Bride RIPS Sample Dress (And Her Mum Hates Everything She Likes) | Say Yes To The Dress
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A bride is distraught after she rips a sample dress she really liked, and matters aren’t improved by the dismissive tone of her mother, that hates every dress she likes!
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Mums, that laugh at how their daughters look in their dresses are cruel and mean spirited especially, if they have body confidence issues. I’ll never understand how a mother can be so willing, to hurt their daughter’s feelings without any conscience.
It's really sad how many mothers there are who leap at the chance to cut their daughters down
The mother is probably the reason the bride had confidence issues.
Agreed. I suspect she was bullied and put down a lot!
My mom was like that
YEAH, it would be different to me if her mom was fit and sexy. She has no leg to stand on. 😏
There’s a line between telling the truth and being disrespectful. Jessica’s mother was rude. Jessica is not even “big”; wedding dresses have weird sizing. I’m glad Jessica finally found the dress for HER.
On the first dress Mom is ignoring the fact the "real" dress will be larger and the bust will actually fit much better. Then there will be the alterations which will make sure the dress fits appropriately. She's just ignoring inconvenient facts she wants to ignore.
The mom was right the dresses weren't flattering
Mom IS mean. 😮
Her mother was awful!! I didn't hear her ask one time if her daughter even LIKED one of the dresses or not... It made me so angry when she laughed at her daughter!! It's too bad she couldn't have just left her mother at home.👎🏻!!
@@Mon67ica
You are so right!!
"She looks good; it's surprising!" WTH?!?! How could a mother even SAY that about her child?! I just... just... 😩 How cruel!
Ikr? What a c***.
the mother is jealous
Because the mother is a NARCISSIST. These women are selfish, self-centered, mean, and jealous of their daughters. My mother was this way too.
Exactly!! Its preposterous!🤯
They edited it
"Her stomach is sticking out"
Excuse me ma'am, everyone's stomach sticks out.
Which - and I speak as someone who is herself more football shaped nowadays following a permanent back injury - is all the more reason *not* to wear a dress style that gives a stomach to people who don't actually have one, like this lady doesn't. Yet despite that she doesn't, and that she has a great figure, at 3:14, that bunched up fabric above the motif on the skirt gave a really weird fold, like there was a load of her hanging down behind it. Mermaids are rarely flattering on anybody, short of the very few. The one she picked was lovely, it flattered her in all the right places and didn't create bulges where she clearly doesnt have them.
@@ChrisAndCats Who cares if a dress “gives a stomach to people who don’t actually have one”? Honestly…that’s a stupid thing to say! It doesn’t matter what the hell part of a dress accentuates ANY part of a body, we all come in different shapes and sizes…none of which are wrong.
You are part of the problem 🙄🤬
@ruthhogg6423 if people want one, have at it. However, pointing out that a garment creates something that isn't there is merely an observation of its characteristics. As for "part of the problem", maybe tell that to the person who caused my back injury by failing to obey a roundabout give way, then drove off, permanently injuring me, limiting my movement ability, creating daily pain and my now altered shape? We all know a protruding stomach doesn't look as nice as a flat one, so there's no way I'd wear anything that made mine look worse than it already does, and nor would you, if you're honest.
@@ChrisAndCats What has your injury to do with this video? And no, I don’t agree with you. Your reply speaks volumes 🙄
@@ruthhogg6423 if you don't understand that a back injury can cause changes to your shape as you can no longer move or exercise like you used to, thus creating a rounder middle, which is exactly what we were discussing in the comments following my initial comment about some fabrics creating the illusion of such a shaped stomach then there's no hope! And I'd say yours says much about you, too. Why would someone want to further highlight a problem area thats there (in my case) or create the illusion of one if it's not? Wouldn't most people want a dress that flatters and enhances their figure (or lack of one in my case thanks to said injury), rather than highlighting the bits that are best not highlighted? If you watch Jo and Al in the curvy brides boutique, you might get a clue about that sort of thing. You sound like the sort of person who would encourage a friend to go out in something that doesn't flatter them, rather than being honest (in a kind way) and helping them find something that flatters them more.
That Mom is rude, disrespectful and thoughtless. She's not honest, she's MEAN!!
@@GCMC-m2hshe was that bad. What she was willing to pay doesn’t give her the right to be mean. Her comments probably cut really deep. And she was wrong, she looked great in a mermaid.
