As a person who has been traveling to Germany for over 20 times, German folks are quite nice and friendly actually. I like polite and organized people, though not the bossy types.
funny how they all love spanish and latin american "culture" thinking it's all passions and etc. but when they will realize that they are going to have fiesta every day, and when you have family dinner and all of a sudden half a town shows up. they going to get tired of it very very fast.
i used "fiesta" as a metaphor for every day nagging and emotional rollercoaster latin women are famous for. you will get tired from that very fast. there will be days you will be crying to god for a peaceful day. @@Johannathan187
Yeah, we throw parties for no reason. If you bought a new car, if you crashed it, you name it, we will just find an excuse to celebrate. The one thing that can drive Germans insane is that we're always late, and I mean 30 minutes or more late. Family gatherings, expect 700 people and lots of food. "May the odds be in your favor"
I´m Canadian and met my German husband in Canada. we got married 1.5 years after meeting each other. Getting to know a German on an intimate level can be challenging but when you have a Canadian who is more outgoing and open it some how works. we have been married 8 years now and I would say we still have talks about how we culturally view things differently. for example as a German being too direct can be a little hurtful or beating around the bush as a Canadian is frustrating for a German, we´ve learned to be a little of both now.
it seems to be the same for all the native english speaking countries: Indirect questions that keep beating arouind the bush rather than asking directly what you wanna know.....I just broke up with my english boyfriend because he found my directness hurtful and i found his beating around the bush infuriating, its like needing a translator and when it happens every other day and turns into a big fight cos of misunderstandings, then its just not worth it...
I had a Catalan girlfriend. We were together for 5 years, but in the end the cultural differences were too great. We argued too often and it was better to break up. I was also too direct for her and she was too impulsive over every little thing. I actually wanted to date foreign people, but after this experience I prefer to stick with German women.
Latinas Are incredibly popular. My wife who is Mexican is always surprised about all of her countrywomen being considered hot by German men (she is really pretty herself but she sometimes tells me, about certain Mexican girls that they would never be considered guapa in Mexico whereas German men are all over them).
@@IzzyChopChop I have heard from many Latinas (friends of my Mexican wife) that they feel they get way more attention from German men than in their home countries. Was quite surprised as they seemed very good looking to me but my wife also said that those wouldn’t be considered pretty in Mexico. Different countries different preferences I guess.
The girl from Isreal nailed it. Most Germans might go on dates with foreigners, it's fun to meet but they don't progress. They are not that flexible, they prefer it easy and with less risk and effort for them in the long term 👉 Except Berlin... there you get to have 5 relationships at the same time.
Reason is probably the language barrier, when they want to invite their girlfriends to meet the parents. I actually had 2 girlfriends that weren't German, I dated long term, but both were fluent in German as well. If you're living in Germany for several years and are getting fluent, the barrier shouldn't be that high anymore. Unless you live in an expat bubble or parallel society with different religion of course. Then there are other obstacles as well. That would probably explain why she actually had dates, but it never went far. People are attracted to her, but she probably is not fluent in German. That fits to what the guys also said in the video as well.
These videos have a common trait, theoretically every culture is open to date foreigners but the ideal long term partner is always from your own country because its what you know and its more easy. So all these videos look the same, the only thing that make some stand apart are interesting personal stories of the people that are interviewed, sometimes. Of course falling in love with a foreigner happens everywhere, its just life.
I'm German and I've actually never been with a German man. My first boyfriend was Italian and then I just kept dating foreigners. My husband is Greek. I have 8 cousins, of whom 4 are married to a foreigner. Half of my childhood friends is also married to a foreigner. So from my personal experience I would say that Germans really are very open to marry a foreigner and the ideal for us is not someone from our culture, but more someone we have enough in common to be able to agree on fundamental things and enough difference to be able to learn from each other. But maybe my experience is flawed, because I grew up in Munich, where 25% of the population are foreigners, so foreigners feel familiar to us folks from Munich. I could imagine if you grew up in Zwickau it's a bit different.
Have they done france? I wonder if the mediterranean countries would be different. Seems they only focus on baltic and scandinavian - but those countries are pretty closed to foreigners.
Rubbish. Do you think a German would be as willing to date Thai, Fililipo, or Sri Lankan, as the latter would like to date German? If so, why are Germans in interracial, mostly happen to be middle aged fat divorced men in "relationship" with Thai and Filipina girl half their age?
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As a German, I married an Italian woman. We follow traditional values, and want many babies together.. but in my experience, German women prioritiese their career.
The love of my life is German. Ultimately it should be about personality. If you're putting nationality boundaries in the way, you will only hurt yourself.
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@Dating Beyond Borders - do you think you'll ever do similar street interviews for East/South East/South Asians who either grew up in western countries or naturalized in western countries? I feel like there's a big gap between Asians that are accustomed living in the west, vs Asians who grew up in Asia.
I'm half German half Romanian. I didn't date so far even there were a couple chances in the past. But the point is that in my point of view it's easier to get along with Romanians, not just when it's about relationships but in general. They're friendlier, funnier and warmer. It doesn't take long to break the ice. In Germany it's harder I think. Not saying that every1 is bad but compared to Romania it was harder for me to get in contact with people in Munich than in Romania.
as someone from germany, i think those people who say that they want only someone from germany also mean that they would date foreigners that are born and raised in germany. in germany there are plenty of people with different cultures so i don’t think they need to look for someone outside of the country when they can have a foreigner that speaks german fluently and is raised in the german culture.
I believe this is only true for people from a closely related culture like Polish or Dutch as the problems with misunderstandings and different cultures would still persist e.g. with a Muslim person born here. Of course there would be much more familiarity however at least to me this seems like opening the same can of worms of cultural and value clashes they are wanting to avoid (e.g. I just learned recently that Muslims aren't allowed to touch dogs or have them in their house which would be a deal breaker to me, though of course it depends on the person and how secular and integrated they are. But since this is about preferences I think that a preference for dating someone from Germany is primarily about dating other native Germans or people from related cultures that the people feel like they understand and are familiar with)
@@hmvollbanane1259To be fair, Muslims are a special case even by foreign standards. They generally expect you to convert to their religion before getting married. Also, no alcohol, pork, dogs etc as it's against their beliefs. Some that are not religious may be a bit more flexible. But if you had a Hindu Indian or Chinese Buddhist, for example, with a German person there's a greater chance they will meet you in the middle.
@@S_goldman_ i think this case would be true in the states but in germany you are a foreigner if you are not ethnically german or at least don’t have a german passport
@@thecrimsondragon9744 it sounds more like having prejudices against muslim people 😅 there are lot of muslims who drink alcohol and If someone already knows from the beginning that he is not a Muslim, he will and could not force him to change his religion.
23yo. German here I have only dated foreign girls so far but always with a rather similar cultural background. Like Finnish they are reserved too and it takes time to break the ice. Not saying there were no differences at all. Currently dating a Japanese. I gotta say though I would go with anyone I can build a bond with. Neglecting their cultural background.
I totally agree with the girl from Israel. I was born and raised in Germany and I've heard from almost every German that I know that they would date a foreigner for fun only but when it comes to long-term and serious relationships they would only go for fellow Germans. They see foreigners like a fun thing and thats it. Same with Dutch people. Its awful
Lol so not true. Many Germans prefer foreign women esiecislly those who are more traditional. Myself I am married to a Latina and I can name you 10 other of my friends with either Latinas, Russians or Asians (married or in serious long-term relationships).
It is what happens everywhere. It´s being a year since I started living in Germany (I come from Ecuador and I have a latina girlfriend) but if she were not with me, I might date a german girl for fun but at the end, for marriage, I would definitely marry a latina. I understand exactly the culture.
@@cnavarrete1999 because your a man men can have secual relations with women outside theyre race but when it comes emotional mental and pride for culture they will stay with their own but this is not common for women because they’re mentally different
@@lilli9927 würde echt mal gerne wissen wo ihr alle in Deutschland wohnt, ich kann dieses Phänomen in meinem Bekanntenkreis überhaupt nicht beobachten. Mindestens 50% meiner Freunde/Familie/arbeitskollegen sind mit Ausländerinnen verheiratet oder in ernsten Beziehungen. Latinas, Russinnen, Asiatinnen etc. Wenn hier der Feminismus in Deutschland noch lange wütet wird die Tendenz hier auch eher steigen.
