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  • @SagittariusQueen1980
    @SagittariusQueen1980 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    First of all, my mom's parents forbade her from being with my dad when they were teens in the mid 1970s because my dad didn't go to church and didn't come from a wealthy family. When they graduated from high school they eloped against the families wishes and moved to Chicago from Atlanta and had 4 of us kids, I was child #3. To this day our parents have been happily married for 45 years now and they're also grandparents to 7 grandkids, my husband and I have 2 kids together, my older brother has 3, older sister and younger brother has 1 each. My parents were told they're not going to last, they're lasting.

    • @robertsmith2879
      @robertsmith2879 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow, that's quite a story, I really admire your parents for going against their parents and eloping. I really respect your parents and the fact they stayed together this long.

    • @robettgriffin1904
      @robettgriffin1904 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@robertsmith2879 do you want a boyfriend

    • @MsRat
      @MsRat ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow that's incredible ❤😊

    • @stephanybucio5744
      @stephanybucio5744 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@robettgriffin1904ew

    • @Lalalalaala342
      @Lalalalaala342 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ewwwwwww

  • @michellebrunache1827
    @michellebrunache1827 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    A parent job is to be supportive not to judge their kids love it amazing story

    • @denisesaunders5473
      @denisesaunders5473 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      works both ways,the kids should support their single parent if they meet someone new.

  • @republikrat327
    @republikrat327 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sometimes parents miss it too and not just the children only

  • @shakeitup4513
    @shakeitup4513 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The parents are acting so childish they're just upset cuz their GROWN children are dating.

  • @milotickz
    @milotickz ปีที่แล้ว +11

    11:46 Nothing better than pranking their parents to make them get along!

    • @inactive9908
      @inactive9908 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Really? I was grounded by my parents for faking my cousin's fainting few years ago. Though what my parents did was an argument and I tried to get him along, they dont appreciate me. I was wrong, totally wrong about that, I wouldn't ever want to throw prank at parents anymore since then

  • @MariaChristinaFritch
    @MariaChristinaFritch ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The way the mom treats the daughter is like rapunzel from tangled

    • @eugenelau3927
      @eugenelau3927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's really accurate!!

    • @AnandamoyeeRahman
      @AnandamoyeeRahman ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One of the rare times when you speak facts!

    • @eugenelau3927
      @eugenelau3927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AnandamoyeeRahman Partly because I love to recap in my own way!!

  • @stardusttodorki2679
    @stardusttodorki2679 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Can’t they see how happy their kids are ?

    • @eugenelau3927
      @eugenelau3927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are too petty to even see it, it's enough to make people boil in anger!!

    • @robettgriffin1904
      @robettgriffin1904 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@eugenelau3927 will you be my boyfriend

    • @eugenelau3927
      @eugenelau3927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@robettgriffin1904 Yes!!

  • @janabuchheit3389
    @janabuchheit3389 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Lots of times parents and children end up changing roles, the end result of great parenting.

    • @eugenelau3927
      @eugenelau3927 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No wonder some adult children hate being their parents' parent, this would be to teach them a lesson!!

  • @eugenelau3927
    @eugenelau3927 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Old-fashioned parents should let their children grow up and fall in love , there is nothing wrong with that!!! The next generation deserves to be happy and without parental control, it is so damn intoxicating!!! They need to break from their heyday years!!!!!

  • @michellebrunache1827
    @michellebrunache1827 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good thing for them to get along celebrate the holiday together fantastic story love it

  • @pamelajohnson9810
    @pamelajohnson9810 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice video the young man is my favorite actor

  • @surajmanickam8179
    @surajmanickam8179 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a good 👍 story.

  • @ameliawilson1053
    @ameliawilson1053 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I totally believe that children need to stay in a place parents doesn’t need to be around any grown up conversations, start anything in front of the children because what they say or what it will be is.

  • @masonkline2644
    @masonkline2644 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    parents like this make me so mad

  • @ameliawilson1053
    @ameliawilson1053 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love the consistency from you guys

  • @jamesbondtraining
    @jamesbondtraining ปีที่แล้ว +14

    you have to be very careful about this sort of thing. By all means teach your children to pick their partners carefully and to stay safe. However if you go to far you may drive them away from you. What happens if they have children and one day they ban you from seeing them? I have seen this happen!

    • @eugenelau3927
      @eugenelau3927 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly, I even caution my nephew and niece to be extra careful but it's up to them!!

