Why Men are Increasingly Choosing to Spend Time Away from Others!

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  • @brandonperkins176
    @brandonperkins176 วันที่ผ่านมา +60

    To protect our peace and sanity, spending time solo is key to survival.

    • @AlexKellogg-pv4qk
      @AlexKellogg-pv4qk วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Absolutely correct IMO. I hope all is well with you

    • @mariobx7186
      @mariobx7186 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@AlexKellogg-pv4qk is this tru are more men being alone and staying away from ppl ?

  • @Shadow_Sonata
    @Shadow_Sonata วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    This reminds me of a quote from the late Robin Williams: "I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone."

    • @Saturntabbytype2
      @Saturntabbytype2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And bleed dry make peace with you are the nothing in the nothing ,time to do nothing too if you knew the depth of the illusion you realised how betrayed you are.

    • @Professor__S
      @Professor__S วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey Shadow_Sonata...
      It's not your fault.
      😂

  • @harryc1971
    @harryc1971 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    My circle grows smaller each year and whilst sometimes i miss going out, i find when i do i feel increasingly alienated by the world.

    • @eugenedavis6792
      @eugenedavis6792 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You're not missing out on anything but bullsh*t & drama, trust me when I say this, you're better off alone, adn stay strong.

    • @goombah226
      @goombah226 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Go out and watch a bunch of NPC's playing with their phones.

    • @harryc1971
      @harryc1971 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@goombah226 that's how it feels, like your a background extra on some TV show

  • @led0073
    @led0073 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Never feel so unwanted and dislike by society for just being a regular working British man. I work, I go home, read a book, watch a movie then bed. Just don't want to go out anymore. Feel safer home alone.

  • @MelvinSanderz
    @MelvinSanderz 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    You speak the truth of men, I totally agree, in Italy is pretty much the same. Somebody may say (and they do) that’s a pessimistic point of view, but usually who says that is not a man. Embrace solitude, and you will find you may be your best friend.

  • @ryansweeney1661
    @ryansweeney1661 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I was starving homeless and freezing
    Not one person that ever pretended to care was there
    Not even there for anything at all. i was completely forgotten by all so-called friends and family
    They were fine on holidays and living life but not once cared to ask how i was getting on
    But there's hope just because people around you are horrible, don't mean you won't meet someone that isn't in the most random place

    • @cullen6015
      @cullen6015 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Ryan, I hope you're meditating and seeking guidance. I'm sorry that life has been kind of rough! But, if you had not gone through what you went through, you would not see what you see now!
      Life is contrast, without it how do you achieve clarity? You not only been lied to about what's going on, but you also been lied to about the Creator! Nothing is as it seems. Meditation can help you to get out of the desert. Stoicism and all of the other ideas out forth by other men, will not bring the type of clarity you want.
      I really hope you are doing well and that your life is on a more manageable road. Here's something that will put you ahead in the game. We get what we believe!

    • @AlexKellogg-pv4qk
      @AlexKellogg-pv4qk วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I’ve been through the same experience. It’s tough. I had to forgive the world and myself

    • @eugenedavis6792
      @eugenedavis6792 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Stay strong and listen to your inner self; that will guide from your homelessness, you will not be forever homeless.

    • @Spartan-Of-Truth
      @Spartan-Of-Truth 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same. I’m doing much better now but I will never let anybody in EVER again unless they’re paying me.

    • @ryansweeney1661
      @ryansweeney1661 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for the messages. Yes, my life has improved, and I'm in a much better place now

  • @RobinJohnstonphotography
    @RobinJohnstonphotography วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I’m 6” 3 I’m working on the abs but I’m certainly not rich, but after my divorce I want to be around people less and less. I certainly don’t see myself wanting another relationship anytime soon, even if I thought I could handle the pressure. I’m better off on my own.

  • @keithwalmsley1830
    @keithwalmsley1830 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    As Jean-Paul Sartre said, "Hell is other people".