Depends i guess As a french dude who traveled around Asia, Europe and Oceania I've met many Germans, I lived in Berlin and Hambourg for 6 months as well And it's only fair to say that Germans where often the most open-minded and easy to talk to. Really easy to just start a conversation and get along for a drink right away, either as a friend with a dude or for a date with a German beauty
@@broflo8859Berlin and Hamburg are exactly the two places where you get to meet the most "ungermanized Germans" 😂. They are not representative of the typical German
Typical norwegain narcissist looking for attention and looking to serve their narcissistic suppy. Thanks for highlighting your grandiose needs once again clearly. (Now i know you’re gona say ‘thanks’ and then ‘you know a lot’ then ‘you assume a lot’ ‘ put me in a place where you think you know me and make me question myself like you are a superior teacher making me think of myself) 😂
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@@Me_di do you even know whats narcissist is its called been open minded everyone has their preferences some of us honestly dont care about what race you from
The Israeli girl was stunning! The attitude of the middle aged (mimicking Japanese) was hilarious but he was right about the security. At 4:50 I almost thought he would talk about spreading something else😂
oh my god i kept laughing everytime they said that Spanish and Latin American cultures are more open minded. I’m Mexican and American and it’s more that some people outside have a fetish of Latinas that isn’t talked about and also Mexican and other Latin American countries are very traditional and conservative. Because I am also American it wasn’t a problem for my family that I brought my boyfriend over to sleep with in my own room, but in a Mexican household normally this would NOT be allowed unless the couple is officially married…and only by the church. I have a lot of family in Germany and it was honestly a nice experienced to suddenly not be met with so much caution as Mexicans are constantly stereotyped in the American media here, but please do not assume other cultures here are necessarily more open-minded, it’s more so we are very social cultures and we prioritize family. You WILL attend every single social event in your city, it doesn’t matter if you don’t know the family very well! 😂 If you don’t like to socialize well too bad, you will make a terrible impression 😂
Esto me pasó a mi también. Cuando visite la familia de mi esposa mexicana por primera vez su padre no quería q durmiéramos en el mismo cuarto ya que todavía no estábamos casados. Gracias a dios sus papás están divorciados y a su mamá (donde vivíamos) no le importaba. Su papá le dijo al moso (q todavía conocía) q separara nuestras camas cada día en la mañana, q fue muy estúpido porque simplemente las juntamos otra vez en la noche. Pero si puedo confirmar q en este sentido son muy tradicionales todavía.
I wonder where in the U.S. you're from. I'd say in most of the U.S., parents would NOT be ok with a daughter having a boyfriend sleep over. The U.S. is actually quite traditional and this doesn't get talked about a lot.
your talking about something that is sexual in nature lol those who say open minded are talking about friendliness and being warm to random people more inviting. most people will questio ln theyre daughters having a male in their house in their room alone
oh my 😆unfortunately I have to agree. As a foreign, dating germans so far was kind of impossible.. after 6 years. And after the moment you start to speak English, they just wanna run even faster 😂 I'm sorry! My flirting skills in German are just inexistent!! 😂
This Israeli girl is speaking the truth. I'm a guy from germany and, in my 'bad boy' days, I successfully dated over 30 girls, but only one was German. The issue was often my darker skin. Discrimination and prejudice are big problems in Germany!
2:53 so are you saying that german men prefer a german woman? girl why do you make it seem strange, they are german its normal to be attracted to similar people
From my experience as Greek girl German men are easier to date and more approachable and German men love foreign girls what the Israeli girl said its not true
From my experience talking to and befriending a lot of German men in various German cities, the Israeli girl definitely has a point. Perhaps you've just been lucky.
I would say that probably it depends on the looks of the woman, as usual, if they find you hot they will run, maybe they don't like the appearance of the israeli girl. I can't understand, she's slim, tall, speaks good English, beautiful skin tone and exotic enough for Germans coming from Israel ....
Who knows how this Israeli girl is in person. Maybe she has a horrible character. She said she never manages to her a second date, that means though that she got first dates (so her physical appearance does not seem to be the problem). Maybe she is really annoying at those first dates and turns men off, who knows. From my experience foreign women, exotic type are in very high demand here.
I'm an Iranian girl, in my opinion, despite all the challenges and differences between couples of different nationalities, it can be enjoyable because both of them will experience ups and downs with true love by their side.💝
A quick search on the internet showed that Helga's is a beer garden present at Oktoberfest and Helga Hoffman a very common German name. To me it explains everything. And I think that testimony is very very interesting. Her life experience may not resonate with your life experience but it's not less true because of that.
@@flowershower6857 and we also like women who are similar to us, such as Latinas and Americans. Yes, we prefer our own women on continent because they love us and our culture matters.
@@Fatherland927There is no way Latinas and Americans are similar to Germans. Only Germans can be similar to Germans😅. Latinas normally love the German benefits and I don’t know how woman from the US for Germans are.
Yo antes trabajaba con los alemanes, los alemanes que eran mayores sentí que eran demasiado directos. Y ojo, no digo que esté mal ser directo, pero unos ya rayaban en lo insultante. Y me tocó que muchos se justificaban con "es que así somos". No sir, you are just being rude. Los jóvenes eran más relajados, pero eso sí, siento que los alemanes son como una paleta de limón, al principio son bien fríos pero ya que los conoces mejor, son muy dulces.
"Yo antes trabajaba con los alemanes, los alemanes que eran mayores sentí que eran demasiado directos." Soy Alemán, y totalmente de acuerdo. Hay lugar para expresar cosas muy directas pero en otras situaciones me parece mejor "calmar" la situación un poquito y conseguir que no empeora el ambiente del trabajo.
0:41 The shirt that bro is wearing, reminds me of the character Cosmo Kramer from the sitcom called Seinfeld. I know that it is vintage clothing, what is the trend called?
I'm italian and I like sometimes french men🥺💘 But I don't know if I want a foreign men in my life...maybe a foreign men who loves italy and italians yes but a casual foreign men not because he could not be interested in my country and not respect my culture... PS:Israeli girl is very cute. she's slim with dark healty skin and particular face.I don't understand why she feels so insecure about her look. Maybe her bad experiences with Germans have led her to unconsciously have insecure and polemical attitudes that distance other Germans from her and she thinks it's all her appearance's fault.
Try with latinos *wink wink. We can understand each other quite well, we're passionate, family oriented, loud, we love to cook and if you say anything about our granmas, well you know how it goes...
@@dagda3000 I have never dated one but I met some really really nice japanese people. I like how polite they are, that they have good manners etc. The japanese I was able to meet were really really nice people! I also like their appearance to be honest.
@@lakagranger3012 Japanese are famous for being friendly and well-mannered to other people, especially foreigners. However, do not confuse the "public face" with the "private face". If I were you, I would only go for a Japanese man if you liked traditional gender roles and suppressed emotions.
@@BelleMeuf420 true but at the end of the day, people born and raised in the US will ultimately exhibit the typical American culture, regardless of their racial/ethnic background and the subculture from their region
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@@zeldamachina6305 My parents would love you. I’m Japanese 🥲😅 Where are you from, I think I might need your email, to send you a message on Google chat?
Happy Thursday, Marina! Great video and I hope to see more of these types of videos. As an American born Hispanic guy, I always prefer to date a foreign woman over an American woman. Latina women and European women are usually my favorites types. Sending my love from Miami, Florida, USA ❤ Lastly, you go girl!
