Thanks Russ, I had radical prostatectomy 2 months ago. Your 3 year popped up about 2 weeks prior to surgery, all your videos have been a great help. GOD bless and many prayers for continued recovery!! Brad Sampson
Hey Russ, It was great to see you again! A year ago at this time I was full of angst about my upcoming surgery. You were one of the first prostate journeys I found on You Tube. You helped me so much! Thanks for your honesty and candor. I appreciate knowing that even 3 years out, you're still using a shield. That helps me set expectations for my own journey. Glad you're doing so well. Take care and God bless.
I'm Gleason 6, low grade cancer, PSA @ 8.9. Currently on Active Surveillance. Age 62.5. My Urologist has had his scaple ready since my biosopy 9 months ago. Additionally, 5 years cancer free after stage 4 colon cancer. I'm been plant based since 2016 and in very good condition. I'm about 75% on having the surgery. FYI, you are the only person that has had the surgery and as for as I can tell, being really honest about what to expect post surgery. It appears that surgery may be the best of all options for early detection. Thanks for put your life experiences out here for myself and other to make informed decisions. Cheers!
Is 2024 right now. What have you done regarding your prostate cancer can you please tell me. I have Gleason 3 + 4 equals 7 and I really want to do active surveillance but I have five cores out of 10 which isn't too good I know. Very curious to see what treatments you went through. Tell me anything you can thank you.
Russ, thank you for your testimony. I am 58 and my annual physical revealed a PSA of 7.2. several weeks ago I had an MRI that revealed two spots on my prostate. I have a fusion biopsy scheduled for April 4th. Needles to say I am anxious. Your videos have encouraged me and given me hope. Also and most important, I know you are a Brother in Christ! I am believing for complete healing in Jesus'name and laying all this at His feet So thank you again. And may God continue to shine His face upon you, protect you and your family, and give you peace.
Blessings to you my brother in Christ! I pray as you start this journey that you will have a peace that passes all understanding. I am so glad to be able to share my journey and know how it has helped countless men over the years. Blessings!
Hi, I’ve just had a radical prostatectomy, in my 5th day post-op, recovering well, so much to learn as it’s early days but Russ’s videos are a lifesaver, hi from New Zealand
Glad to see you back and doing well. I’m 53 and two years and one month out. Everything is pretty much back to normal…around 90%. However, it’s encouraging to learn there can still be improvements after two years. Thanks so much for posting. Your videos are a confidence booster.
Russ, I wanted to take a moment and share with you that your posts on prostate surgery recovery were absolutely my ray of light I relied upon during my recovery. like you, I was very incontinent immediately after surgery for the first several weeks. Your 5-1/2 week update was tremendously helpful, encouraging and gave me hope that I would be continent some day. I’m at 7 months post surgery and like you, I’m 99% continent and use a single small shield each day more for insurance than need. Thank you again for sharing your personal recovery journey, they helped me more than you will ever know!
Thank you, Russ. Your videos are very encouraging. I’m 55. 9 months out. +95% continence. Sexual function is not great. I know everyone’s experiences are unique. I really appreciate you sharing yours. I’ll remain hopeful for continued healing.
Hi Russ….Circling Back here and sharing some of my progress for you and your viewers….I’m now +16 months post prostatectomy. It was hard for me to believe that healing and function would continue…but I’m still seeing improvement. Incontinence is +98%…only need to pay attention when laughing, coughing, sneezing, lifting….I haven’t worn a pad in months…and…surprisingly, sexual function is slowly returning. I thought that part of life was over, but maybe not..I’ll remain hopeful. I know so many are battling difficult circumstances with their PC….God bless you all, none of it is easy or fun…
Thank you for all of the videos that you have made. I found your videos just before I had my Prostatectomy and they have helped me so much. I am 2 years 3 months post surgery and the only leakage that I have is stress leakage if I pick up something heavy. My sexual function is still not totally back and the pills have not worked for me, so I use trimix. Keep up the good work of encouragement. It helps to know that we are not alone in our journey. God Bless You!
Thank you for discussing your personal journey. I am two days post surgery and appreciate TH-cam videos. I was very similar to your age and Gleason score. You explained yourself very well with possible health hurdles. I might experience. Thanks again.
My friend Russ, I first saw your videos 3 months before I had my surgery which was April 7th 2021. I have followed you ever since. From the beginning I felt you were a Christian man, a brother in the Lord, which was very important to me. God has blessed you with courage and strength as well as a remarkable charm that makes your comments so comforting. I am 71 and was under active surveillance for 4 years. When my gleason score hit 7 it was time to make a decision on my next step. Your videos were not only informative but so helpful in knowing what to expect that the decision was not difficult. The surgery went very well with only a few bumps. My recovery up to this date has been "ahead of the curve" as my Dr. has put it. Bladder wise I am almost back to normal, very similar to what you went through. At 71 I was having slight problems wit leakage before the surgery, so this has not been a big problem to cope with. My "ED" has also followed the same path as you have traveled, but like you I have a loving and understanding wife of 50 years that is just happy I am here with her. I`m looking forward to many more years of happiness and joy with her and this surgery has been a blessing to both of us. I wish I could put into words how much I admire your willingness to put yourself in the public eye and share your story, many many times I have revisited your videos to give me strength and to encourage me when I needed a calm voice to help me move forward. I believe God has used you in a most important role, you have been a blessing to me and my wife as well as my 3 children and 9 grandchildren. They needed me to be strong through all this and you really provided much of that strength. By the way my PSA 2 weeks ago was " no detectable cancer" I thank God every day for those 3 words and I thank God for you. May God continually bless you and your family with wonderful health. P.S. you are the spitting image of my younger brother who I lost 2 years ago to lung cancer, watching you has been like sitting with my brother Ray and having him reassure me that it will be all right, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Blessings to you Charlie! Had tears in my eyes reading your comment. So we have two things in common, brothers in Christ and this surgery. All the best to you!
Thanks so very much for sharing your journey. I am a year and a half into my post op journey and am about where you were at this time. I firmly believe proper diet and exercise helps in the recovery of body functions. Again, thank you and God bless you and family.
@WallaceDunn Hi, thanks for asking. I'm 5 months and 2 weeks post surgery. The incontinence is all but past. I still have a few issues with occasional stress incontinence, but I usually can prepare for it and prevent it. So in that respect, I guess I've achieved total countenance. My PT is the best. She had me doing a regiment of Kegels 2 months prior to surgery, and I've never actually lost control other than a dribble here and there. Nothing that a Shield can't hide. The ED is a different story altogether. I lost the complete right side of the nerves, but the left side was left intact. Erections still haven't returned, even with cialis. I have heard that the recovery can take up to 18 months, so I guess there is still time for that. All in all, I'm blessed to have the good health that I possess. Again, thanks for asking, and I hope you are doing well also. Oh, the PSA is < 0.014, so that's good news also. Take care.
John it's 2024 now July. Would very much like to know how you're doing since your persectomy 2 years ago. If you get this comment please reply. I'm debating between .... and proton therapy
@@ricknowak4582 Hi Rick. Thanks for reaching out. So a couple of items, I've been continent since day one. I was one of the 1st 24 that my surgeon tried out a "new" technique, although bouncing on a trampoline and sexual activity does cause a little leaking. After my surgery my PSA was 0.7 , so they put me on a testosterone blocking therapy (temporary chemical castration ... NOT FUN) and then did 45 days of Proton therapy. The lack of Testosterone weakens the cancer and then they zapped it with Proton radiation... I would choose Proton therapy over general radiation as there are less side effect. Both the Proton and chemical reeks havoc on sexual function. I was put on injections, as Sildenafil just was not cutting it. Believe it or not it is not nearly as bad as one might think. My nerves are just starting to come back to life! I do have a wonderful wife and we are "having fun". My PSA was 0.0 until about 9 months ago, and now it is creeping up to 0.8. So I get to stay in touch with my Oncologist and Radiologist. I am looking into wholistic forms of treatment while encouraging my Oncologist to "think outside the box." One of the things my Radiologist has encouraged me to do is to "stay fit" , saying, "this cancer does NOT like oxygenated blood." Also a good friend of mine, a retired Marine and coach, put a workout routine for me to do prior to my surgery. I did this for 4 weeks prior to surgery. I have no doubt that this made a BIG difference regarding my recovery. I work out about 3 - 4 times a week. (One of the side effects of blocking testosterone in osteoporosis ... so weight lifting and bouncing help strength the bones and reverse the effects.) And finally, at Easter I was in the Baltimore area and met Dr. Patrick Walsh (a devout Catholic) in church. He is the Surgeon at Johns Hopkins who developed the modern day procedure for nerve sparing surgery so men will stay continent and potent. Really great guy.
