Thank you very much for share this knowledge with us , I’m Spanish and I move to the UK because my girlfriend at the time , she speak Spanish so never have the need to learn English till I move here and my pronunciation is atrocious, just hope that this communication skill course can guide me to a better way to use my mouth and body when I speak , again thank you very much for this opportunity
Yeah being autistic really gives you the short end of the stick when assholes like this exist that emphasize how important not being autistic is to being successful.
Dayum he was demonstrating his teachings while he was speaking them out. Esecially the eelongation, and throwing the words away part. Spectacular orator of modern times.
Most of the time i talk in a neutral voice, i dont know how it happend and i dont even hear it but i would like to get emotion in my voice, im glad i found this channel
This is how i learnt to sing. I went from nails on a chalkboard to Walter Coel in a year by projecting my voice and feeling the song im singing. It helps to find songs that resinate with your life and emotions. ❤
In this very video he used not only the tone, but also a legato-staccato rule, and the adjusting speed rule. The more I watch this guy speaking, the more I enjoy discovering his rules to be so much functional. Big respect Vinh!
Exactly I find my monotone voice calm and relaxing. When I was a child I used to have great tone as I am growing my tone is going away, now I don’t have a tone is there some kind of reason behind it.
wow you have helped me alot i have a speech infront of my schools parents principle and many more people im practising from you vids and hopefully i get chosen to to the speech this channel is amazing and i will update if i got chosen
Dude!!!! I just came online to share this with you: Please read Seduction by Robert greene. You are right. The greatest people in history or most influential had great control over their voice. You gonna love it!! Anyway, not done reading. Good luck!
I tuuuuune out and dismisssss anyone who speaks this waaayy. Emotion in speech like that means you're listening to an unstable person in my expeeeeeriehhhnce.
In my language Somali words are not just words they also carrie emotions and expression. That's why some languages have rhythm and feeling to it like the latin language and some other languages words are matter fact and pricise and robotic.
Ye that first in this video is what i need ty (sometimes they want to speak without feeling it or i make bad attention when i have feel in sound but i see that people just want me to be worst in everything without tellinf me directly but being distractions to me)
I was just about to say that. It's a natural part of our speech. And we are very conscious of it because we don't just listen to the words but also tone. Because tone can tell its own story of the intent or true feelings of the speaker. And we grow up getting corrected on our tone if it comes across rude or disrespectful etc. But we are the soul/sol people so there's always layers to everything 🥰
@@Prod.Pumpkinwhat’s so weird is if you said that about white people people get upset. I see Asian people brag all the time as well. I mean white people invented most of the modern world and a huge amount of music from Classical to country to punk rock to folk to doomwop (which people think wad black but it was inspired by white barbershop quartets and the doowop cord progression was first seen in the jazz album made by a white artist called Blue Moon. Though if you want to say jazz was black so that’s black the cord progression was also present in classical music to some degree.) But just classical music alone covers most soundtracks for every movie ever. Now is country music and classical and so on not full of soul?
@@ready2learn304pretty sure all races use tone. I mean people use tone with animals, when being sarcastic, when surprised. That’s a human thing. Clearly there’s no one race that uses tone while talking.
Some of us are autistic, Brodie. I’m good at this for a short period of time or if I’m in company I’m comfortable with, but beyond that all that inflection wears me out.
As someone with high functioning depression & borderline autistic traits, monotonality when speaking & lack of facial expression is always something I've struggled with
Thank God someone else is talking about this! Essential for native speakers of English to understand us. In Spanish, more meaning comes from the grammar because there are 5 verb tenses and thousands of conjugations, plus gender in nouns. English has 2 verb tenses, no conjugation at all practically, and no gender for objects. But... we do have stress-timed rhythm and we are allowed to move stress around in a phrase and elongate the tonic vowel sound in a word. Spanish is very musical but doesn't have these characteristics. Spanish speakers will automatically gravitate to the verb phrase as where the party is. Plus romance languages focus more on form than pragmatics, they have all that form to play with! The beauty rather than the meaning of a language is probably more important for these cultures. French is beautiful and if not spoken beautifully, I imagine the French native speaker would wonder why you'd bother. It's all in the form. So, difficult but not impossible to get these ideas across to Spanish speakers. Similar to the French, they believe language is grammar. And in Spanish it kind of is. If the person has an open mind, then no problem. They will accept that all languages are different with their special resources available for playing with. And they'll celebrate that rather than shutting down.
