That's so crazy because I was SUCH an outgoing, flamboyant, theatrical child growing up but I'm so the opposite of that now. I would literally sing and dance in front of strangers and now that is like one of my biggest fears. I think that was definitely energy leftover from a past life that I had yet to shed in my early years.
You are absolutely right. Anytime I have tried to fit into a group or be a part of some kind of major organization, it usually backfires. LOL. I feel like people with this position naturally shine by being individualistic, but still being humane enough to show love and empathy to others. Great explanation, thanks!
This is so true I try so much to fit in groups and am always expelled out. I 😔guess it wasn't meant to be. Luckily I enjoy being alone otherwise I wouldn't have survived
I get drained being around ppl especially when they’re chatting about nothing. I have to respect you in order to listen. The way I see it, there’s more issues when you have friends rather than not. There’s always a nagging feeling of having to suppress myself to be around others& that’s just not happening🤷🏾♀️
So accurate. I play guitar, sing, do photography...it's put me in the spotlight most my life but that's not where I am comfortable. so I withdrew from social groups and have isolated myself a lot in my 20's. I'm 31 now and I realize I am a healer and my goal in life is to heal others, and I have to "get out more" to do that. It's a good work on progress 💪😎
Sounds exactly like me. I know I am bored with a solitary life avoiding groups of friends. It takes strength to keep putting myself out there since approval and acceptance by others is not forthcoming!
HOLY CRAAAAAP! THIS IS SO CREEPY. I have dreams and visions of being a "princess" like wtf?, I feel connected to the medieval time more than any era. I've had multiple psychics tell me I was once royalty, which may explain some of my uncanny ability to manipulate others, and my problem with answering to authority. And aquarius is spot on. I feel like my life goal is good solid friends, and when I get frustrated with someone.. I decide to cut things off too soon and choose to be independent.
its strange I've always had the royalty sense around me like an aura but I can finally see I was sent to try and help people in some way still figuring that part out.
when I was younger a girl told me, “You’re not going to have any friends” and I vividly remember saying, “ I don’t need friends” I really felt that way and still feel like I can do this on my own but I’m learning to be a part of the crowd
I knew you were into astrology because I keep up with both of your channels, I know you said you had to put effort into getting out of shyness but I never would’ve guessed this placement. Hang in there Nurse B😩😩
oh yes, it is a complex one: first focus on the house position--you have to develop the 11th house-friendships, social involvement, etc, but by being very unique and individual and displaying the love and warmness giving qualities of Leo. It is funny, these opposite combos are very complex but I always stress more on the house position, because it is more urgent
I have found in this lifetime, just now, I had a shake up (I'm 23 ) that all these friends abandoned me through the hardest trials in my life. they bought me gifts, and wanted to party, but as soon as shit hit the fan, they split. I had teachers who bullied me, badly, including family members. and I had some serious talk with my Cappy mother just learning to stand up for myself, being okay to be alone and being independent/alone for a while which is hilarious because I am an Aquarius. I am a rising Capricorn, a moon in Libra and north node 11 house in Sagittarius. now, a lot of my abusive attractions and lessons is due to Scorpio in my chart but man. sometimes I am like what the hell? people come after me swinging a bat after they want to see what I am about. I don't trust anyone ATM. perhaps, I say too much of what's on my mind? I don't play games. I don't want to hurt people but I explode haha idk. lol thank you for sharing :) learning about myself helps me see the bigger picture. I really do feel as though 30s for me will be a relief because of foundations and personal comfortability. peace love and light
7th Aquarian Hey pretty! I do understand how it felt like since I went through the same as you. I have Capricorn rising, Rahu in the 11th house Saggitarius, a stellium of Sun Mercury Mars Pluto in Scorpio in my natal chart and hell yeah. My whole childhood until 25 y.o it was crazy. I got boycotted by junior highschool classmates who thought i was weird, eccentric. My group of gfs in university kicked me out as they said i was to flashy, different from the beginning 😅 and lots of unforgettable painful memories with friends in the past broke my heart. But in the end, they have pushed me forward. I learnt how to be independent and live an authentic individualistic life. Somehow, i believe this is a good sign that later on after 30s I'll get to find a like-minded people and build a community of equality, humanity and understanding. I hope you would experience the same. Lots of loves! 🦋💫⭐️
Lovely reading!! This is 100% me--libra NN in the 11th house... time to start caring about others and start working with them instead of competing so much! It's too lonely by myself, I think I've given myself all that I've got, I (my soul) need to move on!
That's me. I can relate 100% with what you said in this video. I have my Rahu conjunct Saturn in the 11th and it's been very difficult for me to make/keep friends. It's funny, just when I think I've made a friend, they disappear just as fast as they came lol. I find myself constantly retreating back to Ketu in my 5th (which does not give me long-lasting fulfillment). BUT, I acknowledge that if I want to develop/evolve as a better/stronger human being, I must focus on Rahu more. Thank you for this video :).
