Jack, when I was your age, I was in Vietnam and trust me, I was homesick. I sometimes cried but when it was time to do my job, I just did it. You spent your entire life surronded by your family and friends and you have every reason to feel alone and a little frightened. To have a special spmeone your seperated from on top of that isn't an easy thing. Hang in there. Trust me, it will all be over sonner than you think.
When compared to your 1st experience of adult hood makes everything jack said seem so ridiculous not that it is but beside what u experienced I hope he sees ypur comment and also gets that feeling maybe it will help him with perspective of what is truly hard and what is just unpleasant.
Women are very different. They were born with an innate strength to leave and start a new nest. They are definitely more mature. I think Kate looked great as usual. I think she's definitely ready for life on her own. But we will see. This is all temporary.
You have your viewer routing for you. You had an amazing life on the boat. I remember people asking me if I felt and Earth Quake . I had my boats totalled by a very bad storm on Catalina Island .
Jack - have watched you and your family videos for some time. I just heard about J.J. and words cannot express how sad this is for you and all those people and his family he touched. You are in our prayers and may God give you peace, comfort and understanding during this time.
I turn 80 tomorrow and your video was an inspiration for me .... remembering all the different things I have done in my life and although I felt the same way you described in your video I was never able to so eloquently express them. Thanks Jack ... you have an amazing life ahead of you and I so enjoy coming along as an observer...Thank you 😀
Jack, I left home when I was 18 years old to go into the military. I went through a lot of what you are going through. Live the moment, know that you are there with an end in sight, make friends, get into the job and do your best, and before you know it the time there will be over and you WILL walk away with a lot of good memories if you choose to embrace the people around you and enjoy those moments there and create memories.
Dude, you are a man. It's great you understand emotions pass as so many guys don't know that and never talk about stuff and then run into problems...being homesick will pass and then when you go home it will feel weird if you are away long enough...cheers mate, you are on the right track.
Hey Jack. I'm 52 now, but when I was like 43 I had to go to India on a business trip, just for a week. Now I travelled the world before this, but that trip was hard. I actually cried when I got there as culturally it was like nothing I had ever experienced. I could not get out of that place quick enough. Now as I look back and remember the memories I had in just that week I wish I had not felt like that, because that country, those people, the things I saw, I learnt and enjoyed were some of the best I have had. I just did not realize it at that time. I think if i had stayed another 2 weeks I would have gotten past that. My point is, your not 44, you a young man with his life in front of him. Everything you love about home will still be there. Use this time to grow as a person my man, you will thank yourself for it later.
Been there and still have waves of incredible homesickness. For those who have had more transitions - whether TCK (third culture kid which I think boat culture would be a subset of), military, ministry, or displaced - I think homesickness is a part of it. Mackenzie is right - it’s a grief in this world you just have to feel. It’s part of living. And the yearning to be with M compounds it all 100x!!! I remember that well even 25 yrs later now! The yearning, the desiring, the waiting…it’s a gift even today after 24 yrs of marriage - hard to describe it. Especially during relational tough times it’s like glue. You are ok - you are naming the losses; keep naming the griefs. Huge hug! Hug your sister! Cry together. You’ll be ok.
My sincerest condolences to JJ’s family and friends, Jack. It is so difficult to loose a friend. He seemed like such a fun loving spirit, may he fly free. 🩵
So sorry to here about JJ mate . Condolences to the Rice family such sad news . Look after yourself and Kate during this hard time .I know you both would be stepping up to help out the Rice family as that's the way you have been brought up. Stay strong guys we are all thinking of you both
You never liked my bacon?! 🥓 😭 Jack, thank you for opening up and being emotionally vulnerable, but also for learning from your struggles and sharing your walk with us. 👣 You must’ve had great parents. ❤😏
Good Renee good Keith. They are ok, is just a gust of the day, the storms are not forever. Thank you for sharing life. we are with you and every member of your family. a hug for all of you.
Oh, Renee, my heart breaks for you all looking back on this video, when too-crispy bacon, homesickness, earthquakes, and the flu were the big problems. What an instant perspective shift all have been through since. It must be very hard to be apart from your kids as they (and you) are in the midst of this huge loss, supporting JJ's family, keeping things going at the resort. Prayers for you all.
It’s normal bro. I was 17 when I left home and we all go through it. It’s the transition between relying on others and being your own man…and we aren’t all tough…it’s a big facade. Just be chill and know that time passes quicker than you think…and you’ll be back home and you’ll want to be back there in Tonga. And by the way you are already showing maturity by posting this and being true. You are a great guy.
Welcome to adulthood, being a man is emotional at times, just learn from the experience and mistakes, through this journey is how you grow. Remember that you never stop learning or growing its being human. Enjoy Jack!
