Congratulations! I’m so proud of you. You have saved yourself from a heart attack, stroke or from taking medication or drinking just to numb the pain. The word “uv tsis tuag” that’s a lie. Uv ntau ces tuag tiag tiag li. Whether you are a woman or a man if your spouse chose someone else over you, that mean they don’t love you anymore so please, please love yourself first. Kuv tsis hlub yus tus kheej, tsis muaj leej twg hlub yus. Good health to you, tus niam tsev. 👏
Qhov koj ua tau zoo heev tabsi kuv tu siab ib qho koj nrauj koj tus txiv lig zog lawm, tsim nyog koj twb muaj nws nrauj ntev los lawm os tus me viv ncaus aw.. tabtsi nrog koj zoo siab heev li is mog hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej yuav hlub lwm tus nco ntsoov li ntawd nawb mog,
Sister, I am so sorry to hear about your toxic marriage. This is one reason why I struggle with certain aspects of Hmong culture-some people still cling to outdated traditions and try to impose them in today's world. I find it particularly hard to understand why some still think polygamy is acceptable. I'm glad you took your doctor's advice and started prioritizing your well-being. Many people forget that stress can contribute to numerous health issues, some of which can be fatal. Chronic stress negatively impacts our mental, emotional, and physical health, and no one is worth enduring that kind of suffering. It's wonderful to hear that you left that toxic marriage and are now doing much better. I hope you continue to take care of yourself and may God bless you on your journey. Remember, self-care is essential, and if you don't take care of yourself, no one else will. Thank you for sharing your story-I'm happy to know it had a positive outcome.
Everybody has a limit. You've reached yours however it took you to have health issues in order to move on and it shouldnt have gotten to that point. Women need to stop being ua siab ntev and uv lawv to txiv just to prove to everyone that lawv yog tu poj niam zoo. Koj tseem yog thiab tsis yog los nobody live ur life...they dont know ur struggles and they dont care. Self love and self care is so important. Happiness is within yourself, not from someone else. Glad u move on. Now stay that way and dont go back when and if that txiv dev beg u to.
Koj mas ua rau kuv npau taws tag rau koj li os. Tam sis zoo kawg ua thaum kawg koj kuj txawj hlub koj tus kheej es muab koj niag txiv dev nrauj kiag lawm os. Good job sister! Love yourself everyday and enjoy life to the fullest!
Peb cov me vivncaus hmoob aw txog txij koj tus txiv yuav niam yau ces koj twb tag nqi rau nws lawm os. Tsis txhob nyoo lis sib koom ib tug txiv kom lawv ua yus mob hlwb thiab mob stroke mog. Tsis tau tus txiv los yus nrog yus tej me nyuam nyob cawm yus tus kheej kom txhob muaj mob mog. Yog koj nrog tus niam yau txeeb tus txiv ces yus😮 yuav ua tus txiv ntawd muaj muaj nqi ces lawv yuav txhob txwm ua kom koj mob koj tuag sai xwb. Hnub twg koj tsis nrog lawv sib txeeb niag txiv dev ntawd lawm ces nkawd txoj kev sib hlub yeej tsis muaj zog npaum twg thiab os. Ua siab loj rau lub neej niam hlob niam yau ces yus yog tus swb xwb. Xum mus nyob ib leeg es yus yuav nrog leej twg los tsis muaj tus hais. Txhob cia lawv tsim txom yus es hlub yus tus kheej mog.
To all the og women and new gens..., do not stand around a marriage that is going nowhere on a cheating dog...never listen to people who is not on your side...
Sister, I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and for getting out of that toxic marriage. You deserve better and I pray God continue to bless you. What people don’t realize is that stress can contribute to a number of heath issues that can lead to death. Our health is extremely important. Therefore I’m so happy to hear the outcome of your story. ❤
Nyob zoo, kab lias koj mas txawj ua suab phim tus neeg hais lus ntawd kawg ib yam.li cov hais lus qeeb2 hlwb taj2 koj mas keej ua suab phim nws kawg ua rau txoj neej neeg dab neeg lom zem kawg
Cov pojniam es luag mus yuav lwm tus tseem pheej nyob ces siab dev xwb os txhob tias yog niam loj siab zoo. Tseem tias Kuv tus txiv kuv tus txiv. Hau yau es... txhob ntshaw ntshaw txiv ma
Stress is a silent killer. It eats at you. The way the OGs glorify being the first wife. Ruam kawg. Uv tej yam kom tsim nyog, txhob uv kev phem kev ruam. Bad people like to lie to themselves and gaslight others, and manipulate others to accept the most minimum expectations of them so you don’t trouble them only. “Niam loj siab zoo” ces yog ruam noj quav xwb os, txhob ntseeg.
