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Turning a garage into an in-law unit as empty nest alternative

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ธ.ค. 2019
  • Stacy Lince’s family of four and her widowed mother, Lee Reich, were paying a collective $4,000 per month (and rising) to rent their separate homes in Santa Rosa, California. Deciding to pool their resources, they bought a modest home with a detached garage that they could convert into a home for grandma.
    When they started the project, the city fees were nearly a dealbreaker at $25,000, but a local tragedy intervened. When the Tubbs fire destroyed 5,000 homes in the area, the city radically cut fees for secondary units and the Stacy and her mom were now looking at only about $5,000 in fees.
    The 380-square-foot converted home is less than a fifth the size of the home Reich had shared with her husband, but she loves the cozy space, likening it to “a hug”. She managed to carve out a bedroom and spacious bathroom, separated by a sliding door from the living room and kitchen.
    After significantly downsizing her possessions (largely by giving away books and her king-sized bed), Reich says she now fits easily into her custom-designed space. The home lacks only a dishwasher (Reich says she is happy hand-washing the same bowl and cup every day) and a washing machine (there is a shared washer/dried unit in a shed behind the main house).

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  • @nmikloiche
    @nmikloiche 4 ปีที่แล้ว +603

    In the 1960s when my parents married they decided to buy a 2 family home with my Grandparents. I can’t tell you how much my life was enriched having my Grandmother/Grandfather and my Great Grandmother just a few steps away from me, for my entire growing up life. I think multi-generational shared living space is really under estimated. I found that all parties wanted the same things - privacy and boundaries but also community and the comfort of knowing that nobody was left to struggle or fend for themselves.

    • @anitafebo4552
      @anitafebo4552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sounds like my childhood

    • @strawberrytart5666
      @strawberrytart5666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      THAT'S HOW IT SHOULD BE...........THE GOVT TOLD FEMALES IN THE 70S THEY WANTED T O GO TO WORK..............

    • @michellehunter2993
      @michellehunter2993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      This is the way I was raised as well. Never went to day care. My grandmother walked me to school every morning. When I came home from school I had baked bread and cookies on the table that my grandma made. Those were the days and We had it made.
      .

    • @yellowstonekv959
      @yellowstonekv959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You are very blessed to have a loving family. ❣

    • @estherstrategicadvisor749
      @estherstrategicadvisor749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@strawberrytart5666 Women CAN STILL WORK! Read Proverbs 31. In the Old Testament, read up on Deborah the Judge or Lidia the Married Businesswoman in the New Testament, who was a Cloth Merchant. BALANCE is the key. With today's technology it is even easier for WOMEN to work from home and have their gifts utilized, while making a financial contribution.

  • @JonathanAhrensIsAwesome
    @JonathanAhrensIsAwesome 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1282

    This is a considerate mother-in-law who texts before visiting. Give her a medal

    • @yeshuahamashiach1645
      @yeshuahamashiach1645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      H.. texting 3 times a day 😂

    • @CindymeCindy
      @CindymeCindy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I'm not sure, though, why she can't be considered a friend and member of the family who can just enter at will. Neighborhood kids likely can come in and yell "Hi, Mrs L!" but everyone here is so enamored with the fact that the grandmother "knows her place and doesn't disturb". My grandmothers, if they hadn't died in the 60's and 80's would have free reign of my house just like my kids, my kid's friends, my best friends, etc. If there WERE a fight or sex going on on the kitchen sink, she could always bow out gracefully ;) And don't get me started on how men traditionally see the mother-in-law as a problem. They aren't. But men have proven through time to be "bad boys" who do bad things, and so the MIL's attack in defense of their daughters and then men think that MIL's are "bad".

    • @JazzymineA
      @JazzymineA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@CindymeCindy Everyone has different boundaries. And those boundaries should be respected.

    • @aslscott78
      @aslscott78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jonathan Ahrens I wanna marry u!

    • @sarahstrong7174
      @sarahstrong7174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Very sensible to keep good, polite boundaries. No-one wants to feel others are interfering. Everyone knows that they have to call or text me first, not just turn up. It is only sensible, polite & considerate. That way they do not have a wasted journey & I do not have people turning up when I am just about to wash my greasy hair. They can come a bit later when I am all nice & clean.

  • @clarasuccess
    @clarasuccess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    She is a classy educated considerate mother in law, that's why her daughter in law likes to live closer to her. Smart.

    • @yvonneost12
      @yvonneost12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A bit pompas I thought LOL but at least she does knock on her daughters door , which is the right thing to do , I believe if you don;t live there , you knock ...LOL

    • @montrealstars60
      @montrealstars60 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I believe I understood that she's the daughter. She mentions her son-in-law, so pretty sure it's the daughter

    • @jdstep97
      @jdstep97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Clara McClure - I think that's her mother, _not_ mother-in-law. It's a mother-in-law unit, but for her actual mother.

