I like that we see Christine and Chris here. They both work hard and are always around, so it's nice to see them a bit more. Chris is awesome as always, he needs to have his own show or something.
Impressive! I have glanced a couple of times at some different "dating tips" (and what not) TV or other forms of shows, and this is undoubtedly the one with the most mature dialog. Also with a hint of humor. I am a fan of the people in this episode for various reasons, so i want to make it knowledgeable that you guys are not doing bad at all with this new "project". Good job, and keep it up.
Go for it! Most guys won't be intimidated by it and in fact it'll give them confidence because it's a clear sign that shows them you're interested. If the guy seems to be on the shy side, he'll be grateful since it relieves him of a huge burden. he might have trouble dealing with, Hope this helped! :)
"Its so hard to approach a girl, you have to remember to compliment her, not flatter. confident but not cocky, show interest, but have restraint, be honest and not up front. And on top of all that, you have to make a good impression. " ice1cube best quote ever. Check this guy out!
continue to love her despite the issues, because she is having an iffy feeling. she wants to see other people but she also wants you to stay with her. love her with everything you have. and if she love/like you, then she'll decide and stay with you.
Honestly, I found these questions funny because I've been on either side of those situations. But, I do like the last portion because I agree with Cathy and Christine that it all depends on how the guy comes across and the intention. Well said to Phil and Chris!
I agree, I preferred V-day when I was younger because you gave it to the entire class. It wasn't about giving it to the one you liked or anything, it was about sharing and showing others you care. :)
As for the whole Nice Guy/Nice Girl, it’s easy to preach to others that your bad luck comes from other people’s bad tastes and failure to see a good thing (good thing=you, of course). But if you keep falling for people who have such bad judgment, then maybe it’s YOU who has the bad taste. This was a hard lesson for me to learn but it’s important to take accountability for your actions.
I always tell people that Valentine's Day is more fun when you are single, in school age (middle-high school), and have a crush on someone... It's all bubbly, and you might get a rose, or give a rose to your crush. It was so cute during those times. Nobody ever agrees with me. They're all consumed in labeling it as 'single awareness day' forgetting the bright side of it. I'm just apathetic to it all now. It's all boring when you're older. Things aren't as bubbly^^
Here's my story: My best friend met my close friend through me and now they are dating. Though I'd be lying if I said I don't like my close friend since I've known her for 2 years. It was hard on me at first seeing 2 of my good friends date. However, I did not give up on the friendship we all have because now, I have met someone better. Therefore, the moral of the story is, it may hurt at first, but they are still your friends, if they date, it means she/he is not the best for you.
Some people say that when Ex's are friends again its either one, they still love each other or two, they never loved each other. What are your thoughts or how do you feel about Ex's being friends again ?
JUST GO OUT THERE. WHO EVER OPENS FIRST DOESN'T MATTER. YOU GOTTA BREAK THAT BARRIER. OR ITS NOT DIFFERENT FROM A LONG TIME RELATIONSHIP. Just talk to him, like how you text him. Don't worry, You guys know each other. It may be awkward at first, but you will be so glad that you guys broke the ice. Its a relief...
From what you just said, the spark died and the feelings faded for her. She has moved on, and you gotta just respected that. For her having someone else already after two weeks coming our of a two year relationship means she has either lost feelings or she is dating him because she isnt use to being alone after the two years with you. I would say just stay strong and let it be i know its hard but if you want her happy, respect her decision. Im here for you man
hi Phil + Cathy: I really liked the first episode, keep up the good work, and all the good videos you guys make. If you guys need some ideas for the show, try "The Daygame" podcast on Itunes. I been listening to it, and they have some great advices.
