WEEK IN MY LIFE AS A 22 YEAR OLD CANCER PATIENT: Radiation Prep, Thrift Book Shop, Health Updates

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  • @beckyshields
    @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can hardly believe that we are almost at 1000 subscribers. Thank you for allowing me to share my story and my cancer journey with you all!

  • @elizabethconroy7665
    @elizabethconroy7665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chelsea is a Sweetheart
    One great and understanding friend is enough

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is the best a true friend🥰

  • @melisad6770
    @melisad6770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the sweetest most beautiful young lady ever !!! Keep pushing forward !!!

  • @maxandshoji
    @maxandshoji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s so wonderful that you have a great friend to hangout with. I know what it’s like to isolate yourself when you’re going through cancer.
    Continue to visit with friends and be thankful for family.
    Hugs,
    Max

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you and yes she is a great friend🥰

  • @sandee1000
    @sandee1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @migdaliavasquez1874
    @migdaliavasquez1874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so sorry for your grief; grief just hits us when we least expect it to 🌼🌼🌼🌼 like you mentioned there are triggers and people could be very careless with patients; 🌸🌸🌸🌸you survived a very difficult time that day; glad you not putting yourself out there with social media 🌼🌼🌼🌼 your protecting yourself and that’s a strength ; give yourself credit for managing these struggles; it’s okay to feel sad and manage grief related to illness 🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸 it’s part of healing process that is not linear 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 give yourself a lot of credit; you will survive this 💛😊💛😊💛😊💛😊💛😊💛

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your kind words❤️ I’m learning to take time for myself and not be hard on myself for feeling the way that I do about certain things❤️

  • @elizabethconroy7665
    @elizabethconroy7665 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry that people in the Hospital did not treat you with sensitivity
    Thanks for sharing your life with us
    Your Family is sweet and supportive
    The produce looks fresh and delicious
    Stay strong and you will see all your dreams come true
    Big warm Hugs

  • @mgm7697
    @mgm7697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Becky! I tried making peanut butter balls for snacks this week! Thanks for the tips! My second chemo is tomorrow! We are also taking some different precautions with my nausea medicine and the mestinon……so hopefully this next round will be making me less sick! I have lost about 2/3 of my hair as of tonight! I will be really glad when it’s all gone! It’s a mess everywhere! Thank you for advice of self care and rest! I even got out a few books I have wanted to read for a long time! We can do this! I am so sorry you have to do radiation too. You are in my prayers!

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck with your next chemo I hope it goes a lot better than the first round! I’m so glad you are doing some self care and getting into reading, it’s definitely been helping me🥰

    • @eileenlester4342
      @eileenlester4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Prayers for you. 🙏💜🙏

  • @kathyglenn7773
    @kathyglenn7773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Becky you are such a sweet girl I love your videos. I also love reading too. I have looked up the books you have read. I'm going to get some of them. Love from Texas

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much this is so kind❤️ I’m so happy I hope you enjoy them!

  • @janieshields3159
    @janieshields3159 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an amazing you lady, I am so proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @reids97
    @reids97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your family seems so sweet! Those look like good books! Enjoy!

  • @migdaliavasquez1874
    @migdaliavasquez1874 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thx for sharing with us Becky 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m glad you enjoyed 🥰

  • @northerngirl4924
    @northerngirl4924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally agree, in a cancer hospital is the place to use some discretion with questions. Sorry that was so hurtful to you. Omg, sponge toffee is the best! It will cure all of life’s woes. I can sure understand being sad that you aren’t graduating with your friends, but you will be very proud of yourself in October. Even with everything that has been thrown at you, your graduation is happening and soon! I bought ‘Where the crawdad’s sing’ today at Chapters. I had seen it before, but I am buying it on your recommendation. 😀 Love that you pass your books on, and check out the 2nd hand bookstores. Books are so pricey, it’s nice to see them make the rounds. I’ve read Lovely Bones, The Girl On The Train, Eat, Pray, Love. You did great with the books! Enjoy.
    .

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I agree and I love sponge toffee! I’m so glad you picked up “Where the Crawdads Sing” my mom loved it and my Nanny is loving it🥰 I’m reading “The Girl on the Train” right now so I hope it’s good!

  • @YaYa-jy1yv
    @YaYa-jy1yv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They do have to ask certain questions, but a dose of sensitivity on their part would be so easy to apply!
    I am so sorry that happened.
    People who work in clinics and cancer hospitals need to lead with compassion.

