bet he didn't pay too much to get her back to US.
Typical sad part is women will see this and still mess with his sorry behind.
This Is True🤦🏾♀️
Definitely. Unfortunately.
At least w/this one he's handsome so I can understand compared 2 the trolls in past episodes.
Judge Mathis: Do you have evidence sir🙄
Defendant: THE TRUUF
I JUST THREW MY PHONE 🤳😂🤣😭
My Brother…..be a MAN!
No doubt
A begging man is such a turn-off. The first time he fixed his lips to ask me can he borrow something would've been his last. He most definitely took advantage of her.
Just a month ain't together.
She knew he was a womanizer, and yet she continually gave to him🤔
LESSON 101: NEVER....Lend nor Give 💰to anyone you are NOT #Married to, including Fiancées!💡👀🚫
Haha yeah right. Most of these women are paying for penis, basically tricks. It's the only way a feminist can get a dude
Or Cook Thanksgiving Dinners 🦃
Cooking for him was lovely gift. That's it. One gesture. She needs women's group support.
If a guy asks for $ , even 1 time... be leary!
I believe that she was overbearing! But he shouldn't ask for $.
Everybody need help sometimes. No matter the gender. Get that out your head.
@@jasonmoses7785 No, get borrowing out of your LAME head!
Learn to be a man!
Right she wasn’t to overbearing to get money from?
@@maesams6212 well Im sure you either old ASF with a name like Mae and stuck in your ways so I Kno u single and have been since your 20's .. u can keep your change im sure what every man says that comes your way. You are a headache to society and to yourself.
@@TruckerActivity2 Naw not at all. He should have known what comes with the GIVING if he wasn't tryna pay back. shyt noone wants to just give an not receive anything back of substance whether it's loyalty and being thankful by paying back. So he played himself and so did she by entertaining the thought of buying a grown ass man a game system. Lol
He played himself.🤦🏽♂️
“No I’m not finished and umm”🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
No good deed goes unpunished.
He wishes she still hit him up, he look hungry asf
I can’t fathom ever asking a woman for money. That’s Weak Any way You put it.
anybody that lean over the table like that is guilty
HE DEFINITELY USED HER, BUT SHE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT TYPE OF GUY HE WAS FROM DAY 1, SO I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR HER .
He is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂 what evidence do you have???? THA TRUTH
His family gave her a fair warning
He should get into the middle of the street with a sign saying I'm broke
The guy's a liar and he twists the truth. I feel terrible for her having to meet him. Hopefully she has met an honest guy because that's what she deserves. She appears to be an extremely nice lady honest. He's probably in jail.
I hate to see a sorry azz man. She came with an agenda but he begging the whole time.
Been there done that as the saying goes! It is a bitter lesson to learn when the time comes that the woman realizes WHAT A FOOL she has been!! Sad all the way around this should just say LATER FOR HIM and move the heck on and never LOOK BACK!!!
If a man ask you for money...RUN...he doesn't care about you he's using you
He cannot explain himself.
She thought she could trauma bond but he was focused on his 1st bond 💔💔💔
Thank you ❤️ Ilol I see alot of women on theses comments going in on me 😂
I love you judge you're so funny I watch you for a very long time I don't do nothing until you go off then I start my day
My mom got me@ 10 yrs old, borrowing dish liquid from ‘good’ neighbors , she went ‘off! Don’t borrow, don’t loan, don’t co-sign, don’t move w nobody, don’t-let my sons
move in , God bless the child that’s got his own, thank you
He is straight doo doo
His family warned you . Please listen they handed you the red flag . Take heed
Lady no one can use you if your the one that’s dishing out, you wanted a relationship and he didn’t now your scorned! ❌❌❌❌
I’m grieving for his mama too.😭😭😭😭😒
You’ve any evidence sir
Plaintiff: 🗣 The truth
My ass : 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭
Welp, she was told by HIS own people, what he was, so, its a lesson learned. Its 2022, and any woman still giving men money, she is desperate and just plain stupid.
I bet she was a body to lay next to, an ATM , a restaurant that delivers, but relationship!?? People just love to use others up and give nothing in return, but she's a fool! I know she has children to care for, that's their money!
YEP .
That man didn't want to pay no money.
A real grown dummy, girl bye!! She tried to purchase him
Truth. You appear to be very attractive to me
You didn’t want to cry on her shoulder. You wanted her money
Not she came with a motive😑
Nah he came with a motive🤦🏾♀️
Never give a man money, unless he is your husband and you help one another. ( Who paid for his suit and tie).
Never give a woman money, unless she is your wife and you help one another.
That's a great lesson, too many men out here being used for money.
Not the Church!!! Damn,
GAME OVER BRAH!!!!!!!! You Stuttering Brah YOU LOST!!!!!!!
Women who continuously loan money on top of money to anybody and never getting paid back anything is a FOOL. Who does that and why? Make it make sense sis.
Straight dry begging and giving excuses. So in order for her to help him she had to pay his bills. 😂
She’s suing him for $370? She just want to see this man again.
😂😂 Exactly
You can tell with the controlling thing that she is that but he never thought that she would take him to court.
My sister when he asked u for that first loan, u should've ran like Hell n the other direction and Judge Mathis is a trip...i like to hear him say dry begging and crackhead.😂😂😂
My rule is not to buy me anything for a year aside from dinner and vice versa.
I don’t understand this much begging from a man!
He was even draining Judge Mathis 😂😂😂😂😂
When his family said he was no good, run!! Don’t look back!!
Any woman who give men money don't deserve to get anything back. Stop being so desperate and thristy and you wouldn't find yourself in these predicaments.
The bold face lies he spewed were crazy
That stupid look on his face when judge Mathis said good then you can pay that money 🤣🤣💪🏿💪🏿
Ikr 😅😂
Judge Mathis you know darn well a woman cooking food for a man, especially a whole Thanksgiving dinner..she's trying to get next to him! Knock it off...