The Male Feminist ft. Sanya Malhotra with Siddhaarth Aalambayan || Ep 32
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 พ.ค. 2023
- Sanya Malhotra shares her experience of how she was followed in the Delhi Metro and how scary the incident was for her. She also touches on the importance of playing a female cop in Kathal.
She also talks about female sexual pleasure and its importance. Sanya Malhotra in conversation with Siddharth Aalambayan for the 32nd episode of 'The Male Feminist'.
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#sanyamalhotra #kathal #hauterrfly
00:13-2:28 Incidents in Delhi Metro
2:29-5:00 Incidents after becoming an Actor
5:01-5:42 Restrictions due to society norms
5:43-6:29 Body shaming during Sanya’s early stage of career
6:30-8:53 Period and embracing the change
8:54-10:03 Relationships and heartbreaks
10:04-11:33 Sex and Pleasure
11:34-12:07 Consent
12:09-13:25 - Playing the female cop in Kathal
13:26-14:43 Learning from different kind of women
14:44-15:45 Unhealthy relationships and her character in Pagglait
15:46-16:28 Financial Independence and investments
16:29-16:55 Message to your 16 year old self
16:56-17:58 What should men stop telling women
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I wish your male audience increases! All the women are already watching but the most important ones need to watch it without fail ! Men can learn alot about a woman from every episode of this talk show.
That's our goal too! You can share the episodes with the men in your life and start a chain :)
@@hauterrfly Yup everyone women watching this show should start doing this.
Mens are watching it 👍
Will share with others as well.
Am watching it with such a sense of shame. Is not the world I grew up in
Lol
I can so relate to this being from Delhi .. it’s a trauma environment for young girls being brought up there
Oh,, Sanya,, I just love her energy! She's always so positive, cheerful and happy.
Absolutely!
Just a suggestion: please call some male celebrity too who is a feminist and talk to them about all this. So that men out there understand that it’s a guy who has to think like this. Also, we will get a lot of different perspectives from their end. Moreover, we can also understand how to educate men. Only then the society can change.
Exactly
Siddhaarth Aalambayan You have my heart! The love, respect you have for all, as a host, friend ! Men should definitely be like you!
Every time I see her interviews I feel more and more respect for this lady. For being so genuine, real and authentic. Specially she’s being able to keep that intact being in the industry.
Eve teasing trauma is real.
Lovely episode❤
I can completely relate to her , I have gone through a lot like this , and it’s very scary , unfortunately almost all women go through this 😢
I feel so safe just watching this show. It means so much to see such conversations happening. It is just so heartwarming to see the work you are putting into your conversations, Siddharth! Kudos and love love love this series of interviews.
Hi Siddharth! I religiously follow your shows, both Male Feminist and The Bombay Journey and I absolutely love them both. Just wanted to let you know that you are doing an awesome job! Please don't stop these series. There are very less good interview contents available in Indian internet space right now although there are thousands of channels spread across, mostly having the same superficial talks. Your shows and Unfiltered by Samdish are the ones which actually are trying to bring out the real conversations without the same set line of questions.
I resonate so much with Sanya's experience of having no one saying anything even if they see something terribly wrong in broad daylight. I faced it myself while traveling by a local train when someone was constantly trying to grope me and people around me could see the visible discomfort in my face and still chose to turn a blind eye. It wasn't until I slapped that man and shouted that everyone's chauvinism suddenly came alive and they started abusing that man. Why so late? Why so timid? Why so apathetic?
As a woman, all I can say is we would just need a space of mutual respect and co-existence from the gender counterpart. Both the parts together make this society and the world at large. Let's not make each others lives difficult for no reason.
Have lived in Dubai last 19 years, the respect for another human being is such a "basic right". Such a pity that girls in our country go thru such difficult experiences.
Seriously, how do Delhi guys feel so proud of their city when their female counterparts continue to have such disturbing stories to share?
It's terrifying!
