In reality, if the girl finds the guy attractive, she won't make him pay for dinner or make him climb mountains for her. If she makes you do everything for her or make it difficult for him, then it is a red flag (and not interested in you) and should find other women that value you more.
I disagree. am a woman and I let the man pay if he invites me, even if I find him attractive. That is showing that he is caring toward me and I value that. I find that even more attractive.
@@lauraviseniya5930 This technique may work in the old days but now most woman are educated and have careers so she also wants to feel equal and empowered too. these days only SIMPING or Beta weak guys will pay for dates all the time.
@@jameslim3850 To me, that technique is still working today and I attract masculine men. I also precise, I am a young woman with a career. Most of the men I dated took pride into inviting me and paying for me. I saw them as more masculine and they had more of my respect for that. I insisted to pay from time to time, since it shows independance and that I am not after their money on my part, indeed. Simping is when a person is going above and beyond, paying, etc, for someone who clearly is not interested in them. That is acting like a slave and is a weakness. But if the two persons love each other and have a relationship together, I don't see a problem with gifting their partner. It shows love and respect. Also, the alpha/beta stuff has been debunked numerous times. Even wolves don't work like that. Confidence is part of what is valued by women and people in general.
My wife asked me out, and she paid, I was one broke ass grad school student, she actually put quite a bit into our first anniversary and I felt kind of bad that I couldn't afford to do something equally special for her (her family was far richer than mine), now I pamper her every anniversary with something extraordinary, unique and new to her. Find you a woman who builds you up and lets you build her up.
9:11 Unless she has met every single human being on Earth, then I would suggest for people to not take her words seriously. Not everyone is f-ed up as she somewhat implied. Either she is ignorant of reality or she knows but refuses to speak truthfully. People are entitled to their own opinions but it becomes a whole another matter when you mix falsehoods with the truth.
Here it is, height only matters until it doesn't. I am a fat old man, 173 sure I look young, but I don't fit the mold of asian attraction, but I can very easily talk to and go out with women if they are not attached. Confidence, show strength of character be it morals, ethics, work ethic, religion, money, physical fitness, just show strength in something. Women feel safe with strong men, they may think it means height, but strength of character is also a huge turn on for them. Now confidence does not mean being an asshole, sure some women like that but most are not. I personally rely on my intellect, the way I carry myself, which makes me on equal footing with someone way taller or bigger than me. Being funny and a nice guy, and I always pay for dates, but I give them an opportunity to pay for a date when they invite me so they don't feel like I am trying to control them.
ive been watching videos like these for the last 2 hours maybe because i met an SG girl online and we have been talking for a few days now and something ive come to realize is Singapore chicks have to be some of the most genuine chicks i have seen like the dont bs, they sweet , and low key hot asf but they dont seem like they hide things and are open about their emotions
@@whoevenareyou9895 scared of uncertain, you see we don"t know if they being friendly or giving signal but it take courage to find that out. Some had bad history with female so it just nail it down even more.
@@yolodemo6315 Spoiler, you'll still need a good dose of courage even if she gave signals. The only way you'll not be anxious is if you are 200% sure that the girl likes you, otherwise be prepared to fight your own demons when approaching.
For me i dun think of this money thing,definitely as a guy it’s automatics for me to pay,ever been with a gal then we both fighting to pay 😂 for me if a gal pay for me it’s embarrassing man
For the question does height matter, it is throughout history that men are more larger build than women. (like some mammals) This is the subconscious notion as to why girl prefer tall guys. I am just average 171 cm and i don't prefer to date taller girls cuz I will look like puberty forgot my height LOL
@@esrynshudder4216 explain to me the meaning of fair. life is not fair. nothing is fair. at least go dutch, to show that the guy is a gentleman. if the guy don't pay, he may be accused of being a freeloader or self entitled. btw, MOST guys will not go out for dinner with a girl if he is not interested. but, if the guy is really interested, at least let him pay because he wanted to show the girl that he wanted to impress her and interested to know her better after the dinner.
@@esrynshudder4216 which part did you don't understand? i quoted if the GUY initiated. then he should pay as a sign that he is being a gentleman and that he is interested. but if the GIRL initiated. expect the GUY to pay half to show that he is not a freeloader and not taking the GIRL for a ride. but if the girl insist on paying... who's complaining?