@@heuristic-catabsolutely agree! Thought it said a lot that her mum found it so easy to be negative about her, but unable to get up and hug her and celebrate when she found a dress that looked SO WONDERFUL!
@@GCMC-m2hbut that's a case of 2 wrongs don't make a right. Your situation was Very unfair on You and sadly can't be put right until one day you might renew your vows. But this bride was being made to feel bad about herself deliberately by her mum
The dress that got ripped was beautiful and beautiful on her.
Mom doesn't support her. She wants to control her.
Shame on the consultant for letting her try on the sample. No one needs to feel like that.
I agree 💯
Agreed
The consultant told her multiple times it was an unlined runway dress. I put the blame on the customer. She knew it wouldn't go up. She was just determined to show her mother wrong.
The consultant told her to shimmy it up. You can’t blame the bride.
That dress should not have even been in the room.
So she’s embarrassed about ripping the dress so you all put it in the title? Makes sense. Great job 🎉
Agreed!!
I agree. Seems so sad to put that in the title
They know what this is when they go into it. No one needs your self righteous opinions. We don’t CARE how much better you think you are. You care SO much, but not a word about the evil mother
I was just thinking that... Imagine she comes across the video on TH-cam and sees the title 🫤
@@debbylou5729 cause people care more about kind people than mean ones. Haven't you noticed?
hateful mother laughs out loud while she knows she will be on national television. WHAT KIND OF MOTHER IS THAT?
1) the mom is mean.
2) the consultant shouldn’t have put her in a sample sized made for a thin model. Especially given how the mom was body shaming her daughter.
To be fair, the bride insisted on trying the dress despite the consultant's repeated comments that it was model-sized and would be extremely tight.
@@SuzanneU why did she bring it in the room
The consultant should have never even brought the sample dress in. I can understand her wanting to see choices. But the bride wanting to try it on and it ripping made her feel bad.
I imagine that was one of the things suggested by production for drama. Kleinfelds is too high end a store to do that otherwise
It's like the consultant said, it was just a piece ... not like the whole dress or even part of it. I've had that to happen to me in clothes in the store and I'm petite and only 120-135 lbs. Crap happens! They have enough money to cover it and that's also why they have seamstresses who work there in the store to do alterations. They can repair/alter the dress without a problem. With all said, the consultant did a wonderful job in fact excellent offering all the dresses she thought would please not only the bride but also the difficult mom as well. This consultant is one of my top faves on the show at Kleinfeld and if I were lucky enough to be able go there to look for a bridal gown she would be who I'd ask for along with a couple of others I like on the show as well if she couldn't. Of course I would have to ask for Randy to come and say hello because I love his sense of humor, smile and expertise advice on the dresses.
She has her mother, her greatest supporter.
No! Not every mother is supportive, or loving, or well meaning.
She does look amazing in that dress.
Mom needs bigger glasses so that she can see that the bride looks gorgeous in all the gowns she tried on.
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Omg i was looking for this comment haha
I think she has a great figure!
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Oh my god, that poor daughter! That mom is just way too cruel; I hope she's happy with her husband and on her own, now! Her hugging the consultant in happiness at the end but not her mom says everything
That Really noticed to me as well
Her mom didn't even bother to get up.
She behave like spoilled djva she hurts her daughter!
The one thing I hate about this show is how much they cater to the rude mothers. Lady- if you already got married, you had your day- sit down! Your turn is over!! It's your daughter's choice now!
I thought the same thing!
Who needs enemies with a mother like that???
Glad this rude obnoxious woman is not my mother. Jessica will remember how rude and mean her mother is in this situation. Hopefully her groom loves her enough to unite with Jessica to protect her from this bully mother. This is going to play out in the future and mom may not win
or like it.
This woman was like my mother and it never stops. My daughters are at the marrying age and I would never talk to them that way. Never !
Sometimes mom’s secretly resent their daughters and don’t like them stealing their spotlight, even for one day.
How? Why
Sounds like my mother 👀
YOU ARE NOT KIDDING
Unfortunately she's domineering..blunt... and is used to putting her daughter down.....
This was my mother 😢
My heart broke for this bride. She is beautiful inside and out and her mother did absolutely nothing but crush her spirit.
I can't believe a mother laughing at her daughter like that.
Awww, I felt so bad when Jessica cried.❤️ Nobody should laugh at a bride trying on any dress. It’s hurtful, and rude!
