"The goal of healing is not for you to be a better person." I think you might just have unlocked a huuuge fake belief I had and that's been following me around for years. Thank you!
During my awakening i eventually realized this isnt happening to "make me a better person" its happening to help me BE a person. Help me BE ME. Find out the good and bad about myself and learn that theres a difference between healing and changing oneself completely. Theres a difference between healing and cutting off or ignoring the past. "It is no measure of good health to be well adjusted to a sick society" my favorite quote. If you try to change yourself so you can 'be better' or 'look normal in society', then youre not going to be truly healthy and happy. Society doesnt know what a person needs to live, only the individual knows what they need and if they wanna find out what that is they have to say bye society and look within. Face their own good, bad, beautiful, and ugly instead of letting society tell them whats good and bad about their own body and mind.. society is fucking sick. But individual people (most of them? lol) are not sick, theyre just soo unaware and closed off... robot shells over their hearts. Im glad ive finally started breaking off that robot shell blocking my heart.
I have struggled with self acceptance my entire 45 years. I was born with spina bifida, and just within the last year or so started to "open my eyes" I guess you could say. 🙂 I finally feel like my birth defect doesn't define me, I am beautiful, and I am enough. I can now say, I absolutely love myself and am working through my guilt of not believing in me all these years. I let too many opinions take over, but not anymore! Thank you for this video, it was exactly what I needed! I had gotten stuck believing "I'll be a better person when I accomplish ...." you are right, I've been a good person all along! 💜
I love you for sharing your healing story I feel like a lot of ppl will be able to relate after they practice their discipline and fully accept themselves with unconditional love from source 🧿just because you exist(pro tip-love your body heart soul & mind remember to breathe)
I grew up in a dysfunctional family and I have this critic in my mind that is present, almost always. One of the things I needed to heal was this, not blocking the critic, but transforming it into something of love. I now understand that critic is based on fear, and lack of confidence and mostly driven by a lack of self love, thinking it doesn't deserve love. Now whenever critic appears I tell myself: "I love you, you are doing good, you are safe, I am proud of you" I cry a little but from finally feeling loved by myself. Thank you for this words Christina, because I also thought that working on changing my attitude, and my thinking and my behavior is going to make me a better person. This video gave my clear sight on what healing is about, acceptance of myself, step by step, even that critic in my head, that is actually masking the scared wounded girl.
Wow. This is exactly what I needed to hear today. My path is so very similar to yours, Christina. When I watch you I see the actualized version of me. I'm a Rolfer on a very spiritual path. I am extremely Empathic and psychic. I am leaving a world of people who don't understand and stepping into a world where people do. I don't know how to use my gifts fully and I feel the physical and emotional affects from that. I feel extremely wounded and have very little self worth at the moment. Tomorrow is the court hearing declaring my marriage of 25 years over. I am in a state of grieving and waiting. I'm ok with being there, for I know the universe has a grander plan for my life. Thank you for your videos. They have been of much comfort over the past year. You have educated me, made me laugh, cry,, and understand myself better and for that I am truly grateful. Sincerely, Penelope D
Few months back I realized I was going through my spiritual awakening. In this 3-D reality everything is outwardly projected. Everyone is trying to find love, worth, acceptance outside. While my spiritual path is telling me to look inside. Today a thought popped into my mind, I asked myself - what if the happiness I was trying to find out, already exists within me? What if I'm already perfect & don't need to do anything? And here your video comes as a sign from the universe 💖🤗
CHRISTINA! 😲 Get outta my head!! 😂 Seriously though- I didn’t even realize that I was still doing this 😱 For so many of us, including me, the belief that our worthiness is directly correlated with our productivity is engrained at such a young age that we hardly ever consider how faulty/toxic that belief actually is to us (especially when it’s reiterated on a daily basis by society.) Thank you for shining light on this! 🤗❤️
I've been trying to accept myself for 40 years, I was always a people pleaser forgetting myself. I clicked on one of your videos a little over a month ago, you've been a beautiful wonderful guide for me, just in time. I'm an empath so was my grandmother who told me when I was young that I was a healing in another life. I lost my way. Thank you so much for helping me find my way back!💜💜🌻🦋☯️
It's not only about healing, no matter what you pursue, if you feel you have to constantly improve and develop yourself, you become restless even if the mind and body are already overloaded and tired. I do suffer from constantly feeling not good enough, as you said, it feels like a deep wound within me.
Yes, self acceptance has been a struggle for me. Each shadow of myself that is revealed, fuels the conviction of not being good enough. It keeps me in the cycle of healing and reaching for this better person, rather than accepting myself and believing I am of value now with the flaws. Thank you for all that you’ve done for me, I appreciate your work in light and love ❤️
This video was God sent! I found myself in a constant battle of always trying to do better and I felt myself driving into a dark hole when I couldn’t meet the standards I had placed for myself. You really changed my thought process with this! Thank you !
I love and accept myself. I have let behind the state of self denial which energy vampires and adverse conditions had injected inside my system. This journey is beautiful.
This was definitely the message that I needed. I am at the beginning of my healing and although I was not in a rush to achieve healing because I feel that it takes time, I found myself having a desire to become this "better person" not realizing that I am already that person.
As Ralph always says, ,, I am the masterpiece and the work in progress at the same time.💖🙏" That video was soo important for me to watch. Thank you so much Christina.
Had to pause an write down on my yellow post-it tag : The goal of healing IS NOT to make us better persons. The goal is to live happily & accepting lovingly ourselves as we are right now. - Gosh. I think I can see what went wrong. I tried so hard to made me better person... Thank you so much for this realization, Christina.💗
Because i am new listening to Christina I see a real person sharing her own inner work. She has shared her stories, pains, expansion. She is wonderful at being open. We are all unique and work with a different rhythms. I love you beautiful souls, smiles! May the sun rise with you today.
✨ding,✨ding. This is exactly the realization I came to just last night! I had a thought come to me that my soul is tired of constantly trying to better myself for the last 4 years. I’ve been drawn to the Mediterranean vibe lately and this think is my soul telling me to slow down, calm down. Thanks for this video, perfect timing!