Yes, but I believe he’s overthinking everything he’s saying. Almost ro the point it gets irrational thinking. He’s in tings with his sister - alone for the first time in his life, with no safety met like family or anything. However he has friends in that island. I feel like he’s nit taking the time to just live in the moment and slice the day, enjiy the other people instead of moping around. Feelings are good but there’s a fine line between overthinking and just reflecting. In this situation, it’s quiet simple. He’s away from his family for the first time, his new girlfriend as well. But he can’t let that stop him from moving on, growing up, Everyone will most likely be at home when he gets back anyway. It’s nit a healthy thing to be homesick at his age. To this degree. As long as he doesn’t pull others down with him when he’s moody, vulnerable. That’s what I mean by him overthink things, making things harder for himself instead of just see his new suituatiin as it is, and embrace it, Grab all the experiences and enjoy the locals company. Six months is nothing.he will have all the time in the world when it’s time for the next adventure. You can’t live in “what could have been”. You accept your situation and make the bets out of it. Life is shirt and unpredictable so it’s just embracing every opportunity that you find interesting.
Oh dear.. I just read about his friend who passed away on the island shortly after this clog was uploaded. That would hit him and Kate very hard. I can’t even begin to imagine how JJ’s family are coping.. That young man was scheduled for He allegedly died whilst with friends out free diving. that kid was no stranger to that or those waters, So very tragic. I don’t know why anyone onboard didn’t watch out for the free divers. I just hike they didn’t push each other too hard. That’s always a worry for me when I see young guys. There’s often a completion who’s the best at something and they take unnecessary risks they normally wouldn’t to show off.
From someone who made a rash decision when i was 17 after being homesick and then regretting that decision for the rest of my life as it majorly affected my relationship with my mum in particular (I was in the Navy - left after general training rather than seeing it for what it was as a great maturing and growing opportunity) - no two days are ever the same and especially for you and Kate given Boat Life is all you have ever really known. You are alot more mature and forward thinking than you realise mate, so don't lose sight of an incredible chance to learn about yourself in a unique environment, but also a really cool chance to further develop your relationship with Kate more who prob shares alot of your feelings at the moment. Looking forward to episode 2 of the 'Jack & JJ Sparky' sitcom in the next video!! Keep doing you Jack, we appreciate you
What makes a person tough and strong I think also is experiencing what you are going through Not running from any of it And Men can have emotions you're still Young this is the first time that you're not Right there with your siblings and your parents You're experiencing the responsibility of A new job a new place New people But it's good to go through Even though it's uncomfortable it's good to go through But you'll get through it you're resilient human being You've got a good hit on your shoulders A good heart You've got your sister there with you You'll be fine Come up with the good routine every day you stick with it before you know it The time will be passing you by everything you're feeling is 100% normal
I let homesickness (and anxiety) stop me from so much in my life. I’m 39 now and so wish I had stuck those things out/given them a chance instead of going home/quitting, especially so quickly. Trust me, you don’t want to let being homesick stop you because it will most likely keep you from doing a lot in life if you start letting it win. I know easier said than done, but you’ve got this!
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Losing someone so young is incredibly painful. Please remember that it's okay to grieve and to lean on others for support. Take comfort in the cherished memories you shared, and know that your friend will always hold a special place in your heart.
Wow, what a smooth and natural voice Jack has. He has a real gift to connect with the camera and send out his message in a clear way...Good Job and best of luck, I honestly see him going a few steps on and hitting the Big Time!
Jack, you’re the man. I turned 65 a month back and I remember those days pretty good. You are growing and doing a great job young man. And there’s nothing wrong with those emotions. But just remember it’s life and you’re in control and you got that rant of yours right. Actually said very well. Take care of yourself and your sister. Keep on keeping on. Memories and hard work. HAPPY BIRTHDAY KATE🎉🎊🎁
Wow! Profound and wise words from such a young man! My son is 25, and this was an amazing video, Jack. To be so self aware and then to be able articulate it into words and then share with strangers shows tremendous strength in character. Good job! Hope it gets better and Happy birthday Kate! From Southern California ❤
Happy birthday Kate! This is a big adjustment for all of you not just being away from family but also being landlocked. Cry, scream, laugh whatever you need to in order to process. And it is a process. I’m 55 and moved away from family by 7 hours. I still get homesick for them when I’m in Florida and homesick for Florida when I’m back in Tennessee with them. Hopefully things will even out once you’ve had more time to adjust and are busier with tourists. You’re both doing great just support each other like I know you will and give yourselves grace.
Awesome video jack. Thanks for being so vulnerable and real. I am about to turn 21 living on a boat with my family and this was very encouraging for me to hear. Keep up the videos, one of my favorite skiing channels!
It's perfectly normal to feel this way Jack. When I first moved to college I was so homesick I was almost crying. But then after a few weeks after meeting tons of friends, going to concerts, football games (Penn State), intramural wrestling, beautiful girls all over, and of course learning engineering at a higher level you couldn't get me to go home except for the holidays. Keep your head up, it will get better.
