When my daughter was 4 or 5 she told me that she hated skirts and dresses, and would only wear shorts or jeans. She also told me that she wanted a "front tail" like her cousin, Oliver. The only thing this did is make me laugh, NOT put her on bloody hormone blockers!
AND RIGHTLY SO THAT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT INSANE AND YOU ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN HOW CAN THEY KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS BLATANT ABUSE 🤷🏻♂️🤬
At 8years old (I'm 35 now), I asked my mum if I can be a boy and the best thing she ever said to me was, "you can't be a boy, don't be silly, your a Tom boy but you'll grow out of it when you get older". It lasted until I was 15 and I'm now happy with how I look as a female. If I had done hormones like this kid I would be in a right mess as I wouldn't be able to go back.
I was also a tomboy, but never had the looks to be a pretty girl/woman at any age. I was attracted to 'boyish' activities as a kid and went on to be a lorry driver (wow - what a fight for survival in a macho 'go back to the kitchen' culture), and manager ("I don't take orders from women - you are not my mother"). Fed up watching boys/men mess up I aced all the professional exams in the industry and started and ran my own business. Stuff the old notions of what women can do, how they behave and what they must look like, and what men can do, how they must behavie and what they must look like. Get a life - it is not about gender it is about capability and challenging simplistic gender stereotypes and restrictions. Male/female: not relevant to your skills and abilities. Gay/straight: not relevant to your skills and abilities. Challenge the gender-/sex-obsessed idiots and you pave a road to a better future for everyone.
I'm a man. But I had a friend who was a "Tom Boy" Me and my friends thought she was cool! She was nice and liked to play the same games as us. Once in a while we would play house because she wanted to. Than we would go outside and play ball. No big deal 😂
The fact the mother is casually talking to James about his eggs never maturing while he's hardly even paying attention is just... God, you can tell none of them understand the gravity of this decision
If she’s hoping for biological grandchildren that will no longer be possible for either child. I don’t think she realized that when she pushed it on her children.
@@KitsuneAdorableIf they are only on blockers, yes they can. It only suspends puberty. When the blockers are discontinued, if hormone replacement therapy is not prescribed, they will experience the puberty and secondary sexual characteristics of their natal gender. They also use these measures in children with precocious puberty to delay the onset of physiological changes that would have otherwise taken place at much too young an age (ie, think menstruating and/or fertile 5-8 year olds) to be healthy for them.
@@KitsuneAdorableNo one should “expect” to have grandchildren. Also those who want to have kids to pass on their name are narcissistic AF. Their focus needs to only be on raising their own kids. If they happen to get grandkids that’s a bonus. But at this rate they might end up without their kids either in a few decades once the kids realize they’ve been duped.
"It's uncomfortable to listen to that" said pretty much every girl ever when the menstruation conversation came up. We didn't go get our uterus cut out. The 4 year old obviously was lacking attention and figured it was the best way to get some. Seriously it's time for parents like this to be charged with child abuse.
I had the opposite experience. At 8 or 9 I saw a tampon ad and demanded that my mother explain to me what they were. She was uncomfortable, I just wanted to know what the weird thing on the TV was 😂
@@thepoetesskhansaa Boys actually do too. It turns out puberty hormones are just absolutely insane. Isaac is spot on; adults that want to transition, go ahead. People under like, 20, on the other hand... your body is still developing and there's about a 95+% chance you'll grow out of it and be thankful you didn't do anything
@@SakuraAsranArt 😂 I wish I could have been so bold as a child. I need more of this kind of energy in my life. But yes, I've said this repeatedly: female puberty sucks. It's messy; it's painful, and for a lot of girls it leads to unwanted attention from boys - and men - that they are not equipped to deal with. Looking back I feel grateful that I didn't grow breasts the way many of my peers did and remained fairly flat-chested all the way up until the past summer, at age 31, when I got pregnant (as an aside, my body image has somehow never been better than it is now that I'm third trimester pregnant - someone needs to explain to me how that's possible).
I remember a girl at school who was a complete tomboy, both at play and hobby... When I met her a few years on, she had matured into a beautiful intelligent young lady.
@@welsh.truth.dragon3914 Unfortunately some parents these days don't allow them to go through that tomboy phase and think they need hormone blockers instead.
These parents are insane. "I don’t want to go through puberty." "Why?" "Because it's uncomfortable." Spoiler alert, LIFE is uncomfortable from time to time. Your path through life should not be mapped out to avoid discomfort or struggle. Never overcoming adversity or discomfort will only guarantee you grow up to be weak and incapable of thriving in the world.
The truth is that almost everyone can be either an egg or sperm donor, but not everyone has what it takes to be a parent. These two, in my opinion, don't have it, and those children are going to suffer the consequences of it.
I reckon, every time I ask my daughter to do a household job she “doesnt want to do it”, does that mean i just let her off and say “its ok you dont need to do it then”,… NO of course not, why would you let them off for a biological function of the human body like puberty… insanity..
I'm a transexual woman. I'm quite surprised how pleasant this video was. Thank you for addressing this problem as what it is, instead of just saying we are all crazy people. I knew I was transgender at about 13. That was in the 90s. A time where trans people were actually persecuted. I didn't come out till I was 39. It took me a year of weekly therapy before I was 100% certain I NEEDED to transition...not wanted...needed. How the hell is it that a CHILD can make such a life changing decision that a 40 year old took a year to make. I took a year because I understood the weight of what I was doing. There is NO WAY these kids can understand what they are signing up for. BTW...I have two sons who are 10 and 16. If either one said they were transgender. The first thing I'd do would be take away social media for 3-4 weeks and see if they are still transgender. If they still said they felt that way, I'd get them a great therapist. I'd let them social transition...but ABSOLUTELY NO medications or surgeries until they are an adult.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, appreciate the perspective. This is the exactly kind of representation that is easy to support; sane, sensible and from a position of respect. I salute you and wish you all the best.
@@iliketurtles4463 It took a year of therapy to address my mental trauma to make absolutely sure that the root of that trauma was gender dysphoria and not other circumstances. Not sure what you mean by brainwashing. I had these issues and suppressed them since about 1994. They weren't "brainwashing" 14 year olds into transitioning back then. It would be another six years before I even owned a computer. On contrary, the only exposure to transgender people in my life back then was "transexuals going wild" on Jerry Springer. Being transgender back then was a very shameful thing, and that's why it took so long for me to come to terms with what I am. But I did it the proper way. I didn't "self identify". I got diagnosed from multiple professionals.
@@iliketurtles4463 It's called taking the time to make absolutely sure that permanently changing everything about myself was the right decision for me. I had to make sure I was transitioning because of gender dysphoria. My gender dysphoria caused anxiety, depression, and PTSD symptoms. I had to make sure those mental health symptoms were caused by gender dysphoria. If those symptoms were caused by gender dysphoria, then transitioning would most likely cure them. If they came from another source, then the chances of those symptoms going away from transitioning would have been slim. I can say two years later that that was exactly what happened. The farther along my transition went the more those symptoms went away and I found contentment and happiness. There are so many "angry trans people" out there because their mental health issues were not caused by gender dysphoria. They transitioned, but are still miserable. Transitioning didn't alleviate their mental health issues. In fact, it probably made things worse. That's why I went to therapy for nearly a year before beginning.
There are a few medical situations where puberty-blockers are essential for a few years. Since the drugs retard physical and mental growth, patients are monitored carefully. Obviously, the current fad to feed children large, unregulated amounts of the drugs has serious consequences. Why that’s considered legal, I’ve no idea.
@@clogs4956 "There are a few medical situations where puberty-blockers are essential for a few years." Who cares this is not only irrelevant information but it is the vast exception and you don't debate or make general rules on the exception.
@Rinnief Do you think International Law is actually a thing? How soft and child like of a mind do you have? Do you think there are international police that run around enforcing laws? It is might makes right internationally. How are you this daft? Another thing that your dullard brain hasn't figured out is that most of these international laws are filled with a bunch of unrelated bullshit so the more powerful nations can bully the smaller nations with a piece of paper and threats and you are thinking everything is unicorns and rainbows...
They're trying to overcorrect their "horrible childhood," which basically means they think. When I was a kid, I would always want to go out to the mall when I was 8, and my dad wouldn't let me. Hmm, maybe my kid wants to.go.to the mall at 8 years old. That's why their are so many kids that are assholes.that want to only get their way and. When I was raised the hardset thing my parents had to tell me was that girls could like blue and boys can like pink, my parents had to sit me down and tell me that. These parents see their son slightly appreciating the colour purple, they want to be the trendy parent with a trans kid.
Their kids are self entitled, if they say no, the kid will scream, cry and call them worthless, abusive and shitty. I've seen it happen before. I snapped at the kid. They shut up with their mouth agape. Well, don't be a spoiled little bitch.
@@Spudpotato08 Part of being a parent is dealing with a kid who is spazzing out. These people have abdicated their responsibilities to their children in favor of what is easy. Parenting is not easy.
Where are the social services that you Americans are always banging on about? Those two should not be left next or near children, or animals for that matter..😡
I dunno mate.. pretty close tho, ya.. "Taking testosterone will be the first permanent thing", after taking irreversible puberty blockers.. And, "our research tells us we're doing the right thing.." while suicide rates for the un-transitioned are 42%, those that *do* transition are 43%.. They're up there too. And if 'gender is a social construct', who tf came up with the 'research' saying it "can't possibly" be a social contagion? As Isaac pointed out, they're Californians, for crying out loud.. why are the numbers so freakishly high in Liberal strongholds, yet so minuscule elsewhere?
if i asked my dad i wanted to be a girl, another time. HOLY SHIT I AM DEAD IF I SAY THAT IN FRONT OF MY DAD. the rest of my family will try a snap me out if i did, which im not, and probably not work but my grandma will get me to stop and only her.
i’m a senior in high school. i’m currently working on a presentation about how puberty blockers should be banned. i present it tomorrow. can’t wait to make some people pissed
Isn't it weird how families that are trans friendly always seem to have trans kids? Almost like talking to 4 year olds about gender is a bad idea or something. Just let kids be kids.
And now at least in America I think they're teaching this stuff to kids, which will make more kids who are trans, I don't think they can have children which ultimately means a decrease in population, idk very suspicious
i agree bestie! we should assign less gender stereotypes to things and support our kids being themselves if they come out! keep spreading that love! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
My cousin has 3. The oldest was 15 when started and her breasts removed before 16. The middle was like 12 and the youngest 9. Not sure how that works but lol wow its fucked. My aunt got old and moved into that insanity lol. Poor lady
i support trans people but i also advocate for age restrictions on transitioning to be put in place like the setup countries have for alcoh0l consumption.
I completely agree -- medical intervention should NEVER be allowed to happen to kids... they may just be confused... or in this case, the parents are pushing it on them. No way a 4yo says "I'm trans".
And 4 year olds also call themselves dinosaurs and astronauts so I wonder what those so called parents would want to permanently change about their kids then.. it’s insanity.. it’s a social trend.. it’s coming from Sat@n and people don’t even realize it.. they’re so brainw@shed but they chose to see what they wanted to see..
Agreed. If we can't get tattoos until 18 because it's permanent, then why the hell should we be allowed to medically change our body to another gender before 18? The whole reason for waiting to get a tattoo is because we're not old enough to make that decision with a mature line of thought, so why are we letting kids choose their gender at 4?
