The fact that he's done that before is the reason to cut all ties period. Just because you have a child together there's ways to co parent without talking to him period! Let go, heal and move on with your life
As someone who has experience with mental illness, the husbands story sounds suspect. They aren’t going to sedate her to keep her from going into a rage and than let the ex & his new SO both visit. There are other things that makes his story questionable, but the hospital is going to protect the wife’s mental health, as she is the patient, so Anika isn’t going to be allowed to see her. This is especially true if she is getting worse not better.
If she is hospitalized, as the patient, she can decide who can and cannot visit. Her now ex and his SO can’t visit without her permission just because they want to.
Story it likely is fake but it does serve as a good explanation of the type of anger that men who deal with reputation distruction from the divorce industry deal with.
At first, I thought that OP is NTA. But after hearing the husband's side of the story...just maybe it's the NAH verdict because mental illnesses can be very dangerous to everyone
There are some things that are told by both parties so most likely true Dad offered her a million $ to leave the mother Sure one side tells us 'cash' and the other tells us 'stocks' but bribing your kid is still messed up If life at home was so bad she could have left w/o money
Also, why would he offer her a steak and his company worth $1 million or even mention it windy already be doing that as when he passed away why is that even been brought up. That seems really sketchy to me.
Love is not enough especially when it is only one person that loves. Girl should run, I wasted 10 years of my life until I realized the truth of my first sentence!
@@MrBeevee5 Mine or the video? LOL Yes I finished the video. However, even though it’s been decades since that chapter of my life, it is still a pain that hurts me for younger people.
Does anyone else think that maybe because husband has big money and she opened her mouth her had her put away when he knew she was passionate about alot of things and he bought her into a place that wouldn’t really care if she was sane enough because he paid them to keep her sedated and out of his way??
Odd she has a background in psychology & didn't recognize the issues. Let him go. Make friends, get therapy, get over victimhood. Use everything you know. He's not playing fair.
Don’t blame the husband the husband and daughter are the victims here not the wife. I can’t believe someone would defend this person after the harm she caused both her husband and daughter. That’s really disgusting to defend this sick person that put bruises on her own daughter
She knew.. She knew what was wrong with her, she just didn't think it was a "big deal" and she can handle it.. Unfortunately people in my field actually have a high suicide rate...
I don't trust the father. Daughter was taking time off from school? She's ELEVEN! He would return her home when SHE decided she was ready? She's ELEVEN!.
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Since there is no way of telling who is telling the truth, they all suck. I feel sorry for the daughter. Hopefully, having insane parents do no rub off on her.
wither or not op was at fault what she did was wrong with her daughter. she would have lost her daughter. courts hate parents trying to turn parents against their child
I agree with your statement you should know your worth. If you failed to see that and think that the relationship you have is a unit and you can clearly see it falling apart, you should just know your worth
1st story OP don't stay with someone who doesn't want to be with you. If your daughter takes the money from her dad. Well money is more important then you. Let it go and let Karma swallow them up
One reason I thought Fran's 1 mil part of her story was suspicious is because no one in their right mind gives a child that much money, not to mention even if they did, it'd be all too easy for police to discover the bribery and false testimony. So I'm sure the Dad, even if he actually had been the villain, would've been smarter than that.
NAH, when OP said her ex offered their daughter a million dollars to leave her, I found that hard to believe. I thought something was off about her. I appreciate that the Ex gave his side of the story and it did make more sense. When mental illness surfaced it put everything in prospective. I just hope she gets the help she needs and the daughter can grow up without being abused.
The fact that the mother abused her kid her eleven year old. And tryed nearly killed the husband sorry but doesn’t matter if she doesn’t take medicine she harmed her kid n couldn’t do anything or just take care of her mother. My first comment was gunna be a NTA till she I heard she abused her daughter it’s way this new comment exist n other is deleted lol 😅n also how OP the husband being nice n visiting her ??? Please stop being nice she harmed u she harmed ur daughter n in some way offering 1 mil to ur kid in hopes to save her was stupid instead should gotten a professional to talk to her get her to talk n find out what’s going on then to convince her that her mother has turned bad n it’s unsafe be around
Well said. If a neighbor or someone got wind of OP's ex-wife harming their daughter, they would contact CPS to take that poor kid away from her, place her in foster care, and hopefully, with a kind adoptive family.
