Not sure I would ask it your way. I ask my clients, "Tell me about the pressure. Would you like more, less?" Also, how can you gauge you are giving a "6" without involving the receiver? How do you know this? Thanks!
@@donnajoseph6204 “tell me about the pressure” is better than “how is the pressure” in that it doesn’t ask for a judgement on you. In terms of a “6” I definitely want the receiving client to tell me what number they would give the pressure, so if that wasn’t clear in the video I’m sorry :) I’ll then compare this with my own estimate for what I think the pressure feels like. If they match, great, then we just talk about how intense they can handle. If my idea of a “6” feels like a “2-3” to them then I know I’ll need a bit more pressure and if it feels like a “8-9” to them then I know I need to use a bit less. Really there isn’t anything “wrong” with the traditional question, i just know from experience that not everyone answers it all that honestly.
Not sure I would ask it your way. I ask my clients, "Tell me about the pressure. Would you like more, less?" Also, how can you gauge you are giving a "6" without involving the receiver? How do you know this? Thanks!
@@donnajoseph6204 “tell me about the pressure” is better than “how is the pressure” in that it doesn’t ask for a judgement on you. In terms of a “6” I definitely want the receiving client to tell me what number they would give the pressure, so if that wasn’t clear in the video I’m sorry :) I’ll then compare this with my own estimate for what I think the pressure feels like. If they match, great, then we just talk about how intense they can handle. If my idea of a “6” feels like a “2-3” to them then I know I’ll need a bit more pressure and if it feels like a “8-9” to them then I know I need to use a bit less. Really there isn’t anything “wrong” with the traditional question, i just know from experience that not everyone answers it all that honestly.
@bodyworksdwnyc Right. The point of asking a question is to elicit information.