Great video! Good to know I’m not the only one have delt with these “issues”. Used to have a hard time accepting the fact I was a people pleaser (due to being harshly criticized and ostracized growing up). Once I forced myself to break out of that, in order to truly spread my wings, the perspective of who I was to those around me changed. Some even left. Honestly, that was the best thing that could’ve been done because I was hiding that part of what really made me, me. God placed that indifference inside of us, and we have to let it shine! Another part that resonated, truly loving to help people, which I’ve had my battles with. It brings me joy to help people and put a smile on their face. Being selfless in this selfish world set me back in certain situations, which really forced me to open my eyes and be more discerning among those I help, and even more towards the ones I let close and offer unconditional love and support to. I think that’s why I genuinely started my TH-cam channel so I could reach out and help people, but in my own way and how I feel most comfortable and still have enough energy to pour back into my self and love myself and not feel drained with “undeserving” individuals. If people leave when you try to save yourself and be a true your self, they were never meant to be there in the first place. Really enjoy ur videos, brings peace. (I rarely comment so this is coming from a true place) Appreciate you, bless 🙏🏾
I can relate to that, feeling indifferent or ostracized, part of it stems from just wanting to be accepted especially once you've experienced many different times. but again once you're tired of how things are I feel like that's when you reach a turning point for yourself and it could be a savior realization. when your selfless to others and taking time apart from your life to actually and naturally care, that's huge!! so anyone who has a issue with you setting boundaries may have taken up too much space to begin with. I gave you a follow! I will for sure check out your content also(:
@@arisauracle Exactly! Spot on with wanting to be accepted! Def a savior realization. The savior point like, when ur tired of being the bruised square peg trying to fit in the round hole, and you say f’ it and truly embrace being that square peg, so u don’t bruise anymore. Fr, most def taken up too much space. Energy vampires lol, take till there’s no more life, gotta save ur self! Like wise, I’ll be around. I dig this channel, don’t stop Stay Blessed 🙏🏾💜
Nice insight! I look forward to seeing more content!💗
thank you! much love to you(:💛💕
Great video! Good to know I’m not the only one have delt with these “issues”.
Used to have a hard time accepting the fact I was a people pleaser (due to being harshly criticized and ostracized growing up). Once I forced myself to break out of that, in order to truly spread my wings, the perspective of who I was to those around me changed. Some even left. Honestly, that was the best thing that could’ve been done because I was hiding that part of what really made me, me. God placed that indifference inside of us, and we have to let it shine!
Another part that resonated, truly loving to help people, which I’ve had my battles with.
It brings me joy to help people and put a smile on their face. Being selfless in this selfish world set me back in certain situations, which really forced me to open my eyes and be more discerning among those I help, and even more towards the ones I let close and offer unconditional love and support to. I think that’s why I genuinely started my TH-cam channel so I could reach out and help people, but in my own way and how I feel most comfortable and still have enough energy to pour back into my self and love myself and not feel drained with “undeserving” individuals. If people leave when you try to save yourself and be a true your self, they were never meant to be there in the first place.
Really enjoy ur videos, brings peace.
(I rarely comment so this is coming from a true place)
Appreciate you, bless 🙏🏾
I can relate to that, feeling indifferent or ostracized, part of it stems from just wanting to be accepted especially once you've experienced many different times. but again once you're tired of how things are I feel like that's when you reach a turning point for yourself and it could be a savior realization. when your selfless to others and taking time apart from your life to actually and naturally care, that's huge!! so anyone who has a issue with you setting boundaries may have taken up too much space to begin with. I gave you a follow! I will for sure check out your content also(:
@@arisauracle Exactly! Spot on with wanting to be accepted! Def a savior realization. The savior point like, when ur tired of being the bruised square peg trying to fit in the round hole, and you say f’ it and truly embrace being that square peg, so u don’t bruise anymore.
Fr, most def taken up too much space. Energy vampires lol, take till there’s no more life, gotta save ur self!
Like wise, I’ll be around. I dig this channel, don’t stop
Stay Blessed 🙏🏾💜