It’s so nice to hear that some couples can go 3 months without doing it. It’s so refreshing to hear. I’ve never heard anyone say that before, so thanks for being so real.
I know some people that went without it for nearly 5months, s*x isn't everything and most people don't really care about it, they mostly after communication and cuddly moments and all that, so yeah I like hearing things like that cause s*x isn't always necessary.
oh that comment "farina is like a good wine as she ages she becomes more refined and beautiful by the day" THAT WAS ADORABLE DONGIN IS SO SWEET love both of you so much love how you are so honest and open and mature with each other and to us you both are couple goals💜
This was so a great video! I wouldn’t even call it “juicy” or tmi it was just a healthy and informative conversation! Thanks for trusting us to be so open about such a taboo topic and thanks for making the topic less taboo!
damn you both are soo so mature the way you both talked about this topic along with how imp communicating and mental health is ..idk how to explain but really it was so so good to see a couple talk about such a taboo topic with this much maturity without being too serious yk.. loved the vid btw💜💜
Interesting how people ask "how do you keep it spicy/romantic and not too friendly", as if friendship and romance were mutually exclusive. In my point of view, romance and sexual intimacy should be the result of a deep, all-encompassing friendship! Happy long-term couples are eachother's best buddies! This means that that person is the one you can be your most vulnerable, truest self, and they fully accept and desire all of you. Unfortunately, hook-up culture is kind of overpowering this point of view. But I'm so happy to see a healthy couple like Farina and Dongin spread an emotionally mature perspective on this 🥰✨
Its actually so comforting and nice to hear anyone, let alone women, talk about stuff like LELO because it used to feel like such a tabboo to talk about anything s3x related and im glad there has been more representation and acknowledgement lately
You two are so lovely, thank you for sharing this with us💜 I don't remember what a healthy relationship looks like because the only one I ever had ended nearly 5 years ago and left alot of emotional scarring, especially about this topic. This helped remind me what a dynamic should be like, open and safe. I'll probably enter my 30s in a couple of years single too, but it's better not to settle. Hell, I don't even remember what a date feels like🤣
I'm sure you'll find someone. You seem like a very nice person :) And even in the meantime, there's always our boys we are delulu for, seeing you are a kpop fan 😊
Tbh I thought it was a clickbait video because I don't think y'all have ever addressed these topics like this before . But it's good to have a little more insight especially when both of y'all have grown up in entirely different culture and backgrounds. Also I absolutely love how considerate y'all are of each other . I hope the best for both of you 🫶
this felt like I was listening to my older friends teaching me about relationship stuff! I dont have many couples around me, and none that I can talk to openly. So I look upto you two for the healthy relationship you have. Really appreciate the insights, I have never been in a relationship so sometimes it's difficult to tell what ppl say online is real or exaggerated. But I trust you two, thank you for deep diving in such intimate details.
those Q&A feels like couple therapy, like you're forced to answer question honestly and both hear each other sides, if every couple did that i think that would help them communicate better
''You are just happy that the other person is around and yeah, that's enough'' it's great to see a couple where both are very responsible and committed to their relationship that prioritizes what really matters without forgetting that romantic side, you two are an inspiration. Seriously, from the bottom of my heart i wish you the best in your beautiful relationship. God bless you always ❤
15:52 Farina, I'm dead lmao but also i completely get what Dongin is saying, and i relate a lot. I agree that in a relationship, it's very important to be open about all aspects of yourself and be comfortable showing the different sides to your personality, because if you dont feel like you can do that and you cant work it out with your partner, youre probably in the wrong relationship: you shouldnt force yourself to be unhappy for the sake of just BEING in a relationship
Oooh this is a spicy one! 👀 It's cool how open you guys are even though you don't owe anyone any info about your relationship. And unrelated but I'm looking forward to the apartment tour, I'm so curious about Bingsu's corner since we got a lil teaser. 😂💖
When I used to watch this channel you guys were together for 4 years, I knew it's been a while since the last time I saw you , but damn I didn't expect it to be 4 years difference. It means I haven't come here even once during highschool that's so weird. I remembered you guys out of nowhere since my major is German (in uni) and I was like " it would be fun if they have videos in German, I enjoy watching them in general ". I'm truly shocked. I guess I studied a bit too hard for the last 4 years.
