HMong Wedding Table Etiquette

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  • 🎉🎊 HMong Wedding Table Etiquette 🎊🎉
    Have you ever been dragged *ahem*...pulled to the table during a traditional HMong wedding and fear that you'll make a fool outta yourself because you had no idea what you were doing❓❓❓ If so, hopefully this video will help you. Whether you've been asked to be a phij laaj, are the groom, or just want to learn more about HMong wedding manners, this video will give you a glimpse into why things happen a certain way at HMong weddings and can help guide you to earning some brownie points 😎

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  • @NC-oc3ld
    @NC-oc3ld ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for these videos. I'm Vietnamese and know nothing about Hmong so it's nice to learn about your culture. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos.

  • @CardboardRN
    @CardboardRN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was perfect!!! Wished i saw a similar video like this when i was younger. It’s the simple steps like this that a lot of us “hmoob mekas” need to know/learn.

  • @inohaveshirt
    @inohaveshirt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Its strange because peb coj hmoob ntseeg Vajtswv, we were never taught these traditions. So its embarrassing when we go to weddings or family events and not know what to say or do. This is a great video to learn some of our traditions and customs.

    • @dictumdose
      @dictumdose  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed!! I'm a Christian and was raised with limited exposure to these cultural etiquette. I had to learn them by asking questions, talking with my father, and immersing myself back into my culture. Now I'm making these videos to help those who might be feeling like I did while growing up

    • @inohaveshirt
      @inohaveshirt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dictumdose I feel the exact same way, and i think its the same for anyone who grew up first generation.
      Its sad because, as lose our language, we also lose a large part of our culture.

    • @jinyang715
      @jinyang715 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.

  • @taseelee
    @taseelee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ohhh, so that’s why there’s so much wasted beer when it’s time to clean. Lol. My Dad has taught me about the drink/pour etiquette too. Thanks for elaborating.

  • @grumpytrump01
    @grumpytrump01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm finna rewatch this again whenever my wedding is next. It's hard to remember this.

  • @xyoojj
    @xyoojj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks! Learn a lot@

    • @dictumdose
      @dictumdose  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you bet! Glad to hear!!

  • @fwjchimschurmanchannel
    @fwjchimschurmanchannel ปีที่แล้ว

    I do not drink alcohol, and luckily the people I know around me know this, so I usually accept my drink and give it to someone else at parties. But these weddings are different, what would you do?

  • @balance555
    @balance555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I knew this when I was drag to sit in the middle of the table at my cousin's wedding.

    • @dictumdose
      @dictumdose  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's never too late to learn 😁

  • @iaher2710
    @iaher2710 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am listening but im also looking more at his kitchen and wondering how his house look like...?

  • @hlubkojxwb7391
    @hlubkojxwb7391 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U should acknowledge the word tsis pub “caj hmab ntsig ntoo”

  • @fade2blade10
    @fade2blade10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I see you next time I want a cup as big as yours for shots.

    • @dictumdose
      @dictumdose  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao....you got it! 😅🤣

  • @ylauj3523
    @ylauj3523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We Hmong need to take the liquor out of the wedding only used it a little only we white Hmong used less alcohol ya Green Hmong used too much alcohol why do I want to get so F-up on my wedding day

  • @x19iax
    @x19iax ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems like a big drinking game to me lol

  • @Huammab5488
    @Huammab5488 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    HMONG LIVES MATTER Yellow Bus 😂

  • @hmoobxwb7119
    @hmoobxwb7119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why Hmong people make these Hmong wedding so complicated? I believe the young generation will get rid of that.

    • @rawslikuvpom5842
      @rawslikuvpom5842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No complicated..simple and easy as he just said.

    • @kayingthao5072
      @kayingthao5072 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @mouacheemeng
      @mouacheemeng 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They have a hard time understanding Hmong so they will most likely not do it or have some changes to make it do-able. I don’t even encourage people to drink and honestly the drinking part should be optional and not required.

  • @JoeJoe19777
    @JoeJoe19777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Primitive crap! every family and clan has their own rules and they can make up crap on the way😂😂😂

  • @ISAIAHTheBook
    @ISAIAHTheBook 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do not be consumed by the Hmong culture. Even the Hmongs themselves, know that these old traditions are not good.
    Seek the Truth, in Jesus. He is the only way to Heaven.
    Hell, is a place of eternal torment, not a place where you can comfort your lost loved ones.
    Trust Jesus today, you might not have tomorrow.
    Romans 10:9-10
    King James Version
    9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
    10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

    • @teleelee1602
      @teleelee1602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Way to express some self-hate

    • @ISAIAHTheBook
      @ISAIAHTheBook 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teleelee1602
      Self hate?
      So you enjoy 3 days of people getting heavily intoxicated over one persons death? While providing a full buffet just to please the visitors?
      Do you not know the historical reasonings for these traditions?
      You can make a change or submit to the wicked shamanism spirit that continues to manipulate the Hmong people.

    • @rawslikuvpom5842
      @rawslikuvpom5842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a low class claim of Jesus here. Whatever you believe just keep it to yourself! Your dumb belief has no meaning to others’ belief. That’s why the world has hundreds and thousands of different beliefs and each one of them is equally important.

    • @londonghung3392
      @londonghung3392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why do you people always quote the Bible in your discussions when you believe in Jesus? Didn't he tell you people to abandon the old ways and believe in him only? Don't go quoting old Bible beliefs that Jesus never acknowledged that it happened or will ever happen!

    • @ISAIAHTheBook
      @ISAIAHTheBook 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@londonghung3392
      And this is why we quote the Bible. You just made a claim about what Jesus said, so I must ask, quote the Bible to support your claim.
      Thank you