This story is a PRIME EXAMPLE of what not to do as a married person. Don’t give up your identity, your person, ur hopes ur dreams ur passions. U can’t depend on one person to fulfill your emotional needs. Also when ur cheated on don’t lie to your kids. If your ex cheats you say “daddy or mommy cheated “ I can’t trust him and he or she broke my heart”. U can’t allow the other to alienate a parent. It’s illegal actions in America at least. Op should hire a PI and get the dirt to take him down.
Is imagine having a wife that tries to get your own mother to turn on you...if that was her first instinct. Imagine what he went through throughout the marriage.
Look at that she's systematically found an old disgruntled coworker despread rumors, approaching the media..she Is the one destroying him! Everybody knows that courts favor women. Even if the guy can afford a top of the line super rich lawyer, if the facts favored the woman the court case would favor her. What a psycho
Wishing the Op and his daughter all the best and they should keep his crazy ex-wife locked away for good, she is a danger to everyone around her. Wishing Op all the best.
Love the ambush of husband at start where they then deny it an ambush. Also as someone who has experience in custody cases more then once the judge would not have them set a weekly time table that has the hours he legally has an absolute right to see his daughter. Unless this is from outside america that part the story does not corelate with way custody orders work here.
Less than 2 minutes into the story, and I was extremely annoyed with OP. ANOTHER 3 minutes, and I knew that OP was the problem. OP had a mental illness, which was the cause of her behaving like an AH.
The ex-husband is definitely not the a’hole OP made him out to be. She’s not necessarily an a’hole but she’s definitely sick. It’s not that people with mental illnesses can’t be a’holes but she’s extremely paranoid and controlling. She is a danger to herself, their daughter and her ex. Who knows who else she is a danger to. She was lucky he put up with her that long. If they didn’t have their daughter I’m positive he would have never married her in the first place. 😢
Okay, I am not sold on the husbands story and HOW DO HE BELIEVE IT IS A GOOD IDEA TO BRING YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO VISIT YOUR EX WIFE?!?!?! This doesn’t sound right. His side makes no sense. He entered HER private post, read her diary and went through her things yet no one finds this wrong? The spouse did EXACTLY what the original op said he would. He waited a few months and then… he has a girlfriend! How are people SO gullible to not see through him? Obviously the story the wife told had merit because he had to step away from his company while they tried to change the narrative. Then, out of nowhere, the wife has a mental break (just in time to discredit her). This same day he happens to “decide” to enter her home and “catch” her actively abusing their child??? I call BS!!! She was silenced because she knew too much and posed a threat!
Sorry to say this, but if the husband's last post is correct, that would mean that both posts from the wife and husband's viewpoints are correct. Their are multiple mental illness that can cause either false memories simply cause one to blackout during the stress period. Usually, this is related to undiagnosed conditions or trauma suffered. when younger.
Maybe you have never lived with anyone with this type of mental illness. They are sly and crafty. They see every weakness and will use them against you. His daughter was his weakness and the mother abused her because she could not get to the father/ husband. Also the daughter had marks on her, and I do not think the dad e ery did this to his daughter. But he didn't just leave. Is he the brightest man, bringing his girlfriend to the hospital, to see his ex, NO not by a long shot. However, he was not trying to garner sympathy either. He just told his story. He never claimed to be all right about everything, like the ex. BUT, he's at least trying to help his ex and his daughter. Keep the company running and do all that a real man would try, without crying woe is me. This is what most real men would try to do in any given situation, not cry because he got his feelings hurt. Do they get hurt, yes very often, but only the real women in their lives ever know. Rewatch the story!
@louellacharlton4425 There's that, but also, the million dollar thing makes no sense from the wife's perspective. If the offer was actually given the mother's lawyer would have found out during a financial audit in the divorce process.
Not saying man is lying but how many times has a man made a woman look crazy to destroy her when he leaves. The movie gaslight is just a peak into one sick persons manipulation tactic.