For Vietnamese , we can pronounce the tone without emotion and feeling so easily because the particular tone is compulsory to pronounce the word properly because when we change the tone , the meaning will change completely(là lã lả la lá for English are the same but for Vietnamese these are five completely different words with completely different meaning).
Our words and body language DEPENDS on 👇 *The "intensity" of our emotions we feel* And the emotions we feel originates from THOUGHTS So How to become Master of communication skills ?? By getting CLARITY in your thoughts !!! More clear your thoughts are, the more stronger shall be your communication skills
I can't shake the feeling that this is just lying. I naturally inject tone like that when I'm very passionate/interested in what I'm talking about, or emotional. If I spoke like that all the time it would sound like I'm always passionate/interested/emotional about everything I'm talking about, even mundane things, which would just be dishonest. Like I'm giving a speech constantly. Mediatrained people sound so fake to me. Like I can't even take The rock seriously or trust anything he says because he's such a great mediatrained speaker and actor. Same with everyone in Hollywood. If they're having a bad day you would never know. THAT is what makes it hard for me to connect with them, and easier for me to connect with someone like Destiny who just "throws all the words away".
Does having a british or Australian acfent help? I find as a canadian the only way i can give tonality is if i sound flamboyant.. naturally we sound monotone in canada. If i do an Australian accent impression I notice my voice has more pitch, tonality and melody. Does this work for northamericans?
I think part of this also at least in American society is that everyone is programmed to have a fake polite face and voice to go with it. If you feel differently or speak your true mind your labeled "cocky, rude ect" everyone uses that monotone "how are you, have a good day crap lol. So we are all walking around bs ing each other. But when someone is just themselves it's refreshing and is how ppl truly connect. So let's all strive to make a difference and be our true selves even if it's not the most attractive.
"Tonality" and "tone" are terms from music theory which refer to things that are very different from what you described. In order to avoid confusion, maybe you could call what you referred to "expressiveness" or something else?
I feel like it would be forced otherwise people would naturally have tonality because they actually like what they are saying or they are saying what they are feeling instead of the other way around. Feelings precede words
Also guys make sure to talk slower so people can have time to process what you’re saying. Take Ben Shapiro for example, he tries to say very important things yet he says it so fast you don’t have time to even process what he said. Plus the slower you talk the less likely someone will cut you off.
But everyone I meet pays more attention to my words rather than my tone.. My tone gets higher when I'm happy or confused and most people forget or ignore that and focus on my wording instead.. It sucks because I'm a teenager who grew up around fowl words and tones so I'm not used to hearing what words are considered to sound nicer together so I often upset people, not because of my tone but because my words aren't big words or words that make sense or literally anything.. I put some words together or rush words and somehow the person things I'm trying to guilt trip them into feeling bad and thinking they rushed me and made me upset even when I'm using my high happy tone of voice.. They believe my tone means nothing to my wording when in reality my wording means nothing to my tone
I heard someone doing an instructional video. Every sentence started off high pitched and ended low pitched. It was noticeable to me and I'm a novice. Is that way of speaking 'a thing'? I have a very recognizable voice (many people say) but I've had a woman say she doesn't like my voice. My way of speaking is naturally me. It is not effected.
Dont you think this sometimes might feel too much? Like it's nice when you are on a stage in room of 100 people but if you are I a meeting with 4 or 5 people doesn't that feel weirdly awkward and exaggerated . I want to sound better in room of 5. How to?
My 3 Part Communication Skills Course:
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@@commentfaxIt worked for me just now.
Thank you very much for share this knowledge with us , I’m Spanish and I move to the UK because my girlfriend at the time , she speak Spanish so never have the need to learn English till I move here and my pronunciation is atrocious, just hope that this communication skill course can guide me to a better way to use my mouth and body when I speak , again thank you very much for this opportunity
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Most people don't realize how important the tone is while talking
I'm autistic so I've always been super monotone with just 0 tone
@@WhatsIQ as a fellow autistic, I don't even know how to comprehend talking to people
Yeah being autistic really gives you the short end of the stick when assholes like this exist that emphasize how important not being autistic is to being successful.
