When you’re independent (financially and education) like this Hmong lady - you’ll always have your worth and make everyone with you successful. An example for other Hmong women to follow. She’ll always be successful with or without a man.
So sorry sister....glad you move on and not return to him. You lift a boy from the ground up to be a man and rise him up high and he didn't recognize your worth. I sure now he live with regret. May you find love and happiness....sister.
“Nws sawv hauv lub lav rog los” hehe I love those words you described him sis! You do you. That loser will never see your worth! Moved on and leave his selfish azz alone. Wish you the best in the future!
Some men don’t know what they have until it’s gone. Lesson to all marriage that yes it takes two to make a life, always respect each other and love each other.
He have been fat all his life so when he finally got "attractive" from all the weights loss. Pride and ego got to his mind! He forgot who made him to what he is today! That is a common thing for some ungrateful people. People like him, yeej tsis nyiam zoo. So don't feel too sad that he didn't cherish you. Look on the bright side, at least he knew that you're a precious diamond afterward.
You are a wonderful role model for all women. It's good to be "nice" but not stupid and you are a smart woman for knowing your worth. Wishing you love and happiness with your new hubby.
You should social date a few guys but do not sleep with any of them. I social dated for 2 yrs and finally decided to get serious with my bf now. We've been together for 3 yrs as a couple. I hope all the best for you.
Her “fat” husband’s insecurities, ego and selfishness destroyed his marriage to a wonderful woman, who was patient and kind. That’s ok, she found someone who loves himself and her.
Niam ntsuab teev Ca kuv hnov koj ob peb lo lu neej neeg tia nkauj hmoob plog caij caij luv thij thiab tsheb cav e qhov khoom pluav pluav ntsw ntsw e lub npe zaj neej neeg no hai li ca xav mloog vim txim lom zem heev hahahahhaahhaah
Wow...Koj tias nws muaj 38 xyoo nej sib yuav es tom qab 26 xyoo nws tseem tso koj tseg vim nws rov ua hluas. Yog li nws muaj 64 xyoo es rov pib dua neej tshiab. 64 xyoo twb yuav txog caij nkag qhov av es tseem rhuav dab tsi os. I don't feel sorry for this man. He is 64 years old and still thinks that he is in his 30's...hahaha.
Tus txiv neej hais tias kuv yog niam ntiav hnub ntawv yog hnub kuv nrauj nws tsis tos nws lawm yuav tus zoo li cas los tsis yog kuv part lawm naj koj thiaj tos mus zoo dua
If I did my calculations correctly.... The poster ex hubby is in his mid 70’s cuz ya been married for 26yrs and you’re 16yrs younger then your ex and your mother in law must be 100+? Lol 😂 I am here still elaborating the age of this story 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ Yes 🙌 I believe as a married person, starting over at an old age, it’s hard to really make anything work and have success. I wish you well sister. It’s a shame how people are so selfish 🙄🙄🙄
Hmoob ruam twb mus sib nrauj nram nom tswv tas lawm cas tseem rov qab los hais ntawm hmoob cas nej ua neej rov qab lawm. Peb cov pojniam hmoob yog ib co uas zoo tshaj plaws lawm, tab sis qhov lawv liam twb vim yog tim tus txiv cob qhia nkaus xwb, pojniam tsis zoo li txiv neej yuav tau txhob muab txw los yog xyaum kom nws yees loj ces thaum koj kev hlub tsis txaus rau nws lawm nws yuav nrauj koj.
Yus tsis txhob qhuas yus xwb mas lod. Cia zej zog mam li qhuas yus thiab cia yus tus txiv dim lawm khuvxim yus es tuaj piav mas thiaj li yuav yog dua pod
Once he starts eating bad again , he’ll go back to himself which is a fat kid. It’s hard to maintain a good diet unless he has good genetics which doesn’t seem to be the case. You got your degree so tell him to kick rocks but actually instead kick boulders. He better remember who made him.
Kojntus txiv twb saib tsis tais tias koj yog ib tug poj nrauj no es nws tau koj nws thiaj li kom koj ua ib puas yam tsav zaum txaj chaw rau nws los koj tseem ua thiab ces nws thiaj li haj yiam saib tsis tais koj es thiaj li tos ntsoov yuav cem koj li ntawd xwb....
Koj tau master degree hos koj tus husband tau high school diploma xwb mas neb sib piv tsis sib phim ntawm txoj kev kawm, tab sis cas koj ho kam yuav nws? Qhov no ntshe twb vim yog koj tsis zoo nkauj mus phim nyog koj tus txiv qhov zoo nraug.
@@roseanimetor8157 Kev zoo nkauj (beauty) attracts men in the first place. For some women, beauty lasts in short time and for some others beauty lasts until they are in their 60's. I think that is long enough. I believe most men chose beauty over kev siab zoo. Thaum hluas kev zoo nkauj yeej kev siab zoo tiam sis thaum laus kev siab zoo yeej kev zoo nkauj....
