She F***ing Hates Me.
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- I'm back reminiscing about the magical era of the early naughties. Today we are looking at Puddle of Mudd's hit "She Hates Me" to try and understand how and why it became such a massive hit? Do you know? If so, please enlighten me. Let's go!
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I love the thought of Justin's granny being in the other room, thinking to herself 'Ooh Justin love, please hurry up with your TH-cam nonsense, I'm trying to watch 'The Chase' on the telly'
One of my cover bands has been doing this song for years. Always goes down well and gets everyone singing. Once, many years ago, we played it at an engagement party (already lol) but, we had been told, the bride to be’s son, who was about 7 or 8 yo at the time loved the song but thought the words were “She needs an x-ray”, so that’s what we sang! 😂
Weird Al wants to know your location
Out of topic but...
Today is Cliff Burton's day! Good day to you all!🤩
In the tv show The Good Place, the only two songs in the bad place(hell) were this one, and Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer😂😂
I loved this track back when it came out. It’s a nostalgic song for me.. not the best song, but I still enjoy it. Reminds me of my skateboarding days haha.
I don't hate it. I mean it's not meant to be fucking deep. Fairly certain it was made for a male teenage audience and sure many identified with it at the time and it brought them a sense of understanding. Isn't that a component of what music is supposed to do, make you feel less alone?
As a teenaged girl being pursued by a guy I couldn’t stand at the time, I LOVED this song! Took every opportunity possible to sing it loudly and obnoxiously wherever he was around! I even switched up the lyrics to make them work - “I F*ucking hate you…” etc… 😂 He did not get the hint 🤦🏻♀️ 😂😂😂
My favorite thing about this band is that I can call them Muddle Of Pudd.
I do it too hell yeah brother
Oh, I call them "Bucket of sh!t" 💩🤣🤣🤣
Is that meant to be an insault
@@nickfallaw7795 not sure about the other guy but I just do it for recreational purposes
@@aaron12345cl 😂😂
Last night we were watching TV and this song came on as the credits rolled. My husband said ‘who does this song’? And I said ‘Puddle of Mud.’ He was shocked I knew the answer. I only knew the answer because I saw it here. Thanks Justin.
Whoever signed them was trying to fill a Nirvana shaped hole. There singer was like a Poundland Kurt Cobain. Without that authenticity it just came off as lame.
The song is "Summer Loving" from the movie Grease! Seriuosly. Compare the two!
OMG it is hahahahahaha
Summer nights
Also chevk out the chorus to The Game of Love
I am honestly just blown away by your ability to instantly play anything after hearing it. It surprises me every time you do that.
oh please. any decent musician does this. Not to take away anything from Justin...
@Thomas Scoville I've never met anyone who is able to hear a song, parse out the notes and then play them immediately upon a first listen. Maybe you hang out with people who are more musically talented than I do. The "oh please" at the start of your comment is quite rude, in my opinion. Good day.
@@MsCruisein Also, you never know if it's really upon a first listen.
U can't he that stupid lol
@@MsCruisein you’ve never met any musicians then. It’s just like speaking if you know music. You hear the note you know the note you know where to play the note. You should see a pianist do it. Plus once you know the route note and you already know how music works you can easily improvising filling other notes that work with it.
Great singalong song but what about "Blurry"......? Their best IMHO
LOVE Blurry!
For comments day: I was looking at your setlists after watching an amazing gig somewhere in the UK. I was really hoping to hear "Open Fire" but you didn't play it. So, the question is' WHY THE FUCK DIDN"T YOU PLAY IT? Just kidding. That's not the question. How does The Darkness go about creating a setlist? How complicated is it to throw a new song into the list? Or does that have to get synced up with pyro and lights?
No Open Fire!!???
C’mon The Darkness, that’s one of the GOAT songs!!
I believe he said in a earlier vid that Frankie & Dan come up it. He prefers not to know.
Justin seems like he'd be an EASY FRAAAAND.
Good day to you Justin Hawkins,
I love your music and your channel, so I just want to say thanks for doing what you do and sharing it with us all.
Also, I’m wondering if you could take a look at one of my favorite songs of all time, Mick Jagger’s “Evening Gown.”
I’ve never in my life met anyone whose musical taste is so inline with my own. You’re a real gem Justin.
P.S. The Steve Miller Band would also be a good band to look at for a video, I fink. 😀
Of course I had to edit this to correct my grammar (forehead slap..not cool)
Thanks Louise!
