If you clicked on this video, let me give you your flowers for having a higher emotional IQ than many. Lexi Ma thank you once again for daring to do the readings that help us grow and heal instead of what gets the most views.🧚🏽💛✨
this is so refreshing. I’ve seen so many readings that are like “the person who wronged you is getting their karma” “xyz person should not have done you dirty” and I’m like ok but there’s no way everyone who is watching readings is perfect and everyone else is making all the mistakes. honestly sometimes gets me starting to question the validity of pick a card readings like, wondering if everyone is just telling us whatever we want to hear. so I deeply appreciate the integrity and accountability offered here!!
Pile 3. I walked away from our narcissistic mother, we recently lost our dad who was the only solace I had, I often wonder how my sister is coping being the golden child I know my mother will turn to someone as her supply. This really confirmed my suspicion. I don't know how to help her as I've only learned to help myself too. I will ask God to show me a way to help her. She really deserves better. Thanks Lexi.
Thank you for this, Lexi ♡ Pile 4 resonated heavily! Last August, I had a bad car accident (hit, dragged, and pinned underneath an 18-wheeler) and unintentionally started closing myself off from all of my friends. I feel tired all the time and haven't had the energy to really go out and leave the house, even though I used to be a social butterfly. I like to solve my own issues rather than burden others, especially since I know I'm intelligent and very resilient. But I absolutely have been in Hermit mode. I am a strong empath and known as the "problem-solving friend" (I'm also a psychotherapist and social worker) so I don't feel like I currently have the emotional capacity to hold space for my friends problems, like I usually would. So, I've been isolating myself.
Sweetheart I’m a great grandma, very wise and I’m going to tell you you were being shielded from your friends because you needed to spend time healing yourself and focusing on yourself. You needed your energy for your own healing. Sending you love and light and prayers for your healing ❤
@ChosenLight-v2o yes . I agree with you she needs to find friends who give what she gives so they uplift each other instead of friends who drain her energy field . You can love those friends too but at a distance. I’ve had to limit time with my own children because they were so draining on my energy field. Sounds selfish but it’s really self love
Thank you Lexi ❤❤❤ felt drawn to pile 2. Thanks for this reading. I am always interested in how others are impacted by me. I’m not perfect and I never intend to hurt others but it happens. Many blessings to you and the tribe 😊
I think this topic is really good cause sometimes we're not always good to everyone in our lives, and I think it's nice that we're acknowledging our own worst moments and the pain we've caused others. I actually think readings along this line should be done even more often tbh. Not necessarily apology ones but things like "what are some things we did in the past that we could reflect on?" or "what are some of the ways we could become better people?" that sort of thing.
P4 resonates, I do sometimes have the tendency to isolate myself from my loved ones when I’m stressed or not in the best place so it makes sense, and it makes sense that I owe an apology to myself because I can sometimes be my own worst enemy
This is the reason you're the only reader I subscribe to. No-one else I've seen has the courage and emotional intelligence to even approach this topic. And I swear very few people would be able to a) speak with such compassion for both sides b) stick with it through the murky layers of distortion, defences and pain for everyone concerned (pile 3) and c) absolutely nail it. Thank you so much 🧡
Pile 4 This was unexpected but you are so right. Before watching your reading, I had just cancelled a get together with someone very dear to me. I'm far too tired to show up now. I felt I let her down while she totally understands it. I'm in the process of learning that I have to be there for me first, instead of believing that I have to act and be a certain way for others. Thanks so much for the confirmation that I'm on the right path😀
Pile 4, I've been isolating a lot for the last year, I've been dealing with a lot of medical and emotional issues and job hunting. My irritiable bowel has been making it so I can't even eat most things at resurants lately so have not been meeting with friends out and about. I've also had an issue that was keeping me from driving any more than 10 or 15 minutes away and everyone I know I further away. I've finally started going to docs for the issues and its helping. I need to see a counselor too but recently hit a snag as my education and such is in behavioral health and most of the places near by that accept my insurance are places I've either applied to or use to work with in my last job, talk about awkward. I've been isolating from friends because they seem to be going through as much shit as me and my negative inner voice was saying I would just be a burnden if I contacted them. I recently told one of my friends and she came by and talked with me for a while.
