For the kids, you guys are very lucky to have your mom's love. She chose you guys over everything else. Please give her the best and all the love you guys can give. Not many kids are lucky like you guys. As for your father, he didn't care about you guys at all even though you guys really needed him. He can not expect you guys to love him while he loves the other kids. It doesn't work that way. The only person you guys should love and take care of is your lovely Mom that has been there for you guys since day one. Please love her as much as you guys can because life is too short
Tu siab ua ab tsis mas? Nws xaiv nws txoj hau kev as! Tsis tau muaj leejtwg yuam nws as! Yuav tu siab ces rov qab tu siab rau nws tus kheej xwb?!!! Peb cov mivnyuam hmoob mekas ntse ntse hos! Leejtwg phem tawm mus lawm, lawv hlub tsawg! Lawv hlub tus zoo tshaj!
I am glad auntie that you did not get remarried just like my mom(RIP). She did not remarried even since her husband passed away in 1969. I see all my life how majority of Hmoob women does not remarried after either being divorced or being widows that is how they are much more stronger and can survive independently without a husband or a man in their lives.
Hlub li cas zoo siab li ntawm, sib zog hlub txaus siab hlo nco li ntawm. Kev sib hlub yog ib yam kub heev yog thaum tsis muaj ib vuag dhau tag lawm tus leej twg yog tus nyob muaj txoj sia ces nws mam khuv xim thiab nco qab ras tshuav txog lub neej twb tag dhau mus ib txheej lawm os.
Ua tsaug os tus me niam laus aw... hnub no kuv hnov koj zaj neej neeg no txhawb kuv lub zog kawg nkaus. Zaj no zoo nkaug li kuv txoj kev xav zoo ib yam li koj thiab. Yeej tsis muaj ib tug hlub yus lawm tsuas yog yus cov me nyuam xwb, nrog yus tej me nyuam ua phoojywg xwb os... thov qhuas koj nawb uas koj ua tau zoo txhawb tau kuv lub zog lub neej kawg li os....
I guess this old man forgot that time is money and it matters who you invest time in. As a human being, you either get old or you died. I guess for this old man it's the earlier. People always remember those who did good to them and those who did bad to them as well. This is dude is trying to recover spilled milk, seem like it's a little too late now.
This is also my father in law’s story. He remarried to a wife that was older like him, which they can’t have kids together. He left my husband and his siblings with their mom. He went and care for the new wife’s kids. While my husband and his siblings were growing up, he didn’t visit them or have anything to do with them. But now that they are married, educated, have good careers and big homes, he cried to people that his kids didn’t care about him. Oh well, like this title, you reap what you sowed. Did not feel sorry for him for a bit. His step kids that he helped raised and care so much about can take care of him and love him in his time of needs.
I hate it when the dads divorce the wife and kids and when they old, sick, and poor they want their kids love and money! Come.on Hmong people....stop this toxic practice.
Lol. It's alright cause menyuam Hmong Meeka are different than of the past. Most are blunt and rebellious. They only care and remember about the parent that takes care them. If some old men's feelings get hurt from the honesty, they only have themselves to blame.
Picking pleasure over true love will end up a life like this guy. Don’t feel sorry for this guy at all. You’ll only receive what you gave. Can’t turn back time now.
Nyob rau hauv lub qab ntuj Nov.ntshe tsis muaj ib tug txiv Neej siab ncaj li lawm o yom.....cas lawv yuav muaj lub siab phem thiab siab qias neeg ua luaj li o hmoob ....
Tus viv ncaus aw txhob tu siab o kav tsij nyob nrog koj cov me nyuam zoo dua o mog yus twb khwv txaus yus tej me niam tub noj lawm tam sim no yus tej me nyuam twb ua tau yus tus thawm lawm twb tau zoo lawm nyob twj ywm xwb kuv twb ua poj nauj tau 15 xyoos lawm kuv yeej nyob nrog me nyuam tau zoo dua o
Tsis hais txiv losis niam. Thaum menyuam me luag vam hlub, qhua qhia thiab coj. Es yuv tsis ua yus txoj haus lwm ua txiv thiab niam. Nhriav kev khiav mus ua nkauj ua nraug ntawm lub cuab lub yig. Thaum menyuam loj tsheej neeg lawm. Laug hlub tau yus li cas ces yus tsuas yuav li ntawv xwb mas. Lub teb lub chaws yeej paub thiab ntsia ntsoov os.