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Sister aws... koj ua yog lawm os. Ua li ko ma thiaj li tsim nyhog kawm tiav Master degree os. Thiab thiaj li tseem tseem yog ntse👍👍👍👍
When you’re independent (financially and education) like this Hmong lady - you’ll always have your worth and make everyone with you successful. An example for other Hmong women to follow. She’ll always be successful with or without a man.
So sorry sister....glad you move on and not return to him. You lift a boy from the ground up to be a man and rise him up high and he didn't recognize your worth. I sure now he live with regret. May you find love and happiness....sister.
“Nws sawv hauv lub lav rog los” hehe I love those words you described him sis! You do you. That loser will never see your worth! Moved on and leave his selfish azz alone. Wish you the best in the future!
Some men don’t know what they have until it’s gone. Lesson to all marriage that yes it takes two to make a life, always respect each other and love each other.
Thanks for not going back to your ex-husband or remarrying him the second time like most Hmong women.
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I'm glad you fond someone who love you for who you are.
He have been fat all his life so when he finally got "attractive" from all the weights loss. Pride and ego got to his mind! He forgot who made him to what he is today! That is a common thing for some ungrateful people. People like him, yeej tsis nyiam zoo. So don't feel too sad that he didn't cherish you. Look on the bright side, at least he knew that you're a precious diamond afterward.
Glad youn left him and found someone who loves and respect you
Some men's are so ungrateful
Yog 100%, kev hlub tuag roj lo lus 100%. Once he said that to you. He already cheat on you. Blessed you sister.
Zoo kawg uas koj tsis rov mus yuav koj niag qub txiv os!! Niag neeg siab dub li ko cia nws khuv xim yus mob siab rau yus xwb mog... nrog koj zoo siab koj tau lub neej zoo os..
You are a wonderful role model for all women. It's good to be "nice" but not stupid and you are a smart woman for knowing your worth. Wishing you love and happiness with your new hubby.
Sister Tsi txhob nco nws lawm os mog neb hmoov Tsi sib luag los ua txij nkawm xwb pab koj tu siab heev😢😢
Nej tej neej neeg no dag dhau lawm cas yus yuav qhua yus zoo ua luaj lau
Peb ib co txiv neej duam2 nej cov poj niam hlub los tsuas hlub kom nyob taus xwb vim yog nej u muab hlub dhau ces lawv yuav ua neej yudm kev mog
Thank you for sharing your life story. But If one day you’re reading the comments...PLEASE be my personal trainer. 😀
You should social date a few guys but do not sleep with any of them. I social dated for 2 yrs and finally decided to get serious with my bf now. We've been together for 3 yrs as a couple. I hope all the best for you.
Wow, what a twist! I cannot believe this happened without any warning. Something had to happen? What a mess!
Ntuj os peb cov me poj niam hmoob aw, cov txiv neej hmoob no phem dhau thiab said tsis ntau peb cov poj niam kiag li, peb yuav tau said peb kom muaj nqi tsis muaj lawv lawm los peb yeej nyob tau peb nawb mog.
Coob tus txivneej Hmoob khav2 tias lawv thiaj yog neeg, saib tsis taus pojniam. Cem lus phem, ntaus ncaws, ntiab tawm tsev thiaj nrauj. Thaum kawg nws rab phom tsis muaj kuab ces dev tseem tseemceeb dua.
Tiam neej no xav tias yog kuv xwb thiaj tu siab no
Bliss you sister. You're brave and a true leader. We need more leader like you. Thank for sharing you personal journey.
Loser never know what they have until they lose it.
Txhob tusiab niag hlwb twb tsis puv pua yuav los yeej tsis txog qhov twg.
Her “fat” husband’s insecurities, ego and selfishness destroyed his marriage to a wonderful woman, who was patient and kind. That’s ok, she found someone who loves himself and her.
He pick a rock over a diamond, sorry but not sorry.
Nrog tus niam tsev muaj peev xwm zoo siab uas koj peem tsheej lub neej tshiab zaum 2 lawm tiag
Niam ntsuab teev Ca kuv hnov koj ob peb lo lu neej neeg tia nkauj hmoob plog caij caij luv thij thiab tsheb cav e qhov khoom pluav pluav ntsw ntsw e lub npe zaj neej neeg no hai li ca xav mloog vim txim lom zem heev hahahahhaahhaah
Cob niag txiv Neej hmoob Siab phem siab dub quav Dev li ntawd txhob khuv xim ....yus muaj lub peev xwm...txoj Kev tab Cuab yus muaj tag nrho ....tes haujlwm Niam tsev yus muaj puv npo ..me tub me nyuam muaj tib si lawm ..nws tsis yuav yus ces yog nws hmoov tag lawm xwb ...txhob khuv xim nws thiab ...
Txhob tu siab hlub kon tus kheej.nws tsis nco koj pab rhiab cawm nws.pog laus yuav tub hluas feem ntau tsis kav laus nws lam yuav koj thaum nws txom nyem xwb
Tso nws mus koj twb educated lawm koj twb khwv tau koj noj lawm tsis need ib tug txiv los tsim yus
Wow...Koj tias nws muaj 38 xyoo nej sib yuav es tom qab 26 xyoo nws tseem tso koj tseg vim nws rov ua hluas. Yog li nws muaj 64 xyoo es rov pib dua neej tshiab. 64 xyoo twb yuav txog caij nkag qhov av es tseem rhuav dab tsi os. I don't feel sorry for this man. He is 64 years old and still thinks that he is in his 30's...hahaha.