Wow this is just scary! I was always jeaulos of people that can stay in large group of friends. I never could People always got jealous of me or thought I wanted to steal other boyfriends when I was younger. Or teased me because I was too smart. I don't come up with this myself they all said it was because of that. I always had a lot of fake friends were dissapointed a lot. People taking advantage of me. I am in a large group now again but I have trouble fitting in because I don't feel the need to be someone else or be LESS of myself around other people. This is really spot on, so scary WAAHHH hahahah
I've been through that as well,after having fake friends I spent two years isolating myself from everyone around me. But now I somehow found peace being not-the best or anything like that because it doesn't matter. Appreciate what you have for now - friends and family and maybe focus on yourself... Try giving yourself the attention you need. I wish you the best! It is possible to overcome this position,and it actually feels great to be one of the people that make the group instead of being the leader.
Me too, I have burnt a lot of bridges within my groups of friends in the past. One mantra I think is helpful is "don't just shine, illuminate." It means that even though we naturally shine as 5th house people, once we let others shine and help them find THEIR light, we all shine together!
ReadingRhinoPress thank you, this was very insightful, I'm a Leo ascendant with Neptune, Ketu, Moon, Ceres, and Sun conjuct lilith in Sagittarius ♐ 5th house. I have gotten to the point that I questioned whether or not I should "Dull my shine" bc of all the jealousy! I'm attractive and talented (I'm told this ALL THE TIME, seriously ppl always tell me both, especially that I'm beautiful. I don't let it go to my head, rather it bothers me bc there is much more to me than what I look like) Women hate me, or use me. Men are friends until they "fall in love" with their fake idea of me, then either get upset when I don't live up to their fantasy OR if I'm not into them, they hate me too bc they feel rejected. I never give them a reason to think we are more than friends and then bam out of the blue the love letter shows up and ultimately spoils the friendship. Divorced at 30, and my attitude is to hell with everyone ppl suck, I'm tired of being treated like an object and having ppl try to suck the life out of me. I cut off all my hair and quit doing my make up, hair color, cute clothes bc I hoped it would make me more discreet, NOPE! DID NOT WORK AT ALL . I've often said if I were a super hero my super power of choice would be invisibility.
My nn is in aquarius in 3rd house and I work at one of the busiest airports. I feel like home there, like I'm breathing, but at the same time I suck at small talk and can be socially awkward, which is something I had the desire to master since a teenager, I knew it's something I'm lacking in. I studied foreign languages (rahu-foreign, unusual in 3rd house-languages), but was terrified of being a teacher/standing in front of a group, where all eyes are on you. Working at the airport has so far become a huge opportunity for me to learn socializing skills and to be open minded.
So so true about the withdrawing thing! It drives me crazy when I do it because in my heart it doesn't help at all and it really depresses me but when I'm in groups I feel so awkward and shy. So I'm working on that. Great video!
Thank you Lada this helped me alot. Im 48 years old and finally understanding freindships etc who can i trust etc. Very difficult in my younger years and i do tend to rebel and like to be alone when i feel slighted or misunderstood😝which you stated can work against me💓💞💕thank you for shedding some light very much appreciated!!!
hello ma'am ... mostly people with rahu in the 11th house like doing jobs alone... for example ,they are good Stock market traders/speculators..They love doing jobs alone with an illusion(slowly).. well described
The statement about needing validation is absolutely accurate. Often seems that I was so unaware of how I might be offending others so I often sought more validation from people.
Oh my goodness! I have always loved children!! When I was a child, I tried hard to persuade my mom to have more babies. I was the oldest. I dreamed of growing up and having a very large family - like 12 children, if I could. I also dreamed of adopting lots of children. However, I have only had two children. I would love more, but I am too old now I'm afraid. I think it must be Jupiter that makes me so enthusiastic about the idea of having children, so maybe this is of no help to you.
Hi Macy, I usually look just at the house position of Rahu, not the sign because everyone within 1.5 years of you is born with the same Rahu sign, but the house position is personal-it changes every hour or so, so it shows your more specific goals for this life. So focus on Rahu in the 11th
Agreed on the observation on rahu in 11th position, the thing is these people enjoy their old age when they mellow down a bit in life as in youthful days they are fast and furious making some enimities....
I’m an Aries rising x Scorpio sun x aqua moon with NN in Pisces in 11th house x SN Virgo in 5th. ❤ have had visions of speaking on stages in front of large audiences since I was a child. It feels like my calling and I can see how life is unfolding in that way. Leadership & Education are hand in hand for me.
Yeah this definitely sums up my conflict, and it impacts everything. I have Rahu in the 11th House in Leo, which is confusing being in reciprocal houses. I've always been the lone wolf on the fringe, looking for group belonging and social validation but never finding it anywhere. Interestingly though I'm a professional DJ - and quite literally need to be at the center of group activity, which is incredibly tough to do given the social context, the group-minded culture where I live and my isolationist tendencies. I live in an environment where the social & creative groups I fit into most offer nothing inspiring, and those most aligned creatively are at odds culturally and are well beyond my network. Making matters worse, my sun is square Uranus and I just can't stand what anyone else is doing, and I wind up offending everyone (whether in person or on social media) with the slightest insinuation of what I really think about any of it. It's like agreeability and authenticity are mutually exclusive. And the only way forward is to make them not be... somehow. Hopefully as I enter my 40s I'll find some spaciousness with it.
