A. I always think that the episode I'm currently watching is the best one ever but then the next one is even better. seriously your guests are the most amazing people. Thank you for bringing out their message. B. those two people dressing up as the two of you on Purim were simply showing all listeners' and viewers' appreciation to you two in their way. So they deserve big shouts too! SHAVUA TOV from Eretz Israel.
Excellent interview!! I listened to Rabbi Kelemens chinuch series he goes into detail on what she's speaking about, he reads from Rabbi wolbes sefer, the way she parents is the way Rabbi Kelemen, teaches but more thorough. Thanks for the interview!
😊❤💜THANK YOU for this WONDERFUL + BRILLIANT interview, “Respectful Parenting | Insights from Blimie Heller “ May G-D Bless you and reward you for the GOOD YOU DO🦋🦋Shalom to you and your beloved Family and Friends🌈💥 Violet (Toronto ~ Australia) 🌳🎄🦚🌲🌳🌳🌳
I'm with you Blimie! I felt that way a hundred percent growing up (in Toronto) and went through a similar journey. I live in Europe, and fight with the schools all the time, bc I feel my kids are being treated very 1980. I'm probably moving back for this very reason. I feel like a child advocate here too, but that's not exactly how they view me. Also, I got the dog🤦♀️
Let me say like this. Intown schools are on the teachers side and out of town schools are on the students side it's just a fact! I would say Toronto is considered out of town. As a Brooklyn kid I'd say they still side a lot with the teachers
For the car example, there DOES exist a reason where you don't give a "reason". Example: "I just have a bad feeling about it, I'm not really sure what to tell you. I don't want you to take the car tonight" I wouldn't use this all the time, but it IS legitimate.
When a child is upset at the one parent and approaches tze other parent to talk about it - the second parent can simply remind the child: i see that youre upset with daddy/mommy - i think you should talk to daddy / mommy...instead of approaching the other parent with child in tow
Unfortunately I basically do not do continuing parenting because I am divorced and in mental health housing unemployed not able that my children live with me
It's a great episode, but not fully Torah perspective, Mishlei (13:24) One who spares his rod hates his son, but one who loves him disciplines him in his youth. Also (Beraishes 16:12) Yishmael was adored by Avraham was not disciplined and therefore left Torah, went into evil ways, same with Esav (ibid 25:28) Similarly, David Hamelech did not rebuke his son Avshalom and did not discipline him and as a reslult he strayed from Torah as well, and sought to kill his father. Another source, (Mishlei 29:17) Dscipline your son and he will give you peace, and he will give plaesures to your soul. Mishlei is full of it! (29:15) The rod and rebuke provide wisdom, but a self indulgent youth brings shame to his mother Listen I can go on, so many more sources, and I am NOT advicating abuse, or perpetual hitting and discipline ch"v! But i AM saying there is time and place for everything, and to NEVER punish a kid, that's not the way of the Torah! Torah is always relevant, this episode may involve kfira... not paskening but it just may.
The word discipline comes from the word disciple, which means student. Insinuating that discipline means teaching, not specifically using force. Her method is not free for all, just teaching through connection versus anger. That's how I understood it at least
@@beans4853 even without the other people in the room it's not a problem of yichud since there are two males, the problem is they are looking and talking to her for that long a time.
They look yeshivish lite. Those guys speak and look at women. If you want men who dont speak or look at women you'll have to visit the chassidish charedi people in Meah Shearim. They don't go on youtube either though.
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A. I always think that the episode I'm currently watching is the best one ever but then the next one is even better. seriously your guests are the most amazing people. Thank you for bringing out their message.
B. those two people dressing up as the two of you on Purim were simply showing all listeners' and viewers' appreciation to you two in their way. So they deserve big shouts too! SHAVUA TOV from Eretz Israel.
Blimi rocks! Love her parenting approach & authenticity to self development.🙌
great episode! Blimie Heller is Queen of PARENTING!