I didn't even know what trans was up till 15 yr old I Thought those were dude cosplaying as a girl I can't even comprehend how a 4 yr old I capable to understand this shit I'm 16 btw 💀
This is the equivalent to when I was in highschool and all of a sudden all girls thought they were bi cause they'd kiss other girls to get the jocks off. Do what you feel in your heart not what you think people want. It's sad and scary. I accept all forms of people and respect anyone but give the kids damn time to figure it out themselves
Trans can't, they know they cant propagate to keep the population up. Thus indoctrination children to be likenthem is the only way for them to ensure any semblance of continuance.
@@MasterofJuKBWaaS You could if you didn't have a bunch of unscrupulous assholes that will use anything and anybody in their own dumb bids for power. "Won't you think of the children?"
I'm not lying when I say that when I was 5 or 6, I sat my mother down in the living room, and had her write that I was officially a ninja turtle, and that my new name was Leonardo. She played along for 5 minutes after which she put the pen down and said something in the lines of "Ok now, playtime is over, this is not happening." I remember feeling a bit frustrated about it, for about 5 minutes, then I went on with my life. I am now a happy Teletubby and I go by the name Po.
Around August or September I went school supply shopping for my children, without them. I like people, generally, so I wound up chatting breifly to a fellow mother. She was around my age, I'd guess (36 years old). Our conversation was about being pi**ed off about the high cost these days. So please, tell me WHY, in GOD'S GREEN EARTH did this complete stranger decide that telling me her 5 year old was trans. I didn't ask. Nothing about the conversation or me screamed I'M A SUPPORTER OF THE TQ+ SQUAD. She got an ,"Oh." From me, and a kind, "Hey, gtg, nice chatting, buh bye." I'm not looking for a confrontation, but I'm also not going to give blind consent.
I'm convinced it's another form of narcissism and possibly with a touch of Munchausen syndrome. It's all about 'look at me' but through their kids. I hope when all the kids who are physically and mentally scarred as adults, due to their parents behaviour, abandon them to live in uncaring care homes to live out their lives. There won't be any grandchildren to visit either, despite what the morons say, as men cannot have babies even if they mess with their bodies and women who mess with their bodies also stop having the ability to make babies. Give it a generation and the population in the West will halve and China can take over the world. I won't care, I'll have moved on.
Attention seeking parent. Passes on the same trait to her child. And when that child comes out with a confused idea (as they often do), instead of protecting the child from herself, she indulges it. And now she wants recognition for being progressive (degenerate to normal people).
Just got banned for two weeks from a Facebook group by their admins. It’s a men’s page recently overtaken by a lot of women from the US. I stated that I don’t agree trans women are women. I said they’re a subcategory of men and that the prefix Cis isn’t necessary. I said only subcategories need extra definition. Like cars are typically petrol run but we say electric car/vehicles to differentiate from the standard. Apparently it’s hate speech to say that and I’m a fascist and bigot. Who’s the fascist if I’m the one being silenced for an opinion that differs from the oppressive superior opinion? I was told men and women are the same and anthropologists, doctors and scientists all agree on that. I pointed out the differences just within the field of anaesthesia and was laughed at. It’s a disturbing way we’re headed
These are the people who continually say your silencing & hurting them when just trying to have an open discussion where they are literally shouting you down / trying to de-platform & cancel you or actually physically assaulting you.. what do you expect.
@@shannenmr that’s the ones! I could have been Transexual for all they know. They didn’t like that word either. I said “they’re attempting to transition from their biological sex to the other” 😂not sure how it’s hate speech
Im a fully transitioned trannsexual woman and i absolutely think you're right about there being a trend, especially in young women and girls. In fact the trans community is so heavily polluted with the trend that its a controversial take to those in the trans community for me to say "you cannot be trans without diagnosable gender dysphoria"
Do you think the massive exposure that this gets these days makes it harder for you? Do you get persecuted for your views? I for one appreciated your perspective on this so thanks!
@@Benjamin-su6fc I do have issues with internalized shame and self hate over just being so embarrassed I'm associated with these crazies, but I'm lucky in that most people cannot tell I'm trans in my every day life. So unless I'm actively seeking out communities online or looking for a support group of trans people in my community, I don't have to deal with it. (And so I simply don't, went years without engaging at all with the trans community and was much happier for it). I definitely do receive hatred when I do engage in the trans community though, because I'm outspoken about my views
@@Linothele, it sounds like it's less internal at this moment in time, thank you for sharing this. I know there are some damn intolerant people out there, but think most sensible people would never dream of associating you with the extremists. You are coming across as the total opposite and I for one think it's great when people such as yourself speak up and show that tiktok is not a fair representation of all. It breaks my heart to think that anyone can go through something as huge as that and then get backlash from it due to people that present as if they are the ones helping and supporting. Sorry to waffle, have an awesome day :)
@@vg7735 I was thinking about that just an hour ago and concluded I have absolutely no idea what the lunatics in charge have in store. I do know at some point there will be an 'alien invasion' and in the last few years the 'news' has begun rolling that out.
@@vg7735 World War, then as the cycle continues, hard times create strong people. Then the strong people will create good times, which will create weak people. Just a cycle.
His wife will drug him at dinner time then gag and tie him up and 2 big men will take him away and brainwash him into thinking he's a female. And when he gets back home the neighbors will all start saying to each other in private "what happened to him."
I know a little girl who thought she was a 'boy' just because she would rather play sports than with dolls. Had to explain to her that she can like whatever she wants and still be a girl. I think thats whats happening, a lot with these kids associate the things they like with a gender so they must be that gender then parents and the education system just blatantly support this, add on social media influence and it makes it 100x worse.
As a society, we arbitrarily assign gender to practically everything. Most of those things have absolutely nothing to do with perceived gender OR biological sex. Everything from colors to clothes to toys to favorite activities are gender targeted, and I'm sure this can be quite confusing for children (even without gender dysphoria, which DOES EXIST, btw) who don't fit into the arbitrary gender stereotypes prescribed by their culture or community.
In 1976 the book Sybil was published about a woman with Multiple Personality Disorder. There was an explosion in diagnoses of MPD after Sybil even though it had been a very rare condition up until that point. I feel like we are now witnessing a very similar phenomenon with gender dysphoria.
There was a spike in demonic possession cases after the exorcist came out after close encounters the ufo sightings increased exponentially people are allways looking for the zeitgeist whatever it is
MPD has since been renamed to DID (Dissociative identity disorder) and yes you're correct theres alot more teenaged kids saying they have it especially on tiktok for attention
I’m a gen z and I can confidently say there are two genders and i won’t stop saying this Hey no one else reply I’m trying to keep this number for… scientific purposes
Yep, there's only two and will always be two. Anyone who worries about this, has nothing else to worry about. Why worry about fuckin gender when war is raging, people are being slaughtered, inflation has gone sky high, genocide in different countries, children dying of starvation, yet these victim player snowflakes still sit in their comfortable homes, bitching about gender. Pathetic. Absolutely disgusting and pathetic.
My story. When I was about 6-7 I said to my mum I want to be a boy. She said ok, she got me boys hair cut , got me boys clothes. I enjoyed when people called me boy knowing that they are wrong. Lucky there was no hormon/ puberty blockers then (90s) because after some months I was back being a girl and never thought about being boy again. Just can’t imagine if I would be given some drugs back then and be brainwashed that i will be boy now. I am very feminine woman now. It’s shocking what’s happening!
When I was in the 8th grade, I thought I was black. My friends and I would listen to Biggie, Tupac, and other popular rappers, sag our pants, and speak like a gang member to one another. We even used to call each other, “playa”, or “ni**a”. People used to call us, “Wiggers”. That lasted about a year. When I was in my 20’s, I decided I liked motorcycles a lot…so, I started hanging with Hells Angels and other biker gangs, became a bouncer at a nightclub, and partied ALL DAY AND NIGHT. That lasted about 10 years. Now I just work, write songs, and lift weights- that’s the real me. I’m glad I experienced these things, but eventually, I got to know who I really am, and that is priceless. 🐰🎸🎶✌️
@@JackTheRabbitMusic It's a good job you grew out of it because making everyone accept you as black just because you said you feel black is absurd while making everyone accept you as a woman just because you said you felt feminine is perfectly fine. Make it make sense.
@@st0nedpenguin You misunderstood me, I didn’t ACTUALLY think I was black. I just went along with what my friends were doing to be a part of the crew. I wanted to fit in. You do dumb shit when you’re young.
Isn't it weird how the parents that talk to toddlers about gender end up with the weird gender queer kids? I'm beginning to think there's more nurture than nature at play here.
@@warlordiseppi oh wow, you're right. I forgot how much I loved that movie. I know what I'm watching tomorrow night! Very true statement though, very relevant to what we've been seeing the past few years. The seed planting and brainwashing that takes place within these kids favorite internet bubbles/echo chambers is very real. Most of these "trans activists" aren't even trans, but they do stand to make a lot of money off of each child they turn into a future life long patient. It's a billion dollar industry.
A woman brought up a good point where she said a woman she knew wanted to get her tubes tied because she didn't want kids. The doctors tried to talk her out of it, as she was still in her 20s, saying "Oh you may change your mind later and regret your decision". Which is funny because they don't bat an eye when prescribing puberty blockers to minors. I mean can't they change they're mind later and regret it too.
At 34 with two teenages doctors won't give me any form of permanent birth control because "I'm young and might change my mind" even though its something ive been asking for for the last decade
I didn’t want kids at 18 and was not able to get my OBGYN to tie my tubes until I was 38 I think and every time I went to my appointments I had the nurse or doctor write in my file I do not want kids and want my tubes tied. I had to work hard and document my desire and finally convinced the doctor that I was 100% serious and had to sign all kinds of waivers etc at almost 40 like 20 years of asking! How is this even possible?!
I knew in my 20s I didn't want kids. Idiot male gynecologist wouldn't give me a hysterectomy at age 41, even when I was having horrible problems. Because I might change my mind about kids. GMAFB! I ditched him, got a female gynecologist, and had Mt hysterectomy. A fibroid, the size of a grapefruit, was removed in the process. I, personally, don't think men should be allowed to be gynecologists.
I knew in my 20s I didn't want kids. My male gynecologist wouldn't give me a hysterectomy, even though I was having horrible problems. He wanted me to wait 4 more years because i might change my mind about popping out a kid. I won't go into details. I was 41. I ditched him and got a female gynecologist who gave me the hysterectomy right away. During that process, she removed a grapefruit sized fibroid. I, personally, don't think men should be allowed to be gynecologists.
One thing my parents would say when I was growing up. I'm not your friend. I'm your parent. Doesn't mean they can't be a friend when you reach that mature age. But one thing will always remain. You are their baby and it would be smart to listen to their advice.
This is so incredibly sad for a whole generation. I’m going to call it right now; we’re going to see the self unalive rates and detransition rates skyrocket even more with the abhorrent things the young generations have to go through. As if the damage done to our social lives through social media and the pandemic wasn’t enough.
fact check for ya: detransition rates are under .3%, or 0.003, and many detransitioners only do so because it was unsafe, and retransition later in life. suicide rates are highest for trans people not allowed to get gender affirming care, at around 50%, with the majority being severely depressed at one point or another.