Justin Fucking Hawkins Rides Againnnnnnnn 🎸🎶🎶🎶
That Come Clean album has some good songs on it
I know that a lot of people tend to despise this song, And I can definitely understand why given how immature, Mundane it is. And looking back it's probably the biggest contributing factor behind Puddle Of Mudd's decline in mainstream popularity. Cause they already had three big singles before this one dropped, One of those being the 4th biggest rock hit of the entire decade.
But it seemed like after this song blew up and became almost as big as that one that the bands' image got tainted over night and wasn't able to recover in the same way that bands like Linkin Park were. Granted, I don't think any of the singles off of the later releases were hooky enough to be a Billboard Top 10 regardless of their reputation, But their career definitely would have faired better had She Hates Me never existed.
A band that has mainstream rock superstardom may not have the charting power of the crossover acts, But their careers last longer. (See Godsmack and Three Days Grace as examples) Whereas bands that get big from a crossover single tend to be forgotten once their reign is over. There's a reason why we don't hear anything about Hinder these days. Cause they were nothing without that crossover success.
Wes and Co. had so much to offer with those first three albums, But it all got overshadowed by the juvenile qualities of She Hates Me. Everybody remembers how great Blurry was, But most have forgotten the singles that were just as good (Control and Drift & Die), Cause they all got overshadowed by the novelty song. Which is unfortunate.
The beginning chord progression reminds me of the song "Stand" by R.E.M.
You're hilarious, Justin! I love your dry sarcasm. 🤣 Your verbal "wah-wah" effect at 6:47 🎸 and Kermit the Frog voice at 9:23 cracks me up! 🐸
As Justin was singing the “la, la, la’s” all I could here was the Irish band The Divine Comedy. He sounds so much like Neil Hannon in that moment.
I'd love to see Justin look at some Devin Townsend. I feel like they both would have a similar sense of humor.
Yes! Deadhead, Funeral or the Death of Music would be good
What the what.... this hasn't happened yet?!? What madness is this! Justin must remedy this!
LOL Id love to see him do that...especially one of the weirder ones like "Ziltoid"
It’s basically Summer Lovin’ from Grease innit?
Brilliant assessment! 😂
True!😅
Indeed.
Is NIRVANA receiving a royalty on this song? They certainly should.
EXACTLY. The day I first heard this song, waaaay back in 2002 or whatever I said the same thing out loud. Wes has a Kurt obsession. He even dresses like him a video or two. Unfortunately, Wes is not even a poor mans Kurt Cobain.
This is the kind of song which can sound great to an angsty teenager, but seems a bit overblown once you're older and have survived a few broken relationships. But IIRC before this song was released, this group had a major hit with the song _"Blurry",_ and I think that the good will from that song helped the popularity of this song. _"Blurry"_ also had a pretty good video, iirc.
Control was a far better song in my opinion
I'd have to disagree. I'm 50 and still feel I can relate to this song.
Ugly Kid Jo comes to mind for the same reason.
No.
Justin, to continue your Puddle Of Mudd series (for that is what this is),
you could look at their previous track "Blurry",
which probably contributed to the success of "She effing Hates Me" 😀
Opened up for them 2 times. The first time he got arrested at the airport and he was late to the show🤣
What for?
@hannahmitchell87 I believe he tried to bring a bb gun into the airport if I remember correctly. Or maybe he was just detained. I'm getting it mixed up with when we were gonna open up for Coolio, but he brought an actual gun to the airport, and he got arrested. Wes was most likely detained, and that's why he was late. I'm not the biggest fan of them, but the actual band were cool dudes and the drummer was damn good.
@@CW19941 Haha! What a numpty!
@hannahmitchell87 I agree both of them weren't very smart in their decisions 🤣
I'm in America. It doesn't rhyme here either.
I fucking hate censored songs!
Does anyone actually believe any kid's life was ruined from hearing swearing? 🙄
As all things forbidden, you just make the whole thing more appealing to them... 🤷🏻♂️
Why does the tune remind me of L7 pretty that we're dead
This album was playing in a shop called pink planet in Taunton where my son used to buy his video games from. I immediately loved it asked the shop owner what it was called and went out and bought it. I just love this total album still one of my favourites to this day. Justin Thank You for your comments and content you're a real joy ❤️
GET SWOLE!! A fine moment for this channel, I have it saved
Did L7 ever sue them for this one? It's literally just Pretend We're Dead
Him speaking to you directly, as 'Just', really made me laugh.
Will you listen to the new Linkin Park song Lost? Chester is doing the vocals.
Summer loving from grease
A question for question day, maybe? Justin, you've said a few times that you're writing your memoir. Are you relying on your journals, memory or both? Do you have friends and family who will remember the stuff you can't? Ha ha! Thanks again for all you do!