It super much depends on the region. Most things happen in the West so the picture of Germany we get is mostly Bavaria and Frankfurt-Düsseldorf area. In the East it is much different. It is far less diverse there. Therefore people really have no idea about what foreigners are like and how German life in the West is. The East-German racism can be partially explained that way. Most East Germans are very nice people though. I noticed that a lot of German middle aged men are dating women from Eastern Europe right now. In the North, lets say in Schleswig Holstein and Hamburg people are living close to Denmark and are heavily influenced by Scandinavia. About the video I can see the points. A lot of people in Germany are very rooted to their homes and from German perspective other countries are like dangerous and very chaotic places. The girl from Israel put it well. Mos German guys I know want a woman to live a safe and simple life with and when they learn there are complications or that they might need to move to other countries that scares them away.
"In the North, lets say in Schleswig Holstein and Hamburg people are living close to Denmark and are heavily influenced by Scandinavia." No, that's not really how this works.
@@adrianseanheidmann4559 Die Skepsis gegenüber Ausländer ist definitiv im Osten viel höher als im Westen, ich komme aus Schleswig-Holstein und habe auch kontakt nach Mecklenburg Vorpommern, und da redet man ganz anders über Ausländer als bei uns, das ist ein Fakt. Ich glaube das hat einen einfachen Grund, Der Grund ist das die Verlustängste im Osten viel höher sind als bei uns im Westen, und das sollte man auch verstehen.
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nah. Simply if you go to Japan you see many cute girls around who are very different from Western girls and you are curious. I had the same experience with Japanese guys and thought "wow, I'd date one of them if I could!" it's normal if you are interested in a different culture.
Yes. My girlfriend is German, and I am an Englishman. My wife is a very serious, disciplined woman who actually wants a family. We both work: 2 well paid incomes. She bought me a realistic baby doll to learn how to become a father.. seriously 😂 it helps and she is pregnant. It's working so far. I am too dominant / stubborn.
@@marvin2678 I am aggressive (physically), there's a bit of muscle on me, very macho personality so I struggle being gentle with small things as they are as fragile as twigs
It’s super clear a any woman needs security,love and trust regardless the nationality..but all these are not found in men now ,most of men are just looking for sex and leave ,this will leave the woman broken and unable to trust her next guy .it’s a chaos now
No, those good things can easily be found in men but many women just chase the bad boys and ignore the rest of men. 90% of women chase the top 10% of men who will sleep with them and dump them. The top 10% of men also never enter a relationship because they can have any woman they want any day
I totally agree with the Israeli woman. I am an American expat who has been in Germany for 12 years, and during that time I have dated two German women. Two. It seems that German women are not into American men. I even had a German woman tell me that she was prejudiced against Americans. At least the directness was nice, but Jeez...
I'm not put off about it. My gf is Greek so it doesn't matter anyway. I just found this factoid interesting, especially when compared to eastern and southern Europeans. I figured it was because of all of the US military bases in Germany that have been here since 1945. Only need a few American servicemen acting like total dipshits to sour the local populace, especially if this has been going on for almost 80 years.
I lived in Germany 10 years, have plenty of German friends have dated and lived with Germans girls. My impression is that People here are amazingly nice+smart but also stuck in their overthinking, behaving like machines, too stressed, no charisma, living for the rules. Some do have a dark or Sarcastic sense of humour though. Its honestly quiet boring even when I speak good German or they can speak English. It can also be that I didn’t find my type of Energetic, fun, adventurous, funny and going with the flow type of partner. + I found very few Germans easily laughing and enjoying life positively. Germans kind of take life too seriously😅
In my expirience as gay in Germany yes I can say that white German gay just prefer another white gay so if you Are no white would be very difficult to date with some one
I'm really confused by the fact that in most of your videos, people say the same thing about Southern Europeans and Latinos. Are we in such demand in Europe? Lol
because the videos came from the North (Scandinavia, Poland, Germany), in Southern Europe they would prefer partners from the Northern Europe in many cases
I’m German and American and grew up between the two countries. I prefer to marry a German because of my positive experiences I think that they are calm, genuine and practical. My ex is Swiss/danish when I lived in Switzerland he was wonderful but too passive and not so socially aware. So now I am in U.S. and actually remarried with a North African which has a total different temperament from German culture.
I wanted to highlight this comment on this section so it doesn’t get lost: „I totally agree. I just broke up with a German guy that I really loved because he said that he couldn't see a future with me, since I am not a Helga Hoffman. I am not guessing the reason, he literally said it to me. He still wanted to keep dating though, which means, he only wants to use me until he gets tired and go find a Helga. I couldn't believe it. Another guy in the video also said the same thing. Don't they see that we are humans and have feelings too? It broke my heart so much but I know that I deserve someone who is sure of me and chooses me for who I am and not my nationality. Ps: There is absolutely nothing wrong with typical traditional German girls, aka Helga Hoffmans. I think what the Israeli girl in the video meant is that German men are not serious and often dishonest with us foreigners, keeping the appearances of having an open mind when in the reality they know very well what they want in the end.“
What a shaming this video, i'm from Italy and i love Germany. But i see clearly that German people lost their pride for your own people and country. The germans are very handsome people, i don't understand why this great hate against their own blood.
I live in Germany and I ended up dating Asian girls only. My girlfriend now is Vietnamese. She is very loyal and caring 😊 I have dated latino girls in the past. Many of them make out with multiple man. I do not like that
Many German men think Asian women are loyal, respectful and can be dominated. They will get pissed off if an Asian girl criticizes them and tell their independent opinion.
@@thomasthomasphilp4393well no. Asians and Germans are just very compatible. Also, most Asian women that you find in Germany are much more intelligent and educated than the Latinas that you find in Germany
Arab girls are considered very good looking to Germans but mostly seen as a forbidden fruit, nobody wants to take the hussle with their families or brothers.
Well the wave of Syrian refugees back in the 2010s, plus the amounts of African and Northern African refugees in Europe has left a bad taste in the mouths of most Europeans....makes sense why they won't consider them as an option for romantic partners
Latinas in europe almost no exist lool, but europeans like the closest to them, after european women/white, they prefer latinas/mixed according to surveys, it's because latinas are mixed with european dna and culture
German women are generally more interested in foreign men, whether for dating or life partmenr. German guys will gladly date foreign women but ultimately want a German wife who understands her role and "Pflicht". This video largely supports this.
@@cobrakaineverdies5006 okay but there are definitely those German women who prefer certain men from abroad, it's well known in the states among people who travel
This video captures the very subliminal racist bias. The most exotic that can grab their interest is "Südland" - extended Mediterranean world (including Latin America) - bit of Spanish fiesta to balance out regimented culture of German Ordnung. But not a step further. Implicitly they claim that civilised world ends with Mediterranean.
So what if they prefer people who are culturally similar to them? That is normal, and it should be. People should be proud of their ethnic heritage and want to preserve it and carry their traditions on. I notice the people who fight against the traditionalist mindset towards relationships are progressives, who feel this pointless and misplaced guilt about colonialism, slavery, or the holocaust or something.
I saw the video title and was curious what i would find. I grew up in Germany and left when I was 23 to live in a country far away from Europe . I married a girl from the country where I live. My wife's ancestry includes 5 different nationalities from 2 different continents. I didn't marry her because of her nationality but because she is a very good person and fun to live with. I certainly have no problem with living with foreigners after all I am one as well. I didn't choose the country I was born in . I was always interested in what other countries are like. I decided to see more of the world and in the process i fund a place I liked and I chose it as my home.
Ich date nicht mehr, da ich die Beschwerden bekomme, dass ich sowieso jemanden aus meiner Kultur heiraten werde. Sie sagen dann : dann verschwende nicht meine Zeit und date dein zukunftigen Ehemann. Passt für mich 😅
@@Angelcynn_2001Hello brother from northwest Germany......home of the old Saxons........our flag bears the saxon horse \Ross.....aswell the flag of Kent......🤓
Lol a lot of them are drawn to Latinos thinking that it's only romance and passion. I guess they're not ready for the chisme and the amount of relatives around hahaha. Also i would love you guys to change the question to "ARE YOU OPEN TO MARRYING A NON GERMAN" because i think most germans would date foreigners but not for the long term and probably not the one that they would let their parents meet.
Half German / Half Persian guy, do you want to be friends? I’m half German / half (other) too and I always love to hear about other people with mixed ethnicity backgrounds experiences!