Pile two stood out immediately and of course the time stamp is my angel numbers. 💖 I’m in adult children of alcoholics which is a 12 step recovery group & part of that is making amends and I’ve struggled so hard to think of people I owe an apology to because I’ve always been such a people pleaser and tried so hard not to step on peoples toes.
Dude, Lexi, I would LOVE if you did more topics like this. It's so frustrating how people don't take accountability for stuff, ain't none of us are innocent and perfect, but just because people get offended doesn't mean readers shouldn't explore topics like these, they're SO insightful and people can learn and grow so much from them. I've been absolutely loving these shadow-side readings from this past month and would TOTALLY love if you did more of these in the future as well: it's so refreshing to see reading topics like these instead of the same old stuff. I'm one of those people, and sure many others in your collective, that LOVE exploring our shadow sides and doing shadow work and take accountability for our stuff, so we would definitely support you if you explored these kinds of topics more!
this is why Lexi is my favorite in the game, she never misses with keeping the topics new and authentic. Especially in the spiritual community for all the inner work that we claim to do I see so many so called 'gurus' fall prey into that self righteous attitude that somehow they're better than everybody else because of XYZ. That just isn't the point. You cannot always be this super healing person to be around, everybody has bad days and everybody is bound to make mistakes. It's unavoidable but it's important to learn from them and grow.
Pile 2. There are so many people that come to mind. I wish I had treated them differently and gave them more time. Maybe open up to them by officially acknowledging our friendship with each other. If only I knew how to reach out in a non-awkward way.
Pile 1. Yes, I walked away from a very toxic environment. It was devastating for me and for the rest of the group in the pond. I hope they have healed. However, I don’t think the person in question will ever understand why I left. Not even if tried to explain to them now, one decade later. Thank you, Lexi!❤🙏🏼🦋
I also chose pile 1, I walked away from a toxic relationship. It is sad to see that person still thinks I suddenly went cold instead of that person not understanding all the boundaries I set
Pile 4 - I started with resonating with more than one pile and thought, "ah I've done a lot of shit haven't I? haha". I was feeling a lot of guilt and shame for hurting people in the past because of being emotionally unstable and acting out of my traumas, hurting people along the way. I was very ready to take on whatever the messages come up with people feeling angry or hating on me. But pile 4 just went in a completely different direction and I wasn't ready to cry my eyes out. Who am I kidding, this is a Lexi reading, and it always brings a tear to my eyes. Lexi you're truly an alchemist, a transmuter of shadows, thank you for sharing your gifts
Thank you, Lexi! Pile 3 made perfect sense. I left my narcissistic family dynamic and I have sensed wondered if my golden child sibling is now the target for my parents toxicity. You validated my suspicions.
Pile 1 & 3. This should have been titled “Who THINKS You Owe Them An Apology.” 😹 Either we’re evolved aliens who’ve done the work or Lex Flex took it easy on us. 💚✨
Such a cool topic! I would love if tarot readings made the viewer be accountable one instead of the assumed victim. Always so impressed with your readings.
Pile 1, makes sense to me. I can think of a few friends I've been a bit bad at keeping in touch with for 'life got cray' reasons, and I know I can be socially a bit skittish too. Didn't mean to ghost and some I might have had more reason to be wary than others but I regret that I fell off the face of the earth there.
Thank you so much Lexi, this reading was my suggestion! I’m so grateful that you helped us with receiving clarity about where we can still grow. To grow means that we are living. Also, I chose pile 3!
Also, p4, and I did finally text that friend. It's been half a year and I've managed to start coming out of my isolation hole piece by piece, but this dear friend was the last one I was too anxious to contact. The whole reading was CRAZY accurate.
