Viktor Frankl: Self-Actualization is not the goal

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  • @notbornyesterday2767
    @notbornyesterday2767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5022

    I read, "Man's Search for Meaning", many years ago. At one point, years later, during a horrendous situation I was experiencing, I was able to use something Frankl had said in his book, regarding how some concentration camp victims survived. He said that it wasn't the people who had the physical strength, and, brawn who were most likely to survive, but, rather the people who had the best imaginations and could visualize what they had to look forward to, in the future. This mental projection could be a person, place, or thing, that gave them a reason and the passion to want to live.

    • @dasein9980
      @dasein9980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Awesome comment

    • @rebeccabyrne8489
      @rebeccabyrne8489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Yes, they were experiencing gratitude and hope. Those who have gratitude for even the smallest of things and also have hope for their future survive.

    • @piaraskelly1038
      @piaraskelly1038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      There may be some truth in this, but the largest factor by far in surviving was luck, i.e. how late you were sent to a camp, how "easy" the camp was and what kind of "job" you were given (read Frankl's life story to see how his experience during 1941-1945 differs markedly from the vast majority who died). I'm not trying to downplay Frankl's suffering, but this general argument without qualification insults those who were murdered - being "positive" would not have helped them.

    • @helenamaria710
      @helenamaria710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@piaraskelly1038 That true...but we all know that circumstance does exist. Tsunamis happen. But WITHIN that reality, we have 'free will'.

    • @stefanschleps8758
      @stefanschleps8758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yep, my mom left me an original copy. Hard to read as its in German. But yeah, thats correct. Same thing for people who are in prison. Or Tokyo.

  • @rossverik
    @rossverik ปีที่แล้ว +1555

    Honestly, I’m in complete awe of the strength of this man to make it through the darkest depths of human cruelty and emerge with a will to spread compassion for others in the way he did for so many years. What a true inspiration, and what a legacy to leave behind.

    • @marypower1261
      @marypower1261 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He is inspiring. Why don't psychiatrists study HIS books? Instead of the stupefying ICDs and DSMs ???

    • @marsship921
      @marsship921 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@marypower1261 Because we like to study the most useless shit and not help anyone.

    • @OfftoShambala
      @OfftoShambala ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you are not vaccinated, you will probably be going through similar

    • @DannySullivanMusic
      @DannySullivanMusic ปีที่แล้ว

      bingo! absolutely correct man

    • @springteen3743
      @springteen3743 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There is no surprise that this man is companionable, it’s just an automatic by product of what he went through, once you survive such situations then you become wise and more understanding of other humans behavior. Just few end up with some type of retribution. Anyway not many people want to live life in such state of mind of anger or negativity. It’s all about life experience. If you want to become low level of humanity then you might put yourselves in a situation of risk and su then you might be a different person just like this gentleman.😅

  • @jerklecirque138
    @jerklecirque138 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    "Something you have done can never be undone." That's a powerful perspective.

    • @vickirushrush8035
      @vickirushrush8035 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes but not one I agree with. Alchemy needs all its essential elements to create the new from the old. The most powerful tool a human possesses is forgiveness. How do you have forgiveness without injury?

    • @darrylschultz9395
      @darrylschultz9395 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​​@@vickirushrush8035 So lets have more injury to maximise the opportunities for showing forgiveness? That doesn't sound like a good deal. If for a positive(such as forgiveness)to be possible, a negative is first required(i.e., injury)-it shouldn't be up for consideration as a goal.

    • @Chippycito
      @Chippycito 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Forgiveness does not undo.

    • @yoya4766
      @yoya4766 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What you've done can be seen through different perspectives. What seems bad may turn out to be good thing, with time.

    • @johnon1785
      @johnon1785 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do nothing and nothing is left undone

  • @joelfernandes5638
    @joelfernandes5638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +940

    I read “ Man’s search for meaning” a few months ago, I was going through a very dark period of my life and it helped me a lot to understand the meaning of suffering. I’m better now by the way.

    • @lorenheard2561
      @lorenheard2561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      From personal experience,I am glad you made your way through the darkness and come out much better for it! All the blessings from God upon you!

    • @lorenheard2561
      @lorenheard2561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@joelfernandes5638 Thank you I will after I figure out to work better on using my smart phone.Where ever you are,have a great evening afternoon or morning!

    • @joelfernandes5638
      @joelfernandes5638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Loren Heard thank you... I live in Germany. Here is very early in the morning but I woke up at 3:00 am. God bless you!

    • @lorenheard2561
      @lorenheard2561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@joelfernandes5638 Then by all means,seize the day! Even if you are indoors,we can through prayer and mental strengthening overcome many things through faith and action.Getting ready to end my day.It is raining steadily all day in Southern California.

    • @joelfernandes5638
      @joelfernandes5638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Loren Heard Faith... I was born in a Christian home but along the years I almost forgot completely that there is a living God. I’m really grateful that I had to endure some much pain because it made me find my faith in God again. Take care Loren and stay safe, I wish you a good night. The weather here has been nice the last week or so...

  • @beaconoftruth72
    @beaconoftruth72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +865

    Self actualization is NOT a goal in and of itself, but a byproduct of fulfillment, whether fulfillment comes by way of self valuing or service to others.
    I love that. Thank you for sharing these videos! ❤

    • @DannySullivanMusic
      @DannySullivanMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      spot on. utterly true!!

    • @orangeziggy348
      @orangeziggy348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Fulfillment also comes through experiencing both beauty and other people.

    • @bethbartlett5692
      @bethbartlett5692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Few can imagine a self actualization w/o the fundamental facts/truths, what are finally surfaced, and supported by Quantum Physics Studies.
      Copy:
      In the event your interested, My Comment Copy:
      *Here's a "Researched" Perspective that few have realized:*
      When one comes into their Awakened State and seek the greater fundamental Truths, (mine heavily found and influenced by the "Universal Laws", particularly the *"Universal Law of Attraction"* *(and the very depths of what this Law defines, what it means, and the Abundance of this Law's literal function and all that it touches, being every life form, everyday, 24/7),* through all of this and it's defining, it's meanings, *"I found the greater available clarity, understanding, and secure knowing relative to this 3D World, myself, others, the Physical and the Nonphysical, (our Souls defined as energy, and extension from the whole, the Source Energy, i.e., God, Creator of all that is, and with the fact the "Law of Attraction" defined, being that *"all that is, all ever manifested into material form, matter, in this 3D Reality, first requires THOUGHT"!"*
      There you have, there it is, i.e., *"The Bang came 2nd", and you are the energy called the Soul, and energy is eternal, never can it be created nor destroyed "it merely changes form" thus this is conveying that: *"You and I and all Life Energies are Eternal, and death is not a dying of the individual, it is a Transition to Nonphysical",* only the "vessel" expires.
      This is the information, definition, and the meanings interpreted, and it is Science, also it can be found scattered through Ancient Texts, fragmented in various Religions, where I feel certain it once existed in clear statements, yet it is and when one discovers this understanding they transform into a State of Realization, that which follows or is the greater goal of the Awakened State.
      One may take this and go to the task of validating through research and establish their own perspective. I encourage this, for another's truth is merely hearsay until the points are verified.
      I rest my point.
      My areas of degrees are in: Sociology, Journalism, and History/Ancient History, with post grad studies and research, including the general comprehension of Quantum Physics, statements, studies, and principals.
      It has become apparent that we have memory gaps, and a continued relearning if what has already been known.
      We do not live in a linear Evolution, rather it has cyclic patterns, and expanded potentials.
      Master the Ego/Lower Mind with a habit of being Conscious in Thought + Applying Higher Mind, then practice the "Law of Attraction" for the more desired and I feel intended, Life Journey Experiences.
      The remaining will be realized in time, and for certain upon transition to Nonphysical.
      I can, with confidence say, on a larger measure, regarding us "Modern Humans", the we, I, you, *"Not out 1st Ballgame"!*
      Open Mind and discern, with Logic, the variance between: "Stories and Peer Reviewed Science", "Facts vs Theory", 'Textbooks aren't Bibles", and *"Literally, Anything is possible + Logic can apply"*
      For doubtful minds, begin with the *"Blind Slit Experiment"*, add *"Spooky at a Distance" (Quantum Entanglement)*
      Do the searches and read/watch/listen, to the Facts, "then establish your Beliefs.
      Goodnight Chet ...
      Beth
      (Sociologist, Historian, Researcher)
      🗝️🔮☀️
      Tennessee, USA

    • @marypower1261
      @marypower1261 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Like Jesus said to St. Faustina - He does not require great achievements from us, just a commitment to do our best....