These days it’s probably an attention thing, kids do this for the parents praise, they get it and like it then it continues in to adulthood because fewer people will tell them the truth
My son thought he was a mermaid when he was 5 but I didn't throw him in the ocean to drown because he was obviously not a mermaid and it's my responsibility as a parent to keep my children safe and to guide them down the path of sanity and keep them grounded in reality. I use the same analogy whenever I speak to anyone that is trans
Every kid explores their identity throughout adolescence and their teenage years. You go through phases multiple times throughout that time, I know I did. It's insane that the parents are reinforcing this idea into their kids head and enabling them to commit permanent damage to their bodies.
the problem has always been affirming delusional behaviour. Look at goths in school when I was a kid, none of those people are goths 15 years later why? because society did not affirm them, they ignored them and let them be and they came out of it. whos affirming delusional kids today? teachers in school and the internet along side the media thats televising all the pride crap. Kids see this and think its the "regular thing" not by accepting those who are but it makes them think everyone is and they need to follow suit thats why its becoming so popular. I promise anyone who reads this if you dont affirm your kids delusional behaviour like this family has, they will not suicide, they will grow out of this phase and they will be accepted.
Especially considering that something like 80% of kids that consider themselves gender this or gender that just...grow out of it in a few years. But no, we must permanently disfigure them because of something they said when they were 4.
These monsters put their kids on hormone blockers because puberty is uncomfortable. I have NEVER talked to anyone that said “I love going through puberty”
@@FilmFlam-8008 They also claim it's fine to give kids the same medications used to CHEMICALLY CASTRATE SEX OFFENDERS because they claim it's reversible and you can just "pause" puberty. Complete absurdity.
When that little girl says she doesn't want to go through puberty because it's uncomfortable. News flash that's normal and we all have to go through it. As a child they don't realise how difficult their life will be later on after puberty blockers 😢
My youngest daughter wanted to be a FIRE TRUCK when she was three. What was I supposed to do? So I chopped off both her arms and replaced them with hosepipe then, painted her red 🤦🏻♀️
@@GuitarsRockForever stick an ice cone to her forehead. Replace hands and feet with hooves. Show some videos of girls prancing like horses. Transition complete 😂
As a kid, I was moved around a lot, so I met kids from several different states and a handful of schools. When I was older, I did a lot of work with the youth at the churches I attended, as well as I taught English as a second language at college. I was always seeking my truth, and by joining different churches, I was able to get to know many different families from many different cultures. I was really fortunate to have the experiences I did. I interacted with hundreds, if not thousands of kids. Then there’s just regular life- family, work for the homeless, other charitable work with many different families, secret Santa, I did charitable work throughout my life which allowed me to get to know many families with kids. I also did some big Brother work. There’s really nothing more rewarding than helping those in need and threw it all like kind of adopted a big brother style and the kids really liked me for it. There were some painful experiences too. One of the things that got to me and made me angry, and at times shocked me, was coming across kids who were abused or suffering abuse. The kids trusted me and others I worked with and I think because we weren’t their parents, or an adult from the family, they felt comfortable telling us personal information. Because of it I was able to help a number of children get out of really bad situations. It was rewarding, yet difficult. I can’t even imagine how hard it was for these kids. I used to pray. None of them would grow up to become predators themselves. During my entire life, I only came across two little boys who seemed to be gay at a very young age. In both cases, they lived in a home with single moms who also believed they were gay, and in both cases, it turned out to be true. Both little boys turned out to be gay men. I also knew seven kids that grew up to be in gay or lesbian relationships. There could’ve been more, but those are the only ones I’m sure of. A couple were bisexual. (Two were family) That said, I never once came across children at such a young age who were experiencing transgender identity. I don’t remember any kids being able to verbalize anything complex they were experiencing at such a young age, to the level these kids are. It’s difficult for me to believe these kids weren’t coached. The two little boys who grew up to be gay, acted flamboyant when they were little. I’m talking about 4 to 6 years old. They knew they were different, and would verbalize their experience by saying they liked boys in the way most boys liked girls, but that was it. They weren’t able to explain in detail and their moms, and no one else forced them to. If they had a question, we answered it. They didn’t ask a lot of questions because they didn’t feel as though they needed to I don’t believe. I don’t want to use their names, but if I had the opportunity to ask either of them today, I’d be curious to know what they remember. I’ve been taught through my life that we live and let live. The thing is, at what point do you draw the line and protect kids? If kids are being hurt, I can’t just sit by and let it happen-yet who am I to judge? I come to an important question which is who am I to judge a family who lives by a different set of values and beliefs. How do I know where the line between a different way of life and harming kids is. I have a really difficult time believing these kids have developed such feelings and are able to convey them in such adult terms. It just seems to me that they were coached. That seems dangerous to me. I remember being as delicate as I could with those boys because I never wanted to overstep my bounds, but what’s happening today seems wrong and I truly don’t know what we should all do about it. If anything. I just pray that everyone is able to experience happiness/joy, stay healthy, are able to educate themselves, experience, art, nature, family, friends, and travel to learn about and experience other cultures. I’ve done it and it’s fantastic. I also hope everyone’s able to have their own families, and that they aren’t talked out of having children because there is no greater gift than raising children and being a part of something that amazing. I wish everyone the best. Edit: a very important point that I should probably make and didn’t, is that many of the kids played with toys that didn’t match their gender. I remember little boys throwing on their sisters dresses and having a laugh or the little girls playing with their brothers G.I. Joe’s. A lot of times they were just trying to get at each other, but none of it ever turned into anything. It was just something they did. No one fed into it, because there was nothing to feed into. When I was a little kid, my cousin used to make me play with her Barbies all the time. Can you imagine if that happened today? in some families they might have convinced me to change my gender. This is what concerns me. At the same time who am I to say anything? Scary. It’s a scary time. I searched and searched for peer reviewed, independent and scientific studies. There are none. All that’s out there are politically motivated “studies”. Dangerous stuff.
I said “I’m a boy” when I was around 5, but it was just because I looked up to my big brother and just wanted to be like him. I still knew I was a girl. I was a bit of a tomboy; I didn’t like dresses but I still liked Barbie and Care Bears. I’m glad my parents didn’t take my “I’m a boy” comment to heart.
as a transwoman seeing ppl put kids on blockers is insane to me. it is irreversible and it doesnt just stop puberty it stops a lot of growth and development. one must live as an adult as their birth sex to be sure if they are trans or not. It should be adults only just like tattoos or any body mod.
My best friend in primary school was a tomboy. She grew up into a beautiful young woman, got married, and had a family. This is the life these parents are denying their children. And worse, condemning them to a life of medications.
i watched this video on my TV at first, and just had to look it up on my phone to write this comment. I am SO thankful for my mother shutting down my “i think i’m trans” phase i had in middle/ high school, because i grew out of it. i am so glad she had the love for me that she had to NOT let me go on hormones while i was underage, no matter how badly i thought i wanted them, now sitting in my own house with my husband, i am so thankful every day to my strong mother who shit that shit down!! she kept a clear head and just continuously told me that it was a phase i was going through, i am not trans and i’ll regret doing anything to myself. i absolutely 1000% would have regretted it for the REST of my life. i absolutely agree with you; children should NEVER EVER go on hormones or blockers or have surgeries to change their body, the brain is not fully developed and functional until like age 23 or so, so there’s not way these children nowadays should get their tits chopped off because they feel like a boy for a little bit.
being trans isn't a phase. being a tomboy is a phase. Kids aren't getting their tits chopped off there's a legal age for that to happen and a lot of therapy and doctors appointments before that is even considered. The most a child would be able to get get is hormone blockers which is reversable.
When you look at them both side by side, the dad’s head kinda stretches up like beavis & butthead n the mum’s does the opposite like grug haha can’t unsee it
Society as a whole has failed Gen Z. It's not your fault you grow up with all the bs pushed on you. Kudos for not falling for it but I can't really blame teens for accepting "the message" that's being blasted 24/7
these parents are totally NUTS!!! they will probably never have grand children. And they should be charged with child abuse. how will they justify everything when these kids decide to detransition?
My daughter is now a 17 year old young lady. When she was around about 10 she had been roped into this unfortunate belief via its prevalence online. She began insisting she was male or trans. My wife is not liberal but far moreso than I. The last thing we wanted was to make her feel worse, or to make a life-changing decision at age 10. We simply told her she could do whatever made her feel best once she was an adult, and she can dress however she likes, but that she is, indeed, a female. She understood. She even indulged in a ‘generic’ nickname (JJ in place of her female name) for a time. Once she hit 12 or 13 or so, nearly all of it had disappeared. She was a girl, with her girl name, acting like a girl. She’s not “girly” of course. She likes wild pants as opposed to skirts, but so what? She goes back and forth with boyfriends or girlfriends, but so what? She’s told us she is glad we told her what we told her, and that nothing she chose in that confusing time was permanent. We said, well….thats exactly what we were protecting you from! Heheh See? It’s most often that easy.
I would consider myself a liberal & my friends are, but I know none of them are for hormone replacement & surgery below the age of consent. I'm now concerned for my nephew's kids. The parents have been making statements about their two older kids🤔. Will send this video to them
I wish the parents of todays age used the same common sense as what you have done here, in this way you allowed your child to bloom however they chose, but to do so when they have more experience with life
But that literally the definition of a social transition phase or not and that's what these parents are doing allowing there kid to dress differently and have a hair cut
I was an overweight child too (also bit of a tomboy) and it does make you feel insecure about yourself, especially as a girl if the other girls around you are thin and ultra feminine. Didn’t make me think I was a boy though, but then I grew up in saner times.
I was wondering this. If a girl is already uncomfortable with her body because she doesn’t feel as pretty as the other girls, and perhaps afraid of getting her period, etc., she might take the “out.” I was a tomboy and two of my closest female friends were, too. Two of us are straight and married to men, and one has a child. The other is gay. I was actually excited to grow up and even get my period, but being a woman was presented in a positive way, and it was clear there were many kinds of women one can be. Today, being a woman is constantly described as dangerous, unfair, and burdensome. There is also a narrower range, in some circles, of what paths a woman can be praised for taking. No wonder young girls don’t want to be women. 😢
Think that's the problem with this girl she over weight and thinks if she pretend to be a boy it's ok as for her sister she so beautiful why would her parents let her know what a beautiful Girl she is, I'm so sorry these so call parents are being so stupid. 😢
The biggest problem with those parents is that they are enforcing different behavior. Instead of saying "Don't be silly, don't act stupid", they say "great". The hormone blockers are already changing that kid irreversibly.
And they're ignoring the real issue of the morbidly obese mother passing on her bad habits to their daughter. That's why "James" probably had her mind-warped about being "trans," because she was likely being bullied at school for her weight and heard about this great protective community through tiktok or social media
Don't say "Don't be silly/don't act stupid" OR "Great!" That just total dismissive to total acceptance- two extremes without any meaningful parenting. Why not just ask the kid "what do you mean by you wanna be a boy?" Chances are, they just want different "cool" clothes and hairstyles that are "boyish/girlish". This allows the kid to actually question what they mean and actually put in an effort into understadning themselves and teh world around them.