Her experience with the fan reminded me of Sushmita Sen’s experience with a young fan in similar circumstance… she had called him out beautifully
Love this conversation and both of you. You guys are so real and natural. These experiences Sanya talking about is something we all go through. I literally shaked when she tried to explain the incidents on the road and public transport. It's so painful even to recall them, but we go through that almost everyday in our lives. It's so inhuman. These things have become like "normal" in people's perception, which is disgusting! It's not our fault, we don't do anything wrong by taking a bus or driving on the road. It's just the uncivilized communities we should be ashamed of! 😢 Thank you for talking about these. Kudos to both of you ❤️
It's sad to hear that majority of the women relate to the incidents she mentioned. Hoping for a change, one day maybe :( Till then, let's keep having these conversations and call out these acts.
What a lovely answer to the last question!! Sanya, so much respect and love to you❤
So glad you loved this episode!
Another great episode 🥺, This conversation is so emotional.
Thank you so much! Which was your favorite part of the episode?
Thank you Hautterfly for such shows. Amazing stories of women that will bolster strength to other fellow women.
Thank you Sanya Malhotra for sharing your story. So true ! Women need to be listened especially when in distress or while discussing whether with family, friends, or society at large. :)
Listening to this interview was therapeutic ❤
Women are gifted with 'intuition'. 🎉🙏👏🇮🇳. You're bold and strong.
Yes.
Oftenly people says that why u didn't oppose or hit the other during Eve teasing. But during that situation it just get difficult to oppose appropriately. You just get freezed n sometimes your mind get shut down due to fear 😢😢
And it's dangerous too. Sometimes, reacting to them makes the situation worse and more dangerous! 😓
Totally agreed!
She is gorgeous. She's also great at playing romantic characters.
And talented not just gorgeous.
sanya ji ap delhi se hai isliye down to earth hai other state ke log to hindi se naftrat hi karte hai ap hai itna educated hoke bhi kitna polite hai aur apni national language ko follow kar rhe hai..ap mere life time favourite rheinge keep it up god bless you Sanya ji
That's why I respect her .....just wanna be like you miss an artist an entertainer an actor and most important a good human .......because yiu saying it after got so much success...... thanks for this vudeo guys
Sania and Sidharth hugs from my side to both of you. About talking out to friends, opening up. I want to say something when I was discussing some things with a friend Suddenly, she started judging me. And she did not Continue the friendship
Yeah.. PMS is a major thing!! I too have major PMS issues and i now totally understand and i feel we should have conversations around PMS and periods.
True that, the world lacks period education and it's a growing concern.
Loved this interview
Great episode, need more such conversation 😁😁😁
Glad you liked it! Watch other episodes of The Male Feminist to listen to eye-opening conversations :)
So real and endearing
I loved her in Dangal but I absolutely loved her acting in Pagliat.
It is sooo true that every girl has experienced eve teasing..
Nice conversation I like Sanya too much In kathal she performs nice
Thank you! Which was your favorite part of the episode?
All such men who gets pleasure out of troubling women- I believe it all begins at home. The women in their households are not respected. Children in such households especially boys will eventually learn similar disgusting behaviours and thought processes. Their minds will be as Misogynistic as their mothers and women around them were treated. Sabb ghar aur parvarish sey aata hai atleast 70%
PMS is horrible, I have pre stress as well post depression..sometimes it's also during the periods.. pain is horrible..and sometimes when I am fortunate there would be no depression or stress..but pain is the constant..
About Eve teasing - so very well said - no single woman out there who has not been eve teased, eve teasing to bhot choti baat hoagayi, molested or touched inappropriately ahi I think 100% hoga..in my own home - there are four females and everybody while travelling through Mumbai locals face this on a regular basis - I am talking you're lucky if someone didn't try to ruin your day - but that's hardly the case. It is great to have celebrities talk about such things because it gives us confidence to fight - we are not alone in this.
I am sure there are great men/boys around us - please help us out in need - don't be bystanders, we may not be able to voice it enough - but try and be there for us at least in public spaces.. private space ki to kya hi baat Kare..that's another fight altogether..
I like movies of Sanya like "paglat"..they are really practical, not potraying false standard of women emotions ....like unnecessary crying n getting emotional all the time, unwanted sacrifice....coz of these false emotional films ...in reality people think ....if I m not emotional as melodrama character then I am villain ....so ...nice video 👍
Yes - I have been touched inappropriately in a lift by a male salesperson, groped by a work colleague, been told by an ex-partner to not sit like a man, been told that I look like a man, and not asked for my consent before sex. So, well done for this show and the very important issues being covered and the courage of the women and the host.