    • @robettgriffin1904
      @robettgriffin1904 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      James Bond do you want a boyfriend

  • @miguelkennedy9520
    @miguelkennedy9520 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like watching videos by Illumeably :)

  • @honeybear608
    @honeybear608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Usually those guys are so wrapped in their careers,that they don't really don't have time to be in any relationship

  • @jaminjohannashow
    @jaminjohannashow ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great video! I've been with my husband for 6 years, married for 4.5 yrs, my mom still refuses to get to know him and judges him, me, his family without knowing any of us, regardless of how many times we have all tried. I might steal this prank 🤣 haha jk my mom has been divorced a long time and my 30 year old sisters still live with her and she wants that and so they...I see through it. He has tried to get to know her so many times. Praying she will someday get to know him as he is an amazing man and the only man for me and also gets to know me... not who she believes I am or the me from when I was a child. She judges us and none of it is correct. I pray for her all the time. Love this channel!

    • @babybunny2579
      @babybunny2579 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just keep in mind if she doesn't respect y'all, it probably won't change when y'all have kids, you'll have to worry about her over stepping, and possibly bashing y'all in front of your kids. It's okay to still pray for those we love, but it's also okay to go low to no contact until they learn to respect y'all, and to hold them accountable for their actions. Being toxic isn't okay, but they can be toxic by themselves. Don't let negative people drag you down.
      I'm still in my early/ mind 20's but I realize a lot of things I've learned is good that I've learned/ am learning it now vs way later in life.

    • @wbaviatorpilot
      @wbaviatorpilot ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If your mom doesn’t change then maybe you should cut your toxic mother out of your life if you ever plan on having kids one day because I wouldn’t want your kids to have a grandmother that would be so cruel and nasty to your future kids. And, once you cut ties with your mom then maybe she’ll learn her lesson, get the message and accept it .
      That’s my advice. Period

    • @jaminjohannashow
      @jaminjohannashow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @babybunny2579 I completely agree with you. Thanks for your advice and for caring. I haven't responded to her for weeks, she stopped for a while and then it happened again, then months after talking to her and it is back to bashing and judging, over stepping, doesn't respect us and our boundaries, so I am going to have to not contact for quite some time. I am disabled with stage 3 crps and other severe pain conditions like spinal stenosis and disc problems in my back, but stage 3 crps is the worst pain there is on the national pain scale and use a wheelchair to get around or my husband carries me on piggy back ride until healing comes. I can stand and sit for a short period of time and walk short distances only. My mom has made up lies to the family saying I'm not in pain, I've sent her my doctor's records, and she tells me to "just get up and etc. I got hurt by a chiropractor many years ago, but I believe healing will come in Gods timing. If by using a doctor, there is only one doctor who can help me (1 in 3 in the USA) for surgery on my nerves in Las Vegas but he doesn’t take insurance so it will be a miracle getting the funds to do so, so a miracle either way! We have a ministry in person and online on tiktok, Facebook, another youtube channel, zoom and in person, and when I get out, my favorite thing to do is outreach...helping others in any way we can, and she has tried to divide this ministry and doesn't like that. She doesn't like me helping other women and being in ministry, she wants me to be just like her and because my sisters as they follow everything she says and have never lived a life sadly. My brothers have had to go no contact for a while and it worked for them but not for me yet, and I sense there has been jealousy there from her side. My family from my husband's side is very sweet and supportive and I've always wanted her to meet them but she refuses. I'm glad my brothers, uncle and cousins won't listen to what she says and we have a good relationship.
      Unfortunately there is no getting to her so I leave her in God's hands and as you said, pray for her but hold her accountable until she can respect us.
      Oh gosh...I couldn't imagine when we have kids, if we do it will be next year. Things definitely need to change prior to then. Thank you for your advice, which is spot on and wise. I'm glad you know these things at your age, I wish I did when I was your age. I pray that God blesses you, that He protects and sustains you. Have a nice weekend!

    • @jaminjohannashow
      @jaminjohannashow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @wbaviatorpilot that is very true. I wouldn't allow her to be that way to our kids so why would I allow this to continue to us... I continue to move forward but there is so much division. It's too toxic. I've went no contact a few months now after trying to talk with her multiple times and going no contact a few weeks at a time. I need to just need to cut contact and pray for her as I hold her accountable. I can't make her change. She has to be willing to change and see what she doing and as you said, learn what she did and accept it and change. Thank you for your advice.

  • @mehchocolate1257
    @mehchocolate1257 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This reminds me of romeo and Juliette

  • @garrettmiles3644
    @garrettmiles3644 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Makes me think of the old Andy Griffith show episode where Andy told Opie, “Here I’m supposed to be teaching ou about life, and you’re the one teaching me”.

  • @carolynhohl3998
    @carolynhohl3998 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Excellent videos! So glad that I subscribed!

