How is it being married in Vietnam to a Saigonese Wife after 2 years?

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  • @oliverdellinger6484
    @oliverdellinger6484 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well I have been married for 51 years to my Vietnamese wife and it has been great!!!!

  • @claudiuskaramazov8324
    @claudiuskaramazov8324 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do all these problematic and difficult relationships around the world have in common? The toxic, entitled, egocentric women in them.

  • @mtherload
    @mtherload ปีที่แล้ว

    dude I'm 45...I feel you on the drinking situation - hey, is there are craft beer thing in Saigon? I don't need to stay out late anymore either

  • @kencao534
    @kencao534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Vietnamese women always want to save more money for hard times, I think that is a wise decision.

    • @fatandbroke
      @fatandbroke  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Savings money isnt gonna make you rich. Any billionaire isn't saving money to get rich . But I do get it

  • @protekdefense
    @protekdefense ปีที่แล้ว

    Even when not drunk people are quick to point out someone else’s sins and not their own!

  • @namhuy1216
    @namhuy1216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She's got you working night shifts and taking care of her dogs all day. While she goes to work and make real money. Lol

    • @fatandbroke
      @fatandbroke  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes i make monopoly money at best 10 shillings a year

  • @Riff4Raff
    @Riff4Raff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I lost it as 13:55 once you started talking about partying for years and changing your life (anyones life). I agree you can change your life, but you said you party hard for many many years, but now have turned a new leaf after 2 months of not doing that. I am not a saint myself (party a lot in college & USMC), but I never used drugs and just drank a bit. In all fairness you can’t really say you have turned a new leaf until you get serious time under your belt. I assume most would give credit after 5+ years of this kinda talk. Love the videos btw.

    • @fatandbroke
      @fatandbroke  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I partied for 3 years hadn't partied in LA for many years. No offense you don't know my life nor me. For some people it is that easy to just stop doing something. 5 years ? I'm not a recovering alcoholic lol 😂

  • @maryannesneddon1024
    @maryannesneddon1024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Relationships are the same all over the world they all take work, commitment and communication. You just need to keep working on it. Great content as always & very honest. Nearly 35 years later the day I met my Vietnamese partner was one of the best days in my life. Hopefully you guys will last as long. 😊

  • @jn3750
    @jn3750 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if you bring her back home, chances are she will divorce you

  • @mrlong6267
    @mrlong6267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chris living the dream! I’ve been married for over 11 years and can testify to what Chris is talking about. Cheers to having a good wife 💪

  • @alexp.2166
    @alexp.2166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    great video. I agree with everything. just the jealousy point. there are also baseless situations with jealousy. But that's ok. because what Vietnam women have to offer as a woman is so great. the worldview that these women have is superior to modern western women.

  • @kelvinpitney640
    @kelvinpitney640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Every passing moment is another chance to turn it all around
    Well spoken

  • @xdgs567z
    @xdgs567z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Viet gf is very insecure and always asking me if I’m checking out other girls….and if I will still be her if I meet a prettier girl…she is always questioning if my love is real or not….sometimes I just wish she would be more confident

  • @suzannalam8932
    @suzannalam8932 ปีที่แล้ว

    love your videos

  • @pagagaj
    @pagagaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have relationship with vietnamese woman too, I can confirm jealousy is crazy things :) I just prefer to trust but she requires kind of drama to feel my love is real :) So culture clash is definitely here.

  • @taminguyen8503
    @taminguyen8503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍🌸🍀🍀🍱🇺🇸🍣😂🛵😀😀😀🌺

