Is he gold-digging? | Talks with Tony

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  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    “A man ain’t going to be your friend longer than a year if y’all meant to be together.” TG

  • @ebonyflowers7599
    @ebonyflowers7599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    “I know a lot of women who rescuing men today.” Tony ain’t lying!

    • @msladytrue6789
      @msladytrue6789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If women stop doing what you mentioned men would step up!! I started to be in the same position trying to make a man be something that he is not. So i left. Point blank period!! I did not understand a man's character plays a big role in a relationship until tony mentioned a man's character and what it meant.

    • @yeahthatsme921
      @yeahthatsme921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's disgusting to watch

  • @shaybear9714
    @shaybear9714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I met my ex few months back. Broke up with him because I realized he was watching my pockets. One day he asked me if I made 80k or 100k as a RN. Told him what I make is none of his business. Next day we’re out and he told me I should cover the cost of something very minor($40) because I make more money smh, told him I’m not covering the cost idc how much I made. That was it for me. Just be careful ladies, they out here lurking.

  • @MarieMorgan218
    @MarieMorgan218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I recently dated a man for a few months but I wasn't really that into him. One day he said to me that I was perfect for his future because his plan is to quit his job and go into real estate and he needed a woman that could pick up the slack the months he didn't get a commission. My total gross income between my two jobs is about $75k and I work extremely hard on both of them. That statement was exactly what I needed to hear to realize he definitely wasn't the man for me.

  • @kishiamay3478
    @kishiamay3478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    These dudes don’t be looking for a relationship their looking for help. Sit back, listen and watch him reveal his true agenda.

  • @jsue6994
    @jsue6994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    My city is full of men like this. A small city with high poverty rate. Men are looking for their cash cow. Women really be thinking it’s love but he really just need somewhere to stay.

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right on

    • @clarkclarke5321
      @clarkclarke5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep...I saw a video the other day where a man was saying that he watched a video on IG where a man is teaching men how to trick women to get into their homes [ I'm paraphrasing ]

    • @irenelaetitia309
      @irenelaetitia309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@clarkclarke5321 daaaamn

    • @nonikaallen2030
      @nonikaallen2030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They're called hobo-sexuals.

    • @yeahthatsme921
      @yeahthatsme921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆😆😆😆😆

  • @BeautyWithinKakra
    @BeautyWithinKakra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Hence why I say I NEVER lead with my degrees. These boys are out here tryna come up and I’m not it!! Thanks Tony 👏🏾

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A lot of men will begin by asking "so what do u do". I always respond with Nothing. Cus in Nigeria a lot of men are struggling financially and the economy is bad. A lot are looking for a come up

  • @Machenziethemodel
    @Machenziethemodel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Homemaker is almost being redefined. You can be a stay at home mom and own a online store.

    • @asiaz248
      @asiaz248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's my goal!

  • @rubycubez1103
    @rubycubez1103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Just like many men blame us for having daddy issues, there's an abundance with guys with mommy issues. I feel like it's worse as you get older.

    • @terib5467
      @terib5467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ....and men with father issues too. Never got the validation from his dad who was in the home

  • @aleahlenard2313
    @aleahlenard2313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Sheri is so blessed, she gets to put %100 into her kids.

  • @lovettatobeyea190
    @lovettatobeyea190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    A male acquaintance of mine was working retail and met a women who was an attorney. He proposed to her in 2 months, and they married within 6 months. Cut to 5 years later, he is now making closer to $50K, and all of a sudden, “they having problems” that he can’t fully articulate. 🤨🙄And he’s filed for divorce. So y’all better LISTEN to Tony.

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Stop being builder wives ladies

    • @babyramba3338
      @babyramba3338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you for sharing this...

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🙌🏾

    • @cemplygloria6261
      @cemplygloria6261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He making close to $50k, he still BROKE for real. He need that $50k annnnd a side business. Smh.

    • @Lawyerbaejess
      @Lawyerbaejess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      His problems sound like another woman he has his eyes on.