That's the thing with a story like this is that the person doing the response has new information to use to make themselves sound better.Thats why I can't trust the person after because they could be make up lies.
Yeah and how many times has a woman lied about a man and when the man tells you what really happened people immediately believe the woman the fact of the matter is you don't know which side is real so don't just jump to believe without hard evidence plus the story is fake anyway
...plus if he claimed he wasn't cheating, why did the wife end up being correct as the husband did say he got with the secretary the wife suspected of being his girlfriend? She's right when she says that when you live with someone you learn their tells. I think the wife did love him because it sounds like she knew him better than he knew her and if she was ill and he claims to love her, he would've tried harder to help her instead of doing the things he did that made her spiral faster. It's possible that he had her committed just to be rid of her because anyone committed loses all form of credibility. It's the best way to destroy someone while pretending to help them by getting them committed out of "concern". Where was his concern when she needed him and he was also aware of her mental issues?
Whether he had cheated or not- he didn't love her either way. I'm sure he liked all the perks though- a clean house, good meals, child care for his kid, and the social invitations and possibly even career opportunities only open to properly married men.
I know I'm going to get crap for this but I still believe the first part of the first original poster over the husband and here's why none of it adds up cuz maybe I can understand if the daughter came out talkin about her mom and basically saying that everything her father said was true then yeah I would 100% agree with the husband over the first original poster which would be the wife in the story but since I didn't see the daughter being the only one not to say anything and since the husband already was talked about that he wasn't scared to drive his daughter with 100 million dollars to get him on her side I wouldn't be surprised that this guy paid off a random mental institute owner to just turn a blind eye and have some people taking the original poster from the first part of the story and have her institutionalized without there being any proof that she's a threat to her husband or even her own daughter
"nothing HAPPENED" , that's what she said. I hate having to stop what I'm doing, back up the story to see why what you're saying makes no sense only to see that you're NOT READING the story as written. It's not that difficult
hmmm ok husbands story sound very convenient ....he admits to bribing the daughter but everything else was because she has a mental health issue....makes me wonder if he didn't have her unknowingly dosed with a drug to set her off so he could have her institutionalized thus giving him the custody he wanted AND clearing his name at the same time because he could say she was lying and mentally unstable. Then pays off the doctors to keep her medicated so she can't fight back because no way would they zombify a patient with meds nor would they allow non family members to visit including him as they are divorced unless someone is getting paid under the table. No creditable doctor would allow someone to visit a patient if they are a trigger for their mental illness and both their stories clearly show he is a trigger to her. Depending on what drugs they are using to treat her supposed mental illness....if she is actually not mentally ill then many of them would not only make her appear to be mentally ill but the symptoms would get worse the longer she was on them.
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This is really sad. She’s definitely got a personality disorder and some other mental health issues. Maybe schizophrenia
I was thinking bi-polar
The fact that he's done that before is the reason to cut all ties period. Just because you have a child together there's ways to co parent without talking to him period! Let go, heal and move on with your life
Your daughter saved your life, she kept calm in a viloent situation and defended you and herself quite well.
This is one of the many reasons I like the stories that we get to hear the other side of the story from.
I think OP was protecting his daughter. I think OP really does care about his now ex wife and daughter. He done what had to be done.
Wow. Hope all turns out well for everyone
Woooow! What a turn! Someone should make this into a movie 😄
They did lol... All lifetime movies
As someone who has experience with mental illness, the husbands story sounds suspect. They aren’t going to sedate her to keep her from going into a rage and than let the ex & his new SO both visit. There are other things that makes his story questionable, but the hospital is going to protect the wife’s mental health, as she is the patient, so Anika isn’t going to be allowed to see her. This is especially true if she is getting worse not better.
If she is hospitalized, as the patient, she can decide who can and cannot visit. Her now ex and his SO can’t visit without her permission just because they want to.
Jeez, this was a rollercoaster!
Story it likely is fake but it does serve as a good explanation of the type of anger that men who deal with reputation distruction from the divorce industry deal with.
