#1. Thank you. It’s so accurate. I poured into him and got depleted and exhausted. I realised I have ppl fixing wound and tanking in others emotions (weak boundaries). He is very opportunistic; was raised in a very religious family; says a lot, does little of it (action matter more than words). And you’re right, he thinks he can change “enough”, and come back. Yet we are - you say - very diffent, I lead in my life with my heart and do whatever it tells me. He loves it, but im not sure if he has the courage to do it himself. I knew, by heart, I needed to let him go if not I mess with his path (I felt he needs to go and spread his wings on his own), in particular He really just relaxed into getting nurtured/cared and gets lazy. Yet we felt love for each other but it’s not sustainable as I deserve an equally caring, nurturing, and providing person.
Pile 2.🤍Thank you Lexi 🫶 this brought me a lot of understanding, validation and at some point I think comfort will set in too. The comfort of knowing I'm doing the right thing for myself and not second guessing myself. The other person is a parent so I think I'm always going to feel sadness around this situation but then sadness and grief are things you're supposed to feel when you lose someone important. But I couldn't stay stuck in that dynamic anymore because it would always be me making the sacrifices. And for once in my life I needed to put myself first and make my mental health and healing a priority. Hope you are doing well too🫶😘
much love to you. it's never easy to get through to parents when a toxic dynamic has been normalized and you try to bring attention to it. asking for a little space from them doesn't negate the fact that you'll always wish the best for them, so focus on your growth for now and continue to ask the universe for clarity
Pile #1: This is all perfectly true for me. I'm so glad your beautiful cat came to lie across the cards like she did. It meant a lot to me! I took this as a personal message from my deceased cat, with whom I had a very deep connection, and who was like a daughter to me. She was 20 years old when she passed away and she was also more or less black. This was important to me because the person I thought of for this reading was my adult daughter, who chose to distance herself from me some 10 years ago. We still meet regularly but we are distant in all but physical contact. The cat message was a means of reassuring me that I do still have another daughter in spirit whose love never failed and who is still always there for me no matter what. Thank you for all this, Lexi. It means a lot. 😾😻
I understand the loss of both your genetic family and maybe more important your beautiful feline daughter. I too am walking a similar path. I lost my soul pup my daughter Madison 4 yrs ago. So I understand just how Strong You are. How deeply You love. How much you Care. Thank you for coming to Gaia. Your frequency of love can only be helping to lift the frequency of our mother. Thank you for choosing to walk this path this lifetime for so many epic reasons thank you🙏💛
Pile 1: it amazes me how accurate you always are, to the T! Even the metaphors you use are the same I use to describe the situation. Amazing! Same words and expressions as well. 🤣 Luna was giving us the message: “put the situation at rest” , haha! Such a wise cat. Thank you so very much for taking the time to share your gifts with us. 💖
Reading No. 2 I can’t believe how much your Tarot reading explains exactly what happened and really shows the differences from the two people’s perspectives, as if you know both of us really well. This person is emotionally immature. Your reading really clarified to me the mysterious part that I couldn’t see. I felt a deep spiritual connection through this reading. I tend not to be attached if I do not feel a deep spiritual connection with the reading, but this was very good and I felt a spiritual connection. Lexi, you are a special person. I hope one day to meet you in reality. All my love and respect for you. I saw you in a daydream wearing white dresses. I hope you are well. 😊
Pile 2: Wow, this was so accurate. Relating to my bff of 10+ years, we went to college together. I've been on my spiritual journey for about 4 years now and I've been trying get our relationship to evolve/grow up. Eventually I just gave up...