    • @pisangambonfeatAI
      @pisangambonfeatAI 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why dont we ask

    • @amethyst1826
      @amethyst1826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's mother & daughter.

  • @eyem4freedom
    @eyem4freedom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Those are unselfish women looking out for each other's needs. Great place!!!

  • @prabhjotkaur7129
    @prabhjotkaur7129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    This lady is a mother in law of dreams. As an Asian, I've never in my entire existence seen a MIL this respectful of boundaries. I so wish someday I'll get a similar MIL and if not, then at least I can become like her when the time comes.

    • @judymckee5992
      @judymckee5992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Fairy7 princess, I have been telling my friends to do just that. I bought in the auction, a house with a huge garage. Turned the garage into a 2 + 2 , furnished it and rent out. Many people are looking for fully furnished space. Initially, I wanted to stay in the garage and let my son and daughter in law stays in the main home. Never know , perhaps in the future.

    • @2011liya
      @2011liya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Also as a Asian, I would say if I let my MIL live inside the garage( regardless how well it has been renovated), she and her whole family are going to accuse me abusing her and might try to snap on my face.

    • @Deemce
      @Deemce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      You can be a respectful and kind mother in law if that’s your goal. My mother is love by all her daughters/sons in law and they have great relationships. Unfortunately I don’t have a nice MIL 😞 but I forgive her as she didn’t have a nice upbringing so she’s bitter and not very helpful. I promise to myself to be nice, kind and respectful to my future son/daughter in-laws and I know it’s possible.

    • @prabhjotkaur7129
      @prabhjotkaur7129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@2011liya Oh yes, so true. I can't imagine the direct and indirect taunts I'll receive if I dared do something like that. But the double standard is, no one cares or will care about my parent's well being, they should survive on their own in old age (because having something between your legs equals to important parents in my culture).

    • @2011liya
      @2011liya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      princess But world are changed right? If a man can't do the same thing for my parents that he expected me do for his, then I should have the right to refuse! Anyways, personally I use one and only one standard to deal this situation. I do what you can do, and I refuse what you refuse!

  • @harshitsxxd
    @harshitsxxd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    they took care of you when you were a child, now it's your time to take care of them as they are growing old ❤️

    • @AngusHenry09
      @AngusHenry09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly !!!

    • @susannaCdonovan23
      @susannaCdonovan23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Harshit Sood She will never regret it. These times with her sweet mother will be with her for a lifetime.

    • @susannaCdonovan23
      @susannaCdonovan23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Abigail Trumbo There's no reason why everyone couldn't accommodate this way. You can also convert a basement area into an apartment with outside entrance.

    • @pjj9491
      @pjj9491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      that's not always true...my mother endendentured me as a child...and smoked 4 packs a day most of her life....not my problem...she was a mean old bitch....it is nice to see family that is respectful of each other...

    • @ellisonbuck
      @ellisonbuck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@pjj9491 sorry that you didn't have a Happy childhood coming up, hope all is well now. Be blessed 🙏😇❣️

  • @rneustel388
    @rneustel388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    When we lived in Germany, we saw this everywhere. This is a beautiful, healthy multi-generational family unit.

    • @clycoo
      @clycoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i'm german. this is totally not a thing in Germany. what are you talking about?

    • @withyoctopus
      @withyoctopus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've never seen that arrangement in 35 years of living in Germany.

    • @rneustel388
      @rneustel388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I guess what I meant wasn’t that specific arrangement, but we had several German friends that were either living with parents or the parents were living with them. They all told us that wasn’t unusual in Germany because housing was quite expensive.

    • @withyoctopus
      @withyoctopus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rneustel388 If people have a big house, they sometimes live on different floors of the same house. Or they get an apartment in the same complex or street. That's not uncommon. But most children move around and then stay where they got a job they want to keep. So, yeah, if living together is what you mean, that's true. Sometimes millennial children built a house in the bigger gardens of Boomer parents. Land has become very expensive.

    • @rneustel388
      @rneustel388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@withyoctopus Yes, this was exactly what I meant. I’m sorry it was confusing. 😉

  • @handymack5324
    @handymack5324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1701

    This is what we should do for our aged parents instead of dumping them in nursing homes.

    • @TourPace
      @TourPace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      I wish, but not feasible for many of us. People only go to nursing homes or assisted living when they need that level of care. My dad needs an attendant all the time & we both work. Trust me, we'd rather not spend $100k per year to keep him in assisted living.

    • @handymack5324
      @handymack5324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      TourPace64 your choice is fully comprehensible. May god bless you and your dad to live the best of your life

    • @saureah
      @saureah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Let everyone decide for themselves

    • @shawnwales696
      @shawnwales696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      They do this quite a lot in the Northwest, not necessarily with a garage conversion, more usually with a shed to house conversion. They call them granny flats up in Washington state.

