Ratna Pathak Shah On Her Relationship With Naseeruddin Shah | The Male Feminist
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- Ratna Pathak Shah talks about her relationship with Naseeruddin Shah and how she used to bully Supriya Pathak during childhood. She shares how her upbringing defied societal norms, thanks to her progressive parents, who never discriminated between Supriya and her and encouraged both sisters to learn to drive. She recalls her grandmother's reaction to the birth of two granddaughters.
Ratna Pathak Shah with Siddharth Aalambayan for the 75th episode of 'The Male Feminist'
Location courtesy: Mitron Bandra
1:20 - Was Mumbai safe?
1:48 - Eve teasing incidents
2:12 - Delhi is unsafe for women
2:50 - Family being against girl child
3:15 - Influence of their mother
3:30 - Ratna Pathak’s father was a liberal man
4:00 - No gender discrimination at home
5:08 - Motivation from home
5:35 - Ratna Pathak’s father was unhappy with marriage
6:00 - Ratna Pathak’s mom being Naseeruddin’s Bestfriend
6:10 - In laws never asked to ‘Convert’
6:28 - Supportive in-laws
6:55 - Hacks for a successful marriage
7:35 - Naseeruddin coming from a traditional background
7:56 - Ratna Pathak on not having gender roles after marriage
8:08 - No labels in relationships
8:20 - Ratna Pathak and Naseeruddin Shah as parents
8:35 - Ratna Pathak on kids growing up backstage
9:18 - Being a mother of 2 boys
9:46 - Imparting period and sex education to boys
10:00 - Parsis are not cool about menstruation
10:20 - Getting sex education from books & gossip
11:10 - Didn’t want to know sons’ love life!
12:08 - Having Supriya Pathak as a sister
12:25 - Ratna being an emotional bully to Supriya
12:50 - Comparison between Ratna & Supriya on sets
14:00 - Breaking stereotypes
15:25 - Portrayal of women in films was very limited
16:30 - Sexualization of women in movies
17:05 - Lipstick Under My Burkha
18:35 - It’s not easy for men to stand up
19:15 - Kaamwali Bais are an inspiration
20:50 - Old fashioned ideas of men and women
21:25 - “Main Mard Hoon” dialogue in Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
22:50 - Pay disparity during Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
23:50 - Consenting adults having sex is not wrong
25:10 - Idea of a modern woman today
25:30 - Feminism
26:10 - Changes during menopause
27:54 - Red flags
28:42 - Green flags
29:00 - Message to your 16-year-old self
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She’s a delight to watch every time she’s on an interview! Wisdom, dignity and strong persona do come very rare these days and she’s one of them for sure.
She is full of grace and wisdom. We loved having her on our show!
Totally agree.
100% . Cant agree more !
Absolutely smart, confident witty and dignified 💖💖
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Just LOVED Her!!!! Absolutely Loved Her!… ❤️🔥
You are one interviewer who stands different, matured and knows what to ask the opposite person based on their life experiences and make them open up. Thanks for such conversations which brings awareness.
She, her husband and Javed Sahab are one of the few people I can listen to endlessly. So much Love and Respect for. ❤
I completely agree! Ratna, her husband, and Javed Sahab have such depth and wisdom in their words. It’s always a treat to listen to them. Sending love and respect right back! ❤
I love listening to Ratna Pathak Shah...Sarabhai vs Sarabhai was so much fun to watch...
Everyone loves her bindaas attitude towards life and people's ideology in our society BOLD with brains
Why label relationships..actually this is what spirituality teaches us, and believe me once we put it into our daily life being life's great!
Thank you hautterfly for bringing her and the candid show is just amazing 😊
We are glad you loved the episode! You might want to check out our other interviews here: th-cam.com/video/KkJ6MZ1YUno/w-d-xo.html
Wonderful conversation...she's always a delight to listen to ...so uninhibited
Agreed!
Love listening to her! Everything she says is absolutely true. We need to see her in some good roles on the OTT platform.
I just adore her.. She is not just a very good actress but an awesome and sensitive human too. Her interviews are way too good. ❤
Loved the interview!!! She is amazing and always a delight to listen to. Also must mention with appreciation is the end where he just asks and then goes to hug and does not take liberty to move forward and hug. That says a lot! 😊
So glad you loved the interview! She really is a joy to listen to, always full of wisdom and grace. And you’re absolutely right about the respectful gesture at the end-it's all about consent! 😊
Amazing woman, amazing interview!!🎉🥳
Ratna Ji is in excellent epitome of the modern thinking woman!!👏🏻👏🏻
I totally can relate to her…👍🏻
Love from London ❤️
Ratna ji is absolute love and delight to watch .... loved the entire interview
So true! Ratna ji is always such a pleasure to watch, and her wisdom shines through in every moment. Glad you enjoyed the interview! 😊
Always look forward to her interviews
Was waiting to see Ratna Mam on the show. ♥️🤌🏻
Thanks Siddhaarth for bringing her. ✨🌻
We really had a wonderful time interviewing her. So much to learn from her!