    • @MrJohnDocHolliday
      @MrJohnDocHolliday ปีที่แล้ว +12

      "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl is a profound work that explores the human search for purpose and meaning, particularly in the context of the author's experiences in Nazi concentration camps during World War II. While the book offers deep insights into the human condition, it primarily focuses on existential and psychological perspectives rather than esoteric truths. Esoteric truths typically refer to hidden or mystical knowledge that transcends the ordinary understanding of reality. However, I can offer you some philosophical and existential insights from the book:
      The Search for Meaning: Frankl emphasizes that human beings have an innate desire to find meaning and purpose in their lives. This search is essential for our well-being and can serve as a driving force to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
      Freedom of Attitude: Frankl proposes that despite external circumstances and conditions, individuals possess the freedom to choose their attitude and response to any given situation. This freedom lies in our ability to find meaning and make conscious choices.
      Meaning in Suffering: Frankl argues that even in the face of extreme suffering, individuals can find meaning and purpose. By shifting our perspective and embracing our unique circumstances, we can transform suffering into an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
      Responsibility and Authenticity: The book highlights the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and living authentically. We have the power to shape our attitudes, actions, and responses, which ultimately contributes to the meaning and fulfillment we find in our existence.
      Spiritual Transcendence: While not explicitly esoteric, Frankl suggests that spiritual transcendence plays a significant role in finding meaning. By connecting with something greater than ourselves, whether through religion, nature, art, or love, we can tap into a deeper sense of purpose and meaning.
      It's important to note that "Man's Search for Meaning" primarily focuses on existential and psychological concepts rather than esoteric or mystical truths. The book offers profound insights into the human condition, resilience, and the quest for meaning in life, drawing from Viktor Frankl's personal experiences and his work as a psychiatrist.

  • @heavybar3850
    @heavybar3850 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."

  • @catdude1331
    @catdude1331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    My father passed when I was young, My wife passed when my son was young. My son and I have made entirely new lives as entirely new people because of the ability to heal from the damage, and work towards being our best selves, because we can. He’s soon to be a father, so the Cycle continues.

    • @kingkoi6542
      @kingkoi6542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      God bless you and your son, thank you for being a father and teaching him what it means to be a man. Stay safe, much love.

    • @brendaorozco1203
      @brendaorozco1203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Chris Brown Beautifully said. God bless you and your son.

    • @paulryan2128
      @paulryan2128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can work the same way by divorce, death is no prerequisite.

    • @gaseredtune5284
      @gaseredtune5284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praise God and thank you for your strength!

    • @jesusisapisces
      @jesusisapisces 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulryan2128 shut up.

  • @LaserGuidedWhitehaus
    @LaserGuidedWhitehaus ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Man's Search for Meaning is a worthwhile little book to read. A person of compassion turned me onto it around 5 years ago, when we had a chat one evening in a cancer ward where I sat on my bed, waiting for chemo. Frankl communicates a simple truth: There is always a reason to live, and each of us has to manufacture that reason. Decide to work at something, and put your faith in that. Your self-pity, your aimlessness, your despair, your externalizing contempt and your anger...they can slip away, back into the hellish shadows from whence they issued. DECIDE to be positive, and not in some 'new-age'-y way, i.e. get to work!! In fact, decide what THE WORK is, for you and you alone, and then dedicate your life to doing it. There is no waffling when you are sitting in the middle of a freeway where speeding trucks are bearing down on you. You are responsible. You. No one else is going to fix your situation, your life, or your viewpoint, or the human condition. Terrible things ARE going to happen, it's guaranteed. You either pick yourself up and locate meaning in your life, OR you don't. Those who engage the former will survive. And by survive, I mean truly living, not just being a zombie. Because without purpose, there is no reason. And where there is no reason, there is madness, and death. Why hurry? Death will come for everyone, soon enough. If you learn to accept the simple yet vital truth about purpose in your life (and this includes atheists), you will be able to face both life and death with equanimity and grace. And so will the people who really knew you.

    • @malenik15
      @malenik15 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow I will use some of your words for my son.. he’s an amazing 20 y/o but it doesn’t want to commit to college but he wants to continue going.. he keeps blaming to bizarre or other outside situations except himself as to why the grades are low, I don’t expect him to be a genios but I no longer have a 401 k I drained everything trying to continue, during the last 2 years it has been one or other problem. The semesters are now 34,000!!! We can’t even take out student loans.
      I do not know how to explain it to him anymore that we are out of money ..
      thank you btw

    • @KINDaf
      @KINDaf ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Uhhhhhh...... you do know atheist just means they don't believe a god exists right? It has nothing to do with ones personal efficacy. You are insinuating that they do not have meaning, value or a purpose in their lives because of this belief. Please reconsider your comment as it is fully ignorant.

    • @LaserGuidedWhitehaus
      @LaserGuidedWhitehaus ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@KINDaf Your misinterpretation is duly noted. Thank you for your interest.

    • @KINDaf
      @KINDaf ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LaserGuidedWhitehaus Ah yes, an old adage, you can bring a fool to water but you cannot make him drink. Thank you for sadly remind me of this fact. Sometimes it's the truly only the intelligent who flaunt their ignorance so unashamedly that one is unable to miss this glaring ultimate red flag. The inability to use a word properly also completely destroys your argument as you are unable to use the term in a manner that would further your case. I was rooting for you. So close but soooo far with your head up your a@@. I'm even more disappointed since googling the def of Atheism was too much for you to solidify your argument. Peace out ignorant fool!

    • @Cherb123456
      @Cherb123456 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you very much for this gold from you, I appreciated it, I saved your comment, I want to preserve it if I may, thanks again and I wish you sincerely all the best! 🙏

  • @stefanschleps8758
    @stefanschleps8758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    Viktor Frankl was my mothers teacher after the war. You gotta love the man. Thanks for sharing this with us.
    Peace.

    • @thunderpooch
      @thunderpooch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yet, I don't

    • @DannySullivanMusic
      @DannySullivanMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bingo! totally correct man

    • @fourtwentythree
      @fourtwentythree 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait we gotta love him cause he taught your mother 😅? No you gotta love him but not us 😊

  • @Sbannmarie298
    @Sbannmarie298 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    “He who has a why to live for, can bare almost any how”
    ~ Nietzsche

    • @ratbullkan
      @ratbullkan ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What do you mean by that? 😂

    • @Timok67
      @Timok67 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's amazing how much the physical body can take with a mind willing to elude death.

    • @atmosrepair
      @atmosrepair ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thus Spoke the Zarathustra lol

    • @damasek219
      @damasek219 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Bear, not bare

    • @twelvecatsinatrenchcoat
      @twelvecatsinatrenchcoat ปีที่แล้ว

      @@damasek219 "Hey how are we gonna get that ball off the roof?"
      "GWWWAAAAARRRRRRGHGHHGGHGH!!!!"

  • @horticulturalharry9246
    @horticulturalharry9246 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Frankyl hits the nail on the head. There's endless psychotherapeutic modalities to treat various mental difficulties/struggles, but underlying most is a lack of purpose and meaning.

  • @carlosparra8976
    @carlosparra8976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    Im gonna have compassion with whoever came up with the misleading title of this video.

    • @whoever_81
      @whoever_81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jameshopkins534 ...and thus fulfill the meaning of the situation 😄

    • @StephanieSoressi
      @StephanieSoressi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was just going to say whomever entitled this video totally didn't understand the lecture.

    • @hypnotechno
      @hypnotechno 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      but do you have unconditional positive regard for them

    • @michaelchan9874
      @michaelchan9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha! nice

    • @colbyd.5044
      @colbyd.5044 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

  • @Didleeios88
    @Didleeios88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    This man is a hero. The dignity he attributes to the human condition is uplifting.

  • @mindcache5650
    @mindcache5650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +999

    This needs to be corrected. Frankl says that fulfilment of meaning then leads to self actualisation occurring. He doesn’t dismiss self actualisation.

    • @marapaprr4930
      @marapaprr4930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sorry, I am from a younger generation but what does self-actualization even mean?

    • @mindcache5650
      @mindcache5650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@marapaprr4930 You can establish your identity and do things through which you express your identity.

    • @farrider3339
      @farrider3339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@mindcache5650 : identity leads to tribalism leads to rejection leads to war .
      No benefit at all rises from that .•°

    • @СтаниславСтоименов-ы6х
      @СтаниславСтоименов-ы6х 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@farrider3339 I believe that under "identity" he meant one's cultural system - one's values and beliefs, one's moral foundations. Not that these cannot lead to tribalism and war, everything can.

    • @godislove8740
      @godislove8740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@farrider3339 your philosophy is confusedshushism. (Regarding your other comments).