    • @cazpk6840
      @cazpk6840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      or leaving them homeless

  • @KungFuChess
    @KungFuChess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1081

    This is a very normal living arrangement in many parts of the world.

    • @cathhl2440
      @cathhl2440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      True true... but also being eroded and threatened. Sigh...

    • @ausboy2281
      @ausboy2281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      JRRnotTolkien that recession started before Obama even took office what are you on about 😂

    • @maggiemae7749
      @maggiemae7749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It was in the usa until ww2

    • @wendyweaver8749
      @wendyweaver8749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      JRRnotTolkien - Jobs were lost and businesses closed due to the Great Recession that began in 2007 under Bush. It was the Obama administration that pushed laws that helped people save their homes, it was the Obama administration that subsidized COBRA health insurance premiums and it was the Obama administration that jump-started the exit from the recession for businesses and individuals. We are still living with the increased trajectory (employment, stock market, business growth) begun under Obama.

    • @cheatahmame6663
      @cheatahmame6663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      JRRnotTolkien Did you just make that up?? You really need to change the news channel. Fox has you in la la land, not America.

  • @MSKPELLEGRINO
    @MSKPELLEGRINO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Love the mom. She seems like a lovely person. And it's a charming home.

  • @pandoraeverett5715
    @pandoraeverett5715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    we built one for my mom -she wouldnt prosper in a nursing home and asst living is way above her means, i care for jer 24/7 shes 90

    • @BlueButterfly7777
      @BlueButterfly7777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Not easy to do. I did the same for my Dad for three years 24/7 after Mom died and he was diagnosed with cancer. I had a 16 yr old at the time, too. I'd do it all again if I could have him back.

    • @MaryofMayberry
      @MaryofMayberry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Blessings to you both!!!!!! It's how we should treat our elders

    • @lisathomas2455
      @lisathomas2455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You will have no regrets ... God Bless you🙏❤️

    • @yuollox3584
      @yuollox3584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are awesome! God bless you!

    • @lizc4095
      @lizc4095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Inspirational & a Great story! I quit my job to care for my 90yo mom 24/7. I rent though, we're in a one bedroom/one bath + a den & a balcony apt. She has the bedroom & I'm in the den. We're comfortable. The only drawback for us is the tub/shower combo. Apts for seniors are not so easy to rent.
      So, we work with what we have.

  • @menufrog
    @menufrog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The builder/contractor really went the extra mile! What a thoughtful man 😄

    • @signalfire6
      @signalfire6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All housing should be planned with 'aging in place' or injuries/recovering from surgery considered. All pathways should be wide enough for a walker and wheelchair. Showers should be low or no threshold. Sooner or later, you'll be glad you planned ahead.

  • @Davidlorentzon
    @Davidlorentzon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    California housing prices are no joke. Glad to see Stacy improvise, adapt and overcome it. It inspires others to also have this kind of solution as well.

    • @goodliving2171
      @goodliving2171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The more income you make, the more tax you pay.

    • @rubencohen2936
      @rubencohen2936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      For the same amount of money they have invested in that place, I can buy a 3,000 square foot house with a few acres where I live. Absolutely foolish to live in the state of California nonsense.

    • @mrs.niludas8941
      @mrs.niludas8941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Many cultures many customs..in India our parents esp the sons parents stay in the same house or on the top or lower level of houses.

    • @user-ib3qb5zn8u
      @user-ib3qb5zn8u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In Russia I can byu home with a big yard in a far village , for K4$ .....and vill die out boredom...

    • @wendyannh
      @wendyannh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rubencohen2936 And where is that?
      Do you have the same kinds of amenities and lifestyle people in California have?
      There are always tradeoffs - and not everyone wants to live in a rural area, which is what you have, by definition, if everyone has several acres or more.

  • @pngo1818
    @pngo1818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +666

    It sound like they had a great contractor💜

    • @sakinabivins9415
      @sakinabivins9415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Exactly. I would like the contractor's contact information!

    • @laken1804
      @laken1804 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want one like that!

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Vincent T. - Americans used to do this. But builders stopped building homes with an in law suite. That's why the only houses you see now with one are older

    • @opalfishsparklequasar8663
      @opalfishsparklequasar8663 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Vincent T. Not true

  • @mizmilla731
    @mizmilla731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I watched this initially to get guest house ideas, but I’ve rewatched several times because the mother daughter relationship made me emotional. I miss the times when families lived very close to each other. Also, great use of space in the guest house.

  • @kbdefay
    @kbdefay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Sounds like you had a contractor with great, problem solving ideas.