  • @hickslovehealing5887
    @hickslovehealing5887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "Some of em' ain't gon' be gone bout yo business, but if you writing me, yeah, gon' bout yo business" 🤣🙌🏾 I'm here for it

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I have a nice house and lifestyle, and easily pay all of my bills by myself. Why would I want a man talking about paying just half of the bills?? 🤔

  • @kokoalaska9888
    @kokoalaska9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Yes ladies. As a new nurse I’m nervous to even tell men what I do for living because of the trash cans that are attracted to me. “‘I’m in customer service” I tell them. 😂👩🏾‍⚕️💋

    • @s.r.125
      @s.r.125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🤣😩

    • @VintageAfro91
      @VintageAfro91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Smart 💅🏾

    • @cemplygloria6261
      @cemplygloria6261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Exactly, "customer service representative" is my profession to everybody. It's not a lie, just not the WHOLE truth.

    • @kokoalaska9888
      @kokoalaska9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@cemplygloria6261 exactly girl.

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂

  • @dimediamond
    @dimediamond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Ladies open your 👀 eyes be aware. A man tried to play me like this and I walked away. Its pitiful for a 6 foot man to want wear the panties in the relationship. Broke. Bad credit. Prior divorce. Lives with his momma. Low income job. I told him best wishes and stay safe. 🌹

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I cut loose a 54 yr old living with his parents, complaining about child support, habitual liar, ect. Good Riddance

    • @shaybear9714
      @shaybear9714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao @ stay safe.

  • @toriyt2714
    @toriyt2714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Ladies, finessing is at a all time high.

    • @attorneymom35
      @attorneymom35 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Finessing?

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@attorneymom35 manipulation or tricking someone out of money or other valuable things.

  • @roja_xo5527
    @roja_xo5527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    He ain't lying about them degrees. I got my bachelor's and it took me time and embellishing on my resume, to sustain a honest income.

    • @chrissy1448
      @chrissy1448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      lol right... there are a lot of folks with degrees and no job.

    • @JustBeYouTy
      @JustBeYouTy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup

    • @Faith_therian960
      @Faith_therian960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Depends on the degree

    • @ThoroughbredDiva
      @ThoroughbredDiva 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay?!

    • @roja_xo5527
      @roja_xo5527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Rashaadthegr8 lol well they didn't find out and luckily I don't have to do that anymore. Thank God.

  • @Moneyandrealestate
    @Moneyandrealestate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    😂😂😂😂 That impression of them fast talking broke men trying to talk about what they can do with somebody else's money is ACCURATE! Hilarious.

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was shook. I said how Tony know my dumb ex from when I was 20 lol

    • @yeahthatsme921
      @yeahthatsme921 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😂😂😂😂

    • @texcoco41
      @texcoco41 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤣

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    See....this is so on point....every man I meet thier 1st question is " so what do you do"? They lurking ladies be ready.

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My gosh I hate that!

    • @Harlemsweetie82
      @Harlemsweetie82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s true-some men are looking for an opportunity BUT...It kinda goes both ways because some men are asking what we do to make sure WE as women are actually working and have a life because some women are gold-diggers too!

    • @shannysmith2020
      @shannysmith2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I normally say, "7 kids, living in my grandparents basement, and getting my G.E.D." Some of them were like, "so, when do you want to hang out"? Sir, 😳 😳 😳

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shannysmith2020 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭Im dead .....good 1 Shanny

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I sleep.

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I used to be triggered when I heard Tony talk about folks not wanting to work for themselves; being content with working for someone else and following the norm of society.
    My rebuttal was always, not everyone can have their own business....our society isn't set up for that.... I had to realize that my thought process was toxic conditioning.
    We all have talents and a purpose that would benefit others and it's ok to be financially rewarded for those talents/purpose.
    I had to shift my mindset. I had to release the toxic programming.
    Y'all forgive me. I comment a lot now.
    Not because I'm attention seeking but because I live alone and this channel is a huge part of my daily life and I don't feel ashamed to say that.
    Blessings tribe 💯

    • @erickagreene4041
      @erickagreene4041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too, no need to apologize, we here to learn

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Keep being positive and productive, and you're welcome to comment as much as you'd like. Keep going! Do what's best for you!

