What You Need To Know About Blue Balls and Blue Vulva
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- Have you ever felt an uncomfortable and sometimes painful sensation in your testicles and pelvic area? You most likely have epididymal hypertension, also known as "blue balls." Also, women can experience a similar sensation known as the "blue vulva". But are these true?
Watch this video till the end and let me know your thoughts in the comments.
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Reference: “Blue Balls”: A Diagnostic Consideration in Testiculoscrotal Pain in Young Adults: A Case Report and Discussion
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00:00 Intro
00:06 Blue balls: What is it and is it dangerous?
00:43 Case report about blue balls
03:09 Are blue balls dangerous?
04:03 Conclusion
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I remember the first time I experienced this was in high school. It worried me greatly, and hurt so much. It was like my boys were in a vice, and I remember there being a sensation of pressure. Luckily it did go away a couple of hours later. I’m glad someone is talking about this now, because the consensus was that blue balls didn’t exist when I was younger.
So I guess nobody ever informed you of what you could do to relieve that feeling? 😂😂😂 what a BS story!n
@@rollotomasislawyer3405 Whatever you think bud. I figured it out a little later, but it was a worrying experience.
When it's happening you don't know what it is, if you don't know what it is, m8
i didnt believe in them until it happened to me.
It happened to me shortly after high school and I thought it was constipation lmao but trying to use the toilet just made it hurt worse.
I think the skepticism around this comes from shutting down people who use this (very real) pain as an excuse to pressure their partners to help them complete /: So people overcompensated and went, "That's not painful, you're making it up," instead of, "It is painful, but that doesn't mean you get to pressure somebody else to fix it. Do it yourself."
Thank you for discussing a problem that should be discussed more often and taken a little more seriously. While it may not be dangerous it can be very painful and frightening for a young man. And maybe more significantly, it can be humiliating to try to get help if they don't understand what's happening.
blue balls and woody together is hellish - hav too walk with legs apart and pray like hell Latino's not kick you between the legs.
Idk, I never experienced "blue balls"
@@xXRealXx cause u don’t get woman lol
@@SportsSize ummm, I'm a man and did have a gf at one point
@@xXRealXx you probably finish too soon. I won't have it often but if I go over 45 min, I sometimes feel it.
I've had them once - hurt like the worst cramp ever. I was in my early 20s and my girlfriend and I had been having sex for close to an hour - but then she (ironically) got a bad leg cramp and we didn't finish. A couple of hours later, she saw me walking awkwardly, and I told her what the problem was. She immediately took pity and finished me off.
Fatality😂
W gf
Now that's a caring girl.....
> She immediately took pity and finished me off.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! What a good gf!!!
@@godnyx117 don’t be too happy, girlfriend experience may not transition into marriage. 😂
Love how you delve into topics that others won't go near.
In a nutshell....cute doc.
😂great one 😂
Watching her videos give me blue balls
In a nutsack! 🥜😁
Yeah, its nuts.
The advice or the doc?
I’ve had this condition at least 3 separate times, so I speak from experience. The condition caused my scrotum to be a deep color red, tight and radiate a lot of heat. When I finally had a release, it was like turning on a spigot. Afterward was the worst pain in the testicles I ever experienced, just them resting on the mattress was agony. I think it’s the over pressure from the congestion of semen stretching the tissues is what causes the pain.
It's absolutely not the semen. Balls just make the sperm, and the prostate holds the semen which is the majority of volume. It's much more likely it's some kind of blood flow thing with either an excess of blood or something like that.
@@xdeathcon After doing some research, I cannot find any info on semen backing up into the vas deferens. So it must have to do with the prolonged blood engorgement of the testicles.
@@hyacinthbucket3803 Ive experienced exactly what you’re describing. Long story short, I was edging for hours and multiple times I came close to ejaculating. When I finally let myself finish, I got such an intense pain in my scrotum that I never felt before. It was so sensitive that even resting it against my inner thighs or the toilet seat was super painful. Even just lightly touching would feel like I flicked it hard. I had to get up slowly and get on all fours and just let my stuff hang. It felt much better when I did that, but the worst of the pain lasted about 5 to 10 minutes. It continued to be sore for over an hour or two iirc. Never edged for that long ever again. Found better use of my time instead of watching corn all day.