  • @Kate42
    @Kate42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    It's so lovely to see a family that works together to take care of all of their family members. We need more of that these days. Too many families don't have that concern these days.
    This is really a very special setup for her mother in law and all of the family members. They're close enough to help each other out and yet far enough away to have their own private lives. And financially everyone wins. This is just wonderfully perfect!

    • @cherriemckinstry131
      @cherriemckinstry131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I agree.. id love to offer some extra bedrooms for apartments to other seniors and nice person.. a win win for me and them.. plus company.

    • @aaronbueno1653
      @aaronbueno1653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is typical filipino families and sometimes it is annoying. Sometimes they would ask you when are you getting married? Or when are you going to have a child?

    • @cherriemckinstry131
      @cherriemckinstry131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@aaronbueno1653 i guess everyine has their comfort level but wjen you get older isnt it nice to think someone cares and your not disposable.

    • @simplyk8zin808
      @simplyk8zin808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cherrie Mckinstry yes I agree with you

    • @cherriemckinstry131
      @cherriemckinstry131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@simplyk8zin808 People caring once again.

  • @user-ot1jo2mp3h
    @user-ot1jo2mp3h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    The mother is very sweet. She
    has as she says what she needs.
    She is not a minimalist - but good
    for her. She is full of life in her
    cocoon as she puts it. Thanks.

    • @sweetcanada17
      @sweetcanada17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      There are different levels of minimalism, and she’s definitely in there.

  • @minikorsi
    @minikorsi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    ‘I’m living in a hug!” So beautiful!

  • @tallygirl2streasures717
    @tallygirl2streasures717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We bought a house 8 years ago with a converted 3 car garage/workshop in law suite for my mom. She has 890 sq. ft and it is off our kitchen. It works great and since she is 80 years old now (still driving etc) at least she is here just in case but also has helped with my kids over the years too. My boys now see how it can work well, so might be something that happens again for us in the future.

  • @jorijudith
    @jorijudith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This is my dream. The family together yet separate. ❤️ Happy for these people.

  • @virginialpinon748
    @virginialpinon748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I luv how the mom is so considerate and realizes she doesnt need be in kids face all the x. And I'm sure this situation is gonna work for all wonderful

  • @CindymeCindy
    @CindymeCindy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Not to be morbid, but when grandma is gone someday, that apartment becomes a retirement income for Stacy as an AirBnB. Incredible investment. I also love that grandma is being revered, respected and taken care of, and grandma is even helping her kids by having helped to pay for the apartment.

    • @rneustel388
      @rneustel388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Cindy Maybe by that time one of the kids is old enough and wants to pay some rent for space of their own.

    • @mikeelek9713
      @mikeelek9713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I would just get a renter rather than have your "loser of the week" show up and trash the place. Or one of the kids could move in.

    • @angelajim428
      @angelajim428 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's exactly what I thought jejejej

    • @Saturn57
      @Saturn57 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @darlingUSA1 I don't think it's morbid either. The mother in law said this way she could see what she would've left for them (i,e money) working out for them. She's very practical. I want to be her when I'm older 😊

    • @sabrinan4792
      @sabrinan4792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Airbnb more work than having a good renter. More income with a renter in the long run.

  • @Madzguy007
    @Madzguy007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Let’s bring family together instead of being apart! Family is strength.

  • @lowesonia8551
    @lowesonia8551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Charming plenty of room for everyone, not on top of each other. Very Intelligent way to spend money wisely . And keep family together in harmony caring way. Respect for each member is primordial. And Love.

  • @janeysiegrist5061
    @janeysiegrist5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    The whole world needs more of this!!🥰

    • @dee7672
      @dee7672 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jane Siegrist I agree.

    • @avilik13
      @avilik13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Most of the world have multi-generations of family living together regardless of financial situation. Living on your own or away from family is a Western thing.

    • @janeysiegrist5061
      @janeysiegrist5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@avilik13 I've been a nurse for decades, I e watched western civilization give up their most vulnerable to the systems the government has put in place here. Please judge us knowing we are the most programmed of countries.. our people have been programmed to follow the leader...

    • @avilik13
      @avilik13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@janeysiegrist5061 not sure what country you're from but I'm from a Western country too. Well, a country with Western ideals. And I wasn't judging. Just stating fact.

  • @mizera_mykle
    @mizera_mykle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Stellar contractor...they got lucky with someone who cares as if she were his own mother. The original fees to the city of $25,000.....sorry about the tragic fires but glad it helped them and others avoid the city wrongfully stealing from them. Real nice home in the end, makes me smile seeing Mom content.

  • @elizabethtrainer9732
    @elizabethtrainer9732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I own 2 homes, but would give them both up in a heartbeat if my daughter would agree to do this in either direction...family is everything.