It's always great hearing about other people's experiences with planets... so thanks for sharing, and I wish you and your children the best of everything :-))
very interesting, thanks. i can really see myself in some of those challenges that you're describing. gives me a new understanding, acceptance and puts my heart at peace.
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This is very true of myself, i've started to learn its no fun on your own always, life will not developed unless i work on my ketu. Others are important, you can gain so much knowledge and understanding from whats going on around. Thanks lada
I’m a Leo north node in 11th house. I have a lot of self esteem issues but I do talk a lot. I’m nice to everyone and make friends really easy. I don’t really like cutting off my friends but sometimes I need space. My energy is never reciprocated
Hi Lada, this video was one of the many of yours I have seen but the only one I have laught so much! :) I have definitely found myself in your words. First years of my life I have always felt unsure in the "new" group of people. However, I have find myself a way how to fit into them by dividing a group to the certain persons. :) I have always liked the expression "Divide and rule".
..I feel like I was the one who created it. Haha. I am 34 now and believe life forced me so many times to those situations, that I have learned my lessons. What I am dealing with now is not trying to be the best from the group. But I think this has something to do with my Virgo in the Sun sign also. :D So it sometimes it is quite hard not not work on 100% for example. Thank you for all your work and videos you are sharing with us. They are very helpful. Wish you all the best!
spot on Once i quit someone, its really over for me. Rahu and Moon Conjunct in 11th House "Cancer". I make friends and after sometime, i tend to get myself distant. I hate clingy people who get on my nerves. so i like to stay a lone most of the time. i attract too many opportunists and fake people around. Rahu in 11th is kinda experimental to me :) Ketu in 5th Capricorn a long with VENUS in early Aquarius makes me Artistic inside. i play instruments. it gives me the dreams of 11th House.
Maaan I got the same! i had a "best friend" for 10 years and other friends came and go. This friend recently turned her back to me , say I was always thinking about myself. That hurted me a lot because I am NEVER! and I was like : okay then f*ck off. Without any of emotion or regret. people around me say how I could do that so easily after 10 years but I was like: hoe could SHE do that after 10 years.
Lada I’m watching this so late LOL but I just have to say it’s a spot on interpretation. My Rahu is in Virgo 19° in WSH 11 & Placidus 10H & it’s just interesting cause I have lilith in the 11th/10th on Rahu & I’ve undergone major fluctuations in friendgroups. In high school I went from having no friends to feeling like I was friends with everyone and I had my own group and years later they started to have more political clashes & we grew apart cordially from distance. Now i’ve been going through Neptune on Ketu who’s coincidentally in Vedic Aquarius right now at the end degrees which is inverse my WSH Rahu position! & the natural Aquarius 11H! I have this isolating problem & purposely being more aquarian like because I’ve definitely had a few fake friends that I’m trying to detach beliefs on (Transit Ketu in Sag in Placidus 1st house) so that I can make new friends again when Uranus trines in 2022 😄
Your Calculation is different Than the Western the common one that is used I am 10th House North node in Western On your birth chart calculator its 11th house RA/Rahu/Northnode
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You sound like my spiritual shadow ;-) I am Libra rising, too, and my Rahu/Ketu placement are exactly opposite yours (Rahu in 11th Leo, Ketu in 5th Aqua). I totally get your dilemma :-)
Thank you! Is it also possible to interpret this as desire for adopting a child? I have never had a desire to have a child of my own (SN in 5th, I guess); however, I find joy in interacting with other people's children. Do you think adoption would be a good manifestation of NN in 11th in Leo?
Thanks !! And thanks for the huge source of astrology videos you provide !! I'm coming to realize astrology provides so much more than a personality profile and predictions!! (I prefer that, it's less restrictive.) Could you please make videos about intercepted and duplicated signs? I'm confused as to whether an interception means the individual has a lack of the qualities of those signs or whether it means they will have an intense longing effect for them, or both, and how the effect manifests
Thanks! I certainly feel good knowing that adoption is part of my spiritual journey, despite the fact that some people around me did/do not understand my choice.
I have North node in Aquarius in 11th house and South node in Leo in the 5th house. Always wanted to perform and I don't like groups coz everytime I try to get close to them they act weird, so me being alone is more comfortable. I dump people who were fake to me.
Thank you, Lada. However, I had a hard time interpreting my NN and SN: I have SN in 5th Aquarius (sitting tightly with Venus), and NN in 11th Leo (sitting alone). How would you interpret that, since the House/Sign seem to be contradictory to eachother?
I've been looking for this for years.. Ketu 11th h and moon conjunct in Leo. I have no clue so can't wait to hear this. OK, now I've listened and maybe because you talk about the inverse (5 ketu leo, 11 aqu Rahu) for me I've been around people since childhood. Had lots of friends and network. Now, at 52. Almost all friends disappears after Covid. But I feeel like none of my choice. I didn't want to be around lots of ppl as child/teenager. I pteffered being alone. 27 to 42 i loved it, networked, made friends, then 43 to 52 I've been in hermit mode and not of my own choice. Even though suddenly lots of false friends everywhere. So all in all 14 years was of my own choice. But, I don't see how this says anything about my life mission?