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot 100% you are totally correct. It seems like the response to the insanity these trans parents inflict on their kids is a swing in the total opposite and also extreme direction. Like let's also resort to abuse cause they're doing it. Dumb. Your also correct there's usually Something a child assumes is just for girls/boys. My son is a good example. He wanted to "be a girl" around age 6 or 7? I asked what he means by that...he wanted to have a tea party and talk (the kid could talk a tree to death at that age, so the idea of sitting around having a chat was right up his alley, not alot of "boy" activities that specifically facilitate that). So I said Let's go make tea! We drank tea and chatted and he knew that it's not an exclusive activity. He's 14 now, all boy, totally fine. And no trauma from me screaming some overreactive b.s like, " your a boy you stupid child don't you even suggest otherwise!."
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot This part 100%. That way the kids just engaging in pretend play AND the kids who actually experience dysphoria are both looked out for.
It is incredibly uncomfortable. I hit puberty at nine, and I didn't think it was right. It felt wrong and I didn't like it. But that doesn't make me a boy, in any way
@@l_goodman2550 agree! I had my first cycle at 10.5 and started growing boobs at 9. My mom was the same. Her sister & my sister were almost 13. Me & mom were the youngest. It's friggin hard to go through but you come out on the other side.
Lol when I was 8 I thought I was a dog and Sailor Moon 😂 lol lol but didn't go around barking at people and knew the real truth. Parents are crazy lol they definitely influenced this
6:35 it’s like me saying to my dad that I want long hair. He knows that when I said I wanted “long hair,” I mean I just want to have long hair. He NEVER made me into a transgender. And even I want to be transgender, he would not approve it because as a minor, my brain hasn’t fully developed yet
I saw on JP Reacts about a 50 year old man who identifies as a young girl (I think 14). He has joined a girls swimming team. Apparently he is allowed to use the women’s change room, showering etc along with the young girls. You would think that the parents would pull their children out of the swimming pool. It really scares me, I’m truly worried.
*It’s uncomfortable to think about going through biological puberty* ?!?!? Shit yeah! Of course it was _uncomfortable!!!_ It sucked!! It sucks for everyone! Both male and female. Christ, I guess we should just give puberty blockers to any kid who gets the heebie jeebies thinking about going through puberty, eh? 🤦🏻♀️ I’m actually glad they’re documenting this the way they are. I’d *love* to see an update in 5, 10, 15 years. I can only imagine…
I’ve actually seen people promote the idea that puberty blockers should be standard issue for all children until they decide what gender they want to be.
@@JAIGH83 Yeah those people, same ones that want to inject you with tracking devices so they can make you vote Democrat 🤡🤡🤡 Another one slides down the conspiracy hole. Stay there ya Goblin
@@JAIGH83 that’s f*cking _WILD._ How did we get here??? Like, what’s science and biology for if we are going to cherrypick? We’re gonna completely disregard physical body parts and chromosomes, but we’re gonna trust science when it comes to cancer and illnesses and other conditions? Like, where do we draw the line? Absolute *madness*
My teenage daughter actually has talked about how she went through a “phase” where she was dressing more “tomboyish” and said for a second there she thought maybe she was a lesbian. She was like, a 4th grader. We talked about it and I told her I went through the same thing at her age, dressing in more boyish clothes. Nobody gave a shit, nobody talked to me about it, nobody made it a thing. And when I asked her why she thought she might have been a lesbian for a while she told me this: “All the girls at school who go through the jeans and flannel and sneakers only phase think they’re gay for a bit, it’s just how it is. We all go through it.” Like. It was a _trend,_ and she thought it was just a part of life, because enough people told her so. Enough people got her to believe that her changing her style as a _child_ somehow correlated with her sexuality. I didn’t teach her that. Her peers did. Imagine if they had convinced her that dressing less feminine meant she wasn’t really a girl. Kids are *that* impressionable. This just makes me sad af because these kids are so confident, especially since their parents endorse their every move. And they trust their parents.
Could it be that big sister saw how special little brother was being treated, and wanted to be male? Could it be that little brother idolised big sister and wanted to be female? Or trans like them? Just.... maybe? Can we let them grow up?
The elder sister looks very obese so it's very likely she was being bullied for weight which sent her down the rabbit hole of transgender, being told if she got bullied for being trans it would be a hate crime. The little brother then saw all the attention his big sister got or transitioning and decided to copy her. It's all just wrong, and the parents are wrong for allowing this.
When the child says I could but I don't want to and the mother responded with why. That moment shows everything. The child literally said they didn't want to and you're still pressuring them to make up their mind on such a crazy decision at a mentality undeveloped age.
as a member of generation z, i am terrified. of everyone in my generation. I once said and stated my belief that there are only 2 genders and I literally was hunted down at school in year 8 and nearly had the crap bashed out of me. as a member of generation z, I am terrified to be alive.
@asquare9316 Not even going to begin to get into non binaries, but by either definition, there are more than 2 genders. Chromosomes? Some people are born with an X and some are born with XXY, those aren't male or female. Bodily structures? Intersex people. While expelling them was entirely the wrong move (if the story is even true at all), the kid was wrong.
The people orchestrating all of this want you (and as many people as possible) to be terrified. Stay strong! That doesn't mean you have to get yourself into situations where you'll get beat up, but don't let fear rule your life.
Hi. Dude here. When i was younger i used to wear my mums high heels in secrecy and pretend to wear dresses (big blankets) in hopes that i could be also be pretty. Ive grown up now. Stereotypical man with a pinch of autism. I grew out of a lot of behaviours, but i still like to feel pretty bow and then. Turns out it's just a kink xD
When my daughter was 4 or 5 she told me that she hated skirts and dresses, and would only wear shorts or jeans. She also told me that she wanted a "front tail" like her cousin, Oliver.
The only thing this did is make me laugh, NOT put her on bloody hormone blockers!
When my daughter was 6 she wanted to be a ninja turtle.
Good job I couldn't afford the shell surgery though, she grew out of it.
Thankfully your not in the woke mind virus or she would have ended up trans
AND RIGHTLY SO THAT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT INSANE AND YOU ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN HOW CAN THEY KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS BLATANT ABUSE 🤷🏻♂️🤬
Calm down captain caps. Gonna initiate an aneurysm. @markgt3492
@@WangNurMouth BLOW ME
At 8years old (I'm 35 now), I asked my mum if I can be a boy and the best thing she ever said to me was, "you can't be a boy, don't be silly, your a Tom boy but you'll grow out of it when you get older". It lasted until I was 15 and I'm now happy with how I look as a female. If I had done hormones like this kid I would be in a right mess as I wouldn't be able to go back.
Same. I was a tom boy until I started liking boys (14yo) and want to look pretty and girly hahaha
I was also a tomboy, but never had the looks to be a pretty girl/woman at any age. I was attracted to 'boyish' activities as a kid and went on to be a lorry driver (wow - what a fight for survival in a macho 'go back to the kitchen' culture), and manager ("I don't take orders from women - you are not my mother"). Fed up watching boys/men mess up I aced all the professional exams in the industry and started and ran my own business. Stuff the old notions of what women can do, how they behave and what they must look like, and what men can do, how they must behavie and what they must look like. Get a life - it is not about gender it is about capability and challenging simplistic gender stereotypes and restrictions. Male/female: not relevant to your skills and abilities. Gay/straight: not relevant to your skills and abilities. Challenge the gender-/sex-obsessed idiots and you pave a road to a better future for everyone.
I'm a man. But I had a friend who was a "Tom Boy" Me and my friends thought she was cool! She was nice and liked to play the same games as us. Once in a while we would play house because she wanted to. Than we would go outside and play ball. No big deal 😂
27 year's later and what a fine looking kangaroo you turned out to be
Same
The fact the mother is casually talking to James about his eggs never maturing while he's hardly even paying attention is just... God, you can tell none of them understand the gravity of this decision
"Puberty sounds uncomfortable"
Yes... it is. Doesn't mean you should just opt out
If she’s hoping for biological grandchildren that will no longer be possible for either child. I don’t think she realized that when she pushed it on her children.
@@KitsuneAdorableIf they are only on blockers, yes they can. It only suspends puberty. When the blockers are discontinued, if hormone replacement therapy is not prescribed, they will experience the puberty and secondary sexual characteristics of their natal gender.
They also use these measures in children with precocious puberty to delay the onset of physiological changes that would have otherwise taken place at much too young an age (ie, think menstruating and/or fertile 5-8 year olds) to be healthy for them.
@@KitsuneAdorableNo one should “expect” to have grandchildren. Also those who want to have kids to pass on their name are narcissistic AF. Their focus needs to only be on raising their own kids. If they happen to get grandkids that’s a bonus. But at this rate they might end up without their kids either in a few decades once the kids realize they’ve been duped.
@@GalXZ42081You are absolutely wrong. At a certain age the puberty window is over. Period. Detransitioners can attest to this fact.
"It's uncomfortable to listen to that" said pretty much every girl ever when the menstruation conversation came up. We didn't go get our uterus cut out.
The 4 year old obviously was lacking attention and figured it was the best way to get some. Seriously it's time for parents like this to be charged with child abuse.
Refusal of removal of uterus is transphobic. You will be confiscated for re education.
This! Countless girls experience some level of body dysmorphia around puberty. Most of us grow out of it!
I had the opposite experience. At 8 or 9 I saw a tampon ad and demanded that my mother explain to me what they were. She was uncomfortable, I just wanted to know what the weird thing on the TV was 😂
@@thepoetesskhansaa Boys actually do too. It turns out puberty hormones are just absolutely insane. Isaac is spot on; adults that want to transition, go ahead. People under like, 20, on the other hand... your body is still developing and there's about a 95+% chance you'll grow out of it and be thankful you didn't do anything
@@SakuraAsranArt 😂 I wish I could have been so bold as a child. I need more of this kind of energy in my life.
But yes, I've said this repeatedly: female puberty sucks. It's messy; it's painful, and for a lot of girls it leads to unwanted attention from boys - and men - that they are not equipped to deal with. Looking back I feel grateful that I didn't grow breasts the way many of my peers did and remained fairly flat-chested all the way up until the past summer, at age 31, when I got pregnant (as an aside, my body image has somehow never been better than it is now that I'm third trimester pregnant - someone needs to explain to me how that's possible).
Olivia sees James getting extra attention from EVERYONE, especially from parents. Olivia wants some attention too. Bingo, another trans child
Exactly.
Yes!!! I was about to type the exact same comment 🙌🙌🙌
100%
@beckishelton7155 picked it like a dirty nose
My card says BINGO too.
Not two trans kids, one mother suffering from Münchausen by proxy.
Agree, these kids need to be placed with a foster family that won't indoctrinate these beautiful children
I remember a girl at school who was a complete tomboy, both at play and hobby... When I met her a few years on, she had matured into a beautiful intelligent young lady.
It's called becoming and adult and maturing
@@welsh.truth.dragon3914 Unfortunately some parents these days don't allow them to go through that tomboy phase and think they need hormone blockers instead.
What's HIS name?
I know a creeper from the same school... it was you.
I'm sure that the mom had them fixated on gender about a day after their first words. No vegan cats.
These parents are insane.
"I don’t want to go through puberty."
"Why?"
"Because it's uncomfortable."
Spoiler alert, LIFE is uncomfortable from time to time. Your path through life should not be mapped out to avoid discomfort or struggle. Never overcoming adversity or discomfort will only guarantee you grow up to be weak and incapable of thriving in the world.