In today's world, if you still live in the niam loj niam yau's life, it's your choice. You can live without the man. Don't worry what will happen when you die. Don't need to go to the same place as where he goes when you die. You will be happier and healthier without him
Leej twg hais tias uv tsis tuag no nas. Tuag taus hos. Best think of yourself and what’s best for you and not because you are a good person. If you are such a good person, the husband weren’t had married a 2nd wife. Should have left when he married the 2nd wife.
Sorry sister for what you have gone through however you did it upon yourself. Should’ve left him a long time ago… when a man no longer love you, you need to love yourself and be brave and LEAVE. I wished you would’ve seek for help or self love a long time ago. Love yourself first.
Txog txij lawv ua niam yau ces lawv yeej myaj lub siab phem txaus txaus Ho txiv neej lub maib ces nej paub tsawg xwb Txiv neej mas siab phem tob tob thiab zais tuag nthi.
Kuv tsis feel sorry rau cov niam loj li os. Nyob lub teb chaw vam.meej no lawm na. Es leej twg pheej kom nej cia txiv neej yuav niam yau es nej uv ny9b na. Nws muaj niam yau ces koj kuj muaj txiv yau thiab los pob. Yog koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej ces pab tsis tau. Vim koj yeej txaus siab rau koj tus txiv tsuj koj ne.
In this day and age, you don’t need to stay in that marriage anymore. Polygamy is against the law in the US. Love yourself and take charge of your life.
👍👍👍...Sister, why would you stay where you're not happy? If you do not leave or divorce him, then the best advice would be for you to live in a separate household and do you. Don't worry about him or his new wife. Keep your finances separate. Stopped supporting him. Do not give him a single penny. Let his new wife do for him and support him. He's using you as a doormat to wiped his feet and to sponge off you. Hell, go and make new friends, have yourself a special friend.
You should've just stay home or go on your own vacation without him or his wife. Your husband has proven how much he care about you. That vacation only prove to you that he only cared about his second wife. Truth comes out when they got liquor.
Ob niag txiv tsev no nkawv ob lub niag qhov qau tos tsi ncaj ncees kiag li nawb...Nws yuav tsi tau koob hmoov kiag li nawb...Peb ua lub neej nyob tsi txhob ruam tshaj qhov ruam ua rau luag tej saib tsi taug yus li koj os tus niam tsev aw.
Viv ncaus ua cas peb yog poj niam ib yam es nej yuav ntsaws ib tus txiv neej es nws twb yuav ib tus poj niam los nrog nws nyob lawm nas nws yog ib thooj kub los nws yeej tsi yog koj li lawm nas me tub me yuam muaj lawm los lawv yeej yuav txawj loj khwv tsi txaus noj los twb muaj nom twv pab nes
Caag es zaaj nuav mas ua rua kuv ntshaav sab tag le os! Leejtwg ex xaav tas txujkev muaj nam hlub nam yau yuav zoo rua ib leej tug twg? Kawg mob xwb mas. Peb yog tuabneeg ib yaam xwb os. Nrug koj tu sab has tug vivncaug.
Ogs saying for you to be patient and taking all that bs so they can manipulated you. Of course you can die of being stressful, abuses, unloved, depression, hypertension, diabetes, and the diseases in life. Better to let him and all those toxins go!!! It is better to love, respect, take care, and put yourself before all those toxins, sister!!!
Please stop telling womyn who’s in this situation or any bad relationship situation to siab tev or be patient. If the role is reversed, I’m sure no one can do the same.
Ntuj aw cas zaj no es koj hais xwb lo twb yog kuv txoj thiab os kuv tsis muab kuv txoj tuaj rau lawm hais xwb os yog hais mas ntshe yuav ua 3 zaug hais os vim kuv muaj niam yau coob dua koj lawm os
I am glad you finally had the courage to divorce your husband and make you and your health a priority. When a guy marries a niam yau ces nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm os. Don't uv and suffer. Just let him go. Let's get rid of the saying niam loj siab zoo. Hopefully our millennial generation learn from this and find happiness for themselves instead of caring so much about reputation.
WOW! Kuv nrog koj zoo siab tias koj ua tau ib siab lawm. Hmoob lo lus hais tias “uv xwb yeej tsis tuag” tsis muaj tseeb nawb. Cov neeg uv uv tuag los lawm coob leej ntau tus. Yus tuav tsum saib yus muaj nqis hlub yus tus kheej thiaj li pab tau yus.