My guides tell me who to walk away from. I never question them, I just do what they ask. It’s always interesting to listen to these types of readings though, because you see the other side of the coin. Thanks Lexi 🌻🍯🌻
It’s 12:30am. When I got ready for bed at 9. I couldn’t sleep so I tried to force it. Till minutes ago I said w.e. Got a snack and crave silence. Then felt called to finish this video. But I originally picked pile 2 but it did not resonate. Then I went back to see the shell for pile 4 looked like an upside down brain. I clicked on this pile. Couple minutes in I started crying when you said “I need to apologize to myself for thinking I am only worthy if I only show up for people”. Now I realized I was meant to process this right now which is a perfect time. Appreciate you Lexi. Your readings are always the realest ones even tho I was so ready to take accountability for regardless of what this video was going to share with me. ❤
Pile 2. One of my closest friends from college. I still love him, but I chose the wrong guy. I chose lightning-fast passion over genuine intimacy. Hard lesson learned, but at the end of the day, I really hope that he finds a woman who will see in him what I saw too late, no questions asked ❤And it's taught me what to look for going forward, and what is truly valuable 😊
Thank you for taking the time to type this, it helped me a little. I am the other person for pile 2, and I hope they feel the same way as you expressed in this comment.
Thank you Lexie, such a interesting and cool reading. Pile 1, I fully understand the message but have never thought about it in this way. Thank you! 🥰🙏🏻💖🌟
💜 Pile 💜 3💜 i really have no idea who this might be🤞 but i hope& pray the universe speak justice on their behalf.Most of my life has been (shnity)💩 & i 'd never wish this even on the worst person in my life. Thank you for this reading Lexi love🫂💞
Lexi i didnt want this to end. Could you do a reading "whats the most likely outcome of your current situation" I have a lot going on with ALL aspects of my life work, family. Home, relationships, and even with my self. I could use some guidance here
Hey beautiful Lexi thank you for this reading! why is it always the person that walks away from toxicity that gets called the villain? B/C we see through the BS and don’t want to be a part of it? It’s truly sad.
Pile 4. My on/off fiance died, it's only been a month. I've been drowning in trying to take care of myself, work, class etc and I just need me right now. But this was nice to know. Sometimes I forget people care cause it's not common where I live. As well as the reminder that I deserve support 🫶🏽 God this was hard. I'm so used to being a problem if I'm not "on." I always hermit when I'm not okay. Damn. I needed this reading. Tysm as always lex! And of course you know me 😂🫶🏽
Pile two probably fits anybody I’ve ever been involved with romantically/sexually. I’m a Capricorn with an Aquarius stellium… very emotionally unavailable
A request please: what is the deal of devil's triangle ? Can we get some insight from spirits? Those videos that you did for example the mermaid video and mother gaya video, were so cool
Hey Lexi, this is the first time that I find a reversal in readings with you, the person that you described was totally me, does that mean that someone's trying weird tricks on me again or 🙄? Thanks, have a lovely day🌼
Haaaa, pile 1. I'm not apologizing to that asshole 🤣 He knew what he was doing and got all butthurt that I saw right through him and took my next exit asap. He should be apologizing to me ❤
If you clicked on this video, let me give you your flowers for having a higher emotional IQ than many. Lexi Ma thank you once again for daring to do the readings that help us grow and heal instead of what gets the most views.🧚🏽💛✨
Wow, ive never seen this topic before in tarot readings, this is so cool, thank you Lexi❤
you are so welcome!! 🩵🩵🩵
this is so refreshing. I’ve seen so many readings that are like “the person who wronged you is getting their karma” “xyz person should not have done you dirty” and I’m like ok but there’s no way everyone who is watching readings is perfect and everyone else is making all the mistakes. honestly sometimes gets me starting to question the validity of pick a card readings like, wondering if everyone is just telling us whatever we want to hear. so I deeply appreciate the integrity and accountability offered here!!
indeed
Pile 3. I walked away from our narcissistic mother, we recently lost our dad who was the only solace I had, I often wonder how my sister is coping being the golden child I know my mother will turn to someone as her supply. This really confirmed my suspicion. I don't know how to help her as I've only learned to help myself too. I will ask God to show me a way to help her. She really deserves better. Thanks Lexi.