I would like to dedicate this story to my Dad. I hope you're happy with who you're with. When you think of my siblings and I, just know you hurt us more than you'll ever know.
Nw yuav tu siab rau nej cov niam tub ua dab tsi na nw nim tsi muaj poj niam me nyuam li lawm lo ca nw twb xaiv nw poj niam me nyuam es nw thiaj khiav tawm ntawm nej mu lawm nev
Ib tug txiv siab phem li koj es tseem xav kom yus tuag me nyuam pam yus thiab koj twb tsis xav pam koj tus niam ne ces tsis txhob tos kom koj cov me nyuam pam koj vim koj yog txiv deb xwb twb tsis yog txiv tsev ne
This old man don't deserved any love from his children. Old man..you need love, go to your other children. You children do the right thing..applause them.
Sister, Just let go every bitterness that he created for you. Koj twb tau txais yaam kws lug pauj rua koj txuj tev ua ib leeg nam zoo rua koj cov mivnyuas lawm ces cale zoo sab hlo rua qhov ntawd es muab lub sijhawm nuav lug ENJOY rua yaav laug nuav xwb. has txug ntawm koj tug txiv ces koj cov mivnyuas twb hlub tav txivneej yawg taag lawm puab yeej paub yeej pum tas tsim nyog puab yuav ua lecaag txug theem twg rua puab txiv lawm ces ca puab maam txav txim sab ntawm puab tug kheej. txhob moog khib los yog cuam tshuam rua tej yaam ntawd koj txhale nyob tau kaajsab os.
Thaub aw koj nco ntsoov hais tias koj txoj qub hlab tawv koj tus me tub Thov kiag koj twb Tsi pub rau es koj ho yuav txawj tu siab thov kev hlub ntawm lawv ua dab tsi ma, zoo siab hlob Tsi tu siab li lawm ntag hos🙁🙁
Tus txiv tsis tsimnyog txais kev hlub vim nws twb tsis hlub lawv thiab lawv niam. Nws thiaj muab lawv tso tseg es tsuas nws tau tus tshiab xwb. Nws hlub nws tus poj laib xwb ces txhob k nws li os.
Ua neej nyob koj twb xaiv tus koj xav tau lawm cov me nyuam hlub koj tsawg los zoo koj twb tsis xaiv lawv ne hnub no koj tseem xav kom lawv hlub koj npaum li lawv niam pab tsis tau lawm os
That is all Hmoob story when the dad remarried and the children end up not loving by the biological dad and the stepmother. It is just plain sadness to be orphans!
Your husband and other men like yours did it to themselves! They should not feel bad because they have no one to blame but themselves. They deserved it!!
Deadbeat parents are like that. They come to their children when they’re in a life or death situation when their current significant other (and the other kids) want nothing to do with the matter.
Well, if this story was the other way around, you women would always find fault in men no matter what. But what ever. Don’t be bitter. Life goes on. It’s what you women would say.
We live in America now. No one can really make anyone do anything they don't want to do. If they do, it may be just to show that they are the better person. Guess for some, being the better person isn't worth it. If I have an estranged parent, I personally rather keep them as estranged.
For the kids, you guys are very lucky to have your mom's love. She chose you guys over everything else. Please give her the best and all the love you guys can give. Not many kids are lucky like you guys. As for your father, he didn't care about you guys at all even though you guys really needed him. He can not expect you guys to love him while he loves the other kids. It doesn't work that way. The only person you guys should love and take care of is your lovely Mom that has been there for you guys since day one. Please love her as much as you guys can because life is too short
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Thov hmoob cov poj niam yuav tau hloov lawv lub siab es tsis txhob mus txeeb peb ib tug niam tsev tus txiv los ua lawv tus.. Ib yam ab tsis twg tsis yog nws tug yeej tsis yog li. Vajtswv tsuas pub ib leeg ib tug xwb es txhob mus txhav lawv tus li. Txhob cia cov txiv neej tabsis yog siab dev muab peb cov poj niam tsim txom nawb!!!!!