@@fafafifufu I DO UNDERSTAND I just don't AGREE with you. It should be whoever picked out the place, whoever initiated that pays. 99% of the time it's gonna be the guy who pays because guys are normally the initiators, and if the girl wants to split then, sure. But in those 1% of cases where the girl picks the place and wants to go somewhere, she's paying, we may offer to pay half but it isn't expected of us to do so, just like in the aforementioned case when the genders are flipped. It shouldn't have to revolve around gender.
So moral of the story, how to talk to girls, tell them you're doing it for a video.
In reality, if the girl finds the guy attractive, she won't make him pay for dinner or make him climb mountains for her. If she makes you do everything for her or make it difficult for him, then it is a red flag (and not interested in you) and should find other women that value you more.
I disagree. am a woman and I let the man pay if he invites me, even if I find him attractive. That is showing that he is caring toward me and I value that. I find that even more attractive.
@@lauraviseniya5930 This technique may work in the old days but now most woman are educated and have careers so she also wants to feel equal and empowered too. these days only SIMPING or Beta weak guys will pay for dates all the time.
@@jameslim3850 To me, that technique is still working today and I attract masculine men. I also precise, I am a young woman with a career. Most of the men I dated took pride into inviting me and paying for me. I saw them as more masculine and they had more of my respect for that. I insisted to pay from time to time, since it shows independance and that I am not after their money on my part, indeed.
Simping is when a person is going above and beyond, paying, etc, for someone who clearly is not interested in them. That is acting like a slave and is a weakness. But if the two persons love each other and have a relationship together, I don't see a problem with gifting their partner. It shows love and respect.
Also, the alpha/beta stuff has been debunked numerous times. Even wolves don't work like that.
Confidence is part of what is valued by women and people in general.
Those American millennial chicks really dumbed things down. Single and angry at 40, is my prediction for two of the three.
bro 100% agree la 😂
5:22 had the same idea of "size" as the white mask girl ngl🤣🤣🤣
Girls will almost never ask out a guy, so therefore the guy will almost always end up paying 😂
yep that is what i keep saying.
Unless you’re attractive and she suggest you take her on a date in which splitting the check is considered
@Everything Of Indian Cinema. You’re giving him false hope
My wife asked me out, and she paid, I was one broke ass grad school student, she actually put quite a bit into our first anniversary and I felt kind of bad that I couldn't afford to do something equally special for her (her family was far richer than mine), now I pamper her every anniversary with something extraordinary, unique and new to her. Find you a woman who builds you up and lets you build her up.
9:11
Unless she has met every single human being on Earth, then I would suggest for people to not take her words seriously. Not everyone is f-ed up as she somewhat implied. Either she is ignorant of reality or she knows but refuses to speak truthfully.
People are entitled to their own opinions but it becomes a whole another matter when you mix falsehoods with the truth.
Virgins be hating this vid cause of 9:13 lel
The plus sized girl kept trying to embarrass her friend, not cool man. Not a real friend.
i feel that way too
You mean that fat girl lmao
MY QUEEN SPITTING FACTS AT 10:16 💀🔥
She fly yo😍
Cat queen 🤩
wow the first guy so handsome!!!
@Chloe Watson haha haha haha knn
Are u gae ?
Here it is, height only matters until it doesn't. I am a fat old man, 173 sure I look young, but I don't fit the mold of asian attraction, but I can very easily talk to and go out with women if they are not attached. Confidence, show strength of character be it morals, ethics, work ethic, religion, money, physical fitness, just show strength in something. Women feel safe with strong men, they may think it means height, but strength of character is also a huge turn on for them. Now confidence does not mean being an asshole, sure some women like that but most are not. I personally rely on my intellect, the way I carry myself, which makes me on equal footing with someone way taller or bigger than me. Being funny and a nice guy, and I always pay for dates, but I give them an opportunity to pay for a date when they invite me so they don't feel like I am trying to control them.
You say you’re “old” but you’re probably 30 to 40+ which is considered a man’s prime too lol
you're 173 years old? damn
@@Jejdjejbfjf well no a man's prime doesnt begin so late
If it's about looks a man's
prime isnt so late
Well how old are you
I am 44 years old. Hella old
Remember men , always ask a fisherman how to catch a fish , don't be stupid and ask the fish.
