Pt.1 *Hustlers* How The 'Church' keeps black women single

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  • For the past many decades, the modern church, which is a business & not real ministry, has found a new way to rake in millions. By teaching single women to 'wait on a godly man' & other erroneous things, they have effectively, kept women single.
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  • @bettysylvester3849
    @bettysylvester3849 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    I agree with everything you said. My husband was not a church goer. He believed in God, and he was a wonderful, caring human being who would give you the shirt off his back. He passed away recently, and I am so thankful for the years we had together. I am glad I didn't wait for a "godly" man and miss out on a wonderful life with my husband.

    • @sparker7768
      @sparker7768 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🙏🏾💕

    • @betsy5889
      @betsy5889 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @pamelaclark909
    @pamelaclark909 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    What a lot of Christian single women don't realize is that that 'spiritual man' they think is a gift from God might very well be spiritual BUT his 'pp' is NOT and so the torment and disillusionment begins. A man of character is the way to go. Listen to this sister because she's telling the truth

  • @bettyeboop2942
    @bettyeboop2942 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I totally agree with this video. The opposite happened to me. I married a man that was raised in the church and he was the worst!!! Churches do keep women single and it is so sad to see it.

  • @MrLee773
    @MrLee773 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    My opinion, as a man, if you keep a woman single in your congregation, you have access to that womans money, and for some pastors, you have access to sex from that woman. Now I'm in no way saying all pastors cheat, but i have seen a lot that do. Thank you for this lesson. I just atarted watching your channel. Great content.

  • @antoniagaines6611
    @antoniagaines6611 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I left the Jehovah’s Witnesses because I was tired of being single-year after year after year. I am now married

    • @vfree4579
      @vfree4579 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow!!! testimony Please! Bless you and your husband ❤

  • @whome6081
    @whome6081 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This is incredible!! Thank you so much. I married and divorced a minister who was a man you described in the video: abusive. I have been since proposed to by a man who isn’t in the church, though he grew up catholic, but who is honest, stable, consistent. Consistency is one of the best qualities to me. I gave him his ring back because I thought I had to be with a church going man. This is a much needed word. Thank you.

  • @shannonlivingston8109
    @shannonlivingston8109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I wish I could give you 1000 likes!!! A lot of women in the church look at the religiosity of a man, how well he prays, preaches, attends church, so called “knows” the bible, etc, etc, etc. What about his character? Does he have integrity? Does he respect you? does he value you as a human being with feelings and thoughts? Some of the most abusive and poisonous relationships I saw was that of a so called godly man(or woman) in the church. It is about CHARACTER!!! It’s always about who he or she is at the core of their being. I have the same view with what people buzzing about what determines a “high value” man which essentially boils down to his socioeconomic status and his looks in many instances. High income& status is not always equivalent to high value meaning CHARACTER!!!

  • @lpgilber
    @lpgilber 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I totally agree with your hypothesis. We hear so much about these supposedly "godly men", who cheat, steal and beat their wives. If my mom was following what the church says, she would never have married my dad. He didn't tithe (but he gave when he wanted) and he was not a consistent churchgoer. Most Sundays while I was growing up, he stayed him and cooked so that we would have food after a long long church service.

  • @alignedwithchrist
    @alignedwithchrist 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I waited on God to bring “Matt” and he’s an amazing man. He’s helped deliver me from my “religious” beliefs!!!

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This and purity culture bamboozled me!

  • @amandanbs4037
    @amandanbs4037 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My Godmother taught me the real deal about tithing & I'm so thankful. I'm a HUGE giver, & since coming into the knowledge of the truth, I have flourished & experienced abundance in every area of my life!
    Thank you for your encouragement. You told nothing but the truth!

  • @bev6171
    @bev6171 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Hi MVOTV. This Podcast really on time message. Just because individuals goes to church does not mean they are Godly. The devil knows the scriptures too!! Ladies we need to know what characteristic we want in your mates and also make sure possess that attributes as well. We deserved love holistically!!

  • @ninagrace-lee8323
    @ninagrace-lee8323 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I have to agree. I’m younger (in my 20s) but I realize that Christian women have to loosen their standards a bit. Praying man who goes to church every Sunday, speaking in tongues? That’s not a regular dude, that’s a PASTOR
    Unless you want to date somebody’s pastor then we have to be realistic as women. Men go to church for their wives. If the man has good character and is a provider, he works hard 5-6 days a week. Most men aren’t paying money every week to go sit under somebody else’s husband on their day off 😂

  • @LowcountryChristy
    @LowcountryChristy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I've NEVER heard a more profound teaching. My jaw was on the floor from start to finish. In shock and feeling played. Hard.

  • @ournewchapter06
    @ournewchapter06 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I totally agree with you! preach!!!! My dad is a pastor… and he told me Tithing is something the churches push but is not biblical. It was for exactly for the reasons you mentioned. Thank you for posting this! Oh and can you do a video on The host of Dear future wifey podcast?