👍👏What a coincidence 😱❣️I just starting digesting this concept about one month ago, 'cos I keep on judging my imperfect body with flaws and some dis-eases caused by trauma, abuse fm childhood...
yes there are so many things you should accept on yourself. Your hair, body, clothes you are wearing, make up you do anything musnt make you shy in front of others. They should bu just according to your own favour
This video could not have been more divinely timed and I can't thank you enough. I have struggled with this for so long now, unaware of what the and restless was and always trying to 'fix' myself. I felt so much lighter just watching this.
I so want to go on your retreat. My family is from the Azores. My maternal Great Grandfather is Lopes. 🤗💞 You have been amazing guide for me, Thank you.
A little explosion of truth went off in my belly when I listened. Currently in these endless cycles f healing to become a better person. Time to let that one go. Thank you 🧡🙏
I am so happy and grateful I found you a few days ago. Been binging on your videos. Finally today, I took your heart quiz, and unbeknownst to me, my heart is blocked. I must have known, as I picked up a new journal and today I start writing, releasing. I am now in a wonderful relationship, and he has been wonderful the last 25 years (17 married) listening, observing, non-judge mental, just loving me, accepting me, supporting me and by being himself has helped me overcome so much. Yet much to let go of. Thank you. The saying, When the student is ready, the teacher appears”. And here you are. Very grateful.
Just yesterday I talked about how I believe that thinking that I had a lower self and a higher self was causing me to lose sight of the now, and it was mentally exhausting. So I came to the realization that I'm all of my lowerself, middle self, and higher self in one and that the point of me being in tune is because I'm ever-evolving and growing. When I think back about being a kid to now, I have just grown and learned from my mistakes and learned how to navigate aspects of myself as they develop with divine time. I see now how its very crucial for me to stay in acceptance of myself with every breathe i take. I have come into acceptance of myself, i have been feeling whole, i have been feeling complete. I feel the love that I allow myself to receive, I feel the acceptance that I allow myself to receive. Thank you sistar Christina💗
I am so glad I stumbled upon this video. I have been taken through one Tower moment after another, spiritually tested to the point of near breaking in the last several months, and I have been having this conversation with Spirit. "How do you expect me to believe in unconditional love when you're asking me to make all these changes in myself that would indicate I'm not okay the way I am now? Isn't it kind of the opposite of the what you're trying to teach here? I thought I was supposed to be letting go of earning love and approval." This sheds a lot of light. Thank you very much.
Thank you for this video! I never thought of it this way so this is a refreshing perspective. I have been learning to access my Akashic Records through a course I am taking. I have been working on this for so long now. My guides are telling me to love myself. Everything else will fall into place! It’s a journey 💕
I just healed my inner child and I wanted to go to the next thing immediately. It was an intuitiv decission to watch this video. Now I realize that the unconscius believe If you heal more, grow more and develop more it will inhance your worth as a person, isn't true at all and actually kept me in a constant state of non-acceptance or not feeling enough in the last 2 Years So thank you for this Wake up call Christina
@@sharon5259 I really recommend Christinas Video on Healing the Inner Child. The inner child is connected to the first three chakras especially the Root/Base or Tribal Chakra. Its the Chakra of Safety and Security it may got disrupted when you got the feeling that you didnt belong to your Tribe, your Family. The Fear of Abondenment and the Fear of Physicality of beeing in the body were the wounds that hurt my inner child and that were still implanted in my First chakra. Suddently there were memories coming up that I didnt remember until then. I can share one of them for clarity. My Father abondent me as soon as I got born. I was a black boy in a white Family, luckily they allways loved me and gave me the feeling that I belong to them. When I was back in School at the age of 7 I argued with my Mother and I had to walk through the entire town to get home on my own. Here is the thing as Children we are all very sensitive. And I guess I felt abondent in that moment. For me it was important to forgive myself and my family and also to focus on the love that I received afterwards. After bringing the Light if consciusnes into this dark memery, I did a guided meditation for the Inner Child. There are tons of them out there just try out a few and find the one that fits you the most. I would recommend the one that I listened to but its in german. I hope this text was understandable and helpful english is just my second language. You have my blessing and I wish you the best of luck on your healing journey
@@jakob.kohnke Thank You so much for taking the time to type all this out. I've been having a lot of memories resurface as well. Learning to be present with my self and the emotions in the ways I feel I was not given when I was child...I feel I was left alone to cope with my difficult emotions, and not shown healthy ways to process what I feel. So, learning that now. Wish You all the best in Your journey too !
I still need to find, Strength, security and safety... To look at my wounds... And not feel, overwhelmed, by its pain... As if I didn't knew, what to do... Once, I faced... *_The Pain and Shadow, of My, Ancient Past..._*
I’ve been struggling with my weight my whole life, I have a really hard time accepting my belly full of sadness. Thanks for this video, it’s exactly what I need. Self love and self acceptance 💖✨
So important, I was sooo on overdrive. When I moved up to working on the heart chakra, this is what I learned. The peace and patience that washed over me was so beautiful and it's been sitting here ever since💚💚
This has been a HUGE struggle for me recently. I gained a lot of weight after having my son. And I barely have the time or energy for self care. And I haven't been making time for self love/self care. I will start right away working on loving and accepting myself. Thank you for this video!
i find out that i was struggling with myself because i don't accept myself i'm always running for a perfect goal but never stopped to just take breath no matter how much i did i felt always less that is what kept me running from goal to goal until she said"im worthy because i am because i'm exist"these words helped me to breathe again
Needed to hear this exactly right now. Today was the first day I actually sat back and observed how much lighter and free I feel. Your message solidified that. I think I was more addicted to the process since it’s been such a long one. I need to get out of the loop and just live.
I know for a fact I myself have held onto this belief subconsciously which Christina has a point it has been a delusion that has not served me to this point I see it I release it I recognize it & I let spirit help me LET IT GO 💗🕯
I kept looking for people that would say stuff that would help me, or take courses that I thought would help me, tried meditations that would help me feel better, or feel a certain way that everyone was feeling when it came to meditation. This video shocked me...so profound. Thank you.