9:45 if i was him my mind would go "omg omg she touched me, she likes me"💀
ive been watching videos like these for the last 2 hours maybe
because i met an SG girl online and we have been talking for a few days now and something ive come to realize is
Singapore chicks have to be some of the most genuine chicks i have seen
like the dont bs, they sweet , and low key hot asf but they dont seem like they hide things and are open about their emotions
11:08 she never let that go 😂😂
I tot sg girls are different. They are all the same everywhere around the world.
Alpha fux, beta bux. No 🧢
I'm afraid to ask them out I cant even talk to girls properly
but what are guys afraid of
@@whoevenareyou9895 scared of uncertain, you see we don"t know if they being friendly or giving signal but it take courage to find that out. Some had bad history with female so it just nail it down even more.
@@yolodemo6315 Spoiler, you'll still need a good dose of courage even if she gave signals. The only way you'll not be anxious is if you are 200% sure that the girl likes you, otherwise be prepared to fight your own demons when approaching.
I believe most guys wouldn't mind paying but would love it if the girl has the heart to ask
Yeah it depends. Most girls prefer western guys because western guys are more attractive than asian guys
solid content doing gods work
"so are you a virgin?" lmao
I am too shy to ask for number when see a beautiful lady and i be single for 10 year already.. What a fuck...👎👎
For me i dun think of this money thing,definitely as a guy it’s automatics for me to pay,ever been with a gal then we both fighting to pay 😂 for me if a gal pay for me it’s embarrassing man
For the question does height matter, it is throughout history that men are more larger build than women. (like some mammals) This is the subconscious notion as to why girl prefer tall guys. I am just average 171 cm and i don't prefer to date taller girls cuz I will look like puberty forgot my height LOL
im afraid to ask them out because most of the time they agree but im broke T.T
You got talking skills. Great vlog
bro, you are interesting af
Those girls should visit Miami
That girl at 11.07 senses some weakness.
Prepare for rejection, okay noted
8:27 my man was probably taking down their socials
Probably looking at the questions bro.
I like the girls at 7:46 ,beauty with brains. Af the gentleman shit, i'm going out to know your soul more, not to lepak with a puppy to take care of.
Doing god's work
the more american sounding girls: worse she can say is no
if the guy initiated the date first! then, he should pay for the dinner. but, if the girl made the first move, then, go dutch!
how is that fair?
@@esrynshudder4216 explain to me the meaning of fair. life is not fair. nothing is fair. at least go dutch, to show that the guy is a gentleman. if the guy don't pay, he may be accused of being a freeloader or self entitled. btw, MOST guys will not go out for dinner with a girl if he is not interested. but, if the guy is really interested, at least let him pay because he wanted to show the girl that he wanted to impress her and interested to know her better after the dinner.
@@fafafifufu no I mean that the person who initiated should pay, doesn't mean that when it's the girl's turn that she gets to go 50/50
@@esrynshudder4216 which part did you don't understand? i quoted if the GUY initiated. then he should pay as a sign that he is being a gentleman and that he is interested. but if the GIRL initiated. expect the GUY to pay half to show that he is not a freeloader and not taking the GIRL for a ride. but if the girl insist on paying... who's complaining?
@@fafafifufu I DO UNDERSTAND I just don't AGREE with you. It should be whoever picked out the place, whoever initiated that pays. 99% of the time it's gonna be the guy who pays because guys are normally the initiators, and if the girl wants to split then, sure. But in those 1% of cases where the girl picks the place and wants to go somewhere, she's paying, we may offer to pay half but it isn't expected of us to do so, just like in the aforementioned case when the genders are flipped. It shouldn't have to revolve around gender.
The guy in the beginning looks like aimrun lol
More content please
Nice one bro
Put the title as "Asking guys & girls questions that guys are afraid of of" be more specific
were the girls drunk?
singapore people are too shy
SG girls hahahaha mostly feminist now days not all
Where got time rs mampooooz
01:35
Which country is this?… most are shy ☺️🤣
Singapore
Accent is so weird
Stop hiding behind the pretence of “interview” to unleash your inner crave of asking girls pervert questions.
Kekw
Lmao
Well somebody has to ask them to make us better informed.