Jack, I am so sorry for you and Kat because of the loss of your great friend there. There is no time or stage in life that death of friend/loved one/ family member gets any easier. As long as you keep them in your heart and mind they will always be with you in thought and spirit. Go easy on yourself and take your time navigating forward. Grief, loss, and healing all take time and everyone goes at their own pace. You have a wonderful life ahead you. It may no feel like now of for a while..... but it will get better. I 100% guarantee it.
Jack- sending hugs to you after JJ's accident. Knowing you, you are probably blaming yourself whether you were there with him or not. I can't imagine the sadness and devastation you are feeling. Let us know how you are doing, as soon as you are able.
It’s only temporary. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to remind myself of this simple fact. No matter what, throughout life, it’s only temporary.
As someone who just finished their first year of college, I totally get that homesick feeling. The beginning is the hardest!!! But eventually you get used to being away from your family. You’re never gonna stop missing them but trust me it gets easier. And by the end of your time in Tonga you’ll be sad to go, so soak in each moment. You got this!!
Jack, thanks for sharing. It is perfectly natural & normal to be feeling that way. I found a quote that's helped me in times of self doubt, feeling emotional or down. And the quote is this. "If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life, With confidence, you have won even before you have started"
jack b grateful... in this big world of ours there r others who r in worse situations than yourself. when you fall just pick yrself up and move forward.... be grateful dude
You're going through a life changing adventure right now and being sick probably didn't help but it's not unusual to experience home sickness and there's no shame in being emotional. It's good that you shared your thoughts with us and it is very healthy to talk bout these things. Your parents have exposed you to a wonderful life and you're going to do great things and they're going to be very proud of you. Keep your chin up, you're going to be fine.
That rant was pure man, bro. This is an adventure and ur doing just fine… Ur also a great brother! Ps I’m so glad I came across this channel. When I catch it it’s like my adventure, too 😂
You are learning to be a true man than many your age will learn in 30 years. Hats off for always getting back up, and facing forward, standing fast, and seeing the positive! You are well on your way!
Thank you for being honest. I have struggled a lot in my live and didn‘t even always have the strength to stand up. I find it great that you go through it and don‘t give up! You have a great support system in your close nit family. Use it, and especially Kate, because she is close location wise. She can feel best if it becomes more than struggle - might or might not happen. You are already a great guy. That‘s for sure! And going through this experience will make you an even better man for your future wife. And it will make McKensey stronger through her own struggles with the situation and all. Thanks again, man for sharing! It helps others who go through hard times!
RIP JJ 💜😢. Jack, I’m so very sorry to hear about the passing of your friend JJ. Such a senseless accident and a life with such a bright future snuffed out. Stay strong … my prayers go out to all who loved JJ 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻.
hugs jack. change is hard. I'm sure when you first got on the boat to live that it was hard from being used to living in a house. time will help. you are allowed to be human and feel what you feel. but know that you may be in a different place and not with your family and things may be different BUT the one thing that hasnt changed is us watching you and supporting you from a far. I look forward to seeing all your adventures and growth.
Awww. 🥰 A real man can share his emotions like you did. I know Mom and Pop are so proud of you! Your time there will go by so fast so soak in the memories and remember that this too is helping to define your future(s) for you and Kate. College was similar for me. Even 2 months in I was just homesick and questioning everything but it all helped me figure on and work out the future- keeping my goals in mind for my life. You got this!!! Hope you feel better!
Wow, thank you for sharing Jack. I have so much respect for you for doing that. It's normal to be homesick. You spent so much time in an intimate small space with your family over the years that of course you're missing them. Learn all you can in this chapter of your life. It will be over before you know it.
I’ll leave you with this quote “You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you.” Keep your chin up it’s a part of life!
My deepest condolences for the loss of your friend JJ. I just saw the news on E IG . It hit me like brick . I’m like I know JJ but how . Then I remembered your video . I’ve been following you for years now and I can’t imagine how this is affecting you and your sister . Sending HUGS to all of you
Thank you Jack! Putting yourself out there in any situation is terrifying and look at you go! You have the key! Accept the smell of feces when you must and clean it up as fast as possible. I can clearly see your father has been a masterful teacher!! You utilized his lessons in 3 days. Your good Jack! You are a man in my book sir!!
few years from now u gonna rewatch back all these clips and be like hey Im glad I did what I did, chose the path that I chose, experience every bit of life like I was supposed to and that's what builds the character that will be sufficient for you to face adulthood in future. welcome to grown up land my boy. sending all the love in this world for you and Kate ! glad that we can be part of this journey watching you guys grow ! lots of love guys 💛
Yep. You are out in the real world now, trying to find your way without everything your parents provide for you. You are already ahead having their guidance, support and love in your arsenal. Good to express your feelings, just avoid feeling too sorry for yourself. You are privileged. Time to make new friends, time to build your independent identity. Not easy, but essential. #youredoingfine !!!