So glad to hear the videos were helpful. Healing is slow but will come. The support from a loving wife was a big part of the process for me. God bless!
Thank you so much for your videos, I am 2 1/2 weeks out from surgery, everything seems to be going good for me. I don’t think you ever talked about pain, just was wondering if you could message me and give me some idea about your pain and how long it lasted. Again, thank you so much for your videos, very helpful! David
I began watching your videos 2 yrs ago when I was first diagnosed and put on active surveillance. Now 2 yrs later I am faced the hard decision, surgery or radiation. Both scare the heck out of me. I have no idea which way to go as both and will need to decide soon. Leaning to surgery. Just hard to accept what my life will be like after that, as no guarantees. Thanks for giving me some hope. God bless.
Always good to know my journey gives men hope as they consider prostatectomy. I am 5 1/2 yrs post surgery and almost forget I ever had the surgery. Other than a slight leak now and then life is back to normal. I hope and pray for a great result for you whichever path you choose. Blessings!
Your info are great! Your videos are different from many others because yours are pure helpful information and hence are not biased and never mention the name of your doctor or hospital, while numerous other videos can be perceived as promotions for a doctor or a hospital. Thank you!
Have watched all of your videos. They have been AWSOME. Have a friend who is going to have it. Afraid to show him your first ones so not to scare him. I hope he does as well as you have. It was so very hard for him to make this decision and he is scared at this point prior to the surgery.
My husband is scheduled for a radical prostatectomy this week. Your videos have put both of us at ease. Thank you for sharing your story and helping to answer questions that is typically considered "taboo". You are an inspiration! And we like your Jeff Gordon poster in your office. My husband has the same one in his 😁
One of my favorite posters, Your husband has good taste! I’m always happy to know the videos are a blessing to those undergoing this procedure. All the best to him and prayers for 100% recovery, Blessings!
Ross what do you do at night after a prostatectomy. As far as wearing a diaper and wetting yourself. I feel a whole lot at night and I am wondering what do I do. Do I have to get a mattress cover
Thanks for your videos and sharing your story. I watched all of your stories as I was progressing from my surgery back in January and they were a great aid in my recovery process. I'm 62 now and have been very active training for and competing in Ironman competitions. I was required to take a month off of training post surgery, but eased back into it. I was very fortunate to only have some drips up to maybe six weeks, the last being when straining lifting weights. Erections are slowly building but not firm enough yet without trimix injections. I shied away from Viagra because it tanks my blood pressure for a day or so and I can't exercise. You are a true leader of people. Keep up the good work!
I'm working on a story for Everyday Health about what life is like after prostate cancer surgery, and I was wondering if you'd be interested in talking to me about your experience. The info you share here is so helpful, I know a lot of men would benefit from the wisdom you've gained. If so, please let me know the best way to reach you.
I had the procedure year and half ago at 50, it was a shock. I felt strongly to have prostetectomy as I wanted it out, gone.. it''s gone and lymph nodes were clean after the usual tests... I had not much pain after, was able to do almost normal things like walking and sitting from day 2 although obviously gentle..... the most annoying thing was the catheter and once that was gone later that week i was a lot better. But in week 3 pain kicked in.... till about week 5 or 6, checking with doctor it was normal, but scary first... After that all ok. Now just over year, psa stays zero so far. I am sharing the similar experience, with leakage, sexual health and stay positive that things improve over time further. Great videos thanks for sharing and stay healthy! best wishes from Netherlands.
No, I had no issues with the catheter draining into the bag. I only had an issue in the hospital when the line actually became kinked. Always good to know the videos were helpful, all the best to you. Blessings.
Great videos. Although I chose the radiation/hormone therapy approach, I came very close to choosing the surgery. There is no right or wrong choice...everybody is different. I have only two more radiation sessions to complete the 20 total. My wife wanted me to have the surgery. To quote her, "get that thing out of you". I'll turn 70 in October. From what I've learned and my doctor told me, at the 5 year point, radiation and surgery have equal success rates. I chose radiation because I wanted to avoid the incontinence and catheter issues. Sometimes I start second guessing my decision. My future PSA readings will tell me whether or not I made the right decision. The hormone therapy is unpleasant but manageable. Hot flashes are not fun. Right now, my libido is zero - just like pre-puberty. That should change after the hormone treatments stop. I don't know if the VA provides Viagra. I guess I'll find out.
You are absolutely correct, there is no right or wrong, everybody makes their decision based on available information. I wanted it out, and five years later my PSA is undetectable, and I don’t even think of the fact that I had cancer I hope and pray all goes well for you.
Thank you for the Videos Russ. I was diagnosed in Mid-July 2022 and started my research ASAP. Your videos have been very helpful and encouraging. I believe my newfound mission in life is Prostate Cancer Awareness, I have been video taping my progress along the way, and would to post them on TH-cam, is it a difficult process making that happen? Thank you again and look forward to your response.
All the best to you, do a google search on posting to you tube. It’s fairly easy. The. More personal information we post the better for those researching after us.
My friend Russ, I continue to watch your videos, they have become such an important part of my healing. It will be one year April 7th and I`m doing fine. Its amazing how our journey down this path has mirrored one another. Because of that I continue to compare the progress we have both made. That in it self would be all the reason a man would need to follow along, but as the body heals the mind sometimes lags a little behind. I truly have been strengthened by your matter of fact courage to let the world know every aspect of your recovery. I have found a large number of men going through the same difficult process. I have told them about your remarkable videos and encouraged them to not be fearful of what they will face. My strength in being honest, direct and to trust God has been a gift from following you. I look forward to any new post you might send out, their value surpasses anything I have tried to educate myself on from all the other sources I have uncovered. You are real, you show how we should be real, there is a honesty about your post that gives hope. As Christian men I think we sometimes wonder what Gods plan for our lives might be, a drummer in a church service would make anybody pleased they are serving the Lord, I know I would be honored to carry that importance, but you have measured up to a much higher calling than even that. All that comes to mind is "well done my good and faithful servant". Its hard to see the impact you have made on someones life in just a moments worth of words, so as I have become a little long here I wanted you to see through 20/20 eyes the impact you have made on this mans life,,,,, I have been blessed, both in watching your recovery and also in seeing Gods work from a humble man. On a more personal note I turned 72 in Feb, I did have to return this last Jan. for triple hernia repair which also has gone very well. My wife and I celebrated our 50th anniversary this Dec and I love her more today than the day we met. She is my workout partner as well as my life coach. She was the best caregiver a man could ask for and has supported me with love through this whole ordeal, again I am a blessed man.. I just wanted to share with you that without good counsel from people like you, there are so many people who you have encouraged and fortified with your truthful approach that stand behind the men going through this procedure. My wife thanks you for everything you have given us, I pray for Gods continued blessing in you and your families life. You are a friend.
I am humbled by your comments. I simply shared my experience and the amount of hope the videos have brought to men and their families is remarkable. Blessings to you!
Thank you for your video and clarifying year 2-3 concerning sexual function. Im 13 months out from RP. I still leak throughout the day although it has greatly improved. I use an injection (Aprostadil) to achieve an erection. Cialis and Viagra don't really do anything although I did have a spontaneous erection one night with my lady. I thought I had turned a corner but that has not happened again. Im 55 and had a stage 1 cancer with my nerve bundles spared. God bless.
Hi, Russ- I'm 70 with a Gleason of 5.4. I'm on day 9 post robotic surgery, and get my catheter out today. I appear to have genital lymphedema, which I haven't found much information about. Everything else was perfect, no pain, just took Tylenol and minimal discomfort from the catheter. Thanks for the great videos.
My update: the catheter came out yesterday... I'M HEALED! What a relief! My doctor says the genital swelling will subside in 2-3 weeks and all thelabs show I'm cancer free. Best of all- I haven't leaked once. I feel just about normal again. Thanks for your videos. They were the best that I found.
Thanks Russ for these vids. I had my prostatectomy done eleven days ago. The total lack of continence is horrible but after recently finding and watching your vids well it’s given me hope.
Please don't stop doing these . It has given much hope and guidance. I too am 99% in control of urination at 18 months now. I don't get leakage at arousal from jump street but do suffer ED issues and like you I lost a little length. I use a vacuum device daily for rehabilitation reasons and wonder what you think about the vacuum device to increase size in long term use ? I too have to use sildenafil Thanks so much JM
You are doing well, that is very good! I tried to vacuum initially, and did not feel I was getting anything out of it. Sold it on eBay, everyone’s different, if it’s helping you keep using it.