Hi Lada, I found this video very helpful. I have rahu in Aquarius in the 6th house and I definitely feel the desire to be part of a group but I feel like I have difficulty connecting with others on a deeper level and I tend to want to be in charge. I'm also territorial about my space and time alone haha. Do you have any tips on how I could balance this energy?
Hey Lada, in advance, excuse my shortcomings with my knowledge in astrology. What is a general idea of the consequence of Rahu in Capricorn, according to "Planetary details", but in the 11th and/or 12th house (XI and XII drawn in the before last sector), according to the diagram, coupled with Leo-Aquarius interception (and Aries-Libra interception) plus Aquarius Moon in 12th house? (Identify more with themes of this video than north-node in Cap (10th house, which mine isn't).)
so what does it mean when your north node is in Leo (11 house ruled by aquarius) and the south node in Aquarius (5th house ruled by leo) so its kind of opposite of where you are going ????
I am so grateful that you made this video, I related completely! You nailed it in every angel, even the age part. I struggled a lot with friendships at young age, but now that I’m 37 I’m learning how to get along with people better!! I’ve also learned how to find better quality friendships, and walked away from bad ones. I really need to work on being humble, you are so right. I love this, it’s a challenge for me definitely. I love being the best, it’s addicting, but yes I will try to develop the Aquarius energy. 🥹 ❤️🦋
My husband has this nodal position (he withdraws; actually, we both do. I am NN Virgo w/ Leo moon.) Any advice on small steps we can take together? I think we enable one another to hide out. Thanks
Thanks for the reply. What I meant is, on my birth chart, Rahu looks like it's in XI and XII, and Ketu in V and VI, which may be due to the duplication (Cancer in V and VI house cusp, Capricorn in XI and XII). Is it possible to have both missions?
I have north node in 11th house Taurus. Do i research north node in 11th house? What does the 11th house mean for taurus being in that house? when i look up north node in the 11th house i see that it says im Auarius north node leo south but my birth chart says taurus north node. I guess my question in how does taurus north node relate to 11th house north node?
Hey its really true bout watever u said regarding social networking.....i don feel gud wen i'm new in d group.. i feel rejected.....my rahu is placed in 11th house in aquarius..wat bout future???
Is it a curse to be a libra rising? Lol I ask because for example my rahu is in Aquarius and that's my 5th house. So I'm trying to lead the life of an Aquarius (in general) but rahu being in the 5th house (house of Leo) I'm also trying to lead a life of pride! Haha I guess that ties in with libra's need for balance! :P it's like being in the middle of a tug of war haha
This stuff is confusing. In my chart I have north and south node in signs opposite the natural rulers of the houses that they are in. so I have north node Leo in 11th.
That's so crazy because I was SUCH an outgoing, flamboyant, theatrical child growing up but I'm so the opposite of that now. I would literally sing and dance in front of strangers and now that is like one of my biggest fears. I think that was definitely energy leftover from a past life that I had yet to shed in my early years.
I'm totally the same!
Wow ! That's so true.
This is so me 😢
You are absolutely right. Anytime I have tried to fit into a group or be a part of some kind of major organization, it usually backfires. LOL. I feel like people with this position naturally shine by being individualistic, but still being humane enough to show love and empathy to others. Great explanation, thanks!
lmaoo dont make it seem like that
This is so true I try so much to fit in groups and am always expelled out. I 😔guess it wasn't meant to be. Luckily I enjoy being alone otherwise I wouldn't have survived
I get drained being around ppl especially when they’re chatting about nothing. I have to respect you in order to listen. The way I see it, there’s more issues when you have friends rather than not. There’s always a nagging feeling of having to suppress myself to be around others& that’s just not happening🤷🏾♀️
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So accurate. I play guitar, sing, do photography...it's put me in the spotlight most my life but that's not where I am comfortable. so I withdrew from social groups and have isolated myself a lot in my 20's. I'm 31 now and I realize I am a healer and my goal in life is to heal others, and I have to "get out more" to do that. It's a good work on progress 💪😎
Sounds exactly like me. I know I am bored with a solitary life avoiding groups of friends. It takes strength to keep putting myself out there since approval and acceptance by others is not forthcoming!
HOLY CRAAAAAP! THIS IS SO CREEPY. I have dreams and visions of being a "princess" like wtf?, I feel connected to the medieval time more than any era. I've had multiple psychics tell me I was once royalty, which may explain some of my uncanny ability to manipulate others, and my problem with answering to authority. And aquarius is spot on. I feel like my life goal is good solid friends, and when I get frustrated with someone.. I decide to cut things off too soon and choose to be independent.