    • @Saturntabbytype2
      @Saturntabbytype2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Albert Camus the absurdity of exsistance is surreal

    • @lumberluc
      @lumberluc วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      A game is being made with that title

  • @Allbses
    @Allbses วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The greatest desire I have is "PEACE." Everything else is an afterthought.

  • @larryreis7273
    @larryreis7273 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I'm so glad I learned to retrain my brain and live a very happy life being alone to improve on myself every day and be happy living detached from ALL the bullshit that's out there. I've learned to live with no concerns and continue to gain knowledge.

  • @notsofatmike1
    @notsofatmike1 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Most people are just idiots.

  • @DamienZachariah
    @DamienZachariah วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I've always been a loner, too many times, people have backstabbed me and caused real problems. On the few times I bothered , I was told to f*ck off or shouted at for no reason. I had to listen to tossers or village idiots or I was threatened for absolutely no reason at all Don't even get me started on users and the sickening Christmas get together with the same bludgers and family and feeling obligated to pretend to enjoy this painful and expensive crap. Just see how many of these 'friends' are there when something goes really wrong in your life!! I found out when I spent three months in hospital I had absolutely NO visitors at all!! Screw all this trying to be social crap! Good work 👍.

  • @byroncummings2952
    @byroncummings2952 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    On point. My stress levels went way down after I withdrew from society.

  • @rebelandboltman
    @rebelandboltman วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Solace in Solitude! I like it!

  • @Mr2pint
    @Mr2pint วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Be careful when breaking away from people who you have helped or have expected to you to be there as a utility - they won't let you go easily and can even make life hell for you out of spite. It's unfortunite we been forced into this quagmire..

  • @ricksilver55
    @ricksilver55 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This guys really gets it

  • @Charles_Kos
    @Charles_Kos 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Mate it's so bad I can't even hang out with my best buddy. He's become super selfish. This video is comforting.

  • @TheTundercat222
    @TheTundercat222 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Everything you Sayed is 100% spot on

  • @davidparkes3701
    @davidparkes3701 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I find myself passively withdrawing from friends and social groups. I felt bad for ghosting them but now I realize I needed to do it.

  • @georgeedward1226
    @georgeedward1226 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Take away the incentives to start a family and a man's behavior changes drastically.

    • @tylerdouble8721
      @tylerdouble8721 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I would like the inventiveness to start my own family. but it may be to late for me. still haven't found anyone yet. and i may be running out of time.

    • @mackcarlo
      @mackcarlo 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@tylerdouble8721go to the Philippines. You will have no problem starting a family

  • @tommyg5261
    @tommyg5261 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is a phenomenal video! Bravo! 👏

  • @gragvar
    @gragvar วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    If you are an average guy or like me below average, if you try talking to a woman you get nought but shit, but when trouble pops up you are expected to step up. Frakk that.

  • @billpetsinis2065
    @billpetsinis2065 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Your so right brother, I have 1 friend now, I can’t hang out with toxic people, 👍

  • @voice552
    @voice552 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Men are probably subconsciously extending their life span by walking away. I once worked in a toxic workshop where many people left at once. Without exception, every one of them who i ran into later looked a full ten years younger. When Ra-Ta decided to regenerate himself in the healing temple of Egypt, he had a musician who dedicated years of his life to creating instruments to play tones that regenerated cells. He had daily massages and water treatments beyond anything we currently use. When asked which treatment was most affective for rejuvenation, Ra-Ta said he simply let go of everything that aged him. Us men don't have temples to stay in or musicians on call, so our only life extension can come from letting go. Of society, women, fake friends, toxic jobs. You can't let go in any of those situations, so we isolate in order to let go. The Japanese have warehouses full of vases and breakables where you pay a fee to go in there with a baseball bat. We don't have that.

  • @Karrpilot
    @Karrpilot วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    My hobby is flying small aircraft. Nothing is more peaceful and satisfying than flying in a rural area, solo, and not talking to anyone.
    Telephone calls, go to voicemail. Text and email go unanswered. This is now my time. And the pilot is too busy enjoying the solitude, sights and scenery, to engage in anything else.)

