I'm Leaving My Toxic Relationship - Starting Over at 40: New Beginnings

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  • @DianneStarkey-bm6gz
    @DianneStarkey-bm6gz วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    When God speaks to you that’s a stamp of approval to move on you no what’s best for you and your daughter may God continue to bless you❤

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes ma’am!!!! Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @onehonei2
    @onehonei2 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    This is my first time watching one of your vlogs. I just want to say I’m happy for you to have the strength to leave a toxic relationship.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you so much. I really do appreciate that. ❤️🫶🏽

  • @wendygray7003
    @wendygray7003 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Just watching you,I hear what your saying.Do what's best for you and your kids,stay safe.😮🙏

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @ThaKentz
    @ThaKentz 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Congratulations on the new place and new chapter in your life. Continued blessings it’s only up from here ❤❤❤.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hey My Kentz!! Thank you so much!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @demetrianicole1657
    @demetrianicole1657 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hi Dani, hope you and your children feel at peace and are in a safe home. Peace of mind is everything. Wishing you all of the happiness you deserve. ❤

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you so much!!!!! We are at peace, safe, and happy!!! Yes!!! Peace of mind is EVERYTHING!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gwendolynmiller2190
    @gwendolynmiller2190 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My first time watching your vlog Blessing to you and your daughter y’all deserves to be happy

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for watching!!! And yes we do!!!! I appreciate that. ❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @CherylHargraves-b9k
    @CherylHargraves-b9k 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Hi ,I know the feeling ,I'm 65 but I just recently left my toxic relationship at my age but ,I don't take emotional disrespect your feelings are important.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Congratulations!!!! Yes they are!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tessmackey9201
    @tessmackey9201 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Heyllo MsDanielle TH-cam wanted me to watch your vlog...It all started on my TV screen I grabbed my phone to comment and of course to become a New Subbie...YT pushin your title of your video.I pray you keep showing up for yourself and your kids.Keep rising Boo!!!

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good morning!!! Thank you so much!!!! I’m so shocked about the reach I’ve gotten from sharing my journey. Thank you so much for subscribing. I’m most definitely going to keep showing up for my kids and I!!!! Thank you so much!!!! ❤️❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @tessmackey9201
      @tessmackey9201 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ShesDaniJea yes you went from this number to these number from just one video TH-cam Wow these TH-cam streets be doing the most.I been letting your video play on my TV all night.Your life is real and you are a mother with a great purpose.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @tessmackey9201 Thank you so much!!!! I really appreciate that!!!! I’m in shock yet so grateful!!! ❤️❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @hevinamber
    @hevinamber 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Best wishes on your search sis. Please stay safe and plan your exit strategy without confronting him in person ❤😢🙏🏽

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much!!! We made it out safely. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @hevinamber
      @hevinamber 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ShesDaniJea Amen sis and please don't ever take him back. 🙏🏽 😔😪

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Never ever!!!!

  • @BibicheL
    @BibicheL 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I came here from Kristy Danielle channel and by hearing your story I am happy for you and I pray that God continue to help you through this new adventure of your life and may He continue to be there for your kids and guide you throughout this new journey ❤❤❤

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much!!!! I appreciate that!!!!! We are really happy. ❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @SheLove2
    @SheLove2 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this! So proud of you for putting you and your children first. ❤❤❤ Thanks for sharing. New sub! ❤

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Welcome!!! Thank you so much!!! I really appreciate that!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @theamanohlife
    @theamanohlife 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you for sharing your journey and all the tours

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for watching. 🫶🏽

  • @mstarchannel5765
    @mstarchannel5765 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Sis💐so happy you are free and found a place for you and your family. Blessings and prayers🙏🏽on your new journey. From a new subscriber.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hi Sis!!! 🥰 Welcome!!!! Thank you so much!!!!! I’m soooooo very happy as well!!!!!!! I feel amazing!!!!! So free so at peace!!!! ❤️🫶🏽

  • @Cassiet_318
    @Cassiet_318 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Stay safe and protect your peace and kids.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!!! I most definitely am!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @MikaDDavis
    @MikaDDavis 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Congratulations on the new place. Nice to see you’re doing things for you. I felt it in your videos. I’m here for your new journey. I know you’re about to sore! I’m excited for you and your daughter. I’m in Memphis and we should link one day. Love your vibe and hustle.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much!!!! I really appreciate that!!! My daughter is so much happier now. I see such a difference in her spirit with us being gone. Yes we should I love to link. Thank you so much!!! It really means a lot to me. ❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @helgapataki4156
    @helgapataki4156 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Congratulations on your peace & new journey 💐

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much!!! ❤️🫶🏽

  • @nicsmith469
    @nicsmith469 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congratulations on your new start. Happiness to you all.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you!!!!

  • @tresameeks6416
    @tresameeks6416 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello the house with the 4 bedrooms & fireplace is the one it's spacious, 💙💙

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  วันที่ผ่านมา

      It was really nice!!! ❤️🫶🏽

  • @kristydanielle
    @kristydanielle 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sisss i just read the title and im like wait, i gotta catch up!! Haven't even started the vlog but from previous vlogs that ive watched i know that you are a super strong woman so i know you got this. Now with that being said. Lemme watch and share this video bc i know there are alot of women going through. Love ya girlie!!

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey Sis!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much!!!!!! I really appreciate you!!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 It was time. I was dragging my feet for long enough. So I had to choose me. And I’m so glad that I did. 😊

    • @kristydanielle
      @kristydanielle 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ShesDaniJea I'm so glad that you did too sis. So many women don't. Only up from here sis!!