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guys, germans are open minded and would date anyone. if they find your character good (not abnormal in german culture) and also you are attractive to that individual, it's enough. if you are non-german and love to date germans try to embrace their culture and language, don’t nag about them being cold or bla bla. try to be the same. like a mirror. and they like it more. in terms of appearance it is similar, try to blend in the society, don’t insist on looking different. all around the world there are beauty standards and norms, including germany, so just fit in the cultural believes a bit more. these are my honest words... AND if you actually are not interested in germans or don’t like my words, then there are many non-germans living in the country (iranian, indian, turkish, syrian, iraqi, afghan, romanian, italian, ukranian, greek, Croatian ....) that would absolutely LOVE to date and marry you. it's that simple.
Not completely true, majority want someone who is prestigious to date. Either someone rich, or Western European, or due to kpop Korean guys. Someone who would make them feel like Main Character of some movie, and thats includes tall blond white men
I'm a 27yo dude from the US who also speaks German and is of German descent. I'd love to find a nice German girl to build a life with. If you or anyone out there knows one, let me know! Thanks for reading!
@@felixg.6493 Das werde ich vielleicht müssen haha. Ich habe ebenfalls etwas Erfahrung mit Latinas, da ich einige Jahre in MX verbracht habe und die meisten davon haben mir gefallen, doch so eine Beziehung habe nie mit einer Deutschen gehabt, also ich würde es gerne mit einer versuchen. Mal sehen, ob ich am Ende zu den Latinas zurückkehre haha
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@@Србомбоница86 Eso no están cierto, siguen habiendo los mismos problemas de racismo , xenofobia en menor cantidad mucho machismo y colorismo hacia una parte del mundo como lo es latinoamerica.
As a person who has been traveling to Germany for over 20 times, German folks are quite nice and friendly actually. I like polite and organized people, though not the bossy types.
funny how they all love spanish and latin american "culture" thinking it's all passions and etc. but when they will realize that they are going to have fiesta every day, and when you have family dinner and all of a sudden half a town shows up. they going to get tired of it very very fast.
Are you really trying to scare us off with party everyday? 😂🎉
i used "fiesta" as a metaphor for every day nagging and emotional rollercoaster latin women are famous for. you will get tired from that very fast. there will be days you will be crying to god for a peaceful day. @@Johannathan187
Not to mention being super late.
oh, come on, they go to Mallorca every summer, THEY KNOW how it works ; D
Yeah, we throw parties for no reason. If you bought a new car, if you crashed it, you name it, we will just find an excuse to celebrate. The one thing that can drive Germans insane is that we're always late, and I mean 30 minutes or more late. Family gatherings, expect 700 people and lots of food. "May the odds be in your favor"
I´m Canadian and met my German husband in Canada. we got married 1.5 years after meeting each other. Getting to know a German on an intimate level can be challenging but when you have a Canadian who is more outgoing and open it some how works. we have been married 8 years now and I would say we still have talks about how we culturally view things differently. for example as a German being too direct can be a little hurtful or beating around the bush as a Canadian is frustrating for a German, we´ve learned to be a little of both now.
Germany's economy and medicine are 10 times better than Canada's, why did he come to you? LOL
I'm Canadian too, congrats, hopefully you got out of Canada.
Where is it better than Canada? The US perhaps @@Ed-xv4sy
it seems to be the same for all the native english speaking countries: Indirect questions that keep beating arouind the bush rather than asking directly what you wanna know.....I just broke up with my english boyfriend because he found my directness hurtful and i found his beating around the bush infuriating, its like needing a translator and when it happens every other day and turns into a big fight cos of misunderstandings, then its just not worth it...
I had a Catalan girlfriend. We were together for 5 years, but in the end the cultural differences were too great. We argued too often and it was better to break up. I was also too direct for her and she was too impulsive over every little thing. I actually wanted to date foreign people, but after this experience I prefer to stick with German women.
That older guy is wild 😂. Latinos seem to be popular in Europe . Maybe I should leave the US 😅
YES
Overall true. However, I don't think northern Italy likes them..based off of my travel experience there
Latinas Are incredibly popular. My wife who is Mexican is always surprised about all of her countrywomen being considered hot by German men (she is really pretty herself but she sometimes tells me, about certain Mexican girls that they would never be considered guapa in Mexico whereas German men are all over them).
based off of my experience with some German men that I have met, I agree with that statement
@@IzzyChopChop I have heard from many Latinas (friends of my Mexican wife) that they feel they get way more attention from German men than in their home countries. Was quite surprised as they seemed very good looking to me but my wife also said that those wouldn’t be considered pretty in Mexico. Different countries different preferences I guess.
2:00 “I‘m not really attracted to the people from my hometown“ can relate😂
Then marry a man from another European country.
Abdul: "my time has come"
I AM ARABIC HOT BLOOD NORTH AFRICAN NO BACKING DOWN
German Girls do not want German Man
Race mixers should be thrown in prison.
The girl from Isreal nailed it. Most Germans might go on dates with foreigners, it's fun to meet but they don't progress. They are not that flexible, they prefer it easy and with less risk and effort for them in the long term 👉
Except Berlin... there you get to have 5 relationships at the same time.
The last part! “5 different relationships at the same time”, tell me why that’s the tale of all big/ major cities?! LMFAO🤣
pretty sad the thing with berlin
bullshit
The girl from Israel gives strong promiscuous vibes. Most German men dont fly with that.
Reason is probably the language barrier, when they want to invite their girlfriends to meet the parents. I actually had 2 girlfriends that weren't German, I dated long term, but both were fluent in German as well. If you're living in Germany for several years and are getting fluent, the barrier shouldn't be that high anymore. Unless you live in an expat bubble or parallel society with different religion of course. Then there are other obstacles as well. That would probably explain why she actually had dates, but it never went far. People are attracted to her, but she probably is not fluent in German. That fits to what the guys also said in the video as well.
These videos have a common trait, theoretically every culture is open to date foreigners but the ideal long term partner is always from your own country because its what you know and its more easy. So all these videos look the same, the only thing that make some stand apart are interesting personal stories of the people that are interviewed, sometimes. Of course falling in love with a foreigner happens everywhere, its just life.
and yet I can't get enough of this content, bring on the anecdotes!
well said i agree!
I'm German and I've actually never been with a German man. My first boyfriend was Italian and then I just kept dating foreigners. My husband is Greek. I have 8 cousins, of whom 4 are married to a foreigner.
Half of my childhood friends is also married to a foreigner.
So from my personal experience I would say that Germans really are very open to marry a foreigner and the ideal for us is not someone from our culture, but more someone we have enough in common to be able to agree on fundamental things and enough difference to be able to learn from each other.
But maybe my experience is flawed, because I grew up in Munich, where 25% of the population are foreigners, so foreigners feel familiar to us folks from Munich. I could imagine if you grew up in Zwickau it's a bit different.
Have they done france? I wonder if the mediterranean countries would be different. Seems they only focus on baltic and scandinavian - but those countries are pretty closed to foreigners.
Rubbish. Do you think a German would be as willing to date Thai, Fililipo, or Sri Lankan, as the latter would like to date German? If so, why are Germans in interracial, mostly happen to be middle aged fat divorced men in "relationship" with Thai and Filipina girl half their age?
That last man is hilarious 😂 Why worry when we face apocalypse any minute?
Yes, he was hilarious. 😂
Liked him ¡ He's a hot mature man and has traveled so he's experienced and empathic, is he free by any chance ??
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
@@amiquigonzales7917probably, regarding the mess he is.
As a German, I married an Italian woman. We follow traditional values, and want many babies together.. but in my experience, German women prioritiese their career.
I thought you're British?.....
@@MabusNero-bb3sv I identify as an Englishman, because I was adopted by an Englishman. My parents were German/Norwegian
@@Fatherland927 wow, it's my first time hearing an adopted Norwegian........
@@Fatherland927 since it's always the other way around English orphans
@@Fatherland927 your dad or mom is Norwegian?