  • @arjunyadhati6494
    @arjunyadhati6494 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The parents even remind me of Mr. James Williams and Ms. Jeannette Gibson from “That’ll Teach ‘Em”

  • @denisesaunders5473
    @denisesaunders5473 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never stopped my daughter seeing whoever she wanted and i was there when they didnt last and yet she complained when i found someone.now i stay single for an easy life

  • @Fall4l1f3
    @Fall4l1f3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3.56 I am still whatching

  • @rinabradley3478
    @rinabradley3478 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My mom tell me I’m not ready for a boyfriend

  • @arjunyadhati6494
    @arjunyadhati6494 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Those parents are just judging before they get to know them.
    And they remind me of Jesse Katsopolis from “Full House”

    • @eugenelau3927
      @eugenelau3927 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bob saget reference, he was host of America's funniest home videos and part of the Full House cast, later Fuller House!! RIP!!

  • @misstressglamourghoul_6663
    @misstressglamourghoul_6663 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    From what they said about being judge mental they still are based on what they’ve stated 😊

  • @kellywillis6711
    @kellywillis6711 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww adorable kids shown there parents the way love this 😊

  • @soccerarena4129
    @soccerarena4129 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If this was in Africa,the two of them would have been grounded till dawn 😂😂😂

  • @cheer0ntopxx
    @cheer0ntopxx ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love this channel

  • @YTMakiManga
    @YTMakiManga ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tbh This channel is better than dhar man

  • @sam11297
    @sam11297 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video as always. I love the actors in your videos!!

  • @stacysaint-ilma781
    @stacysaint-ilma781 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was a very good lesson at the end. Reminds me a little bit of my favorite Shakespeare.

  • @Melon_experiments
    @Melon_experiments ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Drey is so tall

  • @jfpollard
    @jfpollard ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Did any one else just wanna knock the wine glass out of her hand?

  • @laylasachoo2393
    @laylasachoo2393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this video❤❤

  • @Att31
    @Att31 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If my parents did that I'd just drive off🤣

  • @Monkey-D-Luffy875
    @Monkey-D-Luffy875 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I get there trying to protect them. But if it is a mistake they gotta see for themselves.

  • @MDE128
    @MDE128 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOL, at first, I thought they were step-siblings dating each other in the beginning.

  • @rupertbryanii9249
    @rupertbryanii9249 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A parent should never judge their kids before getting to know them.

  • @Angel-lz9wp
    @Angel-lz9wp ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this reminds me of my parents they always say I am not ready for a boyfriend but I know i am and I have a boyfriend now and we love each other very much

  • @ChloeMayfield356
    @ChloeMayfield356 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex’s parents didn’t like me. They acted like they did for 4 months. His dad judged me from a single picture, saying IMMEDIATELY “yep she has CP” and acting like he knew how my disability affects me just because my ex’s grandma used to work with those with my condition. He only saw me for 30 minutes. As soon as they left, he started trash talking about me to his son saying “you won’t work out with her, she’ll never be able to have kids, etc” which was ALL a damn lie. Over the summer the grandma accused me of being toxic and controlling and the younger brother told my ex “I liked you better with Taylor” hated that I wasn’t Catholic yet and had a disability. They also told him “people with disabilities can’t marry each other.” BS! Yes they can! My ex defended me for a little bit then he eventually gave in to his parents demands to dump me. He’s in his 20s and still lets his strict as fuck parents dictate his life.

  • @lno5808
    @lno5808 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This channel is my backup dharr Mann when they don’t upload

  • @AnnaSmith-m7b
    @AnnaSmith-m7b 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @pamelajohnson9810
    @pamelajohnson9810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video

  • @raphielmatos6427
    @raphielmatos6427 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BACK UP BARBIE😂

  • @Myboyz689
    @Myboyz689 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when she said Lori i thought of a song called ''im an albatraoz''

  • @themultiversalalien
    @themultiversalalien ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I doubt that Alex Jason Lee King & Evandra Aurelia would make a good couple in these videos. Every video I watch based on Mr King or Ms Aurelia, they just can't be in a good relationship.

    • @Xaoire
      @Xaoire ปีที่แล้ว

      HOW this was made 30 min ago how do you comment 15 before he upoaded

    • @themultiversalalien
      @themultiversalalien ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Xaoire Because this was premiere. You can still leave a comment before a video premieres.