Pile 1 - totally resonated with my situation, thank you so much for new insights and also confirming some things! Honestly, Luna laying down throughout the reading and then falling asleep may have been the best part about the reading even though it was perfectly accurate 😬 I don’t know why but this made me sooooo happy ❤️
Pile 2 chose me. I knew what you would say but really really just needed to hear it out of another's mouth. I have been finding myself holding my breath hoping praying I could ascend with at least a single person. I knew the rest of my family is out. By their choice however I was holding onto the hope my mother would meet me half way. UHG... this is not the case. I am watching this unfold in the same manner it did with the rest of my family. They do in fact act like I'm attacking them trying to steal their world as they know it. I'm only asking to be respected to not be talked down to or attacked and to accept my work with spirit and my gifts because this IS simply who I AM. You're right. It's just too inconvenient for them. If I look at it the way you said I can understand a bit more. I gave they took this was the arrangement has been my entire incarnation. My gifts are to be used for the "family" only. I'm owned. I'ts a Gilded cage. I finally decided to open the cage door (because as we all know the door never existed), I didn't fly away I stayed near choosing to hangout on a limb for a while hoping she would see the door isn't real nor is the gilded cage they have become so attached to having. Ya.... that's not working lol and I knew it wouldn't but my human brain couldn't just fly away. It can be quite annoying when you know how it will all play out but you still choose to go through the lesson. I already passed the test but lets continue to take refresher courses..uh NO! lol My human brain is now acclimating to what my soul wants but it would be wonderful if I could just listen when my higher self speaks. Ahhh it's like i'm a child and don't want to listen to the one in charge who knows whats up. I guess my human self likes to throw a bit of a tantrum when not getting the result she wants. I'm now feeling settled in this and that is because of your reading. I now know theirs nothing I can do. It will always come across as me attacking. I understand that our frequencies are just too far apart. Again I knew this but didn't want it to be the result. Hmmm OK maybe I'm an Idealist lol I need to understand that the "nuclear family" is just complete crap and that we make our own. We choose who we want not who we came here with. If you're blessed this immediate family will be the one that wants you and you want them but I think it's more common that we feel the "need" for each other but have no want no actual desire to know each other. And this is OK. I need to be OK with being that person who has no emergency contact lol because this too is normal. Thank you is NEVER enough. You helped me get fully free. The cord I cut long ago and as it fell I panicked and reached out grabbing onto it not wanting to be alone because what does this say about me? But Lexi what does it say about my Family? Why do I think they not being capable of loving me means I am not lovable? I know this is not true and I know they are hard to love. So I am clear now. I see that I need to jump stop straddling my timelines and put the other leg into it so I can stand firm in my foundation remembering that I am not responsible for their towers.THANK YOU!!!! Blessed be Always Light/Shadow Warrior🙏💛💛💛
Pile 2: this turned out to be about an older friendship and it really had me realizing more things like uncovering really deep lessons/gems from that dynamic after mostly healing and moving on from it. It's amazing how you can always go deeper! Thanks so much for this super helpful reading! 🥰
I chose pile 1 for my relationship & honestly I feel like the other person, and my boyfriend feels more like person 1. It definitely resonates a lot which is unfortunate because I wish I weren’t so much like that
#1 this actually resonated almost too much but your reassurance in the beginning finally let me take the blame and anger off myself for trying to be their friend, thank you
Yes, Pile 2. This HELPS. Although Everything Happened well over 10 years ago...the Event was LIFE CHANGING and There is Still Friction, but I have learned ALOT...Im Not the Same person bc of it and I No Longer give Free Rent space in my thoughts about this...I Just ACCEPT IT and Am Only Listening bc its Your Reading, SO I knew it would be Very Original/Informative And bc of.the Extreme Divine Timing of thar Prior Cycle and today is the last. Day of Summer Solstice 2024❤️ Your Reading definitely did Not Disappoint. Thank You and Blessings, Dear Lexi♥️♥️♥️
Pile 3 Lexi, you have confirmed a lot for me. I didn't walk away at first, they cut me off and blocked me because they were mad at my mother and I got lumped in with their issues. This was my older sister. She was always negative and I tried to love her through her faults and accept her. But I betrayed my heart out of my love for her. Them cutting me off was heart breaking. It took me a few years to heal and do my own shadow work to realize I was feeling low self worth. I still value our time together and wish I defended myself more and told them to watch how they speak to me! So I know I had a part in it as well. But I won't be the one to reach out. She has done this and I never blocked her, I always left the door open. After 3 years I finally said okay, you don't miss me enough to want to heal it, so I have decided to close the door and move on with my life. She would have to do some major healing before I would even consider a relationship again. After 5 years now I don't see us ever being that close again. I am a very spiritual person and they have latched on to religion and become very closed off. I always have hope, wish them to find their truth. ❤ We are all awakening at different levels at different times. I appreciate the lessons they have taught me. Thanks Lexi for doing this reading. I had an inner guidance on this issue and you have confirmed it. 🥰💓💜😇✨
Pile 3: I’m not happy about this. Like that didn’t make me feel any better. I helped him and he didn’t help me at all. Like I gave him the ability to treat others better?????????? And now I stand up for myself??? Like no I don’t I still give him all the power. I still let him walk all over me. It makes me hate him if that’s true. Like he doesn’t deserve that lesson he doesn’t deserve happiness because of me. Aka he used me to learn a lesson. And I didn’t learn anything cause I’m still chasing fairytales. Still letting him in . He didn’t learn anything and neither did I. We are both still alone. And to use the mistakes he made with me as catalyst to create better relationships makes me sick.