The truth is that almost everyone can be either an egg or sperm donor, but not everyone has what it takes to be a parent. These two, in my opinion, don't have it, and those children are going to suffer the consequences of it.
This
Everyday and in my entire life will always be uncomfortable and painful thanks to medical issues while people cry about abit of discomfort Lol
Everyday and in my entire life will always be uncomfortable and painful thanks to medical issues while people cry about abit of discomfort Lol
I reckon, every time I ask my daughter to do a household job she “doesnt want to do it”, does that mean i just let her off and say “its ok you dont need to do it then”,… NO of course not, why would you let them off for a biological function of the human body like puberty… insanity..
I'm a transexual woman. I'm quite surprised how pleasant this video was. Thank you for addressing this problem as what it is, instead of just saying we are all crazy people.
I knew I was transgender at about 13. That was in the 90s. A time where trans people were actually persecuted. I didn't come out till I was 39. It took me a year of weekly therapy before I was 100% certain I NEEDED to transition...not wanted...needed. How the hell is it that a CHILD can make such a life changing decision that a 40 year old took a year to make. I took a year because I understood the weight of what I was doing. There is NO WAY these kids can understand what they are signing up for.
BTW...I have two sons who are 10 and 16. If either one said they were transgender. The first thing I'd do would be take away social media for 3-4 weeks and see if they are still transgender. If they still said they felt that way, I'd get them a great therapist. I'd let them social transition...but ABSOLUTELY NO medications or surgeries until they are an adult.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, appreciate the perspective.
This is the exactly kind of representation that is easy to support; sane, sensible and from a position of respect.
I salute you and wish you all the best.
A year of therapy...
So you were severely damaged or heavily brainwashed?
@@iliketurtles4463 It took a year of therapy to address my mental trauma to make absolutely sure that the root of that trauma was gender dysphoria and not other circumstances. Not sure what you mean by brainwashing. I had these issues and suppressed them since about 1994. They weren't "brainwashing" 14 year olds into transitioning back then. It would be another six years before I even owned a computer. On contrary, the only exposure to transgender people in my life back then was "transexuals going wild" on Jerry Springer. Being transgender back then was a very shameful thing, and that's why it took so long for me to come to terms with what I am. But I did it the proper way. I didn't "self identify". I got diagnosed from multiple professionals.
@@iliketurtles4463 It's called taking the time to make absolutely sure that permanently changing everything about myself was the right decision for me. I had to make sure I was transitioning because of gender dysphoria. My gender dysphoria caused anxiety, depression, and PTSD symptoms. I had to make sure those mental health symptoms were caused by gender dysphoria. If those symptoms were caused by gender dysphoria, then transitioning would most likely cure them. If they came from another source, then the chances of those symptoms going away from transitioning would have been slim. I can say two years later that that was exactly what happened. The farther along my transition went the more those symptoms went away and I found contentment and happiness. There are so many "angry trans people" out there because their mental health issues were not caused by gender dysphoria. They transitioned, but are still miserable. Transitioning didn't alleviate their mental health issues. In fact, it probably made things worse. That's why I went to therapy for nearly a year before beginning.
Smart parent...I agree kids can't make these decisions
Why is denying puberty to underage children not a criminal offense? I think i am in the wrong universe.
Imo IT’s malpractice
There are a few medical situations where puberty-blockers are essential for a few years. Since the drugs retard physical and mental growth, patients are monitored carefully.
Obviously, the current fad to feed children large, unregulated amounts of the drugs has serious consequences. Why that’s considered legal, I’ve no idea.
@@clogs4956 "There are a few medical situations where puberty-blockers are essential for a few years." Who cares this is not only irrelevant information but it is the vast exception and you don't debate or make general rules on the exception.
@Rinnief Do you think International Law is actually a thing? How soft and child like of a mind do you have? Do you think there are international police that run around enforcing laws? It is might makes right internationally. How are you this daft? Another thing that your dullard brain hasn't figured out is that most of these international laws are filled with a bunch of unrelated bullshit so the more powerful nations can bully the smaller nations with a piece of paper and threats and you are thinking everything is unicorns and rainbows...
@@thomgizziz you read the 2nd paragraph by any chance?
These parents seem terrified of having to tell their kids "no".
They're trying to overcorrect their "horrible childhood," which basically means they think. When I was a kid, I would always want to go out to the mall when I was 8, and my dad wouldn't let me. Hmm, maybe my kid wants to.go.to the mall at 8 years old. That's why their are so many kids that are assholes.that want to only get their way and. When I was raised the hardset thing my parents had to tell me was that girls could like blue and boys can like pink, my parents had to sit me down and tell me that. These parents see their son slightly appreciating the colour purple, they want to be the trendy parent with a trans kid.
Their kids are self entitled, if they say no, the kid will scream, cry and call them worthless, abusive and shitty. I've seen it happen before. I snapped at the kid. They shut up with their mouth agape. Well, don't be a spoiled little bitch.
I wished the child picked gorilla 🦍
cuz the kids spaz out
@@Spudpotato08 Part of being a parent is dealing with a kid who is spazzing out. These people have abdicated their responsibilities to their children in favor of what is easy. Parenting is not easy.
This is so the dynamic of Jazz Jennings! Its all the parents
The sentence "she didn't socially transition until she was five years old" is probably the craziest sentence I have ever heard a parent say....
Where are the social services that you Americans are always banging on about? Those two should not be left next or near children, or animals for that matter..😡
I dunno mate.. pretty close tho, ya..
"Taking testosterone will be the first permanent thing", after taking irreversible puberty blockers..
And, "our research tells us we're doing the right thing.." while suicide rates for the un-transitioned are 42%, those that *do* transition are 43%..
They're up there too.
And if 'gender is a social construct', who tf came up with the 'research' saying it "can't possibly" be a social contagion? As Isaac pointed out, they're Californians, for crying out loud.. why are the numbers so freakishly high in Liberal strongholds, yet so minuscule elsewhere?
Criminals
if i asked my dad i wanted to be a girl, another time. HOLY SHIT I AM DEAD IF I SAY THAT IN FRONT OF MY DAD. the rest of my family will try a snap me out if i did, which im not, and probably not work but my grandma will get me to stop and only her.
It made me sick hearing that. Thank God my parents were able to tell me no when I was a child.
People like this are not suitable for parenting.
When I was 10 I read Bambi and wanted to be a reindeer. How you gonna hormone up that one?! 🤣
You don't you become a degenerate furry... and I'd prefer interacting with a transgender over a furry, there is less cringe going on.
Right 😂
At 10 I wanted to be a shapeshifter who could turn into a dragon/wolf/tiger/all of my fav animals 😂 Wonder how they're gonna help me with that one.
@@chelseamae3012 LSD, a lot of it
Please don't give those people any ideas. 😂
i’m a senior in high school. i’m currently working on a presentation about how puberty blockers should be banned. i present it tomorrow. can’t wait to make some people pissed
Tell us how it went . Did you get suspended for wrong think ?
Especially the teachers, go for it!!
How did it go??
I'm also curious. How did it go. I hope you aced it.
Yeah give us an update, how many people did u upset ? 😂
Isn't it weird how families that are trans friendly always seem to have trans kids?
Almost like talking to 4 year olds about gender is a bad idea or something. Just let kids be kids.
And now at least in America I think they're teaching this stuff to kids, which will make more kids who are trans, I don't think they can have children which ultimately means a decrease in population, idk very suspicious
i agree bestie! we should assign less gender stereotypes to things and support our kids being themselves if they come out! keep spreading that love! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@@cheesepuff65no.
My cousin has 3. The oldest was 15 when started and her breasts removed before 16. The middle was like 12 and the youngest 9. Not sure how that works but lol wow its fucked. My aunt got old and moved into that insanity lol. Poor lady
i support trans people but i also advocate for age restrictions on transitioning to be put in place like the setup countries have for alcoh0l consumption.
I completely agree -- medical intervention should NEVER be allowed to happen to kids... they may just be confused... or in this case, the parents are pushing it on them. No way a 4yo says "I'm trans".
And 4 year olds also call themselves dinosaurs and astronauts so I wonder what those so called parents would want to permanently change about their kids then.. it’s insanity.. it’s a social trend.. it’s coming from Sat@n and people don’t even realize it.. they’re so brainw@shed but they chose to see what they wanted to see..
Agreed. If we can't get tattoos until 18 because it's permanent, then why the hell should we be allowed to medically change our body to another gender before 18? The whole reason for waiting to get a tattoo is because we're not old enough to make that decision with a mature line of thought, so why are we letting kids choose their gender at 4?
I didn't even know what trans was up till 15 yr old
I Thought those were dude cosplaying as a girl
I can't even comprehend how a 4 yr old I capable to understand this shit
I'm 16 btw 💀
@@study_unknown7252yet Matt Walsh created a children’s book for toddlers related to this. How do toddlers comprehend as well?
Exactly!
Mom is thrilled at the attention she herself is getting. Dad's a doormat.
All at the expense of physically allowing serious to their child.
Because it’s ALL about getting attention, nothing more. It’s extreme narcissism.
This is the equivalent to when I was in highschool and all of a sudden all girls thought they were bi cause they'd kiss other girls to get the jocks off. Do what you feel in your heart not what you think people want. It's sad and scary. I accept all forms of people and respect anyone but give the kids damn time to figure it out themselves
My nieces school . It was the im a cat thing . Luckily they all grew bored of the trend
Please can we let kids just be kids and not affected by today's very forward movement let em decide when they're at least teens
Trans can't, they know they cant propagate to keep the population up. Thus indoctrination children to be likenthem is the only way for them to ensure any semblance of continuance.
@@MasterofJuKBWaaS You could if you didn't have a bunch of unscrupulous assholes that will use anything and anybody in their own dumb bids for power. "Won't you think of the children?"
@@allenbanks9034that's not exactly straight hetero behavior
The second child saw the attention the eldest one was getting and competed for parental attention.
I'm not lying when I say that when I was 5 or 6, I sat my mother down in the living room, and had her write that I was officially a ninja turtle, and that my new name was Leonardo. She played along for 5 minutes after which she put the pen down and said something in the lines of "Ok now, playtime is over, this is not happening."
I remember feeling a bit frustrated about it, for about 5 minutes, then I went on with my life. I am now a happy Teletubby and I go by the name Po.
Ha, that was funny man 😂 although, your mother clearly needs to be retrospectively cancelled for not allowing you to be your true authentic self ❤️
@@Benjamin-su6fc Oh god it's a wokie.
The father looks like he could strangle me while looking deeply into my eyes and 2 min later drink a frappuccino in his driveway waving the neighbors.
😂
I feel so sorry for the poor souls who were indoctrinated and people who fell victim to social nonsense and chop apart themselves
I mean being born different is one thing but yeah being groomed by one's parent or shapurown is just beyond crazy and insane.
@@danteshollowedgrounds you've gotta be a little kid
Noobdy is born Different than the two options, you are a male or a female. @@danteshollowedgrounds
# nuke
# nuke
When I saw Berkley California, that was all I needed.
Around August or September I went school supply shopping for my children, without them. I like people, generally, so I wound up chatting breifly to a fellow mother. She was around my age, I'd guess (36 years old). Our conversation was about being pi**ed off about the high cost these days. So please, tell me WHY, in GOD'S GREEN EARTH did this complete stranger decide that telling me her 5 year old was trans. I didn't ask. Nothing about the conversation or me screamed I'M A SUPPORTER OF THE TQ+ SQUAD. She got an ,"Oh." From me, and a kind, "Hey, gtg, nice chatting, buh bye."
