“The Four Degrees of Love” as described by St. Bernard of Clairvaux, a prominent 12th-century Cistercian monk. In his spiritual work On the Love of God, St. Bernard outlines four distinct stages of love that reflect how we grow in our relationship with God: 1. Love of Self for Self’s Sake: This is the most basic level of love, where we care for ourselves out of necessity, thinking only of our own needs. 2. Love of God for Self’s Sake: Here, we begin to love God, but mainly because of what He can do for us. It’s the love that seeks God’s help and blessings in our lives. 3. Love of God for God’s Sake: At this stage, we learn to love God for who He is, not just for the benefits He provides. This love is purer and more selfless. 4. Love of Self for God’s Sake: The highest and hardest love to achieve, where we love ourselves because we see ourselves as part of God’s creation, loved by Him.
thank you Rev Fr Ivel, for your devout reflection on St Gerard Majella. Happy feast. God bless you.
My 65th year going to St. lucy’s church in Newark for his celebration
Both their purpose was innately different yet important beyond measure. Lovely story - God Bless you Father Ivel. You are a dear friend.
Looking forward to listening to this later on today God bless you, my friend
“The Four Degrees of Love” as described by St. Bernard of Clairvaux, a prominent 12th-century Cistercian monk. In his spiritual work On the Love of God, St. Bernard outlines four distinct stages of love that reflect how we grow in our relationship with God:
1. Love of Self for Self’s Sake: This is the most basic level of love, where we care for ourselves out of necessity, thinking only of our own needs.
2. Love of God for Self’s Sake: Here, we begin to love God, but mainly because of what He can do for us. It’s the love that seeks God’s help and blessings in our lives.
3. Love of God for God’s Sake: At this stage, we learn to love God for who He is, not just for the benefits He provides. This love is purer and more selfless.
4. Love of Self for God’s Sake: The highest and hardest love to achieve, where we love ourselves because we see ourselves as part of God’s creation, loved by Him.