At first, I thought that OP is NTA. But after hearing the husband's side of the story...just maybe it's the NAH verdict because mental illnesses can be very dangerous to everyone
Yes but they could both be lieing wr really have no way if knowing for sure
There are some things that are told by both parties so most likely true
Dad offered her a million $ to leave the mother
Sure one side tells us 'cash' and the other tells us 'stocks' but bribing your kid is still messed up
If life at home was so bad she could have left w/o money
Yes by he also did say that they didn’t ever have a fight but that doesn’t correlate to everything else he said so know if I trust him either
Also, why would he offer her a steak and his company worth $1 million or even mention it windy already be doing that as when he passed away why is that even been brought up. That seems really sketchy to me.
Yes, it has to be a mental issue right, no sane person would do this right, Wrong.
Love is not enough especially when it is only one person that loves. Girl should run, I wasted 10 years of my life until I realized the truth of my first sentence!
I wonder if you finished the story?
@@MrBeevee5 Mine or the video? LOL Yes I finished the video. However, even though it’s been decades since that chapter of my life, it is still a pain that hurts me for younger people.
Husband doesn’t sound trustworthy in his posts.
He is a CHEATER.ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.
Wow! That's why any one you decide to go out with now days . DO A BACKGROUND CHECK!
Does anyone else think that maybe because husband has big money and she opened her mouth her had her put away when he knew she was passionate about alot of things and he bought her into a place that wouldn’t really care if she was sane enough because he paid them to keep her sedated and out of his way??
Odd she has a background in psychology & didn't recognize the issues. Let him go. Make friends, get therapy, get over victimhood. Use everything you know. He's not playing fair.
Don’t blame the husband the husband and daughter are the victims here not the wife. I can’t believe someone would defend this person after the harm she caused both her husband and daughter. That’s really disgusting to defend this sick person that put bruises on her own daughter
She knew.. She knew what was wrong with her, she just didn't think it was a "big deal" and she can handle it.. Unfortunately people in my field actually have a high suicide rate...
I don't trust the father. Daughter was taking time off from school? She's ELEVEN! He would return her home when SHE decided she was ready? She's ELEVEN!.
I did not see this coming
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Since there is no way of telling who is telling the truth, they all suck. I feel sorry for the daughter. Hopefully, having insane parents do no rub off on her.
Wow, just wow
He got control of her thing, I doubt he is telling the truth.
I absolutely did not see this ending coming! Great story plot.👍
wither or not op was at fault what she did was wrong with her daughter. she would have lost her daughter. courts hate parents trying to turn parents against their child
I agree with your statement you should know your worth. If you failed to see that and think that the relationship you have is a unit and you can clearly see it falling apart, you should just know your worth
So I have no idea what to think
1st story OP don't stay with someone who doesn't want to be with you. If your daughter takes the money from her dad. Well money is more important then you. Let it go and let Karma swallow them up
All about the Benjamin's 🤑💰😅
Lock Her Up!
Another plot twist reddit story
One reason I thought Fran's 1 mil part of her story was suspicious is because no one in their right mind gives a child that much money, not to mention even if they did, it'd be all too easy for police to discover the bribery and false testimony. So I'm sure the Dad, even if he actually had been the villain, would've been smarter than that.
You would be surprised ik people who does this in real life
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NAH, when OP said her ex offered their daughter a million dollars to leave her, I found that hard to believe. I thought something was off about her. I appreciate that the Ex gave his side of the story and it did make more sense. When mental illness surfaced it put everything in prospective. I just hope she gets the help she needs and the daughter can grow up without being abused.
The fact that the mother abused her kid her eleven year old. And tryed nearly killed the husband sorry but doesn’t matter if she doesn’t take medicine she harmed her kid n couldn’t do anything or just take care of her mother. My first comment was gunna be a NTA till she I heard she abused her daughter it’s way this new comment exist n other is deleted lol 😅n also how OP the husband being nice n visiting her ??? Please stop being nice she harmed u she harmed ur daughter n in some way offering 1 mil to ur kid in hopes to save her was stupid instead should gotten a professional to talk to her get her to talk n find out what’s going on then to convince her that her mother has turned bad n it’s unsafe be around
Well said. If a neighbor or someone got wind of OP's ex-wife harming their daughter, they would contact CPS to take that poor kid away from her, place her in foster care, and hopefully, with a kind adoptive family.