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m in the same boat. I learn from comments on here, so please continue to share.🤗

    • @jsue6994
      @jsue6994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing. This gave me some insight as well. Just started my LLC after 3 degrees and climbing the corporate ladder, I get it.

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awww that’s so good. TH-cam is my only social media I use right now. So Tony channel is heavily included in my day as well.

  • @JustBeYouTy
    @JustBeYouTy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    He is right about the military comment. Well at least in reference to black men. A lot of them are lost. And this is coming from a Army Vet.

    • @allainsasha
      @allainsasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely correct... never again

    • @travelchannel304
      @travelchannel304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What you think, or be around about a man, former Marine, now 1stRsp/PD, never married, no kids, 🤔, acting like hes not sure if its what he wants? Close to 50, white. Lol Works Alot. All his friends are married w/ kids? Interested in your impression.

    • @texcoco41
      @texcoco41 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts!

  • @jsue6994
    @jsue6994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Ladies don’t let men make you feel like a fool for setting a financial standard. Especially if you are a high earner yourself. As Tony would say, Don’t get got! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don’t let a man trick you into believing you should settle for less.

  • @lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207
    @lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    No Come-Up Zone...PERIOD!!

  • @tiarose5310
    @tiarose5310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Dropping these videos Back to Back✨
    My daughter and I are HERE for them ALL💎.
    Thank you Brother Tony💯.

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    🗣️🗣️🗣️One time for black women 💪🏿🙌🏿🤞🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Tatianarain
    @Tatianarain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    If a man has more to gain from you than you gain from him 🚩🚩🚩

  • @peacearise2157
    @peacearise2157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Oh God, I'm over here screaming laughing at Tony's impression of Thug Man from the skreets.

  • @Kathyyyyy123
    @Kathyyyyy123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    “Go on about your business” 😂😭

  • @KandeeKane85
    @KandeeKane85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    🙋🏾‍♀️ (Financial Treasurer Here)
    SSI is a dividend that can only be paid out after the age of 65. Only exception to early SSI is with a classified disability. If you have a form a retirement through last employer; you should be able to cash out depending on employer’s retirement investment pre-qualifications. I would advise leaving it there and waiting to the age of retirement to cash out and you all should be paying into your own retirement packages tailored towards self-employed individuals! Hope this helps! 🙏🏾

  • @stephaniemodkins4624
    @stephaniemodkins4624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You told the truth in this video. My older brother manages the money his wife earns. He has never had a decent job, had an apartment in his name, or filed taxes.

    • @LadyAngela678
      @LadyAngela678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She got to be bat 💩 crazy!!

    • @clarkclarke5321
      @clarkclarke5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LadyAngela678 my ex tried to do that ...he was a musician ... all I needed was one time ...after that i was always broke ..no extra money ...naaaww

    • @zh1408
      @zh1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Foolish of her !

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Healthcare and Life Sciences require lots of studying. 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️ recertifications, license, constantly evoling. "Bio" means life

  • @micheleprice9771
    @micheleprice9771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "WOMEN, " MEN ARE LOOKIN FOR A COME UP!" SO THAT THEY CAN FILL UP!" LET HIM BE ! AND " LEAVE !" TIME TO MOVE ON! THANK U TONY ! LOOKIN FORWARD TO MORE! GOD BLESS U AND YR FAMILY! AND EVERYONE IN THE WORLD! RIGHT NOW! SEASON BLESSINGS TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD! RIGHT NOW! 😊🙏💖

  • @SixFootofFitness
    @SixFootofFitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not at the house stringing guitars 😩😩😂😂

  • @fah232
    @fah232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So true, my ex husband complained all the time about me making more money than him, it was exhausting...

