Paul, this might be strange to hear from one guy to another, but brother I felt your heart in this. I saw your emotion and while I too am sad to hear of your father's situation, I only hope it goes well, either way, it turns out. Having said that, I do hope he recovers and is here with you and your family as long as the creator allows if that is the creator's will. Remember, you not only have your family in the United States that I'm sure loves you, you also have now a global family. And while I can't speak for everyone, I will say, that if I were a betting man, I'd bet you have thousands that care about you here too. I myself am one of them. Bless you and everyone in your family.
Good luck on your trip. Yeah my father passed away from covid19, he was just about to retire. The pandemic has been tough. I'll pray for your father's recovery.
Sorry to hear about your dad and wish him a speedy recovery. I lost my Dad unexpectedly to Covid on Thanksgiving 2020 and my mom passed away 6 days later just because he wasn't there after 68 years. Hopefully your dad will recover and you'll have many years left with him and your family.
I lost my sister in law to Covid at age 58. This was just prior to when the vaccines came out. It's so odd how many couples part shortly after the other one leaves. Sorry for your loss
I am 72…I have been here going on 2yrs…I have 7 kids the youngest is 40 16 grandchildren and 5 grand…I am married to a Guapa Filipina…I am in excellent health and shape…I am a vegetarian don’t smoke or drink…I run 5 to 7 miles a day…if they want to see me I will pay their way…we are moving to her village next month to our house there…my wife is a Christian & so am I…she has her own money and has never asked for a peso…she has a Business…I spent 70yrs there and that’s enough…we plan on having babies and I look forward to that…I love it here!!!
Paul, your video was bound to prompt much heartfelt reaction, because I am sure that for many of your viewers you have been a source of great inspiration, reflection, humour and comfort over the last few years. I will miss your regular updates and your philosophical reasoning, accompanied by your amusing anecdotes, always spoken with that twinkle in your eye! I do hope your forthcoming trip will bring you inner peace and contentment, mixed with some long-awaited happy meetups with family and friends. And naturally we pray for your father's safe recovery. We hope to see you back in the Philippines before too long, getting up to your old tricks, and keeping us amused along the way!!
Sorry to hear that your old man is ill Paul, let's hope he rallies. Good luck with your trip an meeting up with the past in its new clothing. God Bless, and take care of Mae.
Strength to your father. We all pray for a recovery. This damn pandemic has altered lives in inexcusable ways. I wish you a wonderful reunion with everyone. Looking forward to the moments of the journey you ch
So sorry to hear about your father…we are the same age and i lost mine before covid started …glad to hear your kids and families are doing well…praying for your safe travels and Baby Mae while your gone…selfishly i wish “My Old KY Home” was closer to CA so i can meet you and Reekay…but hopefully you both might be back to PH by the time i finally return to Duma…and maybe we can double date with my ldr gf there…God speed and bless you my friend…salamat for the update
Phew, you held me in a stranglehold there until the end. I was just sad at first when I read the headline and thought you were leaving for good. Have a good trip Paul and cheer up Baby Mae. Before you leave. Maybe we can get a coffee together when I come down there later this year.
Sorry to hear your dad is not doing well. Thank you for expressing how The Philippines has changed you life ... the good, the bad, and the ugly. Safe travels back to the State.
Paul you have delivered this in a Cool Calm manner. Of course, I express sympathy for your father and his illness. I am sure you have anticipated this day. I can identify with most of your statement about living more in the last 5 years versus the first 62. I say Most because I am 62 years old and I have not lived very well and currently on Death Row here in America. The soonest I can possibly get to the Philippines is the end of the year, when I would be 63 years old. So it would have to be at least 6 years later for me to be able to say I have lived. At least it appears that you will make it back, as unfortunately John Wales was not. Take care, bless and thanks to you and Baby Mae.
Sorry to hear of your Dads illness Paul. I suspect your trip to the U.S., and reconnecting with family and friends will be a very emotional experience. ❤️
Paul sorry to hear that but happy to hear your coming back i now how you feel eny way have a great trip i think it will be a very meaningful for you cheers see you when you get back looking from Australia
First of all so sorry to hear about your Dad, I am going through something similar with my mom here. It is rough when you are so far away but your Dad wanted you to find happiness and you did! My thoughts are with you and your family. I think this is a much needed family regathering and break for you. I have been following for years and we have chatted a couple of times. I am in Dana Point Ca so if you are ever within 30 miles either way let's get coffee here. I just hope you reconnect with your family and friends so you can feel refreshed and can return to your new home in Philippines. Best always sir!
Paul, so sorry to hear about your fathers illness with covid. My thoughts and payers with be with you, baby mae and your father. Be safe during your travels and while back in the states. Jon
Sorry hear about your Dad .and visit your family .long years away . .. I pray for good life and long life stay safe and God bless you always 🙏🙏 I was hoping to meet u in Philippines . 🇵🇭🇺🇲 But maybe one day .😎I am planning to go Philippines to retire in end year 2022 Iam from Canada .. Chowking. When I visit Philippines again so safe trip to u baby Mae enjoy your visit back home USA .. 🙏🙏🙂👍🇺🇲
Sorry your dad is so ill. I lost my dad when I was 17. I've missed him for nearly 40 years now. Quality time is to be cherished. Thank you for documenting your life thus far. Value every moment. (And PLEASE don't judge the state of America by California! Haha. Although, I'm ready for the Philippines.)
Sorry to hear about your father. I lost my father in 2006 to lung cancer. At the time it was really hard to say goodbye to my dad, father and best friend but I was also glad to know he could finally rest without any pain. For you, I'm sure you'll handle this the best way you know how and thank those close to you for getting you through this difficult situation. 🙏🙏🙏
Have a safe trip Paul. Hope your father gets well. Keep us updated and although I know you will be busy with family, drop a vlog once in awhile so we know how you are doing.