Thank you for this, Lexi ♡ Pile 4 resonated heavily! Last August, I had a bad car accident (hit, dragged, and pinned underneath an 18-wheeler) and unintentionally started closing myself off from all of my friends. I feel tired all the time and haven't had the energy to really go out and leave the house, even though I used to be a social butterfly. I like to solve my own issues rather than burden others, especially since I know I'm intelligent and very resilient. But I absolutely have been in Hermit mode. I am a strong empath and known as the "problem-solving friend" (I'm also a psychotherapist and social worker) so I don't feel like I currently have the emotional capacity to hold space for my friends problems, like I usually would. So, I've been isolating myself.
Sweetheart I’m a great grandma, very wise and I’m going to tell you you were being shielded from your friends because you needed to spend time healing yourself and focusing on yourself. You needed your energy for your own healing. Sending you love and light and prayers for your healing ❤
@ChosenLight-v2o yes . I agree with you she needs to find friends who give what she gives so they uplift each other instead of friends who drain her energy field . You can love those friends too but at a distance. I’ve had to limit time with my own children because they were so draining on my energy field. Sounds selfish but it’s really self love
@valeriesnyder2157 Thank you so much for the kind words! Infinite blessings unto you 💙
@ChosenLight-v2o Thank you! 💙
Thank you Lexi ❤❤❤ felt drawn to pile 2. Thanks for this reading. I am always interested in how others are impacted by me. I’m not perfect and I never intend to hurt others but it happens. Many blessings to you and the tribe 😊
Gorgeous topic. Thank you, Sweet Lexi! 😍♥️
you’re very welcome!! 🩵🩵🩵
I think this topic is really good cause sometimes we're not always good to everyone in our lives, and I think it's nice that we're acknowledging our own worst moments and the pain we've caused others. I actually think readings along this line should be done even more often tbh. Not necessarily apology ones but things like "what are some things we did in the past that we could reflect on?" or "what are some of the ways we could become better people?" that sort of thing.
This was unexpeccctedly helpful! 2!
P4 resonates, I do sometimes have the tendency to isolate myself from my loved ones when I’m stressed or not in the best place so it makes sense, and it makes sense that I owe an apology to myself because I can sometimes be my own worst enemy
Honey you did that on pile 3! Thank you!
This is the reason you're the only reader I subscribe to. No-one else I've seen has the courage and emotional intelligence to even approach this topic. And I swear very few people would be able to a) speak with such compassion for both sides b) stick with it through the murky layers of distortion, defences and pain for everyone concerned (pile 3) and c) absolutely nail it.
Thank you so much 🧡
Pile 4 This was unexpected but you are so right. Before watching your reading, I had just cancelled a get together with someone very dear to me. I'm far too tired to show up now. I felt I let her down while she totally understands it. I'm in the process of learning that I have to be there for me first, instead of believing that I have to act and be a certain way for others. Thanks so much for the confirmation that I'm on the right path😀
Pile 4, I've been isolating a lot for the last year, I've been dealing with a lot of medical and emotional issues and job hunting. My irritiable bowel has been making it so I can't even eat most things at resurants lately so have not been meeting with friends out and about. I've also had an issue that was keeping me from driving any more than 10 or 15 minutes away and everyone I know I further away. I've finally started going to docs for the issues and its helping. I need to see a counselor too but recently hit a snag as my education and such is in behavioral health and most of the places near by that accept my insurance are places I've either applied to or use to work with in my last job, talk about awkward. I've been isolating from friends because they seem to be going through as much shit as me and my negative inner voice was saying I would just be a burnden if I contacted them. I recently told one of my friends and she came by and talked with me for a while.
Pile two stood out immediately and of course the time stamp is my angel numbers. 💖 I’m in adult children of alcoholics which is a 12 step recovery group & part of that is making amends and I’ve struggled so hard to think of people I owe an apology to because I’ve always been such a people pleaser and tried so hard not to step on peoples toes.