[continuing] Its kind of hard dumping him, cause we've been through so many things, and I can't just dump it. But I really like your quote. Well..tbh I went back with him and just fell in love with him way more than I used to have. Does that make sense? Our relationship and EVERYTHING had change. But i don't get why I still have strong feelings for him. I'm starting to trust him again, but I hope it wont' be a mistake this time. Thanks for the tip! Also good luck to you too!! :D
When I was 12 I made a list of qualities I would like in my future husband. I think it's important to write those things down before you get into relationships so that you remember what you really want once you are in a relationship.
My boyfriend and I did that before we got together. If you really like someone, you naturally gravitate towards them. But I guess different people have different styles of communication
i think these are one of those no one can answer but you questions. imo love is from the heart not from the physical presence. whether or not you should stay by her side depends on compatibility and how much you two are willing to make it work out if you're currently not compatible.
I have been friends with a guy for almost two years. He's a really great guy and we get along very well. The thing is, he is very friendly and has many friends that are girls. At times, he treats me differently from other girls, but at other times he doesn't. I like him more than a friend, but how do I know if he actually likes me and that I am not just another friend to him?
The 8:00 part of this is totally me, I tried that thing out. I didnt give up and i tried. But in the end she told me that I tried too hard and i worried too much. That she likes it when a guy gives her a hard time and let her do the talking. Sometimes it just really depends on how the girl take things and feel about relationships.
This guy told me I was really special and we were good friends, but he didn't want anything more because he didn't want to ruin our friendship. Then we barely continued talking, so I texted him and told him I missed him and our good friendship. He never responded and blew me off the next day, and now we haven't spoken for weeks. I don't know what happened!
Hi. Honesty is the policy! Do you think he is worthy to be your best friend if he's being pushy about going out with you while it is against your wish? A best friend wouldn't do what is uncomfortable to his best friend. It is hard to not hurt his feelings the second time around without making yourself clear. Be straightforward with him by saying you are really flattered that he wants to go out with you, but you do not wish to date anyone right now.
If I like a guy and I think he likes me too because he gives me signs and flirts with me, but at the same time, he still jokes a lot and isn't sure about his feelings, what should I do? Should I wait for him? Or try letting him go? Note: We talk every day like a couple and act like one sometimes, also, I waited for him for 2 years about.
sometimes like her bf did skip one of his classes to get her a Valentines day gift but other times he's like "ok sure ill see you at the mall" and last minutes he's "sorry I can't go cause of work" and he was already at the mall so he basicly ditched her. He also tells her who she shouldn't be friends with which really pisses me off
Me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and he told me he wants to be friends... but when I asked the reason he said I deserve better. But just that morning we were acting like the perfect couple our bond and our trust was so strong. He even cried before he told me that. It was just weird how it came out of no where. He said he doesn't want to do it but he has to. I feel like him saying I dont deserve him is the real reason.. what should I do??
I went out with this girl for a year, but then we broke up because her parents are ridiculously strict and the pressure of hiding was too much for her. However, I still have very strong feelings for her and want to win her back. What should I do?
I think he should be ONE host of the show. I wouldn't mind having 3 people... or them four are actually pretty great! You should invite Ted and Wes also. I can't image Ted giving advice, that's what makes him even better! haha!
@ISATV, Christine mentioned the importance of persistence and not giving up. When does the line between persistence and stalking/restraining order, become drawn.
If you or anyone has reoccurring problems in dating life, YOU are the common denominator. Rather than judging and dismissing a whole gender, maybe try taking a good look at yourself. It’s easier to push the blame outwards but you are responsible for your own happiness.
happened to my friend once. well she was in ur friends shoes. just smile at him and act like ur just neighbours, nothing more than a smile and hello. it might not work but its what id do. and besides he get over it when u r old enough to date. and keep it natural, if u smile like ur sad that ur losing him u will seem more creepy!
Yes, unrequited love can hurt, especially when you thought something was there but it doesn’t turn romantic. But Cathy makes a good point, girls (and guys) shouldn’t have to feel that someone’s being friends with them just to date them or get in her/his pants. Also, girls can sympathize with Phil as well. Because in these modern times, there are instances where the girl makes the first move and gets rejected in a vague, indirect way. I was one of those girls.