I am 69 yrs old and have "High Risk" Prostate Cancer! (Damn!) My Gleason score is 8. So I'll be talking to a Radiation Oncologist & a Surgeon next week. (August 2023). The choice is up to me which way I'll go. Your videos have been very helpful. I'll let you know which choice I make.
God Bles You. I'm 51, diagnosed prostet cancer Gleason score 7. I'm scheduled for prostatectomy on December 9th, 8 days from now. I'm scared and confused, but I want to thank You for information You share with us. my battle just beginning. I hope that I'll survive just like You did. once again God bless.
Always good to know that my journey is helpful to those just beginning. I pray For a successful surgery on December 9 and uneventful recovery, blessings!
Thank you for making all of these videos. They’re so helpful! I go in July 11, 2022. Yes, I’m scared! I’m 69, I caught this early, cancer is contained inside the margins of the prostate. An extensive bone scan has confirmed this. With me luck! I’m scared!
Thank you so much for the videos. They are so helpful and informative. My husband has been diagnosed with prostate cancer. The PSA numbers kept going up. When it reached 6, his doctor suggested a biopsy. The Gleason score was 3+4=7. We just recently had a consult with a radiation oncologist. My husband wants surgery. He was already leaning towards a surgery and your videos have helped alleviate some of his concerns. Thank you so much. I hope you are doing well.
@@jpjp3873 Thank you so much for responding. My husband had surgery on July 3. It went well but his biopsy showed some cancer cells in the seminal vesicle. He came home with a catheter and had it taken out after 6 days. He had discomfort with the catheter but very little pain. He now has burning during urination and the dr. performed a urine test for infection. The dr. thinks maybe he could have scar tissue fro the catheter. I'm sorry to hear that you have to have a biopsy. Sending healing thoughts your way.
Thank You for these updates. My wife and I ( this is definitely a both-of-us decision) are still researching treatment types for my recent diagnosis and, I'm sure all can relate, it's not at all easy. Just recently started to re-consider prostatectomy and so very much appreciate your post-op perspective. The progress on E.D and incontinence you had gave us hope too. We know life will be different but we still want to have as normal as possible intimate life. Plus, you are similar to me in that you are 155 pounds and an active guy so that gives me hope for my life quality, of running, hiking and so on, if I choose to go the prostatectomy route. Question: Seems every Doc wants to try and get me on androgen deprivation ( more like depression though) therapy. And, I've refused for a multitude of reasons but, in general, I want quality of life over quantity, ( yes, I'd like both but quality is primary). You mention nothing about this so I was wondering if it was also presented to you as a necessary treatment? I'd really like the chance to talk with you should that be a possibility. ( I don't do facebook) Again, thank you drummer? (me too)
I'm nine months post Radical Robotic assisted Prostatectomy. 62 now, 170 pounds, very active (Ironman training and competing). I avoided hormone therapy and would do it as a last/later resort. I had very little leakage beyond six weeks. I can't remember the last time I dripped. I remember getting back into the gym one month post surgery to lift weights and feeling urine progressing downward, but that went away too. Sexual function wise, I've used trimix injections. The required dosage has really diminished and erections are starting to come back, but not completely, yet. I saw one doctor say "don't even think about having one naturally before 6 months to 24 months". So I'm hopeful that progress will continue. I have shared with a friend of a friend who is going through the selection process. I know I'm not alone in my status, but don't want to come off as "it's no big deal". I'm very fortunate for the outcome I have had to date and feel folks need to know all the perspectives. Good luck to you!
@@andrewkirk9245 I am facing surgery or radiation in the immediate future for my prostate cancer. I am thinking to avoid hormones until it is the very last option. Everything i read is that the body uses testosterone in many positive ways and to deprive the body and mind of it will cause terrible problems, inlcuding heart and cognitive functioning issues. Not to mention bone issues and female transformation, and then there is the depression.
Thanks for your honesty. If I knew this 25 days ago... so far I regret my surgery, I don't know if this is a normal process but ......is life change. Thanks man for your help.
My regret is sky high after undergoing prostate operation . I have no erection despite the aid sex enhancing tablet. Had I known this side effect I would have rejected. surgery !
I saw all of your earlier videos. I like them all. One question I have about the diapers. I'm about your own weight but I tried medium and could not stand them! I went to extra large and they were a little better but still very uncomfortable. I had a very hard time keeping them on for 15 minutes! Let alone all day! I like all my pants 100% cotton and very loose. So I know I'm going to have a hard time with these diapers. I have appointment this week with a surgeon who is doing a new technique called.... "Retzius Sparing". Ever hear of it? It's supposedly helps with incontinence tremendously.
@@ricknowak4582 My brother just had Retzius sparing 2 months ago. He came out of it almost fully continent! Only needed thin pads for an occasional leak.
I have a Gleason score of 7. I have a history of bladder cancer with a turb procedure done 3 years ago. I am leaning to a radical proctectomy . I'm 67 years old and just want the "beast " as I call it out of me. You're videos are very helpful since I no longer think that I'm the only one with this problem. I've reviewed a lot of good info from You Tube and thankyou for putting yourself out there.
Ciao caro Russ,spero riesci a leggere col traduttore...Mi hanno operato di prostatectomia venti giorni fa.Ovviamente soffro di incontinenza,purtroppo sono costretto a svegliarmi tre volte ogni notte per fare la pipi,interrompendo il sonno.Purtroppo(e qui la mia domanda)se non mi alzo a fare la pipi,mi prende un forte dolore al prepuzio dove inizia l'uretra,e come se qualcuno mi infilasse un ago,dolore che appena urino mi passa.Nei primi giorni ti è capitato un episodio simile?.Sappimi dire,un caro saluto dall'italia.
Drummeruss, thank you so much for sequence of videos. I will be making decision end of March 2024, radiation or surgery. Leaning towards surgery. Buffalo, NY. I am 61 pretty fit, however want to over prepare for surgery. Can you elaborate on the exercise program i should do up until surgery ?
Russ - just want to say Thank you for your wisdom and guidance during this troubled time for me. You're videos are very reassuring and consoling. I am 57, live in New Zealand, and am 7 weeks post op. The journey has been like a terrible roller coaster ride. One day up and the next down. I have had my first PSA reading and it was undetectable and I was over the moon! I then received a letter from my doctor saying that I have a "high risk of recurrence" so I am now in the process of working through the 3 monthly PSA tests with dread and anxiety. If my PSA goes up I am not sure what that means to my chances of survival. My research shows that I have at least 5 years, so upward and onward. You videos have had a real impact on me and again God bless and Thank you. You are a kind soul!
I’m so glad I found your videos. I have not had my procedure yet. Your information has helped so much and your positive attitude is so encouraging. Thank you and bless you.
God bless you Russ. Very happy for you that you are doing great! My husband just had a radical prostatectomy yesterday. He probably won’t have an as good outcome but we will try our best to make lemonade. He also did a gene test due to his family history, we will know in a few weeks if our children will be high risk or not. I would suggest others to do so if you have children. Early intervention is key. My husband got the aggressive kind, it grew quickly and had Gleason score 9. Best wishes to all!
Thank you for all your posts. They have been very informative and helpful. I've decided to have the operation. My score is 7 (3+4). What made you choose this over radiation? Have you ever regretted your decision? I know that radiation is also considered curative, but I just seemed there were too many scary possibilities with the radiation, like it causing secondary cancers.
Thank you. I have watched all your videos. I have surgery scheduled for this coming month and you have taken away so many levels of anxiety over the pending procedure. You are a wonderful person. I am so grateful to you for sharing. Very sincerely,,,
Hi , thanks for the updates , I feel a little better after watching them, I am a very fit 71 and saw my surgeon today , I am to have the op in approx 6 weeks , a little disappointed that he said no lifting or physical excercise other than walking , for 3 months . I guess I will have to lose my fitness and gradually work back. He also said nerves will be removed at one side . Pleased you are feeling good , take care and thanks again . Ken , Leeds UK
Hi, how strange, although your post was 2 years ago, it popped up on my YT alerts today !! I am now 3 years and 1 month post op (Davinci RP) I watched all your posts at the time before my op and they were a huge benefit in having a relaxed (as far as possible :-) ) approach to my op. My OP was no problems, I was out and home in 24 hours, it did take me 6 months to regain former fitness, but wifey ensured I took lots of care. I am 72.5 today, and in great health, 99.9% dry, only occasionally need a pad (if I am going out to dinner as a precaution) I am also very fortunate that I do not require medication to perform (even at my age this is good) PSA is undetectable and I am now down to 1 visit per year to my surgeon. Good to hear you are retired and still enjoying life. Best wishes to you and all your subscribers/viewers A little update would be great (wink)
Thank you so much for sharing, I’m in day 5 post-op and recovering well, I find your videos very helpful and practical, much appreciated, hi from New Zealand
Appreciate the videos Russ. Question for all, I noticed secreting urine somewhat at the time of arousal with my wife. Does this stop at the time of achieving an erection 4 sex? Is it safe for my wife for us to continue? Do I need to wear a condom even though sperm no longer being ejaculated? May be a stupid question, just wondering? Thank you Russ and participants.
