Discovering Sexuality--And A Handsome Prayer Buddy--At A Christian College

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  • @rkeller8141
    @rkeller8141 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I hear a gentle brave and kind man who understands a God of love and is a reflection of His love. Thank you.

    • @staceydoe3287
      @staceydoe3287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's so adorable. His soft voice and demeanor, but there is still something very masculine about him. I love it!

  • @samray3297
    @samray3297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a gentle voice! You're very handsome & eloquent. Wishing you all the best, because you deserve it! You're an affectionate person...it's in your voice & your eyes!

  • @mrwinfree5888
    @mrwinfree5888 8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I used all of my high speed data this month watching imfromDriftwood videos lol so captivating

  • @Erin-Thor
    @Erin-Thor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Watching this brought back a memory I had almost forgotten. One of the youth pastors in Sunday school was adorable! Just cute as it gets. I remember liking him and being so... interested... in him, I was very young and didn’t know why. I didn’t know then, I know now, LOL!

    • @frankpaya690
      @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think we all know how we really felt, anytime we were in a locker room, next to another naked guy.

    • @kimalonzo2145
      @kimalonzo2145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your interest was lust.

    • @kimalonzo2145
      @kimalonzo2145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@frankpaya690 that's lust

  • @pcFOREVER89100
    @pcFOREVER89100 9 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I love his voice.

    • @seandaley8350
      @seandaley8350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s the opposite of Morgan Freeman but still so smooth

  • @beaumac1950
    @beaumac1950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am Beau originally from the Mississippi Delta …. At 71 … born in 1950 raised Southern Baptist with Great Loving school teacher parents … Didn’t “come out in the open” until my last quarter at the U of Southern Mississippi where I earned my performance degree in Piano and Pipe Organ Liturgy …
    I commend you for being Authentic and Believing in yourself … Such a Wonderful Example for our young people who need everyone’s support to be who they are authentically !!!
    Sincerely … Beau

  • @bearowl4101
    @bearowl4101 9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This guy is so sweet! I'm glad he's happy and seeing him talk about coming to terms with himself makes me happy!

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Shawn, this is a fabulous account of your coming out and accepting who you are. I had exactly the same experience but in a Catholic seminary. You had much more courage and charism than I and it took me another 40 years to have the epiphany that you had and the courage to follow through. Good for you, dude, and may God continue to bless you with love and insight...............Ray

  • @Greggory1987
    @Greggory1987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Freedom means living in one's truth. Excellent video.

  • @rwledrew
    @rwledrew 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Congratulations on your success in coming to grips with your sexuality. I did so in the late 1960s. I've had two long term relationships. The most recent lasted 25 yrs until his death in 2014. You have a life full of rich possibilities and part of growing is selecting which of your lessons in upbringing to keep. I found so much that is useful as a gay man. I wouldn't throw everyting away.

    • @frankpaya690
      @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I used to feel like I was living proof that God made junk. Now I enjoy the HELL- out of my homosexuality!

    • @billybatson3810
      @billybatson3810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great response. I agree.

  • @ImpudentDemiGOD
    @ImpudentDemiGOD 8 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I love his sweet gay boy voice. He's so adorable! 😘

    • @Jinxyoutoheaven
      @Jinxyoutoheaven 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      straight guys sound like that too

    • @DDominoGeronimo
      @DDominoGeronimo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And his bald head 😍👀😘

    • @Brandon-qr2or
      @Brandon-qr2or 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Jinxyoutoheaven but they really don't lol

  • @marcihf9763
    @marcihf9763 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Strange how so many overly Christian parents often times have gay children. Lol. :)

    • @justicedreams
      @justicedreams 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Could god would be trying to make them accept homosexuality? I'm thankful to him if that's the case :)

    • @frankpaya690
      @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's kind of like why do so many children of police and firefighters wind up being juvenile delinquents?

    • @eloisecole3579
      @eloisecole3579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its take two heterosexual parents to make a gays kids, everybody know that! ;)

    • @samray397
      @samray397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Too compressed. No open communication.

  • @coxhere9627
    @coxhere9627 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Shawn, I'm so glad that you didn't turn out the way your mother said you should. You are so much more than the limitations of being who she wanted you to be. Being authentic and genuine is what being "a man" is all about. I hope that all's going very well for you in this present moment. The peace of The Lord be with you always. Amen.

  • @rc5chi539
    @rc5chi539 9 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Even today in 2015, it amazes me that religion is still able to paralyze people with such fear and confusion .

    • @danielhirschberg876
      @danielhirschberg876 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know!!!

    • @christo-chaney
      @christo-chaney 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It depends on the religion. My religion is very accepting of LGBTQ people.