@@frankjaeger1711 Same here man, i was also edging for a better "experience" and later i felt the worst pain possible.
For me it was the night-time so i wasn't able to sleep because of it.
@@hyacinthbucket3803 Researching this stuff is really difficult. The way nerves work in that area is also weird, so you may get swelling in one side and pain in another. The swelling and pain may not even be in the vas deferens, it could be in the lymph vessels trying to clear the sperm. There's also not much funding in this kind of research, since there's not much money to be made.
As someone who has experienced blue balls and testicular torsion, they are VERY different pains.
Testicular torsions are completely debilitating.
Absolutely. 100 percent torsion is so much worse.
Thank you, Dr. Malik for educating everyone on such important topics.
This doctor (and TH-cam itself) is literally READING MY MIND!!!! Thanks for this very wonderful breakdown. I needed this badly!
When I was a teenager, my dad used to joke about "Lifting the car bumper"... which I never understood until I went to him scared to death of a severe case of this. His response was uncontrollable laughter as he once again repeated his line... "Go lift the car bumper"... He was serious.... So I did... and it worked! I don't know why, but it does... take note though... use your legs not your back, (keep your back straight!) and put every ounce of strength you have into it.... like a power lifter doing a dead lift.
Always great to learn about these topics in a serious cool way, rather than having to make assumptions from raucnhy comedies!!! Thanx, Dr. M!!!
I wish you could talk more about pain in the testicles, because it's never related to cancer, but tends to be scary when it rarely happens...
Thank you for your informative content. Even when these discussions make me feel a little queasy, they are important.
We so needed this kind of content when I was in school. I can't believe that there are STILL people [some younger than I am NOW!!!] still trying to block and ban this information.
I had a blue Volvo once......
😂😂😂😂
Haha😂
Did you take it to ER? 😂
Thanks for resurfacing my decades old traumas! I envy those guys for whom it only lasted for about three hours. I remember entire afternoons of incredible pain, with no possibility of self-relief
Oh my god dude I feel your pain! Almost lasted a whole day, laying in my bed crying wishing I was dead lol
I like the way she takes sensitive personal health issues and discusses them in a very professional and clear manner. Most MDs don't seem to be able to do this. And yes, she's cute, that's nice, but it's of lesser importance than what she knows and how she can help you.
I actually had the "testicular torsion" she mentioned (around age 30 something) and ended up in the ER for it. Let me tell you, it felt like my boys were in a vise being crushed. After surgery, I was on Vicodin and had to be on bed rest for several days with ice on. It was not a good time at all.
“Twist” (Korn) played in my head as I read this
Happened to my buddy in high-school, he wasn't so lucky, he lost one.
@@southpineshooligan OUCH!
Icey bulls 😂
@@dababyletsgo2078 You may think it's funny until it happens to you
Thank you for your openness and directness about all topics!!! Dr Rocket 🚀
I see what you did there😂
she's recommended to me a few times. Very informative as I follow a sports medicine channel. Every time I see her channel being recommended, all I can think is, "I wish she was my doctor". LOL, no disrespect of course. This woman knows her stuff.
Thanks 🇨🇦...happened often in high school...I got smart and relieved the pressure on the way home..no more excruciating pain..love your work.
I bet the bus driver wasn't pleased
Awesome doctor right here!!
That ball twisted thing happened to me when I was 13. I have NEVER experienced anything more painful!
My doctor told me that I should go to emergency room immediately because it can cut Circulation to your balls or shaft
Aw! She made me wince and look! (checked: all good). Seriously, thank you very much for always uploading very informative and interesting content Dr. Malik.
as always, these contents are educational. thank you.