It takes a lot of confidence though and I'm not great at talking to people anyway
Fr. Tone can make a disrespectful sentence into a joke or a respectful sentence into an offensive one.
Thank you Vinh.
Dayum he was demonstrating his teachings while he was speaking them out. Esecially the eelongation, and throwing the words away part. Spectacular orator of modern times.
I like the way you said "throw them all away" quickly, as if you are literally throwing the words away
It's been 3 days already I applied it at first my friends laugh their ass off but now they are adapting 😂
It’s so pleasant to hear this guy, so much presence, I wanna sound like him
You are so right about throwing words away! Using inflection to connect with others is so important. Love this!
When i become rich, i will send 1 million dolllars to this guy.
Same man
There's no need to send me 1 million dollars - help those around you in your family and your community
@@askvinh oh oops, can you send it back then?
@@wtfgebeurdmij2991 😂😂😂
@@wtfgebeurdmij2991lol leuke gebruikersnaam
So this is why every elementary school teacher is so captivating.
Step 1: Have an exotic accent
Step 2: Have a iconic hairstyle
He just has the tom Scott accent
It’s just a regular Aussie accent to be fair
And make sure to button your shirt up ( with out a tie ) to the top button for no reason
he is a master of nonverbal communication
Step 3: Use emphasis when speaking
I think tonality is vibeing and trying to resonate your feelings and emotions into the words
Thanks!
Nice. I see the benefit in this in the social service field, and with communicating in general. God's Love and Blessings.
I love the cleverness of this guys teaching. How he speaks fast when he says we throw all the words away. Bruh perfecto
Great observations and brilliant demonstration of what you're talking about.
Agreed!
Most of the time i talk in a neutral voice, i dont know how it happend and i dont even hear it but i would like to get emotion in my voice, im glad i found this channel
This is how i learnt to sing. I went from nails on a chalkboard to Walter Coel in a year by projecting my voice and feeling the song im singing. It helps to find songs that resinate with your life and emotions. ❤
In this very video he used not only the tone, but also a legato-staccato rule, and the adjusting speed rule. The more I watch this guy speaking, the more I enjoy discovering his rules to be so much functional. Big respect Vinh!
Cool
Never heard that theory.
Wow! This is also very important when we speak a foreign language. Excellent!!
My monotone voice could never
I love mono tone voices, I find them very soothing & relaxing!☺️
Exactly I find my monotone voice calm and relaxing.
When I was a child I used to have great tone as I am growing my tone is going away, now I don’t have a tone is there some kind of reason behind it.
I don't know. My bully would mock me in a monotone voice, which makes me question if life worths living.
@@ajasilikonreffkmimmonhell yeah it obviously is one bully doesn't change your life
@@Rohannn0007 I do think he deliberately talks that way to bother me.
Learnt a lot in 30seconds thanks
Thats how your words have power fasho ive felt it when i acknowledged it
Gosh! This is impactful
Bravo Vinh .
wow you have helped me alot i have a speech infront of my schools parents principle and many more people im practising from you vids and hopefully i get chosen to to the speech this channel is amazing and i will update if i got chosen
That makes sense.💯
Dude!!!! I just came online to share this with you: Please read Seduction by Robert greene. You are right. The greatest people in history or most influential had great control over their voice. You gonna love it!! Anyway, not done reading. Good luck!
I’m currently realizing how important this is
I am from India but I am a Bihari still I can understand clearly what you try to make understand you are gorgeous 😍
Just watching you speak as you elucidate your point is a masterclass.
That cadence while talking about throwing the words away. Brilliant. Truly grateful for your channel.
Cheer~~~a musical or vocal sound with reference to its pitch, quality, and strength.😊
Thanks for these videos, really helps me articulate the lessons I teach my team. especially in our sector where story telling is a crucial aspect.
I tuuuuune out and dismisssss anyone who speaks this waaayy. Emotion in speech like that means you're listening to an unstable person in my expeeeeeriehhhnce.
I started trying this out and people ask why I look so anxious 24/7....
Love the suit!
That,s exactly what my problem is!
In my language Somali words are not just words they also carrie emotions and expression. That's why some languages have rhythm and feeling to it like the latin language and some other languages words are matter fact and pricise and robotic.