    • @Phantom1127-ck3qr
      @Phantom1127-ck3qr วันที่ผ่านมา

      Man I want to be a pilot

    • @allesdurchprobiert
      @allesdurchprobiert 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I feel the same about whole day bicycle tours. For the same reasons.
      Fall and winter is horrible because I can't do it then.

  • @POWERFORCE77
    @POWERFORCE77 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I deleted numbers from my phone and social media.

  • @eugenedavis6792
    @eugenedavis6792 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That's me and I have no problem with that in my retirement, although I was getting my self for this since 1982 and later the Army trained me to live with little to nothing at all during survial week with the Airborne Rangers & Green Berets.

  • @Jammpie83
    @Jammpie83 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Social media/internet: We've openend Pandora' s box...

    • @adamsnelson4689
      @adamsnelson4689 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Pandoras box is the new & improved Robot girlfriends

    • @CraigDewhurst
      @CraigDewhurst วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I deleted all social media par youtube,best thing I've ever done

    • @Jammpie83
      @Jammpie83 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @CraigDewhurst
      The same here.

    • @CraigDewhurst
      @CraigDewhurst วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Jammpie83 watching this guy confirms everything I think of modern society

    • @eugenedavis6792
      @eugenedavis6792 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Social Medai should/ve never been created.

  • @brentsaylor1725
    @brentsaylor1725 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Its only going to get worse.

  • @auramdickerson112
    @auramdickerson112 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Even if I live with a woman, I keep my own room for reasons.😊

  • @jaredbermangpt
    @jaredbermangpt วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks!

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Welcome!

  • @andyhopkins8768
    @andyhopkins8768 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Spot on and brilliant as always

  • @ricksilver55
    @ricksilver55 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You’re right 100 percent and I know I can’t catch another charge or I’ll never be able to escape Canada. I feel like I’m loosing myself and I’m struggling to find meaning

  • @Armored_Saint
    @Armored_Saint วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I've got one that can see! ~ They Live (1988) roddy piper

    • @eugenedavis6792
      @eugenedavis6792 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They Live (Using Sunglass to see the real evil vs Social Media wit hnonstop lies and bullsh*t brainwashign the weak!

  • @gmj5386
    @gmj5386 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have nothing to do with society now, this country is totally unrecognisable to great one i knew years ago, hey SCG another great show, what you are saying is smack on!!!

    • @eugenedavis6792
      @eugenedavis6792 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was ready for this change since 1982 going on on my own, presently so many years later I'm retired and enjoying my space fro mthe bullsh*t and drama that some people bring, I'm strong survivor and I thank the U.S. Army for it.

  • @slartibartfast2452
    @slartibartfast2452 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Is why they are trying to brand men backing away as all things terrible. We back away and stop playing the game and society is done. They can't make any of this function without us.
    Its not that the ROI is low. It is that the ROI is gone.

  • @wazigemattie
    @wazigemattie วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I suggest a great read!The book is called Stranger in the woods,this guy lived 27 years as a hermit!Really cool story,highly recommend

  • @A-Man79
    @A-Man79 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Everything started to go downhill with the arrival of smartphones and social media. People changed, and not for the better.

  • @humblifter6845
    @humblifter6845 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Infinitely On Point.

  • @jeremy1350
    @jeremy1350 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Yup, Yup, and Yup !! Social groups are so overrated. We get to chose who we surround ourselves with.

  • @ronmexico5908
    @ronmexico5908 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    People don’t have much to offer in general. Sure some people are great but it’s like finding a needle in a haystack. Staying away from people always pays off with peace and quiet. Why risk dealing with the public that is mostly full of crazies

  • @nevsoul9646
    @nevsoul9646 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Nobody is there for you when you need them but they all want to smile in your face when your back on your feet. Too many fake people in this world.

  • @Saturntabbytype2
    @Saturntabbytype2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Schizoid mode = reflection and take stock silents and peace =the universe together again

  • @gregchapman6056
    @gregchapman6056 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So true thank you

  • @Jamie-fl2im
    @Jamie-fl2im วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great content.