You reap what you sow hmong men...
Koj hais yog lawm peb cov uas yog menyuam niam yeejmeem coj kom tau li koj thiaj tsim nyog yug los ua niam rau peb tej menyuam mog
Tu siab ua ab tsis mas? Nws xaiv nws txoj hau kev as! Tsis tau muaj leejtwg yuam nws as! Yuav tu siab ces rov qab tu siab rau nws tus kheej xwb?!!! Peb cov mivnyuam hmoob mekas ntse ntse hos! Leejtwg phem tawm mus lawm, lawv hlub tsawg! Lawv hlub tus zoo tshaj!
ok yog li koj hais tias.
Vajtswv ibleeg thiaj hlub peb xwb. Txhob tos ib tug neeg txiv neej los hlub koj os
I am glad auntie that you did not get remarried just like my mom(RIP). She did not remarried even since her husband passed away in 1969. I see all my life how majority of Hmoob women does not remarried after either being divorced or being widows that is how they are much more stronger and can survive independently without a husband or a man in their lives.
Thank Goodness! I'm just glad her children loves her even with a jack up father.
Hlub li cas zoo siab li ntawm, sib zog hlub txaus siab hlo nco li ntawm. Kev sib hlub yog ib yam kub heev yog thaum tsis muaj ib vuag dhau tag lawm tus leej twg yog tus nyob muaj txoj sia ces nws mam khuv xim thiab nco qab ras tshuav txog lub neej twb tag dhau mus ib txheej lawm os.
Ua tsaug os tus me niam laus aw... hnub no kuv hnov koj zaj neej neeg no txhawb kuv lub zog kawg nkaus. Zaj no zoo nkaug li kuv txoj kev xav zoo ib yam li koj thiab. Yeej tsis muaj ib tug hlub yus lawm tsuas yog yus cov me nyuam xwb, nrog yus tej me nyuam ua phoojywg xwb os... thov qhuas koj nawb uas koj ua tau zoo txhawb tau kuv lub zog lub neej kawg li os....
Cov me nyuam nej hlub yog lawm os leejtwg hlub yus ces yus hlub tus ntawv
She's so smart
I guess this old man forgot that time is money and it matters who you invest time in. As a human being, you either get old or you died. I guess for this old man it's the earlier. People always remember those who did good to them and those who did bad to them as well. This is dude is trying to recover spilled milk, seem like it's a little too late now.
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Neeg tsis sawm tau neej zoo, thiaj nrhiav kev liam. Nws yeej txaus2 siab tso txhua yam tseg tsuav tau tus nws hlub xwb ces, txhob ntshaw thiab khuvxim ntxiv.
Luag hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub luag li ntawv xwb mas mog
This is also my father in law’s story. He remarried to a wife that was older like him, which they can’t have kids together. He left my husband and his siblings with their mom. He went and care for the new wife’s kids. While my husband and his siblings were growing up, he didn’t visit them or have anything to do with them. But now that they are married, educated, have good careers and big homes, he cried to people that his kids didn’t care about him. Oh well, like this title, you reap what you sowed. Did not feel sorry for him for a bit. His step kids that he helped raised and care so much about can take care of him and love him in his time of needs.
I hate it when the dads divorce the wife and kids and when they old, sick, and poor they want their kids love and money! Come.on Hmong people....stop this toxic practice.
Lol. It's alright cause menyuam Hmong Meeka are different than of the past. Most are blunt and rebellious. They only care and remember about the parent that takes care them. If some old men's feelings get hurt from the honesty, they only have themselves to blame.
It’s not just hmoob. Regular things between divorced parents and children.
Be prosperous, do not collect trash but good heart from people n treasure
Picking pleasure over true love will end up a life like this guy. Don’t feel sorry for this guy at all. You’ll only receive what you gave. Can’t turn back time now.
You have a heart of gold 💛 thank you for sharing your wisdom and story
Pab koj zoo zoo siab li os
Nyob rau hauv lub qab ntuj Nov.ntshe tsis muaj ib tug txiv Neej siab ncaj li lawm o yom.....cas lawv yuav muaj lub siab phem thiab siab qias neeg ua luaj li o hmoob ....