Just stay strong. Ya fought in the relationship because ya both cared. Doesn't matter if it was over stupid things. It meant that there was life and it was real. Just be friends and see how it goes. I know it will be hard seeing her with someone else but once she sees the guy you really are. The guy who has always been by her side. Just always be there to catch her when she falls
@ISAtv I'm a 17 year old girl, and I've had a crush on a guy for a few months. I've tried texting him, talking to him, I've sat next to him in church, asked if he wants to hang out, but he is always too busy talk or hang out with a legit reason (i.e. school, college apps, charity work). He doesn't seem to get the hint, or he's giving me the brush off. Should I give up?
It's actually depend on the perspective of one. Like me and my ex broke up after a 2 year relationship but we become close friend and still talks and hangout, and i'm the only that she still talks to.
love the new series and I can really relate to the playing games thing. I'm straightforward and I expect the other side to be too. If not, I will end up being the one suffering and waiting.
I have this one period where I have three of my crushes in, and the other day one of my crushes started passing notes to me like comments about my clothes stuff like that.The type of paper he used was a tag for a present to a girl he likes. And I am not sure if he likes me or his 'crush'
Before there was a girl that liked me and i turned her down because i didn't know what to say, but over time as i got to know her more i started to like her. Should i ask her or would it be awkward?
there's a guy who keeps texting me like what're you doing, awake yet, i'm bored and just random stuff and it's starting to get annoying... i already try to respond as short and disinterested as i can without being douchy but he's not really backing off... i'm not the person to be mean or not reponding to questions but what should i do if it keeps on being like this? :S
why am i even watching this. i'm single. xD
+Stephanie For later :)
+DerWonMusics You're right cause now I am indeed in a relationship xD that was 2 years ago omg :O
+Stephanie See! :D Well, i didn't saw this 2 years ago so here i am xD
avoiding confrontation is the worst.. being honest and straightforward seems like the best and most mature thing to do
Thanks! We think so too. Stay tuned for more It's...Complicated!
I've always wanted to watch these type of videos. And getting dating advice from wong fu productions is simply amazing!
Thank you! We enjoyed having Christine and Chris as our first guests. Stay tuned for the next episode!
I like that we see Christine and Chris here. They both work hard and are always around, so it's nice to see them a bit more. Chris is awesome as always, he needs to have his own show or something.
Impressive! I have glanced a couple of times at some different "dating tips" (and what not) TV or other forms of shows, and this is undoubtedly the one with the most mature dialog. Also with a hint of humor. I am a fan of the people in this episode for various reasons, so i want to make it knowledgeable that you guys are not doing bad at all with this new "project". Good job, and keep it up.
nice series. I will definitely be tuning in to watch the next episode!
This is exactly the kind of show I've been looking for! Genuine, honest opinions from normal people! great job (:
Glad you like it! We're excited to make more!
Cathy was really shy and nervous this first episode. She'll get more comfortable as we do more. Phil says he'll try to shut up ;P
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!
This is a great new segment. Loving it
Awesome job guys!!! Keep them coming :) Very good advice from Chris.
Wow! I'm actually one of the first few viewers for a video on this channel! Amazing...
Thank you, Phil. Face-to-face communication is so important. In the oft said words of John Green, "USE YOUR WORDS!"
Philip is good looking!
We're glad you enjoyed it. Keep a look out for new episodes!
Thanks for the feedback! We hope to improve with each episode!
Chris's voice is really nice and soothing to listen to. so mellow and mature-sounding, I like it:)
2 years later and Phil and Cathy still have great onscreen chemistry together. :D
Thanks for the feedback! We'll definitely check it out. Stay tuned for the next episode of It's Complicated! :D
I'm happy to see Phil and Cathy together
Kid 1: Wow, Cathy likes me!