Hi Paul. So sorry to hear about your dad’s health situation. I pray that he hopefully will pull out of of it and regain his health. Have a safe trip and a wonderful visit with your family. 🙏❤️
Here's praying your dad hangs on long enough for you to see him. In some ways I'm sure it'll feel like you never left; in others you'll be reminded of WHY you left. I'm sure Baby Mae is not a happy camper, but with the life she's had and her inner strength she'll hold out and the reunion will be 10X as sweet. I remember all those times when I was in the Navy and had to leave my dear wife and kids for extended deployments, and it was SO hard on both of us -- but the reunions were so lovely it made up for months of loneliness. Bro I fully expect that you WILL keep your video diary going, because I want to hear some takeaways from your time back in the States, as well as what it's done for your relationship with your girl during and after your time apart. Take care, perhaps we'll run into each other while you're in the States. Peace, brother.
I hope you get to spend some time with your dad. Mine passed while I was overseas. I also hope you get back home to PI soon as it sounds like that's where you've established the life you really want. Lucky you.
Paul, sorry to hear about your father and hope and pray that he will recover from this. As person who moved away from her country of birth leaving behind aging parents, I totally understand your having to leave your adopted country to return to spend time with your father and loved ones. It is my prayer that all goes well for your return to the US and eventual return to the Philippines. I have loved your shoot-from-the-hip videos you❤️ and Baby Mae❤️ have made and will continue to follow whatever you post. Take care my friend❤️
Hey Paul, I'm sorry to hear your Dad is in rough shape. I will pray for him to recover so that you can indeed say hello when you get there. Safe travels for you and I hope you have a wonderful time visiting family. If you are going to have time for coffee with subs while in Vegas , let me know the schedule for that and I will fly out. As always God bless.
Sorry to hear about your dad. The last time I went back to Canada was in 2008 when my mom was in hospital with cancer. I was lucky enough to spend a week with her before she passed. It's been a while since I have been home too and I have grandchildren too I have never met. I'm seriously thinking about going back this spring to visit family. Take care Paul, my prayers are with you. God bless everyone stay happy and stay safe 🙏🙏 🙏
So sorry to hear this Paul. I have been following your vlog for long time and never thought you would come back to the US. The political climate is not best here these days but understand that family and personal things also need attention. However your voyage goes I wish you the best.
wow! thats a big statement!! 5 years of growth is more than 62 years of growth! This comment alone confirms my plan to get there.. 39 Australian saying no to groundhog day! Thanks Paul.
Life is so much good and so much adversity, it's a full time job ! Paul, I feel like you can get though this, probably with more grace than most. I wish you all the best !
Hi Paul....deep breaths....good luck....family is an emotional rocketship....good luck with planning your trip..it will be an eye opener for you possibly information overload...take real care of yourself...I hope it adds to your Soul connecting with folks....God Bless 🙏👌....Baby Mae will be there for love and support ❤ on the end of the line....when your landed stateside....
I left Cali 32 yrs ago~I go back to visit, but 1week 2 week tops, I'm ready to leave!! Its great to see family of course, but they have their own lives, and reality does set in. Good Luck
After being away five years be prepared for culture shock just like when you got to the Philippines. You'll know how to maneuver but its a big adjustment.
Hi Paul, I will be praying for your dad. I just lost my dad yesterday morning and my mom is in the hospital not doing well, so please keep me in your prayers as well. Have a safe and productive trip and hug your family tight. God bless you!
Hi Paul quite an emotional video I myself am the same as you went to the pi after my late wife passed away and married a wonderful Filipino woman and of course my children found that quite hard I hope that your children did not get into those bad situation because you were not there when they needed you but as you say they are all pulling themselves back into society which is good I hope Mae will be ok till you return great video explaining your life away cheers gerry
An idea for future videos: interview Filipino expats in the US and compare how their experiences might mirror your own. Everything word you said here could have come from the mouth of an OFW or emigrant - lost family connections, grandkids you don't know, children who grew up without your guidance, neighborhoods changed beyond recognition. And like you, almost none of them will say they regret taking the adventure.
Paul sorry to hear about your dad, let’s pray he will rally and make a turnaround! Safe travels back to the US and when you are how liberal things have gone especially in your state, you will be running back to the Philippines!
G,Day , Paul , I,m so sorry to hear about your Father but I so dearly hope he beats this virus or at least is still fighting it so you both may be reunited once more . I have no doubt that Mae will miss you so very much but does truly understand why you have to go but knowing that you will return to her in time will bring her peace of heart and mind and both your life journeys will continue by each other's side long into the future . Take care Paul , keep safe and safe journey home , regards and best wishes .
I have three sons and my oldest is in Japan. He has two sons, one that I have never held. The oldest son I haven't seen in three years before the pandemic. Stay away from the unhealthy food in the US and stay well young man. Hopefully your father is going to be okay. I'm sorry to tell you, but the US has gone to hell. Stay positive and return to the Philippines when you are finished catching up amigo!
Best to you both Paul. Praying for a productive trip. Be sure to document what you can as you have quite a loyal and growing audience. I have personally enjoyed your insights, attitude and honesty. In n Out's still great. Former So CA 50-year resident now near Phoenix AZ. If out here, let me know please. Wishing you a very fruitful vacation amigo. Take care.
I had to come home too back to help my mom..I have no regrets but it was an adjustment to be made...America is not the place we remember when we were growing up...alot has changed...I wish you well and hope your father recovers...I am in New Mexico...you are always welcome here...I do plan on returning to the Philippines just like you will..prayers are with you..
To me, "leaving the Philippines" implies never going back. I'm glad that near the end you clarified that you are intending to return. Any idea how long you will stay back in the US? I came back to the US in February of 2020, when the pandemic began, and I've been here ever since. I have been supporting my GF there financially the whole time. I miss Cebu and plan to go back soon, but I am torn because my kids really count on me here, especially my daughter. I had spent the better part of 12 years in the Philippines and for the most part it's been a dreamlike experience.
coming from a father that's been there and done that....my advice is to concentrate on your kids, you only get one chance to do things right. I went thru that experience when both of my kids were young and im now trying to make up for lost time and still have regrets about not being there like i should have in their formative years.
