5 star restaurants are for special occasions personally... lunch, a walk in the park, coffee, ice cream, if you drink; maybe a bar. Second date something more fun like arcade, bowling, race track, go karts Third date my place for dinner and a movie. You'll get 5 star for your birthday, anniversary,or celebration of something special
One name: Legion 👀 if you don’t know about it, look it up. He paid for her bills but he lied about nearly every single thing. Plus, if a man is able to live dirty & have a dirty body his mental health can not be that good. That really goes for any human. Even wild animals clean themselves & their living spaces.
The best way to know if your date is successful is when you go on your first date and then you have a second date. That's when you know, you're successful because it's like going to interview on a job. When you get interviewed, usually they say don't call us. We'll call you. You can bet they're not calling you back if they set you up for a second interview. You basically got the job so same thing with a date. If you're going to second date, the woman's basically yours.
This can definitely be true, but you'd be surprised how many women keep going out with guys they don't like that much. So this is partially good advice but it's incomplete. I'd say if the best way to know if the date is successful is if the woman contacts you as much as you contact her. Meaning, if the only time you and her speak is when you as the man reaches out then she doesn't like you like that.
If a woman shames you or says no to a restaurant she didn’t pick or isn’t paying for let her go. Thats a clear sign of trouble because if she gets upset about a place to eat imagine a house, car, location, your kids etc. You will be in a world of trouble.
I think some women just don't like hearing that not all of them are worth taking to a nice restaurant...the less attractive or the more promiscuous a woman presents themselves is a big factor in how men treat them.
@@jas1565 it's the same way that not every meal you eat is a three course meal, sometimes you want something quick and easy...I think the problem comes when some women don't realize that they present themselves as quick and easy and then get offended when they get treated as such
Right. My wife’s birthday was last Monday. I asked her what she wanted to do. She asked me to take her to Cheesecake Factory lol. We had a great time and she really appreciated it.
@@lobecosc lol man my wife was even making jokes about that whole cheesecake skit while we were eating dinner. She really thinks those kinda of folks are an entire joke. I’m just so blessed her mom, dad and brothers raised her right.
@@jangomp3 Congrads to you and your wife and family. It's hard out here for us single dudes. I'm just trying to do right by my girl. If she's not holding you down, she's slowing you down.
The thick lady at the end is absolutely right. I do agree with her. The internet and online dating is ridiculous. I personally as a man will never date online. I never have never will cause most. Women will swipe left. It's best to meet a woman in real-time. Supermarket in the street go to a shower somewhere lots of places. We can meet a woman or friend, but a lot of men are weak today and schedule approach women. I'm not the one of them. Thank God.
I would love to watch a podcast with women on the panel that don't answer questions with. We all as an answer , because man as a answer , or men do it too , that would be amazing if women are able to answer questions without those phrases. Cuz when you start off with answer like that you got default you already lost the argument or debate.💯🎯
Women are the gatekeepers to sexual access, so they get it for free. Women can afford to be delusional because there are always gonna be men willing to do whatever to try to get sex.
Take her to a mom and pop spot that has crazy good reviews on yelp. A lot of them spots don't cost a lot, and the food is bomb. It also makes it look like you put some effort into preparing for the date because you did some research.
“I see single unmarried women in the future” with these complicated ideologies… If I brought a woman to my house it’s because I respect her and if I had concerns it’s because I have too many obvious red flags and she may not get to hang out with me in public periodt. 🤔
How can complain about where the date is if the point is to talk and “get to know each other”? The man is generally expected to pay for everything anyway. Once it becomes exclusive then you could make a case. People are strangers in the beginning.
1:04:57 The girl on the right was reflecting on all the times she didn't show interest to play game and sent the wrong message to the guy that she wasn't interested at all. She was like "wow, that's why all of them were ghosting me after a few times conversation, it was my fault all the time" 😂
These women deflected from every situation that required them to take accountability. The entire conversation involved the women flipping it back on men and attempting to tell the hosts what men think and need to change rather than having introspection about their expectations vs reality. It’s always “THATS A GOOD QUESTION” Then bring it back on how men need to do something different.
Me personally I aint taken no one on the most expensive date. Could women have the power to finish you? And pretend that she wants you when she really don't want least. If you guessed me for free lunch. It owned it maybe a cup of coffee show that.