  • @noellemarie
    @noellemarie ปีที่แล้ว +109

    My uncle helped clean up the World Trade Center ruins. He developed severe lung problems and died in his 50s a few years ago. When we went to clean up his things after his death, I found his copy of A Man’s Search for Meaning. i’d heard about it for years and wanted to read it for quite some time. when i opened it up, the Nietzsche quote about man can live as long as he had a how shakily underlined. it’s probably the most influential book in my life.
    i’m struggling a lot right now with finding meaning after the pandemic and since literally all my plans for the future collapsed around me. even still, i still find my way back to this book. i don’t even know what i wanted to say with this…

    • @AL_THOMAS_777
      @AL_THOMAS_777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌 👏 🙏 🤝 👍 I wish you all the best mate ! And please do not forget to look - here on yt - for Eckhart Tolle and Osho ! (secret tips !) - they both will be helpful on your path . . .

    • @mikahist4155
      @mikahist4155 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Im so sorry- i totally lost touch to myself and the surrounding...i had all Kind of problems in the past, violence expiriences since childhood- but since Lockdowns i cant connect, i feel stupid unstable no matter where i go- and i dont know how to overcome this!

    • @hib723
      @hib723 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your uncle can thank Israel.

    • @guitarista666
      @guitarista666 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hib723 Are you trying promote the despicable
      lie that Israel was behind 911?

    • @atmosrepair
      @atmosrepair ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sometimes holding on does more damage. I know it's kinda ironic to say this when we have mentioned Nietzsche, but "let go and let God." Remember Friedriech said, "God is dead, we killed him" and not "there is no God."

  • @juneyang1400
    @juneyang1400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I’m crying. Because everything Dr. Frankl said made sense. Such a wonderful human being with the most important messages. Wisest and kindest in a quiet manner in his books and in himself. I am very lucky to see this video and to be able to see him talk. With love ❤️, thank you!

    • @bethbartlett5692
      @bethbartlett5692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the event your interested, My Comment Copy:
      *Here's a "Researched" Perspective that few have realized:*
      When one comes into their Awakened State and seek the greater fundamental Truths, (mine heavily found and influenced by the "Universal Laws", particularly the *"Universal Law of Attraction"* *(and the very depths of what this Law defines, what it means, and the Abundance of this Law's literal function and all that it touches, being every life form, everyday, 24/7),* through all of this and it's defining, it's meanings, *"I found the greater available clarity, understanding, and secure knowing relative to this 3D World, myself, others, the Physical and the Nonphysical, (our Souls defined as energy, and extension from the whole, the Source Energy, i.e., God, Creator of all that is, and with the fact the "Law of Attraction" defined, being that *"all that is, all ever manifested into material form, matter, in this 3D Reality, first requires THOUGHT"!"*
      There you have, there it is, i.e., *"The Bang came 2nd", and you are the energy called the Soul, and energy is eternal, never can it be created nor destroyed "it merely changes form" thus this is conveying that: *"You and I and all Life Energies are Eternal, and death is not a dying of the individual, it is a Transition to Nonphysical",* only the "vessel" expires.
      This is the information, definition, and the meanings interpreted, and it is Science, also it can be found scattered through Ancient Texts, fragmented in various Religions, where I feel certain it once existed in clear statements, yet it is and when one discovers this understanding they transform into a State of Realization, that which follows or is the greater goal of the Awakened State.
      One may take this and go to the task of validating through research and establish their own perspective. I encourage this, for another's truth is merely hearsay until the points are verified.
      I rest my point.
      My areas of degrees are in: Sociology, Journalism, and History/Ancient History, with post grad studies and research, including the general comprehension of Quantum Physics, statements, studies, and principals.
      It has become apparent that we have memory gaps, and a continued relearning if what has already been known.
      We do not live in a linear Evolution, rather it has cyclic patterns, and expanded potentials.
      Master the Ego/Lower Mind with a habit of being Conscious in Thought + Applying Higher Mind, then practice the "Law of Attraction" for the more desired and I feel intended, Life Journey Experiences.
      The remaining will be realized in time, and for certain upon transition to Nonphysical.
      I can, with confidence say, on a larger measure, regarding us "Modern Humans", the we, I, you, *"Not out 1st Ballgame"!*
      Open Mind and discern, with Logic, the variance between: "Stories and Peer Reviewed Science", "Facts vs Theory", 'Textbooks aren't Bibles", and *"Literally, Anything is possible + Logic can apply"*
      For doubtful minds, begin with the *"Blind Slit Experiment"*, add *"Spooky at a Distance" (Quantum Entanglement)*
      Do the searches and read/watch/listen, to the Facts, "then establish your Beliefs.
      Goodnight Chet ...
      Beth
      (Sociologist, Historian, Researcher)
      🗝️🔮☀️
      Tennessee, USA

    • @ronaldgmaster5782
      @ronaldgmaster5782 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know Frankl’s book was made up? Professor Pytell debunked Frankl years ago.

  • @theunisjansenvanvuuren7469
    @theunisjansenvanvuuren7469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    Valuable discussion. What a pity the title is so misleading,

    • @jumpingeezus5080
      @jumpingeezus5080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Theunis Jansen van Vuuren
      Speaks words. I think. Aloud without.

    • @gardeniainbloom812
      @gardeniainbloom812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      e title is possibly click bait but I think it's capturing the idea that self-actualization is a process in community with another.

    • @bergenehrlich8309
      @bergenehrlich8309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This comment kept me from clicking off

    • @lincoln_sa4756
      @lincoln_sa4756 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bergen Ehrlich 😌

    • @hypnotechno
      @hypnotechno 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      but do you have unconditional positive regard for them

  • @SvendBosanvovski
    @SvendBosanvovski ปีที่แล้ว +16

    There is an utterly beautiful passage in his wonderful book where Dr Frankl, in the darkness of his suffering, visualises his wife's beloved face and comes to a profound realisation that love is central to man's existence. He relates how a small colourful bird perches nearby and begins studying him in his ragged clothing and depleted physical form. I felt tears well as I read that many, many years ago, and revisit it often as a way of supplementing my own requirement for humility and emotional strength.

  • @Antzus81
    @Antzus81 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    As a psychologist I'm really feeling like we've long-since hit the limits with CBT. I'm feeling done with even the more humanistic DBT or ACT. Logotherapy is where it's at. Back to the fundamentals - basic human experience, basic human beingness, basic human needs.

    • @bvictoria6605
      @bvictoria6605 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      CBT is ineffective in dealing with trauma. Trauma is at the core of most ills and it's treatable, but there are layers to it and the individual must have a supportive empathetic therapist who understands trauma-based issues.

    • @guitarista666
      @guitarista666 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      In the interest of the general reader, don't you think it would
      be better to lose the acronyms?

    • @infowazz
      @infowazz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@guitarista666 acronyms are cool, like your username lol

    • @guitarista666
      @guitarista666 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@infowazz First off, my username is not
      an acronym. Secondly, it's a pain in the ass
      to read text that contains acronyms that
      you, and most everybody else, doesn't know
      the meaning of.

    • @riddersjc
      @riddersjc ปีที่แล้ว +19

      So rather than Google something you spend time complaining and ask them to take time out of their day to explain?
      It's cognitive behavioural therapy, dialectical behaviour therapy and acceptance and commitment therapy.
      Now, if you want to know the differences between those look it up yourself.

  • @Steerpikey
    @Steerpikey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    "Self-actualisation is a by-product of the fulfilment of meaning"

  • @rosspirsig
    @rosspirsig ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Being" instead of "Having". So valuable to be able to see and hear Viktor Frankl. The video immortalizes him in a very human way.

    • @marianhunt8899
      @marianhunt8899 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only works when you have enough food to survive and shelter to prevent an illness that will kill you. Many are dying from starvation in this world. No 'will to live' can save you when your heart does not have enough energy to pump the blood around your body. We cannot 'will' our way out of all bad situations.

  • @davidcawrowl3865
    @davidcawrowl3865 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Self-actualization as a "by-product" of one's search for (and attainment of) meaning. It sort "falls in your lap". Brilliant.