It’s natural to be homesick and you’re smart learning to sit with it plus knowing it will pass. *The best way to make yourself immediately feel better is to volunteer or help others in need.* Worse thing to do is to self medicate with any alcohol or weed. Just take one day at a time and *be present* instead of in your head. Make it a point to be curious and learn about the local’s culture and unique surroundings, stay busy, be creative, and find moments of joy every day. Maybe talk to a therapist (via Better Help) if you can’t *adapt*. It would be good to share feelings and have a professional guide you if needed. You’re an amazing young man Jack and learning how to adapt to any situation will help you throughout your life. 💙
Jack, sorry to hear about JJ- I had just watched that video of you both fixing the cabins -One day at a time some days will b gd others not songs but know your family is there for u and - your fans r rooting for u and your sis.
Your videos are great Jack! I am sure your family appreciates watching them to see how you are doing in Tonga! I am eager to see how your new job goes this summer... Hope you feel better... 3rd world countries are known for all kinds of sickness, so be careful what you eat and drink... Best of luck to you Captain Jack!
You never have to be tough Jack. Being a man is staying true to yourself while letting yourself feel your emotions and going through them. I hope that you and Kate continue to be safe. Your parents raised you and your siblings beautifully. Happy Birthday to Kate! We share the same birthday 🎉. 🌊🌊🌊⚓️⛵️
Hi! There is no code for being a man. Just be you. You have an awesome family. Having those emotions show how much you value your family. I’m 55 and I have lost my sister, mom, stepmother and last summer my father. The longing to relive my time with them is tough. From the glimpse we see into you all lives it’s easy to see why you would be homesick. Keep yourself grounded in the present. Enjoy your adventures and you will enjoy those moments again with your family.
You’re a good kid, Jack. Thank you for being real about your feelings. Whether you’re in Tonga or Dallas, these feelings are all normal for being out on your own in a foreign place for the first time. Hold onto your faith and all the lessons you’ve learnt from your experiences, and choose to make the most from this unique opportunity to shine your light on this little spot in the middle of the ocean. You have a lot of prayers being prayed over you and your sister from all over the world!
2:19 RIP JJ Rice. I just heard the news from Sailing Zatara. My deepest condolences to the Rice Familiy. Stay strong Jack.
Jack, when I was your age, I was in Vietnam and trust me, I was homesick. I sometimes cried but when it was time to do my job, I just did it. You spent your entire life surronded by your family and friends and you have every reason to feel alone and a little frightened. To have a special spmeone your seperated from on top of that isn't an easy thing. Hang in there. Trust me, it will all be over sonner than you think.
❤️ wise words !
Thank you for what you did and for your bravery, we have no idea what you boys went through!!!❤️❤️❤️
I'm in Vietnam right now.
When compared to your 1st experience of adult hood makes everything jack said seem so ridiculous not that it is but beside what u experienced I hope he sees ypur comment and also gets that feeling maybe it will help him with perspective of what is truly hard and what is just unpleasant.
That’s a life lesson.....it’s not about the hardships you encounter, it’s about how you handle them...
So sorry you’ve lost your friend, Jack. God bless JJ’s family.
Jack, be there for Kate because she's probably feeling kind of lost herself.
That's a great point. ❤
She don’t look to thrilled being there…… Jack, “What are you doing?” Kate, “Nothing”! 😂
Women are very different. They were born with an innate strength to leave and start a new nest. They are definitely more mature. I think Kate looked great as usual. I think she's definitely ready for life on her own. But we will see. This is all temporary.
Kate is turning into a capable Young woman. She needs to look out for her brother.
You have your viewer routing for you.
You had an amazing life on the boat.
I remember people asking me if I felt and Earth Quake . I had my boats totalled by a very bad storm on Catalina Island .
My condolences to JJ for all of his dreams left unfulfilled and to all who loved him. I’m so sorry.
Prayers for you & JJ 's family. He seemed like a great guy fun to be with .
Just read about the tragic passing of JJ. R.I.P young man, my thoughts and condolences to his family and friends. Such a tragic outcome! ❤️🙏
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Welcome to adulthood jack !
Took the words out of my mouth.
Yep, if you don't like waking up every morning and working all day, save every penny and retire early.
this is the future...man child's wanting there mamas titty
@@hxhdfjifzirstc894 I think his parents showed him that already considering they were around 50 or younger when they retired.
Jack - have watched you and your family videos for some time. I just heard about J.J. and words cannot express how sad this is for you and all those people and his family he touched. You are in our prayers and may God give you peace, comfort and understanding during this time.
I turn 80 tomorrow and your video was an inspiration for me .... remembering all the different things I have done in my life and although I felt the same way you described in your video I was never able to so eloquently express them. Thanks Jack ... you have an amazing life ahead of you and I so enjoy coming along as an observer...Thank you 😀
Happy Birthday a day early!