Yeahhh she wild’in for the DM comment, how is that a reflection of your man if someone slides in your DM??? A lot of people are trash that’s why someone slide in your DM
What do you mean by intention? You dont need a 5 star spot for good food and ambiance. Social media really do be twisting these people's perceptions in life. Whether you're dating for sex or dating for marriage, it's all a progression. The steps are the same. The ending is just different.
I’d like to see a panel of women who live more traditional lifestyles such as myself who speak about modern men as well! It seems you guys are more interested in a traditional woman rather than a modern so I’m just interested to know how you guys feel about the way these modern men are acting these days
@@otrebla8944 😂😂 assuming that women who have standards also have high body counts isn't going to make women accept your bare minimum, low effort dates
If you go on a date with a woman coffee date is the best topic date because you're just trying to get to know her first. Don't go out on a date spending tons of money on a woman that don't want you or don't really like you or she's ready to finish you. So coffee date is the best.
I disagree with the first date being so serious. It should simply be a walk, coffee, ice cream. We don't know each other, we don't know if we vibe yet. Why add so much pressure to the first date. If you both are attracted to each other and want to get to know each other more, than yes...take her out somewhere nicer, like dinner or a bar.
My problem with the first date. If done outside my house. I didn't go to places on a date. That I didn't go to alone. So I have never been to Apple Bees on a date. Because I never went alone. Most of my first dates. I have cooked at home. And since I cook very well. When I go out. It has to be to a place that is better than myself. So women benefit from a mans taste. 😅
Ima say this... I was done with Buffets around 19 when I watched these kids keep sticking they're faces in the chocolate fountain. That's when they all instantly became to dirty for me
Lol im not tryna fill up comment space but it always gets me how women, men to at times act like they don't know how alot, maybe not all, maybe not the majority but how alot of other women act. In this case I'm speaking on the 5 star restaurant insurance part and they kinda hit the ??? At the beginning
They saying that buuuut, ive never been turned down when I've offered to cook at my crib on the first date. I've only down that twice but still my point is I feel like they're saying that now but let it be a dude they're really hoping to get to know
when The Man Ask The wOman where She want To go iS sO when She Select The LocatiOn she can noT Say 23:59 yOu choOse The Bad LocatiOn And (iS noT senSitiVe)
That kind of blue hat is very spot time. Just like that guy does is absolutely right? Don't you write? Don't spend all this money on a woman. You don't know if you like her, I think's worked out. Then the second date then you can go out and spend more money and you spend more as you go on more date. Because, as you go on more dates, she'll give you attention and give you more sex and more things. So you'll get something back, but for the first date. Don't go all out like a fool.
Man what is the difference between ihop and Applebees bro cuz 1 serve breakfast ans the other dinner lol ihop cheaper than Applebees this shit is backwards 🤣
Why do it matter what restaurants I take you for the first date especially since I'm paying for it I could pick fast food since it cheaper I'm trying to get to know you now if we was dating it will be different.
The sex question is valid one. However, there are more words in the English language than such obscene terms as those used with these women whom were obviously uncomfortable in using such vulgarity about human private parts so cavalier. Gentlemen...DO BETTER.
If a male asks a woman to applebees, for a FIRST date, here is what he is communicating: 1) I'm BASIC 2) I'm BORING 3) Lacks a sense of culture 4) Not well traveled (it's givin' I never left my block) 5) I give the bare minimum 6) No creativity 7) Bad in Bed - due to lack of creativity, willingness to please 8) Under 25 years old 9) I don't care about the impression I'm giving off 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Nobody said you had to spend a ton of money, but applebees for a first date means I'm signing up for something I don't want. HARD PASS!
Exactly. Men act like women not wanting to go to Applebee's on a first date means she wants Nobu or something. I'm sure men can find a restaurant, wherever they live, within the same price range as Applebee's that has far better quality food and menu.
I like Applebee's tho no lie... So I can't take you to my favorite spot? I'm immature because of it? I lack imagination because I manifest my money to get the date in first place? ... no way this is real....we basically can't eat a granola bar without you calling it broke?
@@anubizz5956 this is similar to a discussion that happened on social media last week.. a woman said she volunteers to feed the homeless every month and a man thought doing so would be a good idea for a first date but she said she liked it.. Just cause you like it doesn't mean it's a date. What makes you immature is thinking everything and anything is suitable for a date. You lack imagination because there are other suitable date options that would probably cost you just as much as a dinner at Applebee's but a lot of men's brains can't figure that one out.