You made the right decision to stay with your children! I am proud of you!
Nyob zoo od niam lau ...kv nyiam mloog koj cov dab neeg heev li od.
Niam laus me kj zaj neej neeg nag mo nrov tsis zoo rov qab hais dua
Tus viv ncaus aw txhob tu siab o kav tsij nyob nrog koj cov me nyuam zoo dua o mog yus twb khwv txaus yus tej me niam tub noj lawm tam sim no yus tej me nyuam twb ua tau yus tus thawm lawm twb tau zoo lawm nyob twj ywm xwb kuv twb ua poj nauj tau 15 xyoos lawm kuv yeej nyob nrog me nyuam tau zoo dua o
You do the right thing
Niam laus aw… kuv lub neej ces nrhe yuav mus zoo li koj zaj neej neeg no thiab os. 😪😪 tabsis kuv zaj ces yeej nrauj tu tu lawm tabsis lub sij hawm no kuv cov menyuam puav leej nrog kub nyob tag nrho thiab kawm ntawv tiab zom zaws lawm .
If me I don’t k either, if my dad do the same to my mom.
Tsis hais txiv losis niam. Thaum menyuam me luag vam hlub, qhua qhia thiab coj. Es yuv tsis ua yus txoj haus lwm ua txiv thiab niam. Nhriav kev khiav mus ua nkauj ua nraug ntawm lub cuab lub yig. Thaum menyuam loj tsheej neeg lawm. Laug hlub tau yus li cas ces yus tsuas yuav li ntawv xwb mas. Lub teb lub chaws yeej paub thiab ntsia ntsoov os.
Tsi khaws yuav lawm. Poob tsag tsi muaj chaw dai siav mam tig los , txhob khaws tus khib nywb los CIA UA POV haum, tsi vam meej
The biggest lie is that a women loses her children when she remarry. How foolish if you believe that.
I would like to dedicate this story to my Dad. I hope you're happy with who you're with. When you think of my siblings and I, just know you hurt us more than you'll ever know.
Good lesson to learn os tus txiv tsev
Nw yuav tu siab rau nej cov niam tub ua dab tsi na nw nim tsi muaj poj niam me nyuam li lawm lo ca nw twb xaiv nw poj niam me nyuam es nw thiaj khiav tawm ntawm nej mu lawm nev
You don't have to agree with them to be a niam loj. Your choice...🤷♂️🤦♂️
there's always a saying in hmong... "pab tsis tau! xav kom yus us yus ah" hahaha gotta teach cov niag txiv dev tough love too!!
Ib tug txiv siab phem li koj es tseem xav kom yus tuag me nyuam pam yus thiab koj twb tsis xav pam koj tus niam ne ces tsis txhob tos kom koj cov me nyuam pam koj vim koj yog txiv deb xwb twb tsis yog txiv tsev ne
This old man don't deserved any love from his children. Old man..you need love, go to your other children.
You children do the right thing..applause them.
Sister, Just let go every bitterness that he created for you. Koj twb tau txais yaam kws lug pauj rua koj txuj tev ua ib leeg nam zoo rua koj cov mivnyuas lawm ces cale zoo sab hlo rua qhov ntawd es muab lub sijhawm nuav lug ENJOY rua yaav laug nuav xwb. has txug ntawm koj tug txiv ces koj cov mivnyuas twb hlub tav txivneej yawg taag lawm puab yeej paub yeej pum tas tsim nyog puab yuav ua lecaag txug theem twg rua puab txiv lawm ces ca puab maam txav txim sab ntawm puab tug kheej. txhob moog khib los yog cuam tshuam rua tej yaam ntawd koj txhale nyob tau kaajsab os.
Thaub aw koj nco ntsoov hais tias koj txoj qub hlab tawv koj tus me tub Thov kiag koj twb Tsi pub rau es koj ho yuav txawj tu siab thov kev hlub ntawm lawv ua dab tsi ma, zoo siab hlob Tsi tu siab li lawm ntag hos🙁🙁
Tus txiv tsis tsimnyog txais kev hlub vim nws twb tsis hlub lawv thiab lawv niam. Nws thiaj muab lawv tso tseg es tsuas nws tau tus tshiab xwb. Nws hlub nws tus poj laib xwb ces txhob k nws li os.