Marina you should do what Nordics and Baltics think of each other. I think it would be really interesting.
❤
Don’t they hate each other?
@@johnwick7583 you’re thinking of the Balkans
@@saalvosegg8171 baltics and Balkans not the same? They are different countries?
@@johnwick7583 The Balkans hate each other. The Nordic and Baltic states don’t hate each other.
The love of my life is German. Ultimately it should be about personality. If you're putting nationality boundaries in the way, you will only hurt yourself.
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
@@MrsYua-Cheni-BenyiHi I can be your friend
@Dating Beyond Borders - do you think you'll ever do similar street interviews for East/South East/South Asians who either grew up in western countries or naturalized in western countries? I feel like there's a big gap between Asians that are accustomed living in the west, vs Asians who grew up in Asia.
Same, me as an East Asian naturalised in the west, am very interested in this
I'm half German half Romanian. I didn't date so far even there were a couple chances in the past.
But the point is that in my point of view it's easier to get along with Romanians, not just when it's about relationships but in general. They're friendlier, funnier and warmer. It doesn't take long to break the ice.
In Germany it's harder I think. Not saying that every1 is bad but compared to Romania it was harder for me to get in contact with people in Munich than in Romania.
Agree 100%. I am Romanian, my ex-boyfriend was german, and for my future relationships I would rather choose somebody from my own country.
sounds like youre a bit ignorant
@@marvin2678 classic German comment.
as someone from germany, i think those people who say that they want only someone from germany also mean that they would date foreigners that are born and raised in germany. in germany there are plenty of people with different cultures so i don’t think they need to look for someone outside of the country when they can have a foreigner that speaks german fluently and is raised in the german culture.
I believe this is only true for people from a closely related culture like Polish or Dutch as the problems with misunderstandings and different cultures would still persist e.g. with a Muslim person born here. Of course there would be much more familiarity however at least to me this seems like opening the same can of worms of cultural and value clashes they are wanting to avoid (e.g. I just learned recently that Muslims aren't allowed to touch dogs or have them in their house which would be a deal breaker to me, though of course it depends on the person and how secular and integrated they are. But since this is about preferences I think that a preference for dating someone from Germany is primarily about dating other native Germans or people from related cultures that the people feel like they understand and are familiar with)
@@hmvollbanane1259To be fair, Muslims are a special case even by foreign standards. They generally expect you to convert to their religion before getting married. Also, no alcohol, pork, dogs etc as it's against their beliefs. Some that are not religious may be a bit more flexible.
But if you had a Hindu Indian or Chinese Buddhist, for example, with a German person there's a greater chance they will meet you in the middle.
If they are born and raised in Germany then they aren't foreign....
@@S_goldman_ i think this case would be true in the states but in germany you are a foreigner if you are not ethnically german or at least don’t have a german passport
@@thecrimsondragon9744 it sounds more like having prejudices against muslim people 😅 there are lot of muslims who drink alcohol and If someone already knows from the beginning that he is not a Muslim, he will and could not force him to change his religion.
23yo. German here I have only dated foreign girls so far but always with a rather similar cultural background. Like Finnish they are reserved too and it takes time to break the ice. Not saying there were no differences at all. Currently dating a Japanese. I gotta say though I would go with anyone I can build a bond with. Neglecting their cultural background.
Uhm it kinda looks like youre still exploring...
I totally agree with the girl from Israel. I was born and raised in Germany and I've heard from almost every German that I know that they would date a foreigner for fun only but when it comes to long-term and serious relationships they would only go for fellow Germans. They see foreigners like a fun thing and thats it. Same with Dutch people. Its awful
Lol so not true. Many Germans prefer foreign women esiecislly those who are more traditional. Myself I am married to a Latina and I can name you 10 other of my friends with either Latinas, Russians or Asians (married or in serious long-term relationships).
It is what happens everywhere. It´s being a year since I started living in Germany (I come from Ecuador and I have a latina girlfriend) but if she were not with me, I might date a german girl for fun but at the end, for marriage, I would definitely marry a latina. I understand exactly the culture.
@@cnavarrete1999 because your a man men can have secual relations with women outside theyre race but when it comes emotional mental and pride for culture they will stay with their own but this is not common for women because they’re mentally different
Das ist aber nicht nur in Deutschland der Fall. Und daran ist auch nichts verwerflich.
@@lilli9927 würde echt mal gerne wissen wo ihr alle in Deutschland wohnt, ich kann dieses Phänomen in meinem Bekanntenkreis überhaupt nicht beobachten. Mindestens 50% meiner Freunde/Familie/arbeitskollegen sind mit Ausländerinnen verheiratet oder in ernsten Beziehungen. Latinas, Russinnen, Asiatinnen etc. Wenn hier der Feminismus in Deutschland noch lange wütet wird die Tendenz hier auch eher steigen.
I think it's also so hard for other people to date Germans they are cold sometimes too cold 😅
Depends i guess
As a french dude who traveled around Asia, Europe and Oceania I've met many Germans, I lived in Berlin and Hambourg for 6 months as well
And it's only fair to say that Germans where often the most open-minded and easy to talk to. Really easy to just start a conversation and get along for a drink right away, either as a friend with a dude or for a date with a German beauty
@@broflo8859 you must be lucky then 😄😄
@@broflo8859Germans are cold as ice
Bullshit.
@@broflo8859Berlin and Hamburg are exactly the two places where you get to meet the most "ungermanized Germans" 😂. They are not representative of the typical German
As a Norwegian I don't care where the lovely ladies are from, as long as they light up a smile when they see me.😍
Typical norwegain narcissist looking for attention and looking to serve their narcissistic suppy. Thanks for highlighting your grandiose needs once again clearly.
(Now i know you’re gona say ‘thanks’ and then ‘you know a lot’ then ‘you assume a lot’ ‘ put me in a place where you think you know me and make me question myself like you are a superior teacher making me think of myself)
😂
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
That's sweet af lol.
@@Me_di do you even know whats narcissist is its called been open minded everyone has their preferences some of us honestly dont care about what race you from
@@Me_di ???????
The Israeli girl was stunning! The attitude of the middle aged (mimicking Japanese) was hilarious but he was right about the security. At 4:50 I almost thought he would talk about spreading something else😂
She is very articulate but she doesn't look like long-term dating material
@@qwertyuiopzxcvbnm9890 why ?is it bc she's liberal?
oh my god i kept laughing everytime they said that Spanish and Latin American cultures are more open minded. I’m Mexican and American and it’s more that some people outside have a fetish of Latinas that isn’t talked about and also Mexican and other Latin American countries are very traditional and conservative. Because I am also American it wasn’t a problem for my family that I brought my boyfriend over to sleep with in my own room, but in a Mexican household normally this would NOT be allowed unless the couple is officially married…and only by the church. I have a lot of family in Germany and it was honestly a nice experienced to suddenly not be met with so much caution as Mexicans are constantly stereotyped in the American media here, but please do not assume other cultures here are necessarily more open-minded, it’s more so we are very social cultures and we prioritize family. You WILL attend every single social event in your city, it doesn’t matter if you don’t know the family very well! 😂 If you don’t like to socialize well too bad, you will make a terrible impression 😂
Esto me pasó a mi también. Cuando visite la familia de mi esposa mexicana por primera vez su padre no quería q durmiéramos en el mismo cuarto ya que todavía no estábamos casados. Gracias a dios sus papás están divorciados y a su mamá (donde vivíamos) no le importaba. Su papá le dijo al moso (q todavía conocía) q separara nuestras camas cada día en la mañana, q fue muy estúpido porque simplemente las juntamos otra vez en la noche. Pero si puedo confirmar q en este sentido son muy tradicionales todavía.