NOTES: We go into endless healing and development cycles when we newly awaken thinking that it'll make us a better person. NEVER QUESTION YOUR INHERENT VALUE. Non-acceptance will keep you in an endless loop of wanting to heal yourself in a state of lack of self-love. If healing isn't associated with worth, and i fully accept myself as i am rn, then what would be the incentive to heal? It is to shed density and be filled with love and light. Healing from a place of non-acceptance isn't healing in the first place. Let go of the belief that you need to be constantly doing and developing yourself in order to be better. What self-acceptance could possibly feel like? Visualize and feel it. Use affirmations.
Self- acceptance is truly crucial during the healing process. I have been in this process for two yrs now. The first year was so difficult, but glad I am today that I had let go of the wrong thoughts. Today I feel like I am not as vulnerable as I used to:) Thanks Christina! You've always been inspiring me with your videos.:) God bless you!
Thank U!! ❤ I have spent years doing healing work, training in various modalities... to recover -uncover-discover myself, my vitality & purpose, others and life. I know intellectually that there is nothing to fix, nothing's wrong but I can't let go of the feeling and belief that I have to heal so much more ... my triggers in particular.
i've just watched this, this really put into words what i felt and didnt know how to express or exaplain even to myself, the phrase "to feel fulfilled because im am closer to my full self/soul" is why ive been searching how to heal. i know it's something i need to heal but didnt know how and seeign therapists did not help. thank you so so much!
I've def done this during my awakening and healing I became obsessed pushed every one away isolated myself to focus on the massive amounts of healing I needed to do
I didnt't watch this when this beautiful video was initially released cause i knew it in my heart that it wasn't time yet. And, NOW, half way into the video...this gives me chills and air to breathe. Cause this sense of HEALING == SELF-WORTH tore me apart. Thank you, tina, for life-savers like this. And your CONSISTENCY, even when you're on a private re-treat, you keep me THRIVING! Tons of Love.💞💞💞
Thank you! 🙏 ❤️ I feel restless and exausted, I realises that my body is very tight and my musles can't relax, so I have often headaches and additionally dizziness came to me last week. My sister, she a neurologist, and my friend, a massagist, helped me to realize that I'm just to tense. So when I want to relax, sometimes I have a deep feeling of tears locked in me and I feel much better if I am able to cry. There was time when I though that I'm okay with accepting myself, but when I see some photos where I'm looking ugly, I understand that it is not true and I don't accept it. I don't accept that I can be tired and do nothing. My exausted body finally helped me to understand that I was wrong.
Hell yes! This is a problem ! Every now and then I realise something like the paradox and then I slip back again like a drugaddict desperatly seeking love and acceptance outside myself because if I’m perfect people will love me and if I’m loved I have worth....even in my own eyes, for a while until they see I’m not perfect so if I could just be better.... The thing about growing up in an Environment where disapproval literally could mean risking your life and anything you did could be judged wrong.
I started my journey with Loa and it felt so good. But the more I got into the rabbit hole..the more I started to punish myself for not watching a video about spirituality or not reading that book or not meditating. Then I started hating myself for not being spiritual enough. Thinking others where better than me. It really destroyed me and I never felt so low. I started to think that spirituality was toxic and Loa was toxic. Now I’m back and this video and everything you said went to my heart. Thank you for being such a pure human. You’re truly one of a kind.
A great video. I am pretty much in state of non-acceptance and noticed how much it prevents me to be present. I kept thinking I am losing the time to change, and must heal all the wounds pretty quickly and thought what I do is never enough.
Thank you ! That made so much sense to me and made me realize I was doing things with the goal to be a better person. I feel a little liberated from that now.💕
Wow this is what I have been struggling with for so long and no amount of healing would make me feel satisfied to finally relax or to accept myself. THank you for sharing this message because I was not even aware of what I was doing until now thankyou thankyou
So here I am going along with my spiritual development, keeping a list in my head of all the things I need to work on, reasonably on track. But a bit impatient with myself. So the Christina hits me with this: I'm doing that! I'm holding off on my best life till I master my to-do list--except I'm a double Virgo and the list never ends. I literally told myself, and my therapist, that I wasn't suitable to be in a relationship till I tackled these heart and trust blocks. I was defective, so I was doing the right thing, wasn't I? Well, DING DING! As Christina would say. Major attitude adjustment needed. :)
I struggled significantly, but was able to turn it around when I became enlightened awakened- 3 yrs ago & by “chance” ... Divinely 🙏🏻 guided to a beautiful soul on TH-cam... a life saving 😇Angel on Earth~ by the name of Christina Lopes the Heart Alchemist🥰 ! I have so much gratitude & respect for all you do & all you have done for many & for me as I continue on this Spiritual Warriors Path ~ 🙏🏻Blessings of Love to you always ! Enjoy your retreat - absolutely gorgeous view of Paradise!!
This is the best video I'd watch and very very helpful not just with spiritual person, awaken once but this video is for entirely, no levels of consciousness and spiritual parth nor belief and religions.. This video reallg open us not just me whose struggling to see themselves, to love themselves entirely, by accepting who they reallly are in a good way and in the deeper meaning of who we are in this world and who we are in this life... Such a deeper meaning indeed and yet im very grateful to Ms. Cristina by sharing this wisdom to us, into a deeper meaning and yet very catching and understable.. Ccause you could really feel how Ms. Cristina wants to help others as she heals her self too and by sharing the healing to others, her good and high vibration she emits really flowr and radiants towards those people, indeed needing it. Its a great wake up call for us. Amazing message and i could say indeed she's divinely Guided by our Divines... GRACIAS MS. CRISTINA! MAY THE DEVINES BLESS YOU MORE😊LOVELOTS. PS. I forgot to tell that this message helps me to realize and get the confirmation that i needed in a right timing. So amazing how divine works 😊😁.
So wish I were there on that beautiful island with you! Great video. Cleared some stuff up for me. I guess when I say I'm doing all this work to be a better person, I mean that I want to live in a happier and joyful space. I didn't realize that striving to be a better person meant that I wasn't happy with who I am. ❤️ I'm learning. 🙏
Same. I’ve been accepting myself more now that I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself, but as soon as I experience some painful rejection, I’m sent into a tail spin. It’s revealing that I’m not self-accepting at all, I’m conditionally loving myself. As long as I meditate and exercise and draw and don’t drink too much and don’t eat too much comfort food and get fat again, then I’m worthy of my love. Yikes. I did not realize that I was doing this!