Paul you are a cherished individual. And I will be praying for you and all your family I went through the same thing with my dad 4 years ago I know exactly your feelings. I just started talking you the last couple weeks you wil lbe missed by baby mae but you will be back ...at first I thought you weren't coming back at all but I'm glad you are coming back and the yes that will be home for you. Anyway God works in strangeways he led me to you to find more things about the new area I'm going to be coming through and you are very genuine person again prayers from here in Iowa. ❤ gmm
Paul...I have been here almost 4 years...and have been watching Since I got here...First thing...Lifting Prayers for your Father...It was a little emotional when you were talking about your sons...I have 2 daughters in USA..I understand.. Have a Safe Trip...Enjoy... I just want to THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING...I always enjoy your videos... THANKS BROTHER...
Hoping the best for your dad and that you do get to spend some time with him when you return here to America. Your vlogs are always an inspiration to watch and help keep me going until I am able to hopefully retire there next year. You are a good person and deserve good things in your life .
Best of luck on everything. My 92 y.o. mom had covid twice and is still alive and kick'in, so will be thinking best thoughts for you Dad. Will B. May visiting here with you? Safe travels....
One benefit of living in another culture is the perspective it grants you on your own, native, culture. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on America while you're back here.
Beautiful emotional end to a touching video Paul. You will do great back in your home country, and the physical distance between you and Baby Mae will be a massive pull to get you back to your lovely new home in the Philippines. Mae(y) your bond grow stronger!
Hope you will be able to see your Dad. Lost mine last year and miss him every day. He had a good run at 97. I am excited for you to see your sons, grand kids, sister and friends. I expect that this trip will provide Epic content for the Channel. Good luck, have a safe trip.
Watching your videos excited me about going back to the Philippines 🇵🇭, now that you wont be there I lost interest in going. Welcome home to the USA 🇺🇸. The greatest nation that has ever existed in the history of humanity. The Lord Jesus Christ provide indestructible peace and prosperity to you and your family.
hey Paul, sorry to here about your dad,,sending prayers your way and hope you have as good time back home as you have there..please keep In touch with us and keep us posted about your dad....
Hey Paul my dear friend, I'm so sorry that your father is not doing well.🥲🥲🥲. I am praying that he will recover from this horrible virus. Please be safe flying back to America. I will be thinking about you and your beautiful family brother. And I'm sure that you will make some great memories while you are in US. I know that Baby Mae will miss you so much, as I know that you will miss her so much. But, you will return back to the Philippines. And it will be a lot easier to get back into the Philippines now. Thank you Paul my dear friend for sharing this awesome video. Please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you, Baby Mae, Riza, Jennifer, and the rest of your beautiful family. And may God give you safe passage to and from the Philippines.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I understand Paul. You're gonna see how the states have deteriorated . It's unbelievable. Not the same as years past. I'm Leaving going to phillipines to get away from the mess here. Crime, drugs. Shootings, racism, Biden administration creating alot of problems. So many protests. Inflation out of control , and bunch of lies from government. I've had enough gotta get away for some time to relax. Good luck Paul. Completely different America my friend. Take care,, stay safe. Jeff from Florida
Let's go Brandon and Cackles and Fauci and Pelosi and Mitch and Totalitarian governments and Whoopi and Trudeau and war with Russia and China. In three or four weeks your dad will either be recovered or dead depending on how fast they treated him and his immune system. Very few people actually die from Covid. I'm sure Baby Mae will have no trouble replacing you.
@@LR-je7nn you forgot those morons Trump and Pence that's okay you probably voted for him although no one has explain to me exactly what Trump did for anybody other than himself oh and his buddies with their big tax break they cost us money billion dollars a mile for a border wall we didn't need those people make their money here and go back home they don't stay here they can't afford it neither can we you're going to work till you die here but I digress.
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 I think you're making a mistake. I understand your father is an important person to you. But you have someone else that you need to think of now. With the pandemic still going strong and your borders just opening, It isn't a good time at all to go back to the states ALONE. Your immediate concern should be with your current family. You take a big chance of not being able to come back if the covid surges again. Think of the situation Baby Mae would be in with the danger looming down on her, with her partner nowhere to be seen. It's a chance you owe it to her not to take. By going back to the states when there is ANY chance of terrible things happening at ( at least what you call ) your home and to your woman, it makes it look like she's not at the top of your list. She should be the most important thing in the world to you. With the world the way it is now it's irresponsible as hell to leave her behind. Just my take on things. Sorry if you think me out of hand. I wish you both all the love you can find. Oklahoma 🤠🌵🐎
So sorry to hear about your father,,, this situation has helped me personally to a direction when we head to Cebu in about 3 to 4 years.. I am gonna make the trip home each year ,,I am blessed to where I can work about 10 weeks and see the family..You have such a great channel,, hop your travels go well....
Paul, glad to see that you are finally able to go home and hopefully to see your Dad alive. I have a bit of a sad story regarding me and my Dad however that's a story to be told in person. Anyway it will be nice to get back to the states and see family and old friends. The country has changed allot since you left with most of it for the good. However there are downsides to the upsides. As you would imagine like anywhere else in the world people are mentally fatigued with the isolation from the COVID. Since the presidential election there is allot of discontentment with people now having little to no tolerance for personal discussion and have short tempers so be aware. I no longer discuss politics as lot of people are too emphatic in their beliefs. Regarding people, In some cases if you are not careful you can find yourself in an unpredictable outcome when discussing "ANTHING". Best of luck on your journey home and I hope you are safe while back in the country.
Good luck on your trip. I was hoping Baby Mae would join you, but I think I understand. She is a very strong person will be waiting for you with open arms.