I just love her❤
Man..... I am a fan of Sanya ......
God bless you sanya didi ❤️
Great episode 👍🏻,too excited fo Priyanka chahar chodhary's interview
Coming soon, stay tuned!
One common theme in all stories is NOBODY around the girl will help!
It's so true! You get freeze at that moment and you don't know what to do! It's very easy to say ye karna chahiye tha, vo karna chahiye tha! But no, the one who suffers in this situation only know that apka mind hi freeze hojata h
Omg!! I got asmission to DU and my parents were sceptical to send me to Delhi because they thought it is not safe and i fought with them ki aisa kuch nahi hota.. but finally o had to cancel my admission because my mother was scared to send me. .now listening to her, i realise my parents were right !!!
They aren't completely wrong to be concerned for your safety :)
No they were not completely wrong, but they were not completely right as well. If women will stop going out because of these shit guys, then you make them win or kind of appreciate them for doing so!! You need to go out there, make friends and be careful for your safety.
@@nirupamasharma4389 no no..
I got admission to a college in Pune.. and they happily sent me to Pune. Also i went all alone to pune, searched for a Pg all by myself!
Very happy I am born and brought up in Mumbai where women are free to roam around even at midnight.
I remember a random guy hold my hand once i stepped outside the metro and forced me to share my name and number with him. I went into flight mode and couldn’t understand, I was new in Delhi and it changed the way I saw Delhi before he did this. I jerked his hand away and ran as fast as I could. I was just 17
I need English translation (subtitles) but it’s okay when she spoke English some sections in the show. A big fan of her from Thailand. 🥰
Loveeeeee Sanya Malhotra
ha bilkul hua h or hm class 6th ya 7th me the .
I have been watching this show just to see if even a single male turns up in the comments to admit they have eve teased somebody and be sorry and ashamed about it
Sanya ❤💚❤
I just hope people specially when someone is sharing a unpleasant incident just for the sake.of sharing or creating awareness... ladies stop saying a. May be u dressed or behaved provocatively hence this happened b. Had they been in same place, they would have been braver and smarter and handled this better...
Wow episode ❤❤
I just want to ask the whole world of man ..who like to tease woman.. why ? Does it give you pleasure? Just put yourself into that shoe.. you will realize how it affects. Be gentleman
Same question we want to ask men!
Every women would have been through eve teasing, getting wrongly touched that too in public places. Especially in high school and teenage days. These eveteasers think the girl will get scared and will not raise voice and it happens the same way. When I was going to early morning tutions or coming back from school in day light i have had experience of men touching my private parts, that too while i was cycling and they were walking. This is just one of many incidents. Many times it has happened in buses, trains, on a busy road. You will get shock of your life and you wouldn't be able to even react. Takes many days and months and years to come out of it. You start feeling disgusting about yourself without any fault of yours. It haunts me even now though I'm 40. Now I'm a mother of 2 girls and always worry about their safety😢
Why do Indian citizens keep quiet. If 15 people fight against 5 men, what can they do. Comm’on tell kids to learn from the start in schoools to fight if they see anything wrong.
I don't know how people are obsessed with flesh and skin. what else body is?
So sorry saniya and every girl facing this.
It happened with me first time when I was in 6th standard. A classmate touched me on my waist. I did report him, he got slapped. After that he left me alone, but he did assault this one girl later on.
The first time I was flashed I was... in 3rd or 4th standard.
Once when I was sleeping I did get touched by my uncle when I was in 6th standard on my chest.
Looking and catcalling is so normal that I have stopped telling myself 'Be prepared.' Because my body is automatically prepared whenever I go out.
I cant hit back because the guy may get angry and next time I go out of the house, he might stalk me and ....do what not.
Angry men are VERY dangerous, slapping them in public place is ... a slap to their ego.
What if the guy turns out to be some rich dude who gets me kidnapped or something? It has happned before with a girl that used to live in my neighbourhood.
Maybe I am overthinking , but protecting myself is better than getting assaulted.
Last time a man touched me without my consent was a year ago... I was 22 and he was my chemistry teacher. It took me a hell of a lot courage to tell my mom because...she's very conservative and strict.