@@hauterrfly IKR❤
I love this lady ...oh ..god.. where has this breed of artists gone...
Very nice interview 👌👌
Great Conversation 👍👍
I have never ever enjoyed an interview as much as this one. Ratnaji's frankness is refreshing. What I really liked is that the interviewer openly talks about the patriarchal issues. Keep it up. It would be great to see what you would make LGBTQI+ issues through your interviews.
So glad to hear you enjoyed the interview! Ratnaji’s honesty really brought a fresh perspective. Addressing patriarchal issues openly is important, and we appreciate your support. Covering LGBTQI+ topics is a great idea, and we’d love to explore that in future interviews!
The moment she said just the groping and touching she lost the charm. Kudos to the interviewer for pointing that up. Keep up Mr Siddharth
I so relate to her views about songs like " Aap ki nazron ne samjha pyar ke kaabil mujhe". God so damn regressive. Why should I be considered kaabil by some damn male?? Or " Sajna hai mujhe sajna ke liye“ or " Charnon mei jo na jagah paoon ". I hate these patriarchal songs. When will men learn?????
"Tumhi mere Mandir, Tumhi meri pooja ,Tumhi Devta ho"
is also Supermysoginistic song .
There are so many songs that male sings for the female lead 'rakhdia kadmo me dil nazrana kabool karlo, Tujjhme rab dikhata he sajde ser jhukta he, and many more if u judge in a certain way..
Shes wonderful to listen to....well articulated wisdom.
Kudos to the interviewer - you allow your guest to speak and ask just the right questions at the right time.
As usual an awesome look at our history.
Looking forward to your next episode !
Glad you loved the content! Which is your favorite episode from The Male Feminist episodes?
Really like the way she gave all the answers and clarify so many things that relationships are looking for
I only love to watch her and Naseer sir’s interview in Bollywood. It’s a treat always!
DAMN! Great Interview!! She has such amazing perspective on things!! LOVED IT
Is it only me or does the video feels really rushed? There are no pauses in the video to give a thought or feel anything.
Same...bhot fast h
This is the first time I didn't find the need to forward a video. Loved it!
Glad you liked it! Which was your favorite part of the conversation?
What a great conversation. We both think alike in many ways. She reminded me of myself.
👏 Thank for this interview
Very nice interview. I like her boldness and she is a superb actress. Very well spoken.
It is always a pleasure to listen miss Ratna Pathak ❤
God, I love this woman 🔥❤️
And great interview as always, Siddharth!
Love hearing her interviews. If i had an aunt like her, I would have been more free spirited...
Wonderful…I love watching her talk which makes sense❤
I love Ratna pathak as a person. ❤
Superb Siddharth Greta job 🎉
She is wonderful!
Maza aaya ye interview dekh ke . Bht kuch sikhne ko mila . Kafi interesting laga .
Amazing interview!
So glad you loved it! Which is your favorite episode from The Male Feminist series?
She always reminds me of and has a huge resemblance with my friend Divya. I absolutely love this lady.❤
Ratna is so relatable to me. My paradigm towards life, self reliance, and societal norms are exactly same .top of all being a mother of two grown up boys, my parentel beliefs are ditto,.absolutely hated the song (apke Nazron ne samjha🙄) can't appreciate the lyrics and mindset of patriarchy. Love and respect from Pakistan ❤🇵🇰🇵🇰
It’s amazing how relatable Ratna’s views can be! Her thoughts on life, self-reliance, and breaking societal norms really resonate with many. As a mother of two, it’s great to hear that her parental beliefs align with yours! Sending love and respect back to you from India! ❤🇮🇳
Both the guest and the interviewer were amazing.kudos 👏
Always love to watch her nd listen her❤❤boss lady❤
First thing as per Islam, if somebody has to marry muslim man or woman then he or she has to convert first otherwise that nikaah will not called jaayaz ,second if Ratna is not converted but her children name are muslim and follow islam faith, So naak idhar se pakdo ya udhar se pakdo
After a very long time I have watched a celebrity interview without skipping 😊
Glad you enjoyed the interview! 😊
Very good interview
Love her ideas and thoughts !
Beautifully honest!
She's so right about delhi and mumbai crime scene
Very nice episode
Very nice interview.
In laws never asked her to convert, but next generation...???
They might never told Ratna Ji to convert but the children from her automatically born Muslims
Waste of Punjabi Brahmin genes
Because society is patriarchal. If you'll marry a Christian/Muslim/Parsi/Buddhist girl, your children will be born Hindus irrespective of the religion of your wife!
I just luv ratna mam...so spontaneous n intelligent 😊
She is!
She is!