  • @StefanInside
    @StefanInside วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We all have responsibility for our own life, also responsibility to go out and find new ppl to spend time with - If that's what we want ofc. It's to easy to blame everything for our solitude.

  • @anko3679
    @anko3679 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    100% Facts

  • @shiptj01
    @shiptj01 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This homie gets it.

  • @johnmicallef6766
    @johnmicallef6766 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I agree 100%

  • @cullen6015
    @cullen6015 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Because, something is in the air. Can you not feel it! The anticipation, the aching, the longing to be so? Men today should be seeking God through meditation! Absolutely everything you need is inside of you! Everything is upside down in this matrix!

  • @Smuggler169
    @Smuggler169 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That’s me!

  • @eclipticsource
    @eclipticsource 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Get back out there guys n girls f,, this depressing social media bs start talking again ✌️ one love Thanks sg vid..

  • @theicyphoenix_7745
    @theicyphoenix_7745 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    to be fair a woman wanting a 6 pack is reasonable as we men want jiggly wigglys to be as big as possible,but the height and 6 figures one is so unrealistic they might as well start writing science fiction XD and if any of those two are in a womans "must have" list the woman herself is not just a red flag but an entire factory

  • @scottthepumpdude8933
    @scottthepumpdude8933 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The last person I shared a secret with was about 20 years ago. And it was a man. And he immediately betrayed me. I haven't shared a secret with anyone since. And I won't.

  • @Micheal-Knight-
    @Micheal-Knight- 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Spent too much time with arsehole friends when I was younger. Now I'm extremely picky.

  • @francisprunty2776
    @francisprunty2776 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is exactly how i feel ive withdrawed from family and going out i only work and buy groceries and stay in Solitude.i would rather distance myself from all these unrealistic expectations

  • @Spartan-Of-Truth
    @Spartan-Of-Truth 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t trust a single soul on this planet. Everybody has proven why I shouldn’t. And society doesn’t FEEL more hostile, it IS more hostile.

  • @gragvar
    @gragvar วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tell no one and never loan money

  • @TonyTheTiger1000
    @TonyTheTiger1000 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Definitely me playing video games gym alone in peace

  • @GoingMyOwnWay917
    @GoingMyOwnWay917 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Why try to be apart of society when society doesn't care about you. People are fake (family and so called friends) and the system only cares about what you can do for it. The world is getting to be more and more like a horror movie. Being adopted I saw the world from a perspective most people will never understand. I grew up doing things alone not because there wasn't anybody else but because I didn't have to listen to them constantly talking about everything when all I wanted was peace. I can cook clean do my own laundry so why do I need society in the first place (answer is I don't). In a couple of years I'll have the money to be able to move to the Rockies to live off-grid and in a sense I'll be Going Home. You see I've lived in the woods all my life and have always loved the mountains so for me I'm going to where I've always belonged the Rockies and Nature itself. I can live with society people and the world just fine because I've already been doing it.

  • @Saturntabbytype2
    @Saturntabbytype2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Life was never about doing,it was about doing nothing in the nothing,why did you work for money it was nothing in the nothing

  • @pitbull60
    @pitbull60 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sounds like the life I walked away from .

  • @Muhammad85-u8d
    @Muhammad85-u8d วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your just not safe in public

  • @pathazelraw
    @pathazelraw วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s just not you

  • @mrkettle7096
    @mrkettle7096 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    DOOMED............

  • @Saturntabbytype2
    @Saturntabbytype2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There are no problem in the universe,so why do you make them.

  • @bobmathews9072
    @bobmathews9072 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You're just preachimg to the choir at this point , instead of preaching the usual nihilistic crap we've had for a decade try offering solutions rather than pretentious word salad

  • @geoffwilkins9125
    @geoffwilkins9125 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    👍 yes agreed, only thing wrong with the world ? PEOPLE !

    • @jkw6196
      @jkw6196 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      feminism