Your videos are amazing. I always find myself in agreement. You are definitely a Rainbow Warrior of the indigenous Rainbow Whirl Dream. ❤ You're one of my heroes and you're lucky you have assembled such a great team around you.
Thank u Christina. It has been a while i recognised this self sabotaging pattern in myself... Wt becomes the cause of frustration is that it keeps coming back ...😔 Thank u for sending across this message 🙏 it helped planting a fresh seed of hope...
Mind blown. This absolutely applies to me. I'm doing wall to wall healing work, like I'm in a rush, so that I can overcome my ADHD, to serve/function in 3D, and to be able to actually be dependable/access being reliable for my twin flame who's disabled with chronic pain. He doesn't accept me for who I am, he doesn't understand/can't separate my deep love for him, and my dysfunctionality. We're not together at the moment, and that's fine, we need much more space. But my angle to healing is to heal to change the way I operate, the way I have alwsys operated. Everyone around me has a problem with it, and I got bullied at school by children and teachers for being slow, not completing tasks. It's such a huge block for me.
Did anyone see the white bird on the Right side of the screen glitch out and then come back starting 4:11?!? Also thank you for the reminder. I was just rocking out in the car and making up my own lyrics to sing about how I love my Evil Vilnian Queen side too! Perfect synchronicity with the Universe!
I watch alot of your videos. You are brilliant!! You speak to my soul. Thank you for spreading your wisdom! Wonderful spiritual teacher, messenger you are. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Much love ☺💫✌
Thankyou for your brilliant explanation as i am 53 & constantly searching to heal/fix/change so many issues - myselfI believe i have to feel & be a better woman/person... WOW!! Thankyou for this realisation, now I have to try to believe this 😔 one of the best videos yet i have come across. .💕
Right on spot. You allways come as a beautifull light when i stumble in the twilight. When Im stuck and have difficult to keep on walking on my path your insights give me aknowledge that I am on my right path. Thank you Christina for this and bless you and your team for all the light you are creating 🙏💖
I think one key to recognize as well, is that although your healing work doesn’t dictate you being worthy, you’ll find yourself recognizing your worth & value AS A RESULT OF doing it. I was a people pleaser most of my life, had low self esteem, would easily get stressed & frustrated, didn’t have healthy boundaries (or attract people who respected what little boundaries I did have, which weren’t really solid at all) or integrity ...the list goes on. So although the work & your value ARE separate aspects, it’s like a yin & a yang; if you didn’t recognize it before when certain parts of your conditioning left you disconnected or in the dark, you WILL start to, as a result of doing The Work & you’ll want to continue doing it, just because of how good the growth feels. 💁🏼♀️👁 When I started doing self love work earlier this year, it was tough initially, but the OUT-side does start to reflect what’s going on in more of a positive way on the IN-side. I went from being a live in caretaker for an indivisible that didn’t really value or respect me at all, to being a live in caretaker in a newer, healthier environment & is told on a daily basis how valued I am... not to mention all of the positive manifestations that happened here & around me since then. Here’s what I’ve learned... You ARE in alignment just for being you. You STAY in alignment by doing The Work. That has been my experience since my awakening started about 8 years ago, yet the last 4+ years in particular, have been the most profound in terms of depth vs breadth. Quality vs quantity...
Thanks for your videos. I really struggle with self acceptance and the concept of having inherent value. Restlessness and a constant state of anxiety sum it up perfectly - like an app running in the background that is a constant drain on my batteries. I’m hoping to make sense of it all.
Hi Christina, sending my and perfect moment. Truly grateful and I'm learning to slow down the healing going to take time and I'm not in a hurry one day at a time. Sometimes I get impatient and I'm learning to be patience. Not good to overwhelm myself. I really appreciate your insight and wisdom.
Wow the serendipity - this couldn't be a perfect time to receive this. I've been obsessed with spiritual growth and forgot to accept myself. You are the TRUTH. Thank you!!!
Ok I just want to say that i watched this video before and now again and its funny how it finally hit me/sit with me right now oppose to last time I've watched it. So my suggestion is keep coming back to Christina's videos and when the time is right it will hit you right. All in its own time. Love you guys!! ❤
WOW!!! this was such a powerful video. I am so grateful for this - between hermit mode and healing junkie I have definitely been resisting my self-worth. thank you so much for sharing this wisdom. xo
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I really needed this ❤️Thank you much love and blessings 🌈🙏🌱
Hi Christina. Can you give some advice on how to deal with a toxic mother?
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"The goal of healing is not for you to be a better person." I think you might just have unlocked a huuuge fake belief I had and that's been following me around for years. Thank you!
Because our society taught us that was so.
Yeah that comment smashed me too, in a good way!!
During my awakening i eventually realized this isnt happening to "make me a better person" its happening to help me BE a person. Help me BE ME. Find out the good and bad about myself and learn that theres a difference between healing and changing oneself completely. Theres a difference between healing and cutting off or ignoring the past. "It is no measure of good health to be well adjusted to a sick society" my favorite quote. If you try to change yourself so you can 'be better' or 'look normal in society', then youre not going to be truly healthy and happy. Society doesnt know what a person needs to live, only the individual knows what they need and if they wanna find out what that is they have to say bye society and look within. Face their own good, bad, beautiful, and ugly instead of letting society tell them whats good and bad about their own body and mind.. society is fucking sick. But individual people (most of them? lol) are not sick, theyre just soo unaware and closed off... robot shells over their hearts. Im glad ive finally started breaking off that robot shell blocking my heart.
Words from an awakened One.
Very well said. 😊😉
That's such an awesome paragraph of wisdom, thanks so much :)
I have struggled with self acceptance my entire 45 years. I was born with spina bifida, and just within the last year or so started to "open my eyes" I guess you could say. 🙂 I finally feel like my birth defect doesn't define me, I am beautiful, and I am enough. I can now say, I absolutely love myself and am working through my guilt of not believing in me all these years. I let too many opinions take over, but not anymore! Thank you for this video, it was exactly what I needed! I had gotten stuck believing "I'll be a better person when I accomplish ...." you are right, I've been a good person all along! 💜
Beautifull! I can relate to that. Good to hear you are able to change that 😊👏
Thank you!