Kid 2: Nah, huh! she likes me.... *shows card*
Kid 3: Pf.... Kids, She like ME!
Kid 4: Well....
Go for it! Most guys won't be intimidated by it and in fact it'll give them confidence because it's a clear sign that shows them you're interested. If the guy seems to be on the shy side, he'll be grateful since it relieves him of a huge burden. he might have trouble dealing with, Hope this helped! :)
I like this ^_^ can't wait for the next episode.
"Its so hard to approach a girl, you have to remember to compliment her, not flatter. confident but not cocky, show interest, but have restraint, be honest and not up front. And on top of all that, you have to make a good impression. " ice1cube best quote ever. Check this guy out!
Phil and Cathy give the best advice thank you guys so much i loved the second episode and it helped a lot :)
YAY!!! This is the koolest idea evr, & who could be better hosts?
continue to love her despite the issues, because she is having an iffy feeling. she wants to see other people but she also wants you to stay with her. love her with everything you have. and if she love/like you, then she'll decide and stay with you.
Nice episode! Really enjoyed it!
Good 1st Ep guys! Keep it up!
Love it!! You guys are so honest!! :D
Hey everyone! Episode 2 has been released on our channel. Make sure to check it out! :D
this was so fun, can't wait to see more :)
Honestly, I found these questions funny because I've been on either side of those situations. But, I do like the last portion because I agree with Cathy and Christine that it all depends on how the guy comes across and the intention. Well said to Phil and Chris!
I agree, I preferred V-day when I was younger because you gave it to the entire class. It wasn't about giving it to the one you liked or anything, it was about sharing and showing others you care. :)
I like what you are doing having a show like that. First guests, great choice :) Cathy, love that they chose you as a co host.
As for the whole Nice Guy/Nice Girl, it’s easy to preach to others that your bad luck comes from other people’s bad tastes and failure to see a good thing (good thing=you, of course). But if you keep falling for people who have such bad judgment, then maybe it’s YOU who has the bad taste. This was a hard lesson for me to learn but it’s important to take accountability for your actions.
It's been a month now, I'm really excited for the next episode. Could you please tell me when it is, cause the suspense is killing me. :)
It's ...complicated...by Cathy Nguyen and Dr. Phil...Wang?
Great show look forward to more :)
Hehe...I've heard you guys get a lot of people asking for dating advice. I think this was a very good move! Very endearing to watch. :)
I always tell people that Valentine's Day is more fun when you are single, in school age (middle-high school), and have a crush on someone... It's all bubbly, and you might get a rose, or give a rose to your crush. It was so cute during those times. Nobody ever agrees with me. They're all consumed in labeling it as 'single awareness day' forgetting the bright side of it.
I'm just apathetic to it all now. It's all boring when you're older. Things aren't as bubbly^^
Here's my story: My best friend met my close friend through me and now they are dating. Though I'd be lying if I said I don't like my close friend since I've known her for 2 years. It was hard on me at first seeing 2 of my good friends date. However, I did not give up on the friendship we all have because now, I have met someone better. Therefore, the moral of the story is, it may hurt at first, but they are still your friends, if they date, it means she/he is not the best for you.
Some people say that when Ex's are friends again its either one, they still love each other or two, they never loved each other. What are your thoughts or how do you feel about Ex's being friends again ?
i watched it, im sharing it around yayy :D im loving these video's keep them up !!
JUST GO OUT THERE. WHO EVER OPENS FIRST DOESN'T MATTER. YOU GOTTA BREAK THAT BARRIER. OR ITS NOT DIFFERENT FROM A LONG TIME RELATIONSHIP. Just talk to him, like how you text him. Don't worry, You guys know each other. It may be awkward at first, but you will be so glad that you guys broke the ice. Its a relief...
Thank you! Hope you enjoyed this episode of It's... Complicated. More dating advice/insight to come!
I like Chris Dinh's voice... very comforting, manly and just about nice to the ears.