    • @MrJohnDocHolliday
      @MrJohnDocHolliday ปีที่แล้ว

      Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl is a profound work that explores the human search for purpose and meaning, particularly in the context of the author's experiences in Nazi concentration camps during World War II. While the book offers deep insights into the human condition, it primarily focuses on existential and psychological perspectives rather than esoteric truths. Esoteric truths typically refer to hidden or mystical knowledge that transcends the ordinary understanding of reality. However, I can offer you some philosophical and existential insights from the book:
      The Search for Meaning: Frankl emphasizes that human beings have an innate desire to find meaning and purpose in their lives. This search is essential for our well-being and can serve as a driving force to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
      Freedom of Attitude: Frankl proposes that despite external circumstances and conditions, individuals possess the freedom to choose their attitude and response to any given situation. This freedom lies in our ability to find meaning and make conscious choices.
      Meaning in Suffering: Frankl argues that even in the face of extreme suffering, individuals can find meaning and purpose. By shifting our perspective and embracing our unique circumstances, we can transform suffering into an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
      Responsibility and Authenticity: The book highlights the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and living authentically. We have the power to shape our attitudes, actions, and responses, which ultimately contributes to the meaning and fulfillment we find in our existence.
      Spiritual Transcendence: While not explicitly esoteric, Frankl suggests that spiritual transcendence plays a significant role in finding meaning. By connecting with something greater than ourselves, whether through religion, nature, art, or love, we can tap into a deeper sense of purpose and meaning.
      It's important to note that "Man's Search for Meaning" primarily focuses on existential and psychological concepts rather than esoteric or mystical truths. The book offers profound insights into the human condition, resilience, and the quest for meaning in life, drawing from Viktor Frankl's personal experiences and his work as a psychiatrist.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @vlrkst
    @vlrkst 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I absolutely admire Viktor F. Having been a war survivor myself, his thoughts resonate with me. His search of meaning is by all means the most human approach to life hardship and its recovery. I absolutely admire him.

  • @inmemoryofCarla
    @inmemoryofCarla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Frankl has been a crucial part of my survival after the death of my young daughter due to an embolism.

    • @TK-xh1xc
      @TK-xh1xc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sorry for your loss.

    • @xelaphilia
      @xelaphilia ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish you all the strenght and courage. Your daughter is waiting for you in the Hereafter.

  • @RoyRuman-uv1bx
    @RoyRuman-uv1bx ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Man's Search For The Meaning is one of the best books I've ever read and it has literally strengthen my faith in owneself I was in agony and existential crisis , living in guilt past sometimes at some point it leads me to be suicidal I almost started to believe there's no point to carry on this at all, One good friend of mine recommended this books , it saved rescued me from edge of end, Thanks very much indeed for this wonderful books

  • @FriendofDorothy
    @FriendofDorothy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    This reminds me of a social interaction I had with a man much younger than myself. He is in his 20's in fact and I am "ancient of days". In the course of our conversation I told him I write books and his response startled me. Most people, let alone most young people, do not find that interesting, let alone impressive, but he said, "Oh, that's awesome. So you will have a legacy." I don't think of my writing in terms of having a legacy, but it does indeed give me a sense of meaning as did my former occupation of being a hospital social worker (a job which, were I not now retired, would now be not merely stressful as it always was to some degree but downright harrowing and even perhaps life-endangering). I may not be the next Hemingway, but I derive some satisfaction and life meaning in leaving my own scrawling on the wall of life in hopes it may inspire or entertain someone after I leave, so maybe he's right about the legacy thing too.

    • @BarbaraMerryGeng
      @BarbaraMerryGeng 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Steven Kerry / I’m glad for you 🤗 It is so good for a person to have a sense of their own value 💖💫 Stay well, brother 👋

    • @svenofthejungle
      @svenofthejungle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This inspires me to get back into writing. I'm currently pivoting from a soulless corporate job into nursing as part of my own "search for meaning", and I haven't written anything substantial in years. But being a nurse and a writer is one hell of a legacy, even if no one reads my work.
      You've inspired me, Steven Kerry, just as much as Victor Frankl. Stay well, and stay safe out there. Wherever that 20-something is now, I hope he knows he's accidentally sparked one hell of a legacy himself.

    • @richardspratley786
      @richardspratley786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What kind of writing?

    • @bdafaholmes
      @bdafaholmes 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s no Carl Rogers I’ll say that.

    • @svenofthejungle
      @svenofthejungle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@richardspratley786 What I call "anti-science-fiction": world-building in a future when climate change and resource depletion have wrecked industrial civilization. Sounds dark and depressing, but for me, it represents hope against the inevitable. I'm trying to world-build and collect notes for a sort of Canterbury Tales type series of short stories.
      I appreciate that you asked!

  • @eleanorsopwith9806
    @eleanorsopwith9806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Viktor Frankl's message is to find meaning through being attentive to something greater than yourself. Self actualisation is not the goal, not to be aimed at if transcendence is to be possible. Self actualisation, though welcome, can only ever be a by product of a greater meaning derived from loving attention, dedication, compassion for others, acts of kindness, an appreciation of nature and a creativity in responding to life's situations. Being attentive, in a meaningful way, is the key to transcending suffering. Have read Man's Search for Meaning three times. It's a humbling yet alwsys an inspiring read. Viktor Frankl never loses his sense of humility despite his profound insights and wisdom. Logotherapy is humility and inspiration in essence.

  • @Adagiowellness
    @Adagiowellness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I studied Victor when I was 19 and I feel his book changed my life and I continue to always focus on my purpose. It is a strong motivator.

    • @1pcfred
      @1pcfred 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I could say the same thing about what I was doing when I was 19. What I was up to did not involve reading anybody's book either.

    • @listenear9189
      @listenear9189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is your purpose

    • @hellobro9280
      @hellobro9280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am 19 and reading this book. I've been feeling existential crisis for the last 3 years.

    • @MrJohnDocHolliday
      @MrJohnDocHolliday ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl is a profound work that explores the human search for purpose and meaning, particularly in the context of the author's experiences in Nazi concentration camps during World War II. While the book offers deep insights into the human condition, it primarily focuses on existential and psychological perspectives rather than esoteric truths. Esoteric truths typically refer to hidden or mystical knowledge that transcends the ordinary understanding of reality. However, I can offer you some philosophical and existential insights from the book:
      The Search for Meaning: Frankl emphasizes that human beings have an innate desire to find meaning and purpose in their lives. This search is essential for our well-being and can serve as a driving force to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
      Freedom of Attitude: Frankl proposes that despite external circumstances and conditions, individuals possess the freedom to choose their attitude and response to any given situation. This freedom lies in our ability to find meaning and make conscious choices.
      Meaning in Suffering: Frankl argues that even in the face of extreme suffering, individuals can find meaning and purpose. By shifting our perspective and embracing our unique circumstances, we can transform suffering into an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
      Responsibility and Authenticity: The book highlights the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and living authentically. We have the power to shape our attitudes, actions, and responses, which ultimately contributes to the meaning and fulfillment we find in our existence.
      Spiritual Transcendence: While not explicitly esoteric, Frankl suggests that spiritual transcendence plays a significant role in finding meaning. By connecting with something greater than ourselves, whether through religion, nature, art, or love, we can tap into a deeper sense of purpose and meaning.
      It's important to note that "Man's Search for Meaning" primarily focuses on existential and psychological concepts rather than esoteric or mystical truths. The book offers profound insights into the human condition, resilience, and the quest for meaning in life, drawing from Viktor Frankl's personal experiences and his work as a psychiatrist.

    • @Pavanesh
      @Pavanesh ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought you also now become a motivator........
      ❤❤

  • @wisdomtoknowthedifference
    @wisdomtoknowthedifference 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Dr. Frankl's statements about accepting death comes full circle. All his contributions to Psychology have been preserved and stored forever. Nothing is lost. He is still with us! as his wisdom forever spreads to many more people like me. I ask myself everyday, what does life expect of me, whenever I feel afraid. Dr. Frankl has helped me find MY meaning in life post-trauma. I will forever be grateful of him. 💐

  • @xelaphilia
    @xelaphilia ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The horrific experiences of this brilliant man surely put one's own suffering into perspective. I'm reading Man's Search for Meaning now, and it is one of the most profound books I've ever read. May his soul rest in peace. His wisdom is more than ever necessary in this crazy world!

  • @coreycox2345
    @coreycox2345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I am sometimes so impressed with what the TH-cam algorithm puts on my screen. Thank you for posting this. I love Victor Frankl. I believe that he nailed the meaning of life.

    • @epictetusofhierapolis4461
      @epictetusofhierapolis4461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So did the Monty Python guys.

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@epictetusofhierapolis4461 Agreed. Life may have more than one meaning.

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Madasin ! That's lovely. It wasn't only the prisoners. There was that one guard who spent his own money on medicines for the prisoners in secret.