But when I told her, she didnt fire him, she just told me to sit a little distance away from him. 😐
These things are MOOOOREEE common than you think.
Extremely sorry to hear this happened with you :( More power to you for sharing this!
I was 18 i was with my father and brother and I was abused in Mumbai local .
Its really hard to hear all these stories. Hopefully things will get better.
@hautterfly pls take this series interview of Tejasswi prakash also. that would be fire, she is raw waith her answers
I really want, you bring some Men to the show as well & let’s talk to them, when & how did they know about periods, how important it is for them to satisfy their woman partner in bed, safety issues & this whole feminism concept.
There is education, awareness, but gross misuse as well.
I feel both the genders are being fucked upp, especially who are genuine.
A great concept, bdw, keep it up. 👍
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Please do 1 interview with Tejasswi Prakash
Coming soon Rashmika! Stay tuned 😃
@@hauterrfly okay 🙏🏻
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For some reason i am deeming this comment section safe enough to trauma dump. But i sooo relate to her when she says ki "us time panic mode aa jata hai bass",
My incident was with a tutor who touched me inappropriately and i remember being so confused about it. He touched my inner thighs and other parts and I still feel disgusted by just thinking about it. I later got to know he has been doing that to many other girls.
I mean one day while he was taking a test he sat all at a distance and then started watching porn on mute on his phone. A friend of mine who he had been sitting very close to, saw it and got very flustered. She quickly left the test and literally begged me to do the same.
Creepy men are all around us 😢😢😢
Subtitles please
She is so cute and that horrible fan movement😢
Males comment kyu nahi kar rahe ??
Priyanka chahar choudhary ka IV Kab aai ga
There is no thing as male feminist the term in Simp. 😂
My mom's real brother had molest me by touching my private parts while I am sleeping in night.. it was an nightmare for me till today that even after getting married I am unable to get physical with my husband. Also I was too young at that time. That I was totally don't know how react to such problems and speak about it with your family.. my marriage is on stake because of that 1 incident and my family whose support I needed the most now.. are against me and keep on blaming.. forget about a sympathy they are not even sit besides me to listen my part of conversations.. what was my fault I toh not even went out of house to get molest my stranger.. 😢. Whenever I slept besides my husband I was afraid that he will rape coz he has all the rights to do that..
You are very strong to even write about this. I think if you know if your husband is an understanding guy, just have this conversation with him. Even if you want to mention about that relative.
@@TheAnchalnigam thank you dear but my husband will not understand
Delhi is most unsafe
Delhi ☕️☕️☕️
Please upload Priyanka Chahar Choudhary interview today
When is interview with Priyanka chahar coming?
As a man and Brahamachri According to me girls should be taught self defense and also They should keep a pistol with them "Unko chahiye Ki jab bhi koi unko car ko Follow kare bas pistol nikal ke car ke Bahar Hawa mein goli chala do tab inki Hawa tight ho jayegi. " Also Brahamacharya education should also be taught to everyone then only this can stop. 😊😊😊
This is a very wrong argument. Which woman is a Brahmachari?Every woman gets married here in India. But that doesn't mean they go around groping men. It's the basic right to live with dignity. Nothing to do with Brahmacharya. Your argument is just that you can only respect a fellow human if you are asexual. This is why sex Ed is important.
Not all men are same, but it's always a man
Yar jeans pehni thi and full hoodie aur wo raste me traffic cross kar rahi thi aur wo bechte hain na chota mota samaan chaurahe pe wo aaya and he pinched my boobs. So disgusting.
Sanya i wish you would have slapped that Selfie man in front of all photographers and reporters and in a press conference you would have announced his name and ensure he is behind bars
Few years back Sushmita sen did when she had gone through such incident
Aur sabke samne Uska moohan Tod deti
Hhhmmmm 👍 sahi pakde hai dhullo Rani padhodi bhammo ddddhhhuurrrr mikran padi pakki baat ddddhhhuurrrr 👍 tikane Dena darling xxx ✅
Kamao Mumbai mai invest Karo Gurgaon mai😂
Only a True Muslim will be perfect because being a muslim men you are not even allowed to look at a women twice once is forgiven but the 2nd time it's a sin.
Subtitles please