What ^ he said!!!
Indeed! From a youngster of only 63 have the best day ever!
Happy 80th Birthday 🎉 🎂
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Jack, I left home when I was 18 years old to go into the military. I went through a lot of what you are going through. Live the moment, know that you are there with an end in sight, make friends, get into the job and do your best, and before you know it the time there will be over and you WILL walk away with a lot of good memories if you choose to embrace the people around you and enjoy those moments there and create memories.
dude, you are a man even when you are sad or emotional! it's HUMAN. I remember this feeling from moving away from home. lots of love to you
Dude, you are a man. It's great you understand emotions pass as so many guys don't know that and never talk about stuff and then run into problems...being homesick will pass and then when you go home it will feel weird if you are away long enough...cheers mate, you are on the right track.
So sorry to hear about JJ. The shock for his family, you and kate is unimaginable. Big hugs. RIP JJ
Hey Jack. I'm 52 now, but when I was like 43 I had to go to India on a business trip, just for a week. Now I travelled the world before this, but that trip was hard. I actually cried when I got there as culturally it was like nothing I had ever experienced. I could not get out of that place quick enough. Now as I look back and remember the memories I had in just that week I wish I had not felt like that, because that country, those people, the things I saw, I learnt and enjoyed were some of the best I have had. I just did not realize it at that time. I think if i had stayed another 2 weeks I would have gotten past that. My point is, your not 44, you a young man with his life in front of him. Everything you love about home will still be there. Use this time to grow as a person my man, you will thank yourself for it later.
Happy Birthday Kate, you two keep each other strong and safe, peace out.
Reading books will really help. True stories, survival, fiction, non fiction.
Takes you out of your mind and body.
Been there and still have waves of incredible homesickness. For those who have had more transitions - whether TCK (third culture kid which I think boat culture would be a subset of), military, ministry, or displaced - I think homesickness is a part of it.
Mackenzie is right - it’s a grief in this world you just have to feel. It’s part of living.
And the yearning to be with M compounds it all 100x!!! I remember that well even 25 yrs later now! The yearning, the desiring, the waiting…it’s a gift even today after 24 yrs of marriage - hard to describe it. Especially during relational tough times it’s like glue.
You are ok - you are naming the losses; keep naming the griefs.
Huge hug! Hug your sister! Cry together. You’ll be ok.
My sincerest condolences to JJ’s family and friends, Jack. It is so difficult to loose a friend. He seemed like such a fun loving spirit, may he fly free. 🩵
So very sorry to hear that your new friend has passed. So very, very sad. 😪 He was so young...
Awww Jack, honey your human, and were raised by very loving parents. You got this young MAN, never change.. keep the balance ❤ happy birthday Kate!!!
So sorry to here about JJ mate . Condolences to the Rice family such sad news . Look after yourself and Kate during this hard time .I know you both would be stepping up to help out the Rice family as that's the way you have been brought up. Stay strong guys we are all thinking of you both
You never liked my bacon?! 🥓 😭
Jack, thank you for opening up and being emotionally vulnerable, but also for learning from your struggles and sharing your walk with us. 👣 You must’ve had great parents.
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*I know......the nerve!* 😄🥓
JACK wants his mommy
Good Renee good Keith. They are ok, is just a gust of the day, the storms are not forever. Thank you for sharing life. we are with you and every member of your family. a hug for all of you.
Oh, Renee, my heart breaks for you all looking back on this video, when too-crispy bacon, homesickness, earthquakes, and the flu were the big problems. What an instant perspective shift all have been through since. It must be very hard to be apart from your kids as they (and you) are in the midst of this huge loss, supporting JJ's family, keeping things going at the resort. Prayers for you all.
It’s normal bro. I was 17 when I left home and we all go through it. It’s the transition between relying on others and being your own man…and we aren’t all tough…it’s a big facade. Just be chill and know that time passes quicker than you think…and you’ll be back home and you’ll want to be back there in Tonga. And by the way you are already showing maturity by posting this and being true. You are a great guy.
Good to hear from you Jack.
Happy Birthday Kate 🎂
Welcome to adulthood, being a man is emotional at times, just learn from the experience and mistakes, through this journey is how you grow. Remember that you never stop learning or growing its being human. Enjoy Jack!
Classic wake up tune Captain Jack. I think it takes a tough Man to accept being vulnerable . Like most things time is the essence to relief
Sorry for your loss. You were made for great things. Maybe you were there for such a time as this? Prayers for you, Kate, all the family & friends.
Believe me when I say that these are the good days. Relax, enjoy life's little moments!
I'm 46. I can't say that any other time was better than now. You just have to make the best of every day.
So sorry to hear the tragic & heartbreaking news of JJ’s passing. My thoughts & prayers to JJ’s family & friends. Stay strong Jack. ❤️
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Rip JJ 😢🕊️
Jack your a bigger man for being aware of your emotions. Your emotional intelligence is very high. With sensitivity, comes awareness.