Oh yes, thanks, and Justin if you do write your memoir, please be very careful, and have your lawyer read everything very carefully. You never know (I think you know what I mean).
Cheers April, I answered this in the comments video.
@@JustinHawkinsRidesAgain Danke!
Always thought Dylan was musing about Scotland in his song Highlands ("Bluebells blazing where the Aberdeen waters flow") but recently learned there's an area of Hibbing, MN known as The Highlands, so who knows....one can rarely be sure what he's ever actually referring to
Your heart must be unambiguously in the Scottish Highlands however, given your grandparents live there
Than again, maybe they don't live in the Highlands of Scotland
Ugh, what a mess ofa post...sorry
I was eating and I choked on Gunther’s ‘Tra la la’ 😂 not literally, but the fact he managed to get a Gunther reference in 😂
Plus, he’s broken my memory… I haven’t heard this song since I was in High School! A long time ago now!
I just noticed.....that opening little progression is basically that song from Grease.
Is it called Summer Days?
Wonder if Justin is gonna pick up on that.
Just paused it there....but I bet he'll notice it too.
I mean, it sounds nice and I get to belt out “she fucking hates me”
good enough for me
glad to know you also fall into the trap of "that was 30 years ago" and it not being the 80's. Dinosaur JR's "where you been" is 30 years old this week, do a dinosaur video!
I love simple but this is too far, everything about it sounds ignorant.
'shed builder stuff par excellence there' christ, laugh? took me 10 minutes to pull myself together, great stuff!
Why is nobody mentioning the 'covering nirvana's about a girl' incident in the comments though? It's the funniest thing on the internet, even the other guitarist is trying not to laugh through it.
There's something about it that reminds me of the wonderful 'Stacey's Mom' by Fountains of Wayne, who you covered on a previous video.
Scary that it's 21 years old this year.
Wes Scanlin or however you spell it, has always come off as a Kurt Cobain clone. I mean, influence is one thing, trying to be someone is something else. Like Corey Feldman trying to be like Michael Jackson 😂
The outro! 👏
As soon as you started playing it, I had to stop the video. I'm taking a shower next. I just can't have this song in my mind all weekend... nope. Not gonna do it.
I'll still give a thumbs up... maybe other people won't be so savvy, and it'll get stuck in THEIR heads. Mwahahahahaha!!!
Y'know, there's an alternate universe somewhere in which Wes Scantlin was Nirvana's ex-drummer, and Puddle of Mudd are one of the biggest and most well-loved rock bands of the last 20 years 🤯
…..summer days drifting away but uh oh those summer nights!
Listen to Suicidal Tendencies “I Saw Your Mommy,” there’s your main riff for this song.
The sad thing about the whole Nirvana incident is he just doesn't have those notes anymore. He's been forcing the belty rasp for years and he's probably got vocal chord polyps. He could probably do it at some point, but those days are gone because he's mistreated his voice.
Can you react to Ty Segall "The Singer" please? Saw him and the Freedom Band twice last week in Auckland, NZ, one of the best gigs I've been to in a long time! Love your channel, see you on the ice, mate. Cheers!
Why do the thickest people in the world hang out in youtube comments for 2000s music? The worst ones are those who write paragraphs of lies about how they sang this song to their dying mother etc.
It's either an ironic self-knowing response to, or unconscious rip-off of, "Summer Nights" from Grease. Who knows which one it is
I just heard it. Mind you I try not to listen to this song ever.
Yes! Toast! I F*cking love this song! Still listen to it regularly. Spent my teen years convinced he was singing “Toast” not “trust”! 😂 It’ll always be the Toast song to me! 😅 🎶She F*cking hates me… TOAST! She F*cking hates me La-la-la-Love…🎶 🤦🏻♀️😂😂😂
Same bahahahahaaaa
I think he said Baguette actually.
I could listen to Justin sarcastically rip on POM all day 😆
I did jump around to this back in the ol' day. The riffs are fine and the lyrics provided some easy crowd bounding 'sing-along' sessions on the dancefloor. They've made better songs after this, and the singer got more of an own style instead of emulating Cobain/Weiland/Staley.
That exaggurated nasal/twangy American accent is gold. 😁
If nirvana and smash mouth had a wannabe child.
Again Mr Hawkins delivers 😂
Exactly, he always did and always will cos he knows his stuff! 👍
Was never a fan of this song; far too commercial to me. However, I love the band - Come Clean and Life on Display especially are phenomenal records. In his prime, Wes has an incredible voice… Recommend their live DVD, Striking That Familiar Chord.
Man I was cracking up when you talked about the part of the song you though he was singing to you saying Just. hahah Don't ever change man.