I wonder where in the U.S. you're from. I'd say in most of the U.S., parents would NOT be ok with a daughter having a boyfriend sleep over. The U.S. is actually quite traditional and this doesn't get talked about a lot.
your talking about something that is sexual in nature lol those who say open minded are talking about friendliness and being warm to random people more inviting. most people will questio ln theyre daughters having a male in their house in their room alone
Excellent then
Sure if you live in a super conservatice family in a village... reallity is different, Latin America nowadays is more openminded than South Europe
oh my 😆unfortunately I have to agree. As a foreign, dating germans so far was kind of impossible.. after 6 years. And after the moment you start to speak English, they just wanna run even faster 😂 I'm sorry! My flirting skills in German are just inexistent!! 😂
This Israeli girl is speaking the truth. I'm a guy from germany and, in my 'bad boy' days, I successfully dated over 30 girls, but only one was German. The issue was often my darker skin. Discrimination and prejudice are big problems in Germany!
2:53 so are you saying that german men prefer a german woman? girl why do you make it seem strange, they are german its normal to be attracted to similar people
Exactly!
You need bbc
I thing someone to find, who you want to stay one life long is such a wonder, that you don't care if he/she is your nationality or not.
No helge haufman was harmed in making of this video
Hahaha
From my experience as Greek girl German men are easier to date and more approachable and German men love foreign girls what the Israeli girl said its not true
From my experience talking to and befriending a lot of German men in various German cities, the Israeli girl definitely has a point. Perhaps you've just been lucky.
I would say that probably it depends on the looks of the woman, as usual, if they find you hot they will run, maybe they don't like the appearance of the israeli girl. I can't understand, she's slim, tall, speaks good English, beautiful skin tone and exotic enough for Germans coming from Israel ....
@@macroxela foreign wives are more than foreign husbands in Germany! Maybe they don't like the Israeli girl cause seriously she had a weird face
Who knows how this Israeli girl is in person. Maybe she has a horrible character. She said she never manages to her a second date, that means though that she got first dates (so her physical appearance does not seem to be the problem). Maybe she is really annoying at those first dates and turns men off, who knows. From my experience foreign women, exotic type are in very high demand here.
@@macroxela Not all Southern Europeans are "dark" as you're implying. Your logic is flawed.
The last guy is spot on.
I'm an Iranian girl, in my opinion, despite all the challenges and differences between couples of different nationalities, it can be enjoyable because both of them will experience ups and downs with true love by their side.💝
Yeah , they all would like to try the Alfa Romeos , Jaguars the Mazda MX 5s but will end up with the reliable but boring Golf .
Bruh when was this recorded? Because I've been in the English Gardens nearly every day for the past 2 weeks
About a month ago. You just missed me
@DatingBeyondBorders ah dang haha. I would've had nothing to add lol. I'm an auslander anyways
I'm a German and don't know who is "Helga Hoffmann" the lady is talking about at 2:55. For me her statement doesn't seem true.
IS it that she meant a typical very German beautiful polite blonde as the waitresses at the Oktoberfest?? Like saying Jane Doe in English.
@@amiquigonzales7917 I don't know. She explains "a good german girl from a good house". That is too unspecific. And why "Helga Hoffmann"?
@@Pewtah I was only guessing, I am Peruvian and live in South America, clueless.
A quick search on the internet showed that Helga's is a beer garden present at Oktoberfest and Helga Hoffman a very common German name. To me it explains everything. And I think that testimony is very very interesting. Her life experience may not resonate with your life experience but it's not less true because of that.
@@tj2375 because I also don't know who Helga Hoffman is, I googled the name and saw lots of obituaries of dead, old German women.
It's a good video. I didn't know some people from Germany did like the latin culture.
Joss and Janik are one example
@@IzzyChopChopI think it's more about them being better wife's/friendlier in general than culture
German men are definitely into latinas. Easily have ten couples like this in my friend circle.
The Latin's rule! 👍
@@AngelsandDragonfliesAIVideos definitely. Latinas Are very popular here.
Can you do one for Toronto, Canada? I am from here 😂
All my german male friends love Latinas. I’m a Latina and in love with a German 😘
😂😂😂😂 most german males love German females
You are delulu
@@flowershower6857 and we also like women who are similar to us, such as Latinas and Americans.
Yes, we prefer our own women on continent because they love us and our culture matters.
@@Fatherland927There is no way Latinas and Americans are similar to Germans. Only Germans can be similar to Germans😅. Latinas normally love the German benefits and I don’t know how woman from the US for Germans are.
@@kaaka9426 racially. Germans and other Germanic ethnicities emigrated to both American continents, hence the similarities.
@@Fatherland927 yea but those Germans are then both Germans + Americans
I don't care where you are from...I'll take anyone that has a functioning brain at this point, which is apparently hard to find.
😂😂😂😂
feel sorry for the french lady getting harassed
Yo antes trabajaba con los alemanes, los alemanes que eran mayores sentí que eran demasiado directos. Y ojo, no digo que esté mal ser directo, pero unos ya rayaban en lo insultante.
Y me tocó que muchos se justificaban con "es que así somos". No sir, you are just being rude.
Los jóvenes eran más relajados, pero eso sí, siento que los alemanes son como una paleta de limón, al principio son bien fríos pero ya que los conoces mejor, son muy dulces.
"Yo antes trabajaba con los alemanes, los alemanes que eran mayores sentí que eran demasiado directos." Soy Alemán, y totalmente de acuerdo. Hay lugar para expresar cosas muy directas pero en otras situaciones me parece mejor "calmar" la situación un poquito y conseguir que no empeora el ambiente del trabajo.
Introduce me to the guy that like mexicans, I like Germans ❤
But he said latinas only for fun haha 😂
nah you will ruin his life.....
please do this in your home country canada. :)
Canadians are less open about their "controversial" opinions, it will be way harder to get honest answers lol
0:41 The shirt that bro is wearing, reminds me of the character Cosmo Kramer from the sitcom called Seinfeld.
I know that it is vintage clothing, what is the trend called?
German men also like eastern European girls, from Poland. Rus etc
Every man loves Polish women
@@Proud_Stokieevery simps like them......
@@MabusNero-bb3svSlavic girls are cool, beautiful (probably the most beautiful) and caring.
I like them and I am no simp at all!
@TH-camUser2k you like creatures that hate you back?.......
@@MabusNero-bb3sv Bro, nur die linken weiber hassen uns😂
I'm italian and I like sometimes french men🥺💘
But I don't know if I want a foreign men in my life...maybe a foreign men who loves italy and italians yes but a casual foreign men not because he could not be interested in my country and not respect my culture...
PS:Israeli girl is very cute. she's slim with dark healty skin and particular face.I don't understand why she feels so insecure about her look.
Maybe her bad experiences with Germans have led her to unconsciously have insecure and polemical attitudes that distance other Germans from her and she thinks it's all her appearance's fault.
Try with latinos *wink wink. We can understand each other quite well, we're passionate, family oriented, loud, we love to cook and if you say anything about our granmas, well you know how it goes...
yeah lets just blame the germans for everything
She met some people who weren’t very nice in b erlin
@@1158supersiriit's possible
@@marvin2678I didn't blame the Germans. Read the comment
As a german I personally like japanese guys. But at the end all that matters is that you like each other and enjoy each others company:)
What about Pakistani men 😢?
@@maar2001 I like japanese most😅
Have you ever dated a Japanese or are you basing your opinion on anime? Because 90% of Japanese men are hardcore traditional.
@@dagda3000 I have never dated one but I met some really really nice japanese people. I like how polite they are, that they have good manners etc. The japanese I was able to meet were really really nice people! I also like their appearance to be honest.
@@lakagranger3012 Japanese are famous for being friendly and well-mannered to other people, especially foreigners. However, do not confuse the "public face" with the "private face". If I were you, I would only go for a Japanese man if you liked traditional gender roles and suppressed emotions.
😊 Shout out to Helga Hoffmann!
Helga Hufflepuff?
the comment i was looking for 🤣🤣🤣
The last man sums it up 😂❤
As a man who is a multilingual speaker, while also pro-international, I will always prefer women from other countries over American women.
“American women” encompasses a huge array of cultures but okay.
@@BelleMeuf420 true but at the end of the day, people born and raised in the US will ultimately exhibit the typical American culture, regardless of their racial/ethnic background and the subculture from their region
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
@@MrsYua-Cheni-Benyi I'm Zaylas, if you're talking to me.