Yes, but I believe he’s overthinking everything he’s saying. Almost ro the point it gets irrational thinking.
He’s in tings with his sister - alone for the first time in his life, with no safety met like family or anything. However he has friends in that island. I feel like he’s nit taking the time to just live in the moment and slice the day, enjiy the other people instead of moping around.
Feelings are good but there’s a fine line between overthinking and just reflecting.
In this situation, it’s quiet simple. He’s away from his family for the first time, his new girlfriend as well.
But he can’t let that stop him from moving on, growing up, Everyone will most likely be at home when he gets back anyway.
It’s nit a healthy thing to be homesick at his age. To this degree. As long as he doesn’t pull others down with him when he’s moody, vulnerable. That’s what I mean by him overthink things, making things harder for himself instead of just see his new suituatiin as it is, and embrace it, Grab all the experiences and enjoy the locals company.
Six months is nothing.he will have all the time in the world when it’s time for the next adventure.
You can’t live in “what could have been”. You accept your situation and make the bets out of it.
Life is shirt and unpredictable so it’s just embracing every opportunity that you find interesting.
Oh dear.. I just read about his friend who passed away on the island shortly after this clog was uploaded.
That would hit him and Kate very hard. I can’t even begin to imagine how JJ’s family are coping.. That young man was scheduled for He allegedly died whilst with friends out free diving. that kid was no stranger to that or those waters,
So very tragic. I don’t know why anyone onboard didn’t watch out for the free divers.
I just hike they didn’t push each other too hard. That’s always a worry for me when I see young guys. There’s often a completion who’s the best at something and they take unnecessary risks they normally wouldn’t to show off.
so sorry for what happened to JJ. Rest in peace 🕊
Awww Jack sending you love and prayers. I know it’s not easy being away from the people you know and love, hang in there.
Hey Bud! the best way to deal with this is stay busy! As they say in Montana! (Cowboy up) you got this brotha!
From someone who made a rash decision when i was 17 after being homesick and then regretting that decision for the rest of my life as it majorly affected my relationship with my mum in particular (I was in the Navy - left after general training rather than seeing it for what it was as a great maturing and growing opportunity) - no two days are ever the same and especially for you and Kate given Boat Life is all you have ever really known. You are alot more mature and forward thinking than you realise mate, so don't lose sight of an incredible chance to learn about yourself in a unique environment, but also a really cool chance to further develop your relationship with Kate more who prob shares alot of your feelings at the moment. Looking forward to episode 2 of the 'Jack & JJ Sparky' sitcom in the next video!! Keep doing you Jack, we appreciate you
What makes a person tough and strong I think also is experiencing what you are going through Not running from any of it And Men can have emotions you're still Young this is the first time that you're not Right there with your siblings and your parents You're experiencing the responsibility of A new job a new place New people But it's good to go through Even though it's uncomfortable it's good to go through But you'll get through it you're resilient human being You've got a good hit on your shoulders A good heart You've got your sister there with you You'll be fine Come up with the good routine every day you stick with it before you know it The time will be passing you by everything you're feeling is 100% normal
🌷❤🌷 Hang in there Jack you'll be in tears when you leave 🌷♥️🌷
I let homesickness (and anxiety) stop me from so much in my life. I’m 39 now and so wish I had stuck those things out/given them a chance instead of going home/quitting, especially so quickly. Trust me, you don’t want to let being homesick stop you because it will most likely keep you from doing a lot in life if you start letting it win. I know easier said than done, but you’ve got this!
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Losing someone so young is incredibly painful. Please remember that it's okay to grieve and to lean on others for support. Take comfort in the cherished memories you shared, and know that your friend will always hold a special place in your heart.
A real man can be vulnerable. Hang in there Jack. I'm always impressed that you are able to express yourself so well.
Wow, what a smooth and natural voice Jack has. He has a real gift to connect with the camera and send out his message in a clear way...Good Job and best of luck, I honestly see him going a few steps on and hitting the Big Time!
Thanks for sharing Jack! Seems like a great adventure you’re having!!!!
Jack, you’re the man. I turned 65 a month back and I remember those days pretty good. You are growing and doing a great job young man. And there’s nothing wrong with those emotions. But just remember it’s life and you’re in control and you got that rant of yours right. Actually said very well. Take care of yourself and your sister. Keep on keeping on. Memories and hard work.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY KATE🎉🎊🎁
This is a huge growth opportunity for you Jack
Wow! Profound and wise words from such a young man! My son is 25, and this was an amazing video, Jack. To be so self aware and then to be able articulate it into words and then share with strangers shows tremendous strength in character. Good job! Hope it gets better and Happy birthday Kate! From Southern California ❤
My thoughts and prayers are with you, JJ's family and friends.