Kyla C same exactly like me. Everything, wow
I feel you, I have this placement and Leo moon also has that flavor
its strange I've always had the royalty sense around me
like an aura
but I can finally see I was sent to try and help people in some way still figuring that part out.
when I was younger a girl told me, “You’re not going to have any friends” and I vividly remember saying, “ I don’t need friends” I really felt that way and still feel like I can do this on my own but I’m learning to be a part of the crowd
Same
my elementary school teacher told me I was not gonna have any friends
I knew you were into astrology because I keep up with both of your channels, I know you said you had to put effort into getting out of shyness but I never would’ve guessed this placement. Hang in there Nurse B😩😩
self awareness and effort changes everything, The horoscope shows just the default setting, you can customize it over time :)
oh yes, it is a complex one: first focus on the house position--you have to develop the 11th house-friendships, social involvement, etc, but by being very unique and individual and displaying the love and warmness giving qualities of Leo. It is funny, these opposite combos are very complex but I always stress more on the house position, because it is more urgent
Lada Duncheva LOL what if I’m Leo Rahu in 11th house? That’s confusing.
I have found in this lifetime, just now, I had a shake up (I'm 23 ) that all these friends abandoned me through the hardest trials in my life. they bought me gifts, and wanted to party, but as soon as shit hit the fan, they split. I had teachers who bullied me, badly, including family members. and I had some serious talk with my Cappy mother just learning to stand up for myself, being okay to be alone and being independent/alone for a while which is hilarious because I am an Aquarius. I am a rising Capricorn, a moon in Libra and north node 11 house in Sagittarius. now, a lot of my abusive attractions and lessons is due to Scorpio in my chart but man. sometimes I am like what the hell? people come after me swinging a bat after they want to see what I am about. I don't trust anyone ATM. perhaps, I say too much of what's on my mind? I don't play games. I don't want to hurt people but I explode haha idk. lol thank you for sharing :) learning about myself helps me see the bigger picture. I really do feel as though 30s for me will be a relief because of foundations and personal comfortability.
peace love and light
Whoa same here girl thanks for sharing 🙏🏼
7th Aquarian All the best, sister. 🙏🏿
Thank you, guys spreading some love. Means alot.
7th Aquarian I have the same placement and similar experiences :) How was your experience in love matters ?
7th Aquarian Hey pretty! I do understand how it felt like since I went through the same as you. I have Capricorn rising, Rahu in the 11th house Saggitarius, a stellium of Sun Mercury Mars Pluto in Scorpio in my natal chart and hell yeah. My whole childhood until 25 y.o it was crazy. I got boycotted by junior highschool classmates who thought i was weird, eccentric. My group of gfs in university kicked me out as they said i was to flashy, different from the beginning 😅 and lots of unforgettable painful memories with friends in the past broke my heart. But in the end, they have pushed me forward. I learnt how to be independent and live an authentic individualistic life. Somehow, i believe this is a good sign that later on after 30s I'll get to find a like-minded people and build a community of equality, humanity and understanding. I hope you would experience the same. Lots of loves! 🦋💫⭐️
Lovely reading!! This is 100% me--libra NN in the 11th house... time to start caring about others and start working with them instead of competing so much! It's too lonely by myself, I think I've given myself all that I've got, I (my soul) need to move on!
best way for me has been to do what I love - art, music, hiking, riding - i have so many interests its like overwhelming ---
That's me. I can relate 100% with what you said in this video. I have my Rahu conjunct Saturn in the 11th and it's been very difficult for me to make/keep friends. It's funny, just when I think I've made a friend, they disappear just as fast as they came lol. I find myself constantly retreating back to Ketu in my 5th (which does not give me long-lasting fulfillment). BUT, I acknowledge that if I want to develop/evolve as a better/stronger human being, I must focus on Rahu more. Thank you for this video :).
Can totally relate. I have the same placement. I have no friends, only acquaintances. Its not very fulfilling.
Wow this is just scary! I was always jeaulos of people that can stay in large group of friends. I never could People always got jealous of me or thought I wanted to steal other boyfriends when I was younger. Or teased me because I was too smart. I don't come up with this myself they all said it was because of that. I always had a lot of fake friends were dissapointed a lot. People taking advantage of me. I am in a large group now again but I have trouble fitting in because I don't feel the need to be someone else or be LESS of myself around other people. This is really spot on, so scary WAAHHH hahahah
I've been through that as well,after having fake friends I spent two years isolating myself from everyone around me. But now I somehow found peace being not-the best or anything like that because it doesn't matter. Appreciate what you have for now - friends and family and maybe focus on yourself... Try giving yourself the attention you need. I wish you the best! It is possible to overcome this position,and it actually feels great to be one of the people that make the group instead of being the leader.
I know! I never wanted to isolate myself though. Glad you came out of ot because everybody is worth to be seen!
I am here to learn SAME HERE OMG!!!!
Me too, I have burnt a lot of bridges within my groups of friends in the past. One mantra I think is helpful is "don't just shine, illuminate." It means that even though we naturally shine as 5th house people, once we let others shine and help them find THEIR light, we all shine together!
ReadingRhinoPress thank you, this was very insightful, I'm a Leo ascendant with Neptune, Ketu, Moon, Ceres, and Sun conjuct lilith in Sagittarius ♐ 5th house. I have gotten to the point that I questioned whether or not I should "Dull my shine" bc of all the jealousy! I'm attractive and talented (I'm told this ALL THE TIME, seriously ppl always tell me both, especially that I'm beautiful. I don't let it go to my head, rather it bothers me bc there is much more to me than what I look like)
Women hate me, or use me. Men are friends until they "fall in love" with their fake idea of me, then either get upset when I don't live up to their fantasy OR if I'm not into them, they hate me too bc they feel rejected. I never give them a reason to think we are more than friends and then bam out of the blue the love letter shows up and ultimately spoils the friendship.