  • @Boo-hu1ix
    @Boo-hu1ix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I dont know about all vietnamese women but my wife is absolutely insane. I love her to death but she can be pretty psycho and many would agree emotionally abusive.
    #1 My wife thinks hitting a man is completely ok. No issues. Cannot talk to her and explain this is not ok.
    #2 She went through my entire facebook friend by friend and deleted anyone that wasnt a CLOSE friend leaving only a few females. I have like 100 friends on FB lol. Nevermind the fact she has like 1500 facebook friends but of course she says they are all super close. Dont really care about FB anymore.
    #3 after 6 years of marriage we have never spent a single day apart. She is so incredibly jealous and insecure she needs to be by my side every single minute. I work remotely BTW.
    #4 She has eliminated every single friend I have in real life because all of the are "dirty american guys" and of course no female friends allowed. #5 She requires a GPS tracker on my phone. Not sure why since we litterally spend every single minute together.
    #5 We fight so bad. Really bad. Probably once a week. Sometimes worse than others. Not just arguments. Like real f'ing deep day long fights. I typically try to leave the situation but she will threaten or bear hug me to stop me. Cops have been to the house more times than I can count. Feel bad for the neighbors.
    I have never cheated. I have never even flirted with another woman. I dont go to the bars. I dont stare at other women. I dont do ANYTHING to make her jealous. I dont have friends and I dont do anything that doesnt directly involve her. We have been together going on 8 years now and she still accuses me of texting other women or wanting other women. No amount of love or doing things for her fills that giant hole of insecurity.
    Now every single one of you are probably reading this and wondering what the hell am I still doing married? First of all when things are good they are so incridble and this woman can love like no other but also no man has ever gone through a divorce and been ok. Not to mention my idiot ass bought property in vietnam which she promised to put in my name and its been 3 years now and its still not in my name.
    This is not at all meant to be a general statement about vietnamese women. Its just my experience. A vietnamese friend of mine warned me before marrying her that they can be very aggressive and jealous but I just shook it off to stereotype.

    • @tweakedkonvict
      @tweakedkonvict ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro what the hell, run away...

  • @BuddhaL0rd
    @BuddhaL0rd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good to see Saigon bustling once again mate.

  • @drewcorry5056
    @drewcorry5056 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just so happy your happy. Any idea when Kabukicho is coming?? I thought that was your next trip. Now your talking about Bangkok

  • @adrianwindle4616
    @adrianwindle4616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good on you Chris!

  • @michaelbrindley226
    @michaelbrindley226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Complex

  • @caribbeanexpat3927
    @caribbeanexpat3927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waiting to hear the grand announcement of mini F&Bs on the way

    • @clown6507
      @clown6507 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear God no...

  • @ayangaming1350
    @ayangaming1350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video Nice Story and Nice life going on

  • @nicknick7191
    @nicknick7191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What kind of work can an american find in vietnam?

  • @dannyphan1352
    @dannyphan1352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's the plans for tomorrow?

  • @caribbeanexpat3927
    @caribbeanexpat3927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cat walk? Or Cougar Walk? Ha ha... Those massage ladies with their harrassment strategy of arm wresting men into their shops have low success rate.

  • @leolattanzi1226
    @leolattanzi1226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not just your wife that thinks about $ dude i'm thinking most vn women think about $ constantly as i have dated 2 vn women now & they both seemed to bring up money quite regularly & not necessarily about how much i make and what i do with my money just different aspects is all & they both worked full time & one having her own buisness both in Canada where i'm from on the west coast , i've also dated white women for lengthy periods of time & the $ thing never came up nearly as much as vn women talk about it , that being said i've been in a realationship now for about 7-8 months & yes you guessed it a vn woman but this time she lives in VN a bit more than an hour east of Saigon and works 6 days a week we will be meeting for the first time in person when i arrive in vn mid december i'll be in the country for 5 weeks , we are super comfortable with each other as we've have 7-8 months to get to know each other with tonnes of vidio calls ect. Anyways i've been watchin the vids for quite awhile now ....your definateley hustleing 👈

  • @mattyitto2346
    @mattyitto2346 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vnese woman are the best is SE asia and definitely worth marrying if you have a good income and willing to be also married to her dad, mom, brother, sister, uncle, aunt, grandma, grandpa, I cant understand how someone can be ok with that but thats just me, great people in VN i just could never marry one, same shit with filipinas

  • @MrMeldarionx
    @MrMeldarionx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2 centuries.....