God Bless you!! Thats great!🙏🙏🙏
I love you for sharing your healing story I feel like a lot of ppl will be able to relate after they practice their discipline and fully accept themselves with unconditional love from source 🧿just because you exist(pro tip-love your body heart soul & mind remember to breathe)
I grew up in a dysfunctional family and I have this critic in my mind that is present, almost always. One of the things I needed to heal was this, not blocking the critic, but transforming it into something of love. I now understand that critic is based on fear, and lack of confidence and mostly driven by a lack of self love, thinking it doesn't deserve love. Now whenever critic appears I tell myself: "I love you, you are doing good, you are safe, I am proud of you" I cry a little but from finally feeling loved by myself. Thank you for this words Christina, because I also thought that working on changing my attitude, and my thinking and my behavior is going to make me a better person. This video gave my clear sight on what healing is about, acceptance of myself, step by step, even that critic in my head, that is actually masking the scared wounded girl.
Wow. This is exactly what I needed to hear today. My path is so very similar to yours, Christina. When I watch you I see the actualized version of me. I'm a Rolfer on a very spiritual path. I am extremely Empathic and psychic. I am leaving a world of people who don't understand and stepping into a world where people do. I don't know how to use my gifts fully and I feel the physical and emotional affects from that. I feel extremely wounded and have very little self worth at the moment. Tomorrow is the court hearing declaring my marriage of 25 years over. I am in a state of grieving and waiting. I'm ok with being there, for I know the universe has a grander plan for my life. Thank you for your videos. They have been of much comfort over the past year. You have educated me, made me laugh, cry,, and understand myself better and for that I am truly grateful.
Sincerely, Penelope D
Few months back I realized I was going through my spiritual awakening.
In this 3-D reality everything is outwardly projected. Everyone is trying to find love, worth, acceptance outside. While my spiritual path is telling me to look inside. Today a thought popped into my mind, I asked myself - what if the happiness I was trying to find out, already exists within me? What if I'm already perfect & don't need to do anything?
And here your video comes as a sign from the universe 💖🤗
CHRISTINA! 😲 Get outta my head!! 😂
Seriously though- I didn’t even realize that I was still doing this 😱 For so many of us, including me, the belief that our worthiness is directly correlated with our productivity is engrained at such a young age that we hardly ever consider how faulty/toxic that belief actually is to us (especially when it’s reiterated on a daily basis by society.) Thank you for shining light on this! 🤗❤️
I hate modern civilization
I've been trying to accept myself for 40 years, I was always a people pleaser forgetting myself. I clicked on one of your videos a little over a month ago, you've been a beautiful wonderful guide for me, just in time. I'm an empath so was my grandmother who told me when I was young that I was a healing in another life. I lost my way. Thank you so much for helping me find my way back!💜💜🌻🦋☯️
It's not only about healing, no matter what you pursue, if you feel you have to constantly improve and develop yourself, you become restless even if the mind and body are already overloaded and tired. I do suffer from constantly feeling not good enough, as you said, it feels like a deep wound within me.
Yes, self acceptance has been a struggle for me. Each shadow of myself that is revealed, fuels the conviction of not being good enough. It keeps me in the cycle of healing and reaching for this better person, rather than accepting myself and believing I am of value now with the flaws. Thank you for all that you’ve done for me, I appreciate your work in light and love ❤️
Ironically self acceptance of the present self is healing. ✨
This video was God sent! I found myself in a constant battle of always trying to do better and I felt myself driving into a dark hole when I couldn’t meet the standards I had placed for myself. You really changed my thought process with this! Thank you !
I love and accept myself. I have let behind the state of self denial which energy vampires and adverse conditions had injected inside my system. This journey is beautiful.
This was definitely the message that I needed. I am at the beginning of my healing and although I was not in a rush to achieve healing because I feel that it takes time, I found myself having a desire to become this "better person" not realizing that I am already that person.
As Ralph always says, ,, I am the masterpiece and the work in progress at the same time.💖🙏"
That video was soo important for me to watch. Thank you so much Christina.
I feel like you made this video just for me lol Exactly what I needed to hear right now . Thanks again Christina 😍
Had to pause an write down on my yellow post-it tag : The goal of healing IS NOT to make us better persons. The goal is to live happily & accepting lovingly ourselves as we are right now. - Gosh. I think I can see what went wrong. I tried so hard to made me better person... Thank you so much for this realization, Christina.💗
Because i am new listening to Christina I see a real person sharing her own inner work. She has shared her stories, pains, expansion. She is wonderful at being open. We are all unique and work with a different rhythms. I love you beautiful souls, smiles! May the sun rise with you today.
✨ding,✨ding. This is exactly the realization I came to just last night! I had a thought come to me that my soul is tired of constantly trying to better myself for the last 4 years. I’ve been drawn to the Mediterranean vibe lately and this think is my soul telling me to slow down, calm down. Thanks for this video, perfect timing!
Nothing is perfect in the world. Everything is perfectly imperfect. We're are also perfectly imperfect guys
👍👏What a coincidence 😱❣️I just starting digesting this concept about one month ago, 'cos I keep on judging my imperfect body with flaws and some dis-eases caused by trauma, abuse fm childhood...
yes there are so many things you should accept on yourself. Your hair, body, clothes you are wearing, make up you do anything musnt make you shy in front of others. They should bu just according to your own favour
So this is the most difficult one
As one person said Perfections are all imperfections 🤗🤗🤗🤗 Have a good and lovely day dears 🥰
@@milanka2591 😂🙏🏻💋💐
Love your teaching, Christina. You switched sides with your hair. Remaining beautiful.
That's really right!! Only when there is self acceptance , one gets closer to his soul, gets true to his soul and thus finds inner peace!
This video could not have been more divinely timed and I can't thank you enough. I have struggled with this for so long now, unaware of what the and restless was and always trying to 'fix' myself. I felt so much lighter just watching this.
I so want to go on your retreat. My family is from the Azores. My maternal Great Grandfather is Lopes. 🤗💞 You have been amazing guide for me, Thank you.