I admire your strength. Continue to love yourself.
Mloog lawm
Good to you sister, so glad you leave your toxic life and love yourself .
Good story
I’m so happy you left and realized your worth!!!
Txiv neej ces thaum lawv yuav lwm tus ces lawv yeej tsi hlub yus lawm mas viv ncau aws txhob tus siab os yeej meem hlub yus tus kheej xwb os
Your husband’s wife is telling the truth. I am proud of you. You will be so much happier.
Congratulations! I’m so proud of you. You have saved yourself from a heart attack, stroke or from taking medication or drinking just to numb the pain. The word “uv tsis tuag” that’s a lie. Uv ntau ces tuag tiag tiag li. Whether you are a woman or a man if your spouse chose someone else over you, that mean they don’t love you anymore so please, please love yourself first. Kuv tsis hlub yus tus kheej, tsis muaj leej twg hlub yus. Good health to you, tus niam tsev. 👏
Bravo, sister!!!
Qhov koj ua tau zoo heev tabsi kuv tu siab ib qho koj nrauj koj tus txiv lig zog lawm, tsim nyog koj twb muaj nws nrauj ntev los lawm os tus me viv ncaus aw.. tabtsi nrog koj zoo siab heev li is mog hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej yuav hlub lwm tus nco ntsoov li ntawd nawb mog,
Sister, I am so sorry to hear about your toxic marriage. This is one reason why I struggle with certain aspects of Hmong culture-some people still cling to outdated traditions and try to impose them in today's world. I find it particularly hard to understand why some still think polygamy is acceptable. I'm glad you took your doctor's advice and started prioritizing your well-being. Many people forget that stress can contribute to numerous health issues, some of which can be fatal. Chronic stress negatively impacts our mental, emotional, and physical health, and no one is worth enduring that kind of suffering. It's wonderful to hear that you left that toxic marriage and are now doing much better. I hope you continue to take care of yourself and may God bless you on your journey. Remember, self-care is essential, and if you don't take care of yourself, no one else will. Thank you for sharing your story-I'm happy to know it had a positive outcome.
Txiv neej hmoob ces txawm yuav mus nyob lub teb chaws vam meej npaum cas los yeej g tseg txoj kev yuav niam yau
Everybody has a limit. You've reached yours however it took you to have health issues in order to move on and it shouldnt have gotten to that point. Women need to stop being ua siab ntev and uv lawv to txiv just to prove to everyone that lawv yog tu poj niam zoo. Koj tseem yog thiab tsis yog los nobody live ur life...they dont know ur struggles and they dont care. Self love and self care is so important. Happiness is within yourself, not from someone else. Glad u move on. Now stay that way and dont go back when and if that txiv dev beg u to.
Koj mas ua rau kuv npau taws tag rau koj li os. Tam sis zoo kawg ua thaum kawg koj kuj txawj hlub koj tus kheej es muab koj niag txiv dev nrauj kiag lawm os. Good job sister! Love yourself everyday and enjoy life to the fullest!
Niam neej Vam aw mloog tej dab neeg no ces kuv kawg ntshav siab xwb os.
You are brave and courageous.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Peb cov me vivncaus hmoob aw txog txij koj tus txiv yuav niam yau ces koj twb tag nqi rau nws lawm os. Tsis txhob nyoo lis sib koom ib tug txiv kom lawv ua yus mob hlwb thiab mob stroke mog. Tsis tau tus txiv los yus nrog yus tej me nyuam nyob cawm yus tus kheej kom txhob muaj mob mog. Yog koj nrog tus niam yau txeeb tus txiv ces yus😮 yuav ua tus txiv ntawd muaj muaj nqi ces lawv yuav txhob txwm ua kom koj mob koj tuag sai xwb. Hnub twg koj tsis nrog lawv sib txeeb niag txiv dev ntawd lawm ces nkawd txoj kev sib hlub yeej tsis muaj zog npaum twg thiab os.
Ua siab loj rau lub neej niam hlob niam yau ces yus yog tus swb xwb. Xum mus nyob ib leeg es yus yuav nrog leej twg los tsis muaj tus hais. Txhob cia lawv tsim txom yus es hlub yus tus kheej mog.
Koj ua yog lawm uv tiag tuag tiag lub ntiaj teb no zoo zoo nkauj tseem xav nyob...dim txoj kev mob lawm zoo kawg....tsis ntev no ntshe koj niag txiv yuav khaus ib ces ntag lau vim niam yau txawj txawj ua tsias...