5 star restaurants are for special occasions personally... lunch, a walk in the park, coffee, ice cream, if you drink; maybe a bar.
Second date something more fun like arcade, bowling, race track, go karts
Third date my place for dinner and a movie.
You'll get 5 star for your birthday, anniversary,or celebration of something special
Bingo! You understand the process.
New age womanism is trying to normalize sugar daddy dating
So Where Do You Eat If 5 Stars For You Are Only Special Occasions ?
Absolutely 💯, but these new breed of women wants everything on the menu
@@unpopular2 home cooked meals
My brothas. The algorithm been hiding your content from me
Thanks for letting us know kind of figured something was going on smh 🤦🏾♂️
@@DailyRapUpCrew Y'all have a show where you speak about you guys backgrounds? Like how did y'all meet, what do you guys do before yt etc....
Likewise I legit had to search for it
I damn near lost track
Same here
These awkward pauses they having during the podcasts are priceless 😂
The man just said he's paying for the food he's paying for the mortgage and they still are asking well what about the nails and the hair. That's crazy
That's how women are: They want to keep and save their money for themselves, meanwhile, you're expected to pay for everything.
Iv learned n was taught never let a woman knows how much you have cus her demands will only get higher n higher n never satisfied.
One name: Legion 👀 if you don’t know about it, look it up. He paid for her bills but he lied about nearly every single thing. Plus, if a man is able to live dirty & have a dirty body his mental health can not be that good. That really goes for any human. Even wild animals clean themselves & their living spaces.
@@sunsoza8320sounds like like some good advice
The best way to know if your date is successful is when you go on your first date and then you have a second date. That's when you know, you're successful because it's like going to interview on a job. When you get interviewed, usually they say don't call us. We'll call you. You can bet they're not calling you back if they set you up for a second interview. You basically got the job so same thing with a date. If you're going to second date, the woman's basically yours.
This can definitely be true, but you'd be surprised how many women keep going out with guys they don't like that much. So this is partially good advice but it's incomplete.
I'd say if the best way to know if the date is successful is if the woman contacts you as much as you contact her. Meaning, if the only time you and her speak is when you as the man reaches out then she doesn't like you like that.
If a woman shames you or says no to a restaurant she didn’t pick or isn’t paying for let her go. Thats a clear sign of trouble because if she gets upset about a place to eat imagine a house, car, location, your kids etc. You will be in a world of trouble.
Low value women worry more about ambiance than the actual person sitting across from them.
Shallow as hell😮
Exactly
That's because they don't care about the person; they care about the food.
They aren't helpmeets....guys don't want accept reality
Eli needs to spit a bar next time !! WHY YOU DON'T SPIT A VERSE ELI, WHY ELI ????? 🤣🤣
I think some women just don't like hearing that not all of them are worth taking to a nice restaurant...the less attractive or the more promiscuous a woman presents themselves is a big factor in how men treat them.
The real question is why a man would be taking a woman out who he deems isn't worth "taking to a nice restaurant". Boy math.
@@jas1565 it's the same way that not every meal you eat is a three course meal, sometimes you want something quick and easy...I think the problem comes when some women don't realize that they present themselves as quick and easy and then get offended when they get treated as such
I've taken my girl to Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, Longhorn, and recently Texas Roadhouse. And we've had a great time.
Right. My wife’s birthday was last Monday. I asked her what she wanted to do. She asked me to take her to Cheesecake Factory lol. We had a great time and she really appreciated it.
I just took mine to CheeseCake Factory and she loved it. I'm baffled at these women.
@@lobecosc lol man my wife was even making jokes about that whole cheesecake skit while we were eating dinner. She really thinks those kinda of folks are an entire joke. I’m just so blessed her mom, dad and brothers raised her right.
@@jangomp3 Congrads to you and your wife and family. It's hard out here for us single dudes. I'm just trying to do right by my girl. If she's not holding you down, she's slowing you down.
@22:22 - 22:35 The Foolishness. The "I must believe in something so I'll make myself believe it" mentality is strong in these women here. Great show.
The thick lady at the end is absolutely right. I do agree with her. The internet and online dating is ridiculous. I personally as a man will never date online. I never have never will cause most. Women will swipe left. It's best to meet a woman in real-time. Supermarket in the street go to a shower somewhere lots of places. We can meet a woman or friend, but a lot of men are weak today and schedule approach women. I'm not the one of them. Thank God.