Thank you for that. Just saw your first video and now this. Just about to give the go ahead for my Prostatectomy. It's reassured me with respect to sexual function and incontinence though we're not all the same I know. But this is appreciated and all my very best to you.
Thank you for the update. I just had year one. You are very encouraging. I just started the shield, moving from the pads. I started an exercise program just to get back in shape after that surgery and COVID lockdown. I am progressing similarly to what you described. But I thank you for your testament. I find few that want to talk about it, or that are as open as you and I are. So once again, Thank you!
I"m 37, no children, and still pee a bit either just randomly or when I sneeze. Part of life. There are reasons we wash and change our underwear every day, lol. No shame for how your body naturally functions.
Blessings right back at you. So inspirational, exactly what i needed to see. About to go see today surgeon to get a date to do exactly what you had done 3 years ago. ✌️
Good afternoon. I’m a little younger than you. Very active. Thin. Avid exerciser. Based on numerous test, may be diagnosed with prostate cancer. Waiting biopsy results. I trust my urologist. But still likely want 2nd opinion. 2 questions: who’s your surgeon? Why did you choose surgery over radiation? I very appreciate your courage and candor and honesty in posting these videos. Many thanks
My surgeon was Joseph Wagner, Hartford, Connecticut urology group. Five years ago he had already done 5000 surgeries. My decision was very simple, I wanted the cancer out of my body. Radiation did not do that.
57 and a half. 2 of 12 samples showed cancer in prostate. First Dr suggested removal at my age. Just found out 4 days ago. Been watching all I can. Thank you for sharing. Do you know if the current process has improved since you had yours done.
I don’t think it’s changed much however the latest procedure called Retzius sparing is supposed to give you quicker healing time with the incontinence. All the best to you!
@@jpjp3873 HDR Brachytherapy on July 19 2024 and 25 EBRT treatments started August 9th. Brachy was a cake walk. Woke up and peed and wheeled out the door. 30 minute drive home with my brother and got in another car and went to Walmart to fill a pain prescription just n case. Never used them. No side effect at all other than no ejaculate and maybe two trips to bathroom at night. Day time no change in bath habits. I'm 10 EBRT treatments in. Only side effect is after 10 treatments had the liner of my bladder be irritated. Spicy foods cause a pretty severe pain and cause some runny stool but Tylenol erased the pain. Pretty happy so far. One out of 10 trips to the bathroom there is a little pain to start peeing. more annoying than painful.
You showed the scars from 6 days after, how are the scars now? It was very good following your results, and very assuring to know it takes time and can be 99%.
Thank u for your videos. I am gearing towards having this procedure as I’ve been diagnosed with prostate cancer a few months ago. I’m nervous about it all and having to have a catheter in me which I’ve never had for that amount of days. My 68th birthday was the end of August and I received the awful news my biopsy confirmed the cancer. I will have Dr. Wagner do my procedure. Every year I’ve always had my prostate exam and PSA checked. This year my numbers doubled and one thing led to another. You have inspired me to get mentally strong to go through this surgery. Sad thing is I’m single so I’ll be doing things alone maybe call a friend to help me or my sis when needed. Thank u again for your positive videos.
Hello ,hope all is well. I'm 46 yrs old, and like you sir , I was also diagnosed with prostate cancer. I i was going crazy, overthinking every thing, that I had done that led me to the place I'm now , the story Is a little longer that. But I'm on the board for somethingelse, to say . I . been meaning to comment her for th e last 5 months. When after a psa check as part of a physical was 10.4. I didn't know what it meant. But when the Dr said it could be a few things. Like it being your normal level. A simple uti or a not so simple std, I was like ok ok. I cam deal with that. But then dr said "it could also be cancer. But we need to rule out the simple things , like the possibility of an infection. " so after all those test came back negative, and the next test was a 4 k test. I guess 4k test. Checks for different psa ,and if the cancer is a higher risk ,that's if cancer was found. But getting to the point, so I'm messaging u because for the last 3 months I been watching ur videos , I had already decided that surgery was the best option, but ur videos gave me a better understanding of what I was getting my self into , they made me feel.so much more comfortable with my choice, it was very clear very simple to watch (no dr lingo) and very informative, I really appreciate the time you took to make these videos , I'm only 2 weeks post op , cath came out a week ago , the side effects are real but so far I'm getting better. I'd say my urinary problem it's at an 70/80% and the sexual thing, well I'm pretty sure it will get better and better. Again Thank you sir God bless u, and your family,
@@ricknowak4582 I didn’t start them until 6 weeks out and only did them for a short time. Once I started exercising and doing sit ups and planks I stopped kegels and have never done them again.
@@drummeruss wow that's incredible! I thought kegels were a....MUST!!!! Bet you HAD to do them also you have to do them ALL YOUR ...... LIFE !!! Not true ?
Thank you so very much for all your information, I have followed your journey and kind words, your sharing of what has transpired ever since your surgery. On December 08, 2021 I had a biopsy because my doctor detected elevated PSA's in my blood test. For us as a working class Christian family of four it was a sincere surprise, to say the least. I was in complete denial for the first two or 3 days. But after many prayers from others in our church and us at home, it has slowly started to sink in, but my confidence in our Lord and savior has helped. I will be meeting with a Surgeon and Radiation Oncologist January 06, 2022. So my journey has just begun. If you would be so kind to include me and us as a family in your sincere prayers I would be so grateful. Sincerely in Christ... Ed Z. I would like to email you, but I'll leave it up to you and as the Lord leads. Merry Christmas..!
You have made a difference in the lives of so many by sharing your journey. Continued blessings to you and your family!
Wish you all the Sir. I'm 2.5 years post surgery undetectable. Thank you Jesus
Thanks Russ, I had radical prostatectomy 2 months ago. Your 3 year popped up about 2 weeks prior to surgery, all your videos have been a great help. GOD bless and many prayers for continued recovery!!
Brad Sampson
Hey Russ, It was great to see you again! A year ago at this time I was full of angst about my upcoming surgery. You were one of the first prostate journeys I found on You Tube. You helped me so much! Thanks for your honesty and candor. I appreciate knowing that even 3 years out, you're still using a shield. That helps me set expectations for my own journey. Glad you're doing so well. Take care and God bless.
I'm Gleason 6, low grade cancer, PSA @ 8.9. Currently on Active Surveillance. Age 62.5. My Urologist has had his scaple ready since my biosopy 9 months ago. Additionally, 5 years cancer free after stage 4 colon cancer. I'm been plant based since 2016 and in very good condition. I'm about 75% on having the surgery. FYI, you are the only person that has had the surgery and as for as I can tell, being really honest about what to expect post surgery. It appears that surgery may be the best of all options for early detection. Thanks for put your life experiences out here for myself and other to make informed decisions. Cheers!
Is 2024 right now. What have you done regarding your prostate cancer can you please tell me. I have Gleason 3 + 4 equals 7 and I really want to do active surveillance but I have five cores out of 10 which isn't too good I know. Very curious to see what treatments you went through. Tell me anything you can thank you.
Russ, thank you for your testimony. I am 58 and my annual physical revealed a PSA of 7.2. several weeks ago I had an MRI that revealed two spots on my prostate. I have a fusion biopsy scheduled for April 4th. Needles to say I am anxious.
Your videos have encouraged me and given me hope. Also and most important, I know you are a Brother in Christ! I am believing for complete healing in Jesus'name and laying all this at His feet
So thank you again. And may God continue to shine His face upon you, protect you and your family, and give you peace.
Blessings to you my brother in Christ! I pray as you start this journey that you will have a peace that passes all understanding. I am so glad to be able to share my journey and know how it has helped countless men over the years. Blessings!
Hi, I’ve just had a radical prostatectomy, in my 5th day post-op, recovering well, so much to learn as it’s early days but Russ’s videos are a lifesaver, hi from New Zealand
Thanks for sharing much appreciated
Glad to see you back and doing well. I’m 53 and two years and one month out. Everything is pretty much back to normal…around 90%. However, it’s encouraging to learn there can still be improvements after two years. Thanks so much for posting. Your videos are a confidence booster.