    • @suesheification
      @suesheification 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don't need two homes. Sell one significantly under market for someone who needs it

    • @gloriahanes6490
      @gloriahanes6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My daughter is realizing how important family is now Covid-19 pandemic has kept us (all) shut-ins.

    • @elizabethtrainer9732
      @elizabethtrainer9732 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gloriahanes6490 So very true.

    • @elizabethtrainer9732
      @elizabethtrainer9732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@suesheification I worked very hard for my second home, in order to be closer to my family, and you think I should essentially purchase another home for someone else? I would wager a lot of money that you would NOT do the same.

    • @pamellasmith2503
      @pamellasmith2503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true , I have 3 children, my son was only one that wanted to be there for me , unfortunately I lost him , the 2 daughters have no intention of being there

  • @Wundernuss
    @Wundernuss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    She has a very interesting book collection tbh, good to see Herman Hesse in there, along with many. Great family respect.

    • @wownewstome6123
      @wownewstome6123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *Bhagavad-Gita per dictionary . com

  • @katbrown5084
    @katbrown5084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    We need to go back to multi generation living it worked in the old days.

    • @kathyyoung1774
      @kathyyoung1774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Kat Brown No single solution works for everybody. Glad this works great for them.

    • @constantbees2070
      @constantbees2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kathyyoung1774 Exactly. My parents are gone now, but they split up when I was a kid. Both of them were so nasty. There's no way I could live with either of them.

    • @kathyyoung1774
      @kathyyoung1774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm so sorry that your parents weren't good ones. You are an excellent example of why not every "solution" works for everybody. Likewise, many snowflakes who still live at home with their parents insist in Comments sections that everybody should live in a tiny house and nobody needs more than 300 sq ft. Not any single solution works for everybody. I hope you are having a much better life now on your own. My best to you!

    • @suzukibn1131
      @suzukibn1131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s not for everyone in every situation. But this one works!

    • @melodymurdock459
      @melodymurdock459 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍

  • @canadianbird1185
    @canadianbird1185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Now this is what I'd call truly the most efficient Tiny house.
    It's not TOO small that it gives claustrophobia, no custom furniture, economic, re-purposed use of existing place, no complicated stairs or hidden furniture.
    Actually designed to house one person and does not try to overcrowd. Excellent

  • @soillife1
    @soillife1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    When I was a kid in the 50s
    Lots of chicken houses and summer kitchens were converted to grandmas home.
    Then a man cave after she passed.
    Then a child got married and it was a .
    First Home.
    Repurposed at its best.

  • @smallfootprint2961
    @smallfootprint2961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Very creative and family friendly. Love the respect they have for each other.

  • @GiveMeCoffee
    @GiveMeCoffee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I feel like they were able to build very healthy boundaries by rethinking the use of those spaces. It is awesome that the in-law has a cozy and comfortable space and still close to the main family :)

  • @hollyhocks7360
    @hollyhocks7360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Lovely home . I’m converting my attic for my daughter and her partner. They have upstairs and I have downstairs.. they have their own front door the only thing we share is the garden. Young people in my area of Britain can not afford their first home and I would rather have her upstairs than miles away. It can work if a plan is made and boundaries set from the start.

    • @ana1590am
      @ana1590am 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Young people everywhere. Good mom!

    • @gloriahanes6490
      @gloriahanes6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know taxes are quite high in the UK, and we have many British transplants here in America. Many prefer Michigan because the weather is similar with four seasons, rains a great deal, lots of fog, and green emerald grass.

    • @jacqueline8559
      @jacqueline8559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lovely thought, good luck to all.

  • @deliisha123
    @deliisha123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That's so sweet of you to do this for your mother in law. I can tell she absolutely loves it, and is very proud of her new digs ! It's also a peace of mind to know you can keep an eye on her more easily, as she grows older and she feels secure in knowing family is close by. Very nice reno!

  • @reeseyme9613
    @reeseyme9613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    ironically that garage have more living space than any million$ apartment in hongkong....

    • @prudencecampbell3075
      @prudencecampbell3075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Reesey Me or nyc.

    • @jgonzalez372
      @jgonzalez372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In New York City my Apartment 1 Bedroom 75 Square feet $3,500, I'm lucky that I haved Space Enough.

    • @michelleli2175
      @michelleli2175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      An outdoor parking in middle level can cost you 1m hkd easily

    • @constantbees2070
      @constantbees2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I live in a converted garage in the UK. It's a pretty normal thing here. I have about 270 sq ft of space - it's basically a studio apartment that overlooks the house's garden. It costs me about $850 all-inclusive. I live in a moderately expensive part of England - certainly not in London!

  • @EDTHEWATERGUY
    @EDTHEWATERGUY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    This is how you do retirement.