To all the og women and new gens..., do not stand around a marriage that is going nowhere on a cheating dog...never listen to people who is not on your side...
Tu siab koj uv koj niag txiv ntev zog lawm
Thank you for your story. I hope others can learn from it. ❤
Sister, I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and for getting out of that toxic marriage. You deserve better and I pray God continue to bless you. What people don’t realize is that stress can contribute to a number of heath issues that can lead to death. Our health is extremely important. Therefore I’m so happy to hear the outcome of your story. ❤
Good for her. I thought she would never leave her txiv dev.
Nyob zoo, kab lias koj mas txawj ua suab phim tus neeg hais lus ntawd kawg ib yam.li cov hais lus qeeb2 hlwb taj2 koj mas keej ua suab phim nws kawg ua rau txoj neej neeg dab neeg lom zem kawg
Koj yog ib tug poj niam muaj peev xwm hloov kev phem mus rau kev zoo. Thov txhawb koj lub zog thiab ua tsaug koj coj tuaj tham cob qhia peb cov poj niam rau txoj kev zoo.
Good thing you divorced that toxic husband! Love ❤️ your self!
Cov pojniam es luag mus yuav lwm tus tseem pheej nyob ces siab dev xwb os txhob tias yog niam loj siab zoo. Tseem tias Kuv tus txiv kuv tus txiv. Hau yau es... txhob ntshaw ntshaw txiv ma
Yog uv tiag tuag tiag nawb mas yuav tsum hlu b yus tus kheej nrhiav kev kaj siab xwb😊
Stress is a silent killer. It eats at you. The way the OGs glorify being the first wife. Ruam kawg. Uv tej yam kom tsim nyog, txhob uv kev phem kev ruam. Bad people like to lie to themselves and gaslight others, and manipulate others to accept the most minimum expectations of them so you don’t trouble them only. “Niam loj siab zoo” ces yog ruam noj quav xwb os, txhob ntseeg.
You are very strong! I'm glad you made the decision to divorce him.
Uv tuag tau nawb... xyoo 75 ces uv ntshe yuav nciaj huab tais.
In today's world, if you still live in the niam loj niam yau's life, it's your choice. You can live without the man. Don't worry what will happen when you die. Don't need to go to the same place as where he goes when you die. You will be happier and healthier without him
Ceev faj tsam tsam muaj stroke os yeej meem nrhiav txhua yam los kom txhob nyuaj siab thiaj tsi muaj mob xwb os
Leej twg hais tias uv tsis tuag no nas. Tuag taus hos. Best think of yourself and what’s best for you and not because you are a good person. If you are such a good person, the husband weren’t had married a 2nd wife. Should have left when he married the 2nd wife.
Sorry sister for what you have gone through however you did it upon yourself. Should’ve left him a long time ago… when a man no longer love you, you need to love yourself and be brave and LEAVE. I wished you would’ve seek for help or self love a long time ago. Love yourself first.
Nim no kuv twb tawm hauv lub neej hmoob lwj siab no lawm thiab os
Cov neeg uv tiag tiag yeej tsis tuag. Cov uv dag li koj mob mob siab sab sab tsis yog uv, yog ya txuj uv xwb. Peb pog uv tiag tiag, peb yawg yuav tsawg tus niam yau los peb pog tsis khib tsis care, tsis txeeb tsis mob lawm.
Txog txij lawv ua niam yau ces lawv yeej myaj lub siab phem txaus txaus
Ho txiv neej lub maib ces nej paub tsawg xwb
Txiv neej mas siab phem tob tob thiab zais tuag nthi.
Ib tug txiv ua yuav niam yau ces tsis hlub koj lawm . Tsis taste uv lawm
Ntuj aw, txiv yuav niam yau ces yog nwx tsis hlub yus lawm los mos. Yog kuv ces twb muab nws lawb ua ntej yuav pog yau law os. 😂😂😂
Kuv tsis feel sorry rau cov niam loj li os. Nyob lub teb chaw vam.meej no lawm na. Es leej twg pheej kom nej cia txiv neej yuav niam yau es nej uv ny9b na. Nws muaj niam yau ces koj kuj muaj txiv yau thiab los pob. Yog koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej ces pab tsis tau. Vim koj yeej txaus siab rau koj tus txiv tsuj koj ne.