*Happy B-day Ms. Looney Tunes!* 🤗🎂🥳 *Get Kate a drink and snack...* 🥤
You got this jack😊 homesickness is brutal. Being vulnerable is very manly IMO. You got this!
Happy birthday Kate! This is a big adjustment for all of you not just being away from family but also being landlocked. Cry, scream, laugh whatever you need to in order to process. And it is a process. I’m 55 and moved away from family by 7 hours. I still get homesick for them when I’m in Florida and homesick for Florida when I’m back in Tennessee with them. Hopefully things will even out once you’ve had more time to adjust and are busier with tourists. You’re both doing great just support each other like I know you will and give yourselves grace.
Dude. Well done. You are wise beyond your years.
Awesome video jack. Thanks for being so vulnerable and real. I am about to turn 21 living on a boat with my family and this was very encouraging for me to hear. Keep up the videos, one of my favorite skiing channels!
Sailing
It's perfectly normal to feel this way Jack. When I first moved to college I was so homesick I was almost crying. But then after a few weeks after meeting tons of friends, going to concerts, football games (Penn State), intramural wrestling, beautiful girls all over, and of course learning engineering at a higher level you couldn't get me to go home except for the holidays. Keep your head up, it will get better.
Jack, I am so sorry for you and Kat because of the loss of your great friend there. There is no time or stage in life that death of friend/loved one/ family member gets any easier. As long as you keep them in your heart and mind they will always be with you in thought and spirit. Go easy on yourself and take your time navigating forward. Grief, loss, and healing all take time and everyone goes at their own pace. You have a wonderful life ahead you. It may no feel like now of for a while..... but it will get better. I 100% guarantee it.
Rest in peace JJ. Super unfortunate. Much love and remorse to his family.
Jack- sending hugs to you after JJ's accident. Knowing you, you are probably blaming yourself whether you were there with him or not. I can't imagine the sadness and devastation you are feeling. Let us know how you are doing, as soon as you are able.
It’s only temporary. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to remind myself of this simple fact. No matter what, throughout life, it’s only temporary.
As someone who just finished their first year of college, I totally get that homesick feeling. The beginning is the hardest!!! But eventually you get used to being away from your family. You’re never gonna stop missing them but trust me it gets easier. And by the end of your time in Tonga you’ll be sad to go, so soak in each moment. You got this!!
Jack and Kate. Keeping you in my prayers.
Jack, thanks for sharing. It is perfectly natural & normal to be feeling that way. I found a quote that's helped me in times of self doubt, feeling emotional or down. And the quote is this. "If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life, With confidence, you have won even before you have started"
Jack, I’m so sorry to hear about JJ, prayers to his family, and to you and Kate🙏🙏
jack b grateful... in this big world of ours there r others who r in worse situations than yourself.
when you fall just pick yrself up and move forward.... be grateful dude
You're going through a life changing adventure right now and being sick probably didn't help but it's not unusual to experience home sickness and there's no shame in being emotional. It's good that you shared your thoughts with us and it is very healthy to talk bout these things. Your parents have exposed you to a wonderful life and you're going to do great things and they're going to be very proud of you. Keep your chin up, you're going to be fine.
So sorry to hear about JJ. I literally just watched this video and seen the news about the incident. Stay safe bruh
My deepest condolences for your dear friend JJ!!! Terrible sad news!! I’m so sorry!!! 💔💔💔💔
That rant was pure man, bro. This is an adventure and ur doing just fine… Ur also a great brother! Ps I’m so glad I came across this channel. When I catch it it’s like my adventure, too 😂
You are learning to be a true man than many your age will learn in 30 years. Hats off for always getting back up, and facing forward, standing fast, and seeing the positive! You are well on your way!
Thank you for being honest. I have struggled a lot in my live and didn‘t even always have the strength to stand up. I find it great that you go through it and don‘t give up! You have a great support system in your close nit family. Use it, and especially Kate, because she is close location wise. She can feel best if it becomes more than struggle - might or might not happen. You are already a great guy. That‘s for sure! And going through this experience will make you an even better man for your future wife. And it will make McKensey stronger through her own struggles with the situation and all.
Thanks again, man for sharing! It helps others who go through hard times!
RIP JJ 💜😢. Jack, I’m so very sorry to hear about the passing of your friend JJ. Such a senseless accident and a life with such a bright future snuffed out. Stay strong … my prayers go out to all who loved JJ 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻.
hugs jack. change is hard. I'm sure when you first got on the boat to live that it was hard from being used to living in a house. time will help. you are allowed to be human and feel what you feel. but know that you may be in a different place and not with your family and things may be different BUT the one thing that hasnt changed is us watching you and supporting you from a far. I look forward to seeing all your adventures and growth.
JJ, rip brother, prayers y’all’s way
Nothing wrong with loving and missing your family! The melancholy will fade soon. Lots of people feel this when they go to college for the first year.