@@danacarter9147 but first check the foster family aswell. Don’t want a repeat of what happened to the kids who died and their body’s ain’t found
@@black-wizard-zeref That's a good point, background checks are important.
I don’t believe this!
This story is a PRIME EXAMPLE of what not to do as a married person. Don’t give up your identity, your person, ur hopes ur dreams ur passions. U can’t depend on one person to fulfill your emotional needs. Also when ur cheated on don’t lie to your kids. If your ex cheats you say “daddy or mommy cheated “ I can’t trust him and he or she broke my heart”. U can’t allow the other to alienate a parent. It’s illegal actions in America at least. Op should hire a PI and get the dirt to take him down.
Did we watch the same story? Everything she said had a holes in it and I'm a woman...
Is imagine having a wife that tries to get your own mother to turn on you...if that was her first instinct. Imagine what he went through throughout the marriage.
Look at that she's systematically found an old disgruntled coworker despread rumors, approaching the media..she Is the one destroying him!
Everybody knows that courts favor women. Even if the guy can afford a top of the line super rich lawyer, if the facts favored the woman the court case would favor her.
What a psycho
Story may be fake. But is a good metaphor for how everything from news stories, to divorce stories, may be different from what we hear
@@claudeyaz 🎉
Wow
What dummy not to contest the divorce. He took everything when she could have taken half.
Nta. There is no excuse for cheating or lying to manipulate your way to a win in court
wow
Did he get on his wife account so that he can clear his half up because it's not looking good for him and it's not looking good for her
Way to put in that curve ball but i suspected her story had holes in it she sounded unhinged
Get a job. Get a pet.
Get half the business. It's your right.
Wishing the Op and his daughter all the best and they should keep his crazy ex-wife locked away for good, she is a danger to everyone around her. Wishing Op all the best.
Yeah I figured that something was off with the wife from the start. Hope that the Dad and the Daughter don't have to deal with her ever again.
Love the ambush of husband at start where they then deny it an ambush. Also as someone who has experience in custody cases more then once the judge would not have them set a weekly time table that has the hours he legally has an absolute right to see his daughter. Unless this is from outside america that part the story does not corelate with way custody orders work here.
Less than 2 minutes into the story, and I was extremely annoyed with OP. ANOTHER 3 minutes, and I knew that OP was the problem. OP had a mental illness, which was the cause of her behaving like an AH.
The ex-husband is definitely not the a’hole OP made him out to be. She’s not necessarily an a’hole but she’s definitely sick. It’s not that people with mental illnesses can’t be a’holes but she’s extremely paranoid and controlling. She is a danger to herself, their daughter and her ex. Who knows who else she is a danger to. She was lucky he put up with her that long. If they didn’t have their daughter I’m positive he would have never married her in the first place. 😢
And I’m hoping OP gets the treatment she needed…I just had a bad feeling I just said that.
Wow
Okay, I am not sold on the husbands story and HOW DO HE BELIEVE IT IS A GOOD IDEA TO BRING YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO VISIT YOUR EX WIFE?!?!?! This doesn’t sound right. His side makes no sense. He entered HER private post, read her diary and went through her things yet no one finds this wrong? The spouse did EXACTLY what the original op said he would. He waited a few months and then… he has a girlfriend! How are people SO gullible to not see through him? Obviously the story the wife told had merit because he had to step away from his company while they tried to change the narrative. Then, out of nowhere, the wife has a mental break (just in time to discredit her). This same day he happens to “decide” to enter her home and “catch” her actively abusing their child??? I call BS!!! She was silenced because she knew too much and posed a threat!
Sorry to say this, but if the husband's last post is correct, that would mean that both posts from the wife and husband's viewpoints are correct. Their are multiple mental illness that can cause either false memories simply cause one to blackout during the stress period. Usually, this is related to undiagnosed conditions or trauma suffered. when younger.