Appreciate it these women
For being ladies
I would love to watch a podcast with women on the panel that don't answer questions with. We all as an answer , because man as a answer , or men do it too , that would be amazing if women are able to answer questions without those phrases. Cuz when you start off with answer like that you got default you already lost the argument or debate.💯🎯
I was about to say haha the most basic questions and they're acting like its the meaning of life.
Deflect an gas light 😂😂😂😂 then project and disconnect
Who's raising these entitled little brats. Social media got these women over-valuing themselves.
Women are the gatekeepers to sexual access, so they get it for free. Women can afford to be delusional because there are always gonna be men willing to do whatever to try to get sex.
Take her to a mom and pop spot that has crazy good reviews on yelp. A lot of them spots don't cost a lot, and the food is bomb. It also makes it look like you put some effort into preparing for the date because you did some research.
“I see single unmarried women in the future” with these complicated ideologies…
If I brought a woman to my house it’s because I respect her and if I had concerns it’s because I have too many obvious red flags and she may not get to hang out with me in public periodt. 🤔
Ayo sounding like Dwight Howard line is crazy llf 😂
How can complain about where the date is if the point is to talk and “get to know each other”? The man is generally expected to pay for everything anyway. Once it becomes exclusive then you could make a case. People are strangers in the beginning.
1:04:57 The girl on the right was reflecting on all the times she didn't show interest to play game and sent the wrong message to the guy that she wasn't interested at all. She was like "wow, that's why all of them were ghosting me after a few times conversation, it was my fault all the time" 😂
24:45 💯💯💯💯💯💯 that selective woman's intuition
I thought yall stopped the show it haven’t been popping up on my feed
I just remember back in the day a movie was a good date. (Dinner and a movie)
Flaming grill is terrible in EVERY state.
These women deflected from every situation that required them to take accountability. The entire conversation involved the women flipping it back on men and attempting to tell the hosts what men think and need to change rather than having introspection about their expectations vs reality. It’s always “THATS A GOOD QUESTION” Then bring it back on how men need to do something different.
That female next to juu, no thank you.
Me personally I aint taken no one on the most expensive date. Could women have the power to finish you? And pretend that she wants you when she really don't want least. If you guessed me for free lunch. It owned it maybe a cup of coffee show that.
Yeahhh she wild’in for the DM comment, how is that a reflection of your man if someone slides in your DM??? A lot of people are trash that’s why someone slide in your DM
Yea Kim!!!!!
What do you mean by intention? You dont need a 5 star spot for good food and ambiance. Social media really do be twisting these people's perceptions in life. Whether you're dating for sex or dating for marriage, it's all a progression. The steps are the same. The ending is just different.
I’d like to see a panel of women who live more traditional lifestyles such as myself who speak about modern men as well! It seems you guys are more interested in a traditional woman rather than a modern so I’m just interested to know how you guys feel about the way these modern men are acting these days
That poor couch is being crushed
😂
Them in house first dates. End in over nights!!! Only once in history did it nit work.
Sometimes she’s just one to play with and not to stay with…
😂😂😂 Chipotle is not the same as Applebee's
Women really act like the environment dictates how well they vibe with a man.
It's an excuse to get free expensive food.
@@otrebla8944 💯
No, the environment dictates whether I think you're worth my time or not.
@@jas1565 presumably, you've been with various guys in various environments and likely have a high body count. Lol.
@@otrebla8944 😂😂 assuming that women who have standards also have high body counts isn't going to make women accept your bare minimum, low effort dates
So if you're my girl I can take you to fast food or casual dining spots, but if your a woman I don't even know if I like yet, I have to do more?
If you go on a date with a woman coffee date is the best topic date because you're just trying to get to know her first. Don't go out on a date spending tons of money on a woman that don't want you or don't really like you or she's ready to finish you. So coffee date is the best.
I don’t like Applebees food or the cheap ass drinks!! I’d rather go get tacos and margaritas!!
I swear, these women deflected several times lol 😅
I disagree with the first date being so serious. It should simply be a walk, coffee, ice cream. We don't know each other, we don't know if we vibe yet. Why add so much pressure to the first date.
If you both are attracted to each other and want to get to know each other more, than yes...take her out somewhere nicer, like dinner or a bar.