Thank you for sharing this with us, for some people (like me) it's important because my family was never open about those things and I've always been too shy to talk to my friends about their experiences
actually I am very scared of having a relationship because it's not working out for my parents...so I kinda have the fear that there is no healthy relationship. the two of you give me so much hope though, ofc not everything can be perfect but I feel like as long as you really love and respect each other everything can be talked about. so thank you for showing that partners like you can actually happen💜
I love that you guys always work to make it real, it is so comforting and refreshing to watch your authenticity and willingness to be a little vulnerable! I also love that you guys have these kinds of conversations together as a couple. I agree these kinds of things are important to talk about, thank you for all your work
Haven't watch ur vlog recently but I've been a fan of u guys since start of oandemic. And shocks!!! You guys gettin married owemjiiii so happy with u both ♡
I truly enjoyed your video👌🏾 You both spoke so matturely and explained in an insaley humorise way. May your love florish and proper through all the odds. I love you both. I am a new subscribe and I don't know why I just found your channel.
hey how do you shift from deeply communicating and talking about feelings to a playful side, especially when the other told you about something they dont like or feel annoyed/hurt by; how do you not walk on egg shells after it and continue as you were before?
It honestly is fun liszening to this. I see alot of different couples. As a young person I see alot of break ups as well. So seeing you guys again after some time just made me happy.
You guys brought up something important about being able to communicate your curiosity in bed like Farina saying bandage looked interesting 🤔 and you never know where things lead to for both of you but can at least say u tried something. It's beautiful to be able to explore things with each other and that in my opinion keeps things interesting. Also acknowledge that sometimes some one is in the mood and the other isn't and etc best to not ruin squishy time and intimacy just for the 'need' keeps it a positive fun time and doest make it into something that feels like a duty. Much love to both of u ❤🎉
I was told about men and women and what they do together when I was in year 5 at my school and my parents let me read a book called every woman 😊I even learned about my period before I started at age 10.
You’re practically married already. You passed the big test of seven years.😅 But on a serious note, you guys should be married already in my opinion. Love you guys❤
I wish more romance animes were about these topics, but animes only showcase The Chase. an anime about an active relationship between 2 people would be so interesting.
@Dongin - lol, my parents, and my family is watching ;) We all use this as an excuse, in reality, if you are not that comfy talking about it "family" makes a super nice excuse!! To be honest, I can relate to D - what is the point of talking about super intimate things with strangers..... I do NOT want to "squshee" with them and I don't want them to know certain details about me, super uncomfortable, when somebody brings this in conversation & they get upset You are not sharing your experiences :/ We ALL know, couples who are close, live together - DO IT !! it's super normal, nothing to share with specifics :)
It’s so nice to hear that some couples can go 3 months without doing it. It’s so refreshing to hear. I’ve never heard anyone say that before, so thanks for being so real.
I know some people that went without it for nearly 5months, s*x isn't everything and most people don't really care about it, they mostly after communication and cuddly moments and all that, so yeah I like hearing things like that cause s*x isn't always necessary.
its normal
It's really a normal thing lol
I never did until 2 years of relationship
More normal than you think, and its ok 😊
oh that comment "farina is like a good wine as she ages she becomes more refined and beautiful by the day" THAT WAS ADORABLE DONGIN IS SO SWEET
love both of you so much love how you are so honest and open and mature with each other and to us you both are couple goals💜
The matching outfits!!🥰💜 (also Dongin is getting so much better with wearing color 👏🏾😂)
Dongin-"We saved our purity for the wedding"😂 meanwhile Farina"no we didn't"🤭y'all can't lie.Congrats for the wedding 💓💓💓💓💓lots of love am sending.