Dude, Lexi, I would LOVE if you did more topics like this. It's so frustrating how people don't take accountability for stuff, ain't none of us are innocent and perfect, but just because people get offended doesn't mean readers shouldn't explore topics like these, they're SO insightful and people can learn and grow so much from them. I've been absolutely loving these shadow-side readings from this past month and would TOTALLY love if you did more of these in the future as well: it's so refreshing to see reading topics like these instead of the same old stuff. I'm one of those people, and sure many others in your collective, that LOVE exploring our shadow sides and doing shadow work and take accountability for our stuff, so we would definitely support you if you explored these kinds of topics more!
this is why Lexi is my favorite in the game, she never misses with keeping the topics new and authentic. Especially in the spiritual community for all the inner work that we claim to do I see so many so called 'gurus' fall prey into that self righteous attitude that somehow they're better than everybody else because of XYZ. That just isn't the point. You cannot always be this super healing person to be around, everybody has bad days and everybody is bound to make mistakes. It's unavoidable but it's important to learn from them and grow.
Pile 2. There are so many people that come to mind. I wish I had treated them differently and gave them more time. Maybe open up to them by officially acknowledging our friendship with each other. If only I knew how to reach out in a non-awkward way.
Pile 1. Yes, I walked away from a very toxic environment. It was devastating for me and for the rest of the group in the pond. I hope they have healed. However, I don’t think the person in question will ever understand why I left. Not even if tried to explain to them now, one decade later.
Thank you, Lexi!❤🙏🏼🦋
I also chose pile 1, I walked away from a toxic relationship. It is sad to see that person still thinks I suddenly went cold instead of that person not understanding all the boundaries I set
Pile 4 - I started with resonating with more than one pile and thought, "ah I've done a lot of shit haven't I? haha". I was feeling a lot of guilt and shame for hurting people in the past because of being emotionally unstable and acting out of my traumas, hurting people along the way. I was very ready to take on whatever the messages come up with people feeling angry or hating on me. But pile 4 just went in a completely different direction and I wasn't ready to cry my eyes out. Who am I kidding, this is a Lexi reading, and it always brings a tear to my eyes. Lexi you're truly an alchemist, a transmuter of shadows, thank you for sharing your gifts
I second this ❤
#1 ❤ Spot on Lexi I'm a Aquarius sun & venus with a Gemini rising. I did walk away from a situation. Thank you for giving me clarity. 🕊
Thank you, Lexi! Pile 3 made perfect sense. I left my narcissistic family dynamic and I have sensed wondered if my golden child sibling is now the target for my parents toxicity. You validated my suspicions.
Pile 1 & 3. This should have been titled “Who THINKS You Owe Them An Apology.” 😹 Either we’re evolved aliens who’ve done the work or Lex Flex took it easy on us. 💚✨
ahaha love this comment, going into pile 3 now :D
Such a cool topic! I would love if tarot readings made the viewer be accountable one instead of the assumed victim. Always so impressed with your readings.
Yes I agree
Pile 1, makes sense to me. I can think of a few friends I've been a bit bad at keeping in touch with for 'life got cray' reasons, and I know I can be socially a bit skittish too. Didn't mean to ghost and some I might have had more reason to be wary than others but I regret that I fell off the face of the earth there.
Ouu this is a good one!!
Pile 4 resonated so much. Thank you.
Wow, this is so interesting. Thank you for the messages in pile 4✨☀️✨
This is actually a great topic!! ❤
Thank you so much Lexi, this reading was my suggestion! I’m so grateful that you helped us with receiving clarity about where we can still grow. To grow means that we are living. Also, I chose pile 3!
Lexi, your skills are on another level, I swear.
Also, p4, and I did finally text that friend. It's been half a year and I've managed to start coming out of my isolation hole piece by piece, but this dear friend was the last one I was too anxious to contact. The whole reading was CRAZY accurate.
My guides tell me who to walk away from. I never question them, I just do what they ask. It’s always interesting to listen to these types of readings though, because you see the other side of the coin. Thanks Lexi 🌻🍯🌻
#3, thank you 🌺🌸✨
This is a BEAUTIFUL inquiry. Thank you ❤
pile 1... omg lexi you're on another level 🦋🫨
the way i saw the title and knew all four piles would be for me 🫵
😂thank you Lexi! i love the topic x
Great topic.