Excellent interview!! I listened to Rabbi Kelemens chinuch series he goes into detail on what she's speaking about, he reads from Rabbi wolbes sefer, the way she parents is the way Rabbi Kelemen, teaches but more thorough. Thanks for the interview!
What a wonderful episode. Thank you!!
😊❤💜THANK YOU for this WONDERFUL + BRILLIANT interview, “Respectful Parenting | Insights from Blimie Heller “ May G-D Bless you and reward you for the GOOD YOU DO🦋🦋Shalom to you and your beloved Family and Friends🌈💥 Violet (Toronto ~ Australia) 🌳🎄🦚🌲🌳🌳🌳
Wonderful episode with good tips. As a mom, I wud love for u to have her back again.
Amazing episode!
Wow what a great inspiring episode!!
I'm with you Blimie! I felt that way a hundred percent growing up (in Toronto) and went through a similar journey. I live in Europe, and fight with the schools all the time, bc I feel my kids are being treated very 1980. I'm probably moving back for this very reason. I feel like a child advocate here too, but that's not exactly how they view me.
Also, I got the dog🤦♀️
Let me say like this. Intown schools are on the teachers side and out of town schools are on the students side it's just a fact! I would say Toronto is considered out of town. As a Brooklyn kid I'd say they still side a lot with the teachers
For the car example, there DOES exist a reason where you don't give a "reason". Example: "I just have a bad feeling about it, I'm not really sure what to tell you. I don't want you to take the car tonight" I wouldn't use this all the time, but it IS legitimate.
I loved this! Thank you ❤
Sorry, I have to add: the vessel from Bessel. These one liners are why I subscribe. The info is secondary .
😂 I couldn't agree more!
eyeq!! shoutout!
When a child is upset at the one parent and approaches tze other parent to talk about it - the second parent can simply remind the child: i see that youre upset with daddy/mommy - i think you should talk to daddy / mommy...instead of approaching the other parent with child in tow
Unfortunately I basically do not do continuing parenting because I am divorced and in mental health housing unemployed not able that my children live with me
Don't give up, you will get better, we are praying for you.
We can daven for you Chaim.
Thank you for this! How is this different than NHA?
K, you got me. I subscribed 😁
It's a great episode, but not fully Torah perspective, Mishlei (13:24) One who spares his rod hates his son, but one who loves him disciplines him in his youth. Also (Beraishes 16:12) Yishmael was adored by Avraham was not disciplined and therefore left Torah, went into evil ways, same with Esav (ibid 25:28)
Similarly, David Hamelech did not rebuke his son Avshalom and did not discipline him and as a reslult he strayed from Torah as well, and sought to kill his father.
Another source, (Mishlei 29:17) Dscipline your son and he will give you peace, and he will give plaesures to your soul.
Mishlei is full of it! (29:15) The rod and rebuke provide wisdom, but a self indulgent youth brings shame to his mother
Listen I can go on, so many more sources, and I am NOT advicating abuse, or perpetual hitting and discipline ch"v! But i AM saying there is time and place for everything, and to NEVER punish a kid, that's not the way of the Torah! Torah is always relevant, this episode may involve kfira... not paskening but it just may.
Forget to mention a vey important point, I watch many of your episodes and love them all, I just felt this one crossed some boundries
@@jewishjew one of the being 2 men sitting infront of and talking to a married woman for more than an hour
The word discipline comes from the word disciple, which means student. Insinuating that discipline means teaching, not specifically using force. Her method is not free for all, just teaching through connection versus anger. That's how I understood it at least
@@samjxk1681 there are more people in the room, it is not just the 3 of them
@@beans4853 even without the other people in the room it's not a problem of yichud since there are two males, the problem is they are looking and talking to her for that long a time.
whos your rabbi that gives the nod to having an hour plus conversation with a woman?
The same Rabbi, who let u watch this episode
@@meaningfultidbits Nope didnt watch it just saw the thumbnail with a woman on it and wondered
They look yeshivish lite. Those guys speak and look at women. If you want men who dont speak or look at women you'll have to visit the chassidish charedi people in Meah Shearim. They don't go on youtube either though.