Russ, I wanted to take a moment and share with you that your posts on prostate surgery recovery were absolutely my ray of light I relied upon during my recovery. like you, I was very incontinent immediately after surgery for the first several weeks. Your 5-1/2 week update was tremendously helpful, encouraging and gave me hope that I would be continent some day. I’m at 7 months post surgery and like you, I’m 99% continent and use a single small shield each day more for insurance than need. Thank you again for sharing your personal recovery journey, they helped me more than you will ever know!
Always a blessing to me to hear how much my journey has helped others. Sounds like your recovery is similar to mine. All the best to you, Blessings!
Thank you, Russ. Your videos are very encouraging.
I’m 55. 9 months out. +95% continence. Sexual function is not great.
I know everyone’s experiences are unique. I really appreciate you sharing yours. I’ll remain hopeful for continued healing.
Hi Russ….Circling Back here and sharing some of my progress for you and your viewers….I’m now +16 months post prostatectomy. It was hard for me to believe that healing and function would continue…but I’m still seeing improvement. Incontinence is +98%…only need to pay attention when laughing, coughing, sneezing, lifting….I haven’t worn a pad in months…and…surprisingly, sexual function is slowly returning. I thought that part of life was over, but maybe not..I’ll remain hopeful. I know so many are battling difficult circumstances with their PC….God bless you all, none of it is easy or fun…
Thank you for all of the videos that you have made. I found your videos just before I had my Prostatectomy and they have helped me so much. I am 2 years 3 months post surgery and the only leakage that I have is stress leakage if I pick up something heavy. My sexual function is still not totally back and the pills have not worked for me, so I use trimix. Keep up the good work of encouragement. It helps to know that we are not alone in our journey. God Bless You!
You're a good man Russ you helped a lot
Thank you for discussing your personal journey. I am two days post surgery and appreciate TH-cam videos. I was very similar to your age and Gleason score. You explained yourself very well with possible health hurdles. I might experience. Thanks again.
Great to see you! THANK YOU! You have helped me find peace thruout this ordeal.
That’s good to know, blessings to you!
I really appreciate your positive attitude through your recovery! It has helped me a lot with my husbands recovery!
My friend Russ, I first saw your videos 3 months before I had my surgery which was April 7th 2021. I have followed you ever since. From the beginning I felt you were a Christian man, a brother in the Lord, which was very important to me. God has blessed you with courage and strength as well as a remarkable charm that makes your comments so comforting. I am 71 and was under active surveillance for 4 years. When my gleason score hit 7 it was time to make a decision on my next step. Your videos were not only informative but so helpful in knowing what to expect that the decision was not difficult. The surgery went very well with only a few bumps. My recovery up to this date has been "ahead of the curve" as my Dr. has put it. Bladder wise I am almost back to normal, very similar to what you went through. At 71 I was having slight problems wit leakage before the surgery, so this has not been a big problem to cope with. My "ED" has also followed the same path as you have traveled, but like you I have a loving and understanding wife of 50 years that is just happy I am here with her. I`m looking forward to many more years of happiness and joy with her and this surgery has been a blessing to both of us. I wish I could put into words how much I admire your willingness to put yourself in the public eye and share your story, many many times I have revisited your videos to give me strength and to encourage me when I needed a calm voice to help me move forward. I believe God has used you in a most important role, you have been a blessing to me and my wife as well as my 3 children and 9 grandchildren. They needed me to be strong through all this and you really provided much of that strength. By the way my PSA 2 weeks ago was " no detectable cancer" I thank God every day for those 3 words and I thank God for you. May God continually bless you and your family with wonderful health. P.S. you are the spitting image of my younger brother who I lost 2 years ago to lung cancer, watching you has been like sitting with my brother Ray and having him reassure me that it will be all right, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Blessings to you Charlie! Had tears in my eyes reading your comment. So we have two things in common, brothers in Christ and this surgery. All the best to you!
Amen
Thanks so very much for sharing your journey. I am a year and a half into my post op journey and am about where you were at this time. I firmly believe proper diet and exercise helps in the recovery of body functions. Again, thank you and God bless you and family.
So glad you're doing much better. My surgery is just 2 weeks away now. I appreciate you sharing your experience with us.
How are you doing now Gary? Hope all is well.
@WallaceDunn Hi, thanks for asking. I'm 5 months and 2 weeks post surgery. The incontinence is all but past. I still have a few issues with occasional stress incontinence, but I usually can prepare for it and prevent it. So in that respect, I guess I've achieved total countenance. My PT is the best. She had me doing a regiment of Kegels 2 months prior to surgery, and I've never actually lost control other than a dribble here and there. Nothing that a Shield can't hide.
The ED is a different story altogether. I lost the complete right side of the nerves, but the left side was left intact. Erections still haven't returned, even with cialis. I have heard that the recovery can take up to 18 months, so I guess there is still time for that.
All in all, I'm blessed to have the good health that I possess.
Again, thanks for asking, and I hope you are doing well also. Oh, the PSA is < 0.014, so that's good news also. Take care.
10 days until my surgery. Your posts have been both educational and comforting. Thank you for posting and for your prayers.... Keep em coming.
I will keep you in my prayers John for a successful surgery and complete healing, blessings!
John it's 2024 now July. Would very much like to know how you're doing since your persectomy 2 years ago. If you get this comment please reply. I'm debating between .... and proton therapy
@@ricknowak4582 Hi Rick. Thanks for reaching out. So a couple of items, I've been continent since day one. I was one of the 1st 24 that my surgeon tried out a "new" technique, although bouncing on a trampoline and sexual activity does cause a little leaking. After my surgery my PSA was 0.7 , so they put me on a testosterone blocking therapy (temporary chemical castration ... NOT FUN) and then did 45 days of Proton therapy. The lack of Testosterone weakens the cancer and then they zapped it with Proton radiation... I would choose Proton therapy over general radiation as there are less side effect. Both the Proton and chemical reeks havoc on sexual function. I was put on injections, as Sildenafil just was not cutting it. Believe it or not it is not nearly as bad as one might think. My nerves are just starting to come back to life! I do have a wonderful wife and we are "having fun". My PSA was 0.0 until about 9 months ago, and now it is creeping up to 0.8. So I get to stay in touch with my Oncologist and Radiologist. I am looking into wholistic forms of treatment while encouraging my Oncologist to "think outside the box." One of the things my Radiologist has encouraged me to do is to "stay fit" , saying, "this cancer does NOT like oxygenated blood." Also a good friend of mine, a retired Marine and coach, put a workout routine for me to do prior to my surgery. I did this for 4 weeks prior to surgery. I have no doubt that this made a BIG difference regarding my recovery. I work out about 3 - 4 times a week. (One of the side effects of blocking testosterone in osteoporosis ... so weight lifting and bouncing help strength the bones and reverse the effects.) And finally, at Easter I was in the Baltimore area and met Dr. Patrick Walsh (a devout Catholic) in church. He is the Surgeon at Johns Hopkins who developed the modern day procedure for nerve sparing surgery so men will stay continent and potent. Really great guy.
My husband just had a prostatectomy today. We binge watched your videos and you have been truly very very helpful!!! ❤️
So glad to hear the videos were helpful. Healing is slow but will come. The support from a loving wife was a big part of the process for me. God bless!
How is your husband doing today? I hope all is well.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I am so thrilled to hear you are happy with your outcome.
Thank you so much for your videos, I am 2 1/2 weeks out from surgery, everything seems to be going good for me. I don’t think you ever talked about pain, just was wondering if you could message me and give me some idea about your pain and how long it lasted.
Again, thank you so much for your videos, very helpful!
David
Thank you for being so transparent. I am preparing to have surgery, your posts have been helpful.
My husband has just started his journey. One week in after prostectomy. So thank you for sharing and glad your doing ok x
I began watching your videos 2 yrs ago when I was first diagnosed and put on active surveillance. Now 2 yrs later I am faced the hard decision, surgery or radiation. Both scare the heck out of me. I have no idea which way to go as both and will need to decide soon. Leaning to surgery. Just hard to accept what my life will be like after that, as no guarantees. Thanks for giving me some hope. God bless.
Always good to know my journey gives men hope as they consider prostatectomy. I am 5 1/2 yrs post surgery and almost forget I ever had the surgery. Other than a slight leak now and then life is back to normal. I hope and pray for a great result for you whichever path you choose. Blessings!
Your info are great! Your videos are different from many others because yours are pure helpful information and hence are not biased and never mention the name of your doctor or hospital, while numerous other videos can be perceived as promotions for a doctor or a hospital. Thank you!
Thank you for your honest. My husband is about to have this surgery and you have helped me to have a better understanding of what's ahead.