This was so a great video! I wouldn’t even call it “juicy” or tmi it was just a healthy and informative conversation! Thanks for trusting us to be so open about such a taboo topic and thanks for making the topic less taboo!
It’s cute when you two call it “squishy time” lol.
No dong in calls it *the deed*
damn you both are soo so mature the way you both talked about this topic along with how imp communicating and mental health is ..idk how to explain but really it was so so good to see a couple talk about such a taboo topic with this much maturity without being too serious yk..
loved the vid btw💜💜
I just love seeing how open and honest you guys are with each other. You are a great example of what a healthy relationship should look like.
Interesting how people ask "how do you keep it spicy/romantic and not too friendly", as if friendship and romance were mutually exclusive. In my point of view, romance and sexual intimacy should be the result of a deep, all-encompassing friendship! Happy long-term couples are eachother's best buddies! This means that that person is the one you can be your most vulnerable, truest self, and they fully accept and desire all of you. Unfortunately, hook-up culture is kind of overpowering this point of view. But I'm so happy to see a healthy couple like Farina and Dongin spread an emotionally mature perspective on this 🥰✨
Its actually so comforting and nice to hear anyone, let alone women, talk about stuff like LELO because it used to feel like such a tabboo to talk about anything s3x related and im glad there has been more representation and acknowledgement lately
The purple looks really good on you two!! Also this is such a fun video. Dongin was cracking me up trying to proclaim his innocence, like boy PLEASE!
I always wait for farina to say 'riiiighnnntt' her way of saying right is soo unique😆
Wow 8 years is impressive
You two are so lovely, thank you for sharing this with us💜 I don't remember what a healthy relationship looks like because the only one I ever had ended nearly 5 years ago and left alot of emotional scarring, especially about this topic. This helped remind me what a dynamic should be like, open and safe. I'll probably enter my 30s in a couple of years single too, but it's better not to settle. Hell, I don't even remember what a date feels like🤣
I'm sure you'll find someone. You seem like a very nice person :)
And even in the meantime, there's always our boys we are delulu for, seeing you are a kpop fan 😊
In December me and my boyfriend celebrate 9 years together and living 3 years together :)
Congratulations to you 2 ❤
Such couple goals! You guys are a wonderful example of a beautiful, healthy and loving relationship. Thanks for sharing
The way farina leans on dongin 😊 when she's shy
You guys can literally see in their eyes that they are still attracted to each other
Tbh I thought it was a clickbait video because I don't think y'all have ever addressed these topics like this before . But it's good to have a little more insight especially when both of y'all have grown up in entirely different culture and backgrounds. Also I absolutely love how considerate y'all are of each other . I hope the best for both of you 🫶
this felt like I was listening to my older friends teaching me about relationship stuff!
I dont have many couples around me, and none that I can talk to openly. So I look upto you two for the healthy relationship you have. Really appreciate the insights, I have never been in a relationship so sometimes it's difficult to tell what ppl say online is real or exaggerated. But I trust you two, thank you for deep diving in such intimate details.