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I’ve been asked before, once the healthcare worker prefaced that they had to ask even though she knew the answer which I understand but it is still upsetting and I could see my file open across the room!

    • @eileenlester4342
      @eileenlester4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen.

  • @lifeonmyown6397
    @lifeonmyown6397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just love your videos.
    Would you post your recipe for your oatmeal snack.?❤️❤️❤️

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much❤️Yes I got the recipe off Pinterest!
      1 cup of peanut butter
      1/4 honey
      2 tsp vanilla extract
      1 1/2 cups of oats
      1/3 chocolate chips
      1/3 hemp seeds (you can sub for shredded coconut or omit)

  • @shelleyhill3163
    @shelleyhill3163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have read all of those books. They are all amazing. Enjoy

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m reading the Girl on the Train right now so I’m hoping it’s good I’ve heard a lot of good things about it!

  • @MariaMedeiros
    @MariaMedeiros 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Becky you are so strong. Sending you love. Wow you go through so many books. That’s so amazing. All the food looks delicious by the way. Love the patio furniture. Sending you prayers and positivity. 🙏❤️

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it’s been very good for me! It’s interesting after my third round I couldn’t really focus on a book and now I’m reading as many as I can🥰

  • @mgm7697
    @mgm7697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Miss Becky…..I am an old lady and they always ask me the “could you be pregnant question too”
    Ridiculous…..don’t take it to heart. Have my journal and sketch pad all ready for tomorrow! And a book too of course.
    Take care!

  • @aimeej3568
    @aimeej3568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a pretty awesome chick! You handle this with such grace. Prayers for you and your mom, nanny, uncle ❤🙏🍀

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you you are so kind🥰

  • @kimtongo3533
    @kimtongo3533 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Becky,
    As always love your channel!!! I hope you and your family have a wonderful week!!!🤍💕🌈🙏❣️❤️💜🤎🧡🤍💙🖤💚💗

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much you too🥰

  • @okallie
    @okallie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for sharing your days with us! So many great books!!! Love it!

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so glad you enjoyed 🥰

  • @pinkamech
    @pinkamech 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed your videos Becky. Stay strong 💕💕

  • @YaYa-jy1yv
    @YaYa-jy1yv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You got some great books! I would also recommend “ The Lilac Girls” and also “ The Great Alone” by Kristen Hannah.

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will have to look into those thank you for the recommendations!🥰

  • @maryharte2551
    @maryharte2551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Becky you are a very brave girl amazing ⭐️❤️

  • @kelleybondzio168
    @kelleybondzio168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a new subscriber to your channel.. You are such a delight & so strong through all you have endured!! The Girl on the Train & Lovely Bones I read them both 😮 and oh they are so good!! I hope you got to read them all!!! 📚❤💕

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much you are so kind!🥰❤️ I probably did get to most of them, the Lovely Bones though I remember starting and freaked me out but I want to give it another try!

  • @mkrp4
    @mkrp4 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:40 a young lady with strawberries!
    you really need to film gargle the song challenge video; you could not believe how much happier you will feel after! Blessing!!

  • @meme8540
    @meme8540 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed hanging out with you again 😘

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so glad you enjoyed🥰

  • @wifeocaster
    @wifeocaster 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My doctors office asks me the same thing snd I do not have a uterus. 😵‍💫Enjoy the books. 💚

  • @eileenlester4342
    @eileenlester4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prepping for tests are worse than the test itself!
    Sorry that the question upset you. Protocol also sux sometimes. 😪
    It's sad that you were unable to graduate at the same time as your friends. At least you have something to look forward to in October. 👩‍🎓
    Love the patio furniture! 👍
    Homemade 🍎 applesauce is the best! Cookies sound yummy. 😋
    Prayers continue. 🙏💜🙏

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it’s hard to see all the pictures people are taking and where they are going in September which was supposed to be me too but I have to believe that there is some sort of bigger or different plan for me❤️

    • @eileenlester4342
      @eileenlester4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beckyshields Amen. 💜

  • @joykiser6673
    @joykiser6673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the video and I think I might have to clean my bedroom. 😝 ❤️❤️🙏

    • @beckyshields
      @beckyshields  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you🥰 trust me it was a long time coming for me😂

  • @maryjo8752
    @maryjo8752 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ☺️🌈🌻✨🌞💫