I suffered this once or twice as a teenager after long make out sessions with my girlfriend. It was a similar sensation to getting kicked in the testicles where there's that dull, aching, nauseated feeling. I thought it was because of wearing tightie whities and tight jeans, which didn't give the genitals the room to "grow." Not being sexually active at the time, the clothes stayed on. I think the term comes from "black & blue", describing a bruise, which is what it feels like happened to your testicles. Didn't Bobbie Vinton have a hit with "Blue Vulva"? Oh, wait....it was "Blue Velvet." My bad.
She had bluuuuuuuu-oooo vulva….
No, no, bad, noooo! 🙉
Why do you old people do things like this??
Interesting - when I was a teen the term was used for not getting "relief" for too long. The solution was obvious to most and a tidal wave was predictable.
Just so you know, doc, some people may complain of the condition meaning something else besides an interruptus event.
Always enjoying the content Doctor ❤❤❤
You are simply amazing Rena😊❤
Doctor with beauty and brains. ❤
It's a real thing. One of the most painful and weirdest confusing things I've ever experienced. Before the internet. I didn't know what the heck it was. Me and lady friend are making out in highschool (I'm 40 now) and something went wrong. Only thing to cure it was to pull one out in the corner. Thank you Rena. You can be my nurse anytime.
Really good that somebody talks about this online! There has to be information about these things, I just recently talked to an old acquantance of mine and she casually vented to me about how exhausting living with her boyfriends condition is. Whats that you ask? Apparently he experiences "Blue balls" every other day and "just masturbating" doesnt help. Met him a few days later and he was confused as hell when I recommended him my urologist.....
Great as always. Can you please make a video about Varicocele. A lot of people are uninformed about it and plenty carry it without knowing
This is the worst pain/aching ever!! Even after releasing it still hurts
Rena, I'd like to submit another possibility to that I believe is more likely to be the case surrounding the origins of the term "blue balls". Black and blue is a phrase for bring bruised all over. Blue balls feels bruised and tender, sharp sometimes.
Thanks for explaining Rena 😊
You had me at "Blue Vulva". Keep up the GREAT work, Dr.!!!
When one’s flaps hurt 🤕
I had a testicular torsion one time . It was extremely painful . I was given a pain med at one hospital emergency and the sent to another hospital to have a sonogram by a young woman . I still had a little tingle of pain at the time . She told me that it would be a little embarssing . I replied , I do not care . I had surgery that day .
Thanks for "having the balls" to talk about this.
I just had to tell you that your hair is looking lovely Doc.❤
thank you dr malik for taking my blues seriously!
_"Is it real?"_
It certainly will be for the next four minutes and thirty seconds, yes.
Dude 😅
Been through that a million times as a teenager. Usually it went away after 2 hours. My friends would tease me on this one as they knew what this was and I usually had girlfriends. We took it as bruise balls.
Beautiful and lovely Dr. ❤💖🙏
Thank you: Rena for the information
When "blue balls" was first explained to me, I was told the "blue" part could be a reference to bruising (bruises tend to be described as "black and blue"). And, since blue balls are painful, it made sense to compare it to the pain and color of a bruise.
isn't bruising only blue in caucasians?
@@GrandisArcanum that may be true. It still is how I associate with the "blue" part.
I think I actually got a minor torsion in my right testical a few months back. It hurt for a while, but I think it unwrapped itself one night in my sleep. I've made sure to be carful with it and not let it move anywhere for a while. I haven't had any problems with it recently🤞. I avoided going to the doctor because it wasn't bad. I still had blood flow and wasn't deformed or growing or shrinking in size at all. It was just very uncomfortable, and I couldn't just twist it back, I didn't know how to unwrap it that time🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
I haen't heard about blue balls before. thanks for the great simple to explain info doctor Rena.
Explained in a nut shell, no pun intended. Nice doc.
Hey Rena, thanks for your videos and hard work ! There is a lot to uncover on the matter of sexual health and you do it in a very concise and pragmatic manner, that's much appreciated !