I love this analysis Justin! It started out as what it seemed to be the ultimate modern day offensive assault, with no obvious bigoted or hateful language (you’re clearly a pro); but it turned into a “what makes this song great”. Well done :)
My cover band played this song in Australia, in 2006, and I loved it 😁
Puddle of Mud > Nickelback 😁😁
Great thumbnail btw 😂
What is that other song of theirs...'Blurry'? I kind of like that one, even though they are attempting a bit of a Nirvana vibe. But Blurry is still a good song to listen too driving the highway on a sunny day...
I feel like I’m the only person in the comments going to say this but I actually love both Come Clean and Life on Display as whole albums 😅
I just read on Wikipedia that Josh Freese plays drums in this song (also the whole album) i had no idea
Round that era, it'd be easier to list the radio rock songs that Josh Freese DIDN'T play on
@@RickReasonnz lol I was about to say I never knew much about that guy but I saw him in every CD liner like an old friend!
Perfect video for a friday! I'm crying of laughter and running out of adjectives to admire your videos, Justin!!!(specially when they are so hilarious like this one)👍
The "tralalala" 05:07 ...and the "wah wah wah wah" 06:48 😂😂😂😂😂
and the title of the video (at least the first when you uploaded it)🤣
Its a great song dont disrespect this song ur not the only one With an opion justin
Love how you work the songs into your outro, it's funny but also cool and musical. LOVING this channel!
Ya know, I liked the song then, and I like it now. I also like Nickelback. 🤷🏻♂️
Same! No accounting for taste huh? 😂🥰💖
@@NinStardust nope! Wish I could say I had a more evolved palate but here we are.
@@I_am_chuckiebrown 🤔 maybe we’re just too highly evolved? 😏😁
The chorus chord progression is actually the same as I Believe In A Thing Called Love, but you kinda riff around the chords so it's hard to notice
I just hate the lyrics.
This was SO MUCH BETTER than the other song, SO MUCH... BUT... the other was "live" and this is a video. I liked the song, but I'm not going to purchase the song. I REALLY HAVE TO LIKE THE BAND in order to purchase their music. And I tend to collect EVERY RELEASE IN CD, IF POSSIBLE. THE DARKNESS is next. One, because I'm following you, Justin, and I think you are hilarious, clever and extremely knowledgeable and you are WELL SEASONED in the world of music. Two, I haven't heard a stinky song yet from The Darkness. I suppose there could be a couple in the lot, but I haven't heard any thus far and your videos are great! A TERRIFIC SENSE OF HUMOR GETS ONE FAR AND YOU FIT THAT BILL. You have have great funny reviews of other artists and your videos are chock full of creative sense of humor! Three, you are friends with Steel Panther and I LOVE STEEL PANTHER! They have THE MOST WONDERFUL SENSE OF HUMOR, THEY WORK THEIR BOOTIES OFF, THEY ARE WELL SEASONED, THEY HAPPEN TO BE EXTREMELY INTELLEGENT AND THEY ARE JUST THE CUTEST!!!!! Four, NUMBER THREE all over again WHICH APPLIES TO YOU AND YOUR BAND, THE DARKNESS! So, next music investments are The Darkness CDs and DVDs, if there are any. The visuals are just as important as the sound for me. Possibly a tee also. Love the typeface of your logo. Very retro and VERY CURVY 😘. And then, the SWOLE CD or DVD and GUNTHER CDs and DVDs, love that guy. Plus, I'm half Swedish and he's funny and cute and Swedish. Oh, and he has a Brussels Griffon in his Christmas video. I currently have three (have had four prior all rough coated) and have always loved the breed, those "back talking Griffons!" My boys! My Three Sons! The Three Stooges! Gidorah! Thank you for the review(s). And your guitar sounds really nice! A little different. Not the same as the flowery one, but a little different. At least to me it does. Could be my phone (shoulder shrug). Sounds nice none the less. OH, BY THE WAY, THIS PAST WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 8, 2023, BURT BACHARACH PASSED AWAY. HE WAS 94. I'M SURE YOU KNOW THAT THOUGH. Rip Burt. Thank you for all the wonderful songs and all the hits... 💔😥🙁🌸🌹🤟
Have to remember that in the '50s The Singing Dogs had a hit single in the US and UK charts. Given that is possible, it should inform you that almost anything could possibly be a hit single in the British pop charts.
Wonderdog and the ruff mix, back in the 80s
JUST.. IN HAWKINS HATES ME!!!
It's such a butt rock song but I can't help but like it.
This song sounds so weird compared to every other Puddle of Mudd song...I enjoy all their albums..
