One Thing Pastor John Gray Said, That ALL Women Need To Hear Right Now!!

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  • In July of 2022, Pastor John was hospitalized with a severe pulmonary embolism, after being "raised up" , he returned to pastoring his church, Relentless Church, in Greenville, South Carolina. In October 2022, Pastor John Gray sat down for his very first interview since his death bed experience. He was a guest on his wife, Mrs. Aventer Gray's podcast, Ave Unfiltered. Unfortunately, even a death bed experience has not changed Pastor John.
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  • @mvmochannel
    @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +9

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  • @mickelined5447
    @mickelined5447 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This was so encouraging. 4 years ago I decided to leave my abusive mariage after years of spiritual/emotional and physical abuse. My daughter was 15 months then and I was so afraid of the future. But now I’m in a such a good place that I am so thankful that I made that decision. Ladies listen to this podcast, you CANNOT change a man, you CANNOT pray his demons away and you shouldn’t keep yourself hostage by fear of starting over. The dark times will eventually pass. Put God first and seek his wisdom and direction for your life.

  • @josi-elaine
    @josi-elaine ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I appreciate hearing this so much. Four years ago my husband walked out and I let him because I knew there was nothing I could do to change him. He had to want it for himself. I would rather he walk out of the marriage than to harm me because he felt trapped.

  • @honeylemon2372
    @honeylemon2372 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Aw, I didn’t know they had this convo in public! I hope more people get this message. 🥺

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes they did, I pinned the link in the comments if anyone wants to watch it.

    • @honeylemon2372
      @honeylemon2372 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! I sadden for her 😢

  • @amassinghealth
    @amassinghealth ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you so much for this video! I am a 31yr old black woman. Your content always blesses me! I pray you start a paid mentorship program; I’d sign up. Your insight is valuable beyond measure!

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You're welcome. I won't be doing the memberships but anyone who wants to donate can to the cash app in the description box.

  • @nikkyk2016
    @nikkyk2016 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As women, we believe we can change a man because we are nurturing people. (some) Obviously, his wife is dealing with rejection issues due to trauma. We are only in control of ourselves. Until we understand and realize THAT we will continue to put ourselves in these broken failed relationships searching for something that only GOD can fill.

  • @nicholediamond2430
    @nicholediamond2430 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You ain't told nothing but the 💯💯💯 truth 🎉✨🎉🙏🎊

    • @sunshinerobinson1123
      @sunshinerobinson1123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen Amen 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @kyrabarr2846
    @kyrabarr2846 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I would personally like to thank you for all of the wisdom, honesty, and transparency that you share on your page. I am a woman who turned fifty last year, and I am grateful for the knowledge that I'm learning here. You are truly appreciated. Thank you!

  • @marilynwalton7284
    @marilynwalton7284 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a needed message , thank you .

  • @vickiebonner4181
    @vickiebonner4181 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for the therapy and validating that I AM NOT CRAZY AND ALONE

  • @beckyfrancis481
    @beckyfrancis481 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I heard it too in many different ways. She keeps lording the marital vows over him as a badge. I felt sorry for her that she refused to listen to him and the man would be pushed to do more disrespectful things to her. No woman can raise a man, ONLY CHILDREN. We can't change any man.

  • @arenee6418
    @arenee6418 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is soooo GOOD- thank you!!!

  • @alesiayw
    @alesiayw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Giiiiiirl you shole called me out, I almost threw my phone. We as women ARE very creative.

  • @anointed913
    @anointed913 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You're absolutely RIGHT

  • @PRProPam
    @PRProPam ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s an absolute fact, that a person who will lie about non-sensical things, is covering up something BIG! I learned that the hard way. My therapist taught me that lesson. She pointed out the little lies told to me earlier in the relationship to explain the situation I found myself in.

  • @Dream-rl9er
    @Dream-rl9er ปีที่แล้ว +23

    John’s wife has very low self esteem and she’s in complete denial. YEARS of ignoring red flags left her stagnant.

  • @sherenay3109
    @sherenay3109 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It seems to me she loves him and the lifestyle more than she loves herself. I hope she comes to her senses.

  • @NeneNaturally
    @NeneNaturally 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is the kind of hard truth women - scratch that - I need to hear. Thank you!

  • @Own.lee.who.men.516
    @Own.lee.who.men.516 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You NAILED IT! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @vanessagreen7480
    @vanessagreen7480 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That was awesome, you need to write a book God has blessed you with so much wisdom!

  • @SandersRN81
    @SandersRN81 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Liked even before I listened to your POV. I feel like your my auntie in my head and appreciate your words as I learn, mature and reflect on my own choices.

  • @farfromacurse7402
    @farfromacurse7402 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’ve always loved your videos. I’m adding these specific good qualities to my prayer list. You’re awesome! Love you.

  • @vickiebonner4181
    @vickiebonner4181 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I only heard POOR because we were all poor in a small town. I just wanted a boyfriend, at 16 for a short while. We have been married 46 dysfunctional yrs, look like the perfect family, but have been through everything you said you should NOT DO. He has told me many times thanks for rising him and our wonderful daughters. My sister was RIGHT, they ARE CRAZY! He has mother issues like all the crazy Geminis (Jeff Dahmer, unabomer, trump, Ye etc.) Only thing good out of the relationship is my BEAUTIFUL, extremely intelligent daughters and an AMAZING 7 old grandson. Action speaks louder than words!!!
    and sometimes out of bad comes some good 🙏

  • @lisaoatman6244
    @lisaoatman6244 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Amen. And if you keep trying to change someone , it can slip into witchcraft.

  • @lady0917
    @lady0917 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you so much for this. It's like your grandma's saying. Don't make a man tell you twice that he don't want ya. Avenger has traded all her self worth and self esteem for a title. I don't know how she looks in the mirror.

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are right she absolutely has!

  • @annajoie700
    @annajoie700 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's kind of like emotional abuse and gaslighting and it's unfortunate that some women are willing to tolerate that kind of behavior..

  • @vickiebonner4181
    @vickiebonner4181 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG OMG !!! My sister tried to tell me that "those people are crazy and poor"

  • @nikkyk2016
    @nikkyk2016 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    SIs if you not speaking facts!!!!!!!!!!! I want to jump through this laptop and hug you...

  • @goodgirlvicki
    @goodgirlvicki ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What kind of books do you recommend for psychology?

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hi Vicki, it depends on the subject matter. But what I recommend is search for the subject matter and the word social science or psychologist in Google and a list of books written by some will come up.

  • @sunshinerobinson1123
    @sunshinerobinson1123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😮😮😮😮😮 mmmmm WOW 😳