    • @Xaoire
      @Xaoire ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh

    • @Xaoire
      @Xaoire ปีที่แล้ว

      I watched a premier yesterday but it wasn't this

  • @taylatiktok
    @taylatiktok ปีที่แล้ว +1

    at first i thought that they were bro and sis
    lolxxx

  • @glendawest4487
    @glendawest4487 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The mother was alittle conceited about she knows Mac & cheese was really good

  • @annwairimu
    @annwairimu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Waiting.
    Let's begin.
    Another video another banger 💜

  • @miltonbrownjr3755
    @miltonbrownjr3755 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Back in the day, my grandma used 2 keep my father from seeing my mother since she was the only girl out of the 4 children my grandma had. My father came around this 1 time & my grandma said you wanna date my daughter that bad, I tell you what, if you come 2 church with me this coming Sunday, I'll let you date my daughter. Grandma figured he wouldn't come but he did. After they got home, my grandma reluctantly let my father date my mother

  • @crystallewis2511
    @crystallewis2511 ปีที่แล้ว

    All things I been loving use to hurt me too strong every day then

  • @abdulrahmanalali51
    @abdulrahmanalali51 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Lori

  • @hahhahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    @hahhahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:52 the jersey is golden state warriors which is basketball not football

  • @ameliawilson1053
    @ameliawilson1053 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @Illumeably, I totally believe that children need to stay in a place parents doesn’t need to be around any grown up conversations, start anything in front of the children because what they say or what it will be is

  • @abdulrahmanalali51
    @abdulrahmanalali51 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Drey

  • @neddyconstant5816
    @neddyconstant5816 ปีที่แล้ว

    50th video
    This sounds like Romeo & Juliet.
    These 2 love each other.
    Time 4:41PM Sat 12/10/22

  • @catface4301
    @catface4301 ปีที่แล้ว

    at first, i legit thought that the boy and girl's parents were like dating or smtg

  • @abdulrahmanalali51
    @abdulrahmanalali51 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Cassandra

  • @lynnejohnston8922
    @lynnejohnston8922 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You wonder how is the children and how is the adults the children are acting more like the adults 🤣

  • @cassy8834
    @cassy8834 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow her name is Cassandra like me

  • @Timmysvegankitchen
    @Timmysvegankitchen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Romano and Juliet modern day

  • @h.a.s.7612
    @h.a.s.7612 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:27 At least there's one thing they can agree on. Seriously though, I still don't get WHY the hate, though?

  • @canadianrushfan12
    @canadianrushfan12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good old 555 numbers!

  • @yvonnefinch4562
    @yvonnefinch4562 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Faking illness or allergies how low can one get. You do not play with life and death situations because you will get karma

  • @Xaoire
    @Xaoire ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Epic vid pls respond to this comment in a reply and this notification just popped up for me

  • @Radom_user
    @Radom_user ปีที่แล้ว +1

    11:52 they way he said children 😂 trolldren

  • @fartblunt
    @fartblunt ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WHY IS THAT MAN SO HAIRY??

  • @User26352
    @User26352 ปีที่แล้ว

    SYLVESTER STALLONE IS ALREADY SHORT!!!

  • @MariaChristinaFritch
    @MariaChristinaFritch ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One time when I was in high school i had my very first boyfriend and my boyfriend came to visit me and my dad got so mad he had to get a gun 🔫 and he scared my high school boyfriend away

    • @AnandamoyeeRahman
      @AnandamoyeeRahman ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg! So sorry girl. What did your mother do? Was she on your side?

  • @AntoineBayok
    @AntoineBayok 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That dad is so hairy 😭😭😭

  • @theonepro3103
    @theonepro3103 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just work with dhar mann.

  • @Thezimksguy
    @Thezimksguy ปีที่แล้ว

    Mrs William is not like each other

  • @FRANCISCORODRIGUES-ke7rk
    @FRANCISCORODRIGUES-ke7rk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is this dhar mann coppy

  • @kathelynwilliams6584
    @kathelynwilliams6584 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If anyone tells me this channel is better than dhar mann, I'm gonna kill you😃
    This video is so childish, yeah its relatable but its so dramatic🤦

    • @SohanaTazin50
      @SohanaTazin50 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People obviously don't know the definition of good acting, if they did, then they wouldn't have said this

  • @itachiuchiha6423
    @itachiuchiha6423 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahh shit here we go again

  • @NoahAviation2010
    @NoahAviation2010 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The kids dad gots so much chest hair why

  • @yadielenielbellecolon982
    @yadielenielbellecolon982 ปีที่แล้ว

    😁👌

  • @aliciareneephillips956
    @aliciareneephillips956 ปีที่แล้ว

    RME!!!!!!

  • @jordanyoung1836
    @jordanyoung1836 ปีที่แล้ว

    😕😕😕

  • @ThisChannelIsAbandoned300
    @ThisChannelIsAbandoned300 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bruh

  • @zaigames2
    @zaigames2 ปีที่แล้ว

    F

  • @animallover9964
    @animallover9964 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    bro this is copy of dhar mann like why

  • @Elvis_47
    @Elvis_47 ปีที่แล้ว

    This faking is ILLEGAL! ,,☺️🤣😂🤣😂🤣☺️🤣☺️🤣