I was wondering if you were interested in doing a video on male birth control methods, and especially not so known ones. Condoms, vasectomy and pulling out are always mentionned, but a growing number of men are going towards other methods, mainly the heat based method.
What do you think about it ? Would you be interested in doing a video on this topic ? Ive been using this method for 2.5 years now and been followed by a urologist, everything's going great so far but I'd be curious to know your take on it.
Mentally it's exhausting as well... Which is no picnic for many people.
Explained in a nut shell, good one ;)
@RenaMalik Thank you sooooo much for this deep insight on what information explained we learn here & why's the pain may be ect... Thank you sooo much for your informative wisdom & knowledge to teach about all that you do. ✌😇
Thanks for watching. You can send a personal message for questions, consultations and healthy conversations.
Blue Balls is real, and it sucks! Been there before, flirting with the wife throughout the day, getting worked up, and no release. By the end of the day get this pain and pressure down there. It gets to the point where you just have to say, "No more playing, I'm doing this with or without you." Feel so much better afterwards. Thank you for the explanation, great video.
The turm I had heard for this was lovers balls. I am 53 and have had problems with my testicles swapping sides. This happens about once a month. Occasionally, my left testicle rotates 180 degrees. I have always fixed the problem myself and until 2 years ago thought it was a normal thing. The blue balls/lovers balls problem is something that I have daily, but as I have never had sex or been in any relationship, ejeculation is something that I have never been able to do. 2 years ago I could not get my testicle to untwist so I had to go to a hospital and that was when I found out that my problems were not normal, the doctor discovered that I don't have any divider in my scrotum and the research she had seen suggests that the blue balls is created when the testicles produce more sperm than they can hold so unless the build up is somehow released the pressure causes pain. During stimulation the testicles start to produce more sperm than normal, so that extra build up, if unreleased causes pain. There are still more unanswered questions about the human body than answered questions, but medical science is still a relatively new field and as our technology advances, we discover more about ourselves. We humans are not as intelligent or as technologically advanced as we like to think we are and if we don't cause our own extinction, we have the potential to understand everything about everything.
Thanks for sharing
I remember experiencing such an intense, worrying pain in my testicles for the first time after being a couple of hours in the presence of an attractive girl, that I asked my friend do drive me to a night-time health clinic!
It was difficult to walk or to even stand or sit with my legs not spread open.
The health professional only offered me anti-pain medication, which I didn't want.
My friend later suggested the first suggestion presented here by Rena, and that did relieve my torment.
It's a real condition, I've experienced it several times. Very painful.
Same here most I had was over a week! Hurt to walk and get in and out chairs and the truck. And thats with releasing twice a day! I still get that way somtetimes
Yes Rena, I had the displeasure once, and my balls were actually bluish-purple. Not lying. It's real. I was young and got extremely worked up over a couple hours with my girlfriend with no release. The next day, it was painful to walk and I checked out my balls because they hurt so much. Swear to you- bluish purple. If anyone thinks blue-balls is just a phrase, then they haven't lived it. Thankfully this condition was corrected the next evening ;-)
@Blair Taylor - re: "Not lying" = Do you often "lie," thus the reason for writing "Not lying" above? Readers want to assume you tell the truth ... ALL the time.
This is a much better explanation of what BB is than "the boys" may give you
Beautiful, Brainy and Very Blessed in body structure.
Early betas of Sonic the Hedgehog 3 had the special stage text “Get blue balls!”. After the English translators (had a bit of a giggle and) informed the Japanese developers of the double meaning, this was changed to “Get blue spheres!”.
I had a case of blue balls after standing outside in freezing weather 🌡️, basically I froze down below, and when l warmed up, sending a blood rush to the area, and again l ran to the ER, to only be embarrassed when the doctor examined me, and told me l was fine nothing to 😨 fear😅.
Sometimes just seeing the beautiful doctor helps me with blue balls.. Thank you for doing this video!
Thanks for watching. You can send a personal message for questions, consultations and healthy conversations.
A great video by an awesome lady.