    • @MrJohnDocHolliday
      @MrJohnDocHolliday ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl is a profound work that explores the human search for purpose and meaning, particularly in the context of the author's experiences in Nazi concentration camps during World War II. While the book offers deep insights into the human condition, it primarily focuses on existential and psychological perspectives rather than esoteric truths. Esoteric truths typically refer to hidden or mystical knowledge that transcends the ordinary understanding of reality. However, I can offer you some philosophical and existential insights from the book:
      The Search for Meaning: Frankl emphasizes that human beings have an innate desire to find meaning and purpose in their lives. This search is essential for our well-being and can serve as a driving force to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
      Freedom of Attitude: Frankl proposes that despite external circumstances and conditions, individuals possess the freedom to choose their attitude and response to any given situation. This freedom lies in our ability to find meaning and make conscious choices.
      Meaning in Suffering: Frankl argues that even in the face of extreme suffering, individuals can find meaning and purpose. By shifting our perspective and embracing our unique circumstances, we can transform suffering into an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
      Responsibility and Authenticity: The book highlights the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and living authentically. We have the power to shape our attitudes, actions, and responses, which ultimately contributes to the meaning and fulfillment we find in our existence.
      Spiritual Transcendence: While not explicitly esoteric, Frankl suggests that spiritual transcendence plays a significant role in finding meaning. By connecting with something greater than ourselves, whether through religion, nature, art, or love, we can tap into a deeper sense of purpose and meaning.
      It's important to note that "Man's Search for Meaning" primarily focuses on existential and psychological concepts rather than esoteric or mystical truths. The book offers profound insights into the human condition, resilience, and the quest for meaning in life, drawing from Viktor Frankl's personal experiences and his work as a psychiatrist.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @victoriapruitt1209
    @victoriapruitt1209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankel
    Top 5 books of all time
    Every person must read it.

    • @punkpoetry
      @punkpoetry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Using phrases such as “top 5 books of all time” is the telltale sign of an idiot

    • @LAZY_PHILOMATH
      @LAZY_PHILOMATH 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@punkpoetry There is no accounting for taste........F. ZAPPA

    • @leahnyb6878
      @leahnyb6878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@punkpoetry And someone who speaks like you... is not just an idiot, but rude also. Love & peace ;-)

    • @cfwintner1
      @cfwintner1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I worked as an educational psychologist in a youth prison, where many, as young as 16, had been tried and convicted as adults, and sentenced to life. I gave away at least 20-30 copies of Man's Search.... and those copies were passed around. It was the most therapeutic of all resources.

    • @teej783
      @teej783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hear, hear!

  • @StandardProceduree
    @StandardProceduree 4 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    3 TYPES OF VALUES:
    1. Creativity (Doing)
    2. Attitudinal (Responding)
    3. Experiancial (Being)

    • @jakeclark66
      @jakeclark66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      StandardProceduree Experiential*

    • @sararevesz8926
      @sararevesz8926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for your listing!

    • @holtproductions149
      @holtproductions149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Creativity isn’t “doing”, doing is doing. Creativity is a mode of thinking that is very rare. Few people live in a state of compulsive creativity. The term itself is grossly overused in American culture likely because everyone has art class in school and is encouraged by their teachers to think creatively. Thinking creatively can cross over to different personality types but that doesn’t inherently make them creatives.

    • @paulzenco6182
      @paulzenco6182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Those are not values.

    • @BrandonSL500
      @BrandonSL500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@holtproductions149 You don't need to be in a continuous state of compulsive creativity to be creative...

  • @pipagsock4205
    @pipagsock4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    look to others who have not found meaning with compassion, i needed that. Im too hard on others

  • @smileyface702
    @smileyface702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This interview is a good small glimpse into Frankl's ideas, but I highly recommend reading Man's Search for Meaning. It's short and very hard to put down so you'll read it quickly, but it is just oozing with wisdom and it's a book I will definitely re-read during times of hardship.

    • @TheJakecakes
      @TheJakecakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just reread it. Its an important book.

  • @ceriusStra
    @ceriusStra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Frankl is the voice of light-filled clarity in the sea of confusing psychological and often conflicting theories.

    • @farrider3339
      @farrider3339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❌ nO🚫
      He's preaching .•°

    • @1pcfred
      @1pcfred 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If the sea appears confusing that is because it is. As we exist in a plane created out of pure chaos. Trying to make any sense of it is a fruitless endeavor too. But everyone needs a hobby I suppose?

    • @paulzenco6182
      @paulzenco6182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Paul Frederick the universe functions with a perfect, harmonious order, following specific laws. That we as limited beings are anable to make sense of it, is something altogether very different

    • @1pcfred
      @1pcfred 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paulzenco6182 the Universe is a chaotic place. Some evidence suggests the plane of reality that we exist in is far from perfect too. For instance if the universe was perfect in its energy density matter would have never coalesced in it. But because it was so lumpy here we are.

    • @farrider3339
      @farrider3339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Paul & Paul : Laws or Chaos , both are fictions of a puny human mind.
      Laws are hierachical imagination according to religious fiction of a ruler who sets up laws.
      Chaos is the other side of the same coin, as to give a name to the incomprehensible.
      Puny human mind cannot figure out NoNearthly physics.
      Ultimately it's just fairy tales.
      All "evidences" refer to planet 🌏 and the sensual input human organism can process.
      The observations and assumptions done by this extremely limited sensual range aren't worth discussing.
      Flying to the moon is a cute and nice achievement , but what's the benefit of that except grasping for more resources.
      Expanded exploitation is aLL that there is..•°

  • @petestevens3970
    @petestevens3970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Its amazing, frankly, to have the opportunity & privilege to watch Frankl and others share their thoughts.

    • @AL_THOMAS_777
      @AL_THOMAS_777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌 👏 🙏 🤝 👍Frankl frankly - so cute . . . .

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Rest in powerful peace 🙏
    Viktor Emil Frankl MD PhD
    29 March 1905 ~
    2 September 1997⚘

  • @leviconnermusic
    @leviconnermusic ปีที่แล้ว +17

    There are very few books I would consider truly 'life changing' but Mans Search For Meaning is without a doubt one of them. Dr. Frankl's understanding of the human condition and the compassion he affords it is unparalleled. Wounderful interview!

  • @AnnaAwesome77
    @AnnaAwesome77 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Noticing the beauty of life as it is now, this is experiencing life now. ❤

  • @thankyouinadvance.yourfutu5219
    @thankyouinadvance.yourfutu5219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Having studied psychology for 5 + year's & competing my degree, I realise the amount of material was modified and modeled around Victor Franklin's ethos and beliefs: the horrendous nightmares he went through and to come out the other side & became one of the most recognised therapist to date is just phenomenal.. Read "man search for meaning' this will give you an excellent chance & insight as to what he went through!! 👍 thanks for the upload..

    • @ronaldgmaster5782
      @ronaldgmaster5782 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, guess you didn’t hear Professor Pytell debunked Frankl’s made up book years ago.

    • @audreyh6628
      @audreyh6628 ปีที่แล้ว

      Psychology has a lot to answer to for how much of it has been outright stolen without credit from the psychoanalytic/counselling modalities and Buddhist philosophy. This has always bothered me so much

    • @ronaldgmaster5782
      @ronaldgmaster5782 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@audreyh6628 ahh psychoanalysis and counseling are psychology. Your comment makes no sense.

    • @jackmartins4831
      @jackmartins4831 ปีที่แล้ว

      See

  • @슈기-h9t
    @슈기-h9t ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The concept of past as something that is unerasable and preserved eternally is certainly unique! Mostly we reminisce about the 'good old days' in melancholy for we will never get to experience it again and on other hand we must feel joyful that we ever got to experience those moments at all! Certainly a man's attitude and response to situations in life chances the worldview.

  • @rubberducky6411
    @rubberducky6411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I went thru this sense of purposeless my whole life.Im old now and it don’t matter no more...finding peace in the last third of my life.

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rubber ducky you sound like your 5

    • @eternallight88
      @eternallight88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      A Jew from Brooklyn Nah actually you do.

    • @thedolphin5428
      @thedolphin5428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      52 people (the 52 likes) get it. Well said, @rubber ducky. Lol, I went through life inventing and finding, re-inventing and re-finding meaning and purpose only to discover that is no answer.

  • @constancewalsh3646
    @constancewalsh3646 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This came up because I'm reading Primo Levi's "If This Is A Man," of the same incredible spirit as Victor Frankl.
    What disturbs me here is the journalistic attitude of the interviewer, a detachment that is incomprehensible in face of the subject matter and of the man Frankl. Bravo to all commentators who are able to not-see or to over-look it but I cannot.

  • @jean-philippechallandes1431
    @jean-philippechallandes1431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Yes, a title update would really make sense: Self-Actualiaztion AS A BYPRODUCT... is the message I heard.

    • @edwardtingley2214
      @edwardtingley2214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some might conclude that they can self-actualize (fulfil yourself) AS A BY PRODUCT; they can 'aim at the by-product' (problematic). They will suppose that their fulfilment is coming from THEIR initiative. But Frankl's point is that the fulfilment is coming from something given to them, to you. That you involve yourself with it is not your doing. Though, certainly, it is your choice. --
      So no correction needed, really.