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much!!!! I’m so much happier and at PEACE!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Divineone444
    @Divineone444 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    CONTINUE TO STAY STRONG LUV AND FOCUSED.YOU GOT THIS LUV💙💜.I JUST SUBSCRIBED TO YOUR CHANNEL💙💜💜💜💜.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!!!! I really appreciate your words of encouragement. Thank you for subscribing!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SyAnnTv
    @SyAnnTv วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't know you, but I'm proud of you for choosing YOU! ❤❤❤

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ It really feels good!!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @CherylHargraves-b9k
    @CherylHargraves-b9k 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my bad ,I didn't know this was a old video but nice houses. Blessings to you ladybug. My first time here.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you honey!!! The video itself isn’t old. I started documenting my journey back in April. Thank you so much for watching. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wendygray7003
    @wendygray7003 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The contender is the one.

  • @ghettofab35
    @ghettofab35 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    OMG! This just broke my heart! So I’m confused are the dates right! We really have to link up and talk… you just dk how much we have in common ❤… those houses were nice… I stopped the blog to text this because it hit home soooooooo much!

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hey honey!!!!!! Yes the dates are right!!!! I started preparing in April. Yes we do!!!!!! And honey unbreak your heart in my Toni Braxton voice. Cause I’m peaceful over here!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @BrigetteNicole
    @BrigetteNicole 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wait wait wait 😮I’m mad 😡 i didn’t get this notification 😂but you already know im here sissy and im ecstatic about this tittle period 😊I’ll be back ❤love you always

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hey Sissy!!!!!! The title means EVERYTHING to me!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Love you too!!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @Annie-i3c
    @Annie-i3c 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Stay up l been there before

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you so much!!! ❤️🫶🏽

  • @wendygray7003
    @wendygray7003 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It can be a office room.

  • @carolynwilliams4926
    @carolynwilliams4926 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I pray you find peace
    Have you sat this men down and told him you was unhappy. This man can’t read your mind or your feelings.
    It seem like you never gave him the chance to even fix what you think he is doing wrong, it takes a real woman to say hey he need to talk , these things here are causing me to pull away from you, I need you to try something else cause I’m not ok right known.
    Yall people today just walk out on people so quick and just move on . Not cool and for him to still think he moving with you let’s me known you ain’t tell this man anything

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I appreciate your comment. And I have so much peace and happiness. However, there were multiple conversations had. He was given multiple chances. And as a REAL WOMAN I will never tell another woman anything about her life in which she chooses to live. Us people today choose to walk away after dealing with things we do not have to stick around and deal with. He was NOT my husband. Which was my first mistake. Which is why I’m in the position I’m in now.

  • @Mssummer362008
    @Mssummer362008 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Did u give an update on how he responded to your goodbye? Think video was dated 04/24..do you have an overall update

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The video was recorded over the span of 6 months. You have to watch the entire video. I will share my experience of the relationship for a better understanding of why I left if that’s what you’re asking.

  • @marybell2985
    @marybell2985 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @margiedrizz4482
    @margiedrizz4482 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    me and my guy broke up almost a month ago but we still love each other ben texin talking here and their but he’s very aggressive and i feel he has the potential to get physical with me because he’s forever accusing me of cheating.how do you walk away completely wen you’re still in love but he has violent mood swings which concerns me.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My ex was the same way. To be honest with you. I did what I had to do to try and keep peace until I was able to execute my plan. Did it work the entire time? No. It worked until I could see myself harming him. I knew I had two kids so I made the move to I did. Also you’re still in love. I was gone mentally long before April

  • @shirleynelson3628
    @shirleynelson3628 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do he watch you vlogs or do you have enemies? I hope he let you leave him,without agreements😊❤❤❤

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He does not. And I’m already gone love. ❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @user-mg6bc9tp8j
    @user-mg6bc9tp8j 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I can respect your decision. But telling social media first??? That's like a break up tex to the 10th degree. Listen I may be out of the loop because I'm old school ..but if this person wasn't disrespectful to you, why do this in that way. Just asking.

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      I appreciate your comment. This video posted weeks after I left. So social media didn’t know first. He did. If you want to know why I did it this way, because it was the safest option for my kids and I. Very DISRESPECTFUL from the beginning.

    • @jessicaashford2137
      @jessicaashford2137 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@ShesDaniJea THATS YOUR DECISION…you do Not have to answer to negative energy that’s on this platform you did what was best for you and your children you did with the Holy Spirit of God showed and told you to do it makes me wonder is People coming on this page that his friend Saphires think about it blessings upon you and yours. I have done the same thing.🙌🏽🌹

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much!!!! I really appreciate those words of encouragement. It means a lot to me. ❤️🫶🏽

    • @chestersteentalksmukbangsa1558
      @chestersteentalksmukbangsa1558 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      She said toxic, that’s dead give away. Idk

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @CherylHargraves-b9k
    @CherylHargraves-b9k 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl get this 2nd house

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bigger and better is coming!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @CherylHargraves-b9k
      @CherylHargraves-b9k 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ShesDaniJea For you as well Amen. Stay up keep your head up it's fine people don't realize what they had until it's gone but threw it all JESUS CHRIST have our backs. Be well and happiness is coming for you.

  • @ConsiderablyCC
    @ConsiderablyCC 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wishing you the best of everything that’s to come friend 🫶🏾😘. If you ever need to talk you got my number babe💙

    • @ShesDaniJea
      @ShesDaniJea  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you friend!!!! ❤️🫶🏽 I really appreciate that!!!!! I will most definitely use it!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @wendygray7003
    @wendygray7003 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It can be a office room.