Come clean is actually a banging album. Drift and die is a tuuuuune
It's a catchy song that's well-produced. Lyrics are cheesy and trashy, but it slaps sonically. Song structure builds to a crescendo. Classic radio hit structure... Quiet moments contrast with loud moments. Guitars have great tone.....good song 😆
It's literally stolen from suicidal tendencies ... who's worse?? Flip a coin
Classic radio hit structure is an accurate statement
One of my top 5 most disliked bands. 1.LinkinPark 2.Avenged Sevenfold 3.Puddle of Mud 4.Your favorite band 5. My band
Hi! Saint in Saintedland here! Depeche mode (Ghosts again)
Fun to here your thoughts.
Nice! You did it!
Pair this with Grandma Got Run Over By A Reindeer and you got yourself a party!
Not a Good Place to be in!👍😄
My mum really likes this song don’t ask me why she just does😂
Even the Losers, Solitary Man, and She Hates Me all in a week?! I know Valentines Day is right around the corner and the difficult-to-be-alone season of spring is soon to follow - I hope your heart is okay, JH, or that it's healing up!
And for comments day: For you, what song - one of yours or one from another songwriter - best communicates how we feel as our broken hearts heal?
It's very derivative of what was popular at the time. A friend of mine in radio refers to it as the least common denominator. Most people choose not to be mentally challenged by their listening.
More importantly…it sounds like they nicked the chords from ‘summer loving’ from grease. Once you hear it…it won’t let go.
Come Clean is a great album. His voice is really good on it and there's some strong songs. Pity he lost the plot.
I keep a burn copy of that album i stole from a friend when i was in high school in 2001/2, still listen to it from time to time in my car.
We all lose the plot from time to time.
Agreed. 'Control' is especially good.
@@dentoncrimescene
Think most of us would struggle going from having a few hits to being thrown away like nothing. I really feel for musicians who got a taste of huge success early on then never came close again.
Must be absolutely soul destroying. Not to the same extent but I imagine Justin could tell a few stories about how it affects you.
@@Mewtwosmrmime Yep. The money would be good, but everyone coming up to you in the street, no privacy, paps on your tail all the time, would be grim. Fame must be very hard to adjust to.
This track has always been Limburger to me. Nothing's changed. (If you don't know that would be "stinky cheese".)
5:32 + drum analysis = hysterical.
I lived in Kansas City, MO for several years, and got into the local music scene. Wes grew up there. I couldn't find one person that had anything nice to say about him.
I don’t know why but every time I hear this song I hear pretend we’re dead by L7. Like it’s just been rearranged somehow?
That Coming Clean album was actually pretty good. A lot of decent songs in it that hit the Nirvana/Silverchair vibe, which I enjoyed.
The trippy-ish mostly acoustic ender Pissing It All Away (I think it was called) was interesting too.
Not reinventing the wheel but delivering well (on the album) 👍
It’s amazing that you played their harmony without realizing it’s pretty much the same as “I believe in a thing called love”‘s
Amazing. So smug yet his greatest hit is equally derivative crap to Puddle of Mudd hahaha
@@p_snimon_enis9850 I can't stand him being so smug when he composed basically the shittest song of all time.
@@p_snimon_enis9850 No, trolls. I was just making a joke over a curious fact. Don’t use my comment as base for your hate, you faceless, content-less, coward pieces of s***. Justin is awesome.
@@nunobianchi Hate? Dude, chill. I just think the guy is smug. Clearly, I'm not alone. Am I not allowed to think he is not... "awesome"?
Well done on the virtue signaling though. D*** rider hahaha
@@p_snimon_enis9850 be hateful and toxic on your own comment, mate... don't come adding your filthy sludge on mine.
This, Sir Hawkins, is why your channel is so fantastic!!
I'm guilty of buying and enjoying that album when it was released, although I was never keen on that track!
She Hates Me is their worst song...
Okay, ONE of their worst lol.
Drift and Die still holds up.
I mishear lyrics like it's my job
Jeez, I can't believe you didn't pick up on the F#maj instantly especially with the ascending chromatic run, although it is a boring fucking song so concentration can slip. And the trust part was actually aimed at a guy called Trustin Rawkins that plays in a band called the Barkness (insert dog or tree song jokes here), and grunge isn't long gone. Although this guy singing certainly tried his best to execute it and give it a closed coffin burial. Can't remember his name but it's bound to be josh, brody, chad or some wanky name like that, grunge still exists in all its original DIY unmolested glory, if you ever wanna hear some just drop by I'll hook you up.
If you go to the official video, theres all kinds of comments about people playing it at their weddings lol
Its a hard song to hate.