    • @jean-philippechallandes1431
      @jean-philippechallandes1431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@edwardtingley2214 Brilliantly said... Thanks. Then, Self-ActualizING-as-a-process, not -self-actualization-as-a-goal, unfolds and it becomes a matter of "allowing" it. Hence, a "being"-choice and not a "doing"-one.

    • @marekwojcik7153
      @marekwojcik7153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@edwardtingley2214 Yes, well said indeed, but I still feel that Jean-Philippe Challandes touched on an important point. He wisely said that a title "update" would make sense, not calling it a correction, which is a far less contentious stance. Viktor Frankl in the video said that "preaching self-actualization" is nonsense, and continued by saying that "self-actualization can only fall into your lap". I did not hear a call to abandon the term, only how in his opinion it is best achieved.
      Perhaps not as click-worthy, but "Self-Actualization as a Byproduct" is more accurate than "Self-Actualization is Nonsense" in my opinion.

    • @edwardtingley2214
      @edwardtingley2214 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@marekwojcik7153 - I see what you folks are saying, I think, but am still hanging back. For the reason that 'Self-Actualization AS A BYPRODUCT' would leave the word SELF ambiguous. It is then either the object of the action alone (the thing actualized) or it is, in addition, the subject of the action (the thing actualizing too), and that is what Frankl calls nonsense. I read Frankl to say that the self isn't doing anything but saying Yes to something it hasn't set in motion. But the desire for meaning is there; that it HAS.

    • @JustineBrownsBookshelf
      @JustineBrownsBookshelf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah... I also got the idea that self-actualisation comes in connection with other people.

  • @brianwood7237
    @brianwood7237 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Meaning and purpose have carried me through bad times and good...Frankl's book completely changed my life when I read it as a Junior in High School...we had several suicides occur that year. Any notion of taking that route left my forever after seeing the void those suicides left in their families and communities...however, those events led to a key revelation regarding a past family member who had passed mysteriously. Learning about their struggle and ultimate choice to end their life, despite on the surface having 'everything to live for' in society's view, except the ability to recognize their purpose and true meaning

  • @jakedee4117
    @jakedee4117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Mankinds' search for meaning has been a very important book in my life.

  • @concernedcitizen780
    @concernedcitizen780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Great book: Victor Frankie’s “mans search for meaning”. Recommend by many people. Worth the time.
    A psychiatrist who has a place for God.

    • @lisajarvie9650
      @lisajarvie9650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The best kind

    • @franrushie1383
      @franrushie1383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Concerned Citizen I read the book many years ago.. it was life changing... I love ❤️ to read it again

    • @mikegburnside
      @mikegburnside 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Read it many years ago. Vaguely recall he suggested living for another, having a life project, and perhaps he also wrote about suffering as a reason to tell the story of the suffering (eg the person ushered into the gas chamber tells the Jew who does the ushering, "you must survive--to tell the world what happened").

    • @dothedeed
      @dothedeed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don't know why you bring up god

    • @leebennett4117
      @leebennett4117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There Maybe a Place for God But is There a need? Not everyone Needs the God you Believe in or Any God

  • @paullemiremusic3101
    @paullemiremusic3101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Someone once said "What's your Purpose? It's whatever you SAY it is" . Love that

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Man’s Search For Meaning is such a powerful book! I am in awe of this guy for what he went through.

  • @moanabianchin7342
    @moanabianchin7342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    5:45 "A person is something absolutely unique, irrepeatable in the evolution of the cosmos, incomparable with any other human being. This uniqueness can be got hold of solely by a loving person because he [the loving person] not only sees the essence, but also the potentials in the beloved person, therefore promoting him, alleviating it, to reach out, to obtain this potential and to fulfill and thereby actualise himself. But not by preaching self-actualisation, that is a nonsense...self -actualisation can only fall into your lap automatically, once you have fulfilled a concrete meaning and done the best of a situation, then you self-actualise yourself as a by-product."

    • @arunsawdekar820
      @arunsawdekar820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thanks for transcribing this very important point on self-actualization, that we cannot pursue it but it ensues as a result of working towards a noble cause.

    • @vanessa-ux3vt
      @vanessa-ux3vt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Globalna mefotacijs

    • @SeanKearney
      @SeanKearney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maslow didn’t preach self-actualization either. He was also very clear that seeking self-actualization (or even happiness) was the surest way to not find it.

    • @oculusnomadslosttribe5672
      @oculusnomadslosttribe5672 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joseph electric-chemical reactions inside the skull cap...another universe to explore 🧐

    • @davidtrindle6473
      @davidtrindle6473 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Moana Bianchin would this be akin to “First enter the kingdom of heaven and only then will you experience the benefits?” (paraphrased from Gospels)

  • @mckennalynn1916
    @mckennalynn1916 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a lot to process, but I see so much truth and wisdom in his words. Thank you so much sir! May he rest in peace 🙏🏻

  • @MoshieJ
    @MoshieJ หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whoever the interviewer was he asked brilliant questions and deserves a round of applause. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @maryrosemitchell9682
    @maryrosemitchell9682 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The degree of suffering we have is related to resistance to what is and the ability to create a story you wish to believe. He is proof that a person can believe the story I am a victim and let that ruin them or they can use their own powerful energy to accept what is and still create a what they want. He did not choose to be a victim and therefore became the master of his destiny.

  • @bjklein444
    @bjklein444 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Search for meaning" is a very profound way to attain the highest values in life. ❤ I especially loved the part where he speaks on the permanence and dignity of your actions. He says that what you have done, is there forever...

  • @coerfjoe1
    @coerfjoe1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    One of the most transformative individuals in the world, from his personal suffering to an influential philosophy worldwide. Once you read his works, you can lift yourself out of self-pity into a self-motivated individual no matter the situation.

    • @tommcfadden5232
      @tommcfadden5232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pit O'Maley agree whole heartedly sir.

    • @ritahorvath8207
      @ritahorvath8207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He held a wonderful speech in Vienna about "collective guilt".

    • @101......
      @101...... 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I second that.

  • @marcphillips2208
    @marcphillips2208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Self actualization is not to be sought, it is a "by-product" of an experience.
    Victor Frankl states at 7:00; "...Self actualization can only fall into your lap automatically, once that you have fulfilled a concrete meaning, [have done]] the best [with] a situation, then you actualize yourself as a by-product."

  • @hypertexter
    @hypertexter ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this style of old style interviews. I believe a lot of youtubers are involuntarily bringing this form back

  • @rjdavies1982
    @rjdavies1982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was brought to Viktor Frankl through Stephen Covey's '7 habits of highly effective people'. To me Frankl's influence is very clear in Covey's book - one has to establish a meaning to his or hers life before life can be fully lived. It sounds so simple but this realisation only came to me at 40 years of age after a difficult few years. I feel so encouraged now to have a really considered what the my meaning is and with that knowledge I feel previously unassailable obstacles can now be overcome. Better late than never!!!!

  • @sheiladay-od2me
    @sheiladay-od2me ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this discussion and own Viktor Frankl's book, Man's Search for Meaning. One of the most influential books of my life. No one can prevent you from transcending your circumstances even if they take everything from you.

  • @gwenwade6059
    @gwenwade6059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a loss to have an interview of such magnitude cut short. Thank God we have Victor Frankl's books!

  • @jomontanee
    @jomontanee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What Dr. Frankl said in this interview is so similar and resonate so much with Buddhism!! Great minds think alike!!🙏🙏🙏💖💖

    • @Mr.Dean1
      @Mr.Dean1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is ONLY ONE SPIRIT.
      ♥️👍🙂

    • @AL_THOMAS_777
      @AL_THOMAS_777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Mr.Dean1 🙌 👏 🙏 🤝 👍 All is ONE (ZEN)

    • @JEEDUHCHRI
      @JEEDUHCHRI ปีที่แล้ว

      If you go so far to the west you end up in the east.

  • @fLOrIaNweInhOlD
    @fLOrIaNweInhOlD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In other words, 'enlightenment cannot be attained'... it is ('merely') 'the end of suffering' (the Buddha) I love it how VF explains this. What a human being 🙏

  • @lisamoag6548
    @lisamoag6548 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The search for the good, the beautiful and the True is a worthwhile journey.

  • @rembeadgc
    @rembeadgc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He, at one point, basically shared that you don't know what you have that's truly valuable until everything is taken from you and all you have left is the awareness of being. There is nothing more valuable or meaningful than being.

    • @MKTElM
      @MKTElM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does this mean that one's sanity is our most valuable possession?

    • @rembeadgc
      @rembeadgc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MKTElM No...being. Being, as opposed to not being, is our most valuable possession. None of us has anything else conceivably close to the value of being. Certainly, without being, you can have nothing else. Without being, there is no you.