  • @lilpinkbubbles6592
    @lilpinkbubbles6592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so good this morning. So glad I got rid of my gold digger.
    The 🎶 do do do do do do do do do do Talks with Tony 🎶 had me cracking up.

  • @VintageAfro91
    @VintageAfro91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Yay another episode of my favorite show! And this woman needs to abort mission immediately. Why is him proposing to her contingent on her finishing her master’s degree? And he’s only saying he’ll pay the mortgage only ( and that’s questionable). RUN! she was right to cut things off! Male gold diggers are very real!

  • @katherineguest2294
    @katherineguest2294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A gold digger is a gold digger. It doesn't matter what is our income ladies. A man is out to get what they can from us. Be care and wise ladies. Beat them at their own game. You old your cards and no when to fold

  • @roja_xo5527
    @roja_xo5527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    "Cuz one thing bout me I'm from the skreets "😂😂😂 I swear to God, when I say my older brother use this line so many times. He even had the courage to use this line on me in a argument . I picked up my little binder, and left from the kitchen table. I refuse to listen to a guy, who don't know how to wash clothes and burn noodles. 😂

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I love every time you start describing how a man needs to be dripping in anointing in order for these women to believe what they're saying.
    Lol
    "You need to look over there and see Jesus" 😭😭😭
    I love these videos 🙌🏿💯

    • @keehumphrey5284
      @keehumphrey5284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I fell out❗
      He said they paid his wife '$4.50 more...
      Cuz she was light skinned' 🤣
      Laaawd Bye!

    • @NaomiRGlee
      @NaomiRGlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Be blessed

    • @reinaquisha9418
      @reinaquisha9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NaomiRGlee you too 🙏🏾

    • @reinaquisha9418
      @reinaquisha9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@keehumphrey5284 😂😂😂

  • @AidaRivera
    @AidaRivera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    THIS IS SO TRUE 🙏🏽🙏🏽
    Adele has to pay her ex husband. He was looking for a come up for sure

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Uncle Tony cousin Tony!!!!!🛑🛑🛑🛑 I want more videos on hobo sexual broke men. Hood men men who don't tske care their kids men who live off woman

    • @allainsasha
      @allainsasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That part ‼️‼️‼️

  • @vchild
    @vchild 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm present in class today! Gaining more knowledge. Happy Holidays everyone!

  • @delessadurham3823
    @delessadurham3823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi tony, i am a white woman. I do need to hear your videos. U hit a lot of subjects that i need to hear. Especially the ones about being equally yoked. And what u give of yourself better kids, family and business and men with a vision.
    Thanks so much for your videos 🙂

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Bro Tony you said if you friends with a man 10 years gone about your business. lol 🤣🤣

    • @GlendaLove
      @GlendaLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He's really not lying. I decided to date a guy I was friends with for 10 years a few years ago. Worst decision of my life.

    • @shannysmith2020
      @shannysmith2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GlendaLove BINGO. FRAUDS!!!

    • @muvaknowsbestpodcast
      @muvaknowsbestpodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @justglendalo exactly! This is because honestly he saw things in you and it wasn’t enough to tap into human nature to claim you and vice versa, I’m happy for you queen.

  • @shannysmith2020
    @shannysmith2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Some men have MAJOR insecurity issues!!!

  • @joycegoodwin5685
    @joycegoodwin5685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Economic..you don't know how to manage money because you went to school!!!" LMAO

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes like what does that even mean?? 😂😂😂 Boy sit down!

    • @joycegoodwin5685
      @joycegoodwin5685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PeaceBeStill- LMAO

  • @stubbinschantel
    @stubbinschantel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Im not sending my gone bout yo business question tony😂 ladies take heed

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tony doesn't give 100% and look at all of us can't wait to listen and learn. This is what you call an anointing.. 🙏👏🙌

  • @SixFootofFitness
    @SixFootofFitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Shaq getting all the coins!!! You here me??? Yasss🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love to hear you talk about Shari. I'm praying for God to send me a husband who lights up when he talks about me like that.