Paul, I am so glad that you will finally get to see your dad. I'm sure this is going to be a pivotal moment for both of you. It is unfortunate that we must all eventually take a pause and then meet again later. Goodbyes are always difficult. It has been a great honor to have met you through your You tube videos. You have been a resource for my journey as well as a mentor in humility and acceptance. I sincerely hope you find closure and joy in your homecoming. I arrive in Cebu on March 1. I would take great pleasure in meeting you and the infamous Baby Mae someday. Godspeed and God bless. Tom
Hello, we don't know each other. I am a person who follows you in the shadows. I wanted to thank you for everything you have given me. I appreciated your generosity, your frankness and the patience you had in explaining a whole host of things that will help me when my turn comes. I wish you good luck and lots of happiness with your loved ones. Little suggestions: maybe a video with Baby Mae on thoughts and feelings about your departure. I would like to personally thank Google for this translation. I am Swiss, mother tongue French. My English is funny, but not very effective. Good luck my friend, the best is yet to come
Paul. As a long term expat I can and do appreciate - and understand all that you say. You cunningly left the denouement 'till the very end in that you are not leaving for good but intend returning to the Philippines. That is where I believe your heart of hearts really is However, why you need to get tax clearance for a temporary absence interests me; is that required?Anyway, I wish you well. 🙏 PS. Yes,. I am from the UK
Good idea to get any up to date medical checkups and refill on meds Paul. Also sorry to hear about your father and I wish him continued better health. By the way, I also have 3 sons and am fortunate to spend lots of continued quality time and things to do with them. Hope your trip is relaxing and you see your family soon!
So sorry to hear of your Dad's condition, Paul, my prayers go out to you and yours. Your honesty, faith and wisdom are inspiring to me. Because of the nuances folded into the words of your videos, I've always felt we shared so much of life's experiences (and we're the same age). You had me choked up at the end of this one. May God bless you and keep you safe in your travels so that you may return 'home'. 🙏
God bless you, Paul. I pray that your dad will get well soon when you get there to see him, and God bless all your loved ones. I am, on the other hand, will be going back to Manila, hopefully in 3-6 weeks from now. I am arranging all my financial loose ends here, in the Bay Area California. My sister from Vancouver, Canada is already in Manila and waiting for me. My brother from Toronto is also going home with me back to Manila. I will stay in Manila for at least 6-8 months or more, I hope to see you when you go back to Dumaguete.
hope all goes well for you and Mae. I think you'll be shocked to see the USA so politically divided (Much like in 1865). I think you'll miss the philippines quickly and recognize that your home is truly with Mae in a much more civilized Philippines.
Sorry for the difficult circumstances you are returning home to with your dad. I hope and pray he overcomes. My dad’s health has been directly affected by Covid-19 and he is trying to recover but it’s not been easy. Best wishes on your travels and all your plans. I hope everything goes as planned. I’ll see you back in the Philippines in 2023 I hope.
From what I understood you just are traveling to the USA and you'll be back, it seems from the title that you leave definitely , but what I heard at the end says that you'll be back to your simple house and girlfriend 🙂
Any luck thumbing? Hope the trip goes well. I am still waiting for un-vaxed status to be allowed travel. Someday , maybe I can return to PI after 50 years.....
Sorry,to hear about your Dad's situation. It's going to be Awesome that you will connect again with your children and your Dad. I will pray for pop's recovery as that would make your trip so much better if he recovers from this. Be safe Paul and God Bless.
I'm very sad to hear about the reason why you're leaving and I hope all works out as for being excited on the changes of America none of them are good America is going downhill fast especially with Brandon in charge handing out 30 million dollars worth of crack pipes to the black community calling it racial inequity whatever 🤦
Hi Paul, I really hope your future is filled with inner peace and love. I’m a 62 year old Englishman who has struggled with addiction and have no contact with my family. I have bad days a lot of the time, but I have decided to live in Leyte when I retire with my girl. I really hope that both you and I can stay happy.
Bill I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Treat yourself kindly, live for a future with your lady. Above all heal and get healthy and contact your friends and family. Best wishes to you sir
When you see what Brandon has done to the country, you will get back to Mae, as fast as you can. You can just fly into Mexico and walk across the open border.
Sorry to hear about your father and hope everything works out for the best and he recovers fully. I am sure Mae will miss you very much and I am also sure her friends will take good care of her until you return. You may be born in a certain country and move to a certain country but home is where the heart is. Stay safe on your journey
Hey there Paul. I am so very sorry to hear about your dad's health. Please do keep us posted and I'm wishing your dad, you and the rest of your family all the best.
Paul, this might be strange to hear from one guy to another, but brother I felt your heart in this. I saw your emotion and while I too am sad to hear of your father's situation, I only hope it goes well, either way, it turns out. Having said that, I do hope he recovers and is here with you and your family as long as the creator allows if that is the creator's will. Remember, you not only have your family in the United States that I'm sure loves you, you also have now a global family. And while I can't speak for everyone, I will say, that if I were a betting man, I'd bet you have thousands that care about you here too. I myself am one of them. Bless you and everyone in your family.
Good luck on your trip. Yeah my father passed away from covid19, he was just about to retire. The pandemic has been tough. I'll pray for your father's recovery.
Sorry to hear about your dad and wish him a speedy recovery. I lost my Dad unexpectedly to Covid on Thanksgiving 2020 and my mom passed away 6 days later just because he wasn't there after 68 years. Hopefully your dad will recover and you'll have many years left with him and your family.
Condolences to you sir
I lost my sister in law to Covid at age 58. This was just prior to when the vaccines came out. It's so odd how many couples part shortly after the other one leaves. Sorry for your loss
All the best to you. Your not walking alone.
I am 72…I have been here going on 2yrs…I have 7 kids the youngest is 40 16 grandchildren and 5 grand…I am married to a Guapa Filipina…I am in excellent health and shape…I am a vegetarian don’t smoke or drink…I run 5 to 7 miles a day…if they want to see me I will pay their way…we are moving to her village next month to our house there…my wife is a Christian & so am I…she has her own money and has never asked for a peso…she has a Business…I spent 70yrs there and that’s enough…we plan on having babies and I look forward to that…I love it here!!!
Your mom died of a broken heart. I understand that after 42 years with my amazing husband. ❤️❤️
Paul, your video was bound to prompt much heartfelt reaction, because I am sure that for many of your viewers you have been a source of great inspiration, reflection, humour and comfort over the last few years.
I will miss your regular updates and your philosophical reasoning, accompanied by your amusing anecdotes, always spoken with that twinkle in your eye!