My problem with the first date. If done outside my house. I didn't go to places on a date. That I didn't go to alone. So I have never been to Apple Bees on a date. Because I never went alone. Most of my first dates. I have cooked at home. And since I cook very well. When I go out. It has to be to a place that is better than myself. So women benefit from a mans taste. 😅
Ima say this... I was done with Buffets around 19 when I watched these kids keep sticking they're faces in the chocolate fountain. That's when they all instantly became to dirty for me
7:20 this Is crazy. No one tell you to dress up lol
Wow 😂😂😂
Lol im not tryna fill up comment space but it always gets me how women, men to at times act like they don't know how alot, maybe not all, maybe not the majority but how alot of other women act. In this case I'm speaking on the 5 star restaurant insurance part and they kinda hit the ??? At the beginning
Test is overreact . Because if it doesn’t go your way which 90% of the time it does what’s the point. Just say what you want .. It’s easier to say
They saying that buuuut, ive never been turned down when I've offered to cook at my crib on the first date. I've only down that twice but still my point is I feel like they're saying that now but let it be a dude they're really hoping to get to know
Same, these chicks cap. Females like to eat and love a dude that cook! Stay woke! 😂
If she like you it can be getting snacks at the gas station and she going
If you're both children, yes.
when The Man Ask The wOman where She want To go iS sO when She Select The LocatiOn she can noT Say 23:59 yOu choOse The Bad LocatiOn And (iS noT senSitiVe)
That kind of blue hat is very spot time. Just like that guy does is absolutely right? Don't you write? Don't spend all this money on a woman. You don't know if you like her, I think's worked out. Then the second date then you can go out and spend more money and you spend more as you go on more date. Because, as you go on more dates, she'll give you attention and give you more sex and more things. So you'll get something back, but for the first date. Don't go all out like a fool.
These drive-thru face 304z
They do not like to answer questions they annoying me lls
Man what is the difference between ihop and Applebees bro cuz 1 serve breakfast ans the other dinner lol ihop cheaper than Applebees this shit is backwards 🤣
The chick in the middle think she is so perfect damn shame
3 dubs
Why do it matter what restaurants I take you for the first date especially since I'm paying for it I could pick fast food since it cheaper I'm trying to get to know you now if we was dating it will be different.
wOmen
Guest are Duds bro
Man
🙄another airhead episode
I'm not following none of you women. No, thank you. Didn't look in but too masculine for mate. I like slim built women. You guys kind of sick.
First
The sex question is valid one. However, there are more words in the English language than such obscene terms as those used with these women whom were obviously uncomfortable in using such vulgarity about human private parts so cavalier.
Gentlemen...DO BETTER.
Them gorls aint never seen a gym
If a male asks a woman to applebees, for a FIRST date, here is what he is communicating:
1) I'm BASIC
2) I'm BORING
3) Lacks a sense of culture
4) Not well traveled (it's givin' I never left my block)
5) I give the bare minimum
6) No creativity
7) Bad in Bed - due to lack of creativity, willingness to please
8) Under 25 years old
9) I don't care about the impression I'm giving off
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Nobody said you had to spend a ton of money, but applebees for a first date means I'm signing up for something I don't want. HARD PASS!
Exactly. Men act like women not wanting to go to Applebee's on a first date means she wants Nobu or something. I'm sure men can find a restaurant, wherever they live, within the same price range as Applebee's that has far better quality food and menu.
I like Applebee's tho no lie...
So I can't take you to my favorite spot?
I'm immature because of it?
I lack imagination because I manifest my money to get the date in first place? ... no way this is real....we basically can't eat a granola bar without you calling it broke?
@@anubizz5956 this is similar to a discussion that happened on social media last week.. a woman said she volunteers to feed the homeless every month and a man thought doing so would be a good idea for a first date but she said she liked it..
Just cause you like it doesn't mean it's a date. What makes you immature is thinking everything and anything is suitable for a date. You lack imagination because there are other suitable date options that would probably cost you just as much as a dinner at Applebee's but a lot of men's brains can't figure that one out.
Nah this attitude and entitlement screams spoiled brat n immature gold digging diva. wow
Burnt out from all the men you’ve been dealing with. Looking for a new high
I think apple bees is a good idea . For a first date. And a movie. 🍿 depending on. The person. 🧍 but definitely nobody house. Or McDonald. Lol