It wasn't her fault that it ripped. you brought a small size and you knew it.
While I totally disliked the mother's attitude, the dress Jessica ended up with was the most flattering and looked beautiful. I'm glad she held out for just the right one.
I totally agree, I think the mother may have come accross as rude but maybe she is just too straight forward and wants what's best for her daughter...she doesn't want to compromise. And the daughter seemed a bit uncertain about the dresses she was trying.
“I *know* you don’t like *that*!”……. Why would you say that 2 your *daughter*? If she likes it, she likes it. There’s a huge difference between being constructively honest & being rudely blunt. The mother apparently didn’t know the difference.
That mother is horrible. And the smirk and laugh makes it even creepier
The employee was kinder to her than her family☹️ She's such a sweet woman, praying she has an amazing happy life.
That final dress looks like it was made for her. My goodness it is stunning. And it makes her look 2-3 sizes smaller. Wow
Agree that it was perfect for her - and I don't think the last dress made her look several sizes smaller, I think the other dresses made her look bigger because they were the wrong size
@@justcogitating yes, I wonder if Mom forgot these dresses would be in her size & tailored to her later on?
How does a mother treat her daughter with so much disrespect and disgust? What a horrible person. She’s not a mother.
I'm pretty sure this mother is a toxic narcissist. The way she treats her daughter with so much contempt is pretty classic narc mom
She looks fabulous in everything. Naturally beautifully curvy and shapely with a lovely face.
Naturally fat, you mean.
I'm so glad that's not my Mother! She not only is opinionated but she is rude! It's not the Mothers wedding it's her daughters! Total disrespect! I could not have held my tongue had I been the one helping to find her dress!
Jessica's mother is exactly like mine. That's why I didn't bring her wedding dress shopping.
That mother is so mean. If my mum had been like that I would have been bawling my eyes out. Mean woman
The mother was just horrible! Her comments about the bride were abusing. My heart broke for this bride.
If the first dress was in her size, it would have looked phenomenal on her. The dress she did choose was also stunning on her. The a-line one her mum liked was by far the worst on her. The mum clearly only considering what she would consider a bridal gown and discounting anything else that didn’t fit her narrowed vision.
Wedding was in 12/11. Love the bride seems like a sweet person. She and her husband are lawyers.
Thanks for the info! She's gorgeous and seems so sweet (sadly unlike what could be said for her mom)
I hope she sees this, or karma helps her feel it, because she is really pretty and her mom is trying so hard to make her feel otherwise.
She seems like a kind hearted, warm person .. the tears in her eyes poor girl!
My heart was breaking for this bride. Her Mom was very hurtful, no class and healthy communication skills. I do love the dress she chose. She was beautiful.
The mom said she was surprised that her daughter looked good😑
She was awful!!
The mother should only say “You look beautiful, Honey”. It’s totally up to the bride.
i wanna hug this poor girl so badly
What an absolutely terrible mother, laughing at her daughter and the hurtful things she said; I can’t imagine ever treating either of my daughters in such a way.
Aaaand this is why I went to a plus-sized boutique instead of Kleinfeld’s, I would’ve never emotionally recovered if that dress ripping happened to me. Their samples don’t always consider a larger bride 🙃
As they said, their samples are usually first worn in runway shows and runway models tend to be small.
@@MsJubjubbird Which is a very weird market strategy. And by "weird" I mean bodyshaming. If your average client is a size 12, having most samples only in sizes 2 to 4 (data taken from what they said in these clips and confirmed on their website) is hilariously dumb and cruel.
You want to sell those dresses, right?
Even the consultants sometime say that it is humiliating to try to explain to the brides that their samples are too small on basically everyone who tries them on. Because the blame is completely on who designed this system.
In any other shop that has a fashion shows connection they made a second dress for the actual store with a size 8 to 10. So that there are at least two bodytypes to allow most of their clients to try on without ripping them or swimming in them.
These are simply buffons.
@@credendovides20 it is not body shaming to be practical and cost effective. That's looking for a cause where there is none and using buzzwords for no reason. It's like saying it's bank account shaming if you're a Mercedes dealer. Dresses take time and money to make and designers are out to make money. It is much more efficient to make one dress that will be used for the show, and then can be used as a sample, rather than a dress that is then thrown away. The majority of women in the upper and upper middle class demographic, their target audience, are pretty health conscious. .
That mom is not what you want to be for your child.