those Q&A feels like couple therapy, like you're forced to answer question honestly and both hear each other sides, if every couple did that i think that would help them communicate better
You guys are always so insightful, and just make me laugh no matter what
''You are just happy that the other person is around and yeah, that's enough'' it's great to see a couple where both are very responsible and committed to their relationship that prioritizes what really matters without forgetting that romantic side, you two are an inspiration. Seriously, from the bottom of my heart i wish you the best in your beautiful relationship. God bless you always ❤
11:44 This was so sweet 🥹💗
15:52 Farina, I'm dead lmao but also i completely get what Dongin is saying, and i relate a lot. I agree that in a relationship, it's very important to be open about all aspects of yourself and be comfortable showing the different sides to your personality, because if you dont feel like you can do that and you cant work it out with your partner, youre probably in the wrong relationship: you shouldnt force yourself to be unhappy for the sake of just BEING in a relationship
Oooh this is a spicy one! 👀 It's cool how open you guys are even though you don't owe anyone any info about your relationship. And unrelated but I'm looking forward to the apartment tour, I'm so curious about Bingsu's corner since we got a lil teaser. 😂💖
it’s so nice to see you (and people in general) talking openly about the topic!! and the matching outfits are so cute 🥺💜
i really appreciate you guys talking so openly about it :))
When I used to watch this channel you guys were together for 4 years, I knew it's been a while since the last time I saw you , but damn I didn't expect it to be 4 years difference. It means I haven't come here even once during highschool that's so weird. I remembered you guys out of nowhere since my major is German (in uni) and I was like " it would be fun if they have videos in German, I enjoy watching them in general ". I'm truly shocked. I guess I studied a bit too hard for the last 4 years.
Thank you for sharing this with us, for some people (like me) it's important because my family was never open about those things and I've always been too shy to talk to my friends about their experiences
I really love the way you two communicate!
It’s reeeally important in any relationship!
You two deserve all love!! 💕💞💖
actually I am very scared of having a relationship because it's not working out for my parents...so I kinda have the fear that there is no healthy relationship. the two of you give me so much hope though, ofc not everything can be perfect but I feel like as long as you really love and respect each other everything can be talked about. so thank you for showing that partners like you can actually happen💜
I was in the same place :(
@@tofi8555 hope you are okay now
DONGIN I FINALLY GOT THE AIRISM TSHIRTS YOU TALKED ABOUT BEFORE, and they're as amazing as you said they were
Love how open and “natural” you guys are❤❤❤❤
I don't know why but dongin speech is kinda giving me father-daughter deeptalk/advice time lol and I'm not complaining. I like it
Manifesting for a relationship like Farina and Dongin ❤️😻
I love that you guys always work to make it real, it is so comforting and refreshing to watch your authenticity and willingness to be a little vulnerable! I also love that you guys have these kinds of conversations together as a couple. I agree these kinds of things are important to talk about, thank you for all your work
U guys always make my day better fr. Lylyly. Take care and stay healthy. Wish u the best for the future and the wedding ❤❤❤
Dongin you are such a loving, understanding sweetheart ❤
Thank you for being so open and sharing so comfortably :)
Farina: I'll try to explain it in a family friendly way, okay?
Dongin: You could have just said eye contact. 😂😂😂
Love you guys!
It's like watching your parents giving you the talk in the most comfortable way lol
This is such a good video, especially for people who have 0 experience about it. It’s a super educational video, kudos! 👍🏻
I loved the honesty, i felt like i was talking with friends, loved it!!!
I WAS WAITING OMGGG LOVE YOU BOTHHH
even though im single asf, this really helps alot thanku!!
I love You guys 😂😂
While watching this video i felt like im just having a nice chit-chat with friends ❤😊
EARLY!! YOU GUYS ARE ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE AND I LOVE YOUR CONTENT SO SO MUCH!! I'LL ALWAYS LOVE YOUR LOVE
You 're a wonderful couple .Happiness to you !!!
Haven't watch ur vlog recently but I've been a fan of u guys since start of oandemic. And shocks!!! You guys gettin married owemjiiii so happy with u both ♡
What is this consistency!? Looooove it! 🫶
Yayyy, congrats on your wedding, hope you both have a fruitful life ahead❤.
This was so nicely talked out and i am so proud of both of you❤
I love that you talk about it so openly, and also about the toy❤
Very honest x after more than 25 years with my husband you explained a long term relationship well x
You two are the best! Love every video you put out! My favorite couple on the internet ☺️🩷🩷
Your videos together are my happy time, you guys are love 💕
I love your matching outfits
So nice (also today's video is lovely ❤️❤️)
I truly enjoyed your video👌🏾
You both spoke so matturely and explained in an insaley humorise way. May your love florish and proper through all the odds. I love you both.