Peb tus niam tsev tsis khwv tshaj peb os peb thiab peb tus niam tsev khwv ib yam xwb as.
Tus txiv neej hais tias kuv yog niam ntiav hnub ntawv yog hnub kuv nrauj nws tsis tos nws lawm yuav tus zoo li cas los tsis yog kuv part lawm naj koj thiaj tos mus zoo dua
I’m a bit confused. He was 38 yo when you met and married and you were 22. 26 years into your marriage he cheats on you. So he was 64 yo???
Your 2nd husband is stupid. He doesn't know what he has until is gone. May your 3rd marriage last and best wishes to you.
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If I did my calculations correctly....
The poster ex hubby is in his mid 70’s cuz ya been married for 26yrs and you’re 16yrs younger then your ex and your mother in law must be 100+? Lol 😂
I am here still elaborating the age of this story 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Yes 🙌 I believe as a married person, starting over at an old age, it’s hard to really make anything work and have success. I wish you well sister. It’s a shame how people are so selfish 🙄🙄🙄
I assume the mil probably had the fat-husband at age 15 or 16 so she prob around 80 to 90 yrs old
Cov poj nrauj es yuav txiv hluas hluas ces tib co liam liam xwb nawb lawv aw..........
Poj niam liam ces yog koj os qias neeg dhau lawm
Don’t feel bad you are a good person
Tus neeg liam sim rog ces nws yuav rov qab mus nyob nws lub qub neeg zoo lis qub xwb, txhob khuv xim koj twb tau qhib nws thawj zaug lawm.
Hmoob ruam twb mus sib nrauj nram nom tswv tas lawm cas tseem rov qab los hais ntawm hmoob cas nej ua neej rov qab lawm.
Peb cov pojniam hmoob yog ib co uas zoo tshaj plaws lawm, tab sis qhov lawv liam twb vim yog tim tus txiv cob qhia nkaus xwb, pojniam tsis zoo li txiv neej yuav tau txhob muab txw los yog xyaum kom nws yees loj ces thaum koj kev hlub tsis txaus rau nws lawm nws yuav nrauj koj.
👏 bravo!! Finally a woman(Hmong), who doesn’t put herself under a carpet and let her husband walk all over and over again. 👍👍
Neeg ruam ces zoo li koj tus txij nkawm ko mas
Yog lawm os yog leej twg e thiaj li paub os
Muab nws tsij thoob khib nyiab xwb. Okay
Yus tsis txhob qhuas yus xwb mas lod. Cia zej zog mam li qhuas yus thiab cia yus tus txiv dim lawm khuvxim yus es tuaj piav mas thiaj li yuav yog dua pod
Puas yog koj paub nws.
Girl still alot of good man out there
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Cov txiv neej cem poj niam li ko mas ruam tshaj
Ua cas nej cov tim mekas kos hais txog kev txij nkawm muaj teeb meem heev nej mus yoog mab yoog suav lawm los ua cas
Koj tus txiv ko siab phem 2 yuav npam lauj!!!
Once he starts eating bad again , he’ll go back to himself which is a fat kid. It’s hard to maintain a good diet unless he has good genetics which doesn’t seem to be the case. You got your degree so tell him to kick rocks but actually instead kick boulders. He better remember who made him.
WTF is wrong with 30 dislikes? They just hater.
Kojntus txiv twb saib tsis tais tias koj yog ib tug poj nrauj no es nws tau koj nws thiaj li kom koj ua ib puas yam tsav zaum txaj chaw rau nws los koj tseem ua thiab ces nws thiaj li haj yiam saib tsis tais koj es thiaj li tos ntsoov yuav cem koj li ntawd xwb....
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I….DON’T believe this is Hmong Story,Others too!!
Koj tau master degree hos koj tus husband tau high school diploma xwb mas neb sib piv tsis sib phim ntawm txoj kev kawm, tab sis cas koj ho kam yuav nws? Qhov no ntshe twb vim yog koj tsis zoo nkauj mus phim nyog koj tus txiv qhov zoo nraug.
What is look has to do with anything? Kev zoo nkauj tsuas zoo ib vuag xwb, kev siab zoo zoo mus tag ib sim.
They call it ruam tsab ntses and men’s ego ces txog kawg zoo li aib thaus laus no xwb tiag.
@@roseanimetor8157 Kev zoo nkauj (beauty) attracts men in the first place. For some women, beauty lasts in short time and for some others beauty lasts until they are in their 60's. I think that is long enough. I believe most men chose beauty over kev siab zoo. Thaum hluas kev zoo nkauj yeej kev siab zoo tiam sis thaum laus kev siab zoo yeej kev zoo nkauj....
@@qhovtseeb1083 agreed and if any man wants beauty over a kind-hearted person then just make a lot of money and pay for plastic surgery.