    • @laela6289
      @laela6289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      E.L.Dorado there’d probably less instances of elderly people being depressed if more did these types of arrangements

    • @goodliving2171
      @goodliving2171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Kæla Brown
      Also, when one might get old enough to need help or need to be checked up on regularly.

    • @lexip396able
      @lexip396able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I fully agree

    • @justlove5278
      @justlove5278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @rockstarofredondo
      @rockstarofredondo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kæla Brown Most boomers would refuse to do this though. It’s not extravagant and wasteful enough.

  • @VarongTangkitphithakphon
    @VarongTangkitphithakphon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The mother did the right choice in keeping that cute fan!

  • @Brandiisbeloved
    @Brandiisbeloved 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I had something like this at my mothers house. We all had our own space. My room was big enough to make it a home. But I had to leave because it was an unhealthy environment but I wish my family had this level of respect for each other. But I plan on doing something like this with a group of trusted friends and my fiancé. Family is so Important. I love this video

  • @tesscot
    @tesscot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is how it should be. And as it gets worse in our country, more people will need to do this. This video tour may inspire others to save themselves this way.

  • @sodiumwaste
    @sodiumwaste 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    oh what a beautiful family story! I love the converted house the grandmom has, they did so much with the limited space

  • @melanieromero9832
    @melanieromero9832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a very good way of saving $ and helping your family if my mother in law was still alive I would have lived with her as well she was a amazing person! Keep your family close to you as long as you can because tomorrow is never promised ❤️

  • @susannaCdonovan23
    @susannaCdonovan23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This could also be classified in The Tiny House Category. Love that you converted a garage into a nice apartment, with way more privacy for your Mom. Beautiful!

  • @deannaschlabach
    @deannaschlabach 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I think this is a great solution to senior living. My husband’s parents are Old Order Amish and this is the normal way of aging. It’s convenient and allows for privacy and dignity for both parties.

  • @SB-000
    @SB-000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    As long as they respect each others space this is good for an aging mother. She will be close enough to be cared for or looked after when the time comes.

    • @rivermom091188
      @rivermom091188 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not all Moms are like this one. She seems like a sweet and respectful of her daughters space.

  • @alohaleslie9407
    @alohaleslie9407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aloha! I am a young 72, very active physically, but I can feel some of the limitations coming on. To make a long story short, I relocated to Seattle from Kona, HI due to traumatic life changes. My daughter and her husband have kindly made room for me in their tiny 300 sq. ft. mother-in-law which I have happily decorated and made mine. We are very much separate from one other, which is great for privacy for BOTH of us. But they are close enough where they can keep a distant eye on me, and I can help them with doggie/plant/mail care when they go out of town. I so much agree with some of the comments regarding aging parents. Where are the good ol' days where we looked out for one another. If I got sick or infirm enough, of course, I wouldn't impose myself on them. I'd live in assisted living or have someone come in...whatever. Thanks so much for posting this video. Much needed!!!

  • @hotmessmissy-artnrving998
    @hotmessmissy-artnrving998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMG, Mom in Law is the best. I love listening to her talk. Kudos to her DIL for creating this collaborative loving space where her daughter can live judt steps from her grandmother. Beautiful ❤🤗

  • @Sunflower-op2oc
    @Sunflower-op2oc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    great set up to live close but separate and nice to respect each other’s privacy by not just walking in unannounced

  • @genevievedickman5910
    @genevievedickman5910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I wish I still had my Mom with me. Treasure your time together

    • @jacqueline8559
      @jacqueline8559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's my mums funeral today. Literally cannot feel anything, just numb. And so want to see and hug her.

  • @rosemariealmero1214
    @rosemariealmero1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you renovated your property. Very clever to create privacy for each household. God Bless you❤️

  • @allthewaynatural6695
    @allthewaynatural6695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! I love the idea of family working together to help each other. Nobody is being greedy or needy. It's about their relationship with one another and the love they have for one another.

  • @gardenjoy5223
    @gardenjoy5223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great when family relations are healthy enough to do this! The garage home turned out lovely. Personally I need to be able to look out the window and see the outside. But if that's not your thing, this is a wonderful solution.

  • @TisEyerish1
    @TisEyerish1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this place! It reminds me so much of the beloved cottage my ex-husband built for me at the rear of his property (yes, you did read that right...we were good friends). It was 500 sq. starting out, so it was a bit larger than this garage BUT with the same cozy feeling. Eventually, he added a formal dining room for me that allowed me to have my son and his family over for dinner. Then came the addition of the closet, off my bedroom...it was 6' x 18' and I utilized every square inch of it. It contained my washer and dryer as well as all my craft supplies, my Christmas knick-knacks and ornaments, and a few other precious items. I lived there for 12 years. It bordered on a wooded area and the amount of wildlife I saw was incredible...over 20 varieties of birds (from a great blue heron to hummingbirds!), deer, raccoons, squirrels, chipmunks, bunnies...and the list goes on and on. There were frogs and toads, dragonflies and damselflies. Sadly he died at much too young an age, forcing us to sell the house and, with it, the cottage. It was just as well because new neighbors had moved in the house next door and had the feud going with the people in the house on the other side of my husband's house and I truly thought there would eventually be major problems. However, I will forever miss that little place. It was perfect for one person. I could also live very happily in this garage conversion...it's wonderful! I wish the "tenant" many years of happiness there!