@@zeldamachina6305 My parents would love you. I’m Japanese 🥲😅 Where are you from, I think I might need your email, to send you a message on Google chat?
Happy Thursday, Marina! Great video and I hope to see more of these types of videos. As an American born Hispanic guy, I always prefer to date a foreign woman over an American woman. Latina women and European women are usually my favorites types. Sending my love from Miami, Florida, USA ❤
Lastly, you go girl!
@5:50 ahahahaha wtf??? this is dangerous lol
German guys >>>>>>>>>>>>>
It super much depends on the region. Most things happen in the West so the picture of Germany we get is mostly Bavaria and Frankfurt-Düsseldorf area.
In the East it is much different. It is far less diverse there. Therefore people really have no idea about what foreigners are like and how German life in the West is. The East-German racism can be partially explained that way. Most East Germans are very nice people though. I noticed that a lot of German middle aged men are dating women from Eastern Europe right now.
In the North, lets say in Schleswig Holstein and Hamburg people are living close to Denmark and are heavily influenced by Scandinavia.
About the video I can see the points. A lot of people in Germany are very rooted to their homes and from German perspective other countries are like dangerous and very chaotic places. The girl from Israel put it well. Mos German guys I know want a woman to live a safe and simple life with and when they learn there are complications or that they might need to move to other countries that scares them away.
"In the North, lets say in Schleswig Holstein and Hamburg people are living close to Denmark and are heavily influenced by Scandinavia." No, that's not really how this works.
@@adrianseanheidmann4559 Die Skepsis gegenüber Ausländer ist definitiv im Osten viel höher als im Westen, ich komme aus Schleswig-Holstein und habe auch kontakt nach Mecklenburg Vorpommern, und da redet man ganz anders über Ausländer als bei uns, das ist ein Fakt. Ich glaube das hat einen einfachen Grund, Der Grund ist das die Verlustängste im Osten viel höher sind als bei uns im Westen, und das sollte man auch verstehen.
"I want to date a Japanese girl"
This guy's a walking🚩
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
What's the problem
First, saying girl instead of woman, makes it seem like he fetishizes them @@flowershower6857
nah. Simply if you go to Japan you see many cute girls around who are very different from Western girls and you are curious. I had the same experience with Japanese guys and thought "wow, I'd date one of them if I could!" it's normal if you are interested in a different culture.
Nothing wrong with new cultural experiences.
The guy from munich with glasses is a 10/10
Wo ist Helga Hoffmann?
Never met too many Germans I didn't like. Honest and forthright. Good sense of humour too.
I think the israeli girl is right. Also I feel like germans prefer blonds
Really?! I heard a lot of the men in Germany like latinas (brunette)
"Also I feel like germans prefer blonds" Nope.
@@Bri-b8z I think so too. Asians and Latinas. But from white Europeans...no. they prefer the exotic dark, but local-blonde.
@@umapuma idk I’ve seen Germans go for Eastern European women with brunette hair quite a lot
Awesome video
Yes. My girlfriend is German, and I am an Englishman. My wife is a very serious, disciplined woman who actually wants a family. We both work: 2 well paid incomes. She bought me a realistic baby doll to learn how to become a father.. seriously 😂 it helps and she is pregnant. It's working so far. I am too dominant / stubborn.
dominant for what ?
@@marvin2678 I am aggressive (physically), there's a bit of muscle on me, very macho personality so I struggle being gentle with small things as they are as fragile as twigs
@@2024_EuropesLastBattle thats sounds ...fun
chap.....english and germans are the perfect match.....they complement each other.....similar ancestry
@@ndie8075 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
It’s super clear a any woman needs security,love and trust regardless the nationality..but all these are not found in men now ,most of men are just looking for sex and leave ,this will leave the woman broken and unable to trust her next guy .it’s a chaos now
No, those good things can easily be found in men but many women just chase the bad boys and ignore the rest of men. 90% of women chase the top 10% of men who will sleep with them and dump them. The top 10% of men also never enter a relationship because they can have any woman they want any day
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I totally agree with the Israeli woman. I am an American expat who has been in Germany for 12 years, and during that time I have dated two German women. Two. It seems that German women are not into American men. I even had a German woman tell me that she was prejudiced against Americans. At least the directness was nice, but Jeez...
American men don't have the best image right now. Blame the podcasts bros
I'm not put off about it. My gf is Greek so it doesn't matter anyway. I just found this factoid interesting, especially when compared to eastern and southern Europeans.
I figured it was because of all of the US military bases in Germany that have been here since 1945. Only need a few American servicemen acting like total dipshits to sour the local populace, especially if this has been going on for almost 80 years.
They prever they english....💂😏
@@ndie8075 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
@@zufallig4377 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
Im not attracted to people from my home town haha that’s typical german 😂❤
I need a partner who shows off emotions.
I lived in Germany 10 years, have plenty of German friends have dated and lived with Germans girls. My impression is that People here are amazingly nice+smart but also stuck in their overthinking, behaving like machines, too stressed, no charisma, living for the rules. Some do have a dark or Sarcastic sense of humour though.
Its honestly quiet boring even when I speak good German or they can speak English. It can also be that I didn’t find my type of Energetic, fun, adventurous, funny and going with the flow type of partner. + I found very few Germans easily laughing and enjoying life positively.
Germans kind of take life too seriously😅
That guy who said he'll want to date a Japanese, surely had a WWII flashback in that moment.
sais the guy with the anime profile picture??
@@deutschlanddeutschland7111 yes he did lol...
(Also no disrespect to both Germans and Japanese, I adore and respect both cultures a lot)
I love German guys! 💜💜💜
I'm from USA 🇺🇸
Nice joke........
@@MabusNero-bb3svmy favorite German joke is american economy.
In my expirience as gay in Germany yes I can say that white German gay just prefer another white gay so if you Are no white would be very difficult to date with some one
Hi, I'm here!!! 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇺🇲🇺🇲
I'm really confused by the fact that in most of your videos, people say the same thing about Southern Europeans and Latinos. Are we in such demand in Europe? Lol
because the videos came from the North (Scandinavia, Poland, Germany), in Southern Europe they would prefer partners from the Northern Europe in many cases
Not really! All southern Europeans like Northern Europeans ( Swedish, Austrians, etc.)
Here in Sweden we dont give a shit Latin America.
no bro dont make your self false hopes ahahha
@@ae-jo5gc they said "latinos (a)" in sweden as well lool
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I’d like to give props to the lovely❤ German women out there. 👍
I’m German and American and grew up between the two countries. I prefer to marry a German because of my positive experiences I think that they are calm, genuine and practical. My ex is Swiss/danish when I lived in Switzerland he was wonderful but too passive and not so socially aware. So now I am in U.S. and actually remarried with a North African which has a total different temperament from German culture.
I want girl with energy of a girl that mentioned of Helga Hoffman
I wanted to highlight this comment on this section so it doesn’t get lost:
„I totally agree. I just broke up with a German guy that I really loved because he said that he couldn't see a future with me, since I am not a Helga Hoffman. I am not guessing the reason, he literally said it to me. He still wanted to keep dating though, which means, he only wants to use me until he gets tired and go find a Helga.
I couldn't believe it.
Another guy in the video also said the same thing.
Don't they see that we are humans and have feelings too?
It broke my heart so much but I know that I deserve someone who is sure of me and chooses me for who I am and not my nationality.
Ps: There is absolutely nothing wrong with typical traditional German girls, aka Helga Hoffmans. I think what the Israeli girl in the video meant is that German men are not serious and often dishonest with us foreigners, keeping the appearances of having an open mind when in the reality they know very well what they want in the end.“
What a shaming this video, i'm from Italy and i love Germany. But i see clearly that German people lost their pride for your own people and country. The germans are very handsome people, i don't understand why this great hate against their own blood.
Its because you are taught at school in history class.