A little explosion of truth went off in my belly when I listened. Currently in these endless cycles f healing to become a better person. Time to let that one go. Thank you 🧡🙏
I am so happy and grateful I found you a few days ago. Been binging on your videos. Finally today, I took your heart quiz, and unbeknownst to me, my heart is blocked. I must have known, as I picked up a new journal and today I start writing, releasing. I am now in a wonderful relationship, and he has been wonderful the last 25 years (17 married) listening, observing, non-judge mental, just loving me, accepting me, supporting me and by being himself has helped me overcome so much. Yet much to let go of. Thank you. The saying, When the student is ready, the teacher appears”. And here you are. Very grateful.
Just yesterday I talked about how I believe that thinking that I had a lower self and a higher self was causing me to lose sight of the now, and it was mentally exhausting. So I came to the realization that I'm all of my lowerself, middle self, and higher self in one and that the point of me being in tune is because I'm ever-evolving and growing. When I think back about being a kid to now, I have just grown and learned from my mistakes and learned how to navigate aspects of myself as they develop with divine time. I see now how its very crucial for me to stay in acceptance of myself with every breathe i take. I have come into acceptance of myself, i have been feeling whole, i have been feeling complete. I feel the love that I allow myself to receive, I feel the acceptance that I allow myself to receive. Thank you sistar Christina💗
Tears, anger and I am holding my breath as you say take a deep breath. This is my biggest wound. Ouch!!
I am so glad I stumbled upon this video. I have been taken through one Tower moment after another, spiritually tested to the point of near breaking in the last several months, and I have been having this conversation with Spirit. "How do you expect me to believe in unconditional love when you're asking me to make all these changes in myself that would indicate I'm not okay the way I am now? Isn't it kind of the opposite of the what you're trying to teach here? I thought I was supposed to be letting go of earning love and approval." This sheds a lot of light. Thank you very much.
Thank you for this video! I never thought of it this way so this is a refreshing perspective. I have been learning to access my Akashic Records through a course I am taking. I have been working on this for so long now. My guides are telling me to love myself. Everything else will fall into place! It’s a journey 💕
I just healed my inner child and I wanted to go to the next thing immediately. It was an intuitiv decission to watch this video. Now I realize that the unconscius believe
If you heal more, grow more and develop more it will inhance your worth as a person, isn't true at all and actually kept me in a constant state of non-acceptance or not feeling enough in the last 2 Years
So thank you for this Wake up call Christina
How did You heal the inner child?
@@sharon5259 I really recommend Christinas Video on Healing the Inner Child. The inner child is connected to the first three chakras especially the Root/Base or Tribal Chakra. Its the Chakra of Safety and Security it may got disrupted when you got the feeling that you didnt belong to your Tribe, your Family. The Fear of Abondenment and the Fear of Physicality of beeing in the body were the wounds that hurt my inner child and that were still implanted in my First chakra. Suddently there were memories coming up that I didnt remember until then. I can share one of them for clarity. My Father abondent me as soon as I got born. I was a black boy in a white Family, luckily they allways loved me and gave me the feeling that I belong to them. When I was back in School at the age of 7 I argued with my Mother and I had to walk through the entire town to get home on my own. Here is the thing as Children we are all very sensitive. And I guess I felt abondent in that moment. For me it was important to forgive myself and my family and also to focus on the love that I received afterwards. After bringing the Light if consciusnes into this dark memery, I did a guided meditation for the Inner Child. There are tons of them out there just try out a few and find the one that fits you the most. I would recommend the one that I listened to but its in german. I hope this text was understandable and helpful english is just my second language. You have my blessing and I wish you the best of luck on your healing journey
@@jakob.kohnke Thank You so much for taking the time to type all this out. I've been having a lot of memories resurface as well. Learning to be present with my self and the emotions in the ways I feel I was not given when I was child...I feel I was left alone to cope with my difficult emotions, and not shown healthy ways to process what I feel. So, learning that now. Wish You all the best in Your journey too !
I still need to find, Strength, security and safety...
To look at my wounds...
And not feel, overwhelmed, by its pain...
As if I didn't knew, what to do...
Once, I faced...
*_The Pain and Shadow, of My, Ancient Past..._*
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It would be amazing, to bring people like you...
Into the idea, I've just forged...
I need to work more on it...
I’ve been struggling with my weight my whole life, I have a really hard time accepting my belly full of sadness. Thanks for this video, it’s exactly what I need. Self love and self acceptance 💖✨
So important, I was sooo on overdrive. When I moved up to working on the heart chakra, this is what I learned. The peace and patience that washed over me was so beautiful and it's been sitting here ever since💚💚
This has been a HUGE struggle for me recently. I gained a lot of weight after having my son. And I barely have the time or energy for self care. And I haven't been making time for self love/self care. I will start right away working on loving and accepting myself. Thank you for this video!
i find out that i was struggling with myself because i don't accept myself i'm always running for a perfect goal but never stopped to just take breath no matter how much i did i felt always less that is what kept me running from goal to goal until she said"im worthy because i am because i'm exist"these words helped me to breathe again
That got me. I used to think that I need healing to be the best version of me. Thanks for making me realize.
THANX FOR YET ANOTHER MASTERPIECE 😁 I Love u CHRIST-ina 🌸☺️🌸
Needed to hear this exactly right now. Today was the first day I actually sat back and observed how much lighter and free I feel. Your message solidified that. I think I was more addicted to the process since it’s been such a long one. I need to get out of the loop and just live.
Yes it is hard it accept myself , i am working on me
I know for a fact I myself have held onto this belief subconsciously which Christina has a point it has been a delusion that has not served me to this point I see it I release it I recognize it & I let spirit help me LET IT GO 💗🕯
I kept looking for people that would say stuff that would help me, or take courses that I thought would help me, tried meditations that would help me feel better, or feel a certain way that everyone was feeling when it came to meditation. This video shocked me...so profound. Thank you.
NOTES:
We go into endless healing and development cycles when we newly awaken thinking that it'll make us a better person.
NEVER QUESTION YOUR INHERENT VALUE.
Non-acceptance will keep you in an endless loop of wanting to heal yourself in a state of lack of self-love.
If healing isn't associated with worth, and i fully accept myself as i am rn, then what would be the incentive to heal?
It is to shed density and be filled with love and light.
Healing from a place of non-acceptance isn't healing in the first place.
Let go of the belief that you need to be constantly doing and developing yourself in order to be better.
What self-acceptance could possibly feel like? Visualize and feel it. Use affirmations.
Self- acceptance is truly crucial during the healing process.