Why camera change so much it's distracting
She’s so honest and so correct
Yes, absolutely, which was your favorite part of the conversation?
@@hauterrfly the whole conversation actually
ok my dad didnt take dowry from my mom that obviously means there is no dowry in rest of India
For those of us who do not understand your language can you have the cc in English love the video
Will surely implement the feedback!
So much of camera shifting. Really distracting.
Its irritating ..
Its so annoying
Why she gives her opinion on serious stuff , why can’t she stays in her zone & do her stuff
These pseudo intellectual overtly glorified with weird world view are nuisance
If India is a democracy then every citizen has the right to give their opinion on subjects that interests them, serious or otherwise,
Just like you did with your comment. You may agree or disagree with her opinions.
Peace to all
That's why I call her psedusecular
She is an inspiration and a true spirit of feminism
Meanwhile Monisha , Mummuji wahan gae he they toh free ki coffee pi aate ! 😂
Meanwhile mummy ji, Don't be so middle-class Monisha! 😂
Really important topic.
Wow it was worth watching ..superb loved it
We are glad you loved it. What was your favourite part of the interview?
Can you please put English subtitle.
We will surely try to!
Wonderful conversation
So inspiring❤
Too good too good!
Always a pleasure listening to her❤❤
Agreed!
She is just too good. Point about Mills and Boon is so to the point
They would never ask u to convert if u were a dependent on them
You were not asked to convert ……. You must know you are an exception and not the rule.
For that all things she said it mean she have no fear or self secured ❤her
Heeba is her step daughter right..The same girl who was found hitting veterinary doctors and helpers at a vet clinic for not attending her pet first just cause she's Naseer's daughter.
No
No 😂
Yes, she is the one. Heeba Shah daughter of Nasaruddin Shah. She fought with vet’s for not taking care of her dog.
She is so amazing ❤
She's like it ain't happened to me so it's not happening around the world.
You mean it happens with her 😅
She is always a charm 😘😍
Absolutely!
I loved her in Sarabhai vs. Sarabhai. 😍
I just watch my childhood serial tara and her role was shocking
Ratnajee never fails.
True that!
punjabi grandmother married gujju pathak so love marriage so why no to girls . i am from matriarchy nairs in kerala we celebrate girl child at least in oldtimes. now ig is changing.
Not gujju pathak is Brahmin up bihar😊
Maybe because the first married someone of totally different ideology sort of man and the second daughter married a second hand husband , already married with children.
As she said her mother and her husband had a Rocky relationship.
So, parents are usually tensed for their children.
She is the same woman who criticized karwa chauth,the brainwash is evident.
@@praagyaanandjha8691 Her mother was Gujarati (Dina Pathak) also a film actress, married to Pathak, someone from North.
Thrir stories ard stories.
@@praagyaanandjha8691Pathak is a Punjabi Brahmin surname.
She is so intelligent
Yes she won a noble prize for her intellgance
Loved the interview but the best part was Sid asking her if she was a hugger. That’s a green flag right there. ❤
Why is the video soo short? Seems like it is edited to much
So with that statement , does Ratnaji accept that it was a norm for muslims to force conversation on their DIL ?
She demonizes hindu rituals. Why doesn't she say the same stuff for the concept of conversion for marriage, burqa, hijab, halala, naming kids only islamic names etc.
Because she is Hindu, and knows, how the Old age Superstitious customs are blindly followed , she can voice about her Religion...
If someone asks you about your self....will you talk about your neighbour 😅
Hasen't she lived in a muslim household after being married to naseer
Just don't have the guts to speek the truth about muslims
Absolutely love her thoughts
Sameeee!
great
Not even a single incident of groping for me is normal, not a single touch
But casting couch is integral part of bolliwood
I like love her views... Sadly I dont know any women like her..
I liked the interaction.💌
Please someday have Anushka Sharma, PC,Katrina kaif all of them
We are manifesting! Which is your favorite episode from The Male Feminist episodes?
they never asked you to convert because you were second or third wife.naseeruddins' first wife never moved out of in-laws' house. are you not ashamed that you broke other women's home?
Always favourite ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Does it even matter whether she convert or not! Her son's daughter are Muslim ultimately
What a treat to hear her. Also, i guess i have to wait till I'm 60+ for her apology😂❤
I just fkn love her. Love love love lovee her.
Us girl us!
I find her very animated when she speaks….reminds me of Frances mcdormand
Please Thoda slow, bahot fast tha ye
Our evergreen MAYA SARABHAI❤
Yesss!
You are naturally converted as you make fun of the culture and faith of a particular community that I feel personally. Nassir firy words. All could sense it.
She is very nice👍👏😊
Very!
This aunty, who is so liberal, open minded and has criticised Indian women for observing Fast for Karwachauth, i have some questions since she never converted , are her children hindus since she herself is , and can she confirm that her sons were not circumcised as it is regressive and meidival tradition as she does not believe in traditions