    • @danniealexander4131
      @danniealexander4131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Religious Trauma syndrome. It's a things

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are courageous and kind and responsible

  • @cyrellroberson9698
    @cyrellroberson9698 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate. Grew up in a Louisiana too with religious parents. Glad to see you armrest doing well and living authentically. It’s a journey and a process for sure.

  • @LarryBanks85
    @LarryBanks85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this. I can relate to this there is a lot of people in the church that can be really judgemental and really controlling and they will try to force you to be uncomfortable as a straight man than be comfortable being who you are.

  • @kpunkt.klaviermusik
    @kpunkt.klaviermusik 9 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    All these nice people suffering from religious beliefs make me feel, there's something basically wrong with religion.

    • @brama100
      @brama100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      +kpunkt klaviermusik
      That's because there is everything wrong w/ religion. It's evil and makes peoples lives miserable.

    • @chiefcaptn1922
      @chiefcaptn1922 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@brama100 sin, makes peoples lives miserable.

    • @oldemail227
      @oldemail227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@brama100 Hate to dissapoint you, my religion since I found it has answered all my prayers and I could not have more joy. Not simple happiness which is dependent on circumstances, but true joy no matter what is going on in my life. Christ brings abundant joy, not misery. You could not be more wrong.

    • @oldemail227
      @oldemail227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@brama100 What made me miserable was a life of sin, especially the so called "gay scene", trust me there is nothing happy and gay about that lifestyle.

    • @thatbitch3254
      @thatbitch3254 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@oldemail227 I'm very happy being gay.. but let's not forget that there is no proof of god.

  • @kjackson5899
    @kjackson5899 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Being your true authentic self Shawn and it shows Thats faith😄

  • @Ericsmelody
    @Ericsmelody 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Shawn, you have a BEAUTIFUL soul!

  • @Luckyou03
    @Luckyou03 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I can relate so much with how shy he was about it. I'm not religious anymore but the fear still sticks to me because my parents are religious

    • @venusbaptiste8210
      @venusbaptiste8210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. It's imprinted upon you. If I'm at an open flame broiled grill, I have an instant flashback to the nightmares of HELL I would have when I was 666ristian. It was freeing when I removed that religion out of my life. Every gay person I meet, that is struggling with 666ristianity, I do my best to reassure and comfort them as I usher them AWAY from the mind control and psychological and spiritual trauma of that human blood sacrifice cult

  • @clementinofrancisco3199
    @clementinofrancisco3199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is so innocent and decent looking that makes it impossible not to fall for guy!!

  • @samray397
    @samray397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God loves you JUST the way you are! Not all one's children are identical.

  • @Polex12345
    @Polex12345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Handsome dude.......👍👍👍👍💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💛💛💛💜💜💜✋✋✋💞💞💞💞
    Greetings from Africa precisely Ghana.

    • @Polex12345
      @Polex12345 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @christopher smiley Ghana is a beautiful and peaceful country.......come we are waiting for u.

    • @Polex12345
      @Polex12345 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @christopher smiley yes of course my dear.........+233245253191

    • @loa367
      @loa367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @christopher smiley and Paul Grant I hope your friendship will flourish, Mozambican here in Europe

  • @qnone6055
    @qnone6055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a gentle and cute and a brave ❤️

  • @scott3357
    @scott3357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a question….how do I overcome the fear that god will shame and condemn me for having sex….I have held this fear for a long time and it is difficult to shake, and it has kept me afraid to express my true feelings and interact with others in a personal manner most if not all of my life.

    • @lyndawilliams4570
      @lyndawilliams4570 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand. Sexuality is a gift . Intimacy is something we all need. As long as you are not hurting vulnerable people - you are free to love any adult who will love you too. You deserve that. We all do.

    • @galaxylucia1898
      @galaxylucia1898 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly you should a therapist who specifically works with LGBT individuals to work out the religious indoctrination that’s affecting your sexual health. Both are ideal-we are spiritual creatures in a physical body so there’s no reason that our spiritual beliefs and sexual identity should be at odds with each other.

  • @Rhianalanthula
    @Rhianalanthula 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not too sure if it's more an American thing about it being either gay or Christian. I know there's still homophobia in the UK, but there's also an acceptance of being both. I know Methodist ministers who are accepting and also stand up against bigotry of all kinds. There's also a high profile Church of England (Anglican) vicar who is a former pop star and gay. His late husband was also a vicar.

  • @Reunion4ever
    @Reunion4ever 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a nice person - happy 😊 for you!

  • @brucass93
    @brucass93 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    beautiful story....so happy for you

  • @An__-
    @An__- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm not sure where my religious beliefs stand these days precisely but I do know that if God Made You then you can't be wrong. Anyone who says otherwise is second-guessing God. People can feel free to second-guess as much as they want but the people who are homophobic are often claiming God as the reason that they believe it's wrong. It has never made sense to me.

  • @americanitalianisrael4008
    @americanitalianisrael4008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT A CUTY PIE.BEST WISHES TO HIM.