Divorced at 30, and my attitude is to hell with everyone ppl suck, I'm tired of being treated like an object and having ppl try to suck the life out of me. I cut off all my hair and quit doing my make up, hair color, cute clothes bc I hoped it would make me more discreet, NOPE! DID NOT WORK AT ALL . I've often said if I were a super hero my super power of choice would be invisibility.
My nn is in aquarius in 3rd house and I work at one of the busiest airports. I feel like home there, like I'm breathing, but at the same time I suck at small talk and can be socially awkward, which is something I had the desire to master since a teenager, I knew it's something I'm lacking in. I studied foreign languages (rahu-foreign, unusual in 3rd house-languages), but was terrified of being a teacher/standing in front of a group, where all eyes are on you. Working at the airport has so far become a huge opportunity for me to learn socializing skills and to be open minded.
So so true about the withdrawing thing! It drives me crazy when I do it because in my heart it doesn't help at all and it really depresses me but when I'm in groups I feel so awkward and shy. So I'm working on that. Great video!
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Thank you Lada this helped me alot. Im 48 years old and finally understanding freindships etc who can i trust etc. Very difficult in my younger years and i do tend to rebel and like to be alone when i feel slighted or misunderstood😝which you stated can work against me💓💞💕thank you for shedding some light very much appreciated!!!
hello ma'am ... mostly people with rahu in the 11th house like doing jobs alone... for example ,they are good Stock market traders/speculators..They love doing jobs alone with an illusion(slowly).. well described
The statement about needing validation is absolutely accurate. Often seems that I was so unaware of how I might be offending others so I often sought more validation from people.
Oh my goodness! I have always loved children!! When I was a child, I tried hard to persuade my mom to have more babies. I was the oldest. I dreamed of growing up and having a very large family - like 12 children, if I could. I also dreamed of adopting lots of children. However, I have only had two children. I would love more, but I am too old now I'm afraid. I think it must be Jupiter that makes me so enthusiastic about the idea of having children, so maybe this is of no help to you.
Hi Macy, I usually look just at the house position of Rahu, not the sign because everyone within 1.5 years of you is born with the same Rahu sign, but the house position is personal-it changes every hour or so, so it shows your more specific goals for this life. So focus on Rahu in the 11th
TH-cam is so advanced now. It puts this video right in front of my eyes. I have both Rahu in 11th house and in Aquarius.
Agreed on the observation on rahu in 11th position, the thing is these people enjoy their old age when they mellow down a bit in life as in youthful days they are fast and furious making some enimities....
I always had craving to network with tons of people, but always fail at it. The thing is that I want it even more after that. Rahu in 11th in Navamsa.
I’m an Aries rising x Scorpio sun x aqua moon with NN in Pisces in 11th house x SN Virgo in 5th. ❤ have had visions of speaking on stages in front of large audiences since I was a child. It feels like my calling and I can see how life is unfolding in that way. Leadership & Education are hand in hand for me.
Makes absolute sense, I had a horrible childhood and sometimes I get the feeling I used to be someone else. AQUA north node, south node LEO.
oh I think you are right, because 11th house is the 5th (children) from the 7th(other people)-indeed it makes sense!
Yeah this definitely sums up my conflict, and it impacts everything. I have Rahu in the 11th House in Leo, which is confusing being in reciprocal houses. I've always been the lone wolf on the fringe, looking for group belonging and social validation but never finding it anywhere. Interestingly though I'm a professional DJ - and quite literally need to be at the center of group activity, which is incredibly tough to do given the social context, the group-minded culture where I live and my isolationist tendencies. I live in an environment where the social & creative groups I fit into most offer nothing inspiring, and those most aligned creatively are at odds culturally and are well beyond my network. Making matters worse, my sun is square Uranus and I just can't stand what anyone else is doing, and I wind up offending everyone (whether in person or on social media) with the slightest insinuation of what I really think about any of it. It's like agreeability and authenticity are mutually exclusive. And the only way forward is to make them not be... somehow. Hopefully as I enter my 40s I'll find some spaciousness with it.
Thank you for sharing! That is very insightful for me as an astrologer
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It's always great hearing about other people's experiences with planets... so thanks for sharing, and I wish you and your children the best of everything :-))
this makes ABSOLUTE sense and is 100% correct. thank you for making my thinking clearer! :)
u can watch the videos on the Nodes (North or South) with Mars /Venus, they are somewhere in my astrology of character playlist
very interesting, thanks. i can really see myself in some of those challenges that you're describing. gives me a new understanding, acceptance and puts my heart at peace.