Congratulations, your positivity and advice is priceless to myself and my wife👏🇬🇧
Have watched all of your videos. They have been AWSOME. Have a friend who is going to have it. Afraid to show him your first ones so not to scare him. I hope he does as well as you have. It was so very hard for him to make this decision and he is scared at this point prior to the surgery.
My husband is scheduled for a radical prostatectomy this week. Your videos have put both of us at ease. Thank you for sharing your story and helping to answer questions that is typically considered "taboo". You are an inspiration! And we like your Jeff Gordon poster in your office. My husband has the same one in his 😁
One of my favorite posters, Your husband has good taste! I’m always happy to know the videos are a blessing to those undergoing this procedure. All the best to him and prayers for 100% recovery, Blessings!
Ross what do you do at night after a prostatectomy. As far as wearing a diaper and wetting yourself. I feel a whole lot at night and I am wondering what do I do. Do I have to get a mattress cover
Thanks for your videos and sharing your story. I watched all of your stories as I was progressing from my surgery back in January and they were a great aid in my recovery process. I'm 62 now and have been very active training for and competing in Ironman competitions. I was required to take a month off of training post surgery, but eased back into it. I was very fortunate to only have some drips up to maybe six weeks, the last being when straining lifting weights. Erections are slowly building but not firm enough yet without trimix injections. I shied away from Viagra because it tanks my blood pressure for a day or so and I can't exercise. You are a true leader of people. Keep up the good work!
I'm working on a story for Everyday Health about what life is like after prostate cancer surgery, and I was wondering if you'd be interested in talking to me about your experience. The info you share here is so helpful, I know a lot of men would benefit from the wisdom you've gained. If so, please let me know the best way to reach you.
Send me a private message on Facebook , Russ Maida.
@@drummeruss I just sent it. Thanks, Russ!
Please let me know if you didn't get my message. Sometimes if you're not connected on FB, the messages don't show up unless you look for them.
@@drummerusshope you are doing well. Thanks for your videos.
I had the procedure year and half ago at 50, it was a shock. I felt strongly to have prostetectomy as I wanted it out, gone.. it''s gone and lymph nodes were clean after the usual tests... I had not much pain after, was able to do almost normal things like walking and sitting from day 2 although obviously gentle..... the most annoying thing was the catheter and once that was gone later that week i was a lot better. But in week 3 pain kicked in.... till about week 5 or 6, checking with doctor it was normal, but scary first... After that all ok.
Now just over year, psa stays zero so far. I am sharing the similar experience, with leakage, sexual health and stay positive that things improve over time further.
Great videos thanks for sharing and stay healthy! best wishes from Netherlands.
Hey Russ. Its great to have this insight before I have the op. Many thanks for getting back to me. Keep banging that drum sir. Bless.
Thank you , about to get surgery and very upset but these videos help.❤
Russ, was there an issue with urine draining in to the bag while sleeping (horizontal position)? Great videos ...................... Thanks so much!
No, I had no issues with the catheter draining into the bag. I only had an issue in the hospital when the line actually became kinked. Always good to know the videos were helpful, all the best to you. Blessings.
Great videos. Although I chose the radiation/hormone therapy approach, I came very close to choosing the surgery. There is no right or wrong choice...everybody is different. I have only two more radiation sessions to complete the 20 total. My wife wanted me to have the surgery. To quote her, "get that thing out of you". I'll turn 70 in October. From what I've learned and my doctor told me, at the 5 year point, radiation and surgery have equal success rates. I chose radiation because I wanted to avoid the incontinence and catheter issues. Sometimes I start second guessing my decision. My future PSA readings will tell me whether or not I made the right decision. The hormone therapy is unpleasant but manageable. Hot flashes are not fun. Right now, my libido is zero - just like pre-puberty. That should change after the hormone treatments stop. I don't know if the VA provides Viagra. I guess I'll find out.
You are absolutely correct, there is no right or wrong, everybody makes their decision based on available information. I wanted it out, and five years later my PSA is undetectable, and I don’t even think of the fact that I had cancer I hope and pray all goes well for you.
Awesome!!! Thanks for sharing...🤩
Wonderful news and again thanx so much for the tips and sharing your exoerience.
Thank you for these personal and objective informational videos, double thanks !!
Thank you for the Videos Russ. I was diagnosed in Mid-July 2022 and started my research ASAP. Your videos have been very helpful and encouraging. I believe my newfound mission in life is Prostate Cancer Awareness, I have been video taping my progress along the way, and would to post them on TH-cam, is it a difficult process making that happen?
Thank you again and look forward to your response.
All the best to you, do a google search on posting to you tube. It’s fairly easy. The. More personal information we post the better for those researching after us.
My friend Russ, I continue to watch your videos, they have become such an important part of my healing. It will be one year April 7th and I`m doing fine. Its amazing how our journey down this path has mirrored one another. Because of that I continue to compare the progress we have both made. That in it self would be all the reason a man would need to follow along, but as the body heals the mind sometimes lags a little behind. I truly have been strengthened by your matter of fact courage to let the world know every aspect of your recovery. I have found a large number of men going through the same difficult process. I have told them about your remarkable videos and encouraged them to not be fearful of what they will face. My strength in being honest, direct and to trust God has been a gift from following you. I look forward to any new post you might send out, their value surpasses anything I have tried to educate myself on from all the other sources I have uncovered. You are real, you show how we should be real, there is a honesty about your post that gives hope. As Christian men I think we sometimes wonder what Gods plan for our lives might be, a drummer in a church service would make anybody pleased they are serving the Lord, I know I would be honored to carry that importance, but you have measured up to a much higher calling than even that. All that comes to mind is "well done my good and faithful servant". Its hard to see the impact you have made on someones life in just a moments worth of words, so as I have become a little long here I wanted you to see through 20/20 eyes the impact you have made on this mans life,,,,, I have been blessed, both in watching your recovery and also in seeing Gods work from a humble man. On a more personal note I turned 72 in Feb, I did have to return this last Jan. for triple hernia repair which also has gone very well. My wife and I celebrated our 50th anniversary this Dec and I love her more today than the day we met. She is my workout partner as well as my life coach. She was the best caregiver a man could ask for and has supported me with love through this whole ordeal, again I am a blessed man.. I just wanted to share with you that without good counsel from people like you, there are so many people who you have encouraged and fortified with your truthful approach that stand behind the men going through this procedure. My wife thanks you for everything you have given us, I pray for Gods continued blessing in you and your families life. You are a friend.
I am humbled by your comments. I simply shared my experience and the amount of hope the videos have brought to men and their families is remarkable. Blessings to you!
Thanks for your time and detailed experience. God Bless You
Thank you very much for making this video!
Thank you for your video and clarifying year 2-3 concerning sexual function. Im 13 months out from RP. I still leak throughout the day although it has greatly improved. I use an injection (Aprostadil) to achieve an erection. Cialis and Viagra don't really do anything although I did have a spontaneous erection one night with my lady. I thought I had turned a corner but that has not happened again. Im 55 and had a stage 1 cancer with my nerve bundles spared. God bless.
Hope you see progress soon. All the best to you.
THANKS YOU so much for your videos, which have helped me enormously get another’s experience going through this surgery.
Hi, Russ- I'm 70 with a Gleason of 5.4. I'm on day 9 post robotic surgery, and get my catheter out today.
I appear to have genital lymphedema, which I haven't found much information about. Everything else was perfect, no pain, just took Tylenol and minimal discomfort from the catheter.
Thanks for the great videos.
Sounds like you’re doing very well. Post surgery, all the best to you and prayers for complete healing. Blessings.
My update: the catheter came out yesterday... I'M HEALED! What a relief! My doctor says the genital swelling will subside in 2-3 weeks and all thelabs show I'm cancer free.
Best of all- I haven't leaked once. I feel just about normal again.
Thanks for your videos. They were the best that I found.
@@richardcrawford7659 Fantastic! You don’t have to deal with the leaking. All the best to you!
Thanks Russ for these vids. I had my prostatectomy done eleven days ago. The total lack of continence is horrible but after recently finding and watching your vids well it’s given me hope.
Please don't stop doing these . It has given much hope and guidance. I too am 99% in control of urination at 18 months now. I don't get leakage at arousal from jump street but do suffer ED issues and like you I lost a little length. I use a vacuum device daily for rehabilitation reasons and wonder what you think about the vacuum device to increase size in long term use ? I too have to use sildenafil Thanks so much JM
You are doing well, that is very good! I tried to vacuum initially, and did not feel I was getting anything out of it. Sold it on eBay, everyone’s different, if it’s helping you keep using it.
I am 69 yrs old and have "High Risk" Prostate Cancer! (Damn!) My Gleason score is 8.
So I'll be talking to a Radiation Oncologist & a Surgeon next week. (August 2023).