  • @ken306809
    @ken306809 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BEAUTIFUL !

  • @a.mie.533
    @a.mie.533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The guys on this channel are so extremely likeable. :)

  • @samray397
    @samray397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweet way of talking!

  • @allenmaa7064
    @allenmaa7064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What I love about us - is that in one comment we will share a profoundly poignant insight about the interview subject, provide a masterful analysis of family dynamics, critique majority religious culture and norms, and still make sure to tell them that they're hot!

  • @chipwickham4176
    @chipwickham4176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    From the inside outward, your beautiful! Thank you for sharing!

  • @nitramlac
    @nitramlac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you're waiting for God to judge you or you're fearful of God, don't be....You've been lied to...You've been deceived...The creator of the heavens and the universe DOES NOT have a brain...It's not human or human like.....It's a force and a power...and it has nothing what so ever to do with religion or a church.

  • @gregoryshavers6185
    @gregoryshavers6185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can i reach yu?

  • @brucecoleman5379
    @brucecoleman5379 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what a sweetheart.

  • @PhilipSteeves
    @PhilipSteeves 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweet child, all the best to you!

  • @ronaldsimpson9148
    @ronaldsimpson9148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Shawn, you're a wonderful person, Love it there for you now reach out and get it.😊😊

    • @ronaldsimpson9148
      @ronaldsimpson9148 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello again, glad you liked my comment let me know where you're from, I'm here in the ATL thanks.😊

  • @kennethgarcia8352
    @kennethgarcia8352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He’s so cute 🥰 and sweet!!❤️

  • @timothyg1986
    @timothyg1986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ok but how is he so cute!!!

  • @tangled55
    @tangled55 9 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Very cute man, but, bruh...I just wanna take this lint brush and....!

    • @JohnWesleyAnderson
      @JohnWesleyAnderson 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lol! I totally didn't see all that. There's no way that's lint.

    • @tangled55
      @tangled55 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +John Wesley Anderson what else would it be then? lol!

    • @JohnWesleyAnderson
      @JohnWesleyAnderson 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol! you know those little pieces of tissue that get on your shirt when you blow your nose a lot? kidding. your prob right.

    • @jonasalden29201
      @jonasalden29201 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +tangled55 I was thinking the same thing, even that he was cute. But the lint! Ha ha

    • @Igbogadi
      @Igbogadi 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      +tangled55 That's not lint. Do you really think that this beautiful man who seem to take care of himself would wear a shirt full of lint for an interview that will be recorded for posterity? And the crew saw all the 'lint' and let it be? Really? Have faith in people!

  • @yuie__s
    @yuie__s 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love his voice Soo much

  • @devonguy02
    @devonguy02 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful just be yourself man best regards !

  • @davidrector7067
    @davidrector7067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Lawnmower Man by David Rector. A hilarious LGBTIQ comedy & drama. The lawnmower man is the man you want mowing YOU and your lawn!!!

  • @Jinxyoutoheaven
    @Jinxyoutoheaven 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My friend is struggling with religion and his sexuality. I was shocked when he came out to me. I am worried that one day those repressed feelings are going to explode. He will never part with his religion because he is very religious its essentially part of his life. I was never that religious even though I was the one that really brought it to my family. So I dont know what type of advice to give him.
    I dont think it will be possible to repress his feelings for men. He told there were times he really wanted to kiss me very badly. Also he is obsessed with large penis.
    One day he would want to come over my place to do Xrated stuff with me but I turn him down. The following day he will tell me to forget what just happened. Then the cycle repeated a few times.
    So far he hasn't talked to me about this topic for a few months now. I wont bring it up until he wants to.

  • @ronaldthomas74
    @ronaldthomas74 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh ,, what ,, WOW. !!!!!! Natural beauty..........!!!!

  • @victorrobinson8961
    @victorrobinson8961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yep.... you gotta release the Religious shackles. God wants us all to be happy

  • @benflint
    @benflint ปีที่แล้ว

    what a sweet guy - and cute to boot

  • @MOREHOUSE80
    @MOREHOUSE80 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    is he on social media?

    • @frankpaya690
      @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did he say whether or not he has a boyfriend?

  • @RobertFleming
    @RobertFleming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He’s beautiful!

  • @DannyLTerry
    @DannyLTerry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WELL SAID!
    MUCH LOVE*

  • @justjayok
    @justjayok 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Are those fuzzballs on his shirt?!?!?! They are distracting me. :?

    • @Erin-Thor
      @Erin-Thor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      justjayok - Yes. They are. Shirt just came out of the laundry. He is still cute! LOL!

    • @maxinegivens3159
      @maxinegivens3159 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No it's a part of the design, he (Shawn) spoke in the comments above on the 'lint'...lol!