Oh goodness... I've been here before and I feel your pain. It's a very selfless thing to open someone else's heart to love and kindness after they use and abuse us, because all we get as a thank you is trust issues and their wounds. Whether or not they recognize what you did, I hope you never deprive yourself of the credit you deserve. Healing and softness is in your nature, and you deserve to be healed as much as anyone else. Journal about how you feel, say it aloud if that's what it takes. What helped me was trying to focus on getting to a place where I just felt neutral about it, and reminding myself that I deserve more than what they could give at the time. Much love
Thank you lexi, i had a big blow up with my mother this week and ive needed guidance and this is what i needed to confirm. I approached it with love and she came with personal attacks and wounds and it was horrible 😢
I am preparing no contact. I was wondering how you went about it? Did you tell them you are walking or just go? I want this to be as clean and painless as possible for all hearts involved but I need to not ever have contact. No worries if you feel it's too personal. Just have no one to speak with that has done this. Thank you for sharing and your time 🙏💛
Don’t inform them, don’t reveal your plans. Ofcourse, a lot depends on in which stage you are and what’s the nature of relationship, but these people will ruin your plans if you tell them. They don’t see the good and the bad the way we see it, they just want to control everything.
@@Auro77 Yes your'e completely right. Control tactics and manipulation all the way to just straight sabotage is always on the menu for them. Thank You for reaching out with your wisdom and thank you for sharing your truth. It has a greater positive impact then you know. Blessed Be Always
@@linseyorman6113 be prepared and have an exit strategy. I agree with @Auro77 to keep your plans to yourself. You will have to block their phone number, block their email, block them on social media . Make sure they do not have a line to you at all. Stay strong and do not break the no contact. You will need time away from the narc to process what happened to you. They excel at mind control, you will need significant time away to get clarity. I wish you luck!
Lexi you're actually incredible - I picked pile 1 for my ex (I broke up with him after catching a whiff of him being a cheater and turned out he did. With his lvl of narcissism, he could think he'd have another chance but there's no way in hell..) and pile 3 for my mom who was abusive but thinks of me fondly so it's really hard to keep a relationship with her since she doesn't do confrontations.... the word vomit is so accurate I can't 😭she's recently started to realize certain things that happened in my childhood and how she dealt with them. It's nice to hear that she didn't do these things out of spite but it was just out of her own traumas - so therapeutic.. thank you :)
Pile 1 here! Thank you ☺ this brings some form of closure since they ultimately passed away. I moved on and did no contact they in the other hand never got their 'one day' moment I guess. I think relationships like these just come to teach you to have better boundaries, have more self-love and don't take people at face value. Actions speak louder than words.
Lexi I know you've been receiving a lot of notifs from your channel. I just wanted to take this time to thank you for doing this type of reading. I picked pile 2 and right off the bat my mom and I had the biggest argument and had a fall off. She couldn't meet me where I'm at. Just as you've explained abou the other person's feelings, flashbacks from the argument came back exactly as how you've described it (especially with the other person's feelings). I remembered seeing her like this and I felt unfairness because despite my efforts to find a common ground for us, she couldn't see or hear my side. So I pulled back. All this time I thought i don't have the right to 'act out' and react the way I did. So thank you for this reading. I feel validated that somewhere out there I'm not alone for ever feeling this way. Ps. I've been wanting to request this type of reading from you for a while now but couldn't seem to word it out that would make sense. Glad you uploaded this 🙏🏼🩷🫶
This is such a DEEP reading for me. Provided the clarity I had already come to. The energy from Luna helped SO much, too! Thank you so so much Lexi for your gift. Inspiring me to begin my TH-cam channel. Thank you Divine source. What an amazing day, today had been for me. Wow!😊 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
tough and very accurate reading 😢 it helped me process some feelings and come to a different perspective. still so hard to move on and grow sometimes… thank you lexi! 🩷
Hi Lexie, Pile #2here. It’s been two years since I went no contact with my best friend of 15yrs and I was hurting today and needed some perspective on the situation. Thank you so much for the validation and closure I needed ❤. Also as a Leo I loved that Luna showed up (my person is an Aries btw)
Hello! I’ve been watching your readings for a while now and I’ve been getting Luna and your grandmother showing up in the piles I’m choosing. I picked Pile 1 so I’m happy to see Luna again while watching. Please say hi to her for me! Thank you both for your energies. Luna I don’t know you but I love you!