The choice is up to me which way I'll go.
Your videos have been very helpful. I'll let you know which choice I make.
Please watch Dr. Shultz videos re. prostate treatment.
God bless you Russ. 🙏. You have made difference in the life of other pristate cancer patient.
I’m 2 weeks post the op and just came across your video updates - thank you for sharing your experience and tips to cope with incontinence.
Thank you! I too had the radicle proctectomy and have followed you thru the months of recovery ,. Depends are very vital!..
God Bles You. I'm 51, diagnosed prostet cancer Gleason score 7. I'm scheduled for prostatectomy on December 9th, 8 days from now. I'm scared and confused, but I want to thank You for information You share with us. my battle just beginning. I hope that I'll survive just like You did. once again God bless.
Always good to know that my journey is helpful to those just beginning. I pray For a successful surgery on December 9 and uneventful recovery, blessings!
Russ, thanks for posting these videos. I’m a Gleason 7 and will have surgery in the near future. It has helped me to get mentally prepared.
Thank you for making all of these videos. They’re so helpful! I go in July 11, 2022. Yes, I’m scared! I’m 69, I caught this early, cancer is contained inside the margins of the prostate. An extensive bone scan has confirmed this. With me luck! I’m scared!
Hope and pray for a great result after surgery. Healing takes time, be patient, blessings!
Bless you.. Thank you for sharing your story. My husband will have surgery in June. Praying all goes well.
You are an important part of the healing. Having my wife with me and supporting me was so important. Prayers for full recovery, Blessings!
Thank you so much for the videos. They are so helpful and informative. My husband has been diagnosed with prostate cancer. The PSA numbers kept going up. When it reached 6, his doctor suggested a biopsy. The Gleason score was 3+4=7. We just recently had a consult with a radiation oncologist. My husband wants surgery. He was already leaning towards a surgery and your videos have helped alleviate some of his concerns. Thank you so much. I hope you are doing well.
How did it go? Did he have surgery? I’m going for a biopsy next month. This sucks. Hope your husband is doing well.
@@jpjp3873 Thank you so much for responding. My husband had surgery on July 3. It went well but his biopsy showed some cancer cells in the seminal vesicle. He came home with a catheter and had it taken out after 6 days. He had discomfort with the catheter but very little pain. He now has burning during urination and the dr. performed a urine test for infection. The dr. thinks maybe he could have scar tissue fro the catheter. I'm sorry to hear that you have to have a biopsy. Sending healing thoughts your way.
God bless you im very happy for you ! Thank you for posting this videos.
I had it done two months ago no leakage at all but problems with erection
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your candor and attitude. I wish you the best of life!
Thank You for these updates. My wife and I ( this is definitely a both-of-us decision) are still researching treatment types for my recent diagnosis and, I'm sure all can relate, it's not at all easy. Just recently started to re-consider prostatectomy and so very much appreciate your post-op perspective. The progress on E.D and incontinence you had gave us hope too. We know life will be different but we still want to have as normal as possible intimate life. Plus, you are similar to me in that you are 155 pounds and an active guy so that gives me hope for my life quality, of running, hiking and so on, if I choose to go the prostatectomy route.
Question: Seems every Doc wants to try and get me on androgen deprivation ( more like depression though) therapy. And, I've refused for a multitude of reasons but, in general, I want quality of life over quantity, ( yes, I'd like both but quality is primary). You mention nothing about this so I was wondering if it was also presented to you as a necessary treatment?
I'd really like the chance to talk with you should that be a possibility. ( I don't do facebook)
Again, thank you
drummer? (me too)
I'm nine months post Radical Robotic assisted Prostatectomy. 62 now, 170 pounds, very active (Ironman training and competing). I avoided hormone therapy and would do it as a last/later resort. I had very little leakage beyond six weeks. I can't remember the last time I dripped. I remember getting back into the gym one month post surgery to lift weights and feeling urine progressing downward, but that went away too. Sexual function wise, I've used trimix injections. The required dosage has really diminished and erections are starting to come back, but not completely, yet. I saw one doctor say "don't even think about having one naturally before 6 months to 24 months". So I'm hopeful that progress will continue. I have shared with a friend of a friend who is going through the selection process. I know I'm not alone in my status, but don't want to come off as "it's no big deal". I'm very fortunate for the outcome I have had to date and feel folks need to know all the perspectives. Good luck to you!
@@andrewkirk9245 I am facing surgery or radiation in the immediate future for my prostate cancer. I am thinking to avoid hormones until it is the very last option. Everything i read is that the body uses testosterone in many positive ways and to deprive the body and mind of it will cause terrible problems, inlcuding heart and cognitive functioning issues. Not to mention bone issues and female transformation, and then there is the depression.
Thanks for your honesty. If I knew this 25 days ago... so far I regret my surgery, I don't know if this is a normal process but ......is life change. Thanks man for your help.
Hang in there my friend, recovery takes quite a long time. Give it time and let’s pray for a full recovery, blessings!
My regret is sky high after undergoing prostate operation . I have no erection despite the aid sex enhancing tablet. Had I known this side effect I would have rejected. surgery !
I saw all of your earlier videos. I like them all. One question I have about the diapers. I'm about your own weight but I tried medium and could not stand them! I went to extra large and they were a little better but still very uncomfortable. I had a very hard time keeping them on for 15 minutes! Let alone all day! I like all my pants 100% cotton and very loose. So I know I'm going to have a hard time with these diapers. I have appointment this week with a surgeon who is doing a new technique called.... "Retzius Sparing". Ever hear of it? It's supposedly helps with incontinence tremendously.
@@ricknowak4582 My brother just had Retzius sparing 2 months ago. He came out of it almost fully continent! Only needed thin pads for an occasional leak.
@@drummeruss thank you for your reply drummers. Can you give me any more details on his resuse surgery please. Like.....pain. any other problems?
So glad I found you , you have put a lot of my questions to rest
I have a Gleason score of 7. I have a history of bladder cancer with a turb procedure done 3 years ago. I am leaning to a radical proctectomy . I'm 67 years old and just want the "beast " as I call it out of me. You're videos are very helpful since I no longer think that I'm the only one with this problem. I've reviewed a lot of good info from You Tube and thankyou for putting yourself out there.
All the best to you, I agree, get the beast out!
Ciao caro Russ,spero riesci a leggere col traduttore...Mi hanno operato di prostatectomia venti giorni fa.Ovviamente soffro di incontinenza,purtroppo sono costretto a svegliarmi tre volte ogni notte per fare la pipi,interrompendo il sonno.Purtroppo(e qui la mia domanda)se non mi alzo a fare la pipi,mi prende un forte dolore al prepuzio dove inizia l'uretra,e come se qualcuno mi infilasse un ago,dolore che appena urino mi passa.Nei primi giorni ti è capitato un episodio simile?.Sappimi dire,un caro saluto dall'italia.
Thanks for these videos. They helped me out. One year out from surgery myself.
Drummeruss, thank you so much for sequence of videos. I will be making decision end of March 2024, radiation or surgery. Leaning towards surgery. Buffalo, NY. I am 61 pretty fit, however want to over prepare for surgery.
Can you elaborate on the exercise program i should do up until surgery ?
Thank you again!!!
Great to see you are doing so well after 3 years. Very promising to all I’m sure. Thank you so very much !
Thank you sir. Just had surgery
Russ - just want to say Thank you for your wisdom and guidance during this troubled time for me. You're videos are very reassuring and consoling. I am 57, live in New Zealand, and am 7 weeks post op. The journey has been like a terrible roller coaster ride. One day up and the next down. I have had my first PSA reading and it was undetectable and I was over the moon! I then received a letter from my doctor saying that I have a "high risk of recurrence" so I am now in the process of working through the 3 monthly PSA tests with dread and anxiety. If my PSA goes up I am not sure what that means to my chances of survival. My research shows that I have at least 5 years, so upward and onward. You videos have had a real impact on me and again God bless and Thank you. You are a kind soul!
Always glad to know the videos help so many men out there, prayers for complete healing for you!
I’m so glad I found your videos.
I have not had my procedure yet.
Your information has helped so much and your positive attitude is so encouraging.
Thank you and bless you.
God bless you Russ. Very happy for you that you are doing great! My husband just had a radical prostatectomy yesterday. He probably won’t have an as good outcome but we will try our best to make lemonade. He also did a gene test due to his family history, we will know in a few weeks if our children will be high risk or not. I would suggest others to do so if you have children. Early intervention is key. My husband got the aggressive kind, it grew quickly and had Gleason score 9. Best wishes to all!
Thank you for your kind words, I pray your husband makes a complete recovery, blessings!