That mom laughing is just horrible. Talk about mean-spirited. That mom needs to be ashamed of herself but her ego is too big for that self-awareness. I hope Jessica learns to just IGNORE her mom!
And mom in her Captain Kangeroo jacket has nothing to talk about what looks good or not
So sad when moms can’t let daughters have their days! I’m so sorry. You look beautiful Jessica!
Diane shouldn’t have brought that dress if there was no way it would have gone over the girls body and her mum is really rude and cruel
I'm sorry but her tiny glasses have me rollin😂😂😂
Big thanks to the Consultant for being persistent in her search.
"You are tough!" Not the word I would've used 🤬
Well it's her best friends mom so it's nice she stood up to her at all. Why would you wanna start shit with your bsf mom on the day your best friend is looking for her dress
I think that mother is looking to relive her own wedding and wants her daughter to put on a dress that she (the mother) would wear and the mother is not considering what the daughter wants at all! Very disrespectful, mean, and really obnoxious. That poor bride looked so hurt and sad when her mother laughed at the dress she liked. I would have kicked mom out!
As a mom of soon to be bride, I can not believe this mom's behavior. I cant imagine being that critical. If I see that my daughter likes a certain style dress, I'm going to support her.
I’ve been wedding dress shopping with daughter and DIL. I would never say anything negative to those beautiful girls.
All these shows make me appreciate my mother more and more. She gives me her honest opinion without hurting me and destroying my self esteem. I would trust her and depend on her for the truth.
Why would the consultant even pull a dress that might not fit her and stress her out...
This is a tv show. The producers get them to add things in for drama
And they have said on the show many times that they often only have "sample" sizes, so if you aren't that size or smaller, but you want to see the latest styles, they have to try to make it work so you can sort-of see what it would look like when you order your correct size.
Dear Mom,
STOP. 😊
I would cry if I ripped a sample dress as well😭 poor thing
What a sweet bride! I loved dress 2 the best, but the one she chose was beautiful also. Her mom was awful.
If ever a child deserves a "happy ever after" this young lady is it. I can't get over her mother acting like a spoiled brat in mothers clothing. The dress that ripped was no fault of the bride. I wish her many years of happiness. Hopefully new husband can put mother in her place.
Mom talking about her daughters stomach sticking out, when Mom isn’t exactly thin.
This mother is not being tough, she's being petulant and unkind ... being tough can be a very very good thing indeed but no way does it have to preclude being kind !! LOVE the dress that Diane found for her ... Jesyca looked absolutely perfect!!
Who would do this to your own daughter. Shameful.
Dianne never should have had bride try on a size 6 gown knowing it’s too small.
Wow, her mom is vicious! Even if she did not like anything, she should have been nicer about it. I feel bad for her.
This is why you should go dress shopping ALONE. The only opinion that matters is the brides. Try on and choose YOUR dress in peace.
That's what I did ❤
@@debrakildau9288same! I picked out my dress online, had it shipped to the store, and tried it on alone. My family didn't even see it until I brought it home shortly before my wedding. I showed them pics from the website but if they didn't like it, too bad.
My mom came with me but only to write the check. She let me choose what I wanted. $700 back in 1982 for a Cahill original that I absolutely loved. I don’t get bringing the whole neighborhood shopping either.
I agree either go by yourself or with 1 person who will support you, but no more than that. I don’t get why you need to bring so many people for.
@@Ziggimomspal68 for the show you have to submit a list of everyone you know and the producers pick the entourage. Of course they will pick someone who causes drama.
To have obnoxious behavior like this towards her own daughter is so sad. 😮😮😮
The obsession with size has literally cost lives. That mother is toxic.
I think what I love the most about Jessica is that she knew what she wanted. And she also seemed to be very comfortable with herself, and liked herself, even though mom was terrible.
That was cruel of the mum , when your own mum picks on your figure , how hurtful .
The bride did not rip the dress. The consultant should never have tried to put it on her knowing it was a model size
This is just horrible..I feel so sorry for Jessica. She seems like a nice young lady and doesn't deserve this attitude from her own mother.
i swear that woman just wanted to tear her daughter down, i'm surprised she liked ANY dress. i'm glad when i brought my mom to my appointment, i had already decided on the dress i wanted and i told her specifically she wasn't allowed to say anything unless it was "yes." i think it was a bad move for diane to put her in that runway sample, she knew damn well the bride wasn't a runway model size and nothing destroys a girl's confidence like ripping clothing.