I do hope your forthcoming trip will bring you inner peace and contentment, mixed with some long-awaited happy meetups with family and friends. And naturally we pray for your father's safe recovery.
We hope to see you back in the Philippines before too long, getting up to your old tricks, and keeping us amused along the way!!
Sorry to hear that your old man is ill Paul, let's hope he rallies. Good luck with your trip an meeting up with the past in its new clothing. God Bless, and take care of Mae.
Good to hear Philippines is the real home - I think that will be my story. Patrick Shannon
Strength to your father. We all pray for a recovery. This damn pandemic has altered lives in inexcusable ways. I wish you a wonderful reunion with everyone. Looking forward to the moments of the journey you ch
So sorry to hear about your father…we are the same age and i lost mine before covid started …glad to hear your kids and families are doing well…praying for your safe travels and Baby Mae while your gone…selfishly i wish “My Old KY Home” was closer to CA so i can meet you and Reekay…but hopefully you both might be back to PH by the time i finally return to Duma…and maybe we can double date with my ldr gf there…God speed and bless you my friend…salamat for the update
Phew, you held me in a stranglehold there until the end. I was just sad at first when I read the headline and thought you were leaving for good. Have a good trip Paul and cheer up Baby Mae. Before you leave. Maybe we can get a coffee together when I come down there later this year.
Best of luck on your trip back to the USA. Hope your Dad makes full recovery. Take care
Sorry to hear your dad is not doing well. Thank you for expressing how The Philippines has changed you life ... the good, the bad, and the ugly. Safe travels back to the State.
Paul you have delivered this in a Cool Calm manner. Of course, I express sympathy for your father and his illness. I am sure you have anticipated this day. I can identify with most of your statement about living more in the last 5 years versus the first 62. I say Most because I am 62 years old and I have not lived very well and currently on Death Row here in America. The soonest I can possibly get to the Philippines is the end of the year, when I would be 63 years old. So it would have to be at least 6 years later for me to be able to say I have lived. At least it appears that you will make it back, as unfortunately John Wales was not. Take care, bless and thanks to you and Baby Mae.
Sorry to hear of your Dads illness Paul. I suspect your trip to the U.S., and reconnecting with family and friends will be a very emotional experience. ❤️
Paul sorry to hear that but happy to hear your coming back i now how you feel eny way have a great trip i think it will be a very meaningful for you cheers see you when you get back looking from Australia
First of all so sorry to hear about your Dad, I am going through something similar with my mom here. It is rough when you are so far away but your Dad wanted you to find happiness and you did! My thoughts are with you and your family. I think this is a much needed family regathering and break for you. I have been following for years and we have chatted a couple of times. I am in Dana Point Ca so if you are ever within 30 miles either way let's get coffee here. I just hope you reconnect with your family and friends so you can feel refreshed and can return to your new home in Philippines. Best always sir!
Sorry to hear about your dad, I hope he will be ok. Good for you to go home, maybe it will help him to see you.
Paul, so sorry to hear about your fathers illness with covid. My thoughts and payers with be with you, baby mae and your father.
Be safe during your travels and while back in the states.
Jon
Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.
George Burns
Sorry hear about your Dad .and visit your family .long years away . .. I pray for good life and long life stay safe and God bless you always 🙏🙏 I was hoping to meet u in Philippines . 🇵🇭🇺🇲 But maybe one day .😎I am planning to go Philippines to retire in end year 2022 Iam from Canada .. Chowking. When I visit Philippines again so safe trip to u baby Mae enjoy your visit back home USA .. 🙏🙏🙂👍🇺🇲
Sorry your dad is so ill. I lost my dad when I was 17. I've missed him for nearly 40 years now. Quality time is to be cherished. Thank you for documenting your life thus far. Value every moment. (And PLEASE don't judge the state of America by California! Haha. Although, I'm ready for the Philippines.)
Lost my dad when I was only 12 and while it sucked to lose him so soon I had a great mom that helped fill a lot of that void.
Sorry to hear about your father. I lost my father in 2006 to lung cancer. At the time it was really hard to say goodbye to my dad, father and best friend but I was also glad to know he could finally rest without any pain. For you, I'm sure you'll handle this the best way you know how and thank those close to you for getting you through this difficult situation. 🙏🙏🙏
Paul, you know we are all proud of you!!!! Safe travels !!
Happy for you Paul...(on your last statement).
Some of Us at 65....still searching for a place called
"HOME".
Have a safe trip Paul. Hope your father gets well. Keep us updated and although I know you will be busy with family, drop a vlog once in awhile so we know how you are doing.
Hi Paul. So sorry to hear about your dad’s health situation. I pray that he hopefully will pull out of of it and regain his health. Have a safe trip and a wonderful visit with your family. 🙏❤️
Here's praying your dad hangs on long enough for you to see him. In some ways I'm sure it'll feel like you never left; in others you'll be reminded of WHY you left. I'm sure Baby Mae is not a happy camper, but with the life she's had and her inner strength she'll hold out and the reunion will be 10X as sweet. I remember all those times when I was in the Navy and had to leave my dear wife and kids for extended deployments, and it was SO hard on both of us -- but the reunions were so lovely it made up for months of loneliness. Bro I fully expect that you WILL keep your video diary going, because I want to hear some takeaways from your time back in the States, as well as what it's done for your relationship with your girl during and after your time apart. Take care, perhaps we'll run into each other while you're in the States. Peace, brother.
Safe journey Paul . Hope your father gets well soon . Dont forget to take chicken with you .
I hope you get to spend some time with your dad. Mine passed while I was overseas. I also hope you get back home to PI soon as it sounds like that's where you've established the life you really want. Lucky you.
Paul, sorry to hear about your father and hope and pray that he will recover from this. As person who moved away from her country of birth leaving behind aging parents, I totally understand your having to leave your adopted country to return to spend time with your father and loved ones. It is my prayer that all goes well for your return to the US and eventual return to the Philippines. I have loved your shoot-from-the-hip videos you❤️ and Baby Mae❤️ have made and will continue to follow whatever you post. Take care my friend❤️
Hey Paul, I'm sorry to hear your Dad is in rough shape. I will pray for him to recover so that you can indeed say hello when you get there. Safe travels for you and I hope you have a wonderful time visiting family. If you are going to have time for coffee with subs while in Vegas , let me know the schedule for that and I will fly out. As always God bless.