    • @frankpaya690
      @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maxinegivens3159 aren't there any gay people besides me, that are familiar with mowing acreage?

  • @galaxytrio
    @galaxytrio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shawn's a lovely guy.

  • @monica8833
    @monica8833 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You go young man ☺

  • @michaelredding1130
    @michaelredding1130 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is a spirit of lust, lusciviousness, murder ,rage, a few others also....once possessed they push u to do acts an build up habits. Of course bad ones

  • @billybpparrants1567
    @billybpparrants1567 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it

  • @CalogeroSmith
    @CalogeroSmith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imagine by.J Lennon and YOno....

  • @xavierlastra1610
    @xavierlastra1610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you are so cute handsome guy.

  • @elacorp
    @elacorp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's so cute..

  • @frankpaya690
    @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God ,This guy's got beautiful eyes! He's got a great physique too, he should have done this shirtless, for among other reasons, it looks like on his shirt, that he's just come in from mowing the property. I really respect that he had enough of a sense of self, that he could be himself. and not be forced into a compartment by what he thought others wanted him to be, for fear they would abandon him.
    when you know you're gay, and you're afraid anybody that you care about is going to hate you, and want nothing more to do with you, it makes for a pretty isolated day-to-day existence.

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good u dis NOT MARRY A FEMALE AND WASTE HER TIME AND BREAK HER HEART!!

  • @Massev6871
    @Massev6871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jesus definitely does not want you to be unhappy. Hugs from Ireland. :-)

  • @trevonsaddler1304
    @trevonsaddler1304 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Proud of you

  • @justynjonn
    @justynjonn 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talks like one of the Jacksons!

  • @samray397
    @samray397 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Handsome, spontaneous, intelligent. God judges NO ONE. Religion is about Love & Tolerance. But there are many Wolves in Sheep's clothing. They present religion in strict terms...because they are in bondage.

  • @ktstt65
    @ktstt65 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love

  • @rickeystovall7547
    @rickeystovall7547 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay true !

  • @michaelredding1130
    @michaelredding1130 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Instead of people's opinions only........ let's look at the history books an spiritual books

  • @darrellwheeler6088
    @darrellwheeler6088 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    He iis so cute he is eye candy.

  • @justicedreams
    @justicedreams 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why is this a battle being fought? Let Tom love Jerry damn it, ain't doing shit wrong. Some species can be gay. You think love is a sin? I don't think so. The bible is a authority book. Guess what laws come from, OPINIONS!

  • @ChristopheUSA8
    @ChristopheUSA8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜👍💜

  • @michaelredding1130
    @michaelredding1130 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why do gay guys do that neck thing?? Imitating women yo. My girlfriend does that. It's because the energy of that spirit inside them inside their lives for whatever reasons is the same one in the others. That's why they act the same more or less if u notice. What is indiduality if they mostly all have the same habits an mannerism neck swirling.

  • @rsean4083
    @rsean4083 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Sean Walker 😉

  • @amapparatistkwabena
    @amapparatistkwabena 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shawn, I had to close my eyes and just focus on your story on account of that distracting shirt, bruh. ;)

  • @alexandremelofrancopereira5157
    @alexandremelofrancopereira5157 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well. You sure won't have a hard time getting a fine man to hug. You're cute as fuck! Sorry not sorry! ;)

  • @patriciagruteke2605
    @patriciagruteke2605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are handsome 😊

  • @Revelrevan
    @Revelrevan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like im hearing michael jackson...

    • @frankpaya690
      @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael Jackson's voice was much higher than this guys , this guy sounded more like Jermaine Jackson

  • @sethjudice3208
    @sethjudice3208 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if this is jayden diore fierce’s prayer “buddy”?!?!?!

  • @gogogogogirl
    @gogogogogirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FIIIIINE.

  • @sageoakley277
    @sageoakley277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    he is goregous

  • @chrisl3987
    @chrisl3987 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The only sin is that shirt tho.

    • @frankpaya690
      @frankpaya690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He should have consented to tell his story, wearing only his birthday suit.

    • @eloisecole3579
      @eloisecole3579 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So much plushes! Lol i would happily help him remove them.

  • @davestephen8679
    @davestephen8679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus wants us to die to ourselves

  • @charlylocke
    @charlylocke 9 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @gmart225
    @gmart225 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is creepy.
    prayer I mean. praying is creepy.

  • @abrehamegebreyohanis6804
    @abrehamegebreyohanis6804 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you cant fight the nature. god created you as a man. there is no mistake in god work.pls remember god in first in your life.he can guide you the right direction. i am not judging your decision you made.

  • @kimalonzo2145
    @kimalonzo2145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Reading comments by gay guys flirting with other guys makes me feel like 🤢. And i am being serious.

  • @swag-machine
    @swag-machine 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    bald

  • @DDominoGeronimo
    @DDominoGeronimo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Gay and Christian 😍