Xav rho khaujtsiav rau xwb os. Txog txim luag hloov kj ces tsis muaj nug qhi lawm os. Move on for your own health
She was nice not to report her husband plus his second wife to the police and the hospital. He would of to go to jail if it was me 😂
In this day and age, you don’t need to stay in that marriage anymore. Polygamy is against the law in the US. Love yourself and take charge of your life.
This damn age whose still live like this.
👍👍👍...Sister, why would you stay where you're not happy? If you do not leave or divorce him, then the best advice would be for you to live in a separate household and do you. Don't worry about him or his new wife. Keep your finances separate.
Stopped supporting him. Do not give him a single penny. Let his new wife do for him and support him.
He's using you as a doormat to wiped his feet and to sponge off you.
Hell, go and make new friends, have yourself a special friend.
You should've just stay home or go on your own vacation without him or his wife.
Your husband has proven how much he care about you. That vacation only prove to you that he only cared about his second wife.
Truth comes out when they got liquor.
Tus me niam tsev aw, txog txij yus niag txiv yuav niam yau lawm ces nws yeej tsis muaj yus hauv nws lub siab lawm os. Tsis tsimnyog nyob sib txeeb ib niag txiv siab phem lawm os. Yog koj yuav nyob ces nyob tsim nws xwb
Ob niag txiv tsev no nkawv ob lub niag qhov qau tos tsi ncaj ncees kiag li nawb...Nws yuav tsi tau koob hmoov kiag li nawb...Peb ua lub neej nyob tsi txhob ruam tshaj qhov ruam ua rau luag tej saib tsi taug yus li koj os tus niam tsev aw.
Viv ncaus ua cas peb yog poj niam ib yam es nej yuav ntsaws ib tus txiv neej es nws twb yuav ib tus poj niam los nrog nws nyob lawm nas nws yog ib thooj kub los nws yeej tsi yog koj li lawm nas me tub me yuam muaj lawm los lawv yeej yuav txawj loj khwv tsi txaus noj los twb muaj nom twv pab nes
😂😂 kawg uv xwb vim yus ntshaw lawv thiab ua g tau niam.
Yog txoj koj , koj puas UV tau mam ..
Cov neeg ua tau luag niam yau ces yeej siab phem
Caag es zaaj nuav mas ua rua kuv ntshaav sab tag le os! Leejtwg ex xaav tas txujkev muaj nam hlub nam yau yuav zoo rua ib leej tug twg? Kawg mob xwb mas. Peb yog tuabneeg ib yaam xwb os. Nrug koj tu sab has tug vivncaug.
Uv tsuav laib qau los tau npe 😂
Tus viv ncaus aws, txij hnub koj tus txiv yuav niam yau ces yeej tsis hlub koj lawm tiag os. Ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj li thiab.
Ogs saying for you to be patient and taking all that bs so they can manipulated you. Of course you can die of being stressful, abuses, unloved, depression, hypertension, diabetes, and the diseases in life. Better to let him and all those toxins go!!! It is better to love, respect, take care, and put yourself before all those toxins, sister!!!
Why you put yourself so low, love you yourself please
Cov niag ruam ruam ces tsuas paub quaj xwb tiag.
Tus niam tsev no ruam zog lawm. Xav paub Yog vim li cas koj tseem yuav koj tus txiv thaum nws yuav ib tug tshiab
Please stop telling womyn who’s in this situation or any bad relationship situation to siab tev or be patient. If the role is reversed, I’m sure no one can do the same.
Nej yog ib pab niag aub xwb.
Ntuj aw cas zaj no es koj hais xwb lo twb yog kuv txoj thiab os kuv tsis muab kuv txoj tuaj rau lawm hais xwb os yog hais mas ntshe yuav ua 3 zaug hais os vim kuv muaj niam yau coob dua koj lawm os
I am glad you finally had the courage to divorce your husband and make you and your health a priority. When a guy marries a niam yau ces nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm os. Don't uv and suffer. Just let him go. Let's get rid of the saying niam loj siab zoo. Hopefully our millennial generation learn from this and find happiness for themselves instead of caring so much about reputation.
Kuv xav mas koj ruam tshaj plaws tsi yog koj ua sab ntev os
Lwm yam uv tsis tuag tab sis txij nkawm tsis sib hlub uv uv tuag taus nawb kwv tij neej tsa
Zoo heev! Xav kom peb cov niam tsev/txiv tsev uas raug2 tsim txom siab ntsws li no txawj hlub tus kheej.
Viv ncaus aw, cas koj mas yuav ruam tag npaum. Muab koj niag txiv ko nrauj kiag xwb mas.