I heard about JJ and immediately remembered this video. Sending you love ❤️ and hoping you are OK.
Awww. 🥰 A real man can share his emotions like you did. I know Mom and Pop are so proud of you! Your time there will go by so fast so soak in the memories and remember that this too is helping to define your future(s) for you and Kate. College was similar for me. Even 2 months in I was just homesick and questioning everything but it all helped me figure on and work out the future- keeping my goals in mind for my life. You got this!!! Hope you feel better!
I've been saying goodbye to people all my life so totally understand how you're feeling, Captain Jack! You can do this!
Wow, thank you for sharing Jack. I have so much respect for you for doing that. It's normal to be homesick. You spent so much time in an intimate small space with your family over the years that of course you're missing them.
Learn all you can in this chapter of your life. It will be over before you know it.
"Wherever you go, go with all your heart."
big hug, Jack!
thank you for being vulnerable.
happy belated birthday to Kate! She is a great one
I’ll leave you with this quote “You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you.” Keep your chin up it’s a part of life!
My deepest condolences for the loss of your friend JJ. I just saw the news on E IG . It hit me like brick . I’m like I know JJ but how . Then I remembered your video . I’ve been following you for years now and I can’t imagine how this is affecting you and your sister . Sending HUGS to all of you
I just heard the news.. Jack - I'm praying for you and all those affected. I'm so sorry...
RIP JJ. So sorry to hear the news. Sending prayers to all.
Thank you Jack for telling us your emotions
Thank you Jack! Putting yourself out there in any situation is terrifying and look at you go! You have the key! Accept the smell of feces when you must and clean it up as fast as possible. I can clearly see your father has been a masterful teacher!! You utilized his lessons in 3 days. Your good Jack! You are a man in my book sir!!
Hang in there Jack, and Happy Birthday Kate!
few years from now u gonna rewatch back all these clips and be like hey Im glad I did what I did, chose the path that I chose, experience every bit of life like I was supposed to and that's what builds the character that will be sufficient for you to face adulthood in future. welcome to grown up land my boy. sending all the love in this world for you and Kate ! glad that we can be part of this journey watching you guys grow ! lots of love guys 💛
Happy Birthday Kate. Stay sweet!
Happy Birthday dear Kate 🎉 hope you enjoyed yourself 🥳
Prayers of comfort for all there, Jack.
Yep. You are out in the real world now, trying to find your way without everything your parents provide for you. You are already ahead having their guidance, support and love in your arsenal. Good to express your feelings, just avoid feeling too sorry for yourself. You are privileged. Time to make new friends, time to build your independent identity. Not easy, but essential. #youredoingfine !!!
It’s natural to be homesick and you’re smart learning to sit with it plus knowing it will pass. *The best way to make yourself immediately feel better is to volunteer or help others in need.* Worse thing to do is to self medicate with any alcohol or weed. Just take one day at a time and *be present* instead of in your head. Make it a point to be curious and learn about the local’s culture and unique surroundings, stay busy, be creative, and find moments of joy every day. Maybe talk to a therapist (via Better Help) if you can’t *adapt*. It would be good to share feelings and have a professional guide you if needed. You’re an amazing young man Jack and learning how to adapt to any situation will help you throughout your life. 💙
Such amazing Kite-surfing on the water in tonga!
Jack, sorry to hear about JJ- I had just watched that video of you both fixing the cabins -One day at a time some days will b gd others not songs but know your family is there for u and - your fans r rooting for u and your sis.
Your videos are great Jack! I am sure your family appreciates watching them to see how you are doing in Tonga! I am eager to see how your new job goes this summer... Hope you feel better... 3rd world countries are known for all kinds of sickness, so be careful what you eat and drink... Best of luck to you Captain Jack!
I’m so sorry Jack for the tragic loss of your friend, will be praying for his and your family 🙏🏻
You never have to be tough Jack. Being a man is staying true to yourself while letting yourself feel your emotions and going through them.
I hope that you and Kate continue to be safe.
Your parents raised you and your siblings beautifully.
Happy Birthday to Kate! We share the same birthday 🎉.
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Hi! There is no code for being a man. Just be you. You have an awesome family. Having those emotions show how much you value your family. I’m 55 and I have lost my sister, mom, stepmother and last summer my father. The longing to relive my time with them is tough. From the glimpse we see into you all lives it’s easy to see why you would be homesick. Keep yourself grounded in the present. Enjoy your adventures and you will enjoy those moments again with your family.
Prayers for you all😢 so sorry forbyour loss
You’re a good kid, Jack. Thank you for being real about your feelings. Whether you’re in Tonga or Dallas, these feelings are all normal for being out on your own in a foreign place for the first time. Hold onto your faith and all the lessons you’ve learnt from your experiences, and choose to make the most from this unique opportunity to shine your light on this little spot in the middle of the ocean. You have a lot of prayers being prayed over you and your sister from all over the world!