Maybe you have never lived with anyone with this type of mental illness. They are sly and crafty. They see every weakness and will use them against you. His daughter was his weakness and the mother abused her because she could not get to the father/ husband. Also the daughter had marks on her, and I do not think the dad e ery did this to his daughter. But he didn't just leave. Is he the brightest man, bringing his girlfriend to the hospital, to see his ex, NO not by a long shot. However, he was not trying to garner sympathy either. He just told his story. He never claimed to be all right about everything, like the ex. BUT, he's at least trying to help his ex and his daughter. Keep the company running and do all that a real man would try, without crying woe is me. This is what most real men would try to do in any given situation, not cry because he got his feelings hurt. Do they get hurt, yes very often, but only the real women in their lives ever know. Rewatch the story!
@louellacharlton4425 There's that, but also, the million dollar thing makes no sense from the wife's perspective. If the offer was actually given the mother's lawyer would have found out during a financial audit in the divorce process.
@@benjamindouglas862 and men.
"Believe all women" 😂😂
Not saying man is lying but how many times has a man made a woman look crazy to destroy her when he leaves. The movie gaslight is just a peak into one sick persons manipulation tactic.
That's the thing with a story like this is that the person doing the response has new information to use to make themselves sound better.Thats why I can't trust the person after because they could be make up lies.
Yeah and how many times has a woman lied about a man and when the man tells you what really happened people immediately believe the woman the fact of the matter is you don't know which side is real so don't just jump to believe without hard evidence plus the story is fake anyway
...plus if he claimed he wasn't cheating, why did the wife end up being correct as the husband did say he got with the secretary the wife suspected of being his girlfriend? She's right when she says that when you live with someone you learn their tells. I think the wife did love him because it sounds like she knew him better than he knew her and if she was ill and he claims to love her, he would've tried harder to help her instead of doing the things he did that made her spiral faster. It's possible that he had her committed just to be rid of her because anyone committed loses all form of credibility. It's the best way to destroy someone while pretending to help them by getting them committed out of "concern". Where was his concern when she needed him and he was also aware of her mental issues?
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Sides to every story. Yours mine and the truth. True is somewhere in the middle of the two stories.
Whether he had cheated or not- he didn't love her either way. I'm sure he liked all the perks though- a clean house, good meals, child care for his kid, and the social invitations and possibly even career opportunities only open to properly married men.
I know I'm going to get crap for this but I still believe the first part of the first original poster over the husband and here's why none of it adds up cuz maybe I can understand if the daughter came out talkin about her mom and basically saying that everything her father said was true then yeah I would 100% agree with the husband over the first original poster which would be the wife in the story but since I didn't see the daughter being the only one not to say anything and since the husband already was talked about that he wasn't scared to drive his daughter with 100 million dollars to get him on her side I wouldn't be surprised that this guy paid off a random mental institute owner to just turn a blind eye and have some people taking the original poster from the first part of the story and have her institutionalized without there being any proof that she's a threat to her husband or even her own daughter
WTH is up with these stories about housewives. If this woman was that lonely, go out and get a job something you can do to expand your own self.
"nothing HAPPENED" , that's what she said. I hate having to stop what I'm doing, back up the story to see why what you're saying makes no sense only to see that you're NOT READING the story as written. It's not that difficult
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When it comes to the husband's story I call b*******
hmmm ok husbands story sound very convenient ....he admits to bribing the daughter but everything else was because she has a mental health issue....makes me wonder if he didn't have her unknowingly dosed with a drug to set her off so he could have her institutionalized thus giving him the custody he wanted AND clearing his name at the same time because he could say she was lying and mentally unstable. Then pays off the doctors to keep her medicated so she can't fight back because no way would they zombify a patient with meds nor would they allow non family members to visit including him as they are divorced unless someone is getting paid under the table. No creditable doctor would allow someone to visit a patient if they are a trigger for their mental illness and both their stories clearly show he is a trigger to her. Depending on what drugs they are using to treat her supposed mental illness....if she is actually not mentally ill then many of them would not only make her appear to be mentally ill but the symptoms would get worse the longer she was on them.