I'm not looking for a confrontation, but I'm also not going to give blind consent.
She told you becsue she has seen that with her people she would be celebrated as the best Mum...
HAHA my response would have been oh my 5 year old likes Blippi and Miss Hands xD
I'm convinced it's another form of narcissism and possibly with a touch of Munchausen syndrome. It's all about 'look at me' but through their kids. I hope when all the kids who are physically and mentally scarred as adults, due to their parents behaviour, abandon them to live in uncaring care homes to live out their lives. There won't be any grandchildren to visit either, despite what the morons say, as men cannot have babies even if they mess with their bodies and women who mess with their bodies also stop having the ability to make babies. Give it a generation and the population in the West will halve and China can take over the world. I won't care, I'll have moved on.
Attention seeking parent. Passes on the same trait to her child. And when that child comes out with a confused idea (as they often do), instead of protecting the child from herself, she indulges it. And now she wants recognition for being progressive (degenerate to normal people).
yeah, that totallyyyy happened.
Just got banned for two weeks from a Facebook group by their admins. It’s a men’s page recently overtaken by a lot of women from the US. I stated that I don’t agree trans women are women. I said they’re a subcategory of men and that the prefix Cis isn’t necessary. I said only subcategories need extra definition. Like cars are typically petrol run but we say electric car/vehicles to differentiate from the standard. Apparently it’s hate speech to say that and I’m a fascist and bigot. Who’s the fascist if I’m the one being silenced for an opinion that differs from the oppressive superior opinion? I was told men and women are the same and anthropologists, doctors and scientists all agree on that. I pointed out the differences just within the field of anaesthesia and was laughed at. It’s a disturbing way we’re headed
These are the people who continually say your silencing & hurting them when just trying to have an open discussion where they are literally shouting you down / trying to de-platform & cancel you or actually physically assaulting you.. what do you expect.
You were correct but that's the world we live in now.
@@shannenmr that’s the ones! I could have been Transexual for all they know. They didn’t like that word either. I said “they’re attempting to transition from their biological sex to the other” 😂not sure how it’s hate speech
@@kellysouter4381 even if I wasn’t correct (I believe I am) , a two week ban for hate speech?! Wtf?!
@@trevorcook3129chromosomes cannot be transitioned. Chromosomes are Forever 💎
Im a fully transitioned trannsexual woman and i absolutely think you're right about there being a trend, especially in young women and girls. In fact the trans community is so heavily polluted with the trend that its a controversial take to those in the trans community for me to say "you cannot be trans without diagnosable gender dysphoria"
Do you think the massive exposure that this gets these days makes it harder for you? Do you get persecuted for your views? I for one appreciated your perspective on this so thanks!
@@Benjamin-su6fc I do have issues with internalized shame and self hate over just being so embarrassed I'm associated with these crazies, but I'm lucky in that most people cannot tell I'm trans in my every day life. So unless I'm actively seeking out communities online or looking for a support group of trans people in my community, I don't have to deal with it. (And so I simply don't, went years without engaging at all with the trans community and was much happier for it). I definitely do receive hatred when I do engage in the trans community though, because I'm outspoken about my views
@@Linothele, it sounds like it's less internal at this moment in time, thank you for sharing this. I know there are some damn intolerant people out there, but think most sensible people would never dream of associating you with the extremists. You are coming across as the total opposite and I for one think it's great when people such as yourself speak up and show that tiktok is not a fair representation of all. It breaks my heart to think that anyone can go through something as huge as that and then get backlash from it due to people that present as if they are the ones helping and supporting. Sorry to waffle, have an awesome day :)
This has been the goofiest decade yet, and still even more is in store for us.
Yes, I wonder what is next.
@@vg7735 I was thinking about that just an hour ago and concluded I have absolutely no idea what the lunatics in charge have in store. I do know at some point there will be an 'alien invasion' and in the last few years the 'news' has begun rolling that out.
And it's only gonna get worse.
@@vg7735 World War, then as the cycle continues, hard times create strong people. Then the strong people will create good times, which will create weak people. Just a cycle.
@@rasta77-x7o this is why we need to find a balance of perpetual hard times.
Looks like dad will be the next one to transition! 😂
His wife will drug him at dinner time then gag and tie him up and 2 big men will take him away and brainwash him into thinking he's a female. And when he gets back home the neighbors will all start saying to each other in private "what happened to him."
Naw, his balls were cut off the day he met his partner
Giving a child a device at all at this point is basically un locking the liquor cabinet and saying “if adolescence gets ya down? Here ya go!!!”
I know a little girl who thought she was a 'boy' just because she would rather play sports than with dolls. Had to explain to her that she can like whatever she wants and still be a girl. I think thats whats happening, a lot with these kids associate the things they like with a gender so they must be that gender then parents and the education system just blatantly support this, add on social media influence and it makes it 100x worse.
As a society, we arbitrarily assign gender to practically everything. Most of those things have absolutely nothing to do with perceived gender OR biological sex. Everything from colors to clothes to toys to favorite activities are gender targeted, and I'm sure this can be quite confusing for children (even without gender dysphoria, which DOES EXIST, btw) who don't fit into the arbitrary gender stereotypes prescribed by their culture or community.
In 1976 the book Sybil was published about a woman with Multiple Personality Disorder. There was an explosion in diagnoses of MPD after Sybil even though it had been a very rare condition up until that point. I feel like we are now witnessing a very similar phenomenon with gender dysphoria.
There was a spike in demonic possession cases after the exorcist came out after close encounters the ufo sightings increased exponentially people are allways looking for the zeitgeist whatever it is
MPD has since been renamed to DID (Dissociative identity disorder) and yes you're correct theres alot more teenaged kids saying they have it especially on tiktok for attention
exactly, in the late 90's there was a bulimia/anorexia explosion, 10 - 15 years ago everyone wanted to be gay, and now trans is the in thing.
The Sybil case has been exposed as a hoax. The psychiatrist made money.
@@asquare9316 Yep. The explosion in numbers is exactly WHY we should be suspivious about it.
These parents need locked up for child abuse
I’m a gen z and I can confidently say there are two genders and i won’t stop saying this
Hey no one else reply I’m trying to keep this number for… scientific purposes
Facts
Whether you are a servant of Christ or a normal intelligent person science is science reality is reality
you should be cancelled !!!! (whatever the f that means 🥴)...
BIGOT!!!
Yep, there's only two and will always be two. Anyone who worries about this, has nothing else to worry about. Why worry about fuckin gender when war is raging, people are being slaughtered, inflation has gone sky high, genocide in different countries, children dying of starvation, yet these victim player snowflakes still sit in their comfortable homes, bitching about gender. Pathetic. Absolutely disgusting and pathetic.
My story. When I was about 6-7 I said to my mum I want to be a boy. She said ok, she got me boys hair cut , got me boys clothes. I enjoyed when people called me boy knowing that they are wrong.
Lucky there was no hormon/ puberty blockers then (90s) because after some months I was back being a girl and never thought about being boy again. Just can’t imagine if I would be given some drugs back then and be brainwashed that i will be boy now. I am very feminine woman now. It’s shocking what’s happening!
And your experience is what happens to 80%+ of kids who "identify" as another gender. They just grow out of it.
@@st0nedpenguinit’s 98%+ that grow up and out of it.
When I was in the 8th grade, I thought I was black.
My friends and I would listen to Biggie, Tupac, and other popular rappers, sag our pants, and speak like a gang member to one another.
We even used to call each other, “playa”, or “ni**a”.
People used to call us, “Wiggers”.
That lasted about a year.
When I was in my 20’s, I decided I liked motorcycles a lot…so, I started hanging with Hells Angels and other biker gangs, became a bouncer at a nightclub, and partied ALL DAY AND NIGHT.
That lasted about 10 years.
Now I just work, write songs, and lift weights- that’s the real me. I’m glad I experienced these things, but eventually, I got to know who I really am, and that is priceless. 🐰🎸🎶✌️
@@JackTheRabbitMusic It's a good job you grew out of it because making everyone accept you as black just because you said you feel black is absurd while making everyone accept you as a woman just because you said you felt feminine is perfectly fine.
Make it make sense.
@@st0nedpenguin You misunderstood me, I didn’t ACTUALLY think I was black. I just went along with what my friends were doing to be a part of the crew. I wanted to fit in. You do dumb shit when you’re young.
the dad walks like he got heavily pegged, good for him lovin it
‘Unbelievable’ is the word here. These kids are being groomed into this behavior, they didn’t organically choose this insanity.
Agreed. There's no way a child would think they're the opposite gender unless they're playing dress up or some thing
inception is a movie very relevant to todays society, planting a seed that becomes their own thoughts that grows and manifests into their being.
Isn't it weird how the parents that talk to toddlers about gender end up with the weird gender queer kids?
I'm beginning to think there's more nurture than nature at play here.
@@warlordiseppi oh wow, you're right. I forgot how much I loved that movie. I know what I'm watching tomorrow night! Very true statement though, very relevant to what we've been seeing the past few years. The seed planting and brainwashing that takes place within these kids favorite internet bubbles/echo chambers is very real. Most of these "trans activists" aren't even trans, but they do stand to make a lot of money off of each child they turn into a future life long patient. It's a billion dollar industry.
Being trans isnt a choice
A woman brought up a good point where she said a woman she knew wanted to get her tubes tied because she didn't want kids. The doctors tried to talk her out of it, as she was still in her 20s, saying "Oh you may change your mind later and regret your decision". Which is funny because they don't bat an eye when prescribing puberty blockers to minors. I mean can't they change they're mind later and regret it too.
EXACTLY
At 34 with two teenages doctors won't give me any form of permanent birth control because "I'm young and might change my mind" even though its something ive been asking for for the last decade
I didn’t want kids at 18 and was not able to get my OBGYN to tie my tubes until I was 38 I think and every time I went to my appointments I had the nurse or doctor write in my file I do not want kids and want my tubes tied. I had to work hard and document my desire and finally convinced the doctor that I was 100% serious and had to sign all kinds of waivers etc at almost 40 like 20 years of asking! How is this even possible?!
I knew in my 20s I didn't want kids. Idiot male gynecologist wouldn't give me a hysterectomy at age 41, even when I was having horrible problems. Because I might change my mind about kids. GMAFB! I ditched him, got a female gynecologist, and had Mt hysterectomy. A fibroid, the size of a grapefruit, was removed in the process. I, personally, don't think men should be allowed to be gynecologists.
I knew in my 20s I didn't want kids. My male gynecologist wouldn't give me a hysterectomy, even though I was having horrible problems. He wanted me to wait 4 more years because i might change my mind about popping out a kid. I won't go into details. I was 41. I ditched him and got a female gynecologist who gave me the hysterectomy right away. During that process, she removed a grapefruit sized fibroid. I, personally, don't think men should be allowed to be gynecologists.
One thing my parents would say when I was growing up.
I'm not your friend. I'm your parent.
Doesn't mean they can't be a friend when you reach that mature age.
But one thing will always remain. You are their baby and it would be smart to listen to their advice.