From what you just said, the spark died and the feelings faded for her. She has moved on, and you gotta just respected that. For her having someone else already after two weeks coming our of a two year relationship means she has either lost feelings or she is dating him because she isnt use to being alone after the two years with you. I would say just stay strong and let it be i know its hard but if you want her happy, respect her decision. Im here for you man
Loving this new Episode! Hopefully Wesley Chan could be one of the Guest Next Time:'D
hi Phil + Cathy:
I really liked the first episode, keep up the good work, and all the good videos you guys make. If you guys need some ideas for the show, try "The Daygame" podcast on Itunes. I been listening to it, and they have some great advices.
[continuing] Its kind of hard dumping him, cause we've been through so many things, and I can't just dump it. But I really like your quote. Well..tbh I went back with him and just fell in love with him way more than I used to have. Does that make sense? Our relationship and EVERYTHING had change. But i don't get why I still have strong feelings for him. I'm starting to trust him again, but I hope it wont' be a mistake this time. Thanks for the tip! Also good luck to you too!! :D
When I was 12 I made a list of qualities I would like in my future husband. I think it's important to write those things down before you get into relationships so that you remember what you really want once you are in a relationship.
My boyfriend and I did that before we got together. If you really like someone, you naturally gravitate towards them. But I guess different people have different styles of communication
i think these are one of those no one can answer but you questions. imo love is from the heart not from the physical presence. whether or not you should stay by her side depends on compatibility and how much you two are willing to make it work out if you're currently not compatible.
Thank you for liking it! Stay tuned for more It's Complicated.
Omg awesome series!
I have been friends with a guy for almost two years. He's a really great guy and we get along very well. The thing is, he is very friendly and has many friends that are girls. At times, he treats me differently from other girls, but at other times he doesn't. I like him more than a friend, but how do I know if he actually likes me and that I am not just another friend to him?
Wow, Chris and Christine give pretty awesome advice.
He'll be back!
i love this series! please make more!
Love this, Chris gives good answers.
Always love hearing compliments about our production staff's work. haha. Thanks for watching! :D
The 8:00 part of this is totally me, I tried that thing out. I didnt give up and i tried. But in the end she told me that I tried too hard and i worried too much. That she likes it when a guy gives her a hard time and let her do the talking. Sometimes it just really depends on how the girl take things and feel about relationships.
This guy told me I was really special and we were good friends, but he didn't want anything more because he didn't want to ruin our friendship. Then we barely continued talking, so I texted him and told him I missed him and our good friendship. He never responded and blew me off the next day, and now we haven't spoken for weeks. I don't know what happened!
Good stuff, appreciate the honesty
Wow. Thank you so much. You're advice is much appreciated.
continue loving. love has nothing to do with keeping that person all to yourself. later on you'll find someone you love and is compatible with you
Hi.
Honesty is the policy! Do you think he is worthy to be your best friend if he's being pushy about going out with you while it is against your wish? A best friend wouldn't do what is uncomfortable to his best friend. It is hard to not hurt his feelings the second time around without making yourself clear. Be straightforward with him by saying you are really flattered that he wants to go out with you, but you do not wish to date anyone right now.
If I like a guy and I think he likes me too because he gives me signs and flirts with me, but at the same time, he still jokes a lot and isn't sure about his feelings, what should I do? Should I wait for him? Or try letting him go? Note: We talk every day like a couple and act like one sometimes, also, I waited for him for 2 years about.
sometimes like her bf did skip one of his classes to get her a Valentines day gift but other times he's like "ok sure ill see you at the mall" and last minutes he's "sorry I can't go cause of work" and he was already at the mall so he basicly ditched her. He also tells her who she shouldn't be friends with which really pisses me off
Me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and he told me he wants to be friends... but when I asked the reason he said I deserve better. But just that morning we were acting like the perfect couple our bond and our trust was so strong. He even cried before he told me that. It was just weird how it came out of no where. He said he doesn't want to do it but he has to. I feel like him saying I dont deserve him is the real reason.. what should I do??