Thank you, I will
Safe travels Paul. Enjoy your family and friends. God bless your dad and we will pray for his healing. See ya soon on the vids!
Sorry to hear about your dad. The last time I went back to Canada was in 2008 when my mom was in hospital with cancer. I was lucky enough to spend a week with her before she passed. It's been a while since I have been home too and I have grandchildren too I have never met. I'm seriously thinking about going back this spring to visit family.
Take care Paul, my prayers are with you.
God bless everyone stay happy and stay safe 🙏🙏 🙏
Very touching video. I can relate to this in so many ways, living far from my parents and childhood home.
So sorry to hear this Paul. I have been following your vlog for long time and never thought you would come back to the US. The political climate is not best here these days but understand that family and personal things also need attention. However your voyage goes I wish you the best.
Sorry to hear about your dad Paul. Have a safe trip . Enjoy those grandbabies. God bless my friend
Yes, thank you
Wishing well for you and your dad Paul.
Keep Vlogging so we don’t miss you too much while you’re away.
Looking forward to your return…
Thanks so much
wow! thats a big statement!! 5 years of growth is more than 62 years of growth! This comment alone confirms my plan to get there.. 39 Australian saying no to groundhog day! Thanks Paul.
Walk well, blessings to you, your family, and your father.
Life is so much good and so much adversity, it's a full time job ! Paul, I feel like you can get though this, probably with more grace than most. I wish you all the best !
Hi Paul....deep breaths....good luck....family is an emotional rocketship....good luck with planning your trip..it will be an eye opener for you possibly information overload...take real care of yourself...I hope it adds to your Soul connecting with folks....God Bless 🙏👌....Baby Mae will be there for love and support ❤ on the end of the line....when your landed stateside....
I left Cali 32 yrs ago~I go back to visit, but 1week 2 week tops, I'm ready to leave!! Its great to see family of course, but they have their own lives, and reality does set in. Good Luck
After being away five years be prepared for culture shock just like when you got to the Philippines. You'll know how to maneuver but its a big adjustment.
Prayers and safe travels 🙏
Prayers for your safe travel and for your father.
Hi Paul, I will be praying for your dad. I just lost my dad yesterday morning and my mom is in the hospital not doing well, so please keep me in your prayers as well. Have a safe and productive trip and hug your family tight. God bless you!
Hi Paul quite an emotional video I myself am the same as you went to the pi after my late wife passed away and married a wonderful Filipino woman and of course my children found that quite hard I hope that your children did not get into those bad situation because you were not there when they needed you but as you say they are all pulling themselves back into society which is good I hope Mae will be ok till you return great video explaining your life away cheers gerry
Wishing well for your Dad. I just lost my Mom at the age 87 last September 2021. I hope you can physically visit and hug him!
An idea for future videos: interview Filipino expats in the US and compare how their experiences might mirror your own.
Everything word you said here could have come from the mouth of an OFW or emigrant - lost family connections, grandkids you don't know, children who grew up without your guidance, neighborhoods changed beyond recognition. And like you, almost none of them will say they regret taking the adventure.
It was time, time for this return trip to occur. Thanks, as always, for your honest take on life. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Paul sorry to hear about your dad, let’s pray he will rally and make a turnaround! Safe travels back to the US and when you are how liberal things have gone especially in your state, you will be running back to the Philippines!
G,Day , Paul , I,m so sorry to hear about your Father but I so dearly hope he beats this virus or at least is still fighting it so you both may be reunited once more . I have no doubt that Mae will miss you so very much but does truly understand why you have to go but knowing that you will return to her in time will bring her peace of heart and mind and both your life journeys will continue by each other's side long into the future . Take care Paul , keep safe and safe journey home , regards and best wishes .
I have three sons and my oldest is in Japan. He has two sons, one that I have never held. The oldest son I haven't seen in three years before the pandemic. Stay away from the unhealthy food in the US and stay well young man. Hopefully your father is going to be okay. I'm sorry to tell you, but the US has gone to hell. Stay positive and return to the Philippines when you are finished catching up amigo!
Stay safe in your journey. I hope that you will be able to post footage of your trip back here. Keep doing what you're doing.
Best to you both Paul. Praying for a productive trip. Be sure to document what you can as you have quite a loyal and growing audience. I have personally enjoyed your insights, attitude and honesty. In n Out's still great. Former So CA 50-year resident now near Phoenix AZ. If out here, let me know please. Wishing you a very fruitful vacation amigo. Take care.
I had to come home too back to help my mom..I have no regrets but it was an adjustment to be made...America is not the place we remember when we were growing up...alot has changed...I wish you well and hope your father recovers...I am in New Mexico...you are always welcome here...I do plan on returning to the Philippines just like you will..prayers are with you..
To me, "leaving the Philippines" implies never going back. I'm glad that near the end you clarified that you are intending to return. Any idea how long you will stay back in the US? I came back to the US in February of 2020, when the pandemic began, and I've been here ever since. I have been supporting my GF there financially the whole time. I miss Cebu and plan to go back soon, but I am torn because my kids really count on me here, especially my daughter. I had spent the better part of 12 years in the Philippines and for the most part it's been a dreamlike experience.
Yes, I cannot help but feel the title is false advertising.
Agreed, Clickbate headlnes devalue a channels creditbility in my eyes.
@@Dave_Tae Yes, it reduces the image of the channel's authenticity and trueness.
coming from a father that's been there and done that....my advice is to concentrate on your kids, you only get one chance to do things right. I went thru that experience when both of my kids were young and im now trying to make up for lost time and still have regrets about not being there like i should have in their formative years.
@@willsmith39 That's why I read the comments before deciding whether to hit "play." I didn't.