It’s 12:30am. When I got ready for bed at 9. I couldn’t sleep so I tried to force it. Till minutes ago I said w.e. Got a snack and crave silence. Then felt called to finish this video. But I originally picked pile 2 but it did not resonate. Then I went back to see the shell for pile 4 looked like an upside down brain. I clicked on this pile. Couple minutes in I started crying when you said “I need to apologize to myself for thinking I am only worthy if I only show up for people”. Now I realized I was meant to process this right now which is a perfect time.
Appreciate you Lexi. Your readings are always the realest ones even tho I was so ready to take accountability for regardless of what this video was going to share with me. ❤
P2 omg lexi if you were in India I'd totally take you out for brunch/ meal as a gratitude for this reading❤❤❤
Pile 2. One of my closest friends from college. I still love him, but I chose the wrong guy. I chose lightning-fast passion over genuine intimacy. Hard lesson learned, but at the end of the day, I really hope that he finds a woman who will see in him what I saw too late, no questions asked ❤And it's taught me what to look for going forward, and what is truly valuable 😊
Thank you for taking the time to type this, it helped me a little. I am the other person for pile 2, and I hope they feel the same way as you expressed in this comment.
@subconsciouslyaware ❤️❤️❤️
Pile 4. Such a beautiful reading, thank you so much :')
Neat topic! 😊💖 thank you for taking your time to make your videos - helped me through many times of my life
Thank you Lexie, such a interesting and cool reading. Pile 1, I fully understand the message but have never thought about it in this way. Thank you! 🥰🙏🏻💖🌟
I’m pile four and I think this is a message for me regarding me and my 13 year old son 😢😔 I love you Lexi thank you
Very interesting topic….I love it
P2. He started playing these mind games, so I did choose someone else, myself
💜 Pile 💜 3💜 i really have no idea who this might be🤞 but i hope& pray the universe speak justice on their behalf.Most of my life has been (shnity)💩 & i 'd never wish this even on the worst person in my life. Thank you for this reading Lexi love🫂💞
Ohhhh this is going to be good.
Pile 4 thank you Lexi this is the message I needed! 💛
Yay!!! Thank you 💕😇 very healing 💕
Lexi i didnt want this to end. Could you do a reading "whats the most likely outcome of your current situation"
I have a lot going on with ALL aspects of my life work, family. Home, relationships, and even with my self. I could use some guidance here
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Hey beautiful Lexi thank you for this reading! why is it always the person that walks away from toxicity that gets called the villain? B/C we see through the BS and don’t want to be a part of it? It’s truly sad.
Thank you🖤
I'm soooo curious to see this one! Lil nervous now 😅❤
Pile 4. My on/off fiance died, it's only been a month. I've been drowning in trying to take care of myself, work, class etc and I just need me right now. But this was nice to know. Sometimes I forget people care cause it's not common where I live. As well as the reminder that I deserve support 🫶🏽
God this was hard. I'm so used to being a problem if I'm not "on." I always hermit when I'm not okay. Damn. I needed this reading. Tysm as always lex!
And of course you know me 😂🫶🏽
Pile two probably fits anybody I’ve ever been involved with romantically/sexually. I’m a Capricorn with an Aquarius stellium… very emotionally unavailable
Exactly same. I chose Pile 2. I did hurt him a lot . He only wanted love from me but I couldn't give him love back.
Pile 4 thank you 💜
Thats so good
A request please: what is the deal of devil's triangle ? Can we get some insight from spirits?
Those videos that you did for example the mermaid video and mother gaya video, were so cool
what an interesting pick a card topic.
omg I love this!
Pile 3 + 4. Thank you honey. 🎃🥰💗
PUT ME IN MY PLACE, PLEASE!!!
Lmao I actually feel apologetic brugh, I'm sorry! I didn't mean to!
Pile #2 & #4.
Hey Lexi, this is the first time that I find a reversal in readings with you, the person that you described was totally me, does that mean that someone's trying weird tricks on me again or 🙄?
Thanks, have a lovely day🌼
Chose pile 4 ❤
pile 1
Oh hellll nawww 👀👀 I clicked this so fast
Haaaa, pile 1. I'm not apologizing to that asshole 🤣 He knew what he was doing and got all butthurt that I saw right through him and took my next exit asap. He should be apologizing to me ❤
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