At this point, our spirit guides might as well scream at us for not making things work out but I just can't take it anymore. As much as we are family, I'm tired of taking on their healing, trying to be the person they want me to be, and I'm tired of trying to be heard for asking for the bare minimum. It's too big a familial wound for me to heal alone and everyone else has given up. I'm just going to let crap hit the fan for not listening to me and let them learn by themselves, even if it burns me in the process. They'll literally only learn my importance once we've parted ways.
Let the Tower fall. It's scary and if you can't do it (like me) then ask Ganesha to help you. I promise yes it hurts but you will look around the rubble and realize that YOU are the only one standing on a foundation. A foundation that is not theirs they have not done the work. Because you have your foundation yes it will hurt but you will grow, you will be free. Allow them to fall. Mourne the loss keep the love you have for them in your heart and make room for the soul family who is waiting for you. Don't waste your time like me on people who have no interest in bettering themselves or showing you your worth and knowing theirs. You are more tired than you can understand from holding so many towers up for others. Set them down and move forward with your foundation. You deserve Everything you desire. Now make room for it. My prayers are with you🙏💛
Pile 1: It’s kinda funny, I mean I’m crying but it’s so accurate… This is a childhood best friend I grew up with. Friends since kindergarten. We’re 20 now. I never really realized that I could have been an emotional escape for them, but considering they are a gemini sun and aquarius moon, and I a taurus sun and cancer moon, it sort of makes sense, I guess I always thought there was something in them that I lacked, but maybe they felt the same way about me. (I’m also a scorpio rising so they’re moon falls right in my 4th house and I hold so much love for them). Really we were planning to have me come over to their house and sleep over which was even her idea, but I was ghosted after asking what time I should show up, I kept holding onto hope thinking it must be something going on but it’s been 3 days now since we were supposed to meet up and I’m still not getting any response whatsoever. This isn’t even the first time I’ve had plans and her or her twin had cancelled on me, pushed it back, or just ghost me like this. And really I felt like there had to be something going on, but there was just no communication and I was scared it was something I said. I’ve been ranting and I haven’t even watched the full thing yet, but just thank you so much.
QUEEN LEXI POSTED!! YESS!!! Wishing you well n sending so much love🌿🌿🤍🤍 also Luna falling asleep in the reading of pile 1 felt very comforting, its always beautiful to see your cats guarding the readings!
#1. Thank you. It’s so accurate. I poured into him and got depleted and exhausted. I realised I have ppl fixing wound and tanking in others emotions (weak boundaries). He is very opportunistic; was raised in a very religious family; says a lot, does little of it (action matter more than words). And you’re right, he thinks he can change “enough”, and come back. Yet we are - you say - very diffent, I lead in my life with my heart and do whatever it tells me. He loves it, but im not sure if he has the courage to do it himself. I knew, by heart, I needed to let him go if not I mess with his path (I felt he needs to go and spread his wings on his own), in particular He really just relaxed into getting nurtured/cared and gets lazy. Yet we felt love for each other but it’s not sustainable as I deserve an equally caring, nurturing, and providing person.
Pile 2.🤍Thank you Lexi 🫶 this brought me a lot of understanding, validation and at some point I think comfort will set in too. The comfort of knowing I'm doing the right thing for myself and not second guessing myself. The other person is a parent so I think I'm always going to feel sadness around this situation but then sadness and grief are things you're supposed to feel when you lose someone important. But I couldn't stay stuck in that dynamic anymore because it would always be me making the sacrifices. And for once in my life I needed to put myself first and make my mental health and healing a priority. Hope you are doing well too🫶😘
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much love to you. it's never easy to get through to parents when a toxic dynamic has been normalized and you try to bring attention to it. asking for a little space from them doesn't negate the fact that you'll always wish the best for them, so focus on your growth for now and continue to ask the universe for clarity
Aho & Amen to that..!!!