    • @MKTElM
      @MKTElM 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rembeadgc Religious people believe being is a gift . If you like , a minor ephemeral being contingent on Being.

    • @rembeadgc
      @rembeadgc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MKTElM I believe every human is religious, because every human is essentially spiritual. I believe religion is however a human tries to nurture their spirituality. I believe whether something is considered a gift or not depends on the relationship between the giver and the receiver. I also believe that "being" is not extinguishable, but eternal. I believe that only the earthly "assignments" that manifest as "self" are temporary, unless, at some point, are glorified and made eternal. So, that's why I believe being is the most valuable thing all humans are given when they enter existence. I believe being is eternal, but not individual consciousness.

    • @bethbartlett5692
      @bethbartlett5692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the event your interested, My Comment Copy:
      *Here's a "Researched" Perspective that few have realized:*
      When one comes into their Awakened State and seek the greater fundamental Truths, (mine heavily found and influenced by the "Universal Laws", particularly the *"Universal Law of Attraction"* *(and the very depths of what this Law defines, what it means, and the Abundance of this Law's literal function and all that it touches, being every life form, everyday, 24/7),* through all of this and it's defining, it's meanings, *"I found the greater available clarity, understanding, and secure knowing relative to this 3D World, myself, others, the Physical and the Nonphysical, (our Souls defined as energy, and extension from the whole, the Source Energy, i.e., God, Creator of all that is, and with the fact the "Law of Attraction" defined, being that *"all that is, all ever manifested into material form, matter, in this 3D Reality, first requires THOUGHT"!"*
      There you have, there it is, i.e., *"The Bang came 2nd", and you are the energy called the Soul, and energy is eternal, never can it be created nor destroyed "it merely changes form" thus this is conveying that: *"You and I and all Life Energies are Eternal, and death is not a dying of the individual, it is a Transition to Nonphysical",* only the "vessel" expires.
      This is the information, definition, and the meanings interpreted, and it is Science, also it can be found scattered through Ancient Texts, fragmented in various Religions, where I feel certain it once existed in clear statements, yet it is and when one discovers this understanding they transform into a State of Realization, that which follows or is the greater goal of the Awakened State.
      One may take this and go to the task of validating through research and establish their own perspective. I encourage this, for another's truth is merely hearsay until the points are verified.
      I rest my point.
      My areas of degrees are in: Sociology, Journalism, and History/Ancient History, with post grad studies and research, including the general comprehension of Quantum Physics, statements, studies, and principals.
      It has become apparent that we have memory gaps, and a continued relearning if what has already been known.
      We do not live in a linear Evolution, rather it has cyclic patterns, and expanded potentials.
      Master the Ego/Lower Mind with a habit of being Conscious in Thought + Applying Higher Mind, then practice the "Law of Attraction" for the more desired and I feel intended, Life Journey Experiences.
      The remaining will be realized in time, and for certain upon transition to Nonphysical.
      I can, with confidence say, on a larger measure, regarding us "Modern Humans", the we, I, you, *"Not out 1st Ballgame"!*
      Open Mind and discern, with Logic, the variance between: "Stories and Peer Reviewed Science", "Facts vs Theory", 'Textbooks aren't Bibles", and *"Literally, Anything is possible + Logic can apply"*
      For doubtful minds, begin with the *"Blind Slit Experiment"*, add *"Spooky at a Distance" (Quantum Entanglement)*
      Do the searches and read/watch/listen, to the Facts, "then establish your Beliefs.
      Goodnight Chet ...
      Beth
      (Sociologist, Historian, Researcher)
      🗝️🔮☀️
      Tennessee, USA

  • @jcm5171
    @jcm5171 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This man is amazing. The essence and the potential can only be seen through love : so important. His insights and methods are remarkable and very helpful! He hasn't had a chance to research animal individual uniqueness, essence and potential apparently but he couldn't possibly do it all, and we owe Dr Frankl a great deal.

  • @michaelmcdonald4021
    @michaelmcdonald4021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I wrote this one morning while looking out the window in state prison. "As I contemplate the day ahead and await the morning sun, Staring out through razor wire which seems to restrict my fun, These bars that are on my window I know so very well, my life in living bondage from the depths of eternal hell. By opening up my eyes, to my amazement what I see, this day is what I make of it its truly up to me. In gazing at the vastness of my great big prison yard, perhaps I find a purpose and a meaning not too hard. The seen is now upon me to start a brighter day, this idle time of prison life begins to melt away. My days a little brighter as I watch the morning sky, to deny my newfound vision I'd be telling you a lie. Perhaps I'm not in prison as bad as it did seem, there are no bars, there is no fence, it's nothing but a dream. I'm breaking out of prison this prison in my mind, I feel that I'm more thankful and more loving of mankind... Namaste 🙏. Michael...

    • @jimosborne2
      @jimosborne2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got it! How are U doing today, Michael?

    • @chem7553
      @chem7553 ปีที่แล้ว

      :)

    • @michaelmcdonald4021
      @michaelmcdonald4021 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jimosborne2 blessed

    • @jimosborne2
      @jimosborne2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@michaelmcdonald4021 Nelson Mandela- following his example!!

    • @MrJohnDocHolliday
      @MrJohnDocHolliday ปีที่แล้ว

      Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl is a profound work that explores the human search for purpose and meaning, particularly in the context of the author's experiences in Nazi concentration camps during World War II. While the book offers deep insights into the human condition, it primarily focuses on existential and psychological perspectives rather than esoteric truths. Esoteric truths typically refer to hidden or mystical knowledge that transcends the ordinary understanding of reality. However, I can offer you some philosophical and existential insights from the book:
      The Search for Meaning: Frankl emphasizes that human beings have an innate desire to find meaning and purpose in their lives. This search is essential for our well-being and can serve as a driving force to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
      Freedom of Attitude: Frankl proposes that despite external circumstances and conditions, individuals possess the freedom to choose their attitude and response to any given situation. This freedom lies in our ability to find meaning and make conscious choices.
      Meaning in Suffering: Frankl argues that even in the face of extreme suffering, individuals can find meaning and purpose. By shifting our perspective and embracing our unique circumstances, we can transform suffering into an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
      Responsibility and Authenticity: The book highlights the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and living authentically. We have the power to shape our attitudes, actions, and responses, which ultimately contributes to the meaning and fulfillment we find in our existence.
      Spiritual Transcendence: While not explicitly esoteric, Frankl suggests that spiritual transcendence plays a significant role in finding meaning. By connecting with something greater than ourselves, whether through religion, nature, art, or love, we can tap into a deeper sense of purpose and meaning.
      It's important to note that "Man's Search for Meaning" primarily focuses on existential and psychological concepts rather than esoteric or mystical truths. The book offers profound insights into the human condition, resilience, and the quest for meaning in life, drawing from Viktor Frankl's personal experiences and his work as a psychiatrist.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @destonlee2838
    @destonlee2838 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an honor to check in with Dr. Franklin. I had the blessing of working with one of his students a few years back. Such a light in this world!

  • @huntsail3727
    @huntsail3727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interviews like this are what make TH-cam great. Where else can one hear directly from a giant like Viktor Frankl. Amazing!

  • @theprimalpitch190
    @theprimalpitch190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow! So moving and so wise. I must go back and re-read Man's Search for Meaning!

  • @KidsLearnHTML
    @KidsLearnHTML 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for uploading this! After reading Man's Search for Meaning, the fact that made it to the ripe age of 92 is a God ordained miracle.

  • @adcan1371
    @adcan1371 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I truly appreciate it when he says that there can be a very deep sense of security from understanding that the past can never be undone if you use it to find meaning.

  • @annainnsaei4681
    @annainnsaei4681 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a brilliant evolved human being our beloved Viktor Frankl could reach the depth of what life meaning is overall 🙏❤️

  • @tabularasa7711
    @tabularasa7711 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This idea of the impossibility of losing or annihilating that which is experienced - positive or negative - is close to the Buddhist insight around karmic actions and the law of causality.

  • @cavaleer
    @cavaleer ปีที่แล้ว +7

    For those unable or without the historical knowledge to digest Nietzsche, this guy is a good starting point. His real life life and death survival experiences give him an extremely unique and profound understanding of the root causes of Life.

  • @LizbethPlenty
    @LizbethPlenty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Changing anything for the better absolutely makes a difference.
    Positive. Thank you dear Viktor God bless you and family. You mean a lot to me , child of Holocaust survivors now trying to remain calm regarding fire.
    Thank you for your service and kindness. You have helped so many.

  • @teej783
    @teej783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Viktor Frankl is a genius. Read his book titled Man's Search for Meaning. His surviving the Holocaust changed his perspective on conventional psychology.