  • @zeebabi5198
    @zeebabi5198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just got used by ex boyfriend this message is so True.

  • @77massage
    @77massage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sista's don't fall for the okie dok be smart and don't fall for the false game these dudes be doing thanks brother Tony bless you.

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am Back tonight, am loving Talks with Tony, ready to receive these golden nuggets.

  • @chocodiamondjewels3403
    @chocodiamondjewels3403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One thing I can say about you is you are always TELLING IT AS IT IS whether its popular or not.

  • @magnolia2
    @magnolia2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    So that’s why Jay-Z just launched a cannabis business because he’s getting up there.👴🏿👴🏿👴🏿🤣🤣🤣

    • @VintageAfro91
      @VintageAfro91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly! He knows with that being legalized there’s money in it. 😂 smart move though.

    • @DsCompilations
      @DsCompilations 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Off topic but welcome! 🤗

    • @magnolia2
      @magnolia2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DsCompilations It’s not off topic. He literally was speaking about Beyoncé and Jay in the video and how Jay is a business man constantly evolving. Maybe rewatch the video sis.

    • @magnolia2
      @magnolia2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@VintageAfro91 VERY smart because he has the money to grow and produce top notch product. Snoop and Whoopi were one of the first to take advantage and get into the business. So I’m happy black folks are continuing to get into the business that once oppressed and incarcerated them. 👌🏽🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You do not owe a man u don't know any details about ur finances!!

  • @taurahelms3068
    @taurahelms3068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Kicking rocks with open-toe sandals lol!

  • @33watch55
    @33watch55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Tony Gaskins! He said, "Toot toot toot toot! Talk to Tony!"

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The spirit is speaking today this is 100% accurate what I been feeling with my ex

  • @jacquelinewilliams6572
    @jacquelinewilliams6572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    From the skreets! 😂😂😁😁🤣🤣

  • @joycesexton2495
    @joycesexton2495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are a wonderful young man let the lord keep using you if these sisters don't wanna listen they will learn the hard way God is first .💒💒💒💒⛪⛪⛪💝💝

  • @aneesahakil2256
    @aneesahakil2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Tony 👋 finally caught u live so ready to take notes

  • @intentionalgreatness
    @intentionalgreatness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Hitch their wagon to a woman's horsepower"👏👏👏 keyword horse..because you will get in a relationship and be the horse doing all the work. Lordt Tony you said somethin with that!

  • @crystalj1008
    @crystalj1008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Double feature today. Yayy! Thanks Tony!

  • @alicianolantillman3337
    @alicianolantillman3337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! TONY I love your transparency, and humor but it’s so real! Thanks for teaching us with such passion! Blessings to you and your beautiful wife! .......you’re sooo funny

  • @intentionalgreatness
    @intentionalgreatness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Don't flaunt your career and what you do as a selling point..then you won't attract men who want to use you for that. Trust your intuition...if you felt specifically that he was looking for a come up..then he was.

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Don't talk about ur education money business abd live minimal or they known

  • @patwilson1257
    @patwilson1257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re 100 Tony. We need the substance, not the “fluff”😊

  • @92Tweetylove
    @92Tweetylove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God bless you Tony Gaskins 🙏❤

  • @roomforgrowth9602
    @roomforgrowth9602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lord, I done spit my drink out at the “Talks with Tonyyyy” intro 😂

  • @visualdramadesigncompany4031
    @visualdramadesigncompany4031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Maaaaan, true story:
    There was a young woman in our town, who was a psychologist. She married a dude “fresh out”.
    He killed her. Court records revealed a history of abuse.
    I hope these ladies listen to you.

  • @AllEyezOnMeTMC
    @AllEyezOnMeTMC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You and your wife are so blessed to have each other.

  • @EthersMysticalChildTarot8014
    @EthersMysticalChildTarot8014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    😭😭😭😭😭 your impersonation of h👀d dudes are priceless 👏😩 if he has balls between his legs he aught to work hard Periodt

  • @kokoluv21
    @kokoluv21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hello Tony and The Blessed Tribe 🙌🏽

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony, you are the total package brother. I truly appreciate how you share true wisdom and keep it real and are funny.

