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I am a big saver, my partner is a big spender. But he is teaching me how to use money to "live a little" while I am teaching him the benefit of saving an amount each month for the future. That's not to say we disagree on some ways money is being spent, because we value different things, and that is OK. Learn to understand what your partner needs and show what you need to your partner. If you both can accept and try to learn a little from each other, I think you have a good financial future ahead :)
I am the spender. I'm glad my husband believed in me and stuck around after our first financial blowup. He taught me finances and how to budget. We are now sort of on the same page 😉, own a home in CA, and are on our way to an okay retirement. LOL
Single here still, not rich but I’m wiggling. This is the content I like when I’m not burying my head in the more straight forward money making stuff. Thanks! Vivian my rich bff
Great points as usual, Vivian. I hope a lot of women are listening to you and acting on your information to save themselves future poverty, legal and family issues, and heartache. The time to talk about money topics is before you are legally tied. And shall we say anyone asking you for substantial amounts of money should be stopped in their tracks.
YEP, money is not talked enough and is what most couples/families fight about. My divorce and custody battles cost me $500K. The bastard was a con artist . Freedom and safety is a HIGH price to pay. My suggestion is DONT get married, unless theres a pre-up. If there's one thing guaranteed is that people are unpredictable. The isntittion of marriage is made to benefit MEN not women, when you are single we think as young ladies that marriage is GOAL in life, yet once in family court one really learns what marriage is about and ones rights. When you legally marry, you are also marrying the government, they have say on your finances and your children as well. So my advice is to protect yourself no matter female/male.
Also i think before you get married i think the couple should have a discussion about signing a prenuptial agreement(prenup). That way if the marriage goes south, the finances can be handled fairly for both parties
I don’t know your social media to contact you individually, but can you explain what a dividend rate is? More specifically with CD’s. Could be a helpful video
There are people that think financial secrets/cheating is as bad as physical cheating?! I’d love to hear the perspective of someone who agrees with that because I’m not totally getting it
Coffee and Bagel is just a regular dating APP. I left the APP because it was just another APP to attract inappropriate behavior not to be too explicit. I met 2 men and both wanted ….. this isn’t the way you describe in this video. I am shocked that you even recommend this dating APP as I got indecent proposals from both men. 👎👎👎
You probably had a trash profile. I met the compatible love of my life. Gross people exist everywhere and you get more when you don't properly screen with an effective profile. Don't blame the app.
Green flags with a thumbs down doesn’t compute to me 🥲 but yes I’ve been with my bf for 7 years and we both see things in a similar way. Love is looking in the same direction ❤️
💘 Download Coffee Meets Bagel, the dating app for serious daters here → go.onelink.me/8b1v/81jj8vmn
Coffee Meets Bagel is for the dater who’s ready for something serious - and tired of wasting time on the people who aren’t. With over 91% of the CMB Community looking for a committed relationship, CMB daters won’t be stuck wading through singles who aren’t on the same page.
2:30 find someone who values a dollar the same as you
3:57 find someone who believes in you
5:56 find someone who is financially honest
I am a big saver, my partner is a big spender. But he is teaching me how to use money to "live a little" while I am teaching him the benefit of saving an amount each month for the future. That's not to say we disagree on some ways money is being spent, because we value different things, and that is OK. Learn to understand what your partner needs and show what you need to your partner. If you both can accept and try to learn a little from each other, I think you have a good financial future ahead :)
This is a topic not often discussed nearly enough. I really support these types of discussions and appreciate your thoughtful perspectives!
I am the spender. I'm glad my husband believed in me and stuck around after our first financial blowup.
He taught me finances and how to budget. We are now sort of on the same page 😉, own a home in CA, and are on our way to an okay retirement. LOL
Single here still, not rich but I’m wiggling. This is the content I like when I’m not burying my head in the more straight forward money making stuff. Thanks! Vivian my rich bff
Great points as usual, Vivian. I hope a lot of women are listening to you and acting on your information to save themselves future poverty, legal and family issues, and heartache. The time to talk about money topics is before you are legally tied. And shall we say anyone asking you for substantial amounts of money should be stopped in their tracks.
Excellent advice that people never use to think or talk about until something bad happens.
Yes this is sooo important especially if you are getting married.😊
I needed this video 5 years ago 😅
YEP, money is not talked enough and is what most couples/families fight about. My divorce and custody battles cost me $500K. The bastard was a con artist . Freedom and safety is a HIGH price to pay. My suggestion is DONT get married, unless theres a pre-up. If there's one thing guaranteed is that people are unpredictable. The isntittion of marriage is made to benefit MEN not women, when you are single we think as young ladies that marriage is GOAL in life, yet once in family court one really learns what marriage is about and ones rights. When you legally marry, you are also marrying the government, they have say on your finances and your children as well. So my advice is to protect yourself no matter female/male.
Also i think before you get married i think the couple should have a discussion about signing a prenuptial agreement(prenup). That way if the marriage goes south, the finances can be handled fairly for both parties
Very good video! Wish it was around 15 years ago. Found out the hard way about finances and marriage with my ex wife.
3 things I agree people have to agree with. Money, kids, intimacy.
Or…. Secret beneficiary on a life insurance policy. I found that one out the hard way.😢
I met my husband on Coffee Meets Bagel 5 years ago! I so appreciated this app's strategy compared to other dating apps.
Incredible work. This channel is so valuable.
Great video💯
Thank you. VG
I don’t know your social media to contact you individually, but can you explain what a dividend rate is? More specifically with CD’s. Could be a helpful video
Me, singing ‘I just haven’t met you yet’
Awwww, that’s so sweet what he said about his wife
There are people that think financial secrets/cheating is as bad as physical cheating?! I’d love to hear the perspective of someone who agrees with that because I’m not totally getting it
It especially is if one of you is dependent on the other or have children.
Typically they go hand and hand. Spending $$ on a mistress, gambling habit or addiction.
Hi 👋!
My name is Marisa from Los Angeles, CA.
You are my new financial BFF ❤
Asian sisters own that coffee bagel
😆 I love your face on the thumbnail
Good advice 👏👏👏👏👏🌹🌹🌹
I live in Sydney Australia. What should I invest in? I own my own home- I'm 38
I like this ! i hood there’s no. Nigerian scammers
❤❤
A guy in his 30 has no credit never built credit had woman wreck his credit leave gurls
Coffee and Bagel is just a regular dating APP. I left the APP because it was just another APP to attract inappropriate behavior not to be too explicit. I met 2 men and both wanted ….. this isn’t the way you describe in this video. I am shocked that you even recommend this dating APP as I got indecent proposals from both men. 👎👎👎
You probably had a trash profile. I met the compatible love of my life. Gross people exist everywhere and you get more when you don't properly screen with an effective profile. Don't blame the app.
you're having too much bagel our bff... looks good on you though...
Green flags with a thumbs down doesn’t compute to me 🥲 but yes I’ve been with my bf for 7 years and we both see things in a similar way. Love is looking in the same direction ❤️
Ok I know nobody says this word, but actually, that app sounds ‘awesome’… I think I’m gonna try Coffee Meets Bagel…😏😹🩷