Pile #1: This is all perfectly true for me. I'm so glad your beautiful cat came to lie across the cards like she did. It meant a lot to me! I took this as a personal message from my deceased cat, with whom I had a very deep connection, and who was like a daughter to me. She was 20 years old when she passed away and she was also more or less black. This was important to me because the person I thought of for this reading was my adult daughter, who chose to distance herself from me some 10 years ago. We still meet regularly but we are distant in all but physical contact. The cat message was a means of reassuring me that I do still have another daughter in spirit whose love never failed and who is still always there for me no matter what. Thank you for all this, Lexi. It means a lot. 😾😻
I understand the loss of both your genetic family and maybe more important your beautiful feline daughter. I too am walking a similar path. I lost my soul pup my daughter Madison 4 yrs ago. So I understand just how Strong You are. How deeply You love. How much you Care. Thank you for coming to Gaia. Your frequency of love can only be helping to lift the frequency of our mother. Thank you for choosing to walk this path this lifetime for so many epic reasons thank you🙏💛
@@linseyorman6113 So very sorry for your loss. And thank you so much for your words of encouragement. You're very kind. ❤💞
Pile 1: it amazes me how accurate you always are, to the T! Even the metaphors you use are the same I use to describe the situation. Amazing! Same words and expressions as well. 🤣 Luna was giving us the message: “put the situation at rest” , haha! Such a wise cat. Thank you so very much for taking the time to share your gifts with us. 💖
Pile 2: thank you so much for this reading! Enough was enough.. that’s all I’m going to say. Thank you! 💜💫
Reading No. 2 I can’t believe how much your Tarot reading explains exactly what happened and really shows the differences from the two people’s perspectives, as if you know both of us really well. This person is emotionally immature. Your reading really clarified to me the mysterious part that I couldn’t see. I felt a deep spiritual connection through this reading. I tend not to be attached if I do not feel a deep spiritual connection with the reading, but this was very good and I felt a spiritual connection. Lexi, you are a special person. I hope one day to meet you in reality. All my love and respect for you. I saw you in a daydream wearing white dresses. I hope you are well. 😊
Pile 2: Wow, this was so accurate. Relating to my bff of 10+ years, we went to college together. I've been on my spiritual journey for about 4 years now and I've been trying get our relationship to evolve/grow up. Eventually I just gave up...
Pile 1 - totally resonated with my situation, thank you so much for new insights and also confirming some things! Honestly, Luna laying down throughout the reading and then falling asleep may have been the best part about the reading even though it was perfectly accurate 😬 I don’t know why but this made me sooooo happy ❤️
Pile 1. Couldn’t not have heard better words and gotten a better sense of perspective during this time.
Pule 3. Accurate as always. Thank you so much lovely.
Pile 2 chose me. I knew what you would say but really really just needed to hear it out of another's mouth. I have been finding myself holding my breath hoping praying I could ascend with at least a single person. I knew the rest of my family is out. By their choice however I was holding onto the hope my mother would meet me half way. UHG... this is not the case. I am watching this unfold in the same manner it did with the rest of my family. They do in fact act like I'm attacking them trying to steal their world as they know it. I'm only asking to be respected to not be talked down to or attacked and to accept my work with spirit and my gifts because this IS simply who I AM. You're right. It's just too inconvenient for them. If I look at it the way you said I can understand a bit more. I gave they took this was the arrangement has been my entire incarnation. My gifts are to be used for the "family" only. I'm owned. I'ts a Gilded cage. I finally decided to open the cage door (because as we all know the door never existed), I didn't fly away I stayed near choosing to hangout on a limb for a while hoping she would see the door isn't real nor is the gilded cage they have become so attached to having. Ya.... that's not working lol and I knew it wouldn't but my human brain couldn't just fly away. It can be quite annoying when you know how it will all play out but you still choose to go through the lesson. I already passed the test but lets continue to take refresher courses..uh NO! lol My human brain is now acclimating to what my soul wants but it would be wonderful if I could just listen when my higher self speaks. Ahhh it's like i'm a child and don't want to listen to the one in charge who knows whats up. I guess my human self likes to throw a bit of a tantrum when not getting the result she wants.
I'm now feeling settled in this and that is because of your reading. I now know theirs nothing I can do. It will always come across as me attacking. I understand that our frequencies are just too far apart. Again I knew this but didn't want it to be the result. Hmmm OK maybe I'm an Idealist lol I need to understand that the "nuclear family" is just complete crap and that we make our own. We choose who we want not who we came here with. If you're blessed this immediate family will be the one that wants you and you want them but I think it's more common that we feel the "need" for each other but have no want no actual desire to know each other. And this is OK. I need to be OK with being that person who has no emergency contact lol because this too is normal. Thank you is NEVER enough. You helped me get fully free. The cord I cut long ago and as it fell I panicked and reached out grabbing onto it not wanting to be alone because what does this say about me? But Lexi what does it say about my Family? Why do I think they not being capable of loving me means I am not lovable? I know this is not true and I know they are hard to love. So I am clear now. I see that I need to jump stop straddling my timelines and put the other leg into it so I can stand firm in my foundation remembering that I am not responsible for their towers.THANK YOU!!!! Blessed be Always Light/Shadow Warrior🙏💛💛💛
Mothers.... Mothers.... Narcissistic mothers!