All woke radlib people are like this.Germans additionally are just very conforming and bow to authority
As Helga Hoffman myself, that hit too hard 😂
I live in Germany and I ended up dating Asian girls only. My girlfriend now is Vietnamese. She is very loyal and caring 😊 I have dated latino girls in the past. Many of them make out with multiple man. I do not like that
Hahahaha
Funny that you assume that Asian girls wouln't "them make out with multiple man.".
Many German men think Asian women are loyal, respectful and can be dominated. They will get pissed off if an Asian girl criticizes them and tell their independent opinion.
@@adrianseanheidmann4559but hes right. Asian are more conservative.
@@thomasthomasphilp4393well no. Asians and Germans are just very compatible. Also, most Asian women that you find in Germany are much more intelligent and educated than the Latinas that you find in Germany
I would do well in Germany as I look like a woman from Brazil, even though my family is not Spanish, I look Latino
Really? Where are you from?
@@flowershower6857 Canada 🇨🇦, you?
@@GoodKarma1020 but what's your background? I'm brazilian
Mother is Polish my Dad is from Guyana 🇬🇾, it’s right beside Venezuela
hell, i want helga hoffman too!
Half these girls do not look German.
Too many pure-blood Aryans died in the war. They have to put up with half-breed as it seems.
Why are latinos and asians desired in Europe but arabs and muslims are not?
I think it’s because of religious differences
Arab girls are considered very good looking to Germans but mostly seen as a forbidden fruit, nobody wants to take the hussle with their families or brothers.
Well the wave of Syrian refugees back in the 2010s, plus the amounts of African and Northern African refugees in Europe has left a bad taste in the mouths of most Europeans....makes sense why they won't consider them as an option for romantic partners
Latinas in europe almost no exist lool, but europeans like the closest to them, after european women/white, they prefer latinas/mixed according to surveys, it's because latinas are mixed with european dna and culture
Because in Arab/ „Muslim“ culture they only marry they don’t date!
German women are generally more interested in foreign men, whether for dating or life partmenr. German guys will gladly date foreign women but ultimately want a German wife who understands her role and "Pflicht". This video largely supports this.
Why do you think that is? I’m very curious
That is wrong. Many German men are into foreign women. German women are way too spoilt by feminism.
@@cobrakaineverdies5006 but it definitely seems like German woman are more open to being with foreign men.
@@eujinlee9936 not really there are some of them but those are mostly leftovers. On the men’s side even top men are very open for foreign women.
@@cobrakaineverdies5006 okay but there are definitely those German women who prefer certain men from abroad, it's well known in the states among people who travel
I find That Germans are similar to Poland ! Poland girls also need security everything must be plan ahead !
As a German living abroad I would definitely not seek out a German woman who also happens to live here. My girlfriend is from Iran.
Simp.....
@@MabusNero-bb3sv What does that have to do with the nationality?
@@erikt1713 you like women and form relationships with them............therefore you're a simp........
Im 23 and i got interested in that older man 😅😅 unfortunately I'm not japonese 🇧🇷
Correction....... you're interested for his money.......I feel sorry for that guy if she meets you.......
@MabusNero-bb3sv why do you think it's about him money?
@@anajuliru because all women are like that........
@MabusNero-bb3sv KKKKK who broke your heart?
@@MabusNero-bb3sv oh bubu. :(
You can see a huge weight difference between Poland and Germany.
This video captures the very subliminal racist bias. The most exotic that can grab their interest is "Südland" - extended Mediterranean world (including Latin America) - bit of Spanish fiesta to balance out regimented culture of German Ordnung. But not a step further. Implicitly they claim that civilised world ends with Mediterranean.
So what if they prefer people who are culturally similar to them? That is normal, and it should be. People should be proud of their ethnic heritage and want to preserve it and carry their traditions on. I notice the people who fight against the traditionalist mindset towards relationships are progressives, who feel this pointless and misplaced guilt about colonialism, slavery, or the holocaust or something.
Ive heard that north european like to provide 😂
1:16 who is this guy
I saw the video title and was curious what i would find. I grew up in Germany and left when I was 23 to live in a country far away from Europe . I married a girl from the country where I live.
My wife's ancestry includes 5 different nationalities from 2 different continents. I didn't marry her because of her nationality but because she is a very good person and fun to live with. I certainly have no problem with living with foreigners after all I am one as well. I didn't choose the country I was born in . I was always interested in what other countries are like. I decided to see more of the world and in the process i fund a place I liked and I chose it as my home.
My girlfriend is german😊
Girl from Israel just yapping
Noch mal zur Erinnerung: Es ist nicht verwerflich, lieber jemanden aus der eigenen Kultur zu heiraten!!!
Yes it's actually the norm and it is what most people in the world do.
Ich date nicht mehr, da ich die Beschwerden bekomme, dass ich sowieso jemanden aus meiner Kultur heiraten werde.
Sie sagen dann : dann verschwende nicht meine Zeit und date dein zukunftigen Ehemann. Passt für mich 😅
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@@Angelcynn_2001Hello brother from northwest Germany......home of the old Saxons........our flag bears the saxon horse \Ross.....aswell the flag of Kent......🤓
What does „dafing“ mean?
Lol a lot of them are drawn to Latinos thinking that it's only romance and passion. I guess they're not ready for the chisme and the amount of relatives around hahaha. Also i would love you guys to change the question to "ARE YOU OPEN TO MARRYING A NON GERMAN" because i think most germans would date foreigners but not for the long term and probably not the one that they would let their parents meet.
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Half German / Half Persian guy, do you want to be friends? I’m half German / half (other) too and I always love to hear about other people with mixed ethnicity backgrounds experiences!
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
I am half german / half turkish
guys, germans are open minded and would date anyone. if they find your character good (not abnormal in german culture) and also you are attractive to that individual, it's enough. if you are non-german and love to date germans try to embrace their culture and language, don’t nag about them being cold or bla bla. try to be the same. like a mirror. and they like it more. in terms of appearance it is similar, try to blend in the society, don’t insist on looking different. all around the world there are beauty standards and norms, including germany, so just fit in the cultural believes a bit more. these are my honest words... AND if you actually are not interested in germans or don’t like my words, then there are many non-germans living in the country (iranian, indian, turkish, syrian, iraqi, afghan, romanian, italian, ukranian, greek, Croatian ....) that would absolutely LOVE to date and marry you. it's that simple.
Stupid question.
All German women only want tall, blond, blue-eyed white men.
Not completely true, majority want someone who is prestigious to date. Either someone rich, or Western European, or due to kpop Korean guys.
Someone who would make them feel like Main Character of some movie, and thats includes tall blond white men
@@tatjana7008 As a GERMAN🇩🇪 who lives in GERMANY 🇩🇪 and love clocking american girls.
I appreciate american women.
I am actually looking for a German husband, i am single
I'm a 27yo dude from the US who also speaks German and is of German descent. I'd love to find a nice German girl to build a life with. If you or anyone out there knows one, let me know! Thanks for reading!
Ähm, komm her und angel dir eine? 😅
Aber warum nicht Latinas? Meiner Erfahrung nach wesentlich freundlicher und weniger eingebildet
@@felixg.6493 Das werde ich vielleicht müssen haha. Ich habe ebenfalls etwas Erfahrung mit Latinas, da ich einige Jahre in MX verbracht habe und die meisten davon haben mir gefallen, doch so eine Beziehung habe nie mit einer Deutschen gehabt, also ich würde es gerne mit einer versuchen. Mal sehen, ob ich am Ende zu den Latinas zurückkehre haha
Hi - your comment is cute ☺ ☺I want to be your friend and to be real with you, I want to learn honest things and you can feel what I feel. Can we do it? I have feelings about you Oops, sorry./ My name is Yua Cheni Benyi but you can call me Yua. What is your name?
The last guy has it all sussed out on our little blue dot .
And southern Europeans are really nothing like Latin Americans!
The cultures are similar, lol you cannot deny that
We rê half or mostly southern european
@@flowershower6857Spanish are very liberal and progressive,Latinos not
@@Србомбоница86 Eso no están cierto, siguen habiendo los mismos problemas de racismo , xenofobia en menor cantidad mucho machismo y colorismo hacia una parte del mundo como lo es latinoamerica.