  • @ithacacomments4811
    @ithacacomments4811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just placed my mother in a care home in 2019. She is so stubborn. Mother has to have everything her way. It makes my heart happy that some families can make multiple generations living and loving together work well. Life as it should be.

  • @Clutching.My.Pearls
    @Clutching.My.Pearls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First, your contractor is an amazing and thoughtful person!!!! You all made the best of the situation and it's truly beautiful and respectful of each families privacy. Congrats.

  • @gladysgreen2
    @gladysgreen2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's great to see she has space to be social and have her friends over and still be an active, independent member of the outer community, as well as having the closeness her family. It's heartwarming.

  • @jeagypsy
    @jeagypsy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I really, really want to be friends with Lee. She seems like a really cool human. I'll bring the tea!

  • @meichelle2000
    @meichelle2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is FABULOUS!!! If my Mom were still here I would TOTALLY do this for her!! Oh my gosh what a sweet little space all of her own!! Awesome awesome awesome!!! In fact, maybe in years to come, I will do this with my garage and rent it out!! Hats off to you guys!!!

  • @deirdrelock1986
    @deirdrelock1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfectly-Beautiful! We were able to provide my mother with a mother-in-law apt. after my father passed away, offering her security and independence in our home. Now that I am a widow, I would LOVE to have this little bit of paradise as you have helped your mom into. Continued Peace & Blessings to your family!

  • @lovingatlanta
    @lovingatlanta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    👍Terrific. So glad they were able to pool their resources together & support each other.💝

  • @PatrickPoet
    @PatrickPoet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Love the mom too. She's talking about _if the young people,_ but she IS the young people. At least that's my perspective. Just sayin'. She's the bomb

  • @sherroncoffeyhardin8241
    @sherroncoffeyhardin8241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is beautiful! Perfect for this kind of situation. So close to family to check on you yet your own space. Love it!

  • @erikamoss84
    @erikamoss84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very cute and a GREAT use of space... combining family spaces while keeping individuality was/is AWESOME!

  • @geraldinefields1730
    @geraldinefields1730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this! It is such an adorable hug of a house. The lady who lives there is happy and comfortable. Congratulations to this family.

  • @dianesanchez6781
    @dianesanchez6781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So nice! Glad to see this family working the situation out. Life changes and we need to adjust. Bless them all!!!

  • @TourPace
    @TourPace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love this mother in law! I hope she is appreciated. And hats off to the contractor...it really sounds like he was looking out for their best interests!

  • @pjlewisful
    @pjlewisful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I like the mom's personality. Cozy place.

  • @Dayesleeper
    @Dayesleeper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Great to see a story like this. The city and county fees in Sonoma county are through the roof. The house I was in prior to moving east is gone from the fires, Lots of my friends have lost homes as well. Nice to see the city lowered fees in the tragedy that hit. Thank you Kirsten for the great videos

    • @kathyyoung1774
      @kathyyoung1774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dayesleeper Vote for candidates who promise to lower your taxes, not raise them. You have that power. There is no reason why people should pay $23,000 in fees to convert a garage! A $25 permit is enough in most places. Vote those corrupt officials out!

  • @colourwheel5703
    @colourwheel5703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your home is just lovely. It's nice you can live so close to each other and also respect each other's boundaries.

  • @JJ-yu6og
    @JJ-yu6og 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really like the mother's respect of boundaries and space for her daughter and the daughter's family.

  • @mama41141
    @mama41141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this idea! The mother-in-law seems so sweet❤️ It’s a beautiful home 🏠

  • @shynycedesigns1137
    @shynycedesigns1137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love this. But man my mom and his mom would terrorize us everyday out of boredom😅. The in law would have to be healthy spirited. The people in this video seem so loving toward each other.

    • @constantbees2070
      @constantbees2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Unusual people, in my experience. Most families seem to hate each other. These folks are lucky.

    • @shynycedesigns1137
      @shynycedesigns1137 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@constantbees2070 so true

    • @elizabethtimothy4776
      @elizabethtimothy4776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 "terrorize out of boredom"

  • @TeekiDoll
    @TeekiDoll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I simple Love Love Love the term ''Hug House". Beautiful layout & arrangement. Your post just renewed my hope & plan to move closer to my Son. Thank You so much for sharing. Wishing ALL of you many many years of love, happiness, health & support. Be safe and keeping loving each other.