I have been in this process for two yrs now. The first year was so difficult, but glad I am today that I had let go of the wrong thoughts. Today I feel like I am not as vulnerable as I used to:)
Thanks Christina! You've always been inspiring me with your videos.:)
God bless you!
Thank U!! ❤
I have spent years doing healing work, training in various modalities... to recover -uncover-discover myself, my vitality & purpose, others and life.
I know intellectually that there is nothing to fix, nothing's wrong but I can't let go of the feeling and belief that I have to heal so much more ... my triggers in particular.
i've just watched this, this really put into words what i felt and didnt know how to express or exaplain even to myself, the phrase "to feel fulfilled because im am closer to my full self/soul" is why ive been searching how to heal. i know it's something i need to heal but didnt know how and seeign therapists did not help. thank you so so much!
I've def done this during my awakening and healing I became obsessed pushed every one away isolated myself to focus on the massive amounts of healing I needed to do
I didnt't watch this when this beautiful video was initially released cause i knew it in my heart that it wasn't time yet. And, NOW, half way into the video...this gives me chills and air to breathe. Cause this sense of HEALING == SELF-WORTH tore me apart. Thank you, tina, for life-savers like this. And your CONSISTENCY, even when you're on a private re-treat, you keep me THRIVING! Tons of Love.💞💞💞
Yes self acceptance is the most important
Thank you! 🙏 ❤️ I feel restless and exausted, I realises that my body is very tight and my musles can't relax, so I have often headaches and additionally dizziness came to me last week. My sister, she a neurologist, and my friend, a massagist, helped me to realize that I'm just to tense. So when I want to relax, sometimes I have a deep feeling of tears locked in me and I feel much better if I am able to cry. There was time when I though that I'm okay with accepting myself, but when I see some photos where I'm looking ugly, I understand that it is not true and I don't accept it. I don't accept that I can be tired and do nothing. My exausted body finally helped me to understand that I was wrong.
Hell yes! This is a problem ! Every now and then I realise something like the paradox and then I slip back again like a drugaddict desperatly seeking love and acceptance outside myself because if I’m perfect people will love me and if I’m loved I have worth....even in my own eyes, for a while until they see I’m not perfect so if I could just be better.... The thing about growing up in an Environment where disapproval literally could mean risking your life and anything you did could be judged wrong.
I started my journey with Loa and it felt so good. But the more I got into the rabbit hole..the more I started to punish myself for not watching a video about spirituality or not reading that book or not meditating. Then I started hating myself for not being spiritual enough. Thinking others where better than me. It really destroyed me and I never felt so low. I started to think that spirituality was toxic and Loa was toxic. Now I’m back and this video and everything you said went to my heart. Thank you for being such a pure human. You’re truly one of a kind.
The amount of energy you are pouring via these videos are so much, thanks. Satyam Shivam Sundaram.
A great video. I am pretty much in state of non-acceptance and noticed how much it prevents me to be present. I kept thinking I am losing the time to change, and must heal all the wounds pretty quickly and thought what I do is never enough.
Thank you ! That made so much sense to me and made me realize I was doing things with the goal to be a better person. I feel a little liberated from that now.💕
Wow this is what I have been struggling with for so long and no amount of healing would make me feel satisfied to finally relax or to accept myself. THank you for sharing this message because I was not even aware of what I was doing until now thankyou thankyou
So here I am going along with my spiritual development, keeping a list in my head of all the things I need to work on, reasonably on track. But a bit impatient with myself.
So the Christina hits me with this: I'm doing that! I'm holding off on my best life till I master my to-do list--except I'm a double Virgo and the list never ends.
I literally told myself, and my therapist, that I wasn't suitable to be in a relationship till I tackled these heart and trust blocks. I was defective, so I was doing the right thing, wasn't I? Well, DING DING! As Christina would say. Major attitude adjustment needed. :)
You are such a gift Christina🌠🌻✨ You radiate beautiful love and light with these teachings- Self love, care, acceptance🎆💞 🤍❤️🔥Appreciate you!
I struggled significantly, but was able to turn it around when I became enlightened awakened- 3 yrs ago & by “chance” ... Divinely 🙏🏻 guided to a beautiful soul on TH-cam... a life saving 😇Angel on Earth~
by the name of Christina Lopes the Heart Alchemist🥰 ! I have so much gratitude & respect for all you do & all you have done for many & for me as I continue on this Spiritual Warriors Path ~ 🙏🏻Blessings of Love to you always ! Enjoy your retreat - absolutely gorgeous view of Paradise!!
This is the best video I'd watch and very very helpful not just with spiritual person, awaken once but this video is for entirely, no levels of consciousness and spiritual parth nor belief and religions.. This video reallg open us not just me whose struggling to see themselves, to love themselves entirely, by accepting who they reallly are in a good way and in the deeper meaning of who we are in this world and who we are in this life... Such a deeper meaning indeed and yet im very grateful to Ms. Cristina by sharing this wisdom to us, into a deeper meaning and yet very catching and understable.. Ccause you could really feel how Ms. Cristina wants to help others as she heals her self too and by sharing the healing to others, her good and high vibration she emits really flowr and radiants towards those people, indeed needing it. Its a great wake up call for us. Amazing message and i could say indeed she's divinely Guided by our Divines... GRACIAS MS. CRISTINA! MAY THE DEVINES BLESS YOU MORE😊LOVELOTS.
PS. I forgot to tell that this message helps me to realize and get the confirmation that i needed in a right timing. So amazing how divine works 😊😁.
So wish I were there on that beautiful island with you! Great video. Cleared some stuff up for me. I guess when I say I'm doing all this work to be a better person, I mean that I want to live in a happier and joyful space. I didn't realize that striving to be a better person meant that I wasn't happy with who I am. ❤️ I'm learning. 🙏
Everytime I feel the need to come to your channel you have a new video I needed to hear. ❤️❤️❤️
Same. I’ve been accepting myself more now that I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself, but as soon as I experience some painful rejection, I’m sent into a tail spin. It’s revealing that I’m not self-accepting at all, I’m conditionally loving myself. As long as I meditate and exercise and draw and don’t drink too much and don’t eat too much comfort food and get fat again, then I’m worthy of my love. Yikes. I did not realize that I was doing this!