Great info Dr Malik. I try to think about my mom and the problem is solved. 😆
You need some serious serious help 😅
This was a much needed and well done video. I'm an old man now and get very frustrated when I see young men trying to convince their girlfriends that this is a dangerous thing for guys and they NEED to have sex. I've probably ruined a few relationships because I have no problem calling these guys out for lying. If the girl is not ready to go all the way, pressuring her into it will just make her resent you in the long run. Fortunately, I had a father who was willing to explain to me that it would go away and wouldn't do permanent damage. But not everybody is that fortunate, and videos like this can be helpful to young people. Keep up the good work.
Ya definitely experienced it a lot when I was younger , still occasionally do but not nearly as often.
"In a nut shell"....comedy AND wisdom, this is why I luv u and your channel! Ha!👍
I must be built different because I've never gotten blue balls and I would pretty much describe my teenage years as being highly sexually aroused without having sex.
Yes, there's a big difference in how people are wired. The only time I ever had them was when my partner and I were interrupted when I was very close to finishing. Just being aroused doesn't do it for most.
Well apparently it doesn't happen if you have very tiny balls.😂
@@dyingforpie6879 Hah makes sense then!
First time experiencing blue balls was after cuddling for 2 hours. I stood up, felt a stabbing pain and played it off until my partner left. Afterwards I laid on the floor, fell asleep for 6 hours, woke up still in pain, went back to sleep for another 6 hours, and woke up feeling fine.
Interesting I've heard the term before but never knew what it was
Nice explanation
But i have to add from personal experience that it hurts like hell and can get worse to the point that the testicle changes in size close to that of a tennis ball and can have various complications. and yes the doc checked was not testicular torsion, soo please guys if you get blue balls and the pain is very strong go to the hospital!
Be healthy!
The first time I felt blue balls was when I was a teenager, after making out with my gf for an extended period. They felt sore and similar to being bruised. She could tell I was in discomfort, but was really unsure why. It wasn't until later that a friend has mentioned the term blue balls that I realized why this was happening. Luckily for me things progressed past the make out sessions and it wasn't an issue any longer.
I had this happen too. She had to leave sadly but finishing hurt but felt great at the same time
Could a buildup of sperm in the Vas deferens tubes cause a similar pain but in the lower abdomin ?
Heard about it, have experienced it exactly once and it went away quickly.
Me being in direct link to Jerma's antics is unbelievably funny to me.
This was very educational.
I had a case of blue balls a few years ago, and man, it did hurt. I was in my early 30s and never had experienced anything of the sort. It was sort of scary. The worse part is because it really has to go when it has to go, if it doesn't, and you manage to sleep over it, the next day, you are in pain my friend, and then you discover it sort of gelified and clogs all your tubes and you think it may be too late to solve the problem (which adds even more panic).... When it unclogs, the feeling of relief is unbelievable.. but just don't try to get to that point. The lower abdominal pains still last a couple of hours. So: 1) You should masturbate if things really do not go the way your body expected. 2) Girls, if you do not want to do it, do not ask to "just cuddle" on the first night together, or chat the whole night in your panties.... either do it and then chat (whatever), or just kiss and goodbye.
lmaooo (at #2). were you not sexually active in your teens or 20s? I only got blue balls when I first started messing around with girls, but as i got older it stopped happening. I can "just cuddle" all night lol, no problem
Dr. Malik, I love your videos, very educational.
Can you please talk about genital warts in both genders. Also, what treatment is needed for permanent removal so on so forth...
Thanks.
I had a torsion when I was eleven. I went to the doctor. He examined me and diagnosed me.
Through the process of examination, it corrected itself. At least, according to my doctor.
That was pretty painful to listen to but thank you.
In our slang, it simply referred to the psychological frustrtion of getting aroused without finishing, but no one ever mentioned actual pain!
I had a torsion when i was in middle school. Woke up and immediately vomited from the pain. Luckily my mom was a nurse (and yes very awkward telling your mom your balls hurt) but she rushed me to the hospital and i ended up having surgery. Other than a kidney stone this was the worst pain ive ever experience experienced… and ive been stabbed.