Paul you are a cherished individual. And I will be praying for you and all your family I went through the same thing with my dad 4 years ago I know exactly your feelings. I just started talking you the last couple weeks you wil lbe missed by baby mae but you will be back ...at first I thought you weren't coming back at all but I'm glad you are coming back and the yes that will be home for you. Anyway God works in strangeways he led me to you to find more things about the new area I'm going to be coming through and you are very genuine person again prayers from here in Iowa. ❤ gmm
We welcome you back Paul to US, you are a good man, have always enjoyed your sharing your outlook on life :🙂
Paul...I have been here almost 4 years...and have been watching
Since I got here...First thing...Lifting Prayers for your Father...It was a little emotional when you were talking about your sons...I have 2 daughters in USA..I understand..
Have a Safe Trip...Enjoy...
I just want to THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING...I always enjoy your videos...
THANKS BROTHER...
Hoping the best for your dad and that you do get to spend some time with him when you return here to America. Your vlogs are always an inspiration to watch and help keep me going until I am able to hopefully retire there next year. You are a good person and deserve good things in your life .
Will pray for your dad’s speedy recovery. Have a safe flight and time with your family. God Bless Paul
I hope the best for you Paul and have a great time . Oh and American has gone down hill alot. Big prayers for your Dad
Best of luck on everything. My 92 y.o. mom had covid twice and is still alive and kick'in, so will be thinking best thoughts for you Dad. Will B. May visiting here with you? Safe travels....
One benefit of living in another culture is the perspective it grants you on your own, native, culture. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on America while you're back here.
Very open my friend. Wishing you all the best back in the US spend that quality time with your kids. Good luck
Beautiful emotional end to a touching video Paul. You will do great back in your home country, and the physical distance between you and Baby Mae will be a massive pull to get you back to your lovely new home in the Philippines. Mae(y) your bond grow stronger!
Paul , Safe travels and hopefully you will find a level of contentment that will relax your mind and give you a sense of love for family .
Absolutely
Hope you have a safe trip. You will be shocked when you see the prices of gasoline, food, restaurants, etc. in the US.
Hope you will be able to see your Dad. Lost mine last year and miss him every day. He had a good run at 97. I am excited for you to see your sons, grand kids, sister and friends. I expect that this trip will provide Epic content for the Channel. Good luck, have a safe trip.
Wow! We have the same story on almost all points. I've been in Ecuador for the past 8 wonderful years and now I'm going back to the states.
So cool!
Sending prayers for your dad and children. Good luck and good health! Stay safe anywhere and all the time. God speed!
Watching your videos excited me about going back to the Philippines 🇵🇭, now that you wont be there I lost interest in going.
Welcome home to the USA 🇺🇸. The greatest nation that has ever existed in the history of humanity.
The Lord Jesus Christ provide indestructible peace and prosperity to you and your family.
hey Paul, sorry to here about your dad,,sending prayers your way and hope you have as good time back home as you have there..please keep In touch with us and keep us posted about your dad....
Thank you, I will
Hey Paul my dear friend, I'm so sorry that your father is not doing well.🥲🥲🥲. I am praying that he will recover from this horrible virus. Please be safe flying back to America. I will be thinking about you and your beautiful family brother. And I'm sure that you will make some great memories while you are in US. I know that Baby Mae will miss you so much, as I know that you will miss her so much. But, you will return back to the Philippines. And it will be a lot easier to get back into the Philippines now. Thank you Paul my dear friend for sharing this awesome video. Please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you, Baby Mae, Riza, Jennifer, and the rest of your beautiful family. And may God give you safe passage to and from the Philippines.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My Brother Darryl
I understand Paul. You're gonna see how the states have deteriorated . It's unbelievable. Not the same as years past. I'm Leaving going to phillipines to get away from the mess here. Crime, drugs. Shootings, racism, Biden administration creating alot of problems. So many protests. Inflation out of control , and bunch of lies from government. I've had enough gotta get away for some time to relax. Good luck Paul. Completely different America my friend. Take care,, stay safe. Jeff from Florida
Let's go Brandon and Cackles and Fauci and Pelosi and Mitch and Totalitarian governments and Whoopi and Trudeau and war with Russia and China.
In three or four weeks your dad will either be recovered or dead depending on how fast they treated him and his immune system. Very few people actually die from Covid.
I'm sure Baby Mae will have no trouble replacing you.
@@LR-je7nn you forgot those morons Trump and Pence that's okay you probably voted for him although no one has explain to me exactly what Trump did for anybody other than himself oh and his buddies with their big tax break they cost us money billion dollars a mile for a border wall we didn't need those people make their money here and go back home they don't stay here they can't afford it neither can we you're going to work till you die here but I digress.
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 I think you're making a mistake. I understand your father is an important person to you. But you have someone else that you need to think of now. With the pandemic still going strong and your borders just opening, It isn't a good time at all to go back to the states ALONE. Your immediate concern should be with your current family.
You take a big chance of not being able to come back if the covid surges again. Think of the situation Baby Mae would be in with the danger looming down on her, with her partner nowhere to be seen. It's a chance you owe it to her not to take.
By going back to the states when there is ANY chance of terrible things happening at ( at least what you call ) your home and to your woman, it makes it look like she's not at the top of your list. She should be the most important thing in the world to you. With the world the way it is now it's irresponsible as hell to leave her behind.
Just my take on things. Sorry if you think me out of hand.
I wish you both all the love you can find.
Oklahoma 🤠🌵🐎
So sorry to hear about your father,,, this situation has helped me personally to a direction when we head to Cebu in about 3 to 4 years.. I am gonna make the trip home each year ,,I am blessed to where I can work about 10 weeks and see the family..You have such a great channel,, hop your travels go well....
Paul, glad to see that you are finally able to go home and hopefully to see your Dad alive. I have a bit of a sad story regarding me and my Dad however that's a story to be told in person. Anyway it will be nice to get back to the states and see family and old friends. The country has changed allot since you left with most of it for the good. However there are downsides to the upsides. As you would imagine like anywhere else in the world people are mentally fatigued with the isolation from the COVID. Since the presidential election there is allot of discontentment with people now having little to no tolerance for personal discussion and have short tempers so be aware. I no longer discuss politics as lot of people are too emphatic in their beliefs. Regarding people, In some cases if you are not careful you can find yourself in an unpredictable outcome when discussing "ANTHING". Best of luck on your journey home and I hope you are safe while back in the country.