Waw! A wave of sadness washed through me... Huge sadness... So I know what I need to work with and alchemise today! THANKS
My soul heard you loud and clear! Thanks Christina 🥰
Your videos are amazing. I always find myself in agreement. You are definitely a Rainbow Warrior of the indigenous Rainbow Whirl Dream. ❤ You're one of my heroes and you're lucky you have assembled such a great team around you.
Thank u Christina. It has been a while i recognised this self sabotaging pattern in myself... Wt becomes the cause of frustration is that it keeps coming back ...😔
Thank u for sending across this message 🙏 it helped planting a fresh seed of hope...
Great Spirit spoke to me through you just now.. thank you
Mind blown. This absolutely applies to me. I'm doing wall to wall healing work, like I'm in a rush, so that I can overcome my ADHD, to serve/function in 3D, and to be able to actually be dependable/access being reliable for my twin flame who's disabled with chronic pain. He doesn't accept me for who I am, he doesn't understand/can't separate my deep love for him, and my dysfunctionality. We're not together at the moment, and that's fine, we need much more space. But my angle to healing is to heal to change the way I operate, the way I have alwsys operated. Everyone around me has a problem with it, and I got bullied at school by children and teachers for being slow, not completing tasks. It's such a huge block for me.
This is definitely a real struggle for me. This video made me realize. Thank you.
Did anyone see the white bird on the Right side of the screen glitch out and then come back starting 4:11?!? Also thank you for the reminder.
I was just rocking out in the car and making up my own lyrics to sing about how I love my Evil Vilnian Queen side too! Perfect synchronicity with the Universe!
You have been such a big help with my awakening, your guidance in your videos are always just what I need to hear. Sending my blessings to you
I watch alot of your videos.
You are brilliant!!
You speak to my soul.
Thank you for spreading your wisdom! Wonderful spiritual teacher, messenger you are.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Much love ☺💫✌
Thank you for such necessary insights. Very much appreciated from a long time self-critical Soul. It was Liberating.
Oh my! You just make me realised something huge!!! Huge eye opener. Thank you, this is the beginning for me :)
Thankyou for your brilliant explanation as i am 53 & constantly searching to heal/fix/change so many issues - myselfI believe i have to feel & be a better woman/person...
WOW!! Thankyou for this realisation, now I have to try to believe this 😔 one of the best videos yet i have come across. .💕
Right on spot. You allways come as a beautifull light when i stumble in the twilight. When Im stuck and have difficult to keep on walking on my path your insights give me aknowledge that I am on my right path. Thank you Christina for this and bless you and your team for all the light you are creating 🙏💖
Your free content is life changing!
I so needed to hear this! If I can't accept myself for who I am then no amount of self-improvement/healing will help. This is golden, thanks! 🙏
Hello Christina, I Love you with all my heart and soul Forever!! ❤
Thanks Christina, I AM learning a lot from you. Stay safe and healthy everyone.
Thank you for always having the exact words I need to hear 🙏🏾💖 so blessed to exist while you’re here
I think one key to recognize as well, is that although your healing work doesn’t dictate you being worthy, you’ll find yourself recognizing your worth & value AS A RESULT OF doing it.
I was a people pleaser most of my life, had low self esteem, would easily get stressed & frustrated, didn’t have healthy boundaries (or attract people who respected what little boundaries I did have, which weren’t really solid at all) or integrity ...the list goes on.
So although the work & your value ARE separate aspects, it’s like a yin & a yang; if you didn’t recognize it before when certain parts of your conditioning left you disconnected or in the dark, you WILL start to, as a result of doing The Work & you’ll want to continue doing it, just because of how good the growth feels. 💁🏼♀️👁
When I started doing self love work earlier this year, it was tough initially, but the OUT-side does start to reflect what’s going on in more of a positive way on the IN-side. I went from being a live in caretaker for an indivisible that didn’t really value or respect me at all, to being a live in caretaker in a newer, healthier environment & is told on a daily basis how valued I am... not to mention all of the positive manifestations that happened here & around me since then.
Here’s what I’ve learned...
You ARE in alignment just for being you.
You STAY in alignment by doing The Work.
That has been my experience since my awakening started about 8 years ago, yet the last 4+ years in particular, have been the most profound in terms of depth vs breadth.
Quality vs quantity...
Loved your understanding of healing and incentive of it, thankyou for adding it up i had this question in mind
Thanks for your videos. I really struggle with self acceptance and the concept of having inherent value. Restlessness and a constant state of anxiety sum it up perfectly - like an app running in the background that is a constant drain on my batteries. I’m hoping to make sense of it all.
Hi Christina, sending my and perfect moment. Truly grateful and I'm learning to slow down the healing going to take time and I'm not in a hurry one day at a time. Sometimes I get impatient and I'm learning to be patience. Not good to overwhelm myself. I really appreciate your insight and wisdom.
Thinking of you, beautiful soul! 💫
Wow the serendipity - this couldn't be a perfect time to receive this. I've been obsessed with spiritual growth and forgot to accept myself. You are the TRUTH. Thank you!!!
Love this! Thank you💜💫
You are giving me my life back, THANK YOU!!!!
Thank you for pointing this out Christina! I am enough and I accept myself as I am. Have a blessed and beautiful day!! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you Christina! I am doing /feeling exactly as you described. This video was exactly what I needed to hear. You are a Godsend. 💕
Thank you I think I can start now that you made it so clear. You are clearly the "beautiful soul"
Thank you Christina! I have learned so much listening to and watching your videos. I share them with my loved ones who can hear.
Ok I just want to say that i watched this video before and now again and its funny how it finally hit me/sit with me right now oppose to last time I've watched it. So my suggestion is keep coming back to Christina's videos and when the time is right it will hit you right. All in its own time. Love you guys!! ❤
You are amazing, instant resonance with your words. EXACTLY what ive been searching for!!
Christina you are truly the best. Your videos are saving my life.
Thank you so much!! Everything that you said is true. Big hug from madeira island 🙏💖
You are simply radiant! Thank you so much for you videos. They are definitely helping me on my spiritual journey.
WOW!!! this was such a powerful video. I am so grateful for this - between hermit mode and healing junkie I have definitely been resisting my self-worth. thank you so much for sharing this wisdom. xo