  • @kathryn428
    @kathryn428 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Oh! My! I have never believed in tithing it never made sense to me. I only believed in giving. The Bible teaches more about giving than anything.

    • @amikkelsen
      @amikkelsen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We should ask if we can find evidence for tithing to churches in the Bible.
      Most of what is quoted is clearly for the levites and the temple economy. The old temple is destroyed and Christ’s people are the current temple.

  • @JaiClaire880
    @JaiClaire880 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Please do a longer video on this topic. I enjoyed this video.

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What would you like to know, this will help me put one together.

    • @JaiClaire880
      @JaiClaire880 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@mvmochannel you mentioned Michelle and I would like analysis of the teachings that are misleading? I love the mention of character in Joseph and the gentleman in Acts, but what things have we fallen for or mistake as more important?

  • @cccro6228
    @cccro6228 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It's the Upbringing, Religion, Most Christian Churches. Being confused with The Holy Bible and what it teaches and it's intended purpose. All combined confuses so many people and because of the manner in which it is taught.

  • @kgodsgirl
    @kgodsgirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you.
    I will only listen to my Heavenly Father who I have a relationship with.
    God speaks❤❤❤

  • @getemtk2733
    @getemtk2733 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I would love to hear your story on tithing. I have mixed feelings about it overall. Could you make a video on it, please?

  • @ChocoBeauty8
    @ChocoBeauty8 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I pretty have all Michelle Mckinney Hammond books. Honestly, I have all the celebrity preachers' books. Thank God for deliverance.

  • @oneministries6071
    @oneministries6071 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very happy to hear that you have the truth concerning tithing. May others have an ear to hear that biblical fact.
    A godly man has nothing to do with going into a building one day out of the week. It is his relationship with God Sunday thru Saturday.

  • @cassandrasmith8593
    @cassandrasmith8593 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is an excellent teaching!! Thank you!

  • @nagiamabote4375
    @nagiamabote4375 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I believed in this illusion for years but thanks to The Almighty I woke up.
    THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRECIOUS VIEW POINT AND OPINION!

  • @user-if7qn8ir1b
    @user-if7qn8ir1b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Fantastic message for single women! I am asking my single daughter to listen to your podcast.

  • @welisanerich5376
    @welisanerich5376 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so true.. there is a Nigerian prophet called Benson Idahosa. He is of late. He considered 1 of the founding fathers of the Pentecostal church in Nigeria.
    He said a lot of women follow their pastors blindly without using their brains and common sense. Je said prophesy is not compatibility

  • @latonyaeasterlin3432
    @latonyaeasterlin3432 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I just stumbled on your channel, and I love it!! Thank you for this conversation, all the things you spoke about I always felt, I am single, and I will keep this in mind when I date. Thanks!!

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are so welcome!

  • @princessshenaniganspresent5538
    @princessshenaniganspresent5538 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I wish we talked about this more. I have lost alot of time.

  • @chenesehenderson5194
    @chenesehenderson5194 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I absolutely love how you break everything down i really learned something thank you

  • @argiejohnson
    @argiejohnson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This was very thought-provoking. I always say I want a godly man but I had not even considered this viewpoint. Thank you so much because, no disrespect to Ms. Hammond, but I personally would prefer to not be 65 and single.

  • @sarahbee7231
    @sarahbee7231 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've always felt this, especially after my divorce. Apparently, I should just remain single

  • @tamimixon4337
    @tamimixon4337 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Just subscribed. Breath of fresh air.

  • @mstdotwilliams3404
    @mstdotwilliams3404 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this! It has helped me in another area of my life that I have been struggling with.

  • @TDZone70
    @TDZone70 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I agree with you, however I think most people do not value character. You can tell a person to eat healthy, but if they want to eat junk food there isn't much you can do to change that.

  • @diviabrock9165
    @diviabrock9165 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for sharing I never looked at it that way however it sure sounds accurate to me and makes much sense.

  • @morelandevents9058
    @morelandevents9058 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you 😊

  • @patriciacollins4651
    @patriciacollins4651 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you for this!! You touched on tithes for a minute. Can you do a longer video about tithes? That really caught my attention. It blew my mind to hear you say the pastor was well aware of the truth about tithing, but was teaching a lie!

  • @sheilak2835
    @sheilak2835 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Teach us!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @kevingrant4491
    @kevingrant4491 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That was one of the best Sermons i ever heard. I never thought of it like that. I will share this with family and friends

  • @betsy5889
    @betsy5889 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow ! MVMO ! I am steady quoting you day and night when in conversation with friends & family I LOVE YOU !

  • @candlecane
    @candlecane 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    New sub. Thanks for this and many other vids I've seen and will see.