My Dad has to have this same surgery next month and your videos have helped ease my mind. I’m glad you’re doing great!
Support from family is important to recovery. He obviously has a loving daughter who will be there for him. 😊Blessings!
Thank you for all your posts. They have been very informative and helpful. I've decided to have the operation. My score is 7 (3+4). What made you choose this over radiation? Have you ever regretted your decision? I know that radiation is also considered curative, but I just seemed there were too many scary possibilities with the radiation, like it causing secondary cancers.
Thank you.
I have watched all your videos. I have surgery scheduled for this coming month and you have taken away so many levels of anxiety over the pending procedure.
You are a wonderful person. I am so grateful to you for sharing. Very sincerely,,,
Thanks Russ, valuable info.
Hi , thanks for the updates , I feel a little better after watching them, I am a very fit 71 and saw my surgeon today , I am to have the op in approx 6 weeks , a little disappointed that he said no lifting or physical excercise other than walking , for 3 months . I guess I will have to lose my fitness and gradually work back. He also said nerves will be removed at one side . Pleased you are feeling good , take care and thanks again . Ken , Leeds UK
Hope all goes well for you, I waited the three months, but felt like I could exercise after six weeks. All the best to you!
@@drummeruss thanks , take care , have a great Christmas
Hi, how strange, although your post was 2 years ago, it popped up on my YT alerts today !!
I am now 3 years and 1 month post op (Davinci RP)
I watched all your posts at the time before my op and they were a huge benefit in having a relaxed (as far as possible :-) ) approach to my op.
My OP was no problems, I was out and home in 24 hours, it did take me 6 months to regain former fitness, but wifey ensured I took lots of care.
I am 72.5 today, and in great health, 99.9% dry, only occasionally need a pad (if I am going out to dinner as a precaution) I am also very fortunate that I do not require medication to perform (even at my age this is good)
PSA is undetectable and I am now down to 1 visit per year to my surgeon.
Good to hear you are retired and still enjoying life.
Best wishes to you and all your subscribers/viewers
A little update would be great (wink)
Thank you so much for sharing, I’m in day 5 post-op and recovering well, I find your videos very helpful and practical, much appreciated, hi from New Zealand
Appreciate the videos Russ. Question for all, I noticed secreting urine somewhat at the time of arousal with my wife. Does this stop at the time of achieving an erection 4 sex? Is it safe for my wife for us to continue? Do I need to wear a condom even though sperm no longer being ejaculated? May be a stupid question, just wondering? Thank you Russ and participants.
Thank you for that. Just saw your first video and now this. Just about to give the go ahead for my Prostatectomy. It's reassured me with respect to sexual function and incontinence though we're not all the same I know. But this is appreciated and all my very best to you.
Thank you for the update. I just had year one. You are very encouraging. I just started the shield, moving from the pads. I started an exercise program just to get back in shape after that surgery and COVID lockdown. I am progressing similarly to what you described. But I thank you for your testament. I find few that want to talk about it, or that are as open as you and I are. So once again, Thank you!
Glad to hear you are doing well, the exercise program was a great boost to my overall well-being. All the best to you!
I"m 37, no children, and still pee a bit either just randomly or when I sneeze. Part of life. There are reasons we wash and change our underwear every day, lol. No shame for how your body naturally functions.
Awesome of you to share. Im glad to hear positive outcomes. Thankyou. Happy Trails.
Blessings right back at you. So inspirational, exactly what i needed to see. About to go see today surgeon to get a date to do exactly what you had done 3 years ago. ✌️
Glad to know my journey has inspired you! All the best to you, blessings!
Good afternoon. I’m a little younger than you. Very active. Thin. Avid exerciser. Based on numerous test, may be diagnosed with prostate cancer. Waiting biopsy results. I trust my urologist. But still likely want 2nd opinion. 2 questions: who’s your surgeon? Why did you choose surgery over radiation? I very appreciate your courage and candor and honesty in posting these videos. Many thanks
My surgeon was Joseph Wagner, Hartford, Connecticut urology group. Five years ago he had already done 5000 surgeries. My decision was very simple, I wanted the cancer out of my body. Radiation did not do that.
Thank you for sharing your journey .Good luck and God Bless
Thank you, blessings!
57 and a half. 2 of 12 samples showed cancer in prostate. First Dr suggested removal at my age. Just found out 4 days ago. Been watching all I can. Thank you for sharing. Do you know if the current process has improved since you had yours done.
I don’t think it’s changed much however the latest procedure called Retzius sparing is supposed to give you quicker healing time with the incontinence. All the best to you!
I’m your same age and getting biopsies next month. Did you decide on and get a procedure done?
@@jpjp3873 HDR Brachytherapy on July 19 2024 and 25 EBRT treatments started August 9th. Brachy was a cake walk. Woke up and peed and wheeled out the door. 30 minute drive home with my brother and got in another car and went to Walmart to fill a pain prescription just n case. Never used them. No side effect at all other than no ejaculate and maybe two trips to bathroom at night. Day time no change in bath habits. I'm 10 EBRT treatments in. Only side effect is after 10 treatments had the liner of my bladder be irritated. Spicy foods cause a pretty severe pain and cause some runny stool but Tylenol erased the pain. Pretty happy so far. One out of 10 trips to the
bathroom there is a little pain to start peeing. more annoying than painful.
You showed the scars from 6 days after, how are the scars now? It was very good following your results, and very assuring to know it takes time and can be 99%.
Thank you for sharing your journey.
Thank u for your videos. I am gearing towards having this procedure as I’ve been diagnosed with prostate cancer a few months ago. I’m nervous about it all and having to have a catheter in me which I’ve never had for that amount of days. My 68th birthday was the end of August and I received the awful news my biopsy confirmed the cancer. I will have Dr. Wagner do my procedure. Every year I’ve always had my prostate exam and PSA checked. This year my numbers doubled and one thing led to another. You have inspired me to get mentally strong to go through this surgery. Sad thing is I’m single so I’ll be doing things alone maybe call a friend to help me or my sis when needed. Thank u again for your positive videos.
Hello ,hope all is well.
I'm 46 yrs old, and like you sir , I was also diagnosed with prostate cancer. I i was going crazy, overthinking every thing, that I had done that led me to the place I'm now , the story Is a little longer that. But I'm on the board for somethingelse, to say .
I . been meaning to comment her for th e last 5 months. When after a psa check as part of a physical was 10.4.
I didn't know what it meant. But when the Dr said it could be a few things. Like it being your normal level. A simple uti or a not so simple std, I was like ok ok. I cam deal with that. But then dr said "it could also be cancer. But we need to rule out the simple things , like the possibility of an infection. " so after all those test came back negative, and the next test was a 4 k test. I guess 4k test. Checks for different psa ,and if the cancer is a higher risk ,that's if cancer was found.
But getting to the point, so I'm messaging u because for the last 3 months I been watching ur videos , I had already decided that surgery was the best option, but ur videos gave me a better understanding of what I was getting my self into , they made me feel.so much more comfortable with my choice, it was very clear very simple to watch (no dr lingo) and very informative, I really appreciate the time you took to make these videos , I'm only 2 weeks post op , cath came out a week ago , the side effects are real but so far I'm getting better. I'd say my urinary problem it's at an 70/80% and the sexual thing, well I'm pretty sure it will get better and better.
Again Thank you sir
God bless u, and your family,
Thank you for being so open about your journey.
Thank you sir for your videos very helpful getting ready to have surgery. God bless you sir.🙏
When were you doing your kegel exercises after the catheter was out.? Don't you have to wait a couple weeks for it to heal in that area?
@@ricknowak4582 I didn’t start them until 6 weeks out and only did them for a short time. Once I started exercising and doing sit ups and planks I stopped kegels and have never done them again.
@@drummeruss wow that's incredible! I thought kegels were a....MUST!!!! Bet you HAD to do them also you have to do them ALL YOUR ...... LIFE !!! Not true ?
Thank you so very much for all your information, I have followed your journey and kind words, your sharing of what has transpired ever since your surgery. On December 08, 2021 I had a biopsy because my doctor detected elevated PSA's in my blood test. For us as a working class Christian family of four it was a sincere surprise, to say the least. I was in complete denial for the first two or 3 days. But after many prayers from others in our church and us at home, it has slowly started to sink in, but my confidence in our Lord and savior has helped. I will be meeting with a Surgeon and Radiation Oncologist January 06, 2022. So my journey has just begun. If you would be so kind to include me and us as a family in your sincere prayers I would be so grateful. Sincerely in Christ... Ed Z. I would like to email you, but I'll leave it up to you and as the Lord leads. Merry Christmas..!
this is helpful