Good luck on your trip. I was hoping Baby Mae would join you, but I think I understand. She is a very strong person will be waiting for you with open arms.
Paul, I am so glad that you will finally get to see your dad. I'm sure this is going to be a pivotal moment for both of you. It is unfortunate that we must all eventually take a pause and then meet again later. Goodbyes are always difficult. It has been a great honor to have met you through your You tube videos. You have been a resource for my journey as well as a mentor in humility and acceptance. I sincerely hope you find closure and joy in your homecoming. I arrive in Cebu on March 1. I would take great pleasure in meeting you and the infamous Baby Mae someday. Godspeed and God bless. Tom
Hey Paul , Sorry to hear about your dad . Hope he gets well . Have a safe trip and I hope you enjoy yourself …
You can always go back if you don't get adapted 😃👍🏼
Sorry to hear about your father I will be praying u have safe traveling and given the chance to spend time with him .
Hello,
we don't know each other. I am a person who follows you in the shadows.
I wanted to thank you for everything you have given me.
I appreciated your generosity, your frankness and the patience you had in explaining a whole host of things that will help me when my turn comes.
I wish you good luck and lots of happiness with your loved ones.
Little suggestions: maybe a video with Baby Mae on thoughts and feelings about your departure.
I would like to personally thank Google for this translation. I am Swiss, mother tongue French. My English is funny, but not very effective.
Good luck my friend, the best is yet to come
I hope your trip goes smoothly and everything works out well with your father. 🤞🤞🤞🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Paul. As a long term expat I can and do appreciate - and understand all that you say.
You cunningly left the denouement 'till the very end in that you are not leaving for good but intend returning to the Philippines. That is where I believe your heart of hearts really is
However, why you need to get tax clearance for a temporary absence interests me; is that required?Anyway, I wish you well. 🙏
PS. Yes,. I am from the UK
your kids need you and you running around ........you need to connect w your kids and grandkids they are waiting on you....
Good idea to get any up to date medical checkups and refill on meds Paul. Also sorry to hear about your father and I wish him continued better health. By the way, I also have 3 sons and am fortunate to spend lots of continued quality time and things to do with them. Hope your trip is relaxing and you see your family soon!
So sorry to hear of your Dad's condition, Paul, my prayers go out to you and yours. Your honesty, faith and wisdom are inspiring to me. Because of the nuances folded into the words of your videos, I've always felt we shared so much of life's experiences (and we're the same age). You had me choked up at the end of this one. May God bless you and keep you safe in your travels so that you may return 'home'. 🙏
God bless you, Paul. I pray that your dad will get well soon when you get there to see him, and God bless all your loved ones. I am, on the other hand, will be going back to Manila, hopefully in 3-6 weeks from now. I am arranging all my financial loose ends here, in the Bay Area California. My sister from Vancouver, Canada is already in Manila and waiting for me. My brother from Toronto is also going home with me back to Manila. I will stay in Manila for at least 6-8 months or more, I hope to see you when you go back to Dumaguete.
hope all goes well for you and Mae. I think you'll be shocked to see the USA so politically divided (Much like in 1865). I think you'll miss the philippines quickly and recognize that your home is truly with Mae in a much more civilized Philippines.
He bought a woman for squeeze. She will hook up another sugar daddy. She's not yours it's just your turn. the ride is over.
Sorry for the difficult circumstances you are returning home to with your dad. I hope and pray he overcomes. My dad’s health has been directly affected by Covid-19 and he is trying to recover but it’s not been easy. Best wishes on your travels and all your plans. I hope everything goes as planned. I’ll see you back in the Philippines in 2023 I hope.
From what I understood you just are traveling to the USA and you'll be back, it seems from the title that you leave definitely , but what I heard at the end says that you'll be back to your simple house and girlfriend 🙂
you heard correctly
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 ufff, I'm relieved, cause I really think that after a while seeing your family you'll want to go back
@@LooksLikeAMillion Not to mention the state this country is is with this administration 🙄.
@@sharons11157 🙄 Far better than the last one at least!
@@christinebuckingham8369 Are you kidding!?Not hardly! You must have your head in the sand to not see the high prices of gas and groceries!
This guy is just an amazing human being.
Very sorry to hear about your father Paul; I wish you and your family the best; wish a safe trip and enjoy your family!
Any luck thumbing? Hope the trip goes well. I am still waiting for un-vaxed status to be allowed travel. Someday , maybe I can return to PI after 50 years.....
You'll have a very long wait.
Sorry,to hear about your Dad's situation. It's going to be Awesome that you will connect again with your children and your Dad. I will pray for pop's recovery as that would make your trip so much better if he recovers from this. Be safe Paul and God Bless.
That's the plan!
I'm very sad to hear about the reason why you're leaving and I hope all works out as for being excited on the changes of America none of them are good America is going downhill fast especially with Brandon in charge handing out 30 million dollars worth of crack pipes to the black community calling it racial inequity whatever 🤦
Hi Paul, I really hope your future is filled with inner peace and love. I’m a 62 year old Englishman who has struggled with addiction and have no contact with my family. I have bad days a lot of the time, but I have decided to live in Leyte when I retire with my girl. I really hope that both you and I can stay happy.
Bill I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Treat yourself kindly, live for a future with your lady. Above all heal and get healthy and contact your friends and family. Best wishes to you sir
When you see what Brandon has done to the country, you will get back to Mae, as fast as you can.
You can just fly into Mexico and walk across the open border.
Sorry to hear about your father and hope everything works out for the best and he recovers fully. I am sure Mae will miss you very much and I am also sure her friends will take good care of her until you return. You may be born in a certain country and move to a certain country but home is where the heart is. Stay safe on your journey
Thanks Paul and have a nice trip back home!! God's Blessings!!
Hey there Paul. I am so very sorry to hear about your dad's health. Please do keep us posted and I'm wishing your dad, you and the rest of your family all the best.