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rahu and ketu are always in opposite signs and houses. So you tend to have to missions to focus on(sign and house)
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This is very true of myself, i've started to learn its no fun on your own always, life will not developed unless i work on my ketu. Others are important, you can gain so much knowledge and understanding from whats going on around. Thanks lada
I’m a Leo north node in 11th house. I have a lot of self esteem issues but I do talk a lot. I’m nice to everyone and make friends really easy. I don’t really like cutting off my friends but sometimes I need space. My energy is never reciprocated
Hi Lada, this video was one of the many of yours I have seen but the only one I have laught so much! :) I have definitely found myself in your words. First years of my life I have always felt unsure in the "new" group of people. However, I have find myself a way how to fit into them by dividing a group to the certain persons. :) I have always liked the expression "Divide and rule".
I aways find the houses more specific than the signs so check the house position --north node in 11th
..I feel like I was the one who created it. Haha. I am 34 now and believe life forced me so many times to those situations, that I have learned my lessons. What I am dealing with now is not trying to be the best from the group. But I think this has something to do with my Virgo in the Sun sign also. :D So it sometimes it is quite hard not not work on 100% for example. Thank you for all your work and videos you are sharing with us. They are very helpful. Wish you all the best!
You’ve come so far! 🎉
spot on Once i quit someone, its really over for me.
Rahu and Moon Conjunct in 11th House "Cancer". I make friends and after sometime, i tend to get myself distant. I hate clingy people who get on my nerves. so i like to stay a lone most of the time. i attract too many opportunists and fake people around. Rahu in 11th is kinda experimental to me :) Ketu in 5th Capricorn a long with VENUS in early Aquarius makes me Artistic inside. i play instruments. it gives me the dreams of 11th House.
Maaan I got the same! i had a "best friend" for 10 years and other friends came and go. This friend recently turned her back to me , say I was always thinking about myself. That hurted me a lot because I am NEVER! and I was like : okay then f*ck off. Without any of emotion or regret. people around me say how I could do that so easily after 10 years but I was like: hoe could SHE do that after 10 years.
Lada I’m watching this so late LOL but I just have to say it’s a spot on interpretation. My Rahu is in Virgo 19° in WSH 11 & Placidus 10H & it’s just interesting cause I have lilith in the 11th/10th on Rahu & I’ve undergone major fluctuations in friendgroups. In high school I went from having no friends to feeling like I was friends with everyone and I had my own group and years later they started to have more political clashes & we grew apart cordially from distance. Now i’ve been going through Neptune on Ketu who’s coincidentally in Vedic Aquarius right now at the end degrees which is inverse my WSH Rahu position! & the natural Aquarius 11H! I have this isolating problem & purposely being more aquarian like because I’ve definitely had a few fake friends that I’m trying to detach beliefs on (Transit Ketu in Sag in Placidus 1st house) so that I can make new friends again when Uranus trines in 2022 😄
Very true - alway strive to be the best but always with great effort and strength (Rahu / retrograde Saturn in Aries 11th house)
This is the push pull of my 5-11 axis.. OMG i feel this
Your Calculation is different
Than the Western the common one that is used
I am 10th House North node in Western
On your birth chart calculator its 11th house RA/Rahu/Northnode
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Thanks so much i needed that im in my 20 and friendships are very delicate for me
Hi Lada!! im 24 and my ketu is in leo and my rahu is in Aquarius at 07:20 digrees. could you explain a little about that for me,please? thank you :)
You sound like my spiritual shadow ;-) I am Libra rising, too, and my Rahu/Ketu placement are exactly opposite yours (Rahu in 11th Leo, Ketu in 5th Aqua). I totally get your dilemma :-)
Thank you! Is it also possible to interpret this as desire for adopting a child? I have never had a desire to have a child of my own (SN in 5th, I guess); however, I find joy in interacting with other people's children. Do you think adoption would be a good manifestation of NN in 11th in Leo?
:) lol that is a clever approach but also a bit scary-imagine if you ruled a whole country! ;)
That was great! Thank you so much learning that was essential :)
Thanks !! And thanks for the huge source of astrology videos you provide !! I'm coming to realize astrology provides so much more than a personality profile and predictions!! (I prefer that, it's less restrictive.)
Could you please make videos about intercepted and duplicated signs? I'm confused as to whether an interception means the individual has a lack of the qualities of those signs or whether it means they will have an intense longing effect for them, or both, and how the effect manifests
Thanks! I certainly feel good knowing that adoption is part of my spiritual journey, despite the fact that some people around me did/do not understand my choice.
Hi Lada, I love your style of evaluation. What can we expect if Ketu is in conjuction with venus and mars in 5th house Leo. Thank u
I have North node in Aquarius in 11th house and South node in Leo in the 5th house. Always wanted to perform and I don't like groups coz everytime I try to get close to them they act weird, so me being alone is more comfortable. I dump people who were fake to me.
Thank you, Lada. However, I had a hard time interpreting my NN and SN: I have SN in 5th Aquarius (sitting tightly with Venus), and NN in 11th Leo (sitting alone). How would you interpret that, since the House/Sign seem to be contradictory to eachother?
I've been looking for this for years.. Ketu 11th h and moon conjunct in Leo. I have no clue so can't wait to hear this. OK, now I've listened and maybe because you talk about the inverse (5 ketu leo, 11 aqu Rahu) for me I've been around people since childhood. Had lots of friends and network. Now, at 52. Almost all friends disappears after Covid. But I feeel like none of my choice. I didn't want to be around lots of ppl as child/teenager. I pteffered being alone. 27 to 42 i loved it, networked, made friends, then 43 to 52 I've been in hermit mode and not of my own choice. Even though suddenly lots of false friends everywhere. So all in all 14 years was of my own choice. But, I don't see how this says anything about my life mission?