I am a new subscribe and I don't know why I just found your channel.
l love honest and not so pg Q & As so much
hey how do you shift from deeply communicating and talking about feelings to a playful side, especially when the other told you about something they dont like or feel annoyed/hurt by; how do you not walk on egg shells after it and continue as you were before?
Wow! So impressed with your way of communicating!
It honestly is fun liszening to this. I see alot of different couples. As a young person I see alot of break ups as well. So seeing you guys again after some time just made me happy.
I love their realtionship its just so perfect 🤗❤
you guys are so borafied for this video 🤣🤣🤣
always looking good farina!
Very informative & agree that great communication with your significant other is necessary in a relationship. 🥰👍
He talking about "you could have just said eye contact" lmao
Nodoby's talking about LELO tho and I high key wanna try it haha
Ich finde Euch zwei toll...Danke für die tollen Videos 👍✌️🫰
I love the openness
congratulations on your upcoming marriage, guys! So happy for you.
You guys brought up something important about being able to communicate your curiosity in bed like Farina saying bandage looked interesting 🤔 and you never know where things lead to for both of you but can at least say u tried something. It's beautiful to be able to explore things with each other and that in my opinion keeps things interesting. Also acknowledge that sometimes some one is in the mood and the other isn't and etc best to not ruin squishy time and intimacy just for the 'need' keeps it a positive fun time and doest make it into something that feels like a duty. Much love to both of u ❤🎉
You two are a sweet & lovely couple! Can't wait for your wedding! :)
I was told about men and women and what they do together when I was in year 5 at my school and my parents let me read a book called every woman 😊I even learned about my period before I started at age 10.
You’re practically married already. You passed the big test of seven years.😅 But on a serious note, you guys should be married already in my opinion. Love you guys❤
Most amazing couple ever💜
I wish more romance animes were about these topics, but animes only showcase The Chase. an anime about an active relationship between 2 people would be so interesting.
Honey your outfit is super great😍
Hi farina ,I just wanted to say I love all your videos and y'all are my fav couple on yt❤😊
I love this content. Thank you for being real and honest with this type of topics.❤
You both are the best couple I have ever seen
Btw both are looking soo cool in purple 🥰💕
Farina is so cute and sweet and so so prettyyyy. I love her.❤
i love your videos together so much 💖
The way I love you guys eh your videos make my heart warm ❤❤😊
One day I’ll be mature enough to not laugh at the term Squishy time 😂
This was entertaining and very healthy!! You 2 are VERY good role models ☺️💙
You made my day 🧡
You two are wonderful ❤️💜❤️
Really cute couple!
Pastel purple really suits u both
we missed donginn!!
Thank you so much for such an informative video. Loved it.
@Dongin - lol, my parents, and my family is watching ;) We all use this as an excuse, in reality, if you are not that comfy talking about it "family" makes a super nice excuse!!
To be honest, I can relate to D - what is the point of talking about super intimate things with strangers..... I do NOT want to "squshee" with them and I don't want them to know certain details about me, super uncomfortable, when somebody brings this in conversation & they get upset You are not sharing your experiences :/
We ALL know, couples who are close, live together - DO IT !! it's super normal, nothing to share with specifics :)
congrats on your marriage ! communication is key
U R STUNNINN FARINAAAAAAA
I’m so glad you made this video, I feel like nobody does. and if they do they’re not really that honest
I love you guys so much, you made me believe in true love💕
you guys are such a lovely couple, Dongin, I love the tattoos on you arm what are they of please?
8:19 Farina das gibt es auch im Deutschen oder hast du noch nie von „Die Nase eines Mannes, ist wie sein Johannes“, gehört?
One of the best vids. Thanks for being so honest and frank❤️❤️