Good grief that sounds awful
The concensus now seems to be that it's not dangerous, however if men neglect to ejaculate for prolonged periods it can lead to an infection called epididymitis. By prolonged periods, I mean months to even years of not releasing tension. Since most men will never experience that it is not normally dangerous.
Awesome Doc!!!! Not sure if I ever had this in the almost 54 years of my life not to mention I'm a African American and not I'm not sure if blue would show up on brown skin. No offense Doc, but if I see another color and pain down there I will be running every red light to get to the emergency room!!!!! As always thanks for your wisdom and knowledge!!!!❤
I'd really be interested in a deeper dive into this and the impact that it can have on someone who gets it repeatedly, who is abstaining from sex/ masturbation.
Thanks
I agree. I would make a good candidate for the study.
I get it a couple times a month. My wife is going through the change and we don't have sex. That's what she blames it on anyway. Women married really can be shitty. I don't ask or even bring it up. I wish she would get a boyfriend, at least if she was getting laid, she might not be bitchy....
Why the hell would anyone abstain from masturbation? Safest form of sex there is.
@@dperr338 exactly.
It's not just in young men !
It's in older men too!
Agreed! I'm 43 and still get them often unless relieved about every other day! Thought I'd grow out of them lol, nope!
Thank you. "in a nut shell" :)
God bless you on what you do always from Jeff
Thanks, Dr. Rena.
This is the first time in my life that I hear about Blue Vulva. Will be that females never complain about it? I wonder how many more learned about it today, both males and females
Women deal with a lot of various pains and sensations down there. I mean our uterus legitimately sheds its entire lining of cells and blood every month. Many times sex causes cramping or pain. Then there is endometriosis which is more painful than a normal period. Child birth. Lightning crotch. And much more. Women are more used to pains, more likely to seek out help and information, so no, we typically dont complain as much about what all goes on down there. We just say we are in pain and leave us tf alone while we treat it with what works for us lol. And yes, like men, some experience it and some dont. Some know of blue vulva and some dont until it happens to them. Either way, no we dont talk about it much, specially when we are always seen as nagging, over dramatic, and whiny as it is. We "man up" (oh the irony of that statement), and move tf on. Doing our normal daily life while dealing with the pain since our pain isnt only sexually related and comes on randomly at any point of the day.
Thats because "blue vulva " is not a thing
I’m 42 years old and had this throughout my life. I often have problems finishing, which most men think would be great, but it’s not. Most women don’t enjoy a 30-45 min session and the pain I get lasts for hours after if I don’t finish. Bloody crippling. Often doesn’t go until I can actually orgasm.
It might be painful at first but working out helps too. I did it once pain left after about 5-10 mins in
Cold showers also helps, ice those bad boys down if you must.
I think I had this other day. I kept on feeling intense and frequent waves of pain. Thankfully, It went away after a couple of hours. Wa
Honestly, the first couple of times you have BB, its indescribable the level of discomfort you feel. It is almost too much. But after being s3xually active for years, and getting BB a few times, it isn't as bad and its easier to depower your genitals to reduce bloodflow.
that tracks with me too. I'm pretty sure I don't get them anymore. I'm 35, and only really got them when I was first messing around w/ girls.
They hurt
You are the best!
You should talk to military doctors. Navy men on long cruises get sick and lot of the time it is caused by no relief. They do finger from behind pressure to relieve the symptoms.
I'm glad this is being mentioned. So many people talk about how "blue balls aren't real." Discrediting the pain for people who experience. Of course they're not doing so to be rude, they are trying to protect people from being coerced into something they don't want to do. Blue balls are not an excuse for coresive behavior, but it is a real experience.
Brains, beauty, and a sense of humor... Dr. Malik is really one special lady 🖤
Totally Agree! Her Husband is one lucky man!!
Very interesting.
Every fellow 8th grader of mine had it. We didn’t talk about it but we all knew what each other was thinking.