  • @patwilson1257
    @patwilson1257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so awesome. What a blessing to be able to do this, and have your age parent close and living comfortably.

  • @Will4fun
    @Will4fun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    "Do I need a dishwasher?" "I use the same bowl and plate"....that describes the way I live to a tee !!!

    • @badabing9143
      @badabing9143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too!

    • @jacqueline8559
      @jacqueline8559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd still want a small dishwasher lol. Hate washing up, no matter how little I have. But with a family, it's a lot!!!

  • @kaywallace6139
    @kaywallace6139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Totally awesome how they work together in their relationship. Nice apartment for the mother.

  • @mklinger23
    @mklinger23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    That seems like a nice sized place for one or two people. That seems perfect for me and my girlfriend to live in after college.

  • @emilyh8787
    @emilyh8787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was neat to see. I live in santa rosa. What a great idea. I have attached granny for my mom sits over garage. Glad to see the elders dont get forgotten about

  • @Fireonmyaltsrneverburnout
    @Fireonmyaltsrneverburnout 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love it!!!! Great job. And wonderful help for your mama. You are a blessed daughter and wonderful. And she gets the #1 Best Mother in Law award. Wow!!!

  • @allisonthomas8099
    @allisonthomas8099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love the part where the mother in law says neighborly bound , yes have respect for each other space

  • @JCC_1975
    @JCC_1975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think more families should care enough to do something like this especially for the older generations. Lovely home.

  • @larrytowe6672
    @larrytowe6672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow you guys did an absolutely beautiful job. Perfect one bedroom apartment, totally has everything she needs. great job

  • @gaylewilliams1140
    @gaylewilliams1140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations to all of you including the architect and contractors. What a wonderful use of space, beautiful fixtures and tastefully decorated. Everyone considerate of each others' space.

  • @tortangtalong1
    @tortangtalong1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is so perfect. Grandma can be close to the grandkids

  • @RamblinAround
    @RamblinAround 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Nicely designed, great use of space.

  • @sonyasutton6200
    @sonyasutton6200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wonderful that they were able to work it out for everyone. More and more families will be living together in the future I believe

  • @st4rstuck
    @st4rstuck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The contractor is nice. Not only did they built it, they also think about their client.

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shouldn't all contractors do that? Kinda bad for business to not think about their clients.

    • @st4rstuck
      @st4rstuck 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SB W of course, but they go above and beyond.

  • @Christa-tl8jb
    @Christa-tl8jb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That’s the perfect size house for me. I would sell my large home in a second if I could find something like that.

    • @supercooled
      @supercooled 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The garage extension or the main house?

    • @melanieromero9832
      @melanieromero9832 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree Christa and cleaning it would be so easy !

  • @olgasa6943
    @olgasa6943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a gorgeous little house. That's about the size of my apartment and I don't need anything bigger. What a nice family, respecting each others space is very important!😊👍👍💕

  • @ecclairmayo4153
    @ecclairmayo4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Although I dont think a garage conversion is always legal, this is the kind of suburban suite I have always dreamed about. A space for someone to have their own apartment living space if they are visiting or if they need to live. When we lived in a more rural area, my oldest brother lived in an apartment on top of the barn on our property and paid my parents a small rent to help him build a rental history. It's a money saver, and why wouldn't want that!?

  • @xradelox
    @xradelox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s also a great rental property as well! I just wish there were more rental options like that in my area. For a single person with no kids and little to no pets, something that small is perfectly cozy. Easy and quick to clean. And they did a gorgeous job on it!

  • @mombee27
    @mombee27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a nice property! Love seeing the family work together and Mom isn’t alone. Great team work!

  • @susanr5546
    @susanr5546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Delightful. Such a good way to handle housing needs. It is true also that lots of communities around the world doing very similar arrangements.

  • @aprilasbahr
    @aprilasbahr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a lovely family! I'm living with my daughter and son in law and it's been the most pleasurable experience. But, having this type of arrangement, is genius.

  • @vvx897
    @vvx897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your place. It is so pretty and just the right size. Sounds like you had a wonderful contractor with great ideas!

  • @nappingracez
    @nappingracez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE this! I wish there would be more people out there doing such amazing project and bringing families back together. This idea should be promoted!

  • @Ash-xx5zd
    @Ash-xx5zd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love her pride. Shes so cute. And the contractor sounds amazing. He really considered the future for the primary homeowner and not just the sake of the purse holder.

  • @sheriturner6118
    @sheriturner6118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this!!! This is wisdom for honoring parents and helping children.

  • @jcarter8765
    @jcarter8765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great solution. It's possible because she has a very thoughtful mother-in-law who is respectful of her daughter, and vice versa.