This is so incredibly sad for a whole generation. I’m going to call it right now; we’re going to see the self unalive rates and detransition rates skyrocket even more with the abhorrent things the young generations have to go through. As if the damage done to our social lives through social media and the pandemic wasn’t enough.
fact check for ya: detransition rates are under .3%, or 0.003, and many detransitioners only do so because it was unsafe, and retransition later in life. suicide rates are highest for trans people not allowed to get gender affirming care, at around 50%, with the majority being severely depressed at one point or another.
One word: Atrazine. It’s purposely been put in our food and water by the you know who’s. The studies of it turning frogs from male to female, are true
looking at that mother i believe the half gorilla part
How rude. You can't just say such offensive things, after all the what have the gorillas don to deserve that kind of language.
Why you being Apist stop with this Apism
Looking at the size of that kid, he/she is well on their way to gorilladom
Actually my first sip of beer was at 4 and half years old lol, but great joke btw. Parents do alot of damage
I'm curious if the parents pushed the trans agenda on the kids or if using TikTok as a replacement for parenting was the cause.
Tiktok and maybe other kids at the school. Younger kid is probably just copying their older sibling.
The parents did it for attention and now we all know who they are.
Honestly they're practically one and the same at this point.
Both. Idiot plus idiot = permanent removal of child sex organs. Makes sense to me
These days it’s probably an attention thing, kids do this for the parents praise, they get it and like it then it continues in to adulthood because fewer people will tell them the truth
My daughter thought she was a cat. So I got her meow voice change.
Are her pronouns cat/catself? 🥳
@@pippy21 also she's no longer allowed to use the toilet or sleep on a bed and has to eat cat food for the rest of her life
@@frederikvandoren lmao 😂
My son thought he was a mermaid when he was 5 but I didn't throw him in the ocean to drown because he was obviously not a mermaid and it's my responsibility as a parent to keep my children safe and to guide them down the path of sanity and keep them grounded in reality. I use the same analogy whenever I speak to anyone that is trans
If you listen to a 4 year old you'll end up with them eating chicken nuggets at midnight is the the the funniest and truest thing I've ever heard....
Every kid explores their identity throughout adolescence and their teenage years. You go through phases multiple times throughout that time, I know I did. It's insane that the parents are reinforcing this idea into their kids head and enabling them to commit permanent damage to their bodies.
the problem has always been affirming delusional behaviour. Look at goths in school when I was a kid, none of those people are goths 15 years later why? because society did not affirm them, they ignored them and let them be and they came out of it.
whos affirming delusional kids today? teachers in school and the internet along side the media thats televising all the pride crap. Kids see this and think its the "regular thing" not by accepting those who are but it makes them think everyone is and they need to follow suit thats why its becoming so popular.
I promise anyone who reads this if you dont affirm your kids delusional behaviour like this family has, they will not suicide, they will grow out of this phase and they will be accepted.
Especially considering that something like 80% of kids that consider themselves gender this or gender that just...grow out of it in a few years.
But no, we must permanently disfigure them because of something they said when they were 4.
Exactly its unbelievable that they are doing this its so obvious that its a phase and it scary how many kids will be permanently disfigured
These monsters put their kids on hormone blockers because puberty is uncomfortable.
I have NEVER talked to anyone that said “I love going through puberty”
@@FilmFlam-8008 They also claim it's fine to give kids the same medications used to CHEMICALLY CASTRATE SEX OFFENDERS because they claim it's reversible and you can just "pause" puberty.
Complete absurdity.
Hi! Junior high teacher here. It is definitely a social contagion
When that little girl says she doesn't want to go through puberty because it's uncomfortable. News flash that's normal and we all have to go through it. As a child they don't realise how difficult their life will be later on after puberty blockers 😢
No, they are brainwashed
Facts. 👍
FACT!
The mom has a form of munchausen by proxy, the dad is a cuckold.
fact
I remember when people didn’t even want hormone stuff in their food let alone their kids
This was hilarious. If I told my mom this she would ask what I smoked
When I was 5 I thought I was a dinosaur, I'd eat leaves off trees and everything but I sure am glad my parents didn't decide to transition me
That’s not impressive
My youngest daughter wanted to be a FIRE TRUCK when she was three. What was I supposed to do?
So I chopped off both her arms and replaced them with hosepipe then, painted her red 🤦🏻♀️
Lucky for you. How am I supposed to do that my daughter said she is unicorn?
@@GuitarsRockForever stick an ice cone to her forehead. Replace hands and feet with hooves. Show some videos of girls prancing like horses. Transition complete 😂
This is maybe the best parenting in the world.
@@aceboogie959 😂😂😂😂
god i wish that was me it would be so fire
i agree Isaac
As a kid, I was moved around a lot, so I met kids from several different states and a handful of schools. When I was older, I did a lot of work with the youth at the churches I attended, as well as I taught English as a second language at college. I was always seeking my truth, and by joining different churches, I was able to get to know many different families from many different cultures. I was really fortunate to have the experiences I did.
I interacted with hundreds, if not thousands of kids. Then there’s just regular life- family, work for the homeless, other charitable work with many different families, secret Santa, I did charitable work throughout my life which allowed me to get to know many families with kids. I also did some big Brother work. There’s really nothing more rewarding than helping those in need and threw it all like kind of adopted a big brother style and the kids really liked me for it.
There were some painful experiences too. One of the things that got to me and made me angry, and at times shocked me, was coming across kids who were abused or suffering abuse. The kids trusted me and others I worked with and I think because we weren’t their parents, or an adult from the family, they felt comfortable telling us personal information. Because of it I was able to help a number of children get out of really bad situations. It was rewarding, yet difficult. I can’t even imagine how hard it was for these kids. I used to pray. None of them would grow up to become predators themselves.
During my entire life, I only came across two little boys who seemed to be gay at a very young age. In both cases, they lived in a home with single moms who also believed they were gay, and in both cases, it turned out to be true. Both little boys turned out to be gay men. I also knew seven kids that grew up to be in gay or lesbian relationships. There could’ve been more, but those are the only ones I’m sure of. A couple were bisexual. (Two were family)
That said, I never once came across children at such a young age who were experiencing transgender identity. I don’t remember any kids being able to verbalize anything complex they were experiencing at such a young age, to the level these kids are. It’s difficult for me to believe these kids weren’t coached. The two little boys who grew up to be gay, acted flamboyant when they were little. I’m talking about 4 to 6 years old. They knew they were different, and would verbalize their experience by saying they liked boys in the way most boys liked girls, but that was it. They weren’t able to explain in detail and their moms, and no one else forced them to. If they had a question, we answered it. They didn’t ask a lot of questions because they didn’t feel as though they needed to I don’t believe. I don’t want to use their names, but if I had the opportunity to ask either of them today, I’d be curious to know what they remember.
I’ve been taught through my life that we live and let live. The thing is, at what point do you draw the line and protect kids? If kids are being hurt, I can’t just sit by and let it happen-yet who am I to judge? I come to an important question which is who am I to judge a family who lives by a different set of values and beliefs. How do I know where the line between a different way of life and harming kids is. I have a really difficult time believing these kids have developed such feelings and are able to convey them in such adult terms.
It just seems to me that they were coached. That seems dangerous to me. I remember being as delicate as I could with those boys because I never wanted to overstep my bounds, but what’s happening today seems wrong and I truly don’t know what we should all do about it. If anything.
I just pray that everyone is able to experience happiness/joy, stay healthy, are able to educate themselves, experience, art, nature, family, friends, and travel to learn about and experience other cultures. I’ve done it and it’s fantastic.
I also hope everyone’s able to have their own families, and that they aren’t talked out of having children because there is no greater gift than raising children and being a part of something that amazing. I wish everyone the best.
Edit: a very important point that I should probably make and didn’t, is that many of the kids played with toys that didn’t match their gender. I remember little boys throwing on their sisters dresses and having a laugh or the little girls playing with their brothers G.I. Joe’s. A lot of times they were just trying to get at each other, but none of it ever turned into anything. It was just something they did. No one fed into it, because there was nothing to feed into. When I was a little kid, my cousin used to make me play with her Barbies all the time. Can you imagine if that happened today? in some families they might have convinced me to change my gender. This is what concerns me. At the same time who am I to say anything? Scary. It’s a scary time.
I searched and searched for peer reviewed, independent and scientific studies. There are none. All that’s out there are politically motivated “studies”. Dangerous stuff.
Really really good comment, well stated
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Cairns?
I said “I’m a boy” when I was around 5, but it was just because I looked up to my big brother and just wanted to be like him. I still knew I was a girl. I was a bit of a tomboy; I didn’t like dresses but I still liked Barbie and Care Bears. I’m glad my parents didn’t take my “I’m a boy” comment to heart.
as a transwoman seeing ppl put kids on blockers is insane to me.
it is irreversible and it doesnt just stop puberty it stops a lot of growth and development.
one must live as an adult as their birth sex to be sure if they are trans or not. It should be adults only just like tattoos or any body mod.
its not birth sex, its birth gender.
but you already know that
Yes it is crazy because the blockers sterilise them
You know it makes Big Pharma rich!
@@martynholden3478The Depopulators Club likes to spay and neuter everything they can imo.
Facts
My best friend in primary school was a tomboy. She grew up into a beautiful young woman, got married, and had a family.
This is the life these parents are denying their children. And worse, condemning them to a life of medications.
My 3 year old at 3am last week, "Dad, I want to go outside" Me: Dude its 3am, your nude for some reason and its snowing. No"
This is some version of Munchausen's byproxy. Those parents should be locked up.
Transhausen by Proxy 😢
Guarantee its the mom 100% and the dad is just going with the flow. Be strong for your kids people!
Dad needs to grow a pair!
@@chandraspam4796 he needs to grow both a pair and a spine cuz his missing both
@@Demonsouls1993pair means spine.
Them kids need foster parents to take care of them.
i watched this video on my TV at first, and just had to look it up on my phone to write this comment.
I am SO thankful for my mother shutting down my “i think i’m trans” phase i had in middle/ high school, because i grew out of it. i am so glad she had the love for me that she had to NOT let me go on hormones while i was underage, no matter how badly i thought i wanted them, now sitting in my own house with my husband, i am so thankful every day to my strong mother who shit that shit down!! she kept a clear head and just continuously told me that it was a phase i was going through, i am not trans and i’ll regret doing anything to myself. i absolutely 1000% would have regretted it for the REST of my life.
i absolutely agree with you; children should NEVER EVER go on hormones or blockers or have surgeries to change their body, the brain is not fully developed and functional until like age 23 or so, so there’s not way these children nowadays should get their tits chopped off because they feel like a boy for a little bit.
being trans isn't a phase. being a tomboy is a phase. Kids aren't getting their tits chopped off there's a legal age for that to happen and a lot of therapy and doctors appointments before that is even considered. The most a child would be able to get get is hormone blockers which is reversable.
When you look at them both side by side, the dad’s head kinda stretches up like beavis & butthead n the mum’s does the opposite like grug haha can’t unsee it
Stop it 😂😂😂
I for one am GEN Z and I’d like to apologise for this half of my generation they are falling apart
Never apologize for others....