Same here. ✋🏼
Pile 2: I feel ten of wands for their perspective, is also because they're too busy with their own burdens to notice yours.
Pile 2: this turned out to be about an older friendship and it really had me realizing more things like uncovering really deep lessons/gems from that dynamic after mostly healing and moving on from it. It's amazing how you can always go deeper! Thanks so much for this super helpful reading! 🥰
Girl you are so gifted. You’re spot on I ended a 12yr friendship and went no contact because of boundaries. Pile #2
I chose pile 1 for my relationship & honestly I feel like the other person, and my boyfriend feels more like person 1. It definitely resonates a lot which is unfortunate because I wish I weren’t so much like that
#1 this actually resonated almost too much but your reassurance in the beginning finally let me take the blame and anger off myself for trying to be their friend, thank you
Pile 2- amazing! Thank you so much Lexi, your readings always come at the right time and resonate so much 🫶 Loved the visit from Luna 🐈⬛
Yes, Pile 2. This HELPS. Although Everything Happened well over 10 years ago...the Event was LIFE CHANGING and There is Still Friction, but I have learned ALOT...Im Not the Same person bc of it and I No Longer give Free Rent space in my thoughts about this...I Just ACCEPT IT and Am Only Listening bc its Your Reading, SO I knew it would be Very Original/Informative And bc of.the Extreme Divine Timing of thar Prior Cycle and today is the last. Day of Summer Solstice 2024❤️ Your Reading definitely did Not Disappoint. Thank You and Blessings, Dear Lexi♥️♥️♥️
So accurate I couldn’t have chosen a more relevant pile #3
pile 3, thank you 🤍🤍🤍
Pile 3 Lexi, you have confirmed a lot for me. I didn't walk away at first, they cut me off and blocked me because they were mad at my mother and I got lumped in with their issues. This was my older sister. She was always negative and I tried to love her through her faults and accept her. But I betrayed my heart out of my love for her. Them cutting me off was heart breaking. It took me a few years to heal and do my own shadow work to realize I was feeling low self worth. I still value our time together and wish I defended myself more and told them to watch how they speak to me! So I know I had a part in it as well. But I won't be the one to reach out. She has done this and I never blocked her, I always left the door open. After 3 years I finally said okay, you don't miss me enough to want to heal it, so I have decided to close the door and move on with my life. She would have to do some major healing before I would even consider a relationship again. After 5 years now I don't see us ever being that close again. I am a very spiritual person and they have latched on to religion and become very closed off. I always have hope, wish them to find their truth. ❤ We are all awakening at different levels at different times. I appreciate the lessons they have taught me. Thanks Lexi for doing this reading. I had an inner guidance on this issue and you have confirmed it. 🥰💓💜😇✨
Pile 3: I’m not happy about this. Like that didn’t make me feel any better. I helped him and he didn’t help me at all. Like I gave him the ability to treat others better?????????? And now I stand up for myself??? Like no I don’t I still give him all the power. I still let him walk all over me. It makes me hate him if that’s true. Like he doesn’t deserve that lesson he doesn’t deserve happiness because of me. Aka he used me to learn a lesson. And I didn’t learn anything cause I’m still chasing fairytales. Still letting him in . He didn’t learn anything and neither did I. We are both still alone. And to use the mistakes he made with me as catalyst to create better relationships makes me sick.
Oh goodness... I've been here before and I feel your pain. It's a very selfless thing to open someone else's heart to love and kindness after they use and abuse us, because all we get as a thank you is trust issues and their wounds. Whether or not they recognize what you did, I hope you never deprive yourself of the credit you deserve. Healing and softness is in your nature, and you deserve to be healed as much as anyone else. Journal about how you feel, say it aloud if that's what it takes. What helped me was trying to focus on getting to a place where I just felt neutral about it, and reminding myself that I deserve more than what they could give at the time. Much love
Thank you lexi, i had a big blow up with my mother this week and ive needed guidance and this is what i needed to confirm. I approached it with love and she came with personal attacks and wounds and it was horrible 😢
What a cutie! 🐈⬛🥰 Hello to Luna😊
Pile 2. I was raised by narcissists. It has almost been 1 year of me going no contact. Best decision of my life. Thank you for this reading!