Every video is like revision of earlier lessons. I love them. Succinct, practical, amazing lessons. Thank you ❤
Well this is no problem for me. As I always speak with feelings and tonality. 👍
That suit with the brown shoes and the blonde hair is a nice combination
Ye that first in this video is what i need ty (sometimes they want to speak without feeling it or i make bad attention when i have feel in sound but i see that people just want me to be worst in everything without tellinf me directly but being distractions to me)
Most African-Americans tend to be gifted in this.
They’re gifted at everything these days 😂
I was just about to say that. It's a natural part of our speech. And we are very conscious of it because we don't just listen to the words but also tone. Because tone can tell its own story of the intent or true feelings of the speaker. And we grow up getting corrected on our tone if it comes across rude or disrespectful etc. But we are the soul/sol people so there's always layers to everything 🥰
Yeah I feel like white southern people also have this and probably others but only black people are allowed to brag about stuff.
@@Prod.Pumpkinwhat’s so weird is if you said that about white people people get upset. I see Asian people brag all the time as well. I mean white people invented most of the modern world and a huge amount of music from Classical to country to punk rock to folk to doomwop (which people think wad black but it was inspired by white barbershop quartets and the doowop cord progression was first seen in the jazz album made by a white artist called Blue Moon. Though if you want to say jazz was black so that’s black the cord progression was also present in classical music to some degree.) But just classical music alone covers most soundtracks for every movie ever. Now is country music and classical and so on not full of soul?
@@ready2learn304pretty sure all races use tone. I mean people use tone with animals, when being sarcastic, when surprised. That’s a human thing. Clearly there’s no one race that uses tone while talking.
Not me reading all the comments normally and then again with more tonality lol great advice mr Vinh!
Some of us are autistic, Brodie. I’m good at this for a short period of time or if I’m in company I’m comfortable with, but beyond that all that inflection wears me out.
Lack of tonality doesn't always mean stubborness. Some people fail to include it in their speech because they are very ANXIOUS😨.
I like this! 😄
Also using hand gestures and body movements help as well
Your an amazing teacher 👏 vinh
Fantastic Vinh. Can you cover adjusting nasality?
As someone with high functioning depression & borderline autistic traits, monotonality when speaking & lack of facial expression is always something I've struggled with
How often do you change your hairstyle, Vinh? You look so attractive and different in various clips?
Thank God someone else is talking about this! Essential for native speakers of English to understand us. In Spanish, more meaning comes from the grammar because there are 5 verb tenses and thousands of conjugations, plus gender in nouns. English has 2 verb tenses, no conjugation at all practically, and no gender for objects. But... we do have stress-timed rhythm and we are allowed to move stress around in a phrase and elongate the tonic vowel sound in a word. Spanish is very musical but doesn't have these characteristics. Spanish speakers will automatically gravitate to the verb phrase as where the party is. Plus romance languages focus more on form than pragmatics, they have all that form to play with! The beauty rather than the meaning of a language is probably more important for these cultures. French is beautiful and if not spoken beautifully, I imagine the French native speaker would wonder why you'd bother. It's all in the form. So, difficult but not impossible to get these ideas across to Spanish speakers. Similar to the French, they believe language is grammar. And in Spanish it kind of is. If the person has an open mind, then no problem. They will accept that all languages are different with their special resources available for playing with. And they'll celebrate that rather than shutting down.
Can we have techniques for adopting tonality and melody in our speech?
For Vietnamese , we can pronounce the tone without emotion and feeling so easily because the particular tone is compulsory to pronounce the word properly because when we change the tone , the meaning will change completely(là lã lả la lá for English are the same but for Vietnamese these are five completely different words with completely different meaning).
2pac was a master at that , I invite you all to listen to Tupac if you like this subject that way you can see how he does it poetical wise
Working on feeling my words ...inject bit of emotions tonality
It is stupid, but it worked you can change your voice, between my first video and last one there is a huge difference.
I love this
I like your style
Tonality Ferguson: "Hold on I'm feeling brother"
I love this guy
Feeling when speaking. OK 👌
Absolutely true❤
Thanks for the video 🎉🎉🎉
You are a star
Our words and body language DEPENDS on 👇
*The "intensity" of our emotions we feel*
And the emotions we feel originates from THOUGHTS
So How to become Master of communication skills ??
By getting CLARITY in your thoughts !!!
More clear your thoughts are, the more stronger shall be your communication skills
Thanks 🎉🎉
This is very good
I learned so much from you in this past year. Thank you.