Nrauj kiag xwb os mog. Tso tseg zoo dua thiaj tsi mob os mog
Ca tsawg zaj lo nim yog poj niam xwb thiaj muaj lub chaw nyob.e ca txiv neej pheej g paub txau li thiab
Nws yog ib tug niam tsev zoo, tiam sis hais tsis yog lawm. Yuav tsum hais tias yog cov me nyuam no hlub koj ces kawg koj yuav tsis muaj chaw nyob no mas. Vim nws tus niam yeej tsis pub cov me nyuam cuam tshuam.
Tsis txhob nrhiav cov niag yws2 taus hais ub hais no ntau yam
yuav ua rau ntshav siab mog.😊
Sib sib hlub thiaj tsi kav laus nes. Yuav tsum hlub kom nyob tau xwb pob
Poj nrauj nyob tsis tuag rau txiv ?
น้องเมย์เล่านิทานได้ดี
Ua neej nyob koj twb xaiv tus koj xav tau lawm cov me nyuam hlub koj tsawg los zoo koj twb tsis xaiv lawv ne hnub no koj tseem xav kom lawv hlub koj npaum li lawv niam pab tsis tau lawm os
Tus niag txiv lim xyiam npaum li ntawd txhob khuv xim o poj hmoob ...nws tsuas zoo ntawm koj tes xwb...nws tshob Cuab diam thaum kawg nws yog khib nyiab xwb ..txhob khuv xim nws lawm thiaj li tsis mob koj siab o mog
Yup, i say this is what you get...
That is all Hmoob story when the dad remarried and the children end up not loving by the biological dad and the stepmother. It is just plain sadness to be orphans!
Cov niag yws2 taus mas yuav ua rau yus ntshav siab mog.tus muam.🤣
Your husband and other men like yours did it to themselves! They should not feel bad because they have no one to blame but themselves. They deserved it!!
Me kwv tij, kuv hais rau koj tias koj xav noj taub ces koj yuav tau cog taub thiab no nawj mog. Koj cog dib ces tsuas txi dib xwb vim dib yeej tsis txi taub li.
Deadbeat parents are like that. They come to their children when they’re in a life or death situation when their current significant other (and the other kids) want nothing to do with the matter.
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Cov Thaub laus mas tsi paub hlub nws tus niam tsev thiab nws cov musnyuam li thaum nws tseem khov kho. Tabsi thaum nws laus muaj mob lawm nws hos paub tshaws tej musnyuam kev hlub thiab. Tsum kiag txhob chim rau cov musnyuam tias cas lawv tsi hlub. Thaum cov mesnyuam ntshaw kev hlub Thaub laus twb tsi hlub ne. Thaub laus yuav tsum tusiab rau nws tus kheej ua ntej es txhob khib thiab txhob suav ntxim rau cov mesnyuam.
Well, if this story was the other way around, you women would always find fault in men no matter what. But what ever. Don’t be bitter. Life goes on. It’s what you women would say.
Lol 😆 sounds like you feel attacked. This is how a privileged hmong men sounds like.
Wow that’s how men deserved for it
Your ex husband deserves nothing from the kids. He don’t even wanna take them and raised them or why asked throngs from them? Shames on him.
I don’t like that when men like this husband died. All the relative make the first wife’s kids pay for the funeral
We live in America now. No one can really make anyone do anything they don't want to do. If they do, it may be just to show that they are the better person. Guess for some, being the better person isn't worth it. If I have an estranged parent, I personally rather keep them as estranged.
Hais rau cov kwvtij ruam tias koj yuav txiv yau thiab.... Es cov txiv neej thiab muaj cai xwb cas( cov hmoob kwvtij ruam)?.
This father abandoned his children for his 2nd wife. You were never there for your kids. Why would you expect them to love and respect you? So stupid.
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WTH is wrong with these hmoob men!!..Cas yuav muaj lub so taw thiab!..
Too cocky
What happen the one previous to this one?
She removed it bc the audio was very bad. Hopefully she puts it back on her list.
@@autumnlossij-muas1490 thank you so much!!!
@@baithao92 you're welcome 😊
Koj zoo nkauj heev... sexy momma
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