Chris's advices were like the best!!!!!
I went out with this girl for a year, but then we broke up because her parents are ridiculously strict and the pressure of hiding was too much for her. However, I still have very strong feelings for her and want to win her back. What should I do?
I think he should be ONE host of the show. I wouldn't mind having 3 people... or them four are actually pretty great! You should invite Ted and Wes also. I can't image Ted giving advice, that's what makes him even better! haha!
I love the first episode!
When is the next episode?!!! :(
@ISATV, Christine mentioned the importance of persistence and not giving up. When does the line between persistence and stalking/restraining order, become drawn.
Yea im trying. things are slowly getting better. Thank you for the advice!
Yay !, I love this ^^
Confess to her when you feel its right, don't take too long, doesn't matter what other people feel or say, what matters is you and her :)
If you or anyone has reoccurring problems in dating life, YOU are the common denominator. Rather than judging and dismissing a whole gender, maybe try taking a good look at yourself. It’s easier to push the blame outwards but you are responsible for your own happiness.
Chris has always felt to me like wes's older brother.
happened to my friend once. well she was in ur friends shoes. just smile at him and act like ur just neighbours, nothing more than a smile and hello. it might not work but its what id do. and besides he get over it when u r old enough to date. and keep it natural, if u smile like ur sad that ur losing him u will seem more creepy!
Yes, unrequited love can hurt, especially when you thought something was there but it doesn’t turn romantic. But Cathy makes a good point, girls (and guys) shouldn’t have to feel that someone’s being friends with them just to date them or get in her/his pants. Also, girls can sympathize with Phil as well. Because in these modern times, there are instances where the girl makes the first move and gets rejected in a vague, indirect way. I was one of those girls.
Just stay strong. Ya fought in the relationship because ya both cared. Doesn't matter if it was over stupid things. It meant that there was life and it was real. Just be friends and see how it goes. I know it will be hard seeing her with someone else but once she sees the guy you really are. The guy who has always been by her side. Just always be there to catch her when she falls
Very nice music and camera angles. I love it.
@ISAtv I'm a 17 year old girl, and I've had a crush on a guy for a few months. I've tried texting him, talking to him, I've sat next to him in church, asked if he wants to hang out, but he is always too busy talk or hang out with a legit reason (i.e. school, college apps, charity work). He doesn't seem to get the hint, or he's giving me the brush off. Should I give up?
It's actually depend on the perspective of one. Like me and my ex broke up after a 2 year relationship but we become close friend and still talks and hangout, and i'm the only that she still talks to.
all of you guys are so awesome
love the new series and I can really relate to the playing games thing. I'm straightforward and I expect the other side to be too. If not, I will end up being the one suffering and waiting.
super nice setting!!!!! looks so comfy and pretty and refreshing and awesome!!!!!!
Great idea for this show :) More Cathy time!
I have this one period where I have three of my crushes in, and the other day one of my crushes started passing notes to me like comments about my clothes stuff like that.The type of paper he used was a tag for a present to a girl he likes. And I am not sure if he likes me or his 'crush'
Nice video! :)
The background music kind of reminds me of the music of "Sims 2" and "Sims 3" ^^
Before there was a girl that liked me and i turned her down because i didn't know what to say, but over time as i got to know her more i started to like her. Should i ask her or would it be awkward?
there's a guy who keeps texting me like what're you doing, awake yet, i'm bored and just random stuff and it's starting to get annoying... i already try to respond as short and disinterested as i can without being douchy but he's not really backing off... i'm not the person to be mean or not reponding to questions but what should i do if it keeps on being like this? :S
be completely upfront with him because its gonna keep happening if you don't say anything.
AyanamiRei5kyu update?
Love this pls put more !
Hopefully Episode 3 comes out soon! :)
6 years later still single, and still watching this...