Yeah sorry bro, sounds like you should have been on the 80s circuit like myself, Iron Maiden, BMX, frign couple of genders only, yeah it was grouse as
It's not our fault it is indoctrination it's blind devotion to insanity
Society as a whole has failed Gen Z. It's not your fault you grow up with all the bs pushed on you. Kudos for not falling for it but I can't really blame teens for accepting "the message" that's being blasted 24/7
Don’t apologize for something you didn’t do.
these parents are totally NUTS!!! they will probably never have grand children. And they should be charged with child abuse. how will they justify everything when these kids decide to detransition?
Look at your children, and if you can’t find a way to love them, and never say no, then you’re the problem
I'm a grown ass woman on hormone blockers (to prevent cancer from coming back).
It's rough as fuck. No child should ever be taking them!!!!
My daughter is now a 17 year old young lady. When she was around about 10 she had been roped into this unfortunate belief via its prevalence online. She began insisting she was male or trans. My wife is not liberal but far moreso than I.
The last thing we wanted was to make her feel worse, or to make a life-changing decision at age 10.
We simply told her she could do whatever made her feel best once she was an adult, and she can dress however she likes, but that she is, indeed, a female. She understood. She even indulged in a ‘generic’ nickname (JJ in place of her female name) for a time.
Once she hit 12 or 13 or so, nearly all of it had disappeared.
She was a girl, with her girl name, acting like a girl.
She’s not “girly” of course. She likes wild pants as opposed to skirts, but so what?
She goes back and forth with boyfriends or girlfriends, but so what?
She’s told us she is glad we told her what we told her, and that nothing she chose in that confusing time was permanent.
We said, well….thats exactly what we were protecting you from! Heheh
See?
It’s most often that easy.
I would consider myself a liberal & my friends are, but I know none of them are for hormone replacement & surgery below the age of consent. I'm now concerned for my nephew's kids. The parents have been making statements about their two older kids🤔. Will send this video to them
I wish the parents of todays age used the same common sense as what you have done here, in this way you allowed your child to bloom however they chose, but to do so when they have more experience with life
But that literally the definition of a social transition phase or not and that's what these parents are doing allowing there kid to dress differently and have a hair cut
I was an overweight child too (also bit of a tomboy) and it does make you feel insecure about yourself, especially as a girl if the other girls around you are thin and ultra feminine. Didn’t make me think I was a boy though, but then I grew up in saner times.
I was wondering this. If a girl is already uncomfortable with her body because she doesn’t feel as pretty as the other girls, and perhaps afraid of getting her period, etc., she might take the “out.”
I was a tomboy and two of my closest female friends were, too. Two of us are straight and married to men, and one has a child. The other is gay.
I was actually excited to grow up and even get my period, but being a woman was presented in a positive way, and it was clear there were many kinds of women one can be.
Today, being a woman is constantly described as dangerous, unfair, and burdensome. There is also a narrower range, in some circles, of what paths a woman can be praised for taking. No wonder young girls don’t want to be women. 😢
Your a tomboy im a femboy im better
Think that's the problem with this girl she over weight and thinks if she pretend to be a boy it's ok as for her sister she so beautiful why would her parents let her know what a beautiful Girl she is, I'm so sorry these so call parents are being so stupid. 😢
The biggest problem with those parents is that they are enforcing different behavior. Instead of saying "Don't be silly, don't act stupid", they say "great". The hormone blockers are already changing that kid irreversibly.
And they're ignoring the real issue of the morbidly obese mother passing on her bad habits to their daughter. That's why "James" probably had her mind-warped about being "trans," because she was likely being bullied at school for her weight and heard about this great protective community through tiktok or social media
Don't say "Don't be silly/don't act stupid" OR "Great!"
That just total dismissive to total acceptance- two extremes without any meaningful parenting.
Why not just ask the kid "what do you mean by you wanna be a boy?"
Chances are, they just want different "cool" clothes and hairstyles that are "boyish/girlish". This allows the kid to actually question what they mean and actually put in an effort into understadning themselves and teh world around them.
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot 100% you are totally correct. It seems like the response to the insanity these trans parents inflict on their kids is a swing in the total opposite and also extreme direction. Like let's also resort to abuse cause they're doing it. Dumb.
Your also correct there's usually Something a child assumes is just for girls/boys. My son is a good example. He wanted to "be a girl" around age 6 or 7? I asked what he means by that...he wanted to have a tea party and talk (the kid could talk a tree to death at that age, so the idea of sitting around having a chat was right up his alley, not alot of "boy" activities that specifically facilitate that). So I said Let's go make tea! We drank tea and chatted and he knew that it's not an exclusive activity. He's 14 now, all boy, totally fine. And no trauma from me screaming some overreactive b.s like, " your a boy you stupid child don't you even suggest otherwise!."
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot This part 100%. That way the kids just engaging in pretend play AND the kids who actually experience dysphoria are both looked out for.
@@kaitb07 Well done
Honestly the dad seems like he got kind of roped into this lol
As us italians would say "He's a cornuto"
Puberty is uncomfortable for everyone!
It is incredibly uncomfortable. I hit puberty at nine, and I didn't think it was right. It felt wrong and I didn't like it. But that doesn't make me a boy, in any way
@@l_goodman2550 agree! I had my first cycle at 10.5 and started growing boobs at 9. My mom was the same. Her sister & my sister were almost 13. Me & mom were the youngest. It's friggin hard to go through but you come out on the other side.
Weird, I can't see my comments. I must have said a no no word.
Lol when I was 8 I thought I was a dog and Sailor Moon 😂 lol lol but didn't go around barking at people and knew the real truth. Parents are crazy lol they definitely influenced this
I had older brothers and became a tomboy, but would never have thought I was a boy 🙄🤣
Your a tomboy im a femboy im better
A 4yo trans doesn’t exist. Just an adult telling them they are.
6:35 it’s like me saying to my dad that I want long hair. He knows that when I said I wanted “long hair,” I mean I just want to have long hair. He NEVER made me into a transgender. And even I want to be transgender, he would not approve it because as a minor, my brain hasn’t fully developed yet
I trust your content so much that not only did I put it in watch later. I gave it a LIKE before viewing it lol
I saw on JP Reacts about a 50 year old man who identifies as a young girl (I think 14). He has joined a girls swimming team. Apparently he is allowed to use the women’s change room, showering etc along with the young girls. You would think that the parents would pull their children out of the swimming pool. It really scares me, I’m truly worried.
Absolute MADNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!
*It’s uncomfortable to think about going through biological puberty*
?!?!?
Shit yeah! Of course it was _uncomfortable!!!_
It sucked!! It sucks for everyone! Both male and female.
Christ, I guess we should just give puberty blockers to any kid who gets the heebie jeebies thinking about going through puberty, eh? 🤦🏻♀️
I’m actually glad they’re documenting this the way they are.
I’d *love* to see an update in 5, 10, 15 years.
I can only imagine…
I’ve actually seen people promote the idea that puberty blockers should be standard issue for all children until they decide what gender they want to be.
@@JAIGH83 Yeah those people, same ones that want to inject you with tracking devices so they can make you vote Democrat 🤡🤡🤡
Another one slides down the conspiracy hole. Stay there ya Goblin
@@JAIGH83 that’s f*cking _WILD._ How did we get here??? Like, what’s science and biology for if we are going to cherrypick? We’re gonna completely disregard physical body parts and chromosomes, but we’re gonna trust science when it comes to cancer and illnesses and other conditions? Like, where do we draw the line?
Absolute *madness*
My teenage daughter actually has talked about how she went through a “phase” where she was dressing more “tomboyish” and said for a second there she thought maybe she was a lesbian. She was like, a 4th grader. We talked about it and I told her I went through the same thing at her age, dressing in more boyish clothes. Nobody gave a shit, nobody talked to me about it, nobody made it a thing. And when I asked her why she thought she might have been a lesbian for a while she told me this: “All the girls at school who go through the jeans and flannel and sneakers only phase think they’re gay for a bit, it’s just how it is. We all go through it.”
Like.
It was a _trend,_ and she thought it was just a part of life, because enough people told her so. Enough people got her to believe that her changing her style as a _child_ somehow correlated with her sexuality.
I didn’t teach her that. Her peers did. Imagine if they had convinced her that dressing less feminine meant she wasn’t really a girl.
Kids are *that* impressionable.
This just makes me sad af because these kids are so confident, especially since their parents endorse their every move. And they trust their parents.
Could it be that big sister saw how special little brother was being treated, and wanted to be male? Could it be that little brother idolised big sister and wanted to be female? Or trans like them? Just.... maybe? Can we let them grow up?
The elder sister looks very obese so it's very likely she was being bullied for weight which sent her down the rabbit hole of transgender, being told if she got bullied for being trans it would be a hate crime. The little brother then saw all the attention his big sister got or transitioning and decided to copy her. It's all just wrong, and the parents are wrong for allowing this.
Berkeley, California, not surprised, shaking my head😑
So these people believe that an infant can choose its gender, but at 18, they don't understand simple math enough to figure out their college loans?
when you said it’s absolutely not a social contagion i was shocked until i realized you’re talking the piss 😂
It’s called social media !!
The greatest poison of a child's mind
Kids playing with dolls should not be able to make that choice ......What A Fckn Joke!!! Love ya work mate.
At 8 years old my grandson can’t even decide what he wants for his tea!
CPS should investigate this kind of family. Kids shouldn’t be expose to such atrocities.
CPS is in on it.
I love all the different funny shirts that Isaac wears ❤😂
When the child says I could but I don't want to and the mother responded with why. That moment shows everything. The child literally said they didn't want to and you're still pressuring them to make up their mind on such a crazy decision at a mentality undeveloped age.
Aaaaaaaaaaand the dad’s gay 😂 as soon as he said his 1st word
Yep
California the state where the transaurs rex is found.
Just like my uncle told me "I was young and stupid" fits it.
as a member of generation z, i am terrified. of everyone in my generation. I once said and stated my belief that there are only 2 genders and I literally was hunted down at school in year 8 and nearly had the crap bashed out of me. as a member of generation z, I am terrified to be alive.
I recently read a story about a student who was expelled for stating that there are only 2 genders.
@TacticalKitten the student was absolutely correct, the school was wrong. Wouldn't happen in the school that I teach it, at least I hope not.
i say move to southern africa or south america its the only way to escape this woke madness
@asquare9316 Not even going to begin to get into non binaries, but by either definition, there are more than 2 genders. Chromosomes? Some people are born with an X and some are born with XXY, those aren't male or female. Bodily structures? Intersex people. While expelling them was entirely the wrong move (if the story is even true at all), the kid was wrong.
The people orchestrating all of this want you (and as many people as possible) to be terrified. Stay strong! That doesn't mean you have to get yourself into situations where you'll get beat up, but don't let fear rule your life.
IT IS NOT THE KIDS, IT IS THE PARENT'S IDEA!
And the “teachers”
*mom's the mom has munchausen by proxy. The dad is just a cuckold and goes with anything the mom says.
That little girl is gonna be one hell of an athlete
it all boils down to attention. everybody likes attention, unfortunately this is the how they have been taught to get it.
😢😬😬
That beards always lookin' top-notch big fulla👌🏾
Keep it up, isaac😎
Hi. Dude here. When i was younger i used to wear my mums high heels in secrecy and pretend to wear dresses (big blankets) in hopes that i could be also be pretty. Ive grown up now. Stereotypical man with a pinch of autism. I grew out of a lot of behaviours, but i still like to feel pretty bow and then. Turns out it's just a kink xD