  • @radithakothinane8809
    @radithakothinane8809 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This discussion is so interesting, challenging and intriguing...wish i was in the usa... from the Vaal area south Johannesburg South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @raquelshaneice
    @raquelshaneice 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    @mvmo channel Do you have a video that you have done on giving versus tithing? I would love to listen.

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Hi. I'll pass on this one. I think that's something, if you're interested, would be something to study on your own, so as not to be influenced by what I believe, etc. But thanks for the request.

    • @leilanigreenwood5064
      @leilanigreenwood5064 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah, I would like to know that too. Some of these churches pass the collection plate around two and three times. Some of these ministers try to make the congregation feel guilty for not tithing as much as they want. Take up a collection for this and that. Visiting pastor and evangelist take up a collection. If the Deacon or missionaries speak collection time.
      Plus what is with all these churches building or asking for donations to build life centers. I see life centers around me that are closed 7 days a week. They don't wedding receptions there most couples have them elsewhere. Even family reunions are done elsewhere. The money they used to build the life centers around me that could have helped some of the congregation or the community.

    • @deneenbush5775
      @deneenbush5775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow! You should share more. I would like to her your view on tithing little bit more. I really appreciate this podcast

    • @raquelshaneice
      @raquelshaneice 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@mvmochannelI understand. Thanks

    • @sparker7768
      @sparker7768 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mvmochannelGood advice!

  • @reneemoreno5306
    @reneemoreno5306 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this channel! I always look forward to hearing what you’ve got to say!

  • @warpeace6320
    @warpeace6320 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    There you go again, robbing me of all my thoughts. If the pastor is handsome, all the single ladies sits in the front rows.

  • @WriterActorBaker
    @WriterActorBaker 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I enjoyed listening to your podcasts today!

  • @vivianrushing9405
    @vivianrushing9405 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so right on point and so informative

  • @scarter8278
    @scarter8278 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great conversation…

  • @trennalewis3020
    @trennalewis3020 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This message is spot on!!👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Sunflower_1818
    @Sunflower_1818 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I thought Michelle Mickenney Hammond got married at 54 and moved to Ghana??? Did they not get married? OMG!

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      No she didn't. She moved to Ghana but never got married. Never, nor was she engaged. She went there to clear up her father's business.

  • @Shonnie1122
    @Shonnie1122 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for your insightful thoughts! When I listened to you, its like listening t to one of my girlfriends. You mentioned tithing, and I’m not sure if you’ve done a video on it. I know it’s important to read the Bible for yourself to gain a deeper understanding. I would love to hear your expanded commentary on the topic of tithing if you’re willing to discuss it. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

    • @AmyThrash
      @AmyThrash 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Biblically, tithes were given only to the Levitical Priest, meaning a priest from the tribe of Levi…is your Pastor from the tribe of Levi? 🤔Also, it was only given during certain times. Malachi talks of the Levi Priests who had received the tithe from the people but wasn’t doing what was right with the tithe…
      In the new testament, Paul tells the church to lay aside an offering for his ministry, (not a tithe).
      The Bible also empathizes giving to the poor - to avoid poverty, and as a way to lend to God. There’s a blessing in giving to the poor.
      Lastly, the Bible teaches us to give cheerfully and never out of force/compulsion. So, we should give to the poor and ministries or people that God wants us to support.
      Church’s know this, but some Pastors are in fear that THEY won’t have finances unless they push tithing.

  • @antgotguap6951
    @antgotguap6951 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    9:10 if every woman learned what your saying they wouldn’t need the church as much as they do & pastor’s know that

  • @truthseeker3650
    @truthseeker3650 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    POWERFUL! Thanks

  • @giadetroit
    @giadetroit 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You left me on a cliff hanger! But I agree 100%

  • @keshamerriweather1075
    @keshamerriweather1075 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If I’m not mistaken Michelle McKinney Hammond married some years ago; albeit she was in her late 50’s when she finally married.

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Please stop misleading ppl. We don't mislead ppl in this community. No ma'am she didn't. It's been confirmed via interviews in Ghana. She is single and says she doesn't need a husband.

  • @joybowser5156
    @joybowser5156 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @betglo8151
    @betglo8151 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    14:09. Would choose Matt any day.

  • @honeygold1
    @honeygold1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    FACTS!!!!!

  • @Tanaeaa
    @Tanaeaa หลายเดือนก่อน

    They know tithing is unbiblical!! But they have no trust in God to believe that the people will give generously so where is the trust in God ?? So you lie and shout hallelujah all while deliberately lying to them it’s disgusting and think God is pleased smh

  • @RM-nh9gj
    @RM-nh9gj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Facts 100%

  • @misslewkingdom6390
    @misslewkingdom6390 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    God is also practical and clear with information just like this video = Thanks So Much for some "Simple Truth" 😉= I Love God Too 🥹