I am preparing no contact. I was wondering how you went about it? Did you tell them you are walking or just go? I want this to be as clean and painless as possible for all hearts involved but I need to not ever have contact. No worries if you feel it's too personal. Just have no one to speak with that has done this. Thank you for sharing and your time 🙏💛
Don’t inform them, don’t reveal your plans. Ofcourse, a lot depends on in which stage you are and what’s the nature of relationship, but these people will ruin your plans if you tell them. They don’t see the good and the bad the way we see it, they just want to control everything.
@@Auro77 Yes your'e completely right. Control tactics and manipulation all the way to just straight sabotage is always on the menu for them. Thank You for reaching out with your wisdom and thank you for sharing your truth. It has a greater positive impact then you know. Blessed Be Always
@@linseyorman6113 Glad to be of help.
Good luck and God bless you 🙏
@@linseyorman6113 be prepared and have an exit strategy. I agree with @Auro77 to keep your plans to yourself. You will have to block their phone number, block their email, block them on social media . Make sure they do not have a line to you at all. Stay strong and do not break the no contact. You will need time away from the narc to process what happened to you. They excel at mind control, you will need significant time away to get clarity. I wish you luck!
Pile 2 this is exactly how it went down
Pile 2 was very accurate for me. ❤
#3 accurate. Thank you!
Pile 2 really sounds like our relationship
Lexi you're actually incredible - I picked pile 1 for my ex (I broke up with him after catching a whiff of him being a cheater and turned out he did. With his lvl of narcissism, he could think he'd have another chance but there's no way in hell..) and pile 3 for my mom who was abusive but thinks of me fondly so it's really hard to keep a relationship with her since she doesn't do confrontations.... the word vomit is so accurate I can't 😭she's recently started to realize certain things that happened in my childhood and how she dealt with them. It's nice to hear that she didn't do these things out of spite but it was just out of her own traumas - so therapeutic.. thank you :)
So firstly group2 is so on point, described the story of my life lol. And secondly, Luna seems to always come in the pile i pick. 😂✨👀🩵🔮🎁❤️🔥
Pile 1 here! Thank you ☺ this brings some form of closure since they ultimately passed away. I moved on and did no contact they in the other hand never got their 'one day' moment I guess. I think relationships like these just come to teach you to have better boundaries, have more self-love and don't take people at face value. Actions speak louder than words.
Actions speak louder than words. Amen.
Lexi I know you've been receiving a lot of notifs from your channel. I just wanted to take this time to thank you for doing this type of reading. I picked pile 2 and right off the bat my mom and I had the biggest argument and had a fall off. She couldn't meet me where I'm at. Just as you've explained abou the other person's feelings, flashbacks from the argument came back exactly as how you've described it (especially with the other person's feelings). I remembered seeing her like this and I felt unfairness because despite my efforts to find a common ground for us, she couldn't see or hear my side. So I pulled back. All this time I thought i don't have the right to 'act out' and react the way I did. So thank you for this reading. I feel validated that somewhere out there I'm not alone for ever feeling this way.
Ps. I've been wanting to request this type of reading from you for a while now but couldn't seem to word it out that would make sense. Glad you uploaded this 🙏🏼🩷🫶
Advice from the higher perspective- part 2 for this reading please
Wow you literally pulled all the cards from my last situationship in pile 1 😮
Luna is such a sweet pudding 😭💖 absolutely adorable, love having her energy in the reading 😍
Love it when you fur baby appears in the readings! So blessed!😄❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow Lexi, pile 1 was absolutely spot on. Thank you for this ❤
lexi ur readings are so scarily accurate everytime ❤ truly are a gift to this universe, thankyou for sharing !
Pile 2 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 so accurate ❤❤❤
This is such a DEEP reading for me.
Provided the clarity I had already come to.
The energy from Luna helped SO much, too!
Thank you so so much Lexi for your gift.
Inspiring me to begin my TH-cam channel.
Thank you Divine source.