  • @db-333
    @db-333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beauty and truth gives hope , and restores a broken heart 💔 🙏🏻

  • @OMEGALFA.
    @OMEGALFA. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:21 THE PAST IS FOREVER. This is both troubling and infinitely comforting.

  • @QuixEnd
    @QuixEnd ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He helped me answer the hardest questions that kept me stunlocked for 2 years. What in the heck is life doing if it's nothing but physical pain and suffering? How can you know that the odds of survival are so low, that you're only surviving to suffer another day, and YET continue fighting on??? It made absolutely no sense to me until his book

    • @lisamoag6548
      @lisamoag6548 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I live to fight another day.”
      My purpose is to Love and Be loved.
      I am a beloved woman of my Father God.
      That is enough.

  • @howardkoore8863
    @howardkoore8863 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I read the book 30 years ago, and it was one of the most powerful books I have ever read.

  • @Don-co9zs
    @Don-co9zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Balance your mind with your heart. Know your heart. Keep it simple. Spend some time with yourself.don't worry about the mind it'll just confuse you like all the people who study it.

    • @helenamaria710
      @helenamaria710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I agree. Keep it simple and forget about 'figuring it out'.

    • @meursault7030
      @meursault7030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What do people even mean when they talk about "following their heart" or "knowing their heart"? Going off emotions? Cuz honestly that's stupid.

    • @bw2442
      @bw2442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meursault you will never know till you spend time with yourself, just learning how to BE and quit getting meaning from doing.

    • @meursault7030
      @meursault7030 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bw2442 That's a bit presumtuous. I spent about 2 and a half years total solitary. How's that for spending time with myself?

    • @tonyrandall3146
      @tonyrandall3146 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meursault7030 The seeming dichotomy between affectation and cognition must be purposeful.

  • @Manifestresponsibly
    @Manifestresponsibly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I believe that we should always be observant to what is happening within our experience and seek out opportunities to either appreciate what is or provide assistance to what can be.

  • @ResilientGrind
    @ResilientGrind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Victor Frankl is my hero! 😎When I suffer in any situation- I remember his book “You know which one” and my suffering leaves me by laughing at me 😆

  • @kec7116
    @kec7116 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Someone wrote that Herbert Marcuse fled the Nazis in Germany to the safe haven of the US and as a thank you he set out to destroy our country. The more I learn of him, the more I agree. Meanwhile, Frankl stayed in Austria. He stayed was tortured, lost his family, and returned to teaching in Vienna. He overcame the horrific victimization of his humanity and gave us a theory to regain ours.

  • @davidrowe9402
    @davidrowe9402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I knew nothing of him, and came to his book after a recommendation by Jimmy Kimmel. ...a good tale in itself...
    One of the best books I have read.

    • @susanwale8887
      @susanwale8887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Two of his books where the first I read after I lost my husband, he dissapeared and was never found. They have helped me so much, that was the beginning of my Search to my inner Self.

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Never imagine Kimmel read such a profound book of the human history. Respect.

    • @MrJohnDocHolliday
      @MrJohnDocHolliday ปีที่แล้ว

      Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl is a profound work that explores the human search for purpose and meaning, particularly in the context of the author's experiences in Nazi concentration camps during World War II. While the book offers deep insights into the human condition, it primarily focuses on existential and psychological perspectives rather than esoteric truths. Esoteric truths typically refer to hidden or mystical knowledge that transcends the ordinary understanding of reality. However, I can offer you some philosophical and existential insights from the book:
      The Search for Meaning: Frankl emphasizes that human beings have an innate desire to find meaning and purpose in their lives. This search is essential for our well-being and can serve as a driving force to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
      Freedom of Attitude: Frankl proposes that despite external circumstances and conditions, individuals possess the freedom to choose their attitude and response to any given situation. This freedom lies in our ability to find meaning and make conscious choices.
      Meaning in Suffering: Frankl argues that even in the face of extreme suffering, individuals can find meaning and purpose. By shifting our perspective and embracing our unique circumstances, we can transform suffering into an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
      Responsibility and Authenticity: The book highlights the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and living authentically. We have the power to shape our attitudes, actions, and responses, which ultimately contributes to the meaning and fulfillment we find in our existence.
      Spiritual Transcendence: While not explicitly esoteric, Frankl suggests that spiritual transcendence plays a significant role in finding meaning. By connecting with something greater than ourselves, whether through religion, nature, art, or love, we can tap into a deeper sense of purpose and meaning.
      It's important to note that "Man's Search for Meaning" primarily focuses on existential and psychological concepts rather than esoteric or mystical truths. The book offers profound insights into the human condition, resilience, and the quest for meaning in life, drawing from Viktor Frankl's personal experiences and his work as a psychiatrist.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @souljacem
    @souljacem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This man is a pure genuis and a truly loving soul.

  • @dakjensen7130
    @dakjensen7130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ive thought how many times have i wandered blind suffering, and fear entering about future pain to come.
    But the last part of Victor's comments were beautiful to me, no suffering is in vain, and at 62 years old looking back i wouldn't change a thing.

  • @alleycatiron4395
    @alleycatiron4395 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the most serious episode of "between two ferns" ive seen yet. Fantastic.

  • @dianam.4736
    @dianam.4736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Why do so many interviewers never listen and acknowledge the answers to their questions and instead move on automatically to their next question on their list like robots? That is the opposite of good communication.

    • @BeOutstanding
      @BeOutstanding 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Back in the old days, they have limited time for video and audio recording.

    • @janosk8392
      @janosk8392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The interviewers role is to set up the plaform for the interviewee to speak.

    • @heartexplained
      @heartexplained 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They don’t listen

    • @english5895
      @english5895 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true!!! I ask myself the same question all the time.

  • @thecommonsensecapricorn
    @thecommonsensecapricorn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    for better and for worse, I've always had a somewhat delusional optimism for myself and my future. it started as a defense mechanism, as I was always daydreaming and writing stories in my childhood (to deal with the pain of my home life) but it's helped me a lot in adulthood. I see friends struggle with it and it makes me recognize how naturally it comes to me, to just believe things will work out.

    • @monicap8208
      @monicap8208 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen❤

  • @davidjohnbonnett
    @davidjohnbonnett 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have just finished Man's Search for Meaning for a second time. It upset me again in places, but I know I need to read it and know it well.
    It would be great if everyone could read it.

  • @Ranting4Rent
    @Ranting4Rent ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It all starts from within. Imagination dreams to goals to work to success. This video is probably the best way to think of what the past is. I love it

  • @bjs9354
    @bjs9354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I read "Mans Search for Meaning"..how to maintain hope in the most horrendous situations. I am in complete awe of the strength of this man and what a legacy to leave behind.

    • @HonchHeado
      @HonchHeado ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah me too you can find meaning in the simplest of things. He would be horrified today to see that most peoples meaning is money.

    • @bitkurd
      @bitkurd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HonchHeadothere is meaning in money. You can find meaning in everything. What’s wrong with wanting to have lots of money? It gives many fellows a purpose to live for. You think you have found the ultimate truth?

    • @HonchHeado
      @HonchHeado ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bitkurd There is nothing wrong with money, its just a thing like a chair. Its how you get it and use it. If you steal a chair and bash someone over the head with it, that is bad. If you buy a chair and sit on it, that is good.

  • @narayanasrikanthreddyg
    @narayanasrikanthreddyg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Self actualization is a by product of doing something meaningful. Just by preaching about self actualization, you don't get self actualization but by working towards something meaningful, by mentoring the people you love into reaching their potential .
    "Meaning" and Values : Creative values (meaning through deed or action ie karma yoga) attitudinal values(if you cant take action or experience then a change in attitude to the situation ie we have nothing to lose except our ridiculously naked lives ie the art of being than posessing and the past cannot be undone) and experiential values (no action but just observing the beauty, truth, good = satyam shivam sundaram)
    Importance of beloved person in self actualization and importance of love. ie the beloved mentor or guru in people

  • @hauntedmoodylady
    @hauntedmoodylady 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I read his book 'Man's Search for Meaning' many years ago, and re-read it. I'm thankful I came upon it at the time, I knew, I could, and did benefit from it, the difficult times I was going through was nothing compared to his time in a death camp. I can yet, recall the last 2-3 minutes of subject matter he describes in this video from the book. I recommend his book....

  • @barbarahourigan8462
    @barbarahourigan8462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for posting this - so valuable.

  • @anniebootboot
    @anniebootboot ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finding meaning in experiencing something and/or someone

  • @Stepan8511
    @Stepan8511 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! That got me.
    That is why Frankl is quoted so much

  • @ritabrophy3755
    @ritabrophy3755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    His book Man’s Search For Meaning was one of the best books I’ve read.