  • @Maxxine40
    @Maxxine40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Too many educated women out here dealing with GED level thinking men. You cannot allow yourself to be managed on this level. Be content.

    • @yeahthatsme921
      @yeahthatsme921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆😆😆😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She messed up by telling all him all her business.

  • @mzbattle1210
    @mzbattle1210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww, You guys have a BEAUTIFUL HOME🥰

  • @amirahstarkey1922
    @amirahstarkey1922 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love and appreciate your videos Mr. Gaskins. You’re unintentionally funny! 😆
    May God continue to bless you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @NISHXO
    @NISHXO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “U ain’t on my level till u get that phd” 😂😂😂

  • @daniellem578
    @daniellem578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Like Sage the Gemini & Supa Cent’s relationship? Very much a reg flag.

  • @Wisesthustler
    @Wisesthustler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂😂 Scrugglin!!! I’m hollering!

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hes willing pay mortgage lol

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Lilly Gutierrez How generous of him to offer. LOL 😆

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Cuz see, I’m from the skreets” bwaaah ha ha ha.

  • @RaquelRN08
    @RaquelRN08 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the message Tony

  • @mzbattle1210
    @mzbattle1210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Tony for a well needed message

  • @lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207
    @lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! Be Bless...

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You know Tony I didn't want to be shallow, but I realize now this isn't something I can bend on. All of my relationships since high school I have made more than the man I was with. And the result has been the same. It's time to raise that standard & stick to it so that I can attract my husband. Because it's not an issue for me, but it clearly is an issue for the man.

  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First and foremost, no man is coming to live with me. He has to marry me and move me to live with him or stay where he is and I stay where I am. If he dont make same money I make or more, he is not meant for me. God made Eve after Adam was given dominion over everything and not vice versa.

  • @danielam8298
    @danielam8298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Uncle Tony is so right, military relationships can be quite hard 💯It takes people to know their path and gifts to have purpose in life, plus deployment could a affect communication too. Not impossible, just a bit harder.

  • @KimG777
    @KimG777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks, Tony, we women don’t take advantage of our strengths. Women, recognize your worth! 😍

  • @charlottekaysworld1498
    @charlottekaysworld1498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Checking in 📝

  • @isaiah483
    @isaiah483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tony Tony iam screaming in my vehicle 🤣🤣 stringing guitar 40on the road

  • @chocodiamondjewels3403
    @chocodiamondjewels3403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I know of some professional women who SETTLE with low poviding men who are living off them and treating them poorly. These men have really pulled the hood over these senses!!

  • @mistybennett5040
    @mistybennett5040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I left my husband because he's so cold to me n lying about money. We don't even hardly have sex he's constantly accusing me off cheating and were together every day. He pushed me till I left now he's putting me down n telling everyone I've cheated. He wants a divorce but I've never cheated. I feel like he just married me to use me and for revenge. He constantly says mean n hurtful things. But he's threatening people he thinks I'm cheating with. I just need a second opinion I know I don't need to go back

  • @user-pf3xx4uv6d
    @user-pf3xx4uv6d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Teach it Tony so we can understand. You are always on point.

  • @lovettatobeyea190
    @lovettatobeyea190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whew Lawrd the ACCURACY! 🙌🏾❤️🔥

  • @Mirror_My_Ambition
    @Mirror_My_Ambition 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't get what Tony's saying confused, with the man "TALKING" about his passion and big dreams but has no direction, plan and his ACTIONS don't ALIGN with his words. All should match: passion, dreams, direction, plans and ACTION!

  • @ulricka2131
    @ulricka2131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    100% Tony!!! The content is what really matters the most i think.

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Mrs. Steph Curry is also Executive Producer on some cooking shows, as well as home decor shows,
    Cllothing line..so one day she may out earn her NBA player husband.