Yet those Santa Claus glasses her mother's wearing are the epitome of fashion 🙄
She picked HER dress and she looks gorgeous in it, well done! ❤
What a horrible mother, she was gorgeous in every dress😢
I like what she said at the end. " the dress highlights me in the best possible way." Exactly what every bride wants.
This girl is so beautiful. Too bad her shrew narcissist mother cannot appreciate her.
Don't feel bad girl, we've all been there ❣️ When it comes to some dresses being too small, only a woman whose a size 2 can try on a model dress ! Own your curves ❤ The dress she chose was absolutely beautiful 💯
She looked good in all the dresses. Her Mom is very mean spirited.
Her mother's laughter was so demoralising. Poor girl.
That mother needs to take her 80s sweater and get the hell out. That woman was beautiful in that first dress she loved. She was walking down the aisle, not her monster, I mean mother.
God, if I had a mother like that,I would run screaming in the other direction and tell the consultant I make another appointment and bring more supportive people with me.
Speaking as a former bride who had her mother almost entirely hijack her wedding from start to finish, especially with regard to the wedding dress - my advice to all brides is “Don’t let her do it!” I got married in the early 1980s and the deprived feeling is still there. My mother had a friend who was in the process of opening a bridal shop. I did not even get to try on any wedding dresses.
I just cried for Jessica when she cried. This was a monster that cooled down in the end, but why couldn’t the mom have been kinder with her comments in the beginning. Let her try on the gowns she wanted too until she found the one she liked, but in all reality, the mom’s harsh comments helped guide Jessica in the right direction. Glad her friend was there for support.
I had to pick my gown out by myself. My mom didn’t want to come. She had too many things to do. She was a hard worker. We live a simple life. I was the only one at that time in our family to have a formal wedding. I paid for my wedding/bride side. My in-laws also helped also. My mother-in-laws and church WMA did the Rehearsal Dinner and Reception.
I paid for the decorations and cake and bridesmaids and wedding director. My husband’s uncle did the photos. My sister was a big help with decorations. Church had all the candle stands. Family and friends cleaned up afterwards. Great In-laws.
I miss them and my husband.
Oh noo, d'you mean they've all gone?
the way the mom said she was surprised she looks good is insane, how do you say that about your own child 🧍♀️
I won’t lie.. that last one was the BEST of both worlds. She looked absolutely stunning
Poor darling😦 but I'm super happy she found her dress. At this point I don't care if her mom likes it or not. It was very mean of her to laugh😟
Diane,the consultant is Incredible !!!!She deserves a tiara,a parade,and a raise !!!⭐️💫❤️💕❤️…..
Mom didn't even care to hug her at end that was awkward.....
This is the kind of thing that frustrated me so much when I worked in a bridal shop. I had my fair share of moms that ruined appointments that had their daughter in tears and ultimately, they ended up walking out of the shop without a dress. Just so you know, I did NOT get paid a commission, so I wasn't out any money if they didn't buy a dress, but my heart would break for the bride to be because her mother didn't share her vision of what her wedding day would look like,
I am so glad the only people that came with me to shop for my dress were my at the time 10 and 5 year old. I got smiles all around and that's all I needed. I ain't got time for none of that, that she and half of these ladies go through with their mama. I recently tried my dress on as my wedding is next month, and my now 6 year old seemed mesmerized and even wanted to spin me around and dance with me ❤. My kids are my biggest supporters and that's all I could ever ask for
Shame on Diane for even suggesting this girl put that tiny dress on. That could’ve ruined the appointment.
She looks fabulous in the wedding dress!
This is from the fake drama episodes era, at least ten years ago. She seems really happy, they have at least one kid now, and she has lots of photos of mom on fb. They're fine.
What a lovely kind girl.
The last dress really complimented her! It looked great. The mum didn’t have to say that she was surprised she looked good… wtf
The final dress she picked is perfect! She looks really beautiful.
Why would the consultant even try to put her in a sample dress knowing she wouldn't fit in it?
She's beautiful Mum your so wrong to treat your beautiful daughter that way 💜🙏💜😖
Omg i just want to hug this bride so much. The look on her face when the dress ripped broke my heart 😢
Her mom is brutal.
This is horrible ! The bride looks nice in everything she tries on. Mom is very mean!
What a gracious bride.
“She looks good, it’s surprising .” What kind of mother says that??????