What an amazing day, today had been for me. Wow!😊
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Pile 1 bar for bar 100% accurate
Thank you as always Lexi 🫶🏼
My head is aching from nodding yes yes yes😂😂😂😂 how so accurate? Were you there?😂
Love the three views type of reading! Thank you 💕
tough and very accurate reading 😢 it helped me process some feelings and come to a different perspective. still so hard to move on and grow sometimes… thank you lexi! 🩷
This reading was super healing
Pile#2 😮 Wow Lexi, your channeling skills are off the charts AMAZING! You are an inspiration. Thank you so much for this reading. 💚
Hi Lexie, Pile #2here. It’s been two years since I went no contact with my best friend of 15yrs and I was hurting today and needed some perspective on the situation. Thank you so much for the validation and closure I needed ❤. Also as a Leo I loved that Luna showed up (my person is an Aries btw)
I luv your readings and when Luna drops in to say hi 🥹
Pile 1. Resonate❤️🙏🏻
Firstly I loved the topic, and it was so timely for my life❤ and you were so accurate as always, thank you 🍀🙏🏼
Hello! I’ve been watching your readings for a while now and I’ve been getting Luna and your grandmother showing up in the piles I’m choosing. I picked Pile 1 so I’m happy to see Luna again while watching. Please say hi to her for me! Thank you both for your energies. Luna I don’t know you but I love you!
What a reading!
Accurate as the sun. 😇
OMGGGG this is so accurate ?!!!!!
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At this point, our spirit guides might as well scream at us for not making things work out but I just can't take it anymore. As much as we are family, I'm tired of taking on their healing, trying to be the person they want me to be, and I'm tired of trying to be heard for asking for the bare minimum. It's too big a familial wound for me to heal alone and everyone else has given up. I'm just going to let crap hit the fan for not listening to me and let them learn by themselves, even if it burns me in the process. They'll literally only learn my importance once we've parted ways.
Let the Tower fall. It's scary and if you can't do it (like me) then ask Ganesha to help you. I promise yes it hurts but you will look around the rubble and realize that YOU are the only one standing on a foundation. A foundation that is not theirs they have not done the work. Because you have your foundation yes it will hurt but you will grow, you will be free. Allow them to fall. Mourne the loss keep the love you have for them in your heart and make room for the soul family who is waiting for you. Don't waste your time like me on people who have no interest in bettering themselves or showing you your worth and knowing theirs. You are more tired than you can understand from holding so many towers up for others. Set them down and move forward with your foundation. You deserve Everything you desire. Now make room for it. My prayers are with you🙏💛
Thank you Luna for blessings us with your beautiful presence. You are a gorgeous lady🖤queen😚
Love seeing your cats every time 🙌🏼
This is such a fantastic topic, thank you!!
Oh my god I love your cat 😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻
Pile 1 thank you Lexi ❤
Spot on. Sister though #1
Thank youuuu ❤❤❤
Thank you beautiful lexi
pile 2: 100%
Pile 2
Beautiful reading and decks. Does anyone know what deck is being used for the Birds Eye view?
Thank you dear Lexi
Deeply thankful ❤
Pile 3 simply amazing!! Loved this topic ... it helped me to understand him better ❤
Pile 1: It’s kinda funny, I mean I’m crying but it’s so accurate… This is a childhood best friend I grew up with. Friends since kindergarten. We’re 20 now. I never really realized that I could have been an emotional escape for them, but considering they are a gemini sun and aquarius moon, and I a taurus sun and cancer moon, it sort of makes sense, I guess I always thought there was something in them that I lacked, but maybe they felt the same way about me. (I’m also a scorpio rising so they’re moon falls right in my 4th house and I hold so much love for them). Really we were planning to have me come over to their house and sleep over which was even her idea, but I was ghosted after asking what time I should show up, I kept holding onto hope thinking it must be something going on but it’s been 3 days now since we were supposed to meet up and I’m still not getting any response whatsoever. This isn’t even the first time I’ve had plans and her or her twin had cancelled on me, pushed it back, or just ghost me like this. And really I felt like there had to be something going on, but there was just no communication and I was scared it was something I said. I’ve been ranting and I haven’t even watched the full thing yet, but just thank you so much.
Pile #1 He wasted all my time then married the next woman he dated. I will NEVER see or speak to him for the rest of eternity!
This is scarily accurate!!! Word for word is my entire situation omg😭😭😭😭
Luna reads tarot too. She reads with her tail.
P.S.: apparently she reads tarot with her bum as well.
pile 2, 3, 1
Pile 2, bingo! Totally on point! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤍
Your cat is a vibe. 😂❤
Amazing
n3 the spider and the tiger
Luna 🥹❤️
QUEEN LEXI POSTED!! YESS!!! Wishing you well n sending so much love🌿🌿🤍🤍 also Luna falling asleep in the reading of pile 1 felt very comforting, its always beautiful to see your cats guarding the readings!
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Ahh spirit guides are confusing me aaaaaabhhbh
Btw its so loving reading lexo thank you so much ❤❤
Pile 2 HVP-at_a/JX. Thank you 💜
Pile 2 was very accurate for me. ❤
Pile 2 was very accurate for me. ❤