I can't shake the feeling that this is just lying. I naturally inject tone like that when I'm very passionate/interested in what I'm talking about, or emotional. If I spoke like that all the time it would sound like I'm always passionate/interested/emotional about everything I'm talking about, even mundane things, which would just be dishonest. Like I'm giving a speech constantly. Mediatrained people sound so fake to me. Like I can't even take The rock seriously or trust anything he says because he's such a great mediatrained speaker and actor. Same with everyone in Hollywood. If they're having a bad day you would never know. THAT is what makes it hard for me to connect with them, and easier for me to connect with someone like Destiny who just "throws all the words away".
This is one reason I don't enjoy communicating via text. No way to inject tonality and some things can be taken the wrong way.
he's so handsome i wanna die
Yeahhh thatssss trueee
Ohhhh I geeet it nowwww!
GREAT MESSEGE!!!😮😮
Dude born with perfect time tries to teach others how to have it
I have a senior manager who uses tonality alot. He sounds like he is saying important stuff but when you break it down its nothing of importance.
Does having a british or Australian acfent help? I find as a canadian the only way i can give tonality is if i sound flamboyant.. naturally we sound monotone in canada. If i do an Australian accent impression I notice my voice has more pitch, tonality and melody. Does this work for northamericans?
Just googled it, Australian accent, originally from Vietnam
I think part of this also at least in American society is that everyone is programmed to have a fake polite face and voice to go with it. If you feel differently or speak your true mind your labeled "cocky, rude ect" everyone uses that monotone "how are you, have a good day crap lol. So we are all walking around bs ing each other. But when someone is just themselves it's refreshing and is how ppl truly connect. So let's all strive to make a difference and be our true selves even if it's not the most attractive.
Noticed it when you said "elongate the vowel"
Like how the mustache man made millions to follow
"Tonality" and "tone" are terms from music theory which refer to things that are very different from what you described. In order to avoid confusion, maybe you could call what you referred to "expressiveness" or something else?
Can someone tell me the name of the full video of this clip?
What if one has too much tone? The passionate people.
What if i already speak slowly
Brilliant
I feel like it would be forced otherwise people would naturally have tonality because they actually like what they are saying or they are saying what they are feeling instead of the other way around. Feelings precede words
I think constantly being around people you feel free to say anything to helps.
Also guys make sure to talk slower so people can have time to process what you’re saying. Take Ben Shapiro for example, he tries to say very important things yet he says it so fast you don’t have time to even process what he said. Plus the slower you talk the less likely someone will cut you off.
Thanks
😊nice
Awesome
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Uh... What happens to 5?
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But everyone I meet pays more attention to my words rather than my tone.. My tone gets higher when I'm happy or confused and most people forget or ignore that and focus on my wording instead.. It sucks because I'm a teenager who grew up around fowl words and tones so I'm not used to hearing what words are considered to sound nicer together so I often upset people, not because of my tone but because my words aren't big words or words that make sense or literally anything.. I put some words together or rush words and somehow the person things I'm trying to guilt trip them into feeling bad and thinking they rushed me and made me upset even when I'm using my high happy tone of voice.. They believe my tone means nothing to my wording when in reality my wording means nothing to my tone
Great! Tone....... comes from MUSIC
I heard someone doing an instructional video. Every sentence started off high pitched and ended low pitched. It was noticeable to me and I'm a novice. Is that way of speaking 'a thing'? I have a very recognizable voice (many people say) but I've had a woman say she doesn't like my voice. My way of speaking is naturally me. It is not effected.
Tonality!
Can you elaborate more on how can we do so or any exercise to improve tonality
Basically, turn on caps lock in real life when you speak.
@@ArmadilloJohn ngl, caps lock is so versatile to show emotions
@@shuutendoji Yeah.
@@ArmadilloJohn yah but i think shift + main word
@@yashrawat1232 Shift's for losers, I use caps lock and turn it off in a split second.
Then is it a reading or word comprehension issue?
Dont you think this sometimes might feel too much?
Like it's nice when you are on a stage in room of 100 people but if you are I a meeting with 4 or 5 people doesn't that feel weirdly awkward and exaggerated .
I want to sound better in room of 5. How to?
ngl sounds like tom scott the more i hear his voice