Hi Lada, I found this video very helpful. I have rahu in Aquarius in the 6th house and I definitely feel the desire to be part of a group but I feel like I have difficulty connecting with others on a deeper level and I tend to want to be in charge. I'm also territorial about my space and time alone haha. Do you have any tips on how I could balance this energy?
Irakoze CB ... let me know when you get the answer 😎
Hey Lada, in advance, excuse my shortcomings with my knowledge in astrology. What is a general idea of the consequence of Rahu in Capricorn, according to "Planetary details", but in the 11th and/or 12th house (XI and XII drawn in the before last sector), according to the diagram, coupled with Leo-Aquarius interception (and Aries-Libra interception) plus Aquarius Moon in 12th house? (Identify more with themes of this video than north-node in Cap (10th house, which mine isn't).)
In western astrology my north node is in tenth house in aries. When I use astrolada website I get north node in 11th house aries?
so what does it mean when your north node is in Leo (11 house ruled by aquarius) and the south node in Aquarius (5th house ruled by leo) so its kind of opposite of where you are going ????
North node in pisces in the fifth house and South node in virgo in the eleventh house. My town is not listed, so I cant get an accurate reading.
I have this same position, but I also have Saturn and Jupiter in the 5th and Uranus in the 11th.
Amazing...Thank you
Hi Lada! Check your website coz it just gave me a "dangerous link" warning.. Been there already and never happened before..
Thanxs for this video ..!
I am so grateful that you made this video, I related completely! You nailed it in every angel, even the age part. I struggled a lot with friendships at young age, but now that I’m 37 I’m learning how to get along with people better!! I’ve also learned how to find better quality friendships, and walked away from bad ones. I really need to work on being humble, you are so right. I love this, it’s a challenge for me definitely. I love being the best, it’s addicting, but yes I will try to develop the Aquarius energy. 🥹 ❤️🦋
Like others here, I got the warning about the malware that may be on your website also, so I can't check the birthchart calculator :(
listen to the house only, not the sign
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My husband has this nodal position (he withdraws; actually, we both do. I am NN Virgo w/ Leo moon.) Any advice on small steps we can take together? I think we enable one another to hide out. Thanks
I am not sure where my Rahu is. Vedic astrology says 11th house and westens's says 10th... but seems both positions can apply...
Thanks for the reply. What I meant is, on my birth chart, Rahu looks like it's in XI and XII, and Ketu in V and VI, which may be due to the duplication (Cancer in V and VI house cusp, Capricorn in XI and XII). Is it possible to have both missions?
So is it possible to have Ketu and Rahu in 2 houses each, plus being in a different sign position? 3 unfulfilled purposes, to different degrees?
Cool! Just curious... how do you feel about having children?
Thank you so much
thank you great videos!!
I have north node in 11th house Taurus. Do i research north node in 11th house? What does the 11th house mean for taurus being in that house? when i look up north node in the 11th house i see that it says im Auarius north node leo south but my birth chart says taurus north node. I guess my question in how does taurus north node relate to 11th house north node?
stick with the houses, they are the more immediate karma to resolve
Hey its really true bout watever u said regarding social networking.....i don feel gud wen i'm new in d group.. i feel rejected.....my rahu is placed in 11th house in aquarius..wat bout future???
So, if I have Rahu in the 11th house, does that mean I should also look at Rahu in the 10th house?
My Ketu is in Sagittarius 5th house, Rahu in Gemini my 11th.
I wonder what Chiron in Libra North Node In Libra in the 11th house means and its ruled by Virgo in my chart
I've got my NN in Virgo in the 11th house... I think I am supposed to take care of my friends ?
mam rahu and ketu change the house they occupied when u get matured,,, coz in western mrahu is in 7th house in navasha chart become 11th house,,,,,,
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Im confused. it says my ketu is 5th capircorn and my rahu in 11th cancer.. so which video should i be looking at for my life spiritual mission?
What happen if I’m Aquarius ascendant? It will be easier for me to follow my 11th house?
Is it a curse to be a libra rising? Lol I ask because for example my rahu is in Aquarius and that's my 5th house. So I'm trying to lead the life of an Aquarius (in general) but rahu being in the 5th house (house of Leo) I'm also trying to lead a life of pride! Haha I guess that ties in with libra's need for balance! :P it's like being in the middle of a tug of war haha
This stuff is confusing. In my chart I have north and south node in signs opposite the natural rulers of the houses that they are in. so I have north node Leo in 11th.
I got Chiron in 11th house close with North Node.
what if its in the 1st house!
My Rahu is in 11Th house Aquarius and Ketu in Leo 12Th house. I'm confused if I'm watching the right video.
Just start, the story start at 5:00
my rahu is in 6th house and ketu is in 10th house........what are the consequences Lada?
I